@@SoulBoom you shouldnt have kept asking for her to cross her boundary. I understand asking once or twice but you repeadedly asked when it was clear she wasnt comfortable!
@@MB-zn4xw Perhaps you should focus on why you're hate watching peoples interviews and spreading your nasty, unwanted opinion. Your profile picture suggests that you're likely 40, 50s. Perhaps get a hobby?
What "boundary" & how so? She made up stories for content & attn. Seems you didnt watch the same video as everyone else😂 Really should do your hw, easy to debunk. Traumatized people dont change their stories a hundred times😂
One thing Rainn doesn’t get is Trisha literally just turns the camera on and films 😂she does not care about the lighting and it’s not that much of a process for her.
Right! It was pretty obvious to me that he didn’t do any research on Trisha before she came on the podcast otherwise he’d know that she’s notorious for her raw and real videos of her crying on her kitchen floor.
Trisha said on her pod that she didn't know how to feel about how she did in this interview but I hope she realises how impactful it is to hear her talk deeply and reflect with so much self awareness
@@maggiemay37 she has been talking like this for YEARS. How she’s changed and has such an understanding and how aware she is and how well she is doing and blah blah blah
@ilovemayo123 no exactly but it never gets old to me - plus this conversation in particular is being broadcast on a channel which quite literally is a platform about spiritual breakthroughs and healing. It's nice for her words to be received and appreciated. Plus I was lowkey just referring to how she said on her pod that this interview specifically was something she was unsure of - and she does share a few things here she's never delved into before.
@@maggiemay37 saying “I was triggered a lot” is still putting the blame on others. That’s not self-awareness. Also cosplaying religions and going thru the gift shop of their temples on TikTok is not a spiritual journey. Stop enabling racists
@@ilovemayo123 she has changed so much but she doesn’t parent her children, that house is dirty af, it is filled to the brim with hoarded trash, and her diet is still horrible. What’s worse is she’s also forcing her unhealthy ways on her kids now. Nobody is allowed to be healthy in that house. Or trasha will feel insecure.
Agreed!! Seemingly someone who doesn’t really understand ANYTHING about mental illness. Seems more like someone who is trying desperately to PROFIT off of people with mental illness, or people who have answers for mental illness issues. He’s asking Trisha Paytas to describe things like DBT therapy, and mental health buzzword terms, he either doesn’t understand who she is or he is trying desperately to poke the bear for a reaction. It’s kinda heartbreaking to see because I love them both.
@@MB-zn4xwand still lying on here. I really thought she changed for a while and was starting to like her. But I’m starting to see she just got better at hiding it. Still lying about her teachers but in the same breath saying “I disassociated I don’t remember anything” so what’s the truth at this point? In the beginning she sounds like she just memorized all the symptoms of BPD. As someone with BPD I’ve noticed she’s focused so much on the disorder more than her experiences and that’s very inauthentic . I wish somebody would interviewing her would point these issues out. UA-cam the channel “mysterious”
@@sarahaccongio4237 you question if this person is okay without realizing everything they just said is 100% true. Anyone who was once a fan of hers but isn’t can notice her lying instantly. She also tells on herself CONSTANTLY idk how ya’ll don’t pick up on her BS
Need to get offline cuz that was my first thought and it’s literally the first comment. Our brains are merging. No more original thoughts, just internet slang and catchphrases :’)
@@poca_is_dead but it's a podcast about sharing experiences of spirituality and how you found yourself. Ethan and Hila have no reason to go on the show unless he wants to talk about that one time he smoked crack.
I wish Rainn Wilson would have done a better job. Why insinuate, asssume and mocking a guest? Trisha on the other hand did a good job politely setting boundaries and being careful with her answers. Respect.
i felt the same way, i see he was trying to connect but he was not the most polite and trishas awkwardness at times you can tell shes like... yeah lol...
There’s a few things Rainn can glean from this interview. I think we’ve all picked up on moments where Trisha, very politely, declined a pointed question, or handled a comment/judgement about her with a lot of grace while still standing up for herself. It’s important to note, especially for someone who has a poddy that centres around spirituality and mental health, that not all topics are on the table. Just because someone has shared a lot of themselves in the past, doesn’t mean you’re entitled to all of them now. Usually there will be an agenda set before filming and agreed upon points of discussion, things both parties have consented to. Sometimes it’s more spontaneous than that. Either way, she was visibly uncomfortable with some of the questions and subsequent remarks Rainn made- it’s hard to imagine that if we can see it on camera, that he wouldn’t have picked up on it IRL- and when handling something as personal as that, online presence or not, you have to remain gentle and aware of boundaries. It felt a bit pushy and at points arrogant/obtuse. It’s uncool to mock Trisha’s former self, so certain she would too, who she obviously has grappled with and done a lot of work to learn from but not condemn- there’s certainly room for humour, but I feel like you let the subject lead with that one, how much are they willing to poke fun at.
I love how Trish was professional/gentle about not wanting to talk about this traumatic event from 2021. Usually she’s not so assertive but now she’s confident to put up boundaries! She also owns up to everything she has done and is willing to have a conversation about it. Also Rainn was being a bit pushy abt that question
the traumatic event of her victims holding her accountable? she's a sworn racist who along with her husband has sexually harassed dozens of people on the internet before our eyes. there is nothing she has apologized for.
Rainn felt a little condescending in this one. The repeat making fun of her for filming was so eye-roll inducing. Boomer humor and feels mean-spirited.
Idk I didn’t like the vibe of this at all; “3 years without a gigantic online breakdown, congratulations. Feel free to have one here!”, rubbed me the wrong way and I’m only 10 minutes in. That was super condescending and he sounds VERY out of touch with her history and who she is. His tone and demeanor the entire time seems condescending and like he’s just patronizing her tbh. It doesn’t seem like he has empathy or even sympathy in this situation and has the privilege of never dealing with mental health struggles. Trisha, you deserved such a more kind and empathetic and emotionally, insightful, and intelligent interviewer like you. Love Rainn but this wasn’t it 😢
hard agree with this one. I'm surprised there aren't many others picking up on his slights toward her and her mental health journey. Super disappointing
@@gianna5344 I felt the same way reading the comments! I saw a few people mention it but not many. A lot of people can’t read others, it’s definitely surprising
@@Ana-n8y1c he continuously made very passive comments that came off as judgement and low key attacking and condescending. The continuous comments about the lights that he wouldn’t let go of when she never even used lights during those sporadic moments, the sarcastic tone of saying she hasn’t had a online mental breakdown in 3 whole years and she could have one there, constantly reiterating the narcissism and I can go on. It was just all very passive aggressive, not direct attacks but the whole episodes tone is very hidden but loud judgement
Maybe depends on your take but he definitely said lots and lots of cool and positive things. He wanted her on and was genuinely interested and impressed.
I'm an H3 fan and a Trisha fan. In saying that, I really hope Ethan doesn't talk about this interview even if it's positive. Let her have her peace with this one
Right? I’m so sorry but all that was going through my head was the nazi phase that she went through? Pretending she didn’t know the holocaust happened? The rage bates she continued to push and push even though she knew she was being offensive. I just don’t feel “sorry” ? Anymore? It’s been a long Trisha journey and we have seen a lot of her true self. Kinda watched this and felt “aw she was just fake”. Just some sort of “yeah that was horrible of me” is missing. I would have loved to hear a genuine tie between the shocking behavior and her illness.
@@1samshortstuff you’re completely valid in how you feel about Trisha and in no way am I trying to change your opinion. I just wanted to defend her a little bit in your criticism of her not tying the shocking behavior to her illness effectively in the interview or showing more remorse. She has, in my opinion anyway, expressed those things very genuinely in her own content several times. Trisha has stated on her pod that she was extremely nervous in this interview, which may partially be why she didn’t engage as deeply on anything as she typically does. Just wanted to clarify that because honestly it’s a large reason why I feel comfortable supporting her today, because I completely agree that her behavior has been atrocious in the past.
The impulsiveness from posting online comes from being lonely, at least in my case. Just wanting to know someone else agrees or relates or is willing to say some supportive advice. Maybe that’s not the case for Trish, but I’ve had some episodes where I look back cringing about oversharing online, and it all comes from hurt.
