The first thing my therapist told me when I started therapy for my PTSD and CPTSD was "A person's mental illness may explain but does not excuse their behaviour!" and that makes a lot of sense.
My therapist never told me much of anything. She did ask me lots of insightful questions that led me to think about my thoughts, emotions and behaviour.
Yeah, they say it's actually bad for psychopaths to go to therapy because they use it against people. Abusive people learn how to abuse better with better tools
I would add that applies beyond psychology and spirituality, in all matters of ethics, which goes across disciplines - anyone with any position of authority: teachers, professors, social workers, lawyers, etc
Hey, elder millenial here. I think part of what frustrates most people of any generation about those coming after them is that younger generations need to grow up and gain life experience in order to become self-sufficient. Skills and experiences like that don't just download into people's brains on their 16th birthday, you know? I know I was an idiot about a lot of things as a young adult that seem super obvious to me now. I also remember the boomers rolling their eyes at us and complaining about how helpless and unprepared we were for adulthood when I was gen z's age and entering the workforce. Generational differences are real, but I'm skeptical that this particular issue is a generation thing. I think it might be more of a "growing up" thing that most of us go through in one way or another.
"Skills and experiences like that don't just download into people's brains on their 16th birthday" Truth! You're good with the words, I like your words. 😃
I agree with this. I was also thinking, why didn't Erin be resourceful, by just like taking the top bun, swipe it over the mayonnaise, and voila, you're done! Lol
Being annoyed by the younger generation is the hallmark feature of elder generations since forever. Chill, Erin. Gen Z’s brain isn’t done cooking yet. 😂
Most 16 year olds are functionally useless, I was pretty much devoid of value until I was into my 30s. Every generation is going to look like an idiot when you're judging it when it's brain hasn't finished developing (that's well into your 20s btw before an average brain is finished).
Also, maybe, did she say what the mayo was even for? They may have just assumed it was to dip chips in, which is very common around the world instead of ketchup...
I'm a billion year old boomer who enjoys Dr. Huberman's show. I click on your video with the express intent of disliking this podcast. I've been duped. You guys are brilliant. It's like hacking a private Zoom meeting of witty friends riffing on fun topics. Nobody is posing for the camera. Well done.
Really? He sounds immature but all this is from one side. He says he tested negative, but somehow we know she didn't sleep with anyone else? Why aren't all the other supposed gf's infected? Is this any of our business? One article claiming this stuff, which honestly isn't that serious and definitely information that should stay between consenting adults.
@raincadeify I still like Dr. Huberman. I will continue to consume his content. But I did find the construction and delivery of this podcast amusing. I think Dr. Huberman will continue to thrive. It does seem that fame exacts a terrible price. No doubt, the journalist who wrote the article will have her life examined and dissected by some curious individual with a platform.
@@riddlerhymes512 What terrible price? He courts personal notoriety there has to be a sane line in the sand here. He's not exactly John Lennon getting assassinated. On the other hand, yes, gossip column journalism is .... gossip column journalism not terribly high-minded by the most generous of assessments.
I love Andrew Hubermans vids as well.. There is enough info out there about his personal life now that it’s pretty obvious he’s either on the spectrum or leans into the cluster b category of personality disorders.. but nothing about his personal life leaches the importance of the data he provides.. it’s good stuff.. none of us have to date him.. additionally, yes.. yalls podcast is also awesome and I enjoy them..
Don't take this the wrong way... but you're saying Gen Z isn't resourceful when you had to go up to the counter and ask for a utensil before you could spread mayo on a sandwich? Tear a bit of the box, use a french fry, find literally anything clean and flat. I think the brains of service industry members are broken from lack of pay, compassion, and job benefits, not what year they happen to be born.
Not to mention that the kid WAS resourceful. They didn't have mayo packets, so they found a different way to get the mayo for her. I'm so confused by that whole story and the defense of generational criticism.
I'm born in the 50's but SO tired of people dumping on genZ. They're beautiful and deserve our support. And I'm also sick of rich people with degrees slamming service jobs that get 8 hours of disrespect from the public and the management every day. If you're so "resourceful" make your own food.
Valid. Z & A and mid/younger millennials grew up in an entirely different world. Add the formative years of Z&A happening in isolation and their milestones not marked or celebrated remotely.
I did get a little bit of Karen energy from this story. Your McD sandwich was too dry, and getting a box full of mayo wasn't customer service enough? Didn't call the manager, but brought it up to a couple of hundred thousand people on a podcast instead, with a sweeping generalization about how this is emblematic of gen-z's lack of resourcefulness.
@@quietreason8679 Tone deaf and uber privileged imo. I'm not interested in anything these people have to say and so sick of people punching on genZ. I'm a baby boomer who loves them.
Gen X without college degrees being the largest demographic that voted for tRump, is so terribly sad and infuriating. As a gen X woman with a college degree, I honestly don’t understand the rationale, motivation perceived benefit for voting on the side of a political party that is antithetical to their aspirations, hopes and dreams. Sometimes I think these people made so many mistakes in life that the only satisfaction they have left is to drag others down with them.
In 2016, I think Trump’s primary competition was two political dynasties that had decimated the non educated workers of America. Their trade deals put American union workers in competition with third world sweat shop labor while simultaneously gutting welfare. What did they replace it with? War and austerity. Clinton’s trade deals and welfare reform would generate the poverty and desperation needed for Bush’s illegal wars which would further decimate the American economy on top of killing hundreds of thousands of our kids for a lie. The American working class had been betrayed by the two political dynasties and Trump would use that to his advantage. Of course this was purely opportunistic. He duped many people. Still, we made that very easy to do by tryouts to shove two powerful political dynasties down people’s throats that have already failed us all. I think Biden won for a reason and he’ll likely win again for this reason. I think Biden, for all of his flaws, understands the failures that crippled working class America enough to at least feign a since of populism which could get him reelected. In his first time running for Senate, he consulted a jr political analyst named Pat Caddell who advised him to instead of running against a specific person to run against “Washington DC”. Caddell had been studying the reasons why RFK and his ideological opposite George Wallace were popular among the same people. He determined the common factor was a sense of fighting those in power. What Hunter S Thompson called the “Fuck the bosses” vote. Needless to day, Biden would win that election. I think, with the exception of Bernie Sanders Biden is better suited to play that role than anyone else on the 2020 primary debate stage. However, I do think providing a genuine left wing populist alternative to the insane fascist clown show populism is the way we beat fascism in the long term.
Gen X woman here....100% AGREE They DON'T seem to UNDERSTAND that EVERYTHING they complain about is a RESULT of HOW & WHAT they vote for. They are voting in a block which is the actually the ANTITHESIS of what they desire.
Not being disrespectful, but i haven't seen any evidence of your first sentence. Yes, i can search it (i don't do branding, so, no googling here) but if you (or someone can point me in the right direction, i'd appreciate it.
I wouldn't say it's Gen X, it's all generations. I've had people from all ages glorify him, just as I've had people from all ages showing recognizable thought processes.
Every generation has complained about the next, saying the exact same things. These young folks are learning how to be people in the world. They make the same awkward mistakes as every generation before them. They're learning problems solving skills as they grow into their personhood. I'm so disappointed when I see millennials (I'm millennial, but gen-x cusp) dump on gen-z the way we were dumped on just a few years ago. Do bettah! (still love y'all)
Thank you for saying this (and the person above me who responded to you) It was sad to see them just lean into that same lazy divisive rhetoric without any self awareness. And to not have the grace to think maybe that food service worker is new with her “just do it right the first time kids!” Argument.
