Dear Saad Anwar, In abroad people used to say 'be yourself' dont copy others! But NLP is modeling of others , therefore I am confuse how we can be Real our-self while practicing NLP or Modelling others?
Salaam Atique Khokhar that is a wonderful question, let’s chunk it down; I am curious to know what meanings your mind creates when you hear or read the phrase “Be Yourself”. And under what circumstances & context “be yourself” represent the same meaning as “copy others”. And are there any fine lines between both phrases. Such as; do all the mobile phone manufacturers consider copying each other, and the entire professor at universities teaching the same subject, same book, same principles & law consider copying each other. And does copying others have certain criteria that come under the judiciary of plagiarism. And maybe the phrase “Be yourself” has a completely different perspective. May this phrase is just telling you to get more aware of yourself, instead of pretending to be someone else act naturally. Sometimes words only have contextual meanings and in certain situations or contexts only. Now look at the Modeling part; whiling using the word modeling in NLP what does it mean, does it mean to just copy other or something else or more than just copying someone, maybe it just only means that to learn a skill all you need to do is to replicate someone who is already an expert in that particular skill. Maybe it just a better way to learn skills, behavior, or attitude, we invest money and time in courses, coaching, and workshops for learning skills, maybe while developing NLP they found that there is a better way to do that. I don’t know what people say in abroad about “Be Yourself”, or who says, when says, and to whom they say, or the people who are saying that are they be an authentic source to be followed. I am not sure about their authenticity; neither have I thought you should care about that. Just for a second forget about what NLP says about modeling: Your name suggests that you are Alhamd ul Allah Muslim, Just think about what Islam says about “Sunnah”. Is that something we already have been taught. Isn’t Islam preaching us to model the Holy Prophet (P.B.U.H) since he is the best person to model in all the aspects of life? Isn’t that method of learning life skills, spiritualism, behaviors, and attitude are already part of our core religious foundation. After reading it so far you still might be confused, but brother confusion is really good, it opens the door of curiosity. And I want you to stay curious, my opinion will not lead you to anywhere all I want is you must create your own opinion. Then it doesn’t matter what people say in abroad. Thank you so much for asking it, Stay blesses.
@@SaadAnwer Thanks Saad Anwer. You explained me very well in detail. Also make a video about Habits. Habit formations and How to get red of bad habits. (Addictions etc)
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Dear Saad Anwar, In abroad people used to say 'be yourself' dont copy others! But NLP is modeling of others , therefore I am confuse how we can be Real our-self while practicing NLP or Modelling others?
Salaam Atique Khokhar that is a wonderful question, let’s chunk it down; I am curious to know what meanings your mind creates when you hear or read the phrase “Be Yourself”. And under what circumstances & context “be yourself” represent the same meaning as “copy others”. And are there any fine lines between both phrases. Such as; do all the mobile phone manufacturers consider copying each other, and the entire professor at universities teaching the same subject, same book, same principles & law consider copying each other. And does copying others have certain criteria that come under the judiciary of plagiarism. And maybe the phrase “Be yourself” has a completely different perspective. May this phrase is just telling you to get more aware of yourself, instead of pretending to be someone else act naturally. Sometimes words only have contextual meanings and in certain situations or contexts only.
Now look at the Modeling part; whiling using the word modeling in NLP what does it mean, does it mean to just copy other or something else or more than just copying someone, maybe it just only means that to learn a skill all you need to do is to replicate someone who is already an expert in that particular skill. Maybe it just a better way to learn skills, behavior, or attitude, we invest money and time in courses, coaching, and workshops for learning skills, maybe while developing NLP they found that there is a better way to do that.
I don’t know what people say in abroad about “Be Yourself”, or who says, when says, and to whom they say, or the people who are saying that are they be an authentic source to be followed. I am not sure about their authenticity; neither have I thought you should care about that.
Just for a second forget about what NLP says about modeling:
Your name suggests that you are Alhamd ul Allah Muslim, Just think about what Islam says about “Sunnah”. Is that something we already have been taught. Isn’t Islam preaching us to model the Holy Prophet (P.B.U.H) since he is the best person to model in all the aspects of life? Isn’t that method of learning life skills, spiritualism, behaviors, and attitude are already part of our core religious foundation.
After reading it so far you still might be confused, but brother confusion is really good, it opens the door of curiosity. And I want you to stay curious, my opinion will not lead you to anywhere all I want is you must create your own opinion. Then it doesn’t matter what people say in abroad.
Thank you so much for asking it,
Stay blesses.
@@SaadAnwer Thanks Saad Anwer. You explained me very well in detail. Also make a video about Habits. Habit formations and How to get red of bad habits. (Addictions etc)
Sure will definitely cover that in coming videos.