Me too ❤ I have bpd and during those times I cried for help to everyone and no one was listening, so I took it to social media, and no one listened there either. All it did was embarrass me and reinforce my beliefs that I was alone. If I could go back I would do things so so differently. But we can only go forward 💖💖💖
And the fact that she came from a small town where she was bullied and then moved to LA so young I really understand why she’d rather film herself to prove she exists and that the pain is real
I have no doubt that being left alone frequently when she and Kali were children was a big factor. Her parents split when she was young, and both parents had to work to maintain their respective lives, her mom especially. Trish has said more than once that she was pretty much raised by the TV. Everything from seeing that women on TV were the ones that got love and attention to not having anyone around to teach her about nutritious food and only having takeout or very simple meals available jive with how arrested developmentally she had been for so many years. She only started cooking and eating a variety of foods after Moses showed her love and support and *consistency* . Thinking about the possibility that adult Trisha didn't really "love" plain buttered noodles but maybe it was something little Trisha *had* to eat frequently is actually pretty depressing.
Kind of offended by Rainn assuming Trisha is attention seeking for the sake of money when she posts. I’m bipolar, and whenever I start to go into a manic episode, I post waaay more on my socials. Because of this, my family has been able to catch it and make sure I’m medicated before I go too far off the edge.
@@gianna5344I don’t think he knows nothing. He’s asking questions so that if the people listening don’t know can understand what they’re talking about.
I’ve watched Trisha going on 15 years. Around the same time she was dealing with her breakdowns I was dealing with my own demons of alcoholism after my mom’s suicide. It just feels so good getting better mentally beside someone who you have seen hit the same lows as you. I’m always cheering her on behind the screen.
10:51 …. It’s not “now I’m going to have the psychotic break.” If someone said, “I had a psychotic break and I went to my place of work and screamed at coworkers.” You wouldn’t say, Well why did you go to your job then decide to have a psychotic break? They didn’t decide to break down at their job, that was just what happened during. Going online was a natural part of everyday life for Trisha, it is her work. It was her source of connection, her family, her diary etc. She didn’t set up fancy lights but even if she did, who cares. You’re not in your right mind in a break down, she could have been convinced filming herself was the best idea. That’s not how break downs work. It’s like a manic episode, Gabby Hannah didn’t decide to have a manic episode online. She had a manic episode and did what she does all the time. Filmed herself and put it online.
Ikr? It wasn't this conscious, calculated thing. She turned on her camera and recorded herself talking, something she's done MANY MANY MANY countless times throughout practically her entire adult life. MANY years of her life, she has talked to a camera nearly every single fkn day. It's not something she had to stop and think about, for her it was just a natural part of her daily life. To the point where, when she was feeling that intensely emotional, turning on the camera to share her thoughts and feelings was the most natural knee-jerk reaction for her.
Big fan of the both of you. I’m disappointed in how Rainn handled this interview. The interview lacked compassion for mental health and was quite condescending in my opinion. Please do better next time 🫶
The only reason she’s ~let it go~ is so people don’t drag up alllll the recipts. Her being abusive. Her being racist. Her being pedophilic. Moses having multiple SA allegations
I hate that in 2024 people still don’t understand mental health. You don’t understand what the f*** you’re doing until you work on yourself. I’m not saying what she did was right, but she will be the first one to say she is sorry & has made mistakes. On almost every single podcast I’ve watched of hers she says how wrong it was of her & how she was not thinking straight. I am not up her a** I’ve stopped watching her many times, and still don’t watch every single one of her videos. It’s just learning how to watch people grow. Wtf is she supposed to do? What is the exact right way to apologize & act to make YOU happy? She has apologized to every group, and said she doesn’t expect forgiveness, and for people to never forget it. Don’t watch her things if you’re upset at her. I can’t imagine being like “you know what I hate this person let me listen to them tell their personal story for an hour” lol you bored?
Idk, I don’t see it as being patronising, I think it’s just his usual tone 🙈 like resting bitch face , but he has this voice tone where everything sounded a bit sarcastic, to me personally he sounds like this even if he talks about like normal things on other videos😅 It’s like a pink person 🩷😄🌈 conversating with green person 💚🤓☕️ I personally like Trisha on her healing journey and watches her podcasts, also Rainn Wilson on the office. I do get where u r coming from, We’ve watch Trisha for years and we are also millennials and gen z, so we understand her behaviours better and it’s quite normal to us, so his questions like “ why cry on phone “etc is quite genuine and fair imo. He didn’t make her sound stupid or crazy like other male interviews she had with. (For example in comparison ,when she is with Ethan , I like H3, but sometimes it do sounded icky from Ethan’s questioning.)
@@dalhoot6438I completely agree with this. I also suffer from resting bitch voice, I could be saying something that is completely benign or being genuinely nice and it can still come across as being rude or condescending 😭 The tone he’s using in this interview is just his regular baseline voice and overall vibe. I don’t think he was trying to be condescending or snarky at all but I also get why people could take it that way.
@@dalhoot6438I get his humor, but there’s a right way & wrong way to do it. Learn who you’re talking to & your audience. When someone is obviously uncomfortable talking about their problems ON A mental health podcast. Don’t make a snarky remark after every single story she has to say. Even on her podcast she says when she interviews a guest “you don’t have to talk about this if you don’t want to” there’s a time & place, because most mentally ill people like me will make dark jokes themselves & make fun of ourselves, but when we are opening up being venerable quit it
Trisha, as someone who also has BPD, I am at a loss for words for how impactful this interview was to me. I threw out my drugs and applied for DBT Group therapy.
I cried in the first 6 minutes of this interview because I knew she would have this impact. I’m proud of you. Don’t give up, even when it’s hard. You’re worth it. 💕
@@MB-zn4xwTrisha has never done or said anything that has caused harm to cis white women that’s why they are her biggest supports and will “stick with her” no matter what she’s the Donald trump for white women lol
So I’ve never watched this podcast before and only watched for trisha, but god is this dude always this condescending?? I feel like If you have these types of podcasts you should always handle the conversation from a non-judgmental place. I’m glad trisha stood firm in her boundaries when he was pushing them.
i'm so glad i wasn't the only one who thought this. the interviewer was almost triggering me, he reminds me of past counsellors/therapists i've had that have been so pushy, mocking, and misunderstanding. it's her nervous fake smile/laugh. i don't get a good vibe from this...
I sorta felt bad because Trisha said she felt like she would be safe talking to him and was so willing to open up and take accountability for her past but it just kept feeling like he was passively attacking her and making continuous comments that weren’t true like the setting up the lights he was obsessed on
Congrats to Trisha for bringing this channel over 100k+ veiws on one video. Also queenie held herself with such grace when Rainn was mocking her mental breakdown talking about how she had to take out a camera to film it. Im glad she didn't open up to him any further about it because watching this it wasnt the "safe space" he claimed it was. This is the first time Trish has opened up about that time in her life and it was so disappointing (on Rainn's part not Trishs') how it unfolded. And to Rainn for the future try to research your guests
I honestly feel like he was hoping for a totally different reaction from Trisha for views but thankfully she held it together professionally & it didn't go that way
I love Trisha so much, that’s why I clicked. I’m really unsettled by the amount of judgment from the host towards her being online. He clearly doesn’t understand who she is. For a podcast with the word soul in its name it was utterly disappointing.
@@SoulBoom.DEAR GOD please do some research on them first... just even a few of their ear biscuits episodes on deconstruction... show some respect by understanding your guests past even the smallest bit. These are internet legends!! They deserve respect!!!!
I love how vulnerable Trisha is in this interview, and I'm happy she was able to open up, but Rainn seems so condescending and judgmental it is actually making me sad watching her open up so much and him just showing no empathy ..
I can feel her anxieties with some of the answers. Over explaining then interviewing him in some parts. Im so proud of how she opened up and also protected herself. I cannot imagine a life like this. ❤forever rooting for Trish!
@@jaimereynolds258you have multiple comments attacking this woman just on this one video.. I suggest you take some time to reflect on how YOU can better yourself and make the world a better place. Judging strangers who will never hear you will not make yourself happy🫶🏻 take care
i find it very insensitive to pressure trisha to talk about something she clearly said she was not ready to talk about. "this is a safe space" is crazy
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Your comments on Trisha recording her lowest moments were so rude. She does not turn on a ring light and put on makeup for those raw moments. What we saw on camera wasn’t even 1% of what Trisha went through.
Rainn, this was most certaintly not a safe space for Trisha to tell her story. You mocked her with your responses and fell flat on responding at all to parts to her story that were very traumatic that should've been met with a pause and validation. Before you have another vulnerable person on your show, please educate yourself and what a ''safe space" should look like.