A “bro” friend of mine recommended Huberman, and I was skeptical, but I gave him a few listens… I stopped listening the moment he mentioned Jordan Peterson… NOPE.
Ugh. I really liked some of stuff on mental illness. Sigh. Why?? Tate and Peterson? No redeeming qualities whatsoever. I notice that all the male podcasters have interviewed Peterson, probably because their audience requested it but come on.😫
Thank you for this! I am a male in America and I find Andrew Huberman to be one of the most obnoxious people I’ve ever heard. Did I spell his last name wrong? I’ll check.😙
Can you please show us how he abu…. them? By the way the main one making accusations in the article is under investigation by the DOJ. Andrew left her after finding this out. Funny how no one mentions this little inconvenient detail!
@sardonumspa8113 Did he disclose the other gf to his gf, or did he string them along and gave them stds? What stories did he spin? Suspicious likely undisclosed polygamy.
The frontal lobe is still forming well into a human’s 20’s. The frontal lobe is where we make our decisions. It’s nice knowing this as I give anyone under the age of 30 (and over 30 for some men) the grace they deserve as they grow into their wisdom years.
GenX here...when I was 16, I worked fast food. A customer approached the counter to ask a co-worker for extra ice. Without hesitation, he turned around, stuck his hand in the ice bin, and grabbed a handful. He then turned around and offered the (now horrified) customer a bare handful of ice. My point is, the mayo box was an improvement. :)
It’s weird that Erin’s argument was “just do it right the first time” instead of the possibility that they were new, and the fact that learning is a process, nobody starts at the finish line
Not sure why, but this conversation is so much realistic - compared to whatever the F other podcasters have. Thank you so much for being practical, logical, a bit petty, sarcastic, and amzing
When my youngest was a baby I spent about a year exclusively reading ARCs and posting reviews on Amazon and GoodReads. Some of them were truly amazing books that I never would have encountered otherwise. A actually emailed a couple of the authors with praise and asked to be notified when their next book came out. I love being the person to post the first review on something new and interesting.
In relation to the Andrew Huberman revelations, as someone else said: "When it comes to psychology and spirituality, the most dangerous humans are the ones that learn the language, but don’t do the work." I get huge narc vibes from him, and this story has confirmed for me what I suspected. His problem is that his entire brand did appeal equally to men and women, but he just lost all the women. Cut his audience in half. My bet is he'll now go full on bro, like a cleaned up, more sophisticated Andrew Tate.
Agree totally. I followed his you tube when it began. And noticed how quickly his ego got caught up and he started doing way too many episodes and started taking on sponsorships. I just wish there was a good substitute who has integrity
Bingo. Alarming how most of the male cult leaders start off this way. As a narc gains attention, their ego feeds off itself in an echo chamber of affirmation and they end up believing every base personal impulse is correct. The last few stages before the end are typically abusing women sexually and declaring themselves some sort of messiah. Looks like Andy is picking up speed, so it's only a matter of time before the crazy starts peekin' out.
Also a feral resourceful Gen Xer here lol. I am surprised to know my gen voted highest for orange devil :(. We were so punk rock and alternative. Most of my fellow Gen xers I'm in touch with are libs like me. For the record my parents did a pretty good job, giving us freedom but still curfews and life lessons. Also liberal, always called themselves independents which is a little why I didn't grow up knowing what party to go to, I'm still ind but have no choice but to vote Dem since I'm pro human rights, bodily autonomy, taking care of those in need, anti violence, and health care for all, etc. A year or 2 ago a writer/comic with a podcast told us about that morning in NYC she went in a coffee shop and the barista didn't understand what black coffee was.
Sometimes individuals have gaps in knowledge, we don’t need to do the divisive and over done “shit on the kids these days” rhetoric. The barista didn’t permanently not know what black coffee was, your friend just happened to be around when they learned the term
@@Tortilla.Reform Maybe it's a failure of the employer who certainly should make sure when serving coffee everyone knows what coffee is with no fancy junk in it. I'm soft on people for a Gen Xer but that is a wow from me.
Gen-X here but maybe not the most feral - I was more free-range with my millennial son than my parents were with me - but I do have to say I know a lot of Gen-Xers that are Trumplovers. For a while it was hard for me to wrap my head around, because it wasn't just the jocks and rednecks. It's also the folks who were working class alternative types. I'm guessing they still identify as anti-establishment, but now they're all into elites who rail against other elites and blame all their problems on other poors instead of voting for people who are actually trying to do something for the working class. I'm not so sure about the college-educated alternative types. I think most of them escaped this town and so I don't hear much from them, but I'm in the oil and gas industry so most of the degreed folks I know are also R as heck, but I do at least know some who used to be R's and hate Trump.
I was in NY back in the 90's. 1st time I ordered a coffee blk it came with a ton of surgar. When i questioned the waiter she told me if you want a stright blk coffee w/no surgar you need to say no surgar. wtf?????
Regarding the box of mayo: my son works in fast food. They are not allowed to give out anything extra unless the customer specifically asks for it. If they do and don't charge the customer, they get a tongue lashing regarding profit margins. It may be more from fear of getting yelled at than the inability to problem solve. I mean seriously, how do you charge a customer for a utensil? 😂
@@bitchenboutique6953 It shouldn't cost more. My son would offer to remake the sandwich or give them the mayo and a knife, whichever the customer preferred. It was just a theory I was throwing out there based on the owner's policy.
I believe that you are correct, I have to ask for everything in fast food, which is okay, imagine how many wasted plastic utensils if they give out a knife fork and spoon for everyone.
Not unique to gen -z ,40 years ago ran into worse w/ middle aged dry cleaner recommending "just put a patch on it" for a stained dress shirt and 20 years ago w/ middle aged mechanic recommending super glue to repair windshield wiper he broke. Plus, nothing compares to the lack of problem solving by previous generations that left gen-z holding the bag for the rampant environmental, economic and political catastrophes we are responsible for.
I live with a millennial for the first time in my life and can confirm everything you say. I can't begin to explain everything they do that defies logic or makes any kind of common sense otherwise I'd be here writing all day. .It is truly amazing they are able to get up, get dressed and go to work every day without hand holding involved through the entire process since they contribute exactly ZERO to the household and stay shut in their room only emerging to collect their Uber Eats order every night. I will just give one example. One time the kitchen bin was full, and they took it to the front and left it in the middle of the yard. "It was full. I didn't know what to do." No I am not making this up.
Anybody under 25 has poor executive function. Which means they have difficulty considering other points of view and thinking logically. Their frontal lobes are not completely developed. When Millennials were young, I went to a fast food place where the cash register was broken. I had to take out a calculator and add up my total for them. Yeah, I’m a boomer so I know it all now. When I was in my 20s I was an idiot. So were you.
Poor executive function in our 20ies? Nah. Women's frontal lobes are fully developed in our early 20ies. They are almost fully matured by the time we leave our teens, and almost fully developed frontal lobes are not completely useless. I wish I still had the level of executive function that I had when I was 20. I ran circles around the 30-50 year olds in my office both in the execution of complex multitasking and quick decision making for hours at a time, and operated largely from working memory. I did make some poor decisions in relation to my dating life, but that kind of poor decisions seem to be made by single people in just about every age group.
