The grandmother probably did not go to school that was why it was important for her grandchildren to attend school. It is only by being educated that they can learn and lift themselves from poverty. They have a big family and although they are earning from their business, it is not enough for a growing family. The other younger siblings haven’t married yet, some are going to school. The grandchildren are also in school. That grandmother raised the Felista and the Rawu that you are all watching and you praise how filial they are to their parents. Why then do you judge a few second clip.
It's not just in Africa. We're American, and my siblings and I were sometimes disciplined with a switch by our parents and we grew into upstanding, law-abiding parents.
He will never skip school again. She was not hitting his head nor his torso. Just his legs. Is discipline. He will never do it again. Here in United States, they will call 911. That is why we also encounter so many misconducts in schools and all around us. I remenber my mother once telling me, i would just take you back to my country and show you respect. That was enough to hold me back and respect my elders.
It's not the first time they've beaten children. It's just in her pattern. Abuse makes children autistic and they can lose their ability to speak! This is more serious than you think! I would also flee to China for such a mother! 😢
@@KzukMqAnd guess what? They spank children in China too. And skanking doesn’t cause autism, that’s just ignorance. Do you the things that could happen to him when he skips school? He could disappear and they never see him again, or they could find his abused body somewhere. That’s why kids are the way they are today, because parents like you let them run wild.
@@KzukMqThis wasn't abuse. Abuse is excessive. This will drive the idea of skipping school out of the young lady. It's better to get things like this out of the eay whike they are young than to wait until the are 15.
Weaklings in the comments. I’m Asian (Chinese) and it’s common practice. They hit to discipline, and not to injure the child. I was disciplined the same way, and I don’t feel traumatised. It’s like when I think about it sometimes, I would think if they didn’t discipline me that way, I would’ve been a horrible adult. We value education and skipping school is really a big offence. They’re showing authentic cultural practices. And if you can’t respect the culture of others, then refrain from commenting and imposing yours to others. That’s why you don’t see the younger population talking back to elders, compared to the west. Just my opinion.
Yes different cultures discipline their children differently but when content creators post any video, they know full well that people will comment. Our comments get them paid and it is precisely why the comment section exists. We may not agree with how situations are handled but we all absolutely have the right to express our opinions respectfully. Calling people "weaklings" if they don't agree isn't very respectful.
@@hilo2198 I agree on most of your statement.. I'm from the west, was raised that way and raised my sonsthat way.. Please don't lump us all in the same category.. Many southerners were raised the same way.. The younger generation has gotten away from it. But my grandkids know better, we have taught them respect..
That beating has made me remember when i was young...you wouldn't dare repeat the mistake... parenting in Africa its not like she hates the child...big up mama discipline while you still can.
But you will not create anything in the leadership area. They killed all your intitiatief to rise to the top of a country or big corporation as they have beaten that spirit out of you at the same time they beat the disobedient side out of you. there is another way to teach kids to grow and tackle the problems in the world and to be a honorable but intelligent human being
Mind you all,you can see the same woman who gave birth to Felista and lawu and other children and you admire her in all aspects of her videos,by character,hardworking loving and respectful,kindness,empathy which shows she was brought up in a good way and that beating you just witnessed by the mom was giving to all the children and grandchildren,so anyone who doesn’t like can go and burn the ocean 😅 well done mama Africa mother 🥂
@@heavenlyconsciousness6192 te parece que el maltrato es buena crianza ??? El desapego que tiene felista y lawu por sus niños te parece admirable??que concepto de la maternidad tan retrogrado…..,, el amor ,la disciplina y el respeto,no se inculcan con maltrato .IGNORANTE.
In Southern Africa we get the same discipline it's not child abuse as its to teach a child. In the West:go to your room and...we're like wow! you have your own room! haha. "Russell Peters"
This is clearly not discipline 😢This is pure raw abuse. Hitting child's legs with such a big stick😢She is evil 😮You can talk to the child en they will understand en even give u more reasons as to why they didn't go to school 👈Perhaps they are being bullied en school isn't enjoyable any more. You will get more out of the child than subjecting them to such hate punishments. That's why most African children grow up miserable en depressed en they don't do well in school coz the parents don't take time to sit down their children en Get to the root cause of the matter👌Hitting isn't the answer . And that's why the abused African children also grow up to abuse their children, all in the name of discipline.