I absolutely LOVED this!! ~ I too am a Gen X in my 50's and started watching Trisha when she was on Frenemies. ( which by the way is the event she didn't want to discuss because her husband is the brother of her cohosts wife) it was wildly popular ( my daughter who at the time was in her mid 20's got me to watch it ) I have since looked back on a lot of Trisha's videos and life and found myself also intrigued with her journey. I had a lot of sympathy for her and her journey and struggles. She has grown and changed so dramatically. She really is adorable and is an amazing mother. Her husband seems to be an amazing man and support for her. She may not think so but she is really talented and her new podcast is also wildly popular( she mentioned do this on her show tonight and that's how I found it) and am now a new subscriber! The fact that she wouldn't talk at all about frenemies except to take responsibility and blame only herself ( which isn't necessarily the truth) you should know is a positive thing, not wanted to open that door and cause any family drama for her husband and in-laws. I just love her bubbly personality and she's actually very funny. She is definitely a fascinating multi faceted woman.
Rainn Wilson saying "3 years without a gigantic online breakdown, congratulations. Feel free to have one here" and pushing her to talk about things she clearly set up boundaries to not talk about multiple times was so uncomfortable to watch. It felt like he had little to no idea who Trisha was and didn't do his research before she was on the show, especially when it came to Trisha filming her kitchen floor breakdowns. His tone felt like he was mocking her about it because he didn't have any understanding of her, her background or those videos. I couldn't get through this interview. Sorry Rainn, miss me with this one.
SUCH A GREAT EPISODE! As someone who also has clinically diagnosed mental illnesses, Trisha gives me so much hope. She is evidence that working on yourself is so important! Thank you Rainn for interviewing her! ❤
This crossover is cracking me UPPPP. someone make fan art now. Also as a person with bpd thank you for choosing to platform trisha 💕 funnily enough her mental health journey is one of the reasons ive made it to this point in life. I saw how things got better for her when it seemed impossible and decided maybe it could for me too
I’ve got bpd too and I’m very similar to Trish the way I think and act and I’m 33 now it definitely gets better 🤍🤍🤍🙏🏻 just keep going one day at a time x
@@jessicamcguckin1623 Yea I love them together, how much of the bonus content do you actually end up watching, all of it? are there comments on pattern? Sorry for all the questions im just curious lol
Yes! Thank you Rainn for giving Trisha a third party platform to share her story (outside of her own podcast- I am a podcast follower, ASMR follower, and a Patron on her Patreon extended podcast). I’m only 10 minutes in but looking forward to listening to it all today.
Love Trisha! She navigated Rainn's attempts to cross her boundaries and get her to talk about things she already said she didn't want to talk about very well! Major ick.
I actually did not think he would act like this. He is sort of coming off as this man-splainy therapist that isn’t really hearing her. He also clearly didn’t do a lot of research and I really didn’t like how he was pressing her on stuff she said she don’t want to talk about, I’m worried he did not let her in on the fact he wanted to go this deep in the podcast. And he seemed so condescending. Maybe I need to watch other episodes and this is just his normal personality but it felt off to me ! Like an interrogation LOL
Trisha you are such a queen. I appreciate the honestly and openness. It’s very apparent that you want to help others find peace and also continue on your own journey of discovery. It’s beautiful and you should be so proud of yourself ❤
The bare minimum..a mid 30s person shouldn’t be having meltdowns period. She still has them, just doesn’t show case them. Thats not growth that’s literally quite the bare minimum.
@@sarahelizabeth8585no it’s not the bare minimum she is MENTALLY ILL her norm is not your norm and there’s nothing wrong with that. If you knew of her past you would know how impressive her being able to log off is. She’s been vlogging since she was 18 before UA-cam was even popular. She was a hooker, on drugs, infertile, assaulted, etc she beat the odds u have to give her her flowers
Omg literally love Trisha so so much, she’s a big part of the reason why I started to look into my own mental health and seek help, and also a really huge reason why I decided to be kinder to myself ❤ she’s also so HILARIOUS!
@@hermes1529 oh absolutely. It’s gross that people/shows still give her a platform to speak. She should have been done when she said black people caused aids but what do I know🤷🏻♀️
Heyy, it my AA birthday today and I'm two years sober today! I have the 'birthday blues' tonight... i also have BPD and I'm on a waiting list for DBT. Thanks so much for this amazing podcast, both of you, its seeing me through the night tonight, may peace be with you all
this episode is great. it feels so nice to see someone ask trisha these types of questions and take her so seriously and just be in this type of environment where you’re just conversing to learn about someone!!!!
Shoutout to Trisha for holding boundaries and not talking about the situation. Rainn trying to farm those clicks. Trish is so right for not talking about it, a certain someone would blow that shit out of the water. Trisha is protecting her peace!
@@kiwifuzz204 the only reason she can’t talk about it is because she can’t talk about her husband’s sexual assault victims. Get help. You are literally supporting rape.
Literally sobbed watching this. I also struggle with borderline personality disorder and ptsd and hearing her talk about this made me feel so seen. Trisha paytas, they could never make me hate you.
I’m not a big fan of how this interviewer is actively TRYING to get to her name drop, and say more drama than what she should. Trisha seems a little uncomfortable with some of the questions he asked… but she did an amazing job handling the questions and putting up boundaries.
@@SoulBoom this interview was great and all but it would of been nice if you asked her about her predatory ways, why is she a man beater, why is she such a massive racist, why is did she faked being trans? why she lies about pretty much everything? why is she exploiting her daughters on sm? why did she married a rapist? why is she forcing her kids to live with an ant and rat infestation whilst breathing mold? why are you platforming a woman who lies all the time? this is ridiculous
He definitely hasn’t seen most of her old content if he said she has to wait to set up the lights and get situated *then* have a psychotic break. She was in a psychotic break and decided to film like she usually does. She’d talk through thoughts and almost used it as a video diary back then. The response felt judgmental :(
What he doesn’t understand is that during an emotional break down, you aren’t even thinking. You’re literally just DOING. She’s used to setting up her camera quickly. That would not take an ounce of energy, especially in the state of being triggered
I've been watching Trish for years. I haven't kept up with her in a couple years but I've never seen her this calm and collected ever. I'm so happy for her.
This was a great interview Rainn and Trisha. Love the discussion you both talk about of mental health and of life. The media reports tend to paint a negative pic of this interview, glad i am here to witness this beautiful exchange. This was a safe space.
this interview was a breath of fresh air 😭💕, trisha has been a constant in my life for years. i’ve had my highs and lows with her, have been a mega fan and greatly disappointed with her in the same breath. the life she has lived was chaotic and confusing, with mental health issues it always is. i’m so happy to see her prosper, grow, learn, REALLY do the work. the people who criticize who she is NOW, are criticizing her based off of the recklessness of her past, when she was truly fighting for her life everyday. i’m so glad she has learned to give herself grace, to become the person she is today. she is constantly bettering herself, for herself, her kids, her husband, her family. if you don’t agree, you’re just not paying attention.
What is her growth? She is still swirling the drains with all her issues. She now just put a pink background on it and laughs over her snark and admits to having her mental breakdowns in private.. she’s still overeating, overspending, jealous, over consuming, snarky etc.. now it’s all just ✨cutesy
OH MY GOD- THE BEST ACTUAL CROSSOVER EVER!!!!! I was feeling so anxious and was starting to spiral looking for a distraction and I saw this. THANK YOU!!!! 💖
She's always shared her ups and downs so candidly and has been a huge influence for me on my journey getting help for mental illness and healing from childhood trauma. Love you and thank you Trisha!
@@jillian5829 candidly? Her stories are different every time she tells them! People have even put together clips of the extremely wild contradictions. They can go on for HOURS.
2 persons I’ve never thought who could have such a nice talk together where both sides listen en have a honest chat. I really enjoyed this conversation, was very comforting. Sending loves from Belgium. ❤
Rainn not only seems like he misunderstands Trisha, but also is at least slightly judgmental of (his misunderstanding of) her. Not to mention him pressuring her to respond when she set a boundary.
