Talk About Compassion

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  • @brione2001
    @brione2001 Місяць тому +9

    I have a funny little story about this koan. I was at the Ryumonji Zen Monastery in northern Iowa for a summer practice period. That afternoon we were presented this koan as part of the head monk ceremony that was going on. When that was over, one of the visitors needed a ride to La Crosse, WI to catch the train, so I volunteered to drive him there. When we got to La Crosse, sitting at a stop light, I noticed that people were flashing their headlights at me for some reason. Finally someone yelled out, "Hey, your tire is flat!" I thanked him. I got the tire filled and the visitor to the train station and ended up being able to get that tire replaced in less than a couple of hours and got back to the monastery. That evening I told everyone that I had experienced first-hand the thousand hands and eyes of the Bodhisattva, right there in LaCrosse. So many hands and eyes.

    • @HardcoreZen
      @HardcoreZen  Місяць тому

      @@brione2001 Great story! And the La Crosse area must be a hot bed of Zen. Hokyoji is nearby too.

  • @kevindole1284
    @kevindole1284 Місяць тому +15

    The original Pali name for the "Loving Kindness Meditation" is Metta Sutta. Metta means "loving kindness" - not compassion.
    The Pali for compassion is "karuna." It is not about being "nice" to others but concern for their suffering.
    Metta and Karuna are the first 2 of the 4 "divine abidings" (bramaviharas).
    1. "May all beings be happy" - Metta
    2. "May all beings be free from suffering" - Karuna
    When you want someone to be happy, you give them what they want.
    When you want someone to be free from suffering, you give them what they need.
    When I recognize the other as myself, I give them what they need. When I do this without thinking, it is like adjusting a pillow in the middle of the night. This is compassion.

  • @paulengel4925
    @paulengel4925 Місяць тому +9

    May you be happy
    May you be healthy
    May you be safe
    May you live a life of ease

  • @JimTempleman
    @JimTempleman Місяць тому +6

    What an opportunity: to write the first American song about Compassion.

  • @zensukai
    @zensukai Місяць тому +4

    Love and compassion is not always "nice". Sometimes love and compassion is firm, hard, and direct.

  • @schermnaam5811
    @schermnaam5811 Місяць тому +5

    I’m more familiar with the Tibetan tradition of Mahayana practice, but my understanding of Loving-Kindness meditation (irrespective of its Pali origin) is that it has nothing to do with “being nice,” but rather with taking an opportunity to pause one’s baseline self-centeredness (a central cause of all suffering, ours and all beings’) while wishing for the cessation of (relief from) suffering by family and friends, acquaintances, strangers, and even “enemies.” It’s a skillful practice, not a social nicety, just as meditation is not about “relaxation” but rather skillful awareness of all that’s perceivable in the ever changing, non-inherent, now (including “mind” and its discontents).

  • @fionagorman7306
    @fionagorman7306 Місяць тому

    Cool explanation Brad, this makes me think about patience. The minute you think you’re being patient, you are they not being patient!

  • @blackbird5634
    @blackbird5634 23 дні тому

    I was hitchhiking north out of Gallup NM on #491 heading towards Window Rock when an old Native man in a pickup truck pulled over.
    He put two 1 Gallon jugs of water on the roadside and said: "You'll need these.''
    I said: "That's 16lbs of water.''
    Without turning back he replied: "Get stronger.'' and drove away. 😉

  • @JimTempleman
    @JimTempleman Місяць тому +4

    - Here's a quote from Chan Master Sheng Yen's (2013) The Infinite Mirror:
    "... completely enlightened beings do not attach
    to phenomena. They respond to phenomena, but not with a mind of attachment. Such
    people look normal to us. They eat, sleep, walk, talk, work and laugh, yet the source of
    their actions, thoughts and words are wisdom, not attachment. They react to
    phenomena spontaneously, immediately, and without intellectual discrimination. Their
    actions stem from an immediate intuition whose source is wisdom, and they respond to
    the needs of sentient beings as a result of their vows. Thoroughly enlightened beings
    are not blocks of wood or zombies. They are fully aware and fully functioning."
    Sounds like just what you are saying!

  • @flip526
    @flip526 Місяць тому +4

    My personal intuition is that when you express true compassion your sense of self goes to sleep. You can finally rest! Get your pillow and sleep all night! There is nothing to do nowhere to go for you. I see it as a beautiful though infuriatingly indirect expression of the equivalence of compassion and freedom. What do you think?

