Waited For 4 Years, Now Married For 3...Was It Worth It?! - D&B

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  • @beautyfulldrey
    @beautyfulldrey 23 дні тому +121

    Good to hear others testimony . Me and my husband waited for 2 years and got married . No sex before marriage .THE BEST DECISION EVER

    • @KAIZORIANEMPIRE
      @KAIZORIANEMPIRE 13 днів тому +4

      LOL

    • @Peace2dagawdz
      @Peace2dagawdz 5 днів тому +2

      I’m not sure about that

    • @deemarivic6618
      @deemarivic6618 День тому

      Make him wait, I can tell he is a weak simp feminist male. You wear the pants, his your biitch 😂. Any men that allowed a woman tell him to wait is a weak feminist biitch to her. She wear the pants. And she having sex behind your back.

  • @dv.harris
    @dv.harris 16 днів тому +73

    I’m waiting til marriage because I love my body and soul to much just for anybody to be in it. Sex is so sacred and divine it shouldn’t be done with just anybody. I’ve had sex before (only once) but I regret since I was 18 young and naive 😢 I realized later on in life that god was right , it’s better to wait til marriage ❤ God Bless y’all!

  • @SistahJay27
    @SistahJay27 27 днів тому +84

    Premarital counseling is very important. That’s why ppl are getting so many divorces people don’t talk, just having sex.

    • @donaldjohnson-e8f
      @donaldjohnson-e8f 5 днів тому +2

      They also stop having sex, so there is that. Nobody is banging the night before they go file for divorce.

    • @888KingsDaughter
      @888KingsDaughter 3 дні тому

      Sex clouds your Judgement.
      Getting married many have not dealt with Lust
      Take sex out of the equation..You think clearly

  • @shereewhite4828
    @shereewhite4828 16 днів тому +58

    ●Thank you so much for the encouragement. I'm 56yrs young and have been divorced 23yrs. Im a born-again Christian, single and abstinent for 11yrs.
    ●I've been told that I'll never meet anyone, get married, or meet a man who'll wait until marriage for sex.
    ●I serve an awesome God! If he blessed Sarah in the Bible with a baby at age 90, surely he'll bless lil' ole me with my Boaz!

    • @sarahuzodinma4870
      @sarahuzodinma4870 8 днів тому +1

      You could join the year of the bride fast it Is really changing life

    • @janicelvance
      @janicelvance 6 днів тому +1

      God knows your heart desires and he will allow your husband to find you!

    • @shereewhite4828
      @shereewhite4828 6 днів тому +1

      @janicelvance Amen🙌🏽🙏🏽

    • @ileniepowell
      @ileniepowell 5 днів тому +1

      Congratulations! Great story! I love that you both are respectful to each other by talking over one another. ❤

    • @karenflores7812
      @karenflores7812 4 дні тому +1

      Amén! Divorced 8 years, single and zero sex. I, too, am not aiming for sex until I re-marry. Waiting for my Boaz, as well❤

  • @Tamiilovelife
    @Tamiilovelife 15 днів тому +50

    I can always appreciate a man who can lead. Very few men turn down sex. ❤

  • @ChadVisionaire
    @ChadVisionaire Місяць тому +73

    Thank you for this! This pop up on my UA-cam feed. I believe it may have been God lol. Me and my girlfriend can relate to this because we currently our saving ourselves for marriage and been going through similar things you guys have mention. Please pray for us and again thank for you testimony 🙏🏽💙

  • @shepgip7779
    @shepgip7779 15 днів тому +18

    Yes! Very well worth the wait. The spiritual alignment with God's will is worth it.

  • @2601selah
    @2601selah 16 днів тому +19

    I would like to offer some honest feedback and I mean no disrespect. I’m almost 10 minutes into this video and I feel like the title of the video has not been addressed. The conversation is all over the place. A simple question was asked.. Waited for 4 years, Now married for 3.. Was it worth it? Was it worth it? Yes or No? Almost 10 minutes into the video and I don’t have a clear answer. It’s a little frustrating.

  • @AnnDestiny-e7u
    @AnnDestiny-e7u 10 днів тому +8

    My son and daughter God's richest BLESSINGS. In this wicked system where sex is prioritized. This is the first time i came across this video. HAPPY AND WELL DONE AND WELL RESPECTED. Thanks for putting Jehovah's standard first. LOVE ALWAYS ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @hapshabyahyisrael9810
    @hapshabyahyisrael9810 15 днів тому +7

    Even as a 65 year old female divorced after 34 years you are never too old to learn. I look back on things and understand that there were many mistakes by both of us. I was willing to work on myself but my husband didn't. We began wrong by having sex before marriage and not laying the spiritual foundation to not contaminate the marriage. All the mistakes I made I shared with my son and daughter. They both have been married for 20 years next year. Thanks for sharing. Both people have to have a spiritual relationship first. That lays the foundation that you can build on. That makes your journey able to withstand the UPS and downs. Continued blessings!❤❤❤