@@zamz763 Trisha only surrounds herself with ‘yes men’. She does NOT like to be challenged in any way. She wants softball questions only. I’m surprised she went on here
@@ilovemayo123I don’t think we can make claims about who she surrounds herself with or whether they’re yes men or not (but for evidence against your claim, in this literal pod she mentioned that Moses took away all of the pills she had in the house.. that’s the opposite of a yes man). It’s not about whether Rainn is a yes man or not. It’s about whether he actually took the time to get to know her and her background before having her on, and - more importantly - about how he treats her. And I could sense the judgment (which isn’t cool if you’re inviting someone on your pod, at least if your pod is preaching spirituality etc). On top of all of that, he didn’t respect her boundaries. That’s the literal bare minimum of showing another human respect
This episode exactly is what I was hoping for and even requested since the very beginning of this podcast. 3 years psychotic breaks free over here. I am so grateful for this episode to continue to guide me on this journey.
I never miss an episode of Just Trish and just finished the Tuesday episode so decided to watch this. It’s so funny hearing trish say she wishes she was famous. She truly does not know her amazing impact and how many people truly know and support her. thanks for always being so authentic trish ❤️ This interview was very nice !
"This is a safe place, but the internet may not be" is such a polite way to set a boundary
truly 👏
@@SoulBoom you shouldnt have kept asking for her to cross her boundary. I understand asking once or twice but you repeadedly asked when it was clear she wasnt comfortable!
She says this, yet she exploits her children online daily to the Internet.
@@Chief touch grass. Maybe she shouldn’t have come on this podcast if she wanted to avoid talking about any of her billion past controversies
@@MB-zn4xw Perhaps you should focus on why you're hate watching peoples interviews and spreading your nasty, unwanted opinion. Your profile picture suggests that you're likely 40, 50s. Perhaps get a hobby?
I’m proud of your boundary saying you aren’t ready to discuss an event, Trisha. You handled that beautifully.
No he didn’t he kept undermining her breakdowns and pretty much insinuating they were staged or for attention
@@yaya44085 she admits they were for attention, so… 💁🏻♀️
@@yaya44085 cause they were lmao he can see right through Trisha’s BS just like most people can aside from you simpletons
What "boundary" & how so? She made up stories for content & attn. Seems you didnt watch the same video as everyone else😂
Really should do your hw, easy to debunk. Traumatized people dont change their stories a hundred times😂
@@mimicoolwhip5991 ok professor
One thing Rainn doesn’t get is Trisha literally just turns the camera on and films 😂she does not care about the lighting and it’s not that much of a process for her.
Right. Our phones are always in our hands, so it's not at all hard to turn on the camera and prop up the phone
Right! It was pretty obvious to me that he didn’t do any research on Trisha before she came on the podcast otherwise he’d know that she’s notorious for her raw and real videos of her crying on her kitchen floor.
@@JustineC233but we know because we watched them, that era was like almost a decade old now
Yes she literally didn’t edit back when I would watch her. If she did it was RARE
I just watched her live and she didn’t like the lighting of this episode lol
Trisha said on her pod that she didn't know how to feel about how she did in this interview but I hope she realises how impactful it is to hear her talk deeply and reflect with so much self awareness
@@maggiemay37 she has been talking like this for YEARS. How she’s changed and has such an understanding and how aware she is and how well she is doing and blah blah blah
@ilovemayo123 no exactly but it never gets old to me - plus this conversation in particular is being broadcast on a channel which quite literally is a platform about spiritual breakthroughs and healing. It's nice for her words to be received and appreciated. Plus I was lowkey just referring to how she said on her pod that this interview specifically was something she was unsure of - and she does share a few things here she's never delved into before.
@@maggiemay37 saying “I was triggered a lot” is still putting the blame on others. That’s not self-awareness. Also cosplaying religions and going thru the gift shop of their temples on TikTok is not a spiritual journey. Stop enabling racists
@@ilovemayo123 she has changed so much but she doesn’t parent her children, that house is dirty af, it is filled to the brim with hoarded trash, and her diet is still horrible. What’s worse is she’s also forcing her unhealthy ways on her kids now. Nobody is allowed to be healthy in that house. Or trasha will feel insecure.
@@asdasdwinner well said
For someone with a mental health podcast, I’m feeling a lot of judgements in some of the questions / comments
Agreed!! Seemingly someone who doesn’t really understand ANYTHING about mental illness. Seems more like someone who is trying desperately to PROFIT off of people with mental illness, or people who have answers for mental illness issues. He’s asking Trisha Paytas to describe things like DBT therapy, and mental health buzzword terms, he either doesn’t understand who she is or he is trying desperately to poke the bear for a reaction. It’s kinda heartbreaking to see because I love them both.
the way he was repeatedly asking her for specifics and joked about how she should have a psychotic break on his podcast… was weird
@@marcyyylinnomg yes when he said “you can have one here” ummmmm yeah he doesn’t give a shit about mental health he wants to profit from it
1000%
True
We never get hear Trisha talk like this! Thank you for this interview.
You’re right she’s usually sitting in her basement podcast lying the whole time
@@MB-zn4xwand still lying on here. I really thought she changed for a while and was starting to like her. But I’m starting to see she just got better at hiding it. Still lying about her teachers but in the same breath saying “I disassociated I don’t remember anything” so what’s the truth at this point? In the beginning she sounds like she just memorized all the symptoms of BPD. As someone with BPD I’ve noticed she’s focused so much on the disorder more than her experiences and that’s very inauthentic . I wish somebody would interviewing her would point these issues out. UA-cam the channel “mysterious”
@@Jessi.mari.eare you okay 😂
@@sarahaccongio4237 you question if this person is okay without realizing everything they just said is 100% true. Anyone who was once a fan of hers but isn’t can notice her lying instantly. She also tells on herself CONSTANTLY idk how ya’ll don’t pick up on her BS
@@sarahaccongio4237 are the people who are thinking she has Changed Okay????
Also hearing rainn try to understand how moses got into Trish's life is SENDING ME 😂😂😂😂😂 and her politely curbing that question
The very clear cut after they mention how she met Moses too lol something was said and not included
Because she lied how they met shocking
@HannahPowersTheUA-camr probably because she only hooked up with him so she could say she f@cked Ethans's brother in law.
Sammmeee 🤣 ran to the comments.
the "dms" lol
This was not on my 2024 bingo card! I’m seated 🪑
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😩👌👌Hope he’ll have ethan & hila next
@@poca_is_dead 💀
Need to get offline cuz that was my first thought and it’s literally the first comment. Our brains are merging. No more original thoughts, just internet slang and catchphrases :’)
@@poca_is_dead but it's a podcast about sharing experiences of spirituality and how you found yourself. Ethan and Hila have no reason to go on the show unless he wants to talk about that one time he smoked crack.
I wish Rainn Wilson would have done a better job. Why insinuate, asssume and mocking a guest? Trisha on the other hand did a good job politely setting boundaries and being careful with her answers. Respect.
could not agree more. he handled this so horribly
@@brookegawne9212 wait do you know when this happened in the interview?
i felt the same way, i see he was trying to connect but he was not the most polite and trishas awkwardness at times you can tell shes like... yeah lol...
I'm disappointed too. It felt like he didn't give her as much dignity, grace, and respect as other guests he's had on his show.
He’s condescending
There’s a few things Rainn can glean from this interview. I think we’ve all picked up on moments where Trisha, very politely, declined a pointed question, or handled a comment/judgement about her with a lot of grace while still standing up for herself. It’s important to note, especially for someone who has a poddy that centres around spirituality and mental health, that not all topics are on the table. Just because someone has shared a lot of themselves in the past, doesn’t mean you’re entitled to all of them now. Usually there will be an agenda set before filming and agreed upon points of discussion, things both parties have consented to. Sometimes it’s more spontaneous than that. Either way, she was visibly uncomfortable with some of the questions and subsequent remarks Rainn made- it’s hard to imagine that if we can see it on camera, that he wouldn’t have picked up on it IRL- and when handling something as personal as that, online presence or not, you have to remain gentle and aware of boundaries. It felt a bit pushy and at points arrogant/obtuse. It’s uncool to mock Trisha’s former self, so certain she would too, who she obviously has grappled with and done a lot of work to learn from but not condemn- there’s certainly room for humour, but I feel like you let the subject lead with that one, how much are they willing to poke fun at.
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I love how Trish was professional/gentle about not wanting to talk about this traumatic event from 2021. Usually she’s not so assertive but now she’s confident to put up boundaries! She also owns up to everything she has done and is willing to have a conversation about it. Also Rainn was being a bit pushy abt that question
I agree! In my opinion, it was the best part of the podcast to see her set those boundaries!!