    • @JimTempleman
      @JimTempleman Місяць тому

      My personal intuition is that when your sense of self goes to sleep, you express true compassion. (Same thing really.)

  • @windnomade
    @windnomade Місяць тому +3

    hey Brad. im that guy from germany and thank u very lot for answering, that I was really looking for. i can see clearly now. and I mean it as I say. rhx for not letting me alone with the sbgz chapter😅 regredably there is no german translation by "from beyond zen"

  • @AnthonyScibelli
    @AnthonyScibelli Місяць тому +1

    The fact that you felt the need to describe the difference between Marvel and DC in detail makes me think you haven't seen a big budget Hollywood movie since about 2007

  • @Jigokucake-lg1xj
    @Jigokucake-lg1xj Місяць тому +1

    Your example and explanation really perked my ears up. I've often thought about Kannon as the compassionate action of the Buddhas in the mundane world, but it's hard to picture exactly what that looks like.
    Nichiren would often say "living beings are the Buddha," while Zen dudes like to say "your mind is Buddha." All mind is of the same ultimate source, and the nature of enlightenment is inherent in everything. Moreover, Mahayana argues that the "seeds of enlightenment" are present in all sentient beings regardless of perceived purity.
    If we think about the fundamental unity of all things in this way, compassion shown from one to another is like a man helping himself without even realizing it. And said compassion is automatic and constantly at work, stemming from the originally enlightened root of all "mind" which permeates the universe. It's like a Buddha tucking himself in!
    In Shobogenzo, Dogen writes: "Because the merit of the One Bright Pearl takes some ‘visible’ form... Avalokiteshvara and Maitreya exist right now, seeing Its forms and hearing Its sounds. And there are old Buddhas and there will be new Buddhas who manifest in bodily form in order to give voice to the Dharma."
    Great stuff as always, Brad! Love these kinds of heavy topics.

  • @Larcey
    @Larcey Місяць тому

    Great explanation. I love the orange tree analogy.

  • @bsbmoss
    @bsbmoss Місяць тому

    Hi Brad - Remember my invitation to come to Costa Rica after the pandemic? Well, here we are. And it's December - perfect weather. Let me know!

  • @proulxmontpellier
    @proulxmontpellier Місяць тому +1

    I have to say that Gabrielle Linnebach's German translation of the SBGZ (under the guidance of Old Gudo) is written in a superb German, and I think her translation is to be recommended for German speaking people. I once was at a place in Germany where they had it, and started to read it for fun and was amazed at the quality of the language.

    • @christianveith7953
      @christianveith7953 Місяць тому

      Yes, it's superb. A direct translation from Japanese to German. Highly recommended.

  • @chrisplaysdrums09
    @chrisplaysdrums09 Місяць тому +1

    Fun thing- I’m sure you might be aware, but what a lot of people are referring to when they say “Pali Canon,” is the collection called the Nikayas. We have these teachings in Mahayana too called the Agamas. They’re not exact replicas, but the teachings correspond. I’ve also heard that most of this stuff was being written down in the same relative period of time- not sure how accurate that is but it makes sense. I’m by no means an “expert”

  • @TheJedynak
    @TheJedynak Місяць тому

    Sadly, not everyone's reflexes end up as wholesome actions

  • @bobdrew4181
    @bobdrew4181 24 дні тому

    Fun stuff, thanks

  • @simonherrera9373
    @simonherrera9373 Місяць тому

    Funny thing is there is an episode of family guy where they become the simpsons.

  • @sofuku3821
    @sofuku3821 Місяць тому +2

    The answer my Friend ..😊

  • @Tomas33392
    @Tomas33392 29 днів тому

    As far as I know, Mahayana Buddhists also accept the Pali Canon as canonical.

  • @shulamay
    @shulamay Місяць тому

    A song about compassion:
    Sympathy/Rare Bird

  • @EvanBerry.
    @EvanBerry. Місяць тому

    The reason Spider-Man was given a hyphen was to differentiate it a little better at first glance on the comic racks from Superman.

    • @HardcoreZen
      @HardcoreZen  Місяць тому +1

      @@EvanBerry. Interesting. I used to have an anthology of Superman comics through the years. I never got into Spider-man except for the old cartoon series.

  • @macdougdoug
    @macdougdoug Місяць тому

    We must remind the Germans (and other folk) that trying to be happy (or good) is unhappiness (or evil).

