As someone who gets intrusive thoughts I just wanna clearify that they're not just thoughts that are unrelated to what you're doing. Random intrusive thoughts while intimate might be more like imagining strangling your partner or violating their consent. They're thoughts that disturb you, that's kinda the point of them. So I'd tweak that point of the video to "getting distracted" because that's what you're describing there 😅
Or noticing every tiny thing and perfectly imperfect aspect of your s/o and seeing lots of symbolism in the day to day quirks that make your s/o oh so adorable. I could be here all night ngl
i often start forming logical arguments and hypotheses regarding various topics when I'm gettin' down with my partner. it's a genuine struggle to keep my head where my body is but on the bright side, I've made him laugh so many times with comments and witty contextual one liners during the do or after it that he typically ends up in a belly-aching laughter so i think it's also a win
I'm 23 rn and my life was so unstructured and chaotic that I was feeling miserable. I always tried to fix old mistakes, while new stuff was piling up, so I wasn't able to progress and get out of that depressive hole. Now with therapy and meds I'm able to buils structure, organise my life and be finally feel better! Please do an adhd evaluation. It's for your own benefit and your life :).
Online search might aid, though some of the places are kinda sketch or kinda completely-crap. But yeah, you might be able to find a way to get in contact with professional aid or support groups, charities, internet spaces and so on that include undiagnosed members, I'd search up some and reference but most groups like that are often national and vary between countries.
I used Focusmate to help me feel connected while staying productive. It’s based on the concept of body doubling which proves to be helpful with many ADHDers who really want to do better. There are many resources in the ADHD community, don’t be discouraged just keep learning skills that WORK FOR YOU! Don’t listen to people who teach you skills you can’t do and then get more discouraged and self blame. Find the ones that work!
I relate completely. I've been through everything i've just reported and let me be clear... ABSOLUTELY NOBODY UNDERSTANDS/ACCEPTS IF ... 1- YOU DON'T HAVE IT... 2- A VERY SPECLIST PROFESSIONAL ADHD ... AND THAT IS IT... NOBOBY UNDERSTANDS IT...
How long is 6 months? For 5 years: not much. For half a year: really frickin long. Yet this is Hard to say. For example There are Trauma bonds that are Hard to overcome.
Yeah, actl everyone has ADHD symptoms. Just that we have em to another degree. Forgetting dates for ex. I'm in my 30s, my big bro means t world to me. T last decade I've ONLY recalled lto congrat him on his b-days once... But yea, vids pretty basic. Too basic & generic.
“where is my passport?”
💀
Bro 💀
That made me giggle 🤭
I laughed
Sadly, those aren’t the intrusive thoughts I get… I have anxiety and body image issues too, so my intrusive thoughts are usually self-deprecating. 😩
Had me cracking up
“Where is my passport?” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🫣
Don't forget getting bored and frustrated after the honeymoon phase is over, even though you still love and care about them
“In the act in bed”
She: where the f is my passport
As someone who gets intrusive thoughts I just wanna clearify that they're not just thoughts that are unrelated to what you're doing. Random intrusive thoughts while intimate might be more like imagining strangling your partner or violating their consent. They're thoughts that disturb you, that's kinda the point of them. So I'd tweak that point of the video to "getting distracted" because that's what you're describing there 😅
Well said.
I get both, and you are very correct. They should be a bit more careful with their wording for sure, as to avoid spreading misinformation and stigma.
Or noticing every tiny thing and perfectly imperfect aspect of your s/o and seeing lots of symbolism in the day to day quirks that make your s/o oh so adorable. I could be here all night ngl
I feel personally attacked by the passport one 😂
Theres alot of symptoms over many classifications that overlap. I feel like i move farther away from my unique experience the closer i get.
I, in fact do not know where my passport is currently. 😅
i often start forming logical arguments and hypotheses regarding various topics when I'm gettin' down with my partner. it's a genuine struggle to keep my head where my body is but on the bright side, I've made him laugh so many times with comments and witty contextual one liners during the do or after it that he typically ends up in a belly-aching laughter so i think it's also a win
Me not having a love life: 🗿
But do you know where your passport is?
I have ADHD symptoms and my mom still tells me that im just imagining it (even tho I didn't go to a psychologist to check it)
I'm 23 rn and my life was so unstructured and chaotic that I was feeling miserable. I always tried to fix old mistakes, while new stuff was piling up, so I wasn't able to progress and get out of that depressive hole.
Now with therapy and meds I'm able to buils structure, organise my life and be finally feel better!
Please do an adhd evaluation. It's for your own benefit and your life :).
She may or may not be right. You don't just diagnose your self with adhd. Go speak to a professional
@@TheHeroicNinja im a minor so I can't do anything
Online search might aid, though some of the places are kinda sketch or kinda completely-crap.
But yeah, you might be able to find a way to get in contact with professional aid or support groups, charities, internet spaces and so on that include undiagnosed members, I'd search up some and reference but most groups like that are often national and vary between countries.
@@wintereczusikcheck with your school nurse or counselor. Also ask your doctor during your next physical/check-up.
I have adhd and i live alone so i have nobody to help me...🥺
I wish I can help someone I'm the same ..
You get used to it. I prefer it now
Did you remember your passport?
Ain't have nobody that get mad with you for stupid things
I used Focusmate to help me feel connected while staying productive. It’s based on the concept of body doubling which proves to be helpful with many ADHDers who really want to do better. There are many resources in the ADHD community, don’t be discouraged just keep learning skills that WORK FOR YOU! Don’t listen to people who teach you skills you can’t do and then get more discouraged and self blame. Find the ones that work!
I relate completely. I've been through everything i've just reported and let me be clear... ABSOLUTELY NOBODY UNDERSTANDS/ACCEPTS IF ... 1- YOU DON'T HAVE IT... 2- A VERY SPECLIST PROFESSIONAL ADHD ... AND THAT IS IT... NOBOBY UNDERSTANDS IT...
I’ve had all of these things happen to me 😅😂
I remember this girl i liked when i was 13 years old im 15 now and i still like her, she was 15 at that time she dint like me back unfortunately
I have ADHD
Me who slaps certified forgetful anxious dumbass on every social:
I literally have been looking for my passport today and I can’t find it
i'll pray ❤😂
Idk if i have adhd i never had been tested but my parents think i do
“Where’s my passport”
stop. Lol shhhh. You’re embarrassing me. You weren’t suppose to know about this
I bet some adhd ppl watching this get bored and skip cuz its hard to be patient while there getting to the point.. Aka me then came back to right this
How long is 6 months? For 5 years: not much. For half a year: really frickin long. Yet this is Hard to say. For example There are Trauma bonds that are Hard to overcome.
Beep
This stuff is just normal tho…
Yeah, actl everyone has ADHD symptoms. Just that we have em to another degree. Forgetting dates for ex. I'm in my 30s, my big bro means t world to me. T last decade I've ONLY recalled lto congrat him on his b-days once...
But yea, vids pretty basic. Too basic & generic.
This only happens in MEN,???
AM I RIGHT????????????????
No