AND @soulboom respecting the boundary!
Come on ! It’s protecting Moses from being exposed is why she “won’t talk about it “
The thing is her falsely accusing people of sexual harassment and Moses having allegations of sexual assault.
the traumatic event of her victims holding her accountable? she's a sworn racist who along with her husband has sexually harassed dozens of people on the internet before our eyes. there is nothing she has apologized for.
Rainn felt a little condescending in this one. The repeat making fun of her for filming was so eye-roll inducing. Boomer humor and feels mean-spirited.
I agree but maybe he didn't have Ill intent, i dunno.
Agree agree agree
to me it felt like a way to bring lightheartedness into the situation, i could be wrong but it felt like they both found humor in it
Dont read into it to much, gives clarity to why others may do it. I thought this was nice back and forth
Right? Sugar coated bullying 🥴
I didn't really appreciate the mocking undertones from the interviewer. Trish handled it so gracefully and professionally.
Lol
Yeah, he came across as a dismissive barf bag. Don't like him anymore. He fake.
Absolutely agree! He did it a few times
Almost like he did it as a favor for someone else,,,,hmmm? And I’m not sure Trish notices those things, but she will soon and she’ll be so embarrassed
She is a joke so…🤷🏼♀️
Idk I didn’t like the vibe of this at all; “3 years without a gigantic online breakdown, congratulations. Feel free to have one here!”, rubbed me the wrong way and I’m only 10 minutes in. That was super condescending and he sounds VERY out of touch with her history and who she is. His tone and demeanor the entire time seems condescending and like he’s just patronizing her tbh. It doesn’t seem like he has empathy or even sympathy in this situation and has the privilege of never dealing with mental health struggles. Trisha, you deserved such a more kind and empathetic and emotionally, insightful, and intelligent interviewer like you. Love Rainn but this wasn’t it 😢
hard agree with this one. I'm surprised there aren't many others picking up on his slights toward her and her mental health journey. Super disappointing
Yep. I don't know anything about this fella but I have no interest in watching him again.
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@@gianna5344 I felt the same way reading the comments! I saw a few people mention it but not many. A lot of people can’t read others, it’s definitely surprising
@@natashasayshow dare you disrespect the icon that gave us Dwight!😂
I hate all of rainn’s negative comments. I feel like he’s degrading her story and making her feel stupid while she’s is being so vulnerable and real.
I didn't notice him doing that
@@Ana-n8y1c he continuously made very passive comments that came off as judgement and low key attacking and condescending. The continuous comments about the lights that he wouldn’t let go of when she never even used lights during those sporadic moments, the sarcastic tone of saying she hasn’t had a online mental breakdown in 3 whole years and she could have one there, constantly reiterating the narcissism and I can go on. It was just all very passive aggressive, not direct attacks but the whole episodes tone is very hidden but loud judgement
Maybe depends on your take but he definitely said lots and lots of cool and positive things. He wanted her on and was genuinely interested and impressed.
This is huge having this actor want to interview Trish and the views are high
@@YourgirlKai333 completely agree
I'm an H3 fan and a Trisha fan. In saying that, I really hope Ethan doesn't talk about this interview even if it's positive. Let her have her peace with this one
Now you know Ethan lol. This is making his mouth water as I type this and will be an ongoing topic for weeks to come.
@@LiveANoursishedLifeliterallly this I watch h3 too and you know he’s going to talk about the skipped over part for as long as he can
Agree …. Give her peace .. she didn’t say anything to poke the bear.
@@Jessie-sp4sq agree x2, like she said, she's on a healing journey and he should be changing too!
It’s rough out here for those of us who are still fans of both.
I’m not sure why but I got super emotional when she said “I hope we all go to heaven or somewhere with love” “this can’t be it”. 😭
Definitely of “I didn’t research my guest before they came on.”
I’m sure he knew enough to know he could wing it.
Right and for those of us that know her for so many years we all feel mocked 😅😅
Right? I’m so sorry but all that was going through my head was the nazi phase that she went through? Pretending she didn’t know the holocaust happened? The rage bates she continued to push and push even though she knew she was being offensive. I just don’t feel “sorry” ? Anymore? It’s been a long Trisha journey and we have seen a lot of her true self. Kinda watched this and felt “aw she was just fake”. Just some sort of “yeah that was horrible of me” is missing. I would have loved to hear a genuine tie between the shocking behavior and her illness.
@@1samshortstuff you’re completely valid in how you feel about Trisha and in no way am I trying to change your opinion. I just wanted to defend her a little bit in your criticism of her not tying the shocking behavior to her illness effectively in the interview or showing more remorse. She has, in my opinion anyway, expressed those things very genuinely in her own content several times. Trisha has stated on her pod that she was extremely nervous in this interview, which may partially be why she didn’t engage as deeply on anything as she typically does. Just wanted to clarify that because honestly it’s a large reason why I feel comfortable supporting her today, because I completely agree that her behavior has been atrocious in the past.
The impulsiveness from posting online comes from being lonely, at least in my case. Just wanting to know someone else agrees or relates or is willing to say some supportive advice. Maybe that’s not the case for Trish, but I’ve had some episodes where I look back cringing about oversharing online, and it all comes from hurt.
Me too ❤ I have bpd and during those times I cried for help to everyone and no one was listening, so I took it to social media, and no one listened there either. All it did was embarrass me and reinforce my beliefs that I was alone. If I could go back I would do things so so differently. But we can only go forward 💖💖💖
And the fact that she came from a small town where she was bullied and then moved to LA so young I really understand why she’d rather film herself to prove she exists and that the pain is real
@@blessedbe2222bullied she was home coming queen and told him her childhood was un eventful
I have no doubt that being left alone frequently when she and Kali were children was a big factor. Her parents split when she was young, and both parents had to work to maintain their respective lives, her mom especially. Trish has said more than once that she was pretty much raised by the TV. Everything from seeing that women on TV were the ones that got love and attention to not having anyone around to teach her about nutritious food and only having takeout or very simple meals available jive with how arrested developmentally she had been for so many years. She only started cooking and eating a variety of foods after Moses showed her love and support and *consistency* . Thinking about the possibility that adult Trisha didn't really "love" plain buttered noodles but maybe it was something little Trisha *had* to eat frequently is actually pretty depressing.
Kind of offended by Rainn assuming Trisha is attention seeking for the sake of money when she posts.
I’m bipolar, and whenever I start to go into a manic episode, I post waaay more on my socials. Because of this, my family has been able to catch it and make sure I’m medicated before I go too far off the edge.
It is the truth. Shes admitted several times that she makes drama around Christmas time for the UA-cam ads that pay better during the season.
He must not watch Trish old videos because she had no production set up at all, she would be on the kitchen floor hair a mess crying
Yeah, him saying she had to set up the lights and ring light had me cackling. Our girl was free balling it in no make up and 4 day old jammies
Thats what I was thinking! lol
the kitchen floor
@@Rodviet Right?! Like i almost didn't love his approach on that.
@@Rodvietinstant flashbacks to the "sobbing on the kitchen floor identifying as a chicken nugget" video 🤣
this is why you research your subject before interviewing 😭
agreed, he knows nothing and it shows lol
@@gianna5344I don’t think he knows nothing. He’s asking questions so that if the people listening don’t know can understand what they’re talking about.
@@katnikkerkayla no he knows nothing... he literally missed the entire point of so many things the audience got.
I’ve watched Trisha going on 15 years. Around the same time she was dealing with her breakdowns I was dealing with my own demons of alcoholism after my mom’s suicide. It just feels so good getting better mentally beside someone who you have seen hit the same lows as you. I’m always cheering her on behind the screen.
SAME, always
10:51 …. It’s not “now I’m going to have the psychotic break.”
If someone said, “I had a psychotic break and I went to my place of work and screamed at coworkers.” You wouldn’t say, Well why did you go to your job then decide to have a psychotic break? They didn’t decide to break down at their job, that was just what happened during.
Going online was a natural part of everyday life for Trisha, it is her work. It was her source of connection, her family, her diary etc. She didn’t set up fancy lights but even if she did, who cares. You’re not in your right mind in a break down, she could have been convinced filming herself was the best idea. That’s not how break downs work. It’s like a manic episode, Gabby Hannah didn’t decide to have a manic episode online. She had a manic episode and did what she does all the time. Filmed herself and put it online.