  • @FernGray
    @FernGray 2 дні тому +1

    wow the leadership and alignment. God is a redeemer and deliverer! Great testimony

  • @headedhome___
    @headedhome___ 2 дні тому +1

    Bre is my friend from highschool. So glad you all took it back to the bible principles. 🎉❤ God is good

  • @DukeKE-hv1ql
    @DukeKE-hv1ql 11 годин тому

    Congratulations on your marriage and for sharing a little of your journey. KE

  • @jennifereastmond4415
    @jennifereastmond4415 16 днів тому +15

    Amen brother well spoken. Sex is not the main thing.

  • @deedi8452
    @deedi8452 Місяць тому +11

    I was smiling ear to ear before Dre cleared that up lol 🥹! Thank you both for sharing and may God continue to bless you🥰

  • @christiewilliams1704
    @christiewilliams1704 5 годин тому

    You all are a Beautiful couple who made a commitment thru all the trauma. God bless 🙏.

  • @luvinliv8980
    @luvinliv8980 15 днів тому +5

    This was powerful y’all! Blessings to you both 🙏🏾

  • @latoyaharrell2256
    @latoyaharrell2256 2 дні тому +1

    This gives me hope. Thanks for sharing.

  • @mrbabyears
    @mrbabyears 20 днів тому +7

    Men are expected to keep their word. Honor their commitment. Women, are accustomed to changing their mind. Women don't choose the wrong man, they chose their type.

  • @Kingme1love
    @Kingme1love 27 днів тому +6

    People as a whole can have issues accepting the truth not just women, this is why you have so many guys crashing out and murdering women. Just be authentic from the gate no matter who can handle it or not it’s not up to you it’s up to them to make their own choices behind what you’re bringing to the table. You don’t know what can be handled till given the opportunity and if they can’t deal that’s cool, you’re not him or her for that person.

  • @mysterio1570
    @mysterio1570 Місяць тому +6

    I pray that you are both blessed with a long and successful life and can overcome situations for the better.

  • @facedbyraquel3713
    @facedbyraquel3713 2 дні тому

    Thank y’all for this I watched y’all since the beginning and I’m glad everything worked out

  • @IyalooTwapewaN
    @IyalooTwapewaN 29 днів тому +8

    Thank you so much for this, may you both be blessed.

  • @jennifereastmond4415
    @jennifereastmond4415 16 днів тому +5

    Sadly I am 59 yrs old and I never waited and I made many mistakes. If I could do it over again I would wait. Giving it up before marriage men don't tend to respect you and your value as a woman goes out the window. Men don't look at the heart they mostly look at your body.

    • @elsiemeade3857
      @elsiemeade3857 13 днів тому +1

      Me too I should have waited. But thank God for his mercy and grace.

  • @Payday-ky7mb
    @Payday-ky7mb 5 днів тому +4

    I believe in Gods commandments about sex and marriage. Thou shalt not commit fornication. Thou shalt not commit adultery. No sex before marriage. No sex outside of marriage.

  • @nikkymathews1981
    @nikkymathews1981 14 днів тому +4

    You could definitely see she didn’t have pants on in the tv 😂 I’m definitely waiting until I get married 🙏🏾

  • @KayLyana
    @KayLyana 14 днів тому +1

    Love this, God is good, his plans are perfect !!

  • @jennifereastmond4415
    @jennifereastmond4415 16 днів тому +3

    That is the way God said we should do it. Wait

  • @TiffanyTolliver-y2b
    @TiffanyTolliver-y2b День тому

    My goal is to wait,but I also know to move with god now.i do what god is gonna put inside my spirit to move❤

  • @dexkato7329
    @dexkato7329 13 днів тому +3

    People place too much emphasis on sex in a relationship. Just let the relationship develop organically.

  • @nneenaa6343
    @nneenaa6343 17 днів тому +8

    Love this ❤

  • @destinbenning8207
    @destinbenning8207 13 днів тому +5

    GOD 👑👑👑 Bless This Very Obedient Strong 💪🏾 Intelligent 🙌🏾 Beautiful Queen 🥰👑 And Wise 🙏🏾 King 🥰👑 Thank You For Obeying THE ONLY LIVING GOD👑👑👑 AND MOST HIGH AND GOD Congratulations 🙌🏾 And Blessings 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Forever ❤

  • @christinacheatham
    @christinacheatham 14 днів тому +1

    I told God I’m doing it His way I was married for 15 years we dated 6 years before marriage 21 years together divorced 2 years now separated 1 year before divorce I have been celibate 3 years and counting

  • @lotiali
    @lotiali 7 днів тому +1

    It's great, I appreciate guys
    🎉🎉🎉

  • @euleniabell4361
    @euleniabell4361 5 днів тому +1

    BEAUTIFUL COUPLE!!!!😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Listentomusicist
    @Listentomusicist 29 днів тому +4

    Needed encouragement. Blessings!