@@AnnNunnally I have studied the "newer" science, and the fact that I passed my introduction to neuroscience exam is all the evidence I need that the science backs me up.
Andrew Huberman PhD is not a medical doctor and is an associate professor at Stanford. His meagre lab recently moved from neuroscience to the Department of Ophthalmology. Little research is being there.
The entire argument in that last segment is sadly on brand for the “kids these days” rhetoric. Of course the youths she’s complaining about should know those things, but nobody starts at the finish line, it’s a growing process, and she was probably similar to them at her age and looked at the same by older people around her
To add to that, putting extra mayo in a box is probably a protocol they have to follow, and not a sign of their own poor decision making. This woman is so entitled and privileged that she doesnt understand'any human experiences outside of her own and doesn't have a grasp of basic human understanding. As if your chicken sandwich being too dry is worth lamenting in the first place. Everything she talks about, even if its about other people, is about herself.
Resourcefulness is a skill that is taught. If the kid doesn't know how to be resourceful it's usually because it's a skill that is underdeveloped due to opportunity or a lack of teaching from their parent/gaurdian. I feel for Gen Z, between iPad parenting and Covid, they really havent' had the opportunity to develop the same social skills that the rest of us have at their age. Everytime I interact with one I remind myself that they're behind and they need a little bit more guidance.
I think you need a bit more information. Article also included info about his science and others who he has disrespected. Once you get more info, go back and watch some of his older episodes and you'll understand how disingenuous he is
Great point. Have you noticed that some men can pick therapists who will “fan boy” or “fan girl” them? I mean, “I’m a Stanford neuroscientist and former bad boy turned internet icon….but don’t pull any punches, unknown therapist.”
16:25 Think about it like so: You never used utensils except in more formal situations. And anytime you have been eating with your friends you dipped the food in the sauce and you never thought you need something else.
Just what do people think their parents and their parents' friends thought of them as problem solvers, especially when they're young AND not in the upper 50 %?
Exactly! She’s just doing the same generational nonsense with no self awareness or grace for others. You become a problem solver, you don’t just start there. But she has a problem with meeting a young food service worker who hasn’t gotten there yet, kind of entitled and gross
I don’t think you made clear that Huberman lied to each of the women, saying that he wanted to be in a monogamous relationship with each one. Based on that, they had unprotected sex with him. He’s a lot worse than a guy who just is sleeping with six women at the same time.
So why aren’t they talking about the fact that the accuser is under investigation by the DOJ and that’s why Hubberman got out of the relationship? The article in question neither do these “ladies” in the video mention any of this. Are the rest of the ones he was supposedly seeing also test positive? You didn’t even bother to ask any of these questions and I am not a fan of his just observing the hypocrisy….
Anyone paying attention already drew that conclusion. Also the fact that he gave anyone HPV disease KNOWINGLY is abuse in and of itself. I love how s$$ty men always " out" themselves by defending the indefensible.
Booooooo you take the top bun off and smash that shit in the box of mayonnaise. Then back on the Mchicken. “ I got a plain chicken sandwich” girl you just outed yourself
They didn’t sent the results by accident. It’s a federal law that when results are available to the physician, the patient also has availability of the results. Not a mistake.
@@maesemenese you know how Rogan is... People dribble out an ooze of nonsense that melts your mind before you can defend yourself. I don't have the strength to go back and listen again, unfortunately at this point in time.
Nuance matters. You can inform them something is wrong, without acting like Erin here with the “Just get it right the first time” argument. As if the process of learning is an on/off switch for people lol, no grace for the possibility of a new person who doesn’t know what “right the first time” is yet, and then applying that silly argument to all young people
Lots of things Andrew Huberman has said has been helpful to me. You don’t need to take everything that everyone says with 100% certainty, take what you want and leave the rest.
The last time I ever went to Shoney's they seated us (me, wife, two small children) right next to the emergency exit. The bar you push to open the door and activate the alarm was jamming into my arm. But the main point here is: I asked the waitress for some hot sauce. Don't care what kind, just bring me some hot sauce. She gave me a look of utter confusion. She came back some time later with a small dish of some substance that we concluded had been cobbled together from ketchup and hot water. Love the show by the way. Glad I discovered your channel.
Your exclusion for your Gen Z comment is why I efn hate the whole generation labeling bullshit. You'll always find many, many exceptions to these efn generalizations that will cloud your interactions with anyone in that age category because some sociologist wants to put people age x to y in some behavior category. They can all eff off. I refuse to let anyone tell me that someone who 30 will behave like x and someone 60 will behave like y, when every behavior I've ever heard touted as being that generalizations I've seen in individuals generations removed from "that generation".
Tony Soprano said it best about too much therapy: "I came here today to tell you, in all seriousness, that I'm done. I did what you said. I gave it a lot of thought and I decided, once and for all, it's over. The truth is this therapy is a jerk-off."
Come on, give service workers a break. I worked those jobs through HS and college after class, swim practice before going home to do my homework and cook dinner. These jobs are on your feet exhausting and the customers at these jobs are awful. Either you've forgotten that or you've never worked one. Either way, stop punching down on the working class.
As an elder Millennial with a gen Z kid, the reason their generation has less ability is that our generation was too busy working three jobs to teach them things at home, and the education system for them was worse than it was for us. That said, if there's a youtube video on it, they'll find it. And the fortunate thing for me about being disabled and therefore home more often than not is that I've taught my kid everything I possibly can on how to do things for themselves. I don't understand why you're claiming millennials ruined everything though? That's incredibly unfair. With what power?
So, feeling uncomfortable about chastising anyone’s public identity based on how they act in their personal relationships. Everyone can get manipulated or heartbroken early in life but by midlife, I think it’s best to assume women can take care of themselves and don’t need the court of public option to make sure they aren’t bamboozled by a hot man that cheats.
Damn. A while back I was surfing the web about some wellness issue and Huberman popped up. I tried to give him a listen but something about him just rubbed me the wrong way. I couldn't pinpoint why....but now I get it. Thanks! ❤
As a Clinical Scientist, usually your Doctor will call you in for results. We call them after we determine the results, then we call the doctor, then they call you.
Dana! bell hooks reading list! I love it! Also - I've worked for feminist publishers for many years and I always reach out for blurbs on behalf of authors AND we have always published any additional blurbs (that don't fit on the back cover) in the front matter - we never tossed them. Support indie small presses! Interestingly, in my experience, it's often the big boys that thrust most of the work on authors. As we know, they l-o-o-ve profit for the least possible amount of work. Ptooey.
Disparage an entire generation of people by complaining about... A mayonnaise incident? Yeah, and I suppose some _kids at McDonald's_ are fairly representative of the entire Gen Z population.
My friend and I work at a major land grant university system. She had a Gen Z assistant not know and not know how to find out how to copy/paste. (sigh) This person is a full BA-level graduate of a university and is a career path staff member.
The scariest thing I ever heard was a teacher at a faculty meeting I was speaking at about 20-25 yrs ago say they couldn't remember the last student they had with a shred of deductive reasoning ability. This has been part of the plan. I'll counter and defend the Genx/z's as victims of the decades-old program of dumbing down the populace. In some cases these capacities - part of normal intellectual and emotional development - do not exist. The are equally incapable of empathy. This is a HUGE problem Love you gals.