Yeah a couple moments have rubbed me the wrong way so far (still watching ATM)
100% he came across veryyyyy condescending
Ikr? It wasn't this conscious, calculated thing. She turned on her camera and recorded herself talking, something she's done MANY MANY MANY countless times throughout practically her entire adult life. MANY years of her life, she has talked to a camera nearly every single fkn day. It's not something she had to stop and think about, for her it was just a natural part of her daily life. To the point where, when she was feeling that intensely emotional, turning on the camera to share her thoughts and feelings was the most natural knee-jerk reaction for her.
Trisha exploits every single aspect of her life even her own children. She will do anything for the clicks. Please give it a rest.
Can everyone hop off Trisha’s lap and think for a sec, get off the internet and stop recording yourself daily, this is what you’ll turn into
Big fan of the both of you. I’m disappointed in how Rainn handled this interview. The interview lacked compassion for mental health and was quite condescending in my opinion. Please do better next time 🫶
Ethan, if you’re reading this, just let it go man
😂😂😂😂😂
you know he's watched every second of this
His brother in law is a rapist. Hard to let that go.
@@Emily-ju9frwhere did he say this?
The only reason she’s ~let it go~ is so people don’t drag up alllll the recipts. Her being abusive. Her being racist. Her being pedophilic. Moses having multiple SA allegations
Trish is so complex and doesn’t get enough credit. She’s a gem. Thanks for having her on, Rainn.
She really isn’t “complex” she’s narcissistic.
@@jgirl982gurl🙄🙄🙄
@@jgirl982 complex aka nuts
she is an absolute gem that is exactly the word I use when I think of her
He’s a bit condescending, like we know she didn’t make the best decisions in life, but no need to downplay them
She's a grown woman who doesn't know you, touch some grass. It's not that deep
@@shan.69 ummm it's very deep! It's her life! Her mental health! Show some respect dude.
@@truecrimenwine489 her life! Her mental health! Her problem! Respect is earned and im not respecting a clown!
I hate that in 2024 people still don’t understand mental health. You don’t understand what the f*** you’re doing until you work on yourself. I’m not saying what she did was right, but she will be the first one to say she is sorry & has made mistakes. On almost every single podcast I’ve watched of hers she says how wrong it was of her & how she was not thinking straight. I am not up her a** I’ve stopped watching her many times, and still don’t watch every single one of her videos. It’s just learning how to watch people grow. Wtf is she supposed to do? What is the exact right way to apologize & act to make YOU happy? She has apologized to every group, and said she doesn’t expect forgiveness, and for people to never forget it. Don’t watch her things if you’re upset at her. I can’t imagine being like “you know what I hate this person let me listen to them tell their personal story for an hour” lol you bored?
I don’t necessarily appreciate his patronizing tone towards a lot of her story.
So glad you said this because i felt so uncomfortable throughout this as such a Trisha fan! Didnt feel genuine and felt he was mocking her at parts
Idk, I don’t see it as being patronising, I think it’s just his usual tone 🙈 like resting bitch face , but he has this voice tone where everything sounded a bit sarcastic, to me personally he sounds like this even if he talks about like normal things on other videos😅
It’s like a pink person 🩷😄🌈 conversating with green person 💚🤓☕️
I personally like Trisha on her healing journey and watches her podcasts, also Rainn Wilson on the office. I do get where u r coming from, We’ve watch Trisha for years and we are also millennials and gen z, so we understand her behaviours better and it’s quite normal to us, so his questions like “ why cry on phone “etc is quite genuine and fair imo. He didn’t make her sound stupid or crazy like other male interviews she had with. (For example in comparison ,when she is with Ethan , I like H3, but sometimes it do sounded icky from Ethan’s questioning.)
@@dalhoot6438I completely agree with this. I also suffer from resting bitch voice, I could be saying something that is completely benign or being genuinely nice and it can still come across as being rude or condescending 😭 The tone he’s using in this interview is just his regular baseline voice and overall vibe. I don’t think he was trying to be condescending or snarky at all but I also get why people could take it that way.
@@dalhoot6438I get his humor, but there’s a right way & wrong way to do it. Learn who you’re talking to & your audience. When someone is obviously uncomfortable talking about their problems ON A mental health podcast. Don’t make a snarky remark after every single story she has to say. Even on her podcast she says when she interviews a guest “you don’t have to talk about this if you don’t want to” there’s a time & place, because most mentally ill people like me will make dark jokes themselves & make fun of ourselves, but when we are opening up being venerable quit it
Trisha, as someone who also has BPD, I am at a loss for words for how impactful this interview was to me. I threw out my drugs and applied for DBT Group therapy.
you should be so proud of yourself that is a huge step
It’s a long road ahead. You took the first step, which is the most important part. I hope you find the peace you are searching for 🙏🏻
You got this!
I cried in the first 6 minutes of this interview because I knew she would have this impact. I’m proud of you. Don’t give up, even when it’s hard. You’re worth it. 💕
I’ve followed Trisha since the beginning and always stuck with her thru everything I love seeing her so healed 🤞🏻
Same!!!
That’s so sweet you stuck with her through all of her racist and domestic abusing eras❤❤
@@MB-zn4xwTrisha has never done or said anything that has caused harm to cis white women that’s why they are her biggest supports and will “stick with her” no matter what she’s the Donald trump for white women lol
@@MB-zn4xwyou must not be a very forgiving person.
@@Rosierosie7She's exploiting her children and STILL LYING!!!! Through this entire thing...
So I’ve never watched this podcast before and only watched for trisha, but god is this dude always this condescending?? I feel like If you have these types of podcasts you should always handle the conversation from a non-judgmental place. I’m glad trisha stood firm in her boundaries when he was pushing them.
i'm so glad i wasn't the only one who thought this. the interviewer was almost triggering me, he reminds me of past counsellors/therapists i've had that have been so pushy, mocking, and misunderstanding. it's her nervous fake smile/laugh. i don't get a good vibe from this...
I sorta felt bad because Trisha said she felt like she would be safe talking to him and was so willing to open up and take accountability for her past but it just kept feeling like he was passively attacking her and making continuous comments that weren’t true like the setting up the lights he was obsessed on
You can tell by the way he talks to guests when he thinks he’s better than them. He never talks to his male guests like this.
His whole vibe was kind of “eugh you WANT to be famous? That’s so shallow” when he’s doing more or less the same thing??
@@TimeMovie93150then why are you still watching?
Congrats to Trisha for bringing this channel over 100k+ veiws on one video.
Also queenie held herself with such grace when Rainn was mocking her mental breakdown talking about how she had to take out a camera to film it. Im glad she didn't open up to him any further about it because watching this it wasnt the "safe space" he claimed it was. This is the first time Trish has opened up about that time in her life and it was so disappointing (on Rainn's part not Trishs') how it unfolded.
And to Rainn for the future try to research your guests
Her "mental breakdown" is a lie.
Rainn - this isn’t a “safe place” this is your podcast and you want views. Gross.
I honestly feel like he was hoping for a totally different reaction from Trisha for views but thankfully she held it together professionally & it didn't go that way
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he definitely was@@jodyferguson3430
I’m actually stunned you pulled Trisha for this interview. This is such a better option than basic influencer interviews.
I love Trisha so much, that’s why I clicked. I’m really unsettled by the amount of judgment from the host towards her being online. He clearly doesn’t understand who she is. For a podcast with the word soul in its name it was utterly disappointing.
Why do you love this narcissistic compulsive liar?
Thank you! Couldn't have said it any better myself!!
Wait, wasn’t she called just Trish? Like she would say Trish like fish? Or she changed her name to Trisha?
“Searching for an identity” is such a great way to encompass Trisha
Still not over Trisha streaming herself having no thoughts. 🦄
😂😂😂 she's wild, that's for sure
Icon living
This was wonderful! Thank you for having our queen on 🫶🏼
she is a living ICON
you mean when she was using meditation to dodge accountability for having FALSELY accused a dead teacher of SA?
The conversation you'd have with Rhett and Link!!! Needs to happen. You won't regret it
stay tuned 👀
@@SoulBoom hell yeah!! 🫶🏻🫶🏻
@@SoulBoomYES
YESSS
@@SoulBoom.DEAR GOD please do some research on them first... just even a few of their ear biscuits episodes on deconstruction... show some respect by understanding your guests past even the smallest bit. These are internet legends!! They deserve respect!!!!
