all these tiktokers being all like "sexy" n shit and being ooo all badass n stuff and my aro ace ass is sitting here yawning and waiting for this 15s to finish and see something else
Micro labels help give language to the people who WANT it. Not everyone has to use them, the point of these terms is to help people accept and feel like themselves. To help them find people who are like them. So basically what I’m trying to say is; respect people’s identities. And ya know, respect other people in general.
Can someone tell me why some people hate the pan lable so much? I've heard the origins of it are biphobic, but we've reclaimed slurs for impowerment, so why can't we do the same for pan? Sure, the origins were bad, but now it's kind of morphed into something else. I genuinely want to know, I wasn't involved in the tumblr era of all of this
Im confused too. I just saw the tiktok where they said "I'm not saying its okay to go by pan instead of bi" ive known pan ever since i was little I just didn't have a word for it, and i have never felt comfortable with being told im bisexual.
Pastell - okay buckle up for this one, it’s going to be a long one. Let me preface this by saying that I am a person who identifies as bi, although I could very much fit under the definition of pan as well, and that I am just telling the story as I know it. Okay. So basically being bi means having an attraction to two or more genders, right? Just so we agree on that. It has different personal meanings for each person who experiences bi-ness, but the general term is that it means attraction to two *or more* genders. That ‘or more’ part is important, and if you don’t agree with it, bring it up and let’s talk about that! Now, the term pan recently came about because being non-binary started to be more explored (popularized? Non-binary people have always existed, but what I mean is that being non-binary started to become more prevalent in queer spaces with western views of the world.) Anyway, non-binary people started getting more recognition in queer spaces. When people became attracted to non-binary people, they thought they needed a new word for that attraction because they didn’t realize that bi encompasses that attraction. (Do you remember that ‘or more’ part in the definition of bi? They didn’t.) The term pan came about because people looked only at the literal meaning of bi (Latin suffix meaning ‘two’) and not the contextual and cultural definition (attraction for two *or more* genders). They then took the suffix ‘pan’ (meaning all) and created the term pansexual, which means attraction to *all* genders. Now, I believe there is nothing inherently wrong with the label pan, it just was created because of a misunderstanding of the definition of the term bi, (and has since grown into an amazing label with a wonderful community) but the use of the label pan in certain circumstances has been very invalidating to bi people, so I can understand where people are coming from. So, here are the main two ways that the label pan has been used to invalidate bi people: 1) Saying that bi people can *only* be attracted to two genders is biphobic because it invalidates and erases people who are bi and experience attraction to more than two genders. (And if anyone is going to say “but then they’re just pan!” think about how what you have just read relates to what you have just said and also about how you have no say over another person’s labels.) 2) This is the big one: some pan people took up to saying “hearts not parts!” (which I fricking hate and cannot stand talking about, but hey let’s talk about it.) That saying became a very popular slogan for pansexual people. Now the reason this is *very* biphobic is because it implies that pansexual people care about a person’s personality (‘hearts’) while bi people *only* care about a person’s genitalia (‘parts’), which is just. Ugh. Super biphobic. And weird. And ugh. Bad. (...Can you tell I don’t like talking about this saying?) There’s also stuff about how the saying implies that gender=genitalia, but I’m going to save myself from even more discomfort and hope that I don’t need to spell it out for you. So although bi has culturally meant attraction to two or more genders since even before non-binary identities started to become more prevalent (see the bisexual manifesto from 1991, I believe), there was a period around the early-to-mid 2010s (I think) where people just accepted that bi meant (only) two, and pan meant all. This is where ‘hearts not parts’ came in and all. And the discourse. I’m not too good on dates and time periods so correct me on that if I’m wrong. Nowadays, I think we’ve (mostly) come to the understanding that bi means two *or more* and that pan means all (with differing personal meanings for each individual who experiences bi-ness or pan-ness). Someone can be bi and be attracted to all genders (because technically that is two or more), and if they choose to identify as bi instead of pan then *they are bi* and that is the end of the discussion. I hope we can all be respectful of each other’s identities and *let people identify the way they identify* rather than decide which identities *we* think fit *them* better. I hope this was informative! I don’t know everything, so I encourage you to do your own research. If I said anything that was inaccurate, please correct me! If you disagree with anything I said, let’s talk about that *respectfully!* I hope you all have a wonderful day. Bi/pan solidarity!
