Super dear next year LA Ohnga videos yellamey குழந்தையை எப்படி வளர்க்க வேண்டும் உணவு எப்படி கொடுக்கவேண்டும் என்று சொல்வீர்கள் பாருங்கள் நிஜம் 😍😍😍😍 love you damaa 🙏😍
I searched for a 'childless life' topic to make me comfortable from this stress and finally seen your video. Its time to save this video and watch it everyday to calm myself .. Thank you mam 🙂
It's been 11 years since I am facing this problem.. Even though we are bold enough, this society makes us feel low and ur speech gives a positive energy.. Hats off for ur video on this topic..
Adoption is a very good thing. I understand that it's a very complicated process. But on a positive note those kids are longing for a good family, education, love and affection. If you think that you have all that then you can give it to those kids. When you give love to others it multiplies. Please do not think about the relatives who might pass comments regarding Adoption because whatever we do they will keep barking. Think that you have changed a child's life. It's like a miracle to them. So do whatever that makes you happy.
In my flat, a couple after 19 years of married life recently delivered twins (a boy and girl). This happened during this Lockdown time 2021.. They both had lots of patience in life..
Even I have gone through this,then after some time,got tired of everything,blasted out,cried,fought ,then suddenly realised life is there to enjoy the present moment,started living every moment, forgot about child,then now I am mother of two.god bless u madhu.
அருமையான பதிவு மது எனக்கும் 21 வருடமாக குழந்தை இல்லை இனிமேல் கவலை இல்லை நான் நிறைய மரம் வளர்க்கிறேன் நாம் இனிமேல் நமக்காக மகிழ்ச்சியாக வாழ்வோம் child-free couple be happy
Hats off to you ma...u have set a great example for the society ....Very proud of your meaningful life via great effort by planting trees which is helpful for the future world and future generations ...love you sooooooo much ma
Very true sis..some people's should change..sister Oru papa irundhalum adutha Papa illana oru madiri dhan pesuranga so idha enna solla sollunga..straighta pesuranga oru papavanu ADHUM ORU MADIRI..TRUE WORDS sis Thank u for ur positive words sis.
Akka I have a 3 year baby. I planned my pregnancy only after 3 years. To be Frank it's possible to live happily with fulfilment even without a child. Saying that only a child gives fulfilment is senseless. Even before our baby we lived happily!!! So don't worry.
In my 8 yrs of marriage life, my husband never asked about bady.. I lost two babies in my first semester with lot of efforts. I thank God because he gave me a beautiful family who always support and encourage me.... I can't control my tears when some one asked about bady to my husband. Because he can't cry in front of others... atleast I can do that... he is a great person...
Yes ur true madhu. It's my story initially I worried after that we never mind that. We spend more for treatment. Exactly 5th year I got conceived naturally. Now my boy is two years.
Good one dear, we common people shy away from such sensitive topics. Being a mother of a special needs child, it took me a long time to realize this. I too did the rounds of doctors, temples,advices, isolations. We are isolated by our own families, that's the worst thing. It took a while to accept the true face of our society. Lesson learnt is to be happy with what we have. Of course life is still challenging with its ups and down but we strive to be happy in the present moment. TC dear.
Yellathayum thookipottu happy ya irunga varum aathuva varum adhuvaraikum porumaiya irukanum yedhavadhu pudhusa kahukanga later it will be very helpful for us .yenaku after 12 yrs thaan baby now Iam mother of two kids first baby at 36 yrs second baby at the age of 40 so don't worry keep smiling always God is great wish u all success
Intha soceity la ullavanga.... childless people oda feelings a purinjittu avangala hurt pannama irukkanum.... athuvey avangalukku pothum... Good sharing sis..... God bless you.... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am seeing ur video first time dear sis, this video is Amazing, energetic, soothing and positive to such great women's, they are stronger than all.. ❤️
10yrs childless. I was stress at initial stage. But now I m happy bcoz I stopped my trtmt b4 4yrs nd I have three pets and enjoying everymoment with them. I m not mature enough to adopt yet but I will sure when I reach 35yrs. Pls be happy ignore words of others.
Super sister nannu kuda intha madhir oru situation la iruntha apa ennaku taru ippadi motivation la pasala daily ore stress la irukum after lots of trouble one i blesses with girl baby madhu she is now one and half years old .. yarum baby illathavanga kitta poitu kuzhanthai illaya nu keykurathu mattum stop panna avangal ku stress illama irupanga ..intha society itha mattum follow pannanum
Yen story appdiyae ketta mari irruku....after 10 yrs of marriage n fertility issue this is exactly what am feeling...sometimes i forget all this n be normal, but someone will come n ask u something, then only i'll realise, people only think about child when they think os us..Howmuch ever u have gud character, talent, have achieved in ur career or any other achievements, nothing matters to society when u dont have a child...Even while introducing, they will tell ur name n tag that you are childless....I have seen parents itself telling, my elder son doent have kids, my younger son has 2 kids like tat...Changing the society is a very big step....Hats off to you to take the first step towards it....I feel we like minded people should have a group together to discuss each others issues n be there for each....Bcs no one will understand us better than people like ourselves...Thank u Madhu for bringing this topic out..Atleast 1% of society changes after this video, its a big change
@ madhu , Sis I have been facing it for almost ten years. It's really really painful .no words to explain our emotions n trauma. Even i thought of mailing u personally to advice me on this topic. Great job madhu. Thanks for ur time n braveness to help someone live their life atleast from now on peacefully....Love u a lot sis . God bless u 🙏❤️
Don't worry MS.. me too awaiting 10 years..all treatments done..all reports re fine but still donno y...I can understand ur feelings.. Try to focus on smthg else u like.. Stay strong..
2 laproscopy, 3hysterscopy , 1 hsg , 3 ivf and after that one frozen transfer.. Got success.. And blessed with baby boy... Believe me madhu.. Your mind power have so much effect in this.. My sincere prayers for your success..