@@princesslove2376 what is discipline in your case? When we was younger we got hit with anything. And we still love our parents, and grandma. Depending on that child rebellion, it obviously frustrated that woman he was doing something he had no business doing.
@@princesslove2376 All I know is you should have seen what the slave owners did to the Hebrews when they took them from their homeland. This have nothing in comparison to that. 😑
@@princesslove2376you're in the comment section shouting abuse 😂😂😂😂sorry but we don't want school shooting and suicide in our communities thank you next
As an African child this beating pained two days, and the thought of it kept you away from doing wrongs... as you grow older you appreciate this discipline for it kept you safe from dangerous things of the world. Better to discipline your child than leaving the world to do it for you..... for in later years you will regret.
Beating are not lessons . This is a child everything is knew . Africa was the land of the slave and to show beatings are primitive. Most African don’t even keep their children in the country .the leave and come to be buried .Obviously it’s frown upon by Africans . And then to film it by an Asian man and social media is bananas .
Here in Africa children are properly disciplined. No child beaten on the legs with a small stick dies. Those with negative responses probably don't understand how we do it here in Africa. Our children know that when you do something stupid things like skipping school you will get it and will never do it again. There is a difference between how we discipline our children and how those raised in Europe or America where children even answer rudely to elders. Here respect is a must to both parents and teachers including any elderly person. That wasn't cruelty but discipline. This boy will never skip classes again. It's a pity some Africans are trying to imitate the west in raising children. Here one look and the child knows.
This is clearly not discipline 😢This is pure raw abuse. Hitting child's legs with such a big stick😢She is evil 😮You can talk to the child en they will understand en even give u more reasons as to why they didn't go to school 👈Perhaps they are being bullied en school isn't enjoyable any more. You will get more out of the child than subjecting them to such hate punishments. That's why most African children grow up miserable en depressed en they don't do well in school coz the parents don't take time to sit down their children en Get to the root cause of the matter👌Hitting isn't the answer . And that's why the abused African children also grow up to abuse their children, all in the name of discipline.
Where has the respect taken us to? Africa has one of the poorest countries in the world, Violence is not dicipline. Respect is good but we have to unlearn some toxic ways of discipline. I am a mother and strict and discipline my kids but never with physical abuse. There are other ways of disciplining a child
@@KzukMq "typical African thoughtlessness". Go away.. you just make noise all over the place. If you think your way of life is better, good for you. Don't tell others how to live theirs. Go away to you perfect, non-African thoughtful life.
That man will never bring his child to Africa. That's not how you discipline children. They can be beaten on the bum not with sticks and also talk to... these children become nervous wreck when they become men. And abuses thier children and wife
I started watching this channel because I was drawn to how Felista respected her father in law and family in China. It’s her mother that instilled discipline in her and her siblings that makes us watch her continuously and we will continue to watch. A naughty child needs to be disciplined by their parents, Feli is not a delinquent. She was molded by those same hands. In Africa we respect our parents and look after our elders in their old age. This is not abuse, if you don’t understand the culture please refrain from using commentary that is hurtful. Children must be disciplined- it’s not always that they get a hiding- missing school however! The child will never repeat that mistake again.
Oh here come the snowflakes talking about abuse and unsubscribing. Its funny though if that kid committed a crime yall would be the same ones talking bout how the kid parents must not have raised them right. Yall out here judging but look at how studious and hardworking all this woman children are.
@@toracabey93 but he didn’t commit a crime!! There is other way to correct wrong behavior!! I am from Africa and hitting children in school nor at home is so wrong and hitting wives as well is so very wrong.
I Wish here in Denmark we did this to the children because they are so disrespecftful and they ditch us at the plejehjem/home when we get Old. All African children are disciplined I have met and all adults tale Care of their parents at Old age.