  • @PrincessD59
    @PrincessD59 21 день тому +7

    D&B- 1st time coming across your channel, interesting content 👌🏽
    Just curious- how did you guys manage to be under the same roof for almost 4 years and managing to not have sex or fall into temptations?

    • @ravenvdukes
      @ravenvdukes 15 днів тому +1

      YES!!!! PLEASSSEEEEEE BE OPEN AND LET US KNOOOOWWWW

  • @loisdmichael5131
    @loisdmichael5131 15 днів тому +1

    Congrats to the both of you, and God bless! Great decision!

  • @rainymakgati4097
    @rainymakgati4097 5 днів тому

    Lovely to hear that someone has seen "sexual interaction, intercourse ", not as love, it's most times lust, and that's why there is this in and out of relations without fulfillment and commitment..Bravo❤🙏🏾

  • @sankhar2484
    @sankhar2484 26 днів тому +1

    Really really nice. Blessings in abundance!!! Profound!!!

  • @patricialouisrealtor5660
    @patricialouisrealtor5660 15 днів тому +8

    Where do single women go to find men of God who want to wait? It's becoming impossible. I want to meet like-minded men. Meeting women with the same Christian mindset is easy. However, like-minded men?! Send help😮😢

    • @simply_sophia
      @simply_sophia 14 днів тому

      Right?!

    • @asanelekoyana
      @asanelekoyana 13 днів тому +3

      You don’t have to go find a man. The Lord will bring the man to you when the time is right. Also keep in mind that not everyone is going to get married, so you need to seek God instead of seeking men and relationships.

    • @devinrhines1250
      @devinrhines1250 10 днів тому

      In a Christ and Bible Centered Church. You’ll find many!

  • @jennifereastmond4415
    @jennifereastmond4415 16 днів тому +6

    God Bless you both.

  • @Jmunozlive
    @Jmunozlive 29 днів тому +14

    You lived with one another, but waited...?

    • @kimberlyturner820
      @kimberlyturner820 27 днів тому +2

      Maybe it's possible.

    • @Lealea883
      @Lealea883 27 днів тому

      Yeah and then she’s not wearing pants and shaking that booty in the reflection, I don’t know … 😂

    • @lilyd47
      @lilyd47 16 днів тому

      Fr tho heyy. mmm more power to them. No wonder the many fights. Just jokinh😂❤

  • @sandrabanks2532
    @sandrabanks2532 3 дні тому +3

    WOW! THAT IS AMAZING & SO VERY SPECIAL HONORING THE MOST HIGH. BLESS YOU FOR DOING SO.🔥🔥🔥🔥🥰🤗😘 YOU GUYS ARE SUCH A G👀D L💞KING COUPLE!!! YES!!! 'I'M SUBSCRIBED! WHAT A ROYAL, SET-APART KING👑QUEEN! SO WONDERFUL TO WITNESS A KING LEADING HIS QUEEN TO THE THRONE! HALALELA!!!🕊🕊🕊 WHERE ARE YOU GUYS FROM & PRESENTLY LIVE?💐🌴🌈

  • @shannelnewton9236
    @shannelnewton9236 16 днів тому +1

    Yes, girl. It’s cute.. I am excited to watch your channel for the first time/

  • @nadinewalker9375
    @nadinewalker9375 27 днів тому +7

    You was his wife before you all got married. The Bible says he that finds a “wife” so you was a wife you just didn’t know who the husband was yet.

  • @shontecraig
    @shontecraig 2 дні тому

    I totally agree!!!

  • @jennifereastmond4415
    @jennifereastmond4415 16 днів тому +2

    The best decision

  • @rhodalinagyei524
    @rhodalinagyei524 13 днів тому +1

    Waited for 9 yrs and now we have broken up because he says he can’t wait anymore

    • @girlained
      @girlained 9 днів тому +5

      Why aren't you both married yet? Nine years is a very long time to be in a relationship.