Good video Madhu 👍 Especially controlling your thoughts when you see a child and building positivity by gratitude 👌 கேட்பவர்கள் கேட்பார்கள்... அவர்களையோ தடுக்க முடியாது... நாம் அவர்கள் கேட்பார்களே என்றோ கேட்கிறார்கள் என்றோ நமக்குள் அதை போட்டு மனதிற்குள் அலட்டிக்கொள்ளாமல் இலகுவாக கடந்துபோக வேண்டும். Stress பிறர் தர வாரா.... Stress நாம் நமக்கு நடக்கும் பிற விசயங்களை எப்படி எடுத்துக்கொள்கிறோம் என்பதை பொறுத்தே வரும்.... இலகுவாக கடந்து போங்க....இந்த நிலையும் மாறும்..... நம் எல்லோர் வாழ்விலும் மகிழ்ச்சி பொங்கும் 👍
Dai madhu, you are such a bold and strong woman. I have hardly seen only 2 few videos in tamil speaking about this topic, and your speech is wonderful and really motivating. Thanks for opening up on this. I am also sailing in the same boat- childfree😄 ivalo naal romba guilty a feel panikuren and started blaming myself. But hereafter I won't. We got one life, so let's live and let others live. To all those women stay strong like our madhu. Don't feel guilty, we have all rights to live our life like others. Thank you so much dear for such a beautiful video. This means a lot for me. 😘😘😘 keep posting like such videos. Luv u loads😍❤
Well said mathu sis🙌 really u save so many people life.... Evgbody explain her success stories... But u only explain how can face evgthk... Nothing is good nothing is bad.... Live our life..... God bless u and bro...
Super Madhu. Very proud of u. If Women go for easy jobs made them stress-free. They can easily came out of this baby stress when concentrate on other works
This is one of your wonderful videos dear. I watched it already and again watching. It's going to be three childfree years. We are absolutely happy but people around us just make us crazy sometimes. You are so bold to make this content. 💕💕🙏🙏
Madhu sissy definitely u r younger than me bt ur speech ur positive vibes..reminds one song enna vena nadakatum naan santoshma iruppen..for past 16yrs i am worrying abt baby oly.. i avoid to go functions..if i go function i feel embrassed to stand there..now after hearing ur speech i feel lite..
Intha video fulla na aluthukittae than paaththen sister , I am also childfree , 8 years , na patta kashtam , avamanam , valli , stress ellamae ninachu romba aluthen , naanum adhey mindset la than erukken sister , superb speech sister, thank you sister
Hey da ... One advice ... Don't drink green tea ... Enaku oruthavanga sonanga, avanga 2nd baby ku doc paaka ponapo sonangalam, harmonal disturbance varum nu... B4 mrg am very fond of drinking green tea... Apuram vituten ... Mrg aagi baby ku wait panravangalum green tea avoid panrathu nalathu
So much positivity in your video❤️ I dint have baby for 2 years so I completely understand each word you spoke.. such a matured talk and bold content.. hats off to you Madhu.. love and respect on you increases day by day😊 whoever is undergoing such tough phase will definitely be blessed with all blessings in life
உங்கள் மனம் போல், நிறைவான வாழ்க்கை வாழுங்கள் மது ❤❤❤❤ எப்போவுமே மது உங்களை ரொம்ப பிடிக்கும்.. ஒவ்வொரு வீடியோவிலும் இன்னும் ரொம்ப ரொம்ப பிடிக்க வைக்குது உங்களை ❤❤❤❤ இப்படிக்கு முகம் அறியா தோழி, நெய்தல் சகோதரி ❣️❣️
Hats off to u madhu. If I can recollect ur DIML video was my first video that i ever saw in UA-cam about homemaking n cooking ( 3 years back) N it was such a motivation to me. N today after I saw this video's title, I started typing tis message. U r bold n beautiful❤. I have always loved the clarity in ur speech that's wat makes ur video's special. Keep rocking.
I feel very disturbed for the whole day when someone asks how many kids i have. Especially for ladies this is very painfull. Because of this I am avoiding functions and visiting relatives.
Wonderful video sis super . In my life after marriage pregnant prb iruthathu hormonal imbalance treatment yaduthu then i pregnant . Marraige ana few month la i face lot of prb . Now a days my friend also suffer not pregnant . I encourage my friend .enjoy the life be happy life la elama nallapadiya nadakum i give enourgy . Because i know that pain .wounderful speech sis .
Hi madhu I can understand your feelings ma... don't worry me too faced lot of problems... after 5 years I got baby...but before that I suffered so many health issues... after marriage 1st year I suffered ectopic rupture & they done open surgery for rescue me... yearly once I missed carriage till 4 years...I faced so many treatments & different type of test....I trusted god only ...I can feel all ur pain... don't worry sisters I will pray for u all...be strong & positive...all is well...one day you get good news ....so don't leave ur hope...