Gen X here....we used to hang out late but the rule was when I was a kid, when those street lights come on your ass better be in the living room. lol. But I do remember those commercials. Thank you ladies. Very much appreciated.
15:40 I'm not gen-z, but that's easy, just try to pour it at first and then invert the box and transfer the rest. I think you need more McDonalds experience then you would naturally react like so.
If you can go to an independent bookstore, ask a bookseller for book recommendations. A serious bookseller is worth their weight in gold. They actually read the books in stock. Sorry but book tik tokers or “influencers” are being paid. Not as reliable.
So first of all let me just say as a person who is starting a low-key literary "book report" site (we don't aim to take down, but the takedowns will happen) you're more than welcome to come and check us out when it's up and ready. 😀
fyi.. the fast food industry has made the jobs so simplistic so nobody has to think. In general, customer service has been gone for decades and replaced by online shopping and robots.
36 here, definitely agree with the gen z thing. If it doesn't involve an iPad they're clueless. If you've seen Idiocracy just think of the girl at the hospital figuring out what button to press. Idiocracy is nigh
'Idiocracy' is the best movie ever. I've never even finished it because I 'cringe' (Gen-Z word) so much at how true it is. I don't want to know how it all ends.
Ok but why do you need a spoon or butter knife for mayo on a burger? Can't you problem solve yourself and just squirt the mayo on the burger like it was ketchup like everyone else, since it comes in a packet? Maybe I missed something..was it "loose" mayo in the box? I love yall and have followed from the beginning, you make very good points, this one just seems like you wanted to be babied. Idk, maybe I'm wrong, I just don't see the issue. You asked for mayo and then got it. Folks are paid way too little and have much too much stress and you want to complain about a want..I just think the knife or spoon was not a need...
Its hard to swallow the generation after us benefiting from the compassion and patience we had to advocate to get but that only we can give…to the next generation. Also, there’s no advantage to doing something right over not learning and having the person who knows the right way to do it just do it for him or herself. Those are two different statements. The first one is meant to be sincere. The second one is calloused, but probably kinda true. I stand by both.
Is it just me or if a guy says, "I value your feedback", during a relationship or cheating conversation then run in the other direction - that sounds like Grade 1 Narcissist gaslight ing, with zero emotional appreciation.
Huberman is such a charlatan! I became skeptical of his schtick when I figured out (I think I heard in Isome interview) that even though he has a position at Stanford (and can't promote himself enough about it), he doesn't have an actual academic career - he no longer does research and hasn't done any original research in YEARS. Maybe he teaches some undergrad courses? But that's not what those positions are about - at someplace like Stanford, you are expected to be conducting research at the cutting edge of your field. I wonder what his colleagues think of him. And the fact that he goes off on topics wayyyy beyond/outside of anything he could call himself an expert in - that's just gross.
Morning ladies, that McDonalds mayo incident sounds exactly like me lecturing my son after every chore had had to do & rushed it. If he took his time & did it right the 1st time w/o his cellphone in 1 hand wouldn’t have to be on his ass about it.
That part was funny to me for 2 reasons, the way she tells the story is just funny on its face but I also cannot comprehend a "Box of mayonnaise" I just do not get it why? how? does mayo come in a box? just open it up and a cardboard box with mayo in it? this sounds terrible. I must not get out much because where I'm from mayonnaise comes in a jar. or small packets... I cannot imagine this box of mayo being anything less but gross. What? in a box?
@sharkulashairstylist5505 Exactly. It doesn't come in boxes. But this yahoo scooped mayo into a hamburger/sandwich clamshell-type box, and somehow thought that was equivalent in utility to a mayo packet.🤯
@@chinnasue58People make mistakes. I bet he wasn’t properly trained or taught the right way handle those situations, or maybe he just doesn’t care, which I can’t fault them on hahah
The first thing my therapist told me when I started therapy for my PTSD and CPTSD was "A person's mental illness may explain but does not excuse their behaviour!" and that makes a lot of sense.
My therapist always says "neither your illness, nor your symptoms are your fault but they ARE your responsibility"
@@Lina_unchained Exactly!
My therapist never told me much of anything. She did ask me lots of insightful questions that led me to think about my thoughts, emotions and behaviour.
Sooooo true - def need this on a T-shirt 👍🏼
When it comes to psychology and spirituality, the most dangerous humans are the ones that learn the language, but don’t do the work.
Yeah, they say it's actually bad for psychopaths to go to therapy because they use it against people. Abusive people learn how to abuse better with better tools
spot on.
Wow, so well put!
I would add that applies beyond psychology and spirituality, in all matters of ethics, which goes across disciplines - anyone with any position of authority: teachers, professors, social workers, lawyers, etc
This is a classic tactic of abusers and narcissists
Hey, elder millenial here. I think part of what frustrates most people of any generation about those coming after them is that younger generations need to grow up and gain life experience in order to become self-sufficient. Skills and experiences like that don't just download into people's brains on their 16th birthday, you know? I know I was an idiot about a lot of things as a young adult that seem super obvious to me now. I also remember the boomers rolling their eyes at us and complaining about how helpless and unprepared we were for adulthood when I was gen z's age and entering the workforce. Generational differences are real, but I'm skeptical that this particular issue is a generation thing. I think it might be more of a "growing up" thing that most of us go through in one way or another.
"Skills and experiences like that don't just download into people's brains on their 16th birthday" Truth! You're good with the words, I like your words. 😃
I agree with this. I was also thinking, why didn't Erin be resourceful, by just like taking the top bun, swipe it over the mayonnaise, and voila, you're done! Lol
Being annoyed by the younger generation is the hallmark feature of elder generations since forever. Chill, Erin. Gen Z’s brain isn’t done cooking yet. 😂
Most 16 year olds are functionally useless, I was pretty much devoid of value until I was into my 30s. Every generation is going to look like an idiot when you're judging it when it's brain hasn't finished developing (that's well into your 20s btw before an average brain is finished).
Also, maybe, did she say what the mayo was even for? They may have just assumed it was to dip chips in, which is very common around the world instead of ketchup...
I'm a billion year old boomer who enjoys Dr. Huberman's show. I click on your video with the express intent of disliking this podcast. I've been duped. You guys are brilliant. It's like hacking a private Zoom meeting of witty friends riffing on fun topics. Nobody is posing for the camera. Well done.
Really? He sounds immature but all this is from one side. He says he tested negative, but somehow we know she didn't sleep with anyone else? Why aren't all the other supposed gf's infected? Is this any of our business? One article claiming this stuff, which honestly isn't that serious and definitely information that should stay between consenting adults.
@raincadeify I still like Dr. Huberman. I will continue to consume his content. But I did find the construction and delivery of this podcast amusing. I think Dr. Huberman will continue to thrive. It does seem that fame exacts a terrible price. No doubt, the journalist who wrote the article will have her life examined and dissected by some curious individual with a platform.
@@raincadeify All that stuff is new to me tx for info... but do agree about way too much information in this context.