  • @JYoung-nq1ty
    @JYoung-nq1ty Місяць тому

    great opener!

  • @bobdrew4181
    @bobdrew4181 24 дні тому

    I’m one of those westerners that lap it up😂

  • @c4t04
    @c4t04 Місяць тому

    i giggled at the homer thing

  • @sebychick5279
    @sebychick5279 26 днів тому

    At our Temple, we have elements of the Pali Canon in our daily liturgy. We also often chant the Enmei Juku Kanongyo (I'm not sure of the spelling). I agree with what you're saying about compassion but I'd like to say something about my experience of regularly chanting compassion liturgy. On the surface, it can certainly be taken as a "reminder" to "be compassionate". However, as a practitioner who has been "soaking" in this... "bath" for... well dang, it's getting close to a decade now I guess, I have a bit of a different perspective.
    I don't think our teachers included these regular chants about compassion to "remind" us to be compassionate. It's more that, as humans living in a difficult word, we almost certainly aren't as spontaneously compassionate as we could be. Not that we should have to "reach" for compassion, but the more we "soak" in the bath of bodhisattva embodiment, the more we naturally embody bodhisattva. Gosh. That was... not clear. Maybe. Anyway, thanks for your videos, Brad. Always a pleasure.

  • @Greyeaster
    @Greyeaster 27 днів тому

    I wonder if compassion is a type of passion...

  • @goldie9731
    @goldie9731 Місяць тому +2

    I think you’ve misunderstood the point of the Metta sutta/Metta meditation. You say Zen is about going deep into philosophical problems (which ones and why?), to me that is not what Buddhism is about or what the Buddha taught, rather it is about going deep into positive experience/feelings/mental states and that is the point of the Metta sutta. The lines repeating ‘outside of me and inside’, ‘above and below’, ‘born and to be born’ etc etc are merely to emphasise the unconditional nature of Metta, no being/thing has to do anything to ‘deserve’ metta. Metta really has nothing to do with the other/the object of metta and everything to do with how you feel (towards the other/circumstances).
    It’s not some wishful thinking that believes it is doing good outside of you, although it likely does (it will affect your future actions, but also there are people out there that truly feel unloved and the thought/knowledge that there are wise people somewhere that love unconditionally, that sit and send you love, can be of great comfort). Instead it is about the internal cultivation of positive abiding, it’s joyful. Karuna (compassion) is just a subset of Metta (for those in suffering) but has the same feeling tone, it’s light and warm and joyous. Compassion is not ‘I feel bad for (guy I sent obscure text to)’ or the taking on of other’s grief, it should also feel good.
    To an enlightened person it may seem that love/compassion arises without intention, but right view and right intention are still there they have just become somewhat unconscious/automatic (the hand reaching for the pillow during sleep). Metta meditation, and others, are the process of making the conscious process unconscious, it is the rewriting of the emotional circuits (strengthening some and weakening/eliminating others) to the point where, without thinking, it becomes impossible to dwell outside of joy(a form of love) and peace. That is the nature of the enlightened mind…peace and love.

    • @HardcoreZen
      @HardcoreZen  Місяць тому +2

      Positive emotions and negative emotions arise from the very same place. Going deeply into positive states is precisely the same as going deeply into negative states.

    • @goldie9731
      @goldie9731 Місяць тому

      @@HardcoreZen To me they are not precisely the same. An experience of intense grief or anger feels markedly different to one of intense love/joy or serenity. I’m no neuroscientist (nor do I claim to be an expert in Buddhism, certainly not Zen) but even if the brain-body pathways/circuits are indeed the exact same for all emotions there is conditioning (I suspect there is at least overlap as I feel that I myself have ‘rewritten’ ‘pathways’ that, for example, used to carry grief/melancholia but now flow with a more joyous love and acceptance/peace). That’s what I believe the Buddha taught, and that with right effort and mindfulness, right view and intention, right concentration etc you can condition a very favourable, joyous and peaceful experience.
      I gather there was no word for emotion at the time of the Buddha and he spoke more about mental states(thought patterns/views) and feeling tones(subconscious/whole bodily feelings). Even if one couldn’t cultivate/manipulate the latter, which I believe one can, one can seemingly (consciously) change the former (unless you believe no free will or predetermination I guess).