Yeah monthly follow up are irritating.. my sis in law even advised to change religion to chirstianty becoz she thought they had baby through prayers...funny isn't it..I got major stress and depression from all sides..then I now left it to fate..thalavidi padi nadakatum..self love la concentrate Pana start panicked.. learned car driving, blouse and salwar stiching class,morning walking,learning new dishes..now I wish to go for a vacation
Very very nice speaking madhu am ur silent subscriber... Even I also dnt have baby from past 11 years.... After lot of struggles n treatment am blessed with twin babies.... After 12 years we are blessed with babies......thank you so much for thie vlog for women..... God bless you n wishing you all success
I am childless couple 8 years then get girl baby that time i also suffer most of days because i lived village and both of elder only so faced lot of difficulty so madhu u also get baby very soon really 💕
Fact.... bold attempt dear. For this battled world couple life is much better. There is no proper education, proper healthy foods for future generations...... couldn't blame anyone🤫
Super ka.........Ungala pakanum palaganum pola iruku.... sema positive vibe ka unga pechu.....Psychology padichrundha super psychiatrist ah irundhrpinga....Love u akka...🥰
Super come back madhu... I waited for ur video .... Finally u done super message... Pesuravanga pesattum intha video pathu marattum... Luv ur positive thoughts
Hi Madhu, we for 12+ years didn't have children, many people were giving advice to consult so many doctors.....i was very much stressed....finally two years back I went to Garbarakshambigai temple, my husband doesn't believe in god he is an atheist.....I went alone prayed to her......then I left all other bothering thoughts in my head I made myself happy I stopped asking for child instead concentrated on child free life..my not giving child god has blessed me my giving full freedom to explore and make my life happy.....those thoughts made me to drive forward......finally now I am pregnant didn't expect but happened.......I tell you when you realise without child also you can be positive then definitely you will be blessed with one. Next year for sure you will be blessed with a child don't worryi ma.... I always pray for every childless couple irrespective if their religion.......my prayers with you also......
Hi மது, உங்க வீடியோ பார்ப்பேன் but கமெண்ட் போட்டது இல்லை. But this video pushed me to comment. நல்ல வீடியோ மா. Society தான் முதல் காரணம் நம்ம ஸ்ட்ரெஸ் எடுக்க. நல்லது நெனச்சு தான் சொல்றேன் னு மாசம் ரெண்டு தடவ இத கேட்டு காய படுத்துவாங்க. நாம guilty ஆ feel பண்ண ஆரம்பிச்சுடுவோம். அதனால வீட்டை விட்டு கூட வெளிய போகாம இருந்து இருக்கேன். என் அம்மா அப்பா கூட இந்த வேதனை விட்டு வைக்கல. அவங்களையும் இதையே கேட்டு torture பண்ணுவாங்க. After 10 yrs now i have 1 yr baby. But என் குழந்தை கெடச்ச பிறகு என் அம்மா என்னை விட்டுட்டு போய்ட்டாங்க. அவ்ளோ stress இருக்கும் அவங்களுக்கும். ஆனா அவங்க இப்போ இல்லை எங்களை பாத்துக்க. கேட்கறவங்க யாருமே நம்ம வந்து தாங்க மாட்டாங்க. எந்த கஷ்டமா இருந்தாலும் நாம மட்டும் தான் face பண்ணுவோம். யாரையும் குறைச்சு சொல்லணும் னு சொல்லல. அவங்க family குள்ள அவ்வளவு பிரச்சனை இருக்கும். ஆனா அதையெல்லாம் விட்டுட்டு நம்ம கிட்ட வந்து இதை பத்தி விசாரிப்பாங்க. எரிச்சல், கோவம், இயலாமை இந்த உணர்வும், கர்மா பாவம் புண்ணியம் இந்த வார்த்தைகள் நம்ம சுத்தி சுத்தி வரும். நிம்மதியா ஒரு நாள் கூட இருக்க விட மாட்டாங்க. மேல சொன்ன negaive விஷயம் எல்லாம் எப்ப மாறும் னா நாம strong ஆ இருந்தா மட்டும் தான். உங்க வீடியோ நிச்சயம் கொஞ்ச பேருக்காவது awareness கொடுக்கும். நம்ம மனசும் உடலும் உயிரும் சந்தோசமா இருக்க ரதுக்காக நாம வாழலாம் அது ஒண்ணும் குற்றமில்லை. இதை யாராவது படிச்சீங்க ன்னா be happy always. நம்ம சந்தோசம் எதையும் சார்ந்தது அல்ல.
Now we're in 18 years irupathellam selavu pannitu onnumey illama ninnutu ippothan theliva oru mudivu eduthu kulandhai illati parava illa kadaisi kalathula yarkitayum Kai yethamal valvatharkaka marupadiyum semikka odi kondu irukom indha thappa middle class people seithu vidatheerkal unkal future Kum konjam vaithu kollungal it's our humble request ippo nanga kadasiya sonninga illa andhs stage ku vanthutom anyway thank you lot sis
Yes,,,just feel like god gave us college life with my love.... And those persons may don't have any debts from ancestors...children's are purely our debt..parents need to pay in this life....
Wow Madhu you are such a strong and bold person... I'm overwhelmed of this video.. God will surely bless with baby, and ur baby is very very lucky to have u as his/her mother.. More love to you..
Promise ah 6 day sashti fasting irunda innikku period romba feeling la than irunden unmiya enakaga ve video pota madri irukku thanks sister 💝💝unmaiya neenga pesum bothu innum ketukite irukkanum pola irundhadhu please idhu madiri nariya video podunga
I too crossed lot of those emotions....still struggling for past 9 years...I too thought to come out of those situations....but it cant ....Thanks for this video....meaningfully....Hope ..everyone will understand there and other situations....
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Super da nanum itha than follow enaku mrge agi 10years aguthu pa ooruku poitu vantha udanae ennoda plants than first poi papen avanga kuda romba neram pesuven neenga semaya pesinenga pa hats off madhu ma
Enakkku marriage agi 1 year kulantha illa na 3 mnths layea doctor consult panna.. I have pcos problm.. Took many tablets.. Ethumea kai kudukala periods also irregular... 1 yearlayea romba feel panna because of my surrounding.. Na tablet la vittutta.. Kadavul ah nambuna.. Sasti viratham erundha...eppo enakku oru paiyyan.. So kadavula mattum nambunga kandha sasti viratham erunga.. Kandippa ellarukkum kulandha kidaikkum🙏🙏
Wonderful words very soothing deari too underwent this in my life later after very great struggle I was blessed. Romba manasu kasthama irukum ellarum kepaangey enna solarthu nu theriyama ve irundhuchi chumma sirichiti I used to be calm. Romba kastama iirukum. But later on when I was blessed I really felt happy
Thankyou for uploading this video very motivational sister enakum 10 yearsa baby illa ellarum romba hurt panuvanga ippo strees reliefa iruku sis thanks a lot
Hi dr , I have been in this situation and gone through what all u said in the video.. and I agree with you.. but we were so positive that one day we will be blessed with baby nu and that miracle happened, not only once but twice... so be happy and positive good soul..
