Incel Discussion: My Rational Incel Philosophy
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- Опубліковано 30 кві 2024
- Being that I'm not talented at presentation, this may not be a particularly organized or precisely coherent ramble, but I want to talk about and introduce a concept I consider to be my own self description: the rational incel. Or "The Rational Incel Philosophy."
The term incel has been completely taken away by the internet. I make the comparison that just as say a religious belief has both the practical followers compared to the extremists, I believe incel life is exactly the same. The internet focuses that term and it's meaning on the words and behaviors of a subset of people, the extremists. What about the rest of us...the guys who are just trying to live their lives in relative peace, but have had a lifetime of either feeling or being (or both) completely unwanted, easily forgettable, and for any VAST number of reasons unable to attract someone and have a relationship? Well....I believe those guys are actually the majority of true incels and the rest are internet a**holes who put on a show and spew alot of unnecessary hatred and ridiculousness all the way around.
I argue that it is in fact possible to evolve oneself beyond this need for human connection period. It took getting to middle age before I realized that some people are just not cut out for certain things no matter how much they want to be and dedicate themselves to trying to be. Basically, once you learn to give up on what you can't have, and move on to what you can, move on to finding peace and solace in solitude and most importantly within your own skin, you can perhaps be defined in the most base and technical sense as an incel...but not act or exist like an internet defined "incel." "Are you a Volcel?" The notion and the real thing are as different as night and day. "Volcels." Internet people who attach "cel" to the end of their words and actually speak with terms like "normie" or "roastie" are the very fools that will always suffer because they won't stand up to the bully of their own emotions. They just won't. They instead get triggered and hate other people as a result. I personally prefer to not be that weak. Anyway, a VOLCEL, the internet version part of these communities that spew hate and ignorant sh*t all day long claim similarly to me that they have given up, or even hate women so much that they want nothing to do with them at all and CHOOSE for themselves to celibate. It's a show, sometimes called "MGTOW." Conversely, I hate no woman simply because I can't fit into their ideas of desirable, I can't blame someone else for that. I suppose in some sense I am voluntarily celibate at this point because I gave up a long time ago. I have no use for sex, or use for dedicating myself to benefiting someone else by radically changing everything about who I am. It doesn't work that, and never has for anyone at the end of the day.
I've been alone for so much of my life that some of what I describe...the internet incels would classify as a volcel. Maybe they're right at the end of the day, because by this point in my life, I have long since quite caring. If anything perhaps I became a "volcel" by being an incel for so very long, but regardless, I will attempt in this video to explain a brief version of my understanding of the black pill, and how it has brought clarity and peace to my existence. If all you're itching to do though is argue and hate and of course TROLL, then have at it. I have nothing further I can say to you. Otherwise, maybe there's an off-chance at least one other man might understand and at least consider what I'm saying. That is all.
Whats the point of going to the gym, in a practical sense as opposed to just for looks? Well... there is that whole physical health / longevity thing, you know...
Thank you for the enlightened presentation. I do think that working out can significantly improve one's mental health. I'm talking just day to day mood stability. I think part of why so many of us guys spend so much time alone is because we either as an adaptation, or through routine, have acquired the talent of taking up hobbies and interests that can be done independently of others. That in and of itself is not a bad thing, and maybe makes us more self reliant. I agree also that as one gets older, dealing with women seems often more trouble and more of an investment than it is ultimately worth. To a large degree, our government and society don't seem to respect men and in fact go out of their way to mock and belittle them. Our self esteem must therefore come from within. :)
This video is just a somewhat poor attempt to explain my rationale as a middle aged man who has lived the incel life, even as an outcast of a child let alone as a wholly undesirable adult. Just dropping this comment to say that if you're down to argue or troll, don't be heartbroken when your comment is ignored. I don't need to justify anything to anybody. Otherwise, hope I can help at least one person somewhere in the world accept and rationalize so they can move forward with themselves instead of letting the bully keep them in anguish.
Being Incel is like being confronted with the death of a loved one. In this case, the death of the hope for love itself. Those experiencing grief go through 5 emotional stages: denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance.
Love the videos homie
Hey man just want to say you are clearly very intelligent, and well articulated. You seem to have things people and women (if you're into women) would value. You seem to be focusing on the qualities you have that find less attractive.
thank you so much for this video. it really helped me to feel that im not the only person who live with these thoughts
hey man i hope you're ok, i have felt similar to this in the past, all through school until college tbh, but dont give up if u try putting yourself out there u can find people you fit in with u seem knowledgeable very interesting and confident enough to post urself online u should give yourself more credit. be careful tho not that it matters what i think but i feel incel culture is very dangerous and can drag u down stopping u from rlly experiencing alot of things you otherwise would in life.
Homeboy I know like 3 women right now who’d worship you.
You seem at peace
Attraction based mating doesnt work to scale. Most men past 35 are getting a mail order bride/paying a dowry
wait Brando?
Man I think you’re being too harsh on yourself “I’m not funny, I’m not good looking” can’t be talking to yourself like that, I used to do it and still do sometimes but try catch yourself on it. You’re chillin bro got get out there can see a lot of bands on your battle jacket. Get to a concert or go to a festival meet some people with similar interest idk. Keep your chin up as my dad says. Only live once after all cya bro 🙂
When I was still single, I could only approach women I like after enough drinks. Usually works for getting dates and the like.