Only here for Trisha, but No means NO Rainn. No is a full sentence. If she doesn’t want to talk about it. That’s it. Move on 😡
I love how vulnerable Trisha is in this interview, and I'm happy she was able to open up, but Rainn seems so condescending and judgmental it is actually making me sad watching her open up so much and him just showing no empathy ..
the most unexpected crossover
this is what it's like when SOULS collide!!
Powerman 5000 reference?!
I'm ready to go, tooth ache or no
YAY! This crossover is EVERYTHING.
we needed this.
This interviewer is shyte.
I can feel her anxieties with some of the answers. Over explaining then interviewing him in some parts. Im so proud of how she opened up and also protected herself. I cannot imagine a life like this. ❤forever rooting for Trish!
Because she’s lying?????? Lmao
She has to make sure to get her stories and lies straight. She talks in fast circles.
@@jaimereynolds258you have multiple comments attacking this woman just on this one video.. I suggest you take some time to reflect on how YOU can better yourself and make the world a better place. Judging strangers who will never hear you will not make yourself happy🫶🏻 take care
@@samantha-sr7rm So you don't judge a woman that has physically attacked her partners? Would you if she were a man?
@@Hannahxmariex97 came here to say the same thing!
i find it very insensitive to pressure trisha to talk about something she clearly said she was not ready to talk about. "this is a safe space" is crazy
Oh shut tf up, like Trisha hasn’t pressured people to talk about things they were uncomfortable with herself.
ew it gave manipulation ngl
like... she just met this man
Hmm...Trisha has outed someone out of spite and to hurt the person. Now that is insensitive and diabolical.
This
Journals to Keep:
-Secrets: ex. Secrets to have a good day
-Gratitude: ex. What was given to me
-Wild Wishes: ex. Lottery
-Daily Journal: ex. What was done today
Your comments on Trisha recording her lowest moments were so rude. She does not turn on a ring light and put on makeup for those raw moments. What we saw on camera wasn’t even 1% of what Trisha went through.
I don’t think Rainn meant it but he came across condescending at points when speaking to her idk he should work on his tone. Just to be honest
I think he meant it.
Rainn, this was most certaintly not a safe space for Trisha to tell her story. You mocked her with your responses and fell flat on responding at all to parts to her story that were very traumatic that should've been met with a pause and validation. Before you have another vulnerable person on your show, please educate yourself and what a ''safe space" should look like.
I absolutely LOVED this!! ~ I too am a Gen X in my 50's and started watching Trisha when she was on Frenemies. ( which by the way is the event she didn't want to discuss because her husband is the brother of her cohosts wife) it was wildly popular ( my daughter who at the time was in her mid 20's got me to watch it ) I have since looked back on a lot of Trisha's videos and life and found myself also intrigued with her journey. I had a lot of sympathy for her and her journey and struggles. She has grown and changed so dramatically. She really is adorable and is an amazing mother. Her husband seems to be an amazing man and support for her. She may not think so but she is really talented and her new podcast is also wildly popular( she mentioned do this on her show tonight and that's how I found it) and am now a new subscriber! The fact that she wouldn't talk at all about frenemies except to take responsibility and blame only herself ( which isn't necessarily the truth) you should know is a positive thing, not wanted to open that door and cause any family drama for her husband and in-laws. I just love her bubbly personality and she's actually very funny.
She is definitely a fascinating multi faceted woman.
Beautifully said ❤
Now Rainn needs to be on Just Trish!!! Please!!
@@sophiamarie3558 she asked he said no 🤣.. he don’t wanna commit career suicide
Trisha’s “well the lights weren’t on” come back comment is giving “oh I got a point” … quick and funny as always ❤ 10:41
Rainn Wilson saying "3 years without a gigantic online breakdown, congratulations. Feel free to have one here" and pushing her to talk about things she clearly set up boundaries to not talk about multiple times was so uncomfortable to watch. It felt like he had little to no idea who Trisha was and didn't do his research before she was on the show, especially when it came to Trisha filming her kitchen floor breakdowns. His tone felt like he was mocking her about it because he didn't have any understanding of her, her background or those videos. I couldn't get through this interview. Sorry Rainn, miss me with this one.
She beat up her husband, who gives af
SUCH A GREAT EPISODE! As someone who also has clinically diagnosed mental illnesses, Trisha gives me so much hope. She is evidence that working on yourself is so important! Thank you Rainn for interviewing her! ❤
I kinda feel like rainn isn’t taking her seriously but I know Trish and she’s being so professional
She’s never done anything to show anyone should take her seriously. Rainn can probably see right through her bullshit.
@@gkhumphries It is very easy to see through. I don't understand how so many don't.
why should he? she's a clown.
@@user-ss8ih3bk2m cool and you’re a troll
@@andreaaceves7805so anyone that doesn’t agree with you is a troll
This crossover is cracking me UPPPP. someone make fan art now. Also as a person with bpd thank you for choosing to platform trisha 💕 funnily enough her mental health journey is one of the reasons ive made it to this point in life. I saw how things got better for her when it seemed impossible and decided maybe it could for me too
I’ve got bpd too and I’m very similar to Trish the way I think and act and I’m 33 now it definitely gets better 🤍🤍🤍🙏🏻 just keep going one day at a time x
I love Trisha Paytas! Such an amazing guest!! ❤🎉
Genuinely this was a really good episode. Seeing Trisha happy makes me happy, I wish her a wonderful healing journey ❤️
This came out at the perfect time. I had a horrible day and Trisha is my comfort watch. I love her for being open about her experience ❤
Trish is also my comfort watch, her podcast is my favorite way to unwind and laugh
@@Chief yes she always makes me laugh! And Oscar too ❤️❤️
@@jessicamcguckin1623 Yea I love them together, how much of the bonus content do you actually end up watching, all of it? are there comments on pattern? Sorry for all the questions im just curious lol
Why are you being so condescending, Rainn?
Yes! Thank you Rainn for giving Trisha a third party platform to share her story (outside of her own podcast- I am a podcast follower, ASMR follower, and a Patron on her Patreon extended podcast). I’m only 10 minutes in but looking forward to listening to it all today.
so glad to hear! have a feeling you’re gonna like this one 🙏🙌
@@SoulBoomyou’re nasty for platforming a Zionist. And someone who has a history of spousal abuse????? That’s fucking insane.
To triple down on her lies. Lovely.
hows the patreon? Ive considered subscribing, really love trish so much and proud of her journey
@@Chiefit’s the same as the podcast, just extended. And the bonus videos are usually similar but they’ll also try food or play games while chatting.
Love Trisha! She navigated Rainn's attempts to cross her boundaries and get her to talk about things she already said she didn't want to talk about very well! Major ick.
frrr it was hard to watch
I actually did not think he would act like this. He is sort of coming off as this man-splainy therapist that isn’t really hearing her. He also clearly didn’t do a lot of research and I really didn’t like how he was pressing her on stuff she said she don’t want to talk about, I’m worried he did not let her in on the fact he wanted to go this deep in the podcast. And he seemed so condescending. Maybe I need to watch other episodes and this is just his normal personality but it felt off to me ! Like an interrogation LOL
@@sarahlikesmusic7347 totally agree!!
@@Julia-bb9my seriously! 💯
Trisha you are such a queen. I appreciate the honestly and openness. It’s very apparent that you want to help others find peace and also continue on your own journey of discovery. It’s beautiful and you should be so proud of yourself ❤
I understand her a lot better now. I'm glad she did this interview. And oddly Rain Wilson was a good fit as someone who could interview her.
Anyone else remember on frenemies when she said Dwight was the worst character on the office 😅😅😅
I think she meant like Dwight’s personality was annoying, not the actor himself😂
NO WAY, I am 10000% here for trish and rain talking it out!
Congrats on 3 years without a public meltdown Trisha ❤
Just in private now (she says this)
The bare minimum..a mid 30s person shouldn’t be having meltdowns period. She still has them, just doesn’t show case them. Thats not growth that’s literally quite the bare minimum.
@@SkarGig lets not celebrate racist white women for doing less than the bare minimum challenge: failed
@@sarahelizabeth8585she’s a literal child.