Sterday also i went to marriage nalangu function..After doing tat..come back to home and pray to sai appa..sai appa nthng in my hands. She has to be happy sai appa like tat i am praying..
I too didn't hv baby for 5 years but we both didn't hv any problem.... We did all test ....6th yr one friend of my husband suggested to go to girivalam on full moon day for 3 month God will bless u with a baby my husband went 2months to thiruvanamallí and third month I got pregnant... By God's grace... Now we hv a girl child she is 8yrs now. ..
Hi ka..I had gone thru same pain..after 2yrs I m blessed with baby girl...my husband supported me lot at that time.trichy samaiyapuram& Tanjore garbhakameshwar temple ku ponom...next6months la got pregnant...u ll soon get pregnant..
25. 00 nice speech sister suberb .... Very true words...
thanks ma
Super dear next year LA Ohnga videos yellamey குழந்தையை எப்படி வளர்க்க வேண்டும் உணவு எப்படி கொடுக்கவேண்டும் என்று சொல்வீர்கள் பாருங்கள் நிஜம் 😍😍😍😍 love you damaa 🙏😍
I searched for a 'childless life' topic to make me comfortable from this stress and finally seen your video. Its time to save this video and watch it everyday to calm myself .. Thank you mam 🙂
Glad it was helpful! dr
It's been 11 years since I am facing this problem.. Even though we are bold enough, this society makes us feel low and ur speech gives a positive energy.. Hats off for ur video on this topic..
thanks ma
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Adoption is a very good thing. I understand that it's a very complicated process. But on a positive note those kids are longing for a good family, education, love and affection. If you think that you have all that then you can give it to those kids. When you give love to others it multiplies. Please do not think about the relatives who might pass comments regarding Adoption because whatever we do they will keep barking. Think that you have changed a child's life. It's like a miracle to them.
So do whatever that makes you happy.
குழந்தை இல்லா எல்லோருடைய மன குமறலை மிக அழகாக நேர்த்தியாக வெளிப்படுத்தி இருக்கிங்க....super sis....
thanks ma
In my flat, a couple after 19 years of married life recently delivered twins (a boy and girl). This happened during this Lockdown time 2021.. They both had lots of patience in life..
Super khumba , are they from Bangalore?
Even I have gone through this,then after some time,got tired of everything,blasted out,cried,fought ,then suddenly realised life is there to enjoy the present moment,started living every moment, forgot about child,then now I am mother of two.god bless u madhu.
So happy for u dear
மது,
இந்த குழந்தையின்மை பற்றி இதுவரை யா௫ம் வீடியோ போட்டது இல்லை.
வாழ்த்துக்கள்
thanks ma
அருமையான பதிவு மது எனக்கும் 21 வருடமாக குழந்தை இல்லை இனிமேல் கவலை இல்லை நான் நிறைய மரம் வளர்க்கிறேன் நாம் இனிமேல் நமக்காக மகிழ்ச்சியாக வாழ்வோம் child-free couple be happy
Hats off to you ma...u have set a great example for the society ....Very proud of your meaningful life via great effort by planting trees which is helpful for the future world and future generations ...love you sooooooo much ma
Super ma
Very true sis..some people's should change..sister Oru papa irundhalum adutha Papa illana oru madiri dhan pesuranga so idha enna solla sollunga..straighta pesuranga oru papavanu ADHUM ORU MADIRI..TRUE WORDS sis
Thank u for ur positive words sis.
Wow.... Supr topic madhu...... Enoda story sonna mathiri irunthuchu... Enakum 8 yrs baby illa.... 4 iui and 3 ivf... It's all failure...inimale nimathiya child free ah irukulam nu irunthean.... It's medical miracle... Ippo enaku 8 month la boy baby nature poranthutan .... No treatment....god kuduthutaru....Nice topic......
so happy for u dear
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻god bless your family
Happy for u friend
@@oshins4524 thank u 🙏
Super
Akka I have a 3 year baby. I planned my pregnancy only after 3 years. To be Frank it's possible to live happily with fulfilment even without a child. Saying that only a child gives fulfilment is senseless. Even before our baby we lived happily!!! So don't worry.
Super
குழந்தை இருந்தாலும் இல் லாவிட்டாலும் ஒரே மாதிரி பார்க் கும் பார் வை மக்களிடம் வர வேண்டும்.
True dear
Iepo varaikum yarum antha alavku meture agala sisy. Oru function pogum pothutha baby ielaiya thona arambikithu.
@@parameswarijaikishore8647hope this generation will change sis.enjoy your life happily with your husband.never mind anything.
Great mathu.. well explained. I went through all these process last 5 years.. finally blessed with baby boy naturally...
congrats ma
Mam hv u taken the treatment to conceive ?
@@draupathilogaraj7369 yes... iui 2 times.. but not success..
In my 8 yrs of marriage life, my husband never asked about bady.. I lost two babies in my first semester with lot of efforts. I thank God because he gave me a beautiful family who always support and encourage me.... I can't control my tears when some one asked about bady to my husband. Because he can't cry in front of others... atleast I can do that... he is a great person...
be happy ma... god bless u
You are so lucky.. my husband sent me out after 3 yrs .. hurting me lot ..he is a doctor
Yes ur true madhu. It's my story initially I worried after that we never mind that. We spend more for treatment. Exactly 5th year I got conceived naturally. Now my boy is two years.
congrats ma
Good one dear, we common people shy away from such sensitive topics. Being a mother of a special needs child, it took me a long time to realize this. I too did the rounds of doctors, temples,advices, isolations. We are isolated by our own families, that's the worst thing. It took a while to accept the true face of our society. Lesson learnt is to be happy with what we have. Of course life is still challenging with its ups and down but we strive to be happy in the present moment. TC dear.
true words dear..so much love to you .... u r not alone in this situation ....take care ma
Yellathayum thookipottu happy ya irunga varum aathuva varum adhuvaraikum porumaiya irukanum yedhavadhu pudhusa kahukanga later it will be very helpful for us .yenaku after 12 yrs thaan baby now Iam mother of two kids first baby at 36 yrs second baby at the age of 40 so don't worry keep smiling always God is great wish u all success
very good ma...