@@riddlerhymes512 What terrible price? He courts personal notoriety there has to be a sane line in the sand here. He's not exactly John Lennon getting assassinated. On the other hand, yes, gossip column journalism is .... gossip column journalism not terribly high-minded by the most generous of assessments.
I love Andrew Hubermans vids as well.. There is enough info out there about his personal life now that it’s pretty obvious he’s either on the spectrum or leans into the cluster b category of personality disorders.. but nothing about his personal life leaches the importance of the data he provides.. it’s good stuff.. none of us have to date him.. additionally, yes.. yalls podcast is also awesome and I enjoy them..
Don't take this the wrong way... but you're saying Gen Z isn't resourceful when you had to go up to the counter and ask for a utensil before you could spread mayo on a sandwich? Tear a bit of the box, use a french fry, find literally anything clean and flat. I think the brains of service industry members are broken from lack of pay, compassion, and job benefits, not what year they happen to be born.
Not to mention that the kid WAS resourceful. They didn't have mayo packets, so they found a different way to get the mayo for her. I'm so confused by that whole story and the defense of generational criticism.
I'm born in the 50's but SO tired of people dumping on genZ. They're beautiful and deserve our support. And I'm also sick of rich people with degrees slamming service jobs that get 8 hours of disrespect from the public and the management every day. If you're so "resourceful" make your own food.
Valid. Z & A and mid/younger millennials grew up in an entirely different world. Add the formative years of Z&A happening in isolation and their milestones not marked or celebrated remotely.
I did get a little bit of Karen energy from this story. Your McD sandwich was too dry, and getting a box full of mayo wasn't customer service enough? Didn't call the manager, but brought it up to a couple of hundred thousand people on a podcast instead, with a sweeping generalization about how this is emblematic of gen-z's lack of resourcefulness.
@@quietreason8679 Tone deaf and uber privileged imo. I'm not interested in anything these people have to say and so sick of people punching on genZ. I'm a baby boomer who loves them.
Gen X without college degrees being the largest demographic that voted for tRump, is so terribly sad and infuriating. As a gen X woman with a college degree, I honestly don’t understand the rationale, motivation perceived benefit for voting on the side of a political party that is antithetical to their aspirations, hopes and dreams. Sometimes I think these people made so many mistakes in life that the only satisfaction they have left is to drag others down with them.
In 2016, I think Trump’s primary competition was two political dynasties that had decimated the non educated workers of America. Their trade deals put American union workers in competition with third world sweat shop labor while simultaneously gutting welfare. What did they replace it with? War and austerity. Clinton’s trade deals and welfare reform would generate the poverty and desperation needed for Bush’s illegal wars which would further decimate the American economy on top of killing hundreds of thousands of our kids for a lie. The American working class had been betrayed by the two political dynasties and Trump would use that to his advantage. Of course this was purely opportunistic. He duped many people. Still, we made that very easy to do by tryouts to shove two powerful political dynasties down people’s throats that have already failed us all.
I think Biden won for a reason and he’ll likely win again for this reason. I think Biden, for all of his flaws, understands the failures that crippled working class America enough to at least feign a since of populism which could get him reelected. In his first time running for Senate, he consulted a jr political analyst named Pat Caddell who advised him to instead of running against a specific person to run against “Washington DC”. Caddell had been studying the reasons why RFK and his ideological opposite George Wallace were popular among the same people. He determined the common factor was a sense of fighting those in power. What Hunter S Thompson called the “Fuck the bosses” vote. Needless to day, Biden would win that election. I think, with the exception of Bernie Sanders Biden is better suited to play that role than anyone else on the 2020 primary debate stage. However, I do think providing a genuine left wing populist alternative to the insane fascist clown show populism is the way we beat fascism in the long term.
Gen X woman here....100% AGREE
They DON'T seem to UNDERSTAND that EVERYTHING they complain about is a RESULT of HOW & WHAT they vote for. They are voting in a block which is the actually the ANTITHESIS of what they desire.
Not being disrespectful, but i haven't seen any evidence of your first sentence. Yes, i can search it (i don't do branding, so, no googling here) but if you (or someone can point me in the right direction, i'd appreciate it.
I wouldn't say it's Gen X, it's all generations. I've had people from all ages glorify him, just as I've had people from all ages showing recognizable thought processes.
Still waiting...most likely a bot...Yeah, i just did some digging (Forbes, Pew) this OP is a bot. That "statement" is total BS.
Every generation has complained about the next, saying the exact same things. These young folks are learning how to be people in the world. They make the same awkward mistakes as every generation before them. They're learning problems solving skills as they grow into their personhood. I'm so disappointed when I see millennials (I'm millennial, but gen-x cusp) dump on gen-z the way we were dumped on just a few years ago. Do bettah! (still love y'all)
Exactly. Don't waste your love on people who criticize food servers. They don't deserve it.
Thank you for saying this (and the person above me who responded to you)
It was sad to see them just lean into that same lazy divisive rhetoric without any self awareness. And to not have the grace to think maybe that food service worker is new with her “just do it right the first time kids!” Argument.
Anyone complaining about "kids these days" needs to put the blame on the parents!!
As a male, it is very refreshing to hear intelligent females pull apart seemingly intelligent bros. Need to keep that part of myself in check. Thanks.
A “bro” friend of mine recommended Huberman, and I was skeptical, but I gave him a few listens… I stopped listening the moment he mentioned Jordan Peterson… NOPE.
What about when he had nothing but great reviews about Andrew Tate. It's his biggest red flag.
@@malinpin4518 Whaaaaat??? I did not know that - holy crap.
Ugh. I really liked some of stuff on mental illness. Sigh. Why?? Tate and Peterson? No redeeming qualities whatsoever. I notice that all the male podcasters have interviewed Peterson, probably because their audience requested it but come on.😫
@@arcticgoddessyup, the con runs deep. Jbp is part of that cesspool called daily wire
It’s a mixed bag for me. He will have a guess talking about good things then promote Peterson or Rogan. Ugghh
Too much therapy for the wrong people is kind of the moral of The Sopranos if you watch it until the end…
Can we all agree that modern therapy culture has consumed and digested its own tail a long time ago and is currently chewing on the back of its neck?
As an avid reader I take absolutely no notice of blurbs.
Yeah, they're meaningless! I just need a summary of the book on the back cover!
Thank you for this!
I am a male in America and I find Andrew Huberman to be one of the most obnoxious people I’ve ever heard.
Did I spell his last name wrong? I’ll check.😙
It’s not so much about the 6 GFs, it’s about the abusive, manipulative, narcissistic behavior. A charming, intelligent man with major issues!
Can you please show us how he abu…. them? By the way the main one making accusations in the article is under investigation by the DOJ. Andrew left her after finding this out. Funny how no one mentions this little inconvenient detail!
@sardonumspa8113 Did he disclose the other gf to his gf, or did he string them along and gave them stds? What stories did he spin? Suspicious likely undisclosed polygamy.
The frontal lobe is still forming well into a human’s 20’s. The frontal lobe is where we make our decisions. It’s nice knowing this as I give anyone under the age of 30 (and over 30 for some men) the grace they deserve as they grow into their wisdom years.
GenX here...when I was 16, I worked fast food. A customer approached the counter to ask a co-worker for extra ice. Without hesitation, he turned around, stuck his hand in the ice bin, and grabbed a handful. He then turned around and offered the (now horrified) customer a bare handful of ice.