Love the true authentic footage. In other countries, kids are held accountable for their actions at a very young age. Everything is not abuse. Abuse is when you don't feed your children for days, leave them home alone, allow someone to molest them. Abuse is when you allow your children no guidence. That young child is well taken care of and loved. As a person who got a few beatings myself along with my siblings as adults we can sit and laugh at it now and how it made us better for it. It is all memories for us good ones. So if anyone who want to unscribe go right a head. No love lost here. Bye Felicia.
So right. Some of those with negative comments are the same people who are so frustrated in bringing up their children who are already delinquents for lack of discipline.
The mother needs more education than that poor boy. Abused children sooner or later experience trauma and start to hate those who abused them in their youth! 😢
@@KzukMq wat do u mean by abused does it look like abusive to u, we in Africa that's how we are brought up it's called disciplining. And grew up pretty well
I never object to what is shared in these videos , but there was no need to put it in the video for his friends and all the world to see. Nothing wrong with disciplining the child but we must get away from shaming children. It affects self confidence in the long run.
Stop being so sensitive. The Bible tells us to discipline our children. There were ten of us children in my african american family that were disciplined just like that little boy was and we all grew up to be respectful adults. The disrespect from our young people excelerated when corporal punishment (not abuse) became a crime.
@@suekimpston who said not to discipline him?? Always ready to quote Bible but pick only parts of it . What does disciplining him have to do with posting it on the internet for the world to see ? - is that loving? Is that kind? The disciplining was done but there was no need to post it - that’s shaming- unnecessary.
Every culture is different. Ppl like to judge but not taking in this is a different country. I’m sure he won’t play hooky again. Discipline is necessary
Mom raised some beautiful character children with lots of integrity, which is beautiful. I am not saying she don't love her children and grandchildren, but love on them show them u love them by hugs kisses attention. Children crave that
@@clove7934 Are you in America?? You don't know what they need. Off the chain?? Using American slangs , huh?? It's one thing to discipline and all together different to abuse. That was 100 percent abuse. I wouldn't beat an animal like that, unless it was trying to kill 🤢🤢🤢
Be careful posting discipline of children especially caning. Other cultures may not understand. There is a way you discipline, this one is borderline abuse. She was hitting him all over
This is clearly not discipline 😢This is pure raw abuse. Hitting child's legs with such a big stick😢She is evil 😮You can talk to the child en they will understand en even give u more reasons as to why they didn't go to school 👈Perhaps they are being bullied en school isn't enjoyable any more. You will get more out of the child than subjecting them to such hate punishments. That's why most African children grow up miserable en depressed en they don't do well in school coz the parents don't take time to sit down their children en Get to the root cause of the matter👌Hitting isn't the answer . And that's why the abused African children also grow up to abuse their children, all in the name of discipline.
@@princesslove2376 I'm american and I gave spankings to my children back in the day when government wasn't telling us how to raise children. Trust me it worked. They were more respectful and after one or two spankings I didn't need to do more. I always had the switch hanging somewhere they can see and remind them. They are grown now and we laugh at it. Time out? I don't do time out.
@@princesslove2376Oh please...Her adult children are admired and respected as fine adults.. SHE RAISED THEM WELL... These grandkids are gonna be raised the same.
@@cathymclaurin4340 😂 that's right. And I used to tell my adult children if you want me to babysit I don't do time out you know what I do. My youngest grandchild is 15 so they escaped my punishment. 😂
Nous sommes tous ici grâce à la personnalité que reflète Felista, humble aimanté respectueuse....C'est une grande partie grâce à l'éducation que sa mère lui a donné donc arrêter de juger. En afrique c'est comme cela qu'on nous discipline et nous remercions nos parents pour cela. Merci!
No!!!! That is wrong!!! At every level. I did that to my first born. Because it is how I was raised in South Africa. Then I realised what all those beatings did to me over the years. I stopped and never did that again to my other 2 children. Up till today I regret doing that to my first born. There are other and better ways to discipline children.
