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  • Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Tony, a recovered crack addict in Los Angeles.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 219

  • @davidhobbs8967
    @davidhobbs8967 Рік тому +151

    Bottom line: "I like the sober Tony... alot." I love that line. I wish the very best for him. I think his future bright. Challenging, but bright.

  • @Vanasse1
    @Vanasse1 Рік тому +76

    I’m so happy Mark said “I’m proud of you” at the end. I so want to tell this man the same thing. A man who never had a male role model really needs to hear that! I can’t imagine how hard it was to kick drugs when he was surrounded by them every day. Amazing strength.

  • @Lovecjb1
    @Lovecjb1 Рік тому +15

    Dang that was a good one!! Guys handsome, well spoken, polite!!!! 53 is so young!! You have so much to offer the world!!!! Love it!!

  • @DazeGutterSlabawitz
    @DazeGutterSlabawitz Рік тому +44

    Please believe this man reached dark places before coming to the light. What a good story to see. Good job dude.

  • @gday6633
    @gday6633 Рік тому +68

    Love a recovery story. Helps balance things- reminds us it's possible- ❤
    Love my recovery- hearing people in active reminds me I'm 1 bad choice away.

  • @Sleepparalysisdemon2
    @Sleepparalysisdemon2 Рік тому +27

    Those who get sober are definitely some of the strongest individuals you will ever come across. Nothing makes you strong like coming off dope. And then the hell of being sober. Takes hella strength to STAY sober.

  • @PAPDOG1973
    @PAPDOG1973 Рік тому +93

    Anyone who has the strength and ability to get off junk can do anything. Good luck son, you’ve achieved a lot.

    • @petedog9581
      @petedog9581 Рік тому +1

      A felony record is a major roadblock.

    • @julieann4616
      @julieann4616 Рік тому

      Isn’t “junk” heroin?

    • @Mhmmz
      @Mhmmz Рік тому

      @@petedog9581 good things this world has plenty of opportunities for everyone despite circumstances 💙

    • @petedog9581
      @petedog9581 Рік тому +1

      @@Mhmmz It limits opportunities. We love to define people by their failures, rather than their successes.
      The fact that he has thrived after living the "cruddy life" for years is ignored, but his felony will always define him in so many situations in life. Bet he can't coach a HS sport, for example.
      I have been through it myself. Lost family, friends, and jobs over just a label. That's their problem, not mine. It is a life brand. He is someone who deserves respect and opportunities.

    • @frankwoods6821
      @frankwoods6821 Рік тому

      ​@@julieann4616honestly it's not just drugs, it's any addiction, shopping, sex, porn, video games etc..

  • @onepartyroule
    @onepartyroule Рік тому +15

    Awesome! Keep it up dude, we’re rooting for you!!

  • @joannemates6367
    @joannemates6367 Рік тому +31

    I really love this guy! I hope you use your experience and the lessons you have learned to help others. I wish you so much love, strength and peace. Cheers, from Country Victoria, Australia 🇦🇺 🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺

  • @bg695
    @bg695 Рік тому +4

    One of the most positive interviews I’ve seen in this channel. So many are sad hopeless stories. I really hope this guy stays sober and inspires others.

  • @rhinestone_eyes108
    @rhinestone_eyes108 Рік тому +6

    "I used to lean on her for strength and she didnt even know it" that got me right in the ❤

  • @sup393
    @sup393 Рік тому +19

    What a lovely guy. Wishing him the best

  • @miltonfermine1542
    @miltonfermine1542 Рік тому +2

    This guy is one of the few honest people on the platform. He is a role model for addicts. I really enjoy listening to him. Crack addiction is the toughest one to beat.

  • @heatherasmussen1421
    @heatherasmussen1421 Рік тому +20

    You're heading in the right direction! I wish nothing but the best for you. Keep up the good work!!

  • @iwazzabadboy1982
    @iwazzabadboy1982 Рік тому +12

    It can be done,26 years next month…It gets easier every day and more rewarding…You got this man 💪🏼💪🏼

    • @MrSprite2005
      @MrSprite2005 Рік тому

      Congratulations!!!! My hubs will be 8 years in August. So proud of you both for choosing your beautiful selves. Aloha, love and peace to you. 🌈❤️☮️

  • @johninghram3292
    @johninghram3292 Рік тому +3

    This guy really has a head on his shoulders and a lot of courage in his heart. Impressive!!!

  • @carolynrupard2699
    @carolynrupard2699 Рік тому +6

    I am proud of you. 5 words needed to be heard. Thanks Mark. I am proud of him too! I love this channel ❣️

  • @dezent
    @dezent Рік тому +20

    It is sad how smart and nice people like this guy just get lost to drugs. Happy to see that you can come out on the other side in good shape.

    • @ZooyZoborne
      @ZooyZoborne Рік тому +1

      He isn't out. He is manipulating.

    • @sonquatsch8585
      @sonquatsch8585 Рік тому

      @@ZooyZoborne i felt that. a tad too many arms akimbo? plus he mentioned 2 things: being able to cut back to doing it at night and not during the day, and then when mark asked him what helped....work, looking at pics on phone, and something else where i was like, it that all? to kick a crack addiction? alk i believe because he looks too good to be alked out, but crack smokers can look amazing. i know one, and he looks unbelievably too good to be a crack smoker. but he is.

  • @daltonanthony5609
    @daltonanthony5609 Рік тому +4

    Great interview. Thank you for including the story of a survivor. Good work Mark.

  • @amber76OH
    @amber76OH Рік тому +10

    Congratulations Tony 👏 👏 👏
    Getting sober is one of the hardest things a man can do. Staying sober is probably the hardest. But both are the most rewarding things we can do. Stay strong your nieces and nephews will be so proud. I'm so proud.

  • @susanblackley7065
    @susanblackley7065 Рік тому +1

    Tony's wisdom & candor is a gift, as is this channel. Thank you. Sincerely hoping Tony continues on this path - much love to him.

  • @nikolia567
    @nikolia567 Рік тому +11

    Life is hard. I've lost so many friends and family members to addiction. I know how these people feel. You just want to give up. Whether you find your higher power or you just do it for yourself. Everyone deserves to be happy, healthy and loved. Love yourself and never give up!

  • @cleoc6698
    @cleoc6698 Рік тому +17

    That "But....a year and 3 months ago I got sober" literally made me jump out out of my chair with joy. Obviously I knew it was coming by the title and how put together and articulate Tony is. But damn, it still made me so happy to hear. Keep killing it Tony, you've got more support behind you than you even know.

  • @bashmeesh
    @bashmeesh Рік тому +3

    I feel very similarly about sobriety. I try to hold on to that small bright voice that tells me there is something else in store for me. Beautiful interview thank you Tony.

  • @Derpingtonshere
    @Derpingtonshere Рік тому +9

    I can tell Tony is a stand up guy, he just made the wrong choices. Loved this interview and hope Tony finds true happiness in his journey.

  • @anneking8980
    @anneking8980 Рік тому +1

    Nice and hopeful story. Great example for the people still on drugs and trying to stop. Thanks Tony and Mark

  • @hoydenuwell8474
    @hoydenuwell8474 Рік тому +7

    Great job Tony!
    I love success stories Mark.
    It truly made my day.

  • @naomiemoore5725
    @naomiemoore5725 Рік тому +9

    One cool dude! You deserve nothing but the best. Keep up the good work. Sending love and strength. ❤️

  • @chriscole5144
    @chriscole5144 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for sharing the recovery stories, too.

  • @paulx9822
    @paulx9822 Рік тому +6

    I'm 4 years 1 month sober on the 15th of this month. I've got all kinds of nice material things, a good relationship with God, and a great relationship with my family. Never going back!

  • @iamhear_officially
    @iamhear_officially Рік тому +3

    I really appreciated this one. Thanks Tony for your wisdom and experience!

  • @anthonyloconte7835
    @anthonyloconte7835 Рік тому +6

    I love that end "something or somethings I still need to accomplish."

  • @rhyhunter8750
    @rhyhunter8750 Рік тому +2

    Tony, wishing all those plenty of years left to be happy, healthy ones. I'm sorry to hear all you've been through & so inspired to see you turn your life around. I wish all of Marks interviews had a recovery ending. Inspiring 🤍

  • @dakotablue3366
    @dakotablue3366 Рік тому +6

    Congratulations for Tony I liked his story he seems like he really truly is going to stay sober or at least keep fighting it.

  • @kimkjrulff1731
    @kimkjrulff1731 Рік тому +7

    Stay clean Tony , you are very strong .

  • @Luxuryfoodexpert
    @Luxuryfoodexpert Рік тому +1

    lovely interview. what a sober sounding bloke! My hat off to you for such an achievement. When people have been through stuff they just sound so clear, they resonate with that lived wisdom.

  • @ctrl_alt_delete4729
    @ctrl_alt_delete4729 Рік тому +8

    Congratulations Tony on your sobriety - best of luck to you and sorry for losing the love of your life 🥰

  • @Hintedbymarina
    @Hintedbymarina Рік тому +2

    This is a nice change from the usual content....SO proud of you Tony wishing you all the best!!!

  • @jonbraverman8995
    @jonbraverman8995 Рік тому +8

    What a beautiful human being!

  • @editname3502
    @editname3502 Рік тому +10

    I had a similar experience, I almost died from some super coke , then I was like “nope” I’m done

  • @AH-st1my
    @AH-st1my Рік тому +1

    Right on my brother! Mark you really give these guys a platform.

  • @ow3wells
    @ow3wells Рік тому +6

    Honest interview, change is great, wishing him the best.

  • @angeladriscoll4087
    @angeladriscoll4087 Рік тому +9

    This guy is so inspiring

  • @DontDissTheProgram
    @DontDissTheProgram Рік тому +9

    Dude looks healthy. 💪🏿 Stay up

  • @carmenblanco4632
    @carmenblanco4632 Рік тому +2

    I love to see a positive recovery story in all of the turmoil that mental health and substance abuse can cause. While I enjoy all the sad stories it’s great to see someone like tony wanting sobriety and a better life. Thank you mark for allowing us to get a glimpse at the lives of so many people.

  • @MahhadValixFlash
    @MahhadValixFlash Рік тому +10

    A counselor who has lived through an experience , who has experienced the highs and lows of drug addiction is way better at getting the right message across than a counselor who is reading stuff from a textbook.
    I think this is your calling
    You can make a positive contribution to people's lives by helping them on the road to recovery

  • @jameskeller8480
    @jameskeller8480 Рік тому +10

    Congrats on your sobriety.keep it up,it's worth it.

  • @michellelagana7517
    @michellelagana7517 Рік тому +1

    So proud of you Tony. God bless you and your family. Merry Christmas! You've given your son the best gift ever - a sober Dad for Christmas!

  • @chaoticature
    @chaoticature Рік тому +1

    Getting off alcohol is harder than any drug! It’s so dangerous & scary with the DT’s. I’ll get there and this dude is a MASSIVE inspiration!
    Thank you!

  • @Nickyyyyyyyy
    @Nickyyyyyyyy Рік тому +3

    tony you're a straight up boss bro if you're reading this you got the right mindset and you spit facts about all the right things man consider this message a huge earth shattering high five bro

  • @nhlibra
    @nhlibra Рік тому +3

    Thank you for sharing your story with us today. Interesting to hear that alcohol withdrawals were more difficult. You are strong to do detox x2 substances on your own, Wow. Keep your focus on all you've achieved! Be well 💜

  • @917mary
    @917mary Рік тому +2

    Tony, I totally get you! Much love and respect for you in your personal journey ❤🙏🏽

  • @sheepnomore8063
    @sheepnomore8063 Рік тому +2

    Great job, Tony, on your sobriety. I hope you can achieve all of your hopes and dreams.

  • @jadeymacdonald6801
    @jadeymacdonald6801 Рік тому +4

    More recovery videos please!!!

  • @FLBeautyQueen
    @FLBeautyQueen Рік тому +2

    Love success stories! Keep up the dedication & hard work of sobriety ❤💪🙏

  • @lauracampa1838
    @lauracampa1838 Рік тому +1

    Great recovery story. I love those.
    I am proud of you Mike. 🤍

  • @terrilindsay1125
    @terrilindsay1125 Рік тому

    So grateful for you Tony, you hit the points spot on. Continued success, stay on your path, and you will see what your purpose is, I think in time it would be helping others. You have a great attitude toward your recovery and staying clean. It is powerful. Thank you Mark for these stories of recovery, they do help I believe. and again than you for what you do.

  • @mandylory6611
    @mandylory6611 Рік тому +1

    Loved this interview. Great job tony & huge congratulations to you!! Keep on doing the damn thing!! You got this!! 👏🏽👏🏽

  • @susant.1620
    @susant.1620 Рік тому +5

    So happy for you Tony! One day, one moment at a time…

  • @jenlhee1723
    @jenlhee1723 Рік тому +2

    Amazing job! Especially doing it for your own worth! You deserve all the goodness for your hard work! ❤

  • @tico4940
    @tico4940 Рік тому +2

    Honest,bright,articulate,and hes a rare bird for sure,glad hes off the habits and wish him well.Rather see him on the right sight of soceity and not a predator on the serngeti trying to survive.

  • @cathy800
    @cathy800 Рік тому +1

    congratulations Tony. Very very happy for you. They say people, places, and things, we need to stay away from, I hope if you , always put your sobriety first Tony, whether that means you need to move away from people using, or if you start craving badly , you go to a meeting. You have the choice of both recovery groups. Its time for you to enjoy life, get back with your sons, when you are strong enough to do it. Tony, time takes time, you will continue to change your thoughts on things. I am so proud of you. It really gives you a whole new life, being clean and sober . Most drunks die drunk. Sobriety is for people who want it, it don't work for all the people like us they need it Tony, most people don't know that more drunks die in withdraw then drug addicts . We are truly gifted to not have to suffer, any more. I am so very sorry for your lose. My niece, suffered with depression and she thought drinking would numb her pain, instead, she took her life. Please remember your not alone, and don't ever have to be alone again. Wishing you a long , good sober life. Your worth it.

  • @No1atNoWhere
    @No1atNoWhere Рік тому +1

    Keep it up tony ! We believe in you… you sir, are worth it. This past September I walked through 3 years in recovery from fentanyl, cocaine, alcohol and nicotine, 1 day at a time. It’s possible, you just have to want it more than anything else, for your very life depends on it… Stay safe and continue to keep making the next right decision. May god hold you in the palm of his hand.

  • @kcRon
    @kcRon Рік тому +2

    THESE are the videos I like to see coming from SWU. much love from Kansas City

  • @ph-vf5hx
    @ph-vf5hx Рік тому +3

    These are basically like therapy sessions. These stories need to be heard though.

  • @fransantiago2152
    @fransantiago2152 Рік тому +3

    God Bless you Tony!!! I love a recovery story...One day at a time!!

  • @moni1404
    @moni1404 Рік тому +1

    Congrats on your sobriety, Tony. Keep putting yourself first. 53 is nothing and you still have a lot of life to enjoy. Hope you continue this path.

  • @robertlopez3129
    @robertlopez3129 Рік тому +3

    Good job!! What an inspiration!!

  • @drieniebrand530
    @drieniebrand530 Рік тому +2

    Unbelievable. Very inspirational

  • @frankpaulin5211
    @frankpaulin5211 Рік тому +1

    nice tony i been clean for 14 years great job my dude!!!!!

  • @beverlycowan6025
    @beverlycowan6025 Рік тому +2

    Tony I wish you would go to a meeting to meet people just like you and help each other ❤

  • @muggsyboykins4393
    @muggsyboykins4393 Рік тому +1

    Super inspirational story Tony, hang tough mate and keep at it

  • @zacharymarshrisk-reward3509
    @zacharymarshrisk-reward3509 Рік тому +2

    I'm a recovering addict of 5 years. If your a addict your NEVER RECOVERED PERIOD. Best of luck bub. #Youarenotalone

  • @sr32-32
    @sr32-32 Рік тому +1

    Good for you man! Keep it up.

  • @bestkksser
    @bestkksser Рік тому +6

    I don’t know what you might be going through Or what situation you’re in right now but I no god is there for you and he loves you God bless everyone who came across this.🇧🇸❤️

  • @cammyscantling1008
    @cammyscantling1008 Рік тому +1

    Congratulations I'm happy for you

  • @pointpleasant6708
    @pointpleasant6708 Рік тому +1

    Tony had a very tragic, traumatic early life. God bless him if he can stay clean but he also needs to find a passion where he can use his experiences, talents and his knowledge to make legitimate money and help others. God bless Tony in his recovery.🙏🏼

  • @PeanutButter-19
    @PeanutButter-19 Рік тому +1

    Good work Tony! Keep at it!!!

  • @medokarbo
    @medokarbo Рік тому

    The other day some commenters had an issue with me calling out that runner lady who wanted to be famous but kept going on about being humble. My man Tony here - he is humble. The contrast is striking. One can feel that he has learned from his past and has a healthy view on what truly matters in this one “precious life,” in his words. I’m sorry about the sudden loss of the love of your life, Tony. I pray her spirit is free and that you also remain free from what held you captive.

  • @SpclK508
    @SpclK508 Рік тому +1

    Tony keep doing or setting goals that keeps you solid and happy with yourself…trouble will always be around the corner but when your strong mentally and healthy you can move thru the troubles and end up on the other end of it! 12:51 ✌🏼🙏🏼❤️

  • @IamBATMAN2024
    @IamBATMAN2024 Рік тому +1

    Well done Tony! I hope good things come your way fella you deserve it!

  • @fastbreak0822
    @fastbreak0822 Рік тому +2

    Sending good vibes only brother......
    We are in Los Angeles.....
    There are a million meetings and groups to choose from which will come in handy and assist personal growth....
    I don’t know anyone who’s made it long term without finding a home base outside the fam and friends.....
    There’s a stigma on the “program” I notice past 10-15 years ...
    There’s cool peeps you will relate to....
    Just gotta find by checking LA AA out...
    Best to you bro

  • @pambeforethestorm9784
    @pambeforethestorm9784 Рік тому +5

    There's a lot for you to do in this world Tony, stay strong for yourself 1st, then your kids and keep your spiritual center strong! Stay up, you got this!! 💯💙💎🔥🔥🔥

    • @myeyeswentdeaf6213
      @myeyeswentdeaf6213 Рік тому

      Hey Pam, I just replied to you under my comment. I hope you have a good day at work today. 😉👍

  • @АленаГосниц
    @АленаГосниц Рік тому +3

    Well done Tony, I'm proud of you!

  • @ozziehelms7403
    @ozziehelms7403 Рік тому +1

    You are truly remarkable Tony

  • @annettestrother1808
    @annettestrother1808 Рік тому +1

    I like the people who have overcome, bettered themselves and make it in what we squares call the real world.

  • @mateussalzmannvilela8193
    @mateussalzmannvilela8193 Рік тому

    Humbleness is the key of keeping sobriety. I've been fighting the same war for over 20 years and can firmly say that arrogance was my worst enemy in the process.

  • @arlenedrake9305
    @arlenedrake9305 Рік тому +1

    I’m so proud of you & praying for you 🙏

  • @kathykowalewski9785
    @kathykowalewski9785 Рік тому

    What a testimony. God bless this man. He's on his way to a new life.

  • @JJones-py9by
    @JJones-py9by Рік тому

    God bless you Tony. He loves you and so do I. Stay strong and prayed up. 🙏🏽

  • @susanmurphy958
    @susanmurphy958 Рік тому +2

    I wish you all the best 💕 Tony.

  • @pamelapalmer2832
    @pamelapalmer2832 Рік тому +1

    Nice man , wish you lots of luck. Stay strong.

  • @helenbellchambers8061
    @helenbellchambers8061 Рік тому +2

    Well done Tony, you should be very proud of yourself 👏

  • @yo2stix
    @yo2stix Рік тому

    Way to go Tony! Keep coming back!

  • @rae3356
    @rae3356 Рік тому +3

    Proud of you Tony ❤️

  • @mariaraton9032
    @mariaraton9032 Рік тому +1

    La vida es un regalo ,si amigo así es , te deseo una gran vida ,limpia y feliz , tú sabes cómo conseguirlo .Un gran abrazo desde España.

  • @javoricarlson1298
    @javoricarlson1298 Рік тому +1

    This warms my heart ❤️ it’s possible

  • @Qu33nV33
    @Qu33nV33 Рік тому

    God bless you and continue to strengthen you

  • @bg695
    @bg695 Рік тому

    Best of luck to him 🙏🏻

  • @LivTheDweeb
    @LivTheDweeb Рік тому

    I've also been sober for a year and 3 months now and it really hit when he said " Sobriety.. I love it" Some realll ass shit there...