My point is, the mayo box was an improvement. :)
It’s weird that Erin’s argument was “just do it right the first time” instead of the possibility that they were new, and the fact that learning is a process, nobody starts at the finish line
Not sure why, but this conversation is so much realistic - compared to whatever the F other podcasters have. Thank you so much for being practical, logical, a bit petty, sarcastic, and amzing
When my youngest was a baby I spent about a year exclusively reading ARCs and posting reviews on Amazon and GoodReads. Some of them were truly amazing books that I never would have encountered otherwise. A actually emailed a couple of the authors with praise and asked to be notified when their next book came out. I love being the person to post the first review on something new and interesting.
In relation to the Andrew Huberman revelations, as someone else said: "When it comes to psychology and spirituality, the most dangerous humans are the ones that learn the language, but don’t do the work." I get huge narc vibes from him, and this story has confirmed for me what I suspected. His problem is that his entire brand did appeal equally to men and women, but he just lost all the women. Cut his audience in half. My bet is he'll now go full on bro, like a cleaned up, more sophisticated Andrew Tate.
Agree totally. I followed his you tube when it began. And noticed how quickly his ego got caught up and he started doing way too many episodes and started taking on sponsorships.
I just wish there was a good substitute who has integrity
He hasn't lost me.
Bingo. Alarming how most of the male cult leaders start off this way. As a narc gains attention, their ego feeds off itself in an echo chamber of affirmation and they end up believing every base personal impulse is correct. The last few stages before the end are typically abusing women sexually and declaring themselves some sort of messiah. Looks like Andy is picking up speed, so it's only a matter of time before the crazy starts peekin' out.
Also a feral resourceful Gen Xer here lol. I am surprised to know my gen voted highest for orange devil :(. We were so punk rock and alternative. Most of my fellow Gen xers I'm in touch with are libs like me.
For the record my parents did a pretty good job, giving us freedom but still curfews and life lessons. Also liberal, always called themselves independents which is a little why I didn't grow up knowing what party to go to, I'm still ind but have no choice but to vote Dem since I'm pro human rights, bodily autonomy, taking care of those in need, anti violence, and health care for all, etc.
A year or 2 ago a writer/comic with a podcast told us about that morning in NYC she went in a coffee shop and the barista didn't understand what black coffee was.
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Sometimes individuals have gaps in knowledge, we don’t need to do the divisive and over done “shit on the kids these days” rhetoric. The barista didn’t permanently not know what black coffee was, your friend just happened to be around when they learned the term
@@Tortilla.Reform Maybe it's a failure of the employer who certainly should make sure when serving coffee everyone knows what coffee is with no fancy junk in it. I'm soft on people for a Gen Xer but that is a wow from me.
Gen-X here but maybe not the most feral - I was more free-range with my millennial son than my parents were with me - but I do have to say I know a lot of Gen-Xers that are Trumplovers. For a while it was hard for me to wrap my head around, because it wasn't just the jocks and rednecks. It's also the folks who were working class alternative types. I'm guessing they still identify as anti-establishment, but now they're all into elites who rail against other elites and blame all their problems on other poors instead of voting for people who are actually trying to do something for the working class.
I'm not so sure about the college-educated alternative types. I think most of them escaped this town and so I don't hear much from them, but I'm in the oil and gas industry so most of the degreed folks I know are also R as heck, but I do at least know some who used to be R's and hate Trump.
I was in NY back in the 90's. 1st time I ordered a coffee blk it came with a ton of surgar. When i questioned the waiter she told me if you want a stright blk coffee w/no surgar you need to say no surgar. wtf?????
Regarding the box of mayo: my son works in fast food. They are not allowed to give out anything extra unless the customer specifically asks for it. If they do and don't charge the customer, they get a tongue lashing regarding profit margins. It may be more from fear of getting yelled at than the inability to problem solve. I mean seriously, how do you charge a customer for a utensil? 😂
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How does a utensil cost more than a box filled with mayo?
@@bitchenboutique6953 It shouldn't cost more. My son would offer to remake the sandwich or give them the mayo and a knife, whichever the customer preferred. It was just a theory I was throwing out there based on the owner's policy.
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I believe that you are correct, I have to ask for everything in fast food, which is okay, imagine how many wasted plastic utensils if they give out a knife fork and spoon for everyone.
Gen X superiority, oops, I mean self-reliance. Lol 🤣🤣🤣
I watched a couple Huberman UA-cam videos and picked up the sociopath vibes quickly. Plus he was twisting dubious research results.
I gave up on Huberman months ago when his advice smelled of pseudo-science. He was not credible, and now he's a bad dude? Yikes.
On the mayo, did you specify what it was for? Some people dip their french fries in it, in which case no utensils needed.
Not unique to gen -z ,40 years ago ran into worse w/ middle aged dry cleaner recommending "just put a patch on it" for a stained dress shirt and 20 years ago w/ middle aged mechanic recommending super glue to repair windshield wiper he broke. Plus, nothing compares to the lack of problem solving by previous generations that left gen-z holding the bag for the rampant environmental, economic and political catastrophes we are responsible for.
I live with a millennial for the first time in my life and can confirm everything you say. I can't begin to explain everything they do that defies logic or makes any kind of common sense otherwise I'd be here writing all day. .It is truly amazing they are able to get up, get dressed and go to work every day without hand holding involved through the entire process since they contribute exactly ZERO to the household and stay shut in their room only emerging to collect their Uber Eats order every night. I will just give one example. One time the kitchen bin was full, and they took it to the front and left it in the middle of the yard. "It was full. I didn't know what to do." No I am not making this up.
Hahahahaha!!! That. Is. Insane!
Over 30 years of therapy?? Good grief!
"Were you in middle school before you had to wipe your own butt?" 😂😂😂
I teach gez Z at the undergrad level. You're spot on.
Anybody under 25 has poor executive function. Which means they have difficulty considering other points of view and thinking logically. Their frontal lobes are not completely developed.
When Millennials were young, I went to a fast food place where the cash register was broken. I had to take out a calculator and add up my total for them.
Yeah, I’m a boomer so I know it all now. When I was in my 20s I was an idiot. So were you.
Poor executive function in our 20ies? Nah. Women's frontal lobes are fully developed in our early 20ies. They are almost fully matured by the time we leave our teens, and almost fully developed frontal lobes are not completely useless. I wish I still had the level of executive function that I had when I was 20. I ran circles around the 30-50 year olds in my office both in the execution of complex multitasking and quick decision making for hours at a time, and operated largely from working memory.
I did make some poor decisions in relation to my dating life, but that kind of poor decisions seem to be made by single people in just about every age group.
@@Kari.F. I don't think the science supports your assumption.
@@AnnNunnally I have studied the "newer" science, and the fact that I passed my introduction to neuroscience exam is all the evidence I need that the science backs me up.
@@Kari.F. Intro to neuroscience? Wow.
Andrew Huberman PhD is not a medical doctor and is an associate professor at Stanford. His meagre lab recently moved from neuroscience to the Department of Ophthalmology. Little research is being there.
Huberman researches ophthalmology, so it makes sense
Elder Gen X here. Just discovered this show not long ago and it cracks me up every time. We were feral and had to become resourceful. Love this show.
I unsubscribed from Andrew. Just had to.