This is clearly not discipline 😢This is pure raw abuse. Hitting child's legs with such a big stick😢She is evil 😮You can talk to the child en they will understand en even give u more reasons as to why they didn't go to school 👈Perhaps they are being bullied en school isn't enjoyable any more. You will get more out of the child than subjecting them to such hate punishments. That's why most African children grow up miserable en depressed en they don't do well in school coz the parents don't take time to sit down their children en Get to the root cause of the matter👌Hitting isn't the answer . And that's why the abused African children also grow up to abuse their children, all in the name of discipline.
@@mstique3957 je vous comprend mais sachez que dans la campagne les enfants font souvent l'école buissonnière la plupart de temps pour jouer avec ses amis. Peut être que la maman a déjà parlé mais le petit n'écoute pas en sachant qu'en Afrique l'école n'est pas gratuit et le meilleur moyen de réussir sa vie est souvent de passer par les études raison pour laquelle la dame est dur envers le petit
I thought this was an old video until Lawu's husband appeared. The families are very engaged with each other. What happened to Felista's other two Chinese men friends who started the oil business for the family?
This is clearly not discipline 😢This is pure raw abuse. Hitting child's legs with such a big stick😢She is evil 😮You can talk to the child en they will understand en even give u more reasons as to why they didn't go to school 👈Perhaps they are being bullied en school isn't enjoyable any more. You will get more out of the child than subjecting them to such hate punishments. That's why most African children grow up miserable en depressed en they don't do well in school coz the parents don't take time to sit down their children en Get to the root cause of the matter👌Hitting isn't the answer . And that's why the abused African children also grow up to abuse their children, all in the name of discipline.
@princesslove2376 you are right with your point, it's not everyone that turned bad because of the way we were beaten, I am an African , I was beaten and I am sure Fellisita does too, she did turn out well. A child with chose who he want to become either beaten or not
We were raised like that in America, once upon a time 😢children mouth were washed out for using bad words, teacher were allowed to discipline children for to late, fighting, no homework done. We cried for a while, but we learned for a lifetime. Children now cry and get what they want. No government told parents they couldn't raised their children. Now alot of children are lost. That wanted to stop abuse but they also stop letting parents to be in control. I am sure those people who want to abuse their children are still around behind close doors and the other parents who wants to do the right thing feels helpless. I have seen so many mothers trying to talk to these little people and they don't understand, all they want is their desires. Glad their are country who raised their children and don't care what others think. ❤
Yeah In 1960s 70s and ask where those children are today . Why do we have people over 50 going to therapy etc the baby boomers gave their kids away or abused them . America stopped abuse because the parents were beat and had no tools . This is why your day there were more molestation and rapes because keep your mouth closed . Drugs etc but okay pain isn’t the answer for a child doing wrong everything is knew . Kids are not adults duh they don’t know what we know
That's exactly why Africa is the poorest continent in the world with people like you who think that it is ok to beat up a child or anyone that way, you should go back to live in 🌲
Peut-être qu’à l'école ça se passe très mal , il se fait taper aussi et il a peur d’y aller . Je pense qu’il faudra interroger ce petit garçon sur ce qui se passe à l’école et surtout lui demander pardon .
@@artmonarchia9096Je le doute aussi . C’est triste ! C’est un appel à l’aide ! Il porte seul sa souffrance ! Que Dieu console ce p’tit bonhomme ! Il a de grands choses à faire pour Dieu .
I grew up in Africa and I don’t recall my mother ever beating me like that, that is child abuse. You don’t hit a child on the leg with a stick and slap him in the face ma. Did you use you hit your beautiful girls like that? I beg that is not your child and a relatives child entrusted in you to take good care of. I am totally shocked and appalled that you will even load this up on the Internet for the entire world to see it is disgusting.😢Stop the cruel abuse of the innocent boy. I’ve never watched your daughter beat her children on social media. Mama, this is shameless
Why is this woman abusing this child on a public platform like UA-cam. Long or those days when people are beating kids with whips. This is not slavery. Mom go sit down
Did anyone ask him why he hid in his room to avoid going to school? Is there something going on at school that he would choose to spend a boring day hiding?
Excellent question. No one will ever ask. Could be beatings from teachers, classroom boredom, sexual abuse, bullying or anything yet no one will ever ask because that’s how it is in many parts of Africa.