Intha soceity la ullavanga.... childless people oda feelings a purinjittu avangala hurt pannama irukkanum.... athuvey avangalukku pothum... Good sharing sis..... God bless you.... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
thanks ma
I am seeing ur video first time dear sis, this video is Amazing, energetic, soothing and positive to such great women's, they are stronger than all.. ❤️
Thank you so much ma🙂
Super sis.. but if a couple don't have child it mean they don't have karma.. n spiritually they are more blessed.. so be proud if don't have kids ❤️
coooool
True words dear no one can understand the problem and pain we faced thank you so much for this motivating vlog Love you keep going 😍❤️❤️
Thanks a ton dr
100 true
10yrs childless. I was stress at initial stage. But now I m happy bcoz I stopped my trtmt b4 4yrs nd I have three pets and enjoying everymoment with them. I m not mature enough to adopt yet but I will sure when I reach 35yrs. Pls be happy ignore words of others.
good dr
Madam positivity gives us strength..u ll get everything in right time.. ❤️
hey Madhu term childfree instead of childless really super... hats off to take this topic...
Thank you so much dr🙂
Super sister nannu kuda intha madhir oru situation la iruntha apa ennaku taru ippadi motivation la pasala daily ore stress la irukum after lots of trouble one i blesses with girl baby madhu she is now one and half years old .. yarum baby illathavanga kitta poitu kuzhanthai illaya nu keykurathu mattum stop panna avangal ku stress illama irupanga ..intha society itha mattum follow pannanum
so happy for u dear..true
Yen story appdiyae ketta mari irruku....after 10 yrs of marriage n fertility issue this is exactly what am feeling...sometimes i forget all this n be normal, but someone will come n ask u something, then only i'll realise, people only think about child when they think os us..Howmuch ever u have gud character, talent, have achieved in ur career or any other achievements, nothing matters to society when u dont have a child...Even while introducing, they will tell ur name n tag that you are childless....I have seen parents itself telling, my elder son doent have kids, my younger son has 2 kids like tat...Changing the society is a very big step....Hats off to you to take the first step towards it....I feel we like minded people should have a group together to discuss each others issues n be there for each....Bcs no one will understand us better than people like ourselves...Thank u Madhu for bringing this topic out..Atleast 1% of society changes after this video, its a big change
very very very true words ...u r not alone ma...I can totally understand u ...be stronger and happy dr
@ madhu ,
Sis I have been facing it for almost ten years. It's really really painful .no words to explain our emotions n trauma.
Even i thought of mailing u personally to advice me on this topic. Great job madhu. Thanks for ur time n braveness to help someone live their life atleast from now on peacefully....Love u a lot sis .
God bless u 🙏❤️
I can understand ur feelings ma..u r not alone ma... be strong and you n hubby live ur life happily without any guilt feelings ma
Don't worry MS.. me too awaiting 10 years..all treatments done..all reports re fine but still donno y...I can understand ur feelings.. Try to focus on smthg else u like.. Stay strong..
@@AnithaAbraham1981 thanks 😊 sis
2 laproscopy, 3hysterscopy , 1 hsg , 3 ivf and after that one frozen transfer.. Got success.. And blessed with baby boy... Believe me madhu.. Your mind power have so much effect in this.. My sincere prayers for your success..
Amazing!
Good video Madhu 👍
Especially controlling your thoughts when you see a child and building positivity by gratitude 👌
கேட்பவர்கள் கேட்பார்கள்... அவர்களையோ தடுக்க முடியாது... நாம் அவர்கள் கேட்பார்களே என்றோ கேட்கிறார்கள் என்றோ நமக்குள் அதை போட்டு மனதிற்குள் அலட்டிக்கொள்ளாமல் இலகுவாக கடந்துபோக வேண்டும்.
Stress பிறர் தர வாரா.... Stress நாம் நமக்கு நடக்கும் பிற விசயங்களை எப்படி எடுத்துக்கொள்கிறோம் என்பதை பொறுத்தே வரும்....
இலகுவாக கடந்து போங்க....இந்த நிலையும் மாறும்..... நம் எல்லோர் வாழ்விலும் மகிழ்ச்சி பொங்கும் 👍
good words bro .... so much positivity to u too
Dai madhu, you are such a bold and strong woman. I have hardly seen only 2 few videos in tamil speaking about this topic, and your speech is wonderful and really motivating. Thanks for opening up on this. I am also sailing in the same boat- childfree😄 ivalo naal romba guilty a feel panikuren and started blaming myself. But hereafter I won't. We got one life, so let's live and let others live. To all those women stay strong like our madhu. Don't feel guilty, we have all rights to live our life like others. Thank you so much dear for such a beautiful video. This means a lot for me. 😘😘😘 keep posting like such videos. Luv u loads😍❤
very good dear....way to go my girl
Since 10 yrs m facing this problems..ur video motivated me.Thanks sis ..
My pleasure 😊
Great 👏 Seriously I want to share this video to some specific contacts. Universe will send u much more blessings.
Thanks for sharing!!
U will soon be blessed with a angel...I remember in comments I mentioned u read lalitha sahasranamam by offering butter....
Well said mathu sis🙌 really u save so many people life.... Evgbody explain her success stories... But u only explain how can face evgthk...