The entire argument in that last segment is sadly on brand for the “kids these days” rhetoric. Of course the youths she’s complaining about should know those things, but nobody starts at the finish line, it’s a growing process, and she was probably similar to them at her age and looked at the same by older people around her
To add to that, putting extra mayo in a box is probably a protocol they have to follow, and not a sign of their own poor decision making. This woman is so entitled and privileged that she doesnt understand'any human experiences outside of her own and doesn't have a grasp of basic human understanding. As if your chicken sandwich being too dry is worth lamenting in the first place. Everything she talks about, even if its about other people, is about herself.
@@MouldySponge I fully support and agree with everything you said
Resourcefulness is a skill that is taught. If the kid doesn't know how to be resourceful it's usually because it's a skill that is underdeveloped due to opportunity or a lack of teaching from their parent/gaurdian. I feel for Gen Z, between iPad parenting and Covid, they really havent' had the opportunity to develop the same social skills that the rest of us have at their age. Everytime I interact with one I remind myself that they're behind and they need a little bit more guidance.
6 girlfriends of a millionaire. Who is lost on this power dynamic?
I think you need a bit more information. Article also included info about his science and others who he has disrespected. Once you get more info, go back and watch some of his older episodes and you'll understand how disingenuous he is
Ok, some people dip their fries in mayo. No utensils needed.
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100% and the same with banks! Don't call us, we'll call you unless you see something unusual. I don't need more services!
The problem isn't them going to therapy too much, it's them going to therapy too much and not doing any real work.
Great point. Have you noticed that some men can pick therapists who will “fan boy” or “fan girl” them? I mean, “I’m a Stanford neuroscientist and former bad boy turned internet icon….but don’t pull any punches, unknown therapist.”
16:25 Think about it like so: You never used utensils except in more formal situations. And anytime you have been eating with your friends you dipped the food in the sauce and you never thought you need something else.
Just what do people think their parents and their parents' friends thought of them as problem solvers, especially when they're young AND not in the upper 50
%?
Exactly! She’s just doing the same generational nonsense with no self awareness or grace for others. You become a problem solver, you don’t just start there. But she has a problem with meeting a young food service worker who hasn’t gotten there yet, kind of entitled and gross
I think a lot of people don't have forward -thinking skills, of any age. I don't know what the common denominator is.
Teaching “to the test” and not for understanding is probably a big part of it.
I don’t think you made clear that Huberman lied to each of the women, saying that he wanted to be in a monogamous relationship with each one. Based on that, they had unprotected sex with him. He’s a lot worse than a guy who just is sleeping with six women at the same time.
So why aren’t they talking about the fact that the accuser is under investigation by the DOJ and that’s why Hubberman got out of the relationship? The article in question neither do these “ladies” in the video mention any of this. Are the rest of the ones he was supposedly seeing also test positive? You didn’t even bother to ask any of these questions and I am not a fan of his just observing the hypocrisy….
Anyone paying attention already drew that conclusion. Also the fact that he gave anyone HPV disease KNOWINGLY is abuse in and of itself. I love how s$$ty men always " out" themselves by defending the indefensible.
Anyone paying attention knows that you don’t have to insult people when it’s not necessary. It makes people not want to have conversations with you.
I love y'all so much! Great information mixed with spot-on, unironic humor.
So he had six girlfriends at once, but only gave one of them HPV?
That's what they're going with. 👍
The others likely didn't test/have it show up on the test yet/didn't want to share that they too caught it/etc.
@@ZaraBizaraOr you just want him to be guilty so bad you are willing to ignore logic which comes as no surprise given the park and you.
Booooooo you take the top bun off and smash that shit in the box of mayonnaise. Then back on the Mchicken. “ I got a plain chicken sandwich” girl you just outed yourself
Exactly!
They didn’t sent the results by accident. It’s a federal law that when results are available to the physician, the patient also has availability of the results. Not a mistake.
Right. I get mine before hearing from the MD.
Had you ever been to a fast food restaurant before? 😅
F ANDREW HUBERMAN!
I saw him on Rogan, and that was it.
What terrible thing did he say on Rogan?
@@maesemenese you know how Rogan is... People dribble out an ooze of nonsense that melts your mind before you can defend yourself.
I don't have the strength to go back and listen again, unfortunately at this point in time.
I never liked that guy Andrew.
Keep doing these videos! ✨
I can relate to subpar customer service, and also how I and probably many others don't want to be labeled a Karen for speaking to the manager.
Then don't be a Karen.
Nuance matters. You can inform them something is wrong, without acting like Erin here with the “Just get it right the first time” argument. As if the process of learning is an on/off switch for people lol, no grace for the possibility of a new person who doesn’t know what “right the first time” is yet, and then applying that silly argument to all young people
@@Tortilla.Reform Pretty callus of them. I won't be watching this channel again.
Lots of things Andrew Huberman has said has been helpful to me. You don’t need to take everything that everyone says with 100% certainty, take what you want and leave the rest.
The last time I ever went to Shoney's they seated us (me, wife, two small children) right next to the emergency exit. The bar you push to open the door and activate the alarm was jamming into my arm. But the main point here is: I asked the waitress for some hot sauce. Don't care what kind, just bring me some hot sauce. She gave me a look of utter confusion. She came back some time later with a small dish of some substance that we concluded had been cobbled together from ketchup and hot water.
Love the show by the way. Glad I discovered your channel.
Huberman has a BA and MA in psychology but then randomly got a neurobiology PhD from UC - Davis.
You two are my therapy.
Your exclusion for your Gen Z comment is why I efn hate the whole generation labeling bullshit. You'll always find many, many exceptions to these efn generalizations that will cloud your interactions with anyone in that age category because some sociologist wants to put people age x to y in some behavior category. They can all eff off. I refuse to let anyone tell me that someone who 30 will behave like x and someone 60 will behave like y, when every behavior I've ever heard touted as being that generalizations I've seen in individuals generations removed from "that generation".
Pardon the auto correction in the comment. Generations not generalizations.
Tony Soprano said it best about too much therapy: "I came here today to tell you, in all seriousness, that I'm done. I did what you said. I gave it a lot of thought and I decided, once and for all, it's over. The truth is this therapy is a jerk-off."
Come on, give service workers a break. I worked those jobs through HS and college after class, swim practice before going home to do my homework and cook dinner. These jobs are on your feet exhausting and the customers at these jobs are awful. Either you've forgotten that or you've never worked one. Either way, stop punching down on the working class.
Thank you!
As an elder Millennial with a gen Z kid, the reason their generation has less ability is that our generation was too busy working three jobs to teach them things at home, and the education system for them was worse than it was for us. That said, if there's a youtube video on it, they'll find it. And the fortunate thing for me about being disabled and therefore home more often than not is that I've taught my kid everything I possibly can on how to do things for themselves. I don't understand why you're claiming millennials ruined everything though? That's incredibly unfair. With what power?
Thank you.
Hes a fraud professionally!!! Why doesnt anyone bring this up
Just dip the sandwich 🤷♀️
great video, your complaint about "Gen-Z" is something i've exclusively encountered with millennials...
I've watched a few of his videos. But when I saw he and another guy were having a big discussion on women's health- menopause and I couldn't go back.
"You have to pass a test on bell hooks before you can have a podcast as a white man." Yesssss! Brilliant! OMG, this might save humanity. Love it!