Cela m'a rappelle des souvenirs, et je suis devenue la femme que je suis.J ai fait pareil à mes enfants en France, ils sont tous vivants et bien éduqués
C'est horrible comment elle frappe le petit mon Dieu . Mais c'est quoi c'est comportement. Il a fait une bêtise ok ! Tu frappe pas avec un bâton . Pauvre garçon . 😢😢😢
We need to let the children know who is the parent. Both my husband and I grew up with that type of discipline and we turned out great citizens. Although, we don’t almost never used it on our children but we still discipline them (pull the ears, time outs, take their privileges away etc..). We also communicate with them about their bad behaviors and let them know about the consequences. but above all, prayers have been key for us. Call upon the Lord for our kids (instruct them at an early age).
Do not hit a child like this please! I alwaysbe upset in Africa when I lived there for 5 years because of that. My mom use to be like this and I wastraumatized, I had to go the therapy and I raise my kids afterr my therapy without needing to hit them. Talk every day to them.
I would not show anything like that on your channel again. If someone reports your channel to UA-cam it can be viewed as abuse. I was raised with switches and whoopings and so are my children. As an American this is something my siblings and cousins are use to. Some of you will view this as corporal punishment, UA-cam may view it this same way in their guidelines. You have to remember you have people from all nations watching your channel with different viewpoints on discipline.
I don't like the fact that,the beaten was filmed and put on internet like this. It is shamefull for the kid that the whole internet saw how he was beaten. Even though it is something most of us experienced when we were young. We all did wrongfull things when was young and got punished for it, but no one has put it on internet. I think this was showed just to make lawu's husband seen like the good Samaritan. No need we already applaud him as a good husband. This so wrongfull.I FEEL SO SORRY FOR THE YOUNG BOY.
That is the way we are disciplined in Africa and we then dont have entitled and spoilt brats If we bring up our children like on the west they will not endure the hardship in Africa Do you realize there was no bipolar in Africa because our children knew life was hard and they had no one to spoil them. Suicide was also very rare... Feli you did well the video is okay...and you look very healthy and physically fit
Il prends tout à la rigolade, un peu fou fou parfois. Hélas sur le net, c'est considéré comme violent, sauf pour ceux qui ont été éduqué avec des punitions. C'est une femme hyper calme, si elle s'est emportée, c'est qu'il avait dépassé les bornes. Ils ont coupé la vidéo sur d'autres réseaux. Certains parlent de prison pour mamie.🙏🧘♀️
❤let me say I love you and your videos. Something I've been meaning to ask, are you using skin lightener? If you are please know the repercussions later on.
I'm so angry by all these idiots commentors. This is the grandmother beating her children. These two grown-up sisters who both now have their own children know their mother is not abusing those children. It just shows you how privileged and narcissistic your society in the west has become. No one can discipline children or have respect anymore. ALL these adults got beats as children. Love is correcting to do the right thing, both beating, speaking, and teaching our children, not to become delinquent criminals. I was strongly abused as a child, molested and sexually assaulted as an adult, and that is not abuse as I am physically and mentally educated on trauma and abuse. Grow some guts.... It's never nice to be criticised or smack or beaten. It is negative but this is the effective of the behaviour and action he took. This human life will teach us if we do not apply wisdom like good listening skills. He will thank his grandma when he get older. I watch both channels. Please do not feel discouraged by the no sense commentors. Sending you blessings as you continue to encourage your family. ❤❤
@@qe545 The truth is hard. Thanks to their Chinese men they survived. See how lovingly Lawu's baby's grandmother treats her grandchild. All love and the baby radiates that too!
That's how we discipline our children and it's okay, he will never repeat it again. Spare the rod and spoil the child.. we grew up that way and we didn't die but grew as well disciplined children full of good manners and respect to our parents and any other grown up person allowed. Watching from Kenya
hmmm discipline like this in the 21st century? I was disciplined by my parents which left me traumatised even today in my 60's and seeing this woman doing this to the child bring back lots of memories. It would be better to talk to him and understand why he does not want to go to school; is he being bullied in school? That woman and Felista should find out the cause instead of such beating! I understand that is what they do in Africa where I grew up but come on, try to understand from the child's perspective. Some people on the platform may not agree with me but I can only speak how I feel.