Nothing is good nothing is bad.... Live our life.....
God bless u and bro...
Thank you so much dear🙂
Super Madhu. Very proud of u. If Women go for easy jobs made them stress-free. They can easily came out of this baby stress when concentrate on other works
correct ma
Enakkum neraiya avamanangal nadandhirikku innum makku mathiri than irukkiya nu kettu irukkanga namma pain theriyama ipdi kekkarangale nu romba feel panniruken edhavathu function ku poganum nale romba bayama irrukkum yaravathu asinga paduthiruvangalo nu thanks for sharing madhu😊
be stronger dear...so much love to u
This is one of your wonderful videos dear. I watched it already and again watching. It's going to be three childfree years. We are absolutely happy but people around us just make us crazy sometimes. You are so bold to make this content. 💕💕🙏🙏
Can understand u dr.. just stay strong enough so that others words won’t affect u
@@MadhuSamayal sure dear. Thank you so much💕💕💕💕💕💕🥰
Madhu sissy definitely u r younger than me bt ur speech ur positive vibes..reminds one song enna vena nadakatum naan santoshma iruppen..for past 16yrs i am worrying abt baby oly.. i avoid to go functions..if i go function i feel embrassed to stand there..now after hearing ur speech i feel lite..
u r not alone ka.... be happy dr
Intha video fulla na aluthukittae than paaththen sister , I am also childfree , 8 years , na patta kashtam , avamanam , valli , stress ellamae ninachu romba aluthen , naanum adhey mindset la than erukken sister , superb speech sister, thank you sister
cheer up dr
Hey da ... One advice ... Don't drink green tea ... Enaku oruthavanga sonanga, avanga 2nd baby ku doc paaka ponapo sonangalam, harmonal disturbance varum nu... B4 mrg am very fond of drinking green tea... Apuram vituten ... Mrg aagi baby ku wait panravangalum green tea avoid panrathu nalathu
So much positivity in your video❤️ I dint have baby for 2 years so I completely understand each word you spoke.. such a matured talk and bold content.. hats off to you Madhu.. love and respect on you increases day by day😊 whoever is undergoing such tough phase will definitely be blessed with all blessings in life
Thank you so much dr🙂
உங்கள் மனம் போல், நிறைவான வாழ்க்கை வாழுங்கள் மது ❤❤❤❤
எப்போவுமே மது உங்களை ரொம்ப பிடிக்கும்.. ஒவ்வொரு வீடியோவிலும் இன்னும் ரொம்ப ரொம்ப பிடிக்க வைக்குது உங்களை ❤❤❤❤
இப்படிக்கு முகம் அறியா தோழி,
நெய்தல் சகோதரி ❣️❣️
thanks dear for ur love
No words for your maturity madhu, tq for the stronger message
thanks dr
Hats off to u madhu. If I can recollect ur DIML video was my first video that i ever saw in UA-cam about homemaking n cooking ( 3 years back) N it was such a motivation to me. N today after I saw this video's title, I started typing tis message. U r bold n beautiful❤. I have always loved the clarity in ur speech that's wat makes ur video's special. Keep rocking.
thanks ma for ur love
I feel very disturbed for the whole day when someone asks how many kids i have. Especially for ladies this is very painfull. Because of this I am avoiding functions and visiting relatives.
u r not alone ma... cheer up
Madhu last point is absolutely 💯 true.
So please don't worry.
Think 🤔positive.
Wonderful video sis super . In my life after marriage pregnant prb iruthathu hormonal imbalance treatment yaduthu then i pregnant . Marraige ana few month la i face lot of prb . Now a days my friend also suffer not pregnant . I encourage my friend .enjoy the life be happy life la elama nallapadiya nadakum i give enourgy . Because i know that pain .wounderful speech sis .
very good dear...thanks ma
Hi madhu I can understand your feelings ma... don't worry me too faced lot of problems... after 5 years I got baby...but before that I suffered so many health issues... after marriage 1st year I suffered ectopic rupture & they done open surgery for rescue me... yearly once I missed carriage till 4 years...I faced so many treatments & different type of test....I trusted god only ...I can feel all ur pain... don't worry sisters I will pray for u all...be strong & positive...all is well...one day you get good news ....so don't leave ur hope...
Yeah monthly follow up are irritating.. my sis in law even advised to change religion to chirstianty becoz she thought they had baby through prayers...funny isn't it..I got major stress and depression from all sides..then I now left it to fate..thalavidi padi nadakatum..self love la concentrate Pana start panicked.. learned car driving, blouse and salwar stiching class,morning walking,learning new dishes..now I wish to go for a vacation
very true dear... I appreciate ur self love and learning new things....u r on right path....go ahead dear...be happpy
Very very nice speaking madhu am ur silent subscriber... Even I also dnt have baby from past 11 years.... After lot of struggles n treatment am blessed with twin babies.... After 12 years we are blessed with babies......thank you so much for thie vlog for women..... God bless you n wishing you all success
wow happy for u dear ..thank u ..god bless ur family
Will start to pray for u from today onwards surely God is going to bless u soon in the name of Jesus u will receive ur miracle
Pray for me too sister
Pray for my friend too
I am childless couple 8 years then get girl baby that time i also suffer most of days because i lived village and both of elder only so faced lot of difficulty so madhu u also get baby very soon really 💕
congrats dear...so happy for u
Fact.... bold attempt dear. For this battled world couple life is much better. There is no proper education, proper healthy foods for future generations...... couldn't blame anyone🤫
thanks ma
Super ka.........Ungala pakanum palaganum pola iruku.... sema positive vibe ka unga pechu.....Psychology padichrundha super psychiatrist ah irundhrpinga....Love u akka...🥰
Thanks for ur love dear
Sure madhu ur positive speech and positive vibes..with sai appa blessings soon u will be a mother..our prayers r always with u dear sissy
Super come back madhu... I waited for ur video .... Finally u done super message... Pesuravanga pesattum intha video pathu marattum... Luv ur positive thoughts
Thank you so much 🙂
I have been in this pain for six years. Great video👍
Ipo baby iruka sis
Hi Madhu, we for 12+ years didn't have children, many people were giving advice to consult so many doctors.....i was very much stressed....finally two years back I went to Garbarakshambigai temple, my husband doesn't believe in god he is an atheist.....I went alone prayed to her......then I left all other bothering thoughts in my head I made myself happy I stopped asking for child instead concentrated on child free life..my not giving child god has blessed me my giving full freedom to explore and make my life happy.....those thoughts made me to drive forward......finally now I am pregnant didn't expect but happened.......I tell you when you realise without child also you can be positive then definitely you will be blessed with one. Next year for sure you will be blessed with a child don't worryi ma.... I always pray for every childless couple irrespective if their religion.......my prayers with you also......