So, feeling uncomfortable about chastising anyone’s public identity based on how they act in their personal relationships. Everyone can get manipulated or heartbroken early in life but by midlife, I think it’s best to assume women can take care of themselves and don’t need the court of public option to make sure they aren’t bamboozled by a hot man that cheats.
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don't judge a generation on McDonalds' workers
Damn. A while back I was surfing the web about some wellness issue and Huberman popped up. I tried to give him a listen but something about him just rubbed me the wrong way. I couldn't pinpoint why....but now I get it.
Thanks! ❤
As a Clinical Scientist, usually your Doctor will call you in for results.
We call them after we determine the results, then we call the doctor, then they call you.
15:25 _If you don’t have time to do it right the first time…_
_When will you have time to do it again?_
“ The wrong people are getting too much therapy, “ is the funniest thing I’ve heard in weeks. I can’t stop laughing. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
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Dana! bell hooks reading list! I love it! Also - I've worked for feminist publishers for many years and I always reach out for blurbs on behalf of authors AND we have always published any additional blurbs (that don't fit on the back cover) in the front matter - we never tossed them. Support indie small presses! Interestingly, in my experience, it's often the big boys that thrust most of the work on authors. As we know, they l-o-o-ve profit for the least possible amount of work. Ptooey.
Disparage an entire generation of people by complaining about... A mayonnaise incident?
Yeah, and I suppose some _kids at McDonald's_ are fairly representative of the entire Gen Z population.
My friend and I work at a major land grant university system. She had a Gen Z assistant not know and not know how to find out how to copy/paste. (sigh) This person is a full BA-level graduate of a university and is a career path staff member.
They used phones not actual computers with keyboards so they don't know commands.
Girls, I love you all, but no woman would ever have multiple partners and bs someone about it, would they?
Yep, the hypocritical salt is forming a hard crust.
There are plenty of women who have never had more than one partner
Just because anyone of any gender has the ability to do that doesn't make everyone guilty of behavior that is clearly reprehensible.
Insightful and articulate commentary, “I mean…gross”.
Enough said
The scariest thing I ever heard was a teacher at a faculty meeting I was speaking at about 20-25 yrs ago say they couldn't remember the last student they had with a shred of deductive reasoning ability. This has been part of the plan. I'll counter and defend the Genx/z's as victims of the decades-old program of dumbing down the populace. In some cases these capacities - part of normal intellectual and emotional development - do not exist. The are equally incapable of empathy. This is a HUGE problem Love you gals.
Gen X here....we used to hang out late but the rule was when I was a kid, when those street lights come on your ass better be in the living room. lol. But I do remember those commercials. Thank you ladies. Very much appreciated.
15:40 I'm not gen-z, but that's easy, just try to pour it at first and then invert the box and transfer the rest.
I think you need more McDonalds experience then you would naturally react like so.
If you can go to an independent bookstore, ask a bookseller for book recommendations. A serious bookseller is worth their weight in gold. They actually read the books in stock. Sorry but book tik tokers or “influencers” are being paid. Not as reliable.
So first of all let me just say as a person who is starting a low-key literary "book report" site (we don't aim to take down, but the takedowns will happen) you're more than welcome to come and check us out when it's up and ready. 😀
Huberman is the 2024 version of Pacey from Dawson's Creek.
as an older millenial, totally agree with your "old lady advice" at the end.
Turn off email alerts. Let it be like your USPS snail mail box. Manually check your email, sort through the spam for the real, important stuff.
fyi.. the fast food industry has made the jobs so simplistic so nobody has to think. In general, customer service has been gone for decades and replaced by online shopping and robots.
36 here, definitely agree with the gen z thing. If it doesn't involve an iPad they're clueless. If you've seen Idiocracy just think of the girl at the hospital figuring out what button to press. Idiocracy is nigh
'Idiocracy' is the best movie ever. I've never even finished it because I 'cringe' (Gen-Z word) so much at how true it is. I don't want to know how it all ends.
That was excellent, thank you.
Ok but why do you need a spoon or butter knife for mayo on a burger? Can't you problem solve yourself and just squirt the mayo on the burger like it was ketchup like everyone else, since it comes in a packet?
Maybe I missed something..was it "loose" mayo in the box?
I love yall and have followed from the beginning, you make very good points, this one just seems like you wanted to be babied. Idk, maybe I'm wrong, I just don't see the issue. You asked for mayo and then got it.
Folks are paid way too little and have much too much stress and you want to complain about a want..I just think the knife or spoon was not a need...
They put loose mayonnaise in a burger box. But gave her nothing to spread it with. No squeeze packet.
Comprehension is important.
Its hard to swallow the generation after us benefiting from the compassion and patience we had to advocate to get but that only we can give…to the next generation. Also, there’s no advantage to doing something right over not learning and having the person who knows the right way to do it just do it for him or herself. Those are two different statements. The first one is meant to be sincere. The second one is calloused, but probably kinda true. I stand by both.
I love when the algorithm gods favour me and throw up a new channel. Awesome content, I've got so much catching up to do.
Is it just me or if a guy says, "I value your feedback", during a relationship or cheating conversation then run in the other direction - that sounds like Grade 1 Narcissist gaslight ing, with zero emotional appreciation.
As opposed to figuratively went to bed
Can't wait for the "This Fucking Guy" episode about Caitlyn Jenner.
the "bell hooks" test! As a white male - I confer!
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Huberman is such a charlatan! I became skeptical of his schtick when I figured out (I think I heard in Isome interview) that even though he has a position at Stanford (and can't promote himself enough about it), he doesn't have an actual academic career - he no longer does research and hasn't done any original research in YEARS. Maybe he teaches some undergrad courses? But that's not what those positions are about - at someplace like Stanford, you are expected to be conducting research at the cutting edge of your field. I wonder what his colleagues think of him. And the fact that he goes off on topics wayyyy beyond/outside of anything he could call himself an expert in - that's just gross.
So confused at that fast food worker. A lady has asked for Mayo, how much is appropriate? Idk, box full 🤷🏻♂️
Just use A-I to write a blurb. Save yourself from bothering to read the thing.
Never trusted him from second one. Something in his eyes / face just screamed the article that came out on him
Morning ladies, that McDonalds mayo incident sounds exactly like me lecturing my son after every chore had had to do & rushed it. If he took his time & did it right the 1st time w/o his cellphone in 1 hand wouldn’t have to be on his ass about it.
That part was funny to me for 2 reasons, the way she tells the story is just funny on its face but I also cannot comprehend a "Box of mayonnaise" I just do not get it why? how? does mayo come in a box? just open it up and a cardboard box with mayo in it? this sounds terrible. I must not get out much because where I'm from mayonnaise comes in a jar. or small packets... I cannot imagine this box of mayo being anything less but gross. What? in a box?
@sharkulashairstylist5505 Exactly. It doesn't come in boxes. But this yahoo scooped mayo into a hamburger/sandwich clamshell-type box, and somehow thought that was equivalent in utility to a mayo packet.🤯
@@chinnasue58People make mistakes. I bet he wasn’t properly trained or taught the right way handle those situations, or maybe he just doesn’t care, which I can’t fault them on hahah
My newest favorite podcast! You guys have it all, intelligence, humor and good looks. A nice 3 prong viewing.