  • @angelamartin6211
    @angelamartin6211 15 днів тому

    so happy to see yall you was missed

  • @LadyDee8118
    @LadyDee8118 Місяць тому +5

    I appreciate your video so much. I am much older than you two but I appreciate your wisdom and transparency in this video. I am currently in a long distance relationship; however that didn't stop my interactions with my partner. But recently due to a career change for my significant other (a private answered prayer to God) we began to "see" less of each other. I'm fine with the pause because (deep down I wanted to stop relations altogether until marriage). But he's having a hard time with the break or pause. I don't know how to bring up the fact that I don't want to resume sex unless and until we are married. 😂😂backwards I know. Any suggestions as to how I can approach the topic?? Naturally, because it has been six months since our last encounter he's more impatient than I am. As I stated I'm fine with waiting until we actually get married. I need to be sure that commitment and love is the foundation not sex primarily. And we are an old couple...😂😂😂but I welcome wisdom at any age

    • @gintoki_sakata__
      @gintoki_sakata__ 27 днів тому

      Break up with him. That way he finds someone that doesn't play games and you find someone who thinks what you're doing is great

    • @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473
      @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 18 днів тому +7

      @@gintoki_sakata__ how is she playing games? you negative red pillers are everywhere spewing your hate.. People have a right to change their mind especially when they are NOT married,

    • @elsiemeade3857
      @elsiemeade3857 13 днів тому +2

      Praying to God for direction is very important. No more sex. If he loves you he should marry you. 6 months is long enough. Please pray for direction from God. He will not respect you if you keep having sex.

    • @LadyDee8118
      @LadyDee8118 13 днів тому

      @elsiemeade3857 thank you

    • @LadyDee8118
      @LadyDee8118 13 днів тому

      @@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 thank you

  • @shelia3841
    @shelia3841 15 днів тому +1

    i’m a 16 year widow believing God for my soulmate

  • @888KingsDaughter
    @888KingsDaughter 3 дні тому +1

    Many dont have self control a fruit of a spirit
    Fornication. Sex before marriage is Sin

  • @MikaAKAJada
    @MikaAKAJada 16 днів тому

    Thumbnail alone, smart couple.

  • @4SpanishAngel
    @4SpanishAngel Місяць тому +4

    You guys are too cute!!😊

  • @lifeofdenise6482
    @lifeofdenise6482 5 днів тому

    Is there a video on how he dealt with being with someone who wasn’t a believer ?

  • @monicajones140
    @monicajones140 6 днів тому

    19:05 IS TRUTH in all of the “Man” and do you know the NAME of the “Man” who He is to her marriage from waiting for so long?? My name is Monica… I love these mysteries in marriages…it’s my spirit! Love ❤you guys and stay focused on becoming TRUTH in ONE!

  • @BigCrossVita
    @BigCrossVita 14 днів тому

    as soon as he said 500sqft, I remembered y'all from Dear Future Wifey 😂🙌🏽🖤♥️

  • @apostlerfabian
    @apostlerfabian 4 дні тому +1

    I really would like to know the purpose of waiting 4yrs to get married and have sex. I'm waiting on the revelation

  • @lilyd47
    @lilyd47 16 днів тому

    Hey at my age, can't wait that long yeiii 😂 more grace ❤

  • @brianna32185
    @brianna32185 Місяць тому

    Amen, Bre!!💜

  • @maryamk.5733
    @maryamk.5733 29 днів тому

    I love y'all ❤❤❤ thank you !!!!

  • @theresatoomer5578
    @theresatoomer5578 12 днів тому +1

    Abstinence is a good thing to do before marriage. The Bible says it is good for a man to not touch a woman until they are married. This leads to fornication if sex does not stay in the boundaries of marriage.

  • @tyneriarowe7390
    @tyneriarowe7390 14 днів тому

    He's right the baby is in him. The seed

  • @lindaaugust703
    @lindaaugust703 16 днів тому +1

    Amen 🙏 great

  • @shanj8140
    @shanj8140 10 днів тому

    Sounds like she trying to tell u she's pregnant 🤰🏾 😆

  • @adilsonaparecidodamaceno4782
    @adilsonaparecidodamaceno4782 3 дні тому +1

    Brasil ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂

  • @glennii9442
    @glennii9442 День тому

    God created sex for a heterosexual marriage. The world teaches fornication and sexual immorality is fine and that’s a lie. It is always best to live our life according to God’s will. The power comes through an ultimate relationship with Jesus Christ.

  • @SouhailaTemimi
    @SouhailaTemimi 4 дні тому

    A man who talks on social media about his sexlive ain’t no man so a don’t no what you married but it ain’t no man,show some proud and keep that to yourself

  • @snuggles668
    @snuggles668 2 дні тому

    👀

  • @melissawiley3688
    @melissawiley3688 3 дні тому

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤🙏✝️🙏✝️

  • @michellelogan9177
    @michellelogan9177 16 днів тому

    🖤🤎🖤

  • @mackw919
    @mackw919 9 днів тому

    This is cringe

  • @solomonndungu2011
    @solomonndungu2011 13 днів тому

    Steve Harvey say, ladies should make a man wait at least for 3 months.

    • @MH_Prof
      @MH_Prof 11 днів тому +1

      🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

    • @solomonndungu2011
      @solomonndungu2011 11 днів тому

      @@MH_Prof in the book think like a man, act like a lady

    • @glennii9442
      @glennii9442 День тому

      Steve Harvey is definitely not a good source to go to when it comes to relationships.