sooo happy for u ma
So true...I have undergone the same...wat a soulful speech
Semaya pesaringa sis.. Nanum idhellam face panna. 2nd baby ku.. 1st baby porandhu 9years agudhu..useful vlog sis
thanks ma
Hi மது, உங்க வீடியோ பார்ப்பேன் but கமெண்ட் போட்டது இல்லை. But this video pushed me to comment. நல்ல வீடியோ மா. Society தான் முதல் காரணம் நம்ம ஸ்ட்ரெஸ் எடுக்க. நல்லது நெனச்சு தான் சொல்றேன் னு மாசம் ரெண்டு தடவ இத கேட்டு காய படுத்துவாங்க. நாம guilty ஆ feel பண்ண ஆரம்பிச்சுடுவோம். அதனால வீட்டை விட்டு கூட வெளிய போகாம இருந்து இருக்கேன். என் அம்மா அப்பா கூட இந்த வேதனை விட்டு வைக்கல. அவங்களையும் இதையே கேட்டு torture பண்ணுவாங்க. After 10 yrs now i have 1 yr baby. But என் குழந்தை கெடச்ச பிறகு என் அம்மா என்னை விட்டுட்டு போய்ட்டாங்க. அவ்ளோ stress இருக்கும் அவங்களுக்கும். ஆனா அவங்க இப்போ இல்லை எங்களை பாத்துக்க. கேட்கறவங்க யாருமே நம்ம வந்து தாங்க மாட்டாங்க. எந்த கஷ்டமா இருந்தாலும் நாம மட்டும் தான் face பண்ணுவோம். யாரையும் குறைச்சு சொல்லணும் னு சொல்லல. அவங்க family குள்ள அவ்வளவு பிரச்சனை இருக்கும். ஆனா அதையெல்லாம் விட்டுட்டு நம்ம கிட்ட வந்து இதை பத்தி விசாரிப்பாங்க. எரிச்சல், கோவம், இயலாமை இந்த உணர்வும், கர்மா பாவம் புண்ணியம் இந்த வார்த்தைகள் நம்ம சுத்தி சுத்தி வரும். நிம்மதியா ஒரு நாள் கூட இருக்க விட மாட்டாங்க.
மேல சொன்ன negaive விஷயம் எல்லாம் எப்ப மாறும் னா நாம strong ஆ இருந்தா மட்டும் தான். உங்க வீடியோ நிச்சயம் கொஞ்ச பேருக்காவது awareness கொடுக்கும். நம்ம மனசும் உடலும் உயிரும் சந்தோசமா இருக்க ரதுக்காக நாம வாழலாம் அது ஒண்ணும் குற்றமில்லை. இதை யாராவது படிச்சீங்க ன்னா be happy always. நம்ம சந்தோசம் எதையும் சார்ந்தது அல்ல.
very good ma
Now we're in 18 years irupathellam selavu pannitu onnumey illama ninnutu ippothan theliva oru mudivu eduthu kulandhai illati parava illa kadaisi kalathula yarkitayum Kai yethamal valvatharkaka marupadiyum semikka odi kondu irukom indha thappa middle class people seithu vidatheerkal unkal future Kum konjam vaithu kollungal it's our humble request ippo nanga kadasiya sonninga illa andhs stage ku vanthutom anyway thank you lot sis
very correct ma ...thats y I told in video about savings for retirement life is more important ...we should not depend on others
Yes,,,just feel like god gave us college life with my love....
And those persons may don't have any debts from ancestors...children's are purely our debt..parents need to pay in this life....
Madhu really inspired by ur motivational speech......still it's 7 years I facing lot this same situation..
Me too for five years
Wow Madhu you are such a strong and bold person... I'm overwhelmed of this video.. God will surely bless with baby, and ur baby is very very lucky to have u as his/her mother.. More love to you..
Best video... Sailing the same boat..came across a lot..
Same feeling.. same attitude..love the sprit..live the moment..🙌👍💪🤝
Thank you very much ma
Promise ah 6 day sashti fasting irunda innikku period romba feeling la than irunden unmiya enakaga ve video pota madri irukku thanks sister 💝💝unmaiya neenga pesum bothu innum ketukite irukkanum pola irundhadhu please idhu madiri nariya video podunga
cheer up dear
இறைவனுக்கு உண்மையான பக்தி தான் முக்கியம்.உங்கள் பிராத்தனை நிறைவேறும்.