There is abuse and disciplining my dear. Maybe in your case it was abuseI don't know But this talking you suggested ain't going nowhere now, because we think that we love our children so much, only talking sweet talks as though we are apologising instead of disciplining them That's my opinion.
I agree with you. A parent can discipline but also seek to understand what is causing a child to behave in a certain way. It's called balanced parenting and not going to one end or the other.
I believe in children getting scolding if they’re disobedient. As long as it’s not abusive. Mama wasn’t hard on him. He even got to hold unto the twig. Also I believe children should be served the food before the adults
Additionally, how humiliating for the child. Everyone in the world will see his shame. This is disgusting and unacceptable. We have even witnessed Feli doing this to Dodo. This is wrong,I don't want to see this. It hurts my heart and brings back to mind how my siblings and I were treated. Don’t film this please.
Wake up! Those people that don't discipline there children, those children become tyrants like the one in Israel. Like the ones who enslave people. If children aren't disciplined they become are biggest social problem because they don't understand respect and boundaries.
He won't do whatever he did again🤔. That's the way I was raised. Guess what, I am a contributor and not a burden to society. Parents let kids get away with many things that will haunt them in the future. Hold the line grandmother 🇺🇸💚
in africa we discipline children. so dont judge her shes doing the right thing. she knows whats best for him. she doesnt want him to become a dependant or liability when he grows up.
I find most Caribbean and African parents don't give their children that love hugs caring affection and attention they need. Children need more love and attention than being spoiled with things.
See the boy beat by mom that he try to skip school,remind me that my mom beat me when I was little kid I also skip school,teaching me very good lesson,in Chinese culture school so important in your future,western will say child abuse 😅thats why western kids no respect for adults and the teachers,😢if you hit the kids for disciplined and some body report on you,you can in jail or take your child away, I live United States thats why i know,like Tanzania culture similarly Chinese culture,no wonder Felista adapted Chinese culture so well ❤👍
This is clearly not discipline 😢This is pure raw abuse. Hitting child's legs with such a big stick😢She is evil 😮You can talk to the child en they will understand en even give u more reasons as to why they didn't go to school 👈Perhaps they are being bullied en school isn't enjoyable any more. You will get more out of the child than subjecting them to such hate punishments. That's why most African children grow up miserable en depressed en they don't do well in school coz the parents don't take time to sit down their children en Get to the root cause of the matter👌Hitting isn't the answer . And that's why the abused African children also grow up to abuse their children, all in the name of discipline.
Mais pourquoi a t’il fait l’école buissonnière ? Si tout se passe bien à l'école, qu’il n’y a aucune raison, alors la punition est nécessaire . Mais si à l'école ça se passe mal , qu’il se fait taper et qu’il est en souffrance , alors cette punition l’a détruit. Il faut parler avec lui , il faut savoir ce qui ne va pas . Soyons amour et à l'écoute des enfants . Même si on se fâche ,on crie, on tape, après la tempête on se calme et on discute.
In the Pacific, thats how we were raised and are raising our children. At least we grew up to be respectful adults and take care of our aging parents out of love rathet than dumping them in old age care homes. For all your westerners commenting against such decipline, don't be surprised if your kids are disrespectful & don't give a damn about you when you're old,grey and frail.
He owes Mama an apology for submitting her to world criticism. There was no cruel intent here. The whipping wont be repeated if he'd follows the instructions of his elders.
This is child abuse and violence, skipping school has never killed nor hurt anyone. Hitting a child like that caused emotional trauma and pain. I was born in the late 80s and was never disciplined by hitting and I turned out very well. I'm raising my child non violently and teaching them communication. People should stop generalising, NOT all AFRICANS beat their children.
I love Fei’er’s hair. It’s beautiful. The two cultures coming together is awesome.