@@sarahelizabeth8585no it’s not the bare minimum she is MENTALLY ILL her norm is not your norm and there’s nothing wrong with that. If you knew of her past you would know how impressive her being able to log off is. She’s been vlogging since she was 18 before UA-cam was even popular. She was a hooker, on drugs, infertile, assaulted, etc she beat the odds u have to give her her flowers
Omg literally love Trisha so so much, she’s a big part of the reason why I started to look into my own mental health and seek help, and also a really huge reason why I decided to be kinder to myself ❤ she’s also so HILARIOUS!
love this 🙏 she’s had a fascinating journey and we loved digging deep on this one!
@@SoulBoom CLEARLY you didn’t do your research on her.
@@dms6384bro get a life
@@dms6384 Lazy Journalism 😂
@@hermes1529 oh absolutely. It’s gross that people/shows still give her a platform to speak. She should have been done when she said black people caused aids but what do I know🤷🏻♀️
Heyy, it my AA birthday today and I'm two years sober today!
I have the 'birthday blues' tonight...
i also have BPD and I'm on a waiting list for DBT.
Thanks so much for this amazing podcast, both of you, its seeing me through the night tonight,
may peace be with you all
2 years sober is great! Good job! Should be very proud of yourself ❤
I've been sober since October 2011.
Much love to you!
Happy birthday and congratulations!!!! ❤🎉
Awww thanks so much jaimereynolds and angeliccacarrasco 🥳✨
I hope you both have a wonderful day!
@@xxicedxxjemxx congratulations!!!!
@@skinnylegend-7330 thanks so much 🎉🎉🎉
this episode is great. it feels so nice to see someone ask trisha these types of questions and take her so seriously and just be in this type of environment where you’re just conversing to learn about someone!!!!
Shoutout to Trisha for holding boundaries and not talking about the situation. Rainn trying to farm those clicks. Trish is so right for not talking about it, a certain someone would blow that shit out of the water. Trisha is protecting her peace!
@@kiwifuzz204 the only reason she can’t talk about it is because she can’t talk about her husband’s sexual assault victims. Get help. You are literally supporting rape.
YES!!
Literally sobbed watching this. I also struggle with borderline personality disorder and ptsd and hearing her talk about this made me feel so seen. Trisha paytas, they could never make me hate you.
Love this, just the most unexpected 😂 I love Trish (and Rainn)
we love to keep it spicy 🌶️
@@SoulBoomlike what? Beating up your husband during a fight? Or referring to yourself as a “pedophile”???
LOVED hearing her meditation prayer routine. The silent meditation and how she described that was beautiful.
It’s all lies. If her lips are moving and there’s sound coming out, she’s lying.
@@gkhumphriestouch grass
@@blessedbe2222 because I’m telling the truth lol? Weird take.
Must be fun to be a "mom" and spend 5 hours in silence. Moseta is really a single parent at the end of the day
@@Banana12813 her kids are happy and healthy you are just miserable
trisha is actually so knowledgeable about so many things i love her
I’m not a big fan of how this interviewer is actively TRYING to get to her name drop, and say more drama than what she should. Trisha seems a little uncomfortable with some of the questions he asked… but she did an amazing job handling the questions and putting up boundaries.
What is this cancellation he keeps asking her about?
This... Somehow completes me 🥺 My favourite 2 worlds colliding EVER!
strap in!! 💺
I KNOWW IM LOVIN IT
@@SoulBoom this interview was great and all but it would of been nice if you asked her about her predatory ways, why is she a man beater, why is she such a massive racist, why is did she faked being trans? why she lies about pretty much everything? why is she exploiting her daughters on sm? why did she married a rapist? why is she forcing her kids to live with an ant and rat infestation whilst breathing mold? why are you platforming a woman who lies all the time? this is ridiculous
He definitely hasn’t seen most of her old content if he said she has to wait to set up the lights and get situated *then* have a psychotic break. She was in a psychotic break and decided to film like she usually does. She’d talk through thoughts and almost used it as a video diary back then. The response felt judgmental :(
What he doesn’t understand is that during an emotional break down, you aren’t even thinking. You’re literally just DOING. She’s used to setting up her camera quickly. That would not take an ounce of energy, especially in the state of being triggered
You guys reminded me that even though my grandfather passed and left my grandmother alone he was reunited with his 2 children he had lost. Thank you
I've been watching Trish for years. I haven't kept up with her in a couple years but I've never seen her this calm and collected ever. I'm so happy for her.
Proud of you Trish 💖💖 ! the interviewer not so much …
is it me or is that man sarcastic and back handed af
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This was a great interview Rainn and Trisha. Love the discussion you both talk about of mental health and of life. The media reports tend to paint a negative pic of this interview, glad i am here to witness this beautiful exchange. This was a safe space.
this interview was a breath of fresh air 😭💕, trisha has been a constant in my life for years. i’ve had my highs and lows with her, have been a mega fan and greatly disappointed with her in the same breath. the life she has lived was chaotic and confusing, with mental health issues it always is. i’m so happy to see her prosper, grow, learn, REALLY do the work. the people who criticize who she is NOW, are criticizing her based off of the recklessness of her past, when she was truly fighting for her life everyday. i’m so glad she has learned to give herself grace, to become the person she is today. she is constantly bettering herself, for herself, her kids, her husband, her family. if you don’t agree, you’re just not paying attention.
What is her growth? She is still swirling the drains with all her issues. She now just put a pink background on it and laughs over her snark and admits to having her mental breakdowns in private.. she’s still overeating, overspending, jealous, over consuming, snarky etc.. now it’s all just ✨cutesy
Has there been a SoulBoom Hank Green collaboration yet? I’d love to hear the convo Rainn and Hank could have!
I love your podcast and how open people are about their mental health.
love hearing this 🥹🙏
She is STILL lying
@@RACHELLEflo she is not lying☠️ she’s filmed it all since she was 18 see for yourself
Two people I’d never imagine sharing such deep conversation. I love you both and this interview was such a treat to watch. Thank you.
OH MY GOD- THE BEST ACTUAL CROSSOVER EVER!!!!! I was feeling so anxious and was starting to spiral looking for a distraction and I saw this. THANK YOU!!!! 💖
i relate so hard to a lot of what she’s saying about borderline. i didn’t know i had it until this year. thank u for speaking trisha!!!!!
🙌
She's always shared her ups and downs so candidly and has been a huge influence for me on my journey getting help for mental illness and healing from childhood trauma. Love you and thank you Trisha!
@@jillian5829 candidly? Her stories are different every time she tells them! People have even put together clips of the extremely wild contradictions. They can go on for HOURS.
This scratched an itch in my brain I didn't know I had, thank you.
Wow proud of trisha for talking about it but also holding boundaries. everyone from that situation has something to learn
2 persons I’ve never thought who could have such a nice talk together where both sides listen en have a honest chat. I really enjoyed this conversation, was very comforting. Sending loves from Belgium. ❤
Rainn not only seems like he misunderstands Trisha, but also is at least slightly judgmental of (his misunderstanding of) her. Not to mention him pressuring her to respond when she set a boundary.
@@zamz763 Trisha only surrounds herself with ‘yes men’. She does NOT like to be challenged in any way. She wants softball questions only. I’m surprised she went on here
@@ilovemayo123I don’t think we can make claims about who she surrounds herself with or whether they’re yes men or not (but for evidence against your claim, in this literal pod she mentioned that Moses took away all of the pills she had in the house.. that’s the opposite of a yes man). It’s not about whether Rainn is a yes man or not. It’s about whether he actually took the time to get to know her and her background before having her on, and - more importantly - about how he treats her. And I could sense the judgment (which isn’t cool if you’re inviting someone on your pod, at least if your pod is preaching spirituality etc). On top of all of that, he didn’t respect her boundaries. That’s the literal bare minimum of showing another human respect
Trisha saying chills when he did Eckhart Tolle's voice lmaooo 18:52
I so appreciate hearing Trish in this environment. She’s basically raised me and it makes me so happy to see her so calm soft spoken and fully present
This episode exactly is what I was hoping for and even requested since the very beginning of this podcast. 3 years psychotic breaks free over here. I am so grateful for this episode to continue to guide me on this journey.
I never miss an episode of Just Trish and just finished the Tuesday episode so decided to watch this. It’s so funny hearing trish say she wishes she was famous. She truly does not know her amazing impact and how many people truly know and support her. thanks for always being so authentic trish ❤️ This interview was very nice !
I felt Rainn was very belittling in this interview. Disappointing.
I can’t explain how incredibly proud I am of Trisha. I lover her 🥲 Thank you Rainn