@@ThamizhiAaseevagar thanks a lot 🙏🙏
Wonderful video. Naanea peasi video pota maathiri oru feel
எனக்கு 11 வருடம் கழித்து பையன் பிறந்தான் இது எல்லாம் நான் அனுபவித்து இருக்கிறேன் எல்லாம் நிஜம் தான்
oh super ma...congrats
Hi sis I know the pain , bcoz nanum 4years kastapaturuken, kandepa lord blessed with a best child for you sis
Sensitive topic to touch madhu.. Hats off.
thanks ma
I too crossed lot of those emotions....still struggling for past 9 years...I too thought to come out of those situations....but it cant ....Thanks for this video....meaningfully....Hope ..everyone will understand there and other situations....
thanks ma...be happy
Pls go to ceragem centre kandipa 3months la baby iruku
@@priyagopi7097 ceragem center na enna, details konjam sollunga pls
@@usharangarajan3376
Chennai la ela areas layu iruku neenga search pana theryu just massage therapy in spinal cord free tha pakathula ethathu iruka Search pani ponga ena nambunga
Hi friends ..marriage anadhuku aparam 3 years after dan conceive anen ..now 1 year girl baby..now i am in trichy ..near trichy pundarikaksha perumal temple iruku ..karthigai month sunday anga parigaram pananum ..nan panadhuku aparam 2 month conceive anen ..pls sisters andha temple poitu vanga ..kandipa naladhu nadakum
Superb madhu kandipa intha video neraya womens ku usefulla irukum hats off you dear......❤❤❤
Thank you so much ma🙂
Don't worry u will see miracle in your life. Miracles are waiting. God is telling this to u through me.dont worry
👌👌👌👌 I also face this situation by God grace now I had girl baby Madhu akka become mom one day
Very truthful &emotional speech .also madhu.
Super da nanum itha than follow enaku mrge agi 10years aguthu pa ooruku poitu vantha udanae ennoda plants than first poi papen avanga kuda romba neram pesuven neenga semaya pesinenga pa hats off madhu ma
very good ma..stay positive and happy
Enakkku marriage agi 1 year kulantha illa na 3 mnths layea doctor consult panna.. I have pcos problm.. Took many tablets.. Ethumea kai kudukala periods also irregular... 1 yearlayea romba feel panna because of my surrounding.. Na tablet la vittutta.. Kadavul ah nambuna.. Sasti viratham erundha...eppo enakku oru paiyyan.. So kadavula mattum nambunga kandha sasti viratham erunga.. Kandippa ellarukkum kulandha kidaikkum🙏🙏
congrats dear
இதிலிருந்து எங்க போனாலும் இதே துரத்தி வருது மறந்தாலும் மறக்காத ஒன்று
Ennakaaga vae video potta madiri irukku thank u sis
be happy dear
Yes
மிகவும் அருமையான பதிவு 💐💐💐. வாழ்க வளமுடன் சகோதரி 👍👍👍
thank u ma
Need of the hour Madhu 🥰Sending loads of love and positive vibes your way . God bless u 🤗
Thank you so much dr🙂
Hy mathu sis gud motivator
by next year u wll be trumbling to grow ur twin babies 😀😀😂😂 😍😍 wait for miracles my prayers with u ❤️❤️❤️❤️ 🕉️🕉️
Wonderful words very soothing deari too underwent this in my life later after very great struggle I was blessed. Romba manasu kasthama irukum ellarum kepaangey enna solarthu nu theriyama ve irundhuchi chumma sirichiti I used to be calm. Romba kastama iirukum. But later on when I was blessed I really felt happy
happy for u ma
Thankyou for uploading this video very motivational sister enakum 10 yearsa baby illa ellarum romba hurt panuvanga ippo strees reliefa iruku sis thanks a lot
be happy dr
Hi dr , I have been in this situation and gone through what all u said in the video.. and I agree with you.. but we were so positive that one day we will be blessed with baby nu and that miracle happened, not only once but twice... so be happy and positive good soul..
congrats dear
Think positive b happy.. v too same
Super
Searching a video like this. Tq. ❤
Welcome pa😊
குழந்தை இல்லாதவர்களுக்கு மறு பிறவி கிடையாதாம். இதை விடவா மனிதப் பிறவிக்கு பாக்கியம் கிடைக்கும்?
உண்மைதான் சகோதரி நேற்று கூட நான் இதைப் பற்றி பேசி இருந்தேன் என் கணவரோடு. அவர்களிடம் ஆசி பெறுவது இன்னும் மேலும் சிறப்பான பலனை நமக்குத் தரும்.👍
Use ful topic madhu. Intha madri inum neraya useful topics podunga pa
sure ma..thanks
Sterday also i went to marriage nalangu function..After doing tat..come back to home and pray to sai appa..sai appa nthng in my hands. She has to be happy sai appa like tat i am praying..
very gooooood dear.....way to go
Sema Madhu sis whatever who said is 💯 true. Correctta sonninga thalavaliyum vayiruvaligum avangaluku vantha mattum theriyuthu.kolanthai ilathavanga manasula enna irrukuma atha apadiyae solitinga sis.unga wordings ellam naeraiya peruku oru puthu thanambikaiyum thayiriyathaiyum kodukum sis.👏👏👏
thanks ma
Thank you much sister.....😥nan rumpa கஷ்டமா இருந்தேன் இந்த வீடியோ பார்த்து எனக்கு ஆறுதலாக இருக்கு.
good cheer up ma
I too didn't hv baby for 5 years but we both didn't hv any problem.... We did all test ....6th yr one friend of my husband suggested to go to girivalam on full moon day for 3 month God will bless u with a baby my husband went 2months to thiruvanamallí and third month I got pregnant... By God's grace... Now we hv a girl child she is 8yrs now.
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happy for u ma
முதுமை உணர்த்திய பாடத்தால் இவ்வார்த்தை கோபிக்க வேண்டாம்
குழந்தை இல்லாதவர்கள் பாக்கியவான்கள் (ஆரம்பத்தில் இருந்தே பழகிவிட்ட மனம் சுலபமானது )
Very bold and brave talk
Keep rocking🎸🎶🎶
Thanks a ton
Hi ka..I had gone thru same pain..after 2yrs I m blessed with baby girl...my husband supported me lot at that time.trichy samaiyapuram& Tanjore garbhakameshwar temple ku ponom...next6months la got pregnant...u ll soon get pregnant..
God bless you Madhu..my first comment
Thanks a lot ma