  • @Dhardy316
    @Dhardy316 Місяць тому

    Calling Dr Howard, Dr Fine, Dr Howard

  • @shokuchideirdrecarrigan7402
    @shokuchideirdrecarrigan7402 Місяць тому

    Don’t think chanting the metta sutta came from Suzuki Roshi, the sfzc liturgy underwent development under succeeding abbots. We also chant the “Pali Refuges”.

  • @karenbowe6834
    @karenbowe6834 Місяць тому

    There’s “Affection” by Jonathan Richman but that’s not quite the same.

  • @frazep1980
    @frazep1980 14 днів тому

    great talk...
    Have you thought about how this perspective overlaps with Christ words : "do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing" ?
    I believe the message is : do not let your self-gratifying machinery get in the way.
    Another superimposition I thought about just yesterday and would like to bring to your attention is the following one :
    -Vakkali Sutta (400-200 BC) : He who sees me sees the Dharma
    - Gospel (John ?) He who sees me sees the Father.
    A bold claim would point at the absence of difference....fundamentally...would you ?

  • @philmcdonald6088
    @philmcdonald6088 Місяць тому

    awesome backdrop. hi zig.

  • @markbrad123
    @markbrad123 Місяць тому

    I think motivation and stillness can complement one another. We make plans sometimes and then we let go others. I life without any purpose might get boring,

    • @JimTempleman
      @JimTempleman Місяць тому +1

      The theory is that motivation gets replaced by illumination.

  • @KingJorman
    @KingJorman Місяць тому

    I’m distracted by the clip from one of the greatest of three stooges episodes

  • @eumeswil
    @eumeswil Місяць тому

    Linking Karuna (compassion) and metta (loving kindness) is a bit of a stretch.

    • @HardcoreZen
      @HardcoreZen  Місяць тому

      @@eumeswil Why? It doesn’t seem like a stretch at all.

    • @eumeswil
      @eumeswil Місяць тому

      For me metta is loving kindness and Karuna the drive to get people out of samsara through the appropriate use of upaya. I'm right, I'm wrong, I'm right and wrong and I'm nor right nor wrong. 😂

  • @christophervann
    @christophervann 7 днів тому

    I enjoyed your discussion Brad; I identify most with teachers like Nisargadatta who I've heard you speak about. I've also heard Zen teachers espouse non-duality. But interestingly you didn't mention that. In Advaita or Zen non-dualism, there are no others to help; it's a mind identified illusion, maya, ignorance. How about some straight up philosophy? I think of compassion as the Theravada tradition rooted in dualism and progressive paths. Still, I liked your analysis.

  • @MarcinKijas
    @MarcinKijas Місяць тому

    Could you comment on this term attributed to Dogen - grandmother's mind?
    “You can understand all of Buddhism, but you cannot go beyond your abilities and your intelligence unless you have robai-shin, grandmother mind, the mind of great compassion.” -Eihei Dogen

  • @shokuchideirdrecarrigan7402
    @shokuchideirdrecarrigan7402 Місяць тому

    Without intention-without thinking? The movement of compassion is not rational or irrational. Seems like compassion has come to mean a little more than sympathetic in the west.

  • @EricJohnson-c4z
    @EricJohnson-c4z Місяць тому

    The view of compassion you talk about strikes me as very similar to the Taoist view of virtue, where it is said that the "highest" virtue really has no idea that it is being virtuous.
    It just does it's thing naturally and without forethought.
    Nevertheless, I think it's healthy to keep the Golden Rule in mind as we go about our business.

  • @fancee_shmancee
    @fancee_shmancee Місяць тому

    Cool, but personally would not be so quick to dismiss good intentions and wishing others well. It's basically what prayer and chanting is. I used to be a skeptic but I've come to believe that it can work.

  • @snowflakemelter1172
    @snowflakemelter1172 Місяць тому

    How much money, time and effort Zen fans spend trying to be more "Zen" , the robes, incence, staues, books and scripts , all attatchements tney cant let go of.

    • @HardcoreZen
      @HardcoreZen  Місяць тому +1

      They should only spend money on my books! They are the only books that make you more Zen!

  • @errornomessage5229
    @errornomessage5229 Місяць тому

    Love you Brad

  • @Diomedes99
    @Diomedes99 Місяць тому +1

    In Buddhism, compassion is not an emotion or feeling but a state arising from wisdom and understanding of suffering
    It is calm, objective, and directed towards all sentient beings, rather than being a spontaneous, emotional response to an individual's suffering