@@zombiedude9826 thank you for explaining that! However, what I've heard is that identifing as pan means you are gender blind, so you don't have gender preferences and the gender of the person doesn't matter. Is that right?
That one about the one girl invalidating trans women for wearing wigs is completely disregarding women who find themselves later in life and suffer from premature balding and do not have the ability to regrow hair, I will not have anyone disrespecting my auntie like this, run off with that nonsense.
5:23 Really needed to hear this one. I've felt sort of invalid while identifying as pan because I feel like a almost have a female preference. Now I know that not being exactly on the dot isn't a bad thing.
One day the intro music should just be the base boosted version and absolutely wreck our ears. It would be a nice call back to the old outro and the song slaps hard so
I'm sorta early but whatever- day like 8 or 9 of asking Ash to put some of my friend's tik toks in her videos! @thetheaterpotato2015 Edit: 13:23 I'm sorry- um- they have my name???
For everyone in the comments "arguing" over that they'll take the hole stock of gay, as a concerned Hufflepuff I respectful ask if we could all just share the gay 😅 I mean we all want some of it so if instead of taking it all for yourself why don't we all just equally share the gay, I mean we all prefer when there's more people to talk about the gay and that doesn't really work when only a surten few have it, so yeah ✌️
This is completely unrelated but, in class today in my 3rd period The teacher asked “What’s the yellow” because we were going over an assignment. I said ‘I didn’t get that...’ and she relied with, “Sahara? Good job!” Teacher logic.
that’s the best title yet. said in the tone of a new york watch salesman.
It's a crime of how I can imagine that voice exactly
I heard that voice so clearly
Abigale Hyde Charlie
Your pfp is my phone background except I have a rainbow flag🌈
Gays are for skating, ya dingus!
the title made me start laughing my head off
hey kid
*_y a w a n t s o m e g a y ?_*
-asriel
I feel like sans would ask that
@@sackofpotatoes4146 OH MY GOD YES
R A L S E I
@@nohintshere @Sack of Potatoes so as Susie
@@16legsX I made the profile picture myself and forgot how to change it
all these tiktokers being all like "sexy" n shit and being ooo all badass n stuff and my aro ace ass is sitting here yawning and waiting for this 15s to finish and see something else
mood. to quote some tumblr post i saw: f this i want swords this is boring
I vibe very strongly with this comment
Vibeeee
The only thirst trap that’s worked on me was a girl on the couch with a giant teddy bear asking if I wanted to cuddle like hell yeah hand me the bear
Me: oh look a thirst trap........😅i mean it's not going to work but I appreciate the effort...........so the cake's in the fridge right? ✌️
Finally achieved speed of gay!
Whoever is ready this, you've a lovely person and have a good day! :)
You too❤️
Me: **reads title**
Also me: **in my sarcastic sounding but isnt really being sarcastic voice** yes, I would gladly take some
Noice user *lenny face*
Micro labels help give language to the people who WANT it. Not everyone has to use them, the point of these terms is to help people accept and feel like themselves. To help them find people who are like them.
So basically what I’m trying to say is; respect people’s identities. And ya know, respect other people in general.
Me: *Reads title*
Me: Is that even a question? Gimme.
A fact about myself: My spine is not straight. MY SPINE. If that's not symbolic, I don't know what is.
same here
I’m coming out to my parents today. Wish me luck 💖💜💙
Good luck!🍀
Lots of luck kiddo ❤️💪
Good luck! 🌟💕
Good luck!! :)
Good luck! Proud of you!
How much? And what kind of gay? Most importantly, do you have any intersectional feminism and trans rights? I have questions Ash, important questions
Underrated questions! ASH WE NEED ANSWERS
yes i would like some gay
4:07
Just a friendly reminder that bi people can like all genders
-a bi enby
I have nothing special to say today, except for that I love you 🖤
- Your Bi Emo Sibling
Thanks :>
-asriel
Hello sibling, love ya too 🖤
How are you?
-Carson
@Jupiter The Killjoy
Aw, love ya too ^^ Hope togay went a-ogay for ya
Love you too!
-Your pan (potentially scene) sister
Hello. Thank you.
-your emo omni enby sibling.
No one:
Me: just chilling to the intro because why not
Psst- Hey- hey- You wanna know something? You're pretty and valid and amazing and I love you
@Nakai Gooden Finn No problem! I'm always here to brighten your day!
Hmmm, I'll take the pans... oooo wait the non-binary ones look good... I'll take both
Just a reminder that your valid regardless if you use labels or not. Stop saying that we "need to get rid of labels"
16:24
um-
holy mother of Harry Styles that’s hot!
Catra just hits different like I’m so gay😭🌈
catra in the intro is just- yk
and catra in a suit @ princess prom
at the speed of gay
yes I want the gay *that thing that you do when you're dysphoric and put your shoulders forwards, you know the 1*
I just sit that even though I’m wearing a binder, oof
Tomorrow’s title You can get gay with a side of trans for only 19.99 plus shipping and handling
WHY DOES THIS NOT HAVE MORE LIKES?!?!?!?
KinjiroTheThunder idk my dude/dudette/thude
@@Briisneat just dude is fine
i might use that title eventually but i already have the weekend covered, good idea tho
Ash_Is_Trash_Compilations omfg I love I love uuuuuuuuuuuuuuu I love u just leave me as credit in the description or comments.
1st 😂 I love this channel
same
Love Ash too, but dad was first.
Merwin D'Souza I didn’t see your comment, when I got here there were no views and no comments
@@madiroser1546 woah that's early
@@madiroser1546 also were u the person who did google classroom zoom calls at pride month sorry to ask dumb question lol
The straights qeerbaiting: "don't buy us were fakes"
I hope someone gets that reference lol
Ah Robots! That was my favourite movie
*looks around, jams hand into pocket and pulls out a dollar*
don't tell my mom I bought this gay offa you, ok?
The daily uploads are really appretiated, also I love the title.
GOD I love this channel SOOO MUCH!!!
heck yes i want the gay 😌
Can someone tell me why some people hate the pan lable so much? I've heard the origins of it are biphobic, but we've reclaimed slurs for impowerment, so why can't we do the same for pan? Sure, the origins were bad, but now it's kind of morphed into something else. I genuinely want to know, I wasn't involved in the tumblr era of all of this
Im confused too. I just saw the tiktok where they said "I'm not saying its okay to go by pan instead of bi" ive known pan ever since i was little I just didn't have a word for it, and i have never felt comfortable with being told im bisexual.
Okay what are the origins? How could it possibly be even remotely biphobic at any point in time?
Pastell - okay buckle up for this one, it’s going to be a long one.
Let me preface this by saying that I am a person who identifies as bi, although I could very much fit under the definition of pan as well, and that I am just telling the story as I know it.
Okay. So basically being bi means having an attraction to two or more genders, right? Just so we agree on that. It has different personal meanings for each person who experiences bi-ness, but the general term is that it means attraction to two *or more* genders. That ‘or more’ part is important, and if you don’t agree with it, bring it up and let’s talk about that!
Now, the term pan recently came about because being non-binary started to be more explored (popularized? Non-binary people have always existed, but what I mean is that being non-binary started to become more prevalent in queer spaces with western views of the world.)
Anyway, non-binary people started getting more recognition in queer spaces. When people became attracted to non-binary people, they thought they needed a new word for that attraction because they didn’t realize that bi encompasses that attraction. (Do you remember that ‘or more’ part in the definition of bi? They didn’t.)
The term pan came about because people looked only at the literal meaning of bi (Latin suffix meaning ‘two’) and not the contextual and cultural definition (attraction for two *or more* genders). They then took the suffix ‘pan’ (meaning all) and created the term pansexual, which means attraction to *all* genders.
Now, I believe there is nothing inherently wrong with the label pan, it just was created because of a misunderstanding of the definition of the term bi, (and has since grown into an amazing label with a wonderful community) but the use of the label pan in certain circumstances has been very invalidating to bi people, so I can understand where people are coming from.
So, here are the main two ways that the label pan has been used to invalidate bi people:
1) Saying that bi people can *only* be attracted to two genders is biphobic because it invalidates and erases people who are bi and experience attraction to more than two genders. (And if anyone is going to say “but then they’re just pan!” think about how what you have just read relates to what you have just said and also about how you have no say over another person’s labels.)
2) This is the big one: some pan people took up to saying “hearts not parts!” (which I fricking hate and cannot stand talking about, but hey let’s talk about it.) That saying became a very popular slogan for pansexual people. Now the reason this is *very* biphobic is because it implies that pansexual people care about a person’s personality (‘hearts’) while bi people *only* care about a person’s genitalia (‘parts’), which is just. Ugh. Super biphobic. And weird. And ugh. Bad. (...Can you tell I don’t like talking about this saying?) There’s also stuff about how the saying implies that gender=genitalia, but I’m going to save myself from even more discomfort and hope that I don’t need to spell it out for you.
So although bi has culturally meant attraction to two or more genders since even before non-binary identities started to become more prevalent (see the bisexual manifesto from 1991, I believe), there was a period around the early-to-mid 2010s (I think) where people just accepted that bi meant (only) two, and pan meant all. This is where ‘hearts not parts’ came in and all. And the discourse. I’m not too good on dates and time periods so correct me on that if I’m wrong.
Nowadays, I think we’ve (mostly) come to the understanding that bi means two *or more* and that pan means all (with differing personal meanings for each individual who experiences bi-ness or pan-ness). Someone can be bi and be attracted to all genders (because technically that is two or more), and if they choose to identify as bi instead of pan then *they are bi* and that is the end of the discussion.
I hope we can all be respectful of each other’s identities and *let people identify the way they identify* rather than decide which identities *we* think fit *them* better.
I hope this was informative! I don’t know everything, so I encourage you to do your own research. If I said anything that was inaccurate, please correct me! If you disagree with anything I said, let’s talk about that *respectfully!* I hope you all have a wonderful day. Bi/pan solidarity!
Zombie Q Wow! That was very comprehensive, thank you for taking the time to write this all out.
@@zombiedude9826 thank you for explaining that! However, what I've heard is that identifing as pan means you are gender blind, so you don't have gender preferences and the gender of the person doesn't matter. Is that right?
**whispers** you got the goods?
21 views
27 likes
8 comments
youtube is starting to sober up a bit!
To answer the question in the title,
I would love to add to my collection.
2:00 WHY IS THIS SO TRUE?!Like what the crap-
Anyways, Ash, can I take the whole stock?
Kid: *pulls out gun* gimme all your gay.
That one about the one girl invalidating trans women for wearing wigs is completely disregarding women who find themselves later in life and suffer from premature balding and do not have the ability to regrow hair, I will not have anyone disrespecting my auntie like this, run off with that nonsense.
These iconic intros 👏
16:27 Hey Adora
Me: H - Hey Adora(I will now be scouring for this audio- for science)
Reads title-
- “Ooo yes plez”
how did 21 people watch a 18 minute long video 3 minutes after it was posted
Speed of gay
The speed of gay works in mysterious ways my friend-(￢∀￢)σ
I’m pan right, and like I’m constantly questioning cuz I feel invalid but I don’t feel comfortable with bi-
same im omni and at one point identified with bi, but it didnt feel right
2:35. Did anybody else notice this, They got a hair cut! It looks so good ^-^
Yes, I would like some gay, thank you
Her titles are literally so amazing
Reads title
I love and also hate but very much more love this community
It's your favourite eldritch being here with more love and some fear magic:💕🌟🌲💚💙💫
Please remember, you are loved, you are valid and I care about you!🌿
Yes a little more wouldn't hurt anybody
12:55 I had to physically look away from the screen that person was *so* pretty and the voice ycbegajsgiskajb
The title is *chef's kiss *
5:23
Really needed to hear this one. I've felt sort of invalid while identifying as pan because I feel like a almost have a female preference. Now I know that not being exactly on the dot isn't a bad thing.
* answer to title *
* opens jacket * I have loads of that but * opens bag * would you like some non-binaryness?
16:29 i mean i knew i liked girls but DAMN
tHE TITLE I- FSKFKEKSKFJ
HI HRU GOOD MORNINF/ADTETNOON/EVERNONG/NIGHT YOU'RE VALID AND ILY NO ROMO OAKY BYE
NO ROMO
I always get here early but I have to wait for my family to go to bed to watch it lol
Hello friends, have a beautiful day full of gay!
Thanks for the gay wishes 😘
is nobody gonna talk about the fact that OR ELSE is just,,,,,,, levitating,,,,,,,
It's been that way for a while...we're just chilling in the Spring of Gay not even minding it
the tittle: hey kid want some gay
me:
*yes*
As a pansexual I’m a bit ashamed to admit I don’t know the difference between bi and omni. Could someone explain it to me?
5:14
She's 'not saying it's okay to go by pan instead of bi'... huuuuuhhhhhh???
Me: *Reads title*
Me: BRING ME A WHOLE BOX
Yes ✨I n d e e d ✨
Yes! I’ll take two gays, please!
never, and I mean never change the intro, got it?
Hello hello my clip clops
So long gay bowser
*points at **1:12* LOOK MA I MADE IT INTO A UA-cam COMPILATION
One day the intro music should just be the base boosted version and absolutely wreck our ears. It would be a nice call back to the old outro and the song slaps hard so
dont test me
I'm sorta early but whatever- day like 8 or 9 of asking Ash to put some of my friend's tik toks in her videos! @thetheaterpotato2015
Edit: 13:23 I'm sorry- um- they have my name???
your pfp is my wallpaper
@@eleanor8196 wait wut- coooolio!! :D
uh oh are u going to ask for it back
@@smoorhouse728 No, I can share!!! :D
Gladly
Gayly Dose of Day
me: *reads the title*
me: no thank you sir I grow my own-- i'LL tAkE yoUr eNtiRe sToCk
Came as soon as I could
-Carson
Can I join the wlw mafia even though I'm Pansexual???
If you are a girl, you technically are a wlw you just like other genders too
Me:reads title
Me: hand it over, please😁
day one of starting a trend: anyone who is enby or trans reply with your name and pronouns!
Hi, Shiru. I go by a lot of names, but one I really like is Forest. My pronouns are they/them :)
Hi Shiru, hi Forest, I'm Carson and I go by he/him pronouns ❤️
Hello everyone, I’m Avery supportive cis ally that goes by she/her pronouns.
hi kiddos im Luciérnaga my pronouns are he/him some people call me Luz for short
Hello! My name is Duck, I'm not exactly sure what my pronouns are but I'm using they/them and he/him right now ^^
If you watch ash’s twitch please reply to this lmao
About the one at 2:36 I just call everyone dude and bro so yeah don’t think I’m gendering anything I just talk like that lol
Cis people don’t question their gender this helped me hope it helps you ♥️
duh
Nah man I Allredy got enough
at 13:06 omg that person is so beautiful and their voice omg
0:53 I see we have a supernatural fan
Me,reads the title:*looks around to see if my family is near to me* van I get all the stock? Xd
@Merwin D'Souza thanks
Omg the title
Yes please, also, any She-Ra stans at 16:26?
@@aceofspades2201 yaass
16:26 - So are you like, *a friend of Mara???*
yes can I have some gay pls I want to be maximum lesbian
Extrem lesbian status achieved
I WANT ALL THE GAY YOU HAVE
4:24 this is literally me I look like this I still get asked if I have a boyfriend
Me: vibing
Video: hey Adora~
Me: AHHDWIKLIT WHAT
GIRL WITH THE MONSTER HIGH BRUSH EARRING
me, reads title
yeah i will give you ( insert favorite cookies) for your whole stock
does ANYONE know the song at 7:21-7:36?? please- I've been googling it for 20-30 minutes!
nowhere to run by stegosaurus rex (slowed down version I think) hope this helped!! : )
@@straycat698 thank you so much! :>
For everyone in the comments "arguing" over that they'll take the hole stock of gay, as a concerned Hufflepuff I respectful ask if we could all just share the gay 😅 I mean we all want some of it so if instead of taking it all for yourself why don't we all just equally share the gay, I mean we all prefer when there's more people to talk about the gay and that doesn't really work when only a surten few have it, so yeah ✌️
not a problem to me! Im a mama to the trans babies. Mama miz will love you and fight for you.
"Hey kid *opens jacket* you want some gay?"
*No thanks I already have some of that in the closet*
Have a doog gay- I mean, good gay- I mean, doog day- ah fuck it. Gay
This is completely unrelated but, in class today in my 3rd period The teacher asked “What’s the yellow” because we were going over an assignment. I said ‘I didn’t get that...’ and she relied with, “Sahara? Good job!”
Teacher logic.
3:29 THIS GUY SOUNDS EXACTLY LIKE BOLIN FROM LEGEND OF KORRA
May I have some of that gay please
**Reads title**
oh boy! i sure do!
8:50 HOLLYWOOD DREAM FUCK YEAH