The grandmother probably did not go to school that was why it was important for her grandchildren to attend school. It is only by being educated that they can learn and lift themselves from poverty. They have a big family and although they are earning from their business, it is not enough for a growing family. The other younger siblings haven’t married yet, some are going to school. The grandchildren are also in school. That grandmother raised the Felista and the Rawu that you are all watching and you praise how filial they are to their parents. Why then do you judge a few second clip.
It's not just in Africa. We're American, and my siblings and I were sometimes disciplined with a switch by our parents and we grew into upstanding, law-abiding parents.
@@divalock5298 thank you. Me too. That's what's wrong with this younger generation now
Got my butt whipped plenty. Made me a better person for it. Taught me what not to do real fast.
@@divalock5298 we got our ass whooped.
Same here.. Ask my sons..
Whew, the memories of having to get your own switch 😂.
It is always better to discipline your child now than to have the strong hand of the government do it later!!
He will never skip school again. She was not hitting his head nor his torso. Just his legs. Is discipline. He will never do it again. Here in United States, they will call 911. That is why we also encounter so many misconducts in schools and all around us. I remenber my mother once telling me, i would just take you back to my country and show you respect. That was enough to hold me back and respect my elders.
It's not the first time they've beaten children. It's just in her pattern. Abuse makes children autistic and they can lose their ability to speak! This is more serious than you think!
I would also flee to China for such a mother! 😢
@@KzukMqThere is NO established link between discipline and autism. Please stop showcasing your childish ignorance.
@@KzukMqOOo please 😂😂😂
@@KzukMqAnd guess what? They spank children in China too. And skanking doesn’t cause autism, that’s just ignorance. Do you the things that could happen to him when he skips school? He could disappear and they never see him again, or they could find his abused body somewhere. That’s why kids are the way they are today, because parents like you let them run wild.
@@KzukMqThis wasn't abuse. Abuse is excessive. This will drive the idea of skipping school out of the young lady. It's better to get things like this out of the eay whike they are young than to wait until the are 15.
That beating just took me back to my childhood...those times
Weaklings in the comments. I’m Asian (Chinese) and it’s common practice. They hit to discipline, and not to injure the child. I was disciplined the same way, and I don’t feel traumatised. It’s like when I think about it sometimes, I would think if they didn’t discipline me that way, I would’ve been a horrible adult. We value education and skipping school is really a big offence.
They’re showing authentic cultural practices. And if you can’t respect the culture of others, then refrain from commenting and imposing yours to others. That’s why you don’t see the younger population talking back to elders, compared to the west. Just my opinion.
Yes different cultures discipline their children differently but when content creators post any video, they know full well that people will comment. Our comments get them paid and it is precisely why the comment section exists. We may not agree with how situations are handled but we all absolutely have the right to express our opinions respectfully. Calling people "weaklings" if they don't agree isn't very respectful.
Same here. However, I am American. My dad used to light it up. My brother and I both appreciate our dad for caring enough to discipline us.
Thank you! Real people get it. I bet you most of these people claim to be Christians but the bible says SPARE THE ROD AND SPOIL THE CHILD!
@@NamuBang"do not spare the rod and spoil the child "
@@hilo2198 I agree on most of your statement.. I'm from the west, was raised that way and raised my sonsthat way.. Please don't lump us all in the same category.. Many southerners were raised the same way.. The younger generation has gotten away from it. But my grandkids know better, we have taught them respect..
I'm from India and that's is how our parents deciplined us during our days😂
Seems like it’s part of the uncultured ppl of that side of the world 😒
Yup. 😂
That beating has made me remember when i was young...you wouldn't dare repeat the mistake... parenting in Africa its not like she hates the child...big up mama discipline while you still can.
Same for me growing up in the Caribbean.
@@janetolonje2657 Here in America too.
We knew better afterwards.
@@Nothingtoseehere099yep
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Africa tradition? 😢
But you will not create anything in the leadership area. They killed all your intitiatief to rise to the top of a country or big corporation as they have beaten that spirit out of you at the same time they beat the disobedient side out of you. there is another way to teach kids to grow and tackle the problems in the world and to be a honorable but intelligent human being
Mind you all,you can see the same woman who gave birth to Felista and lawu and other children and you admire her in all aspects of her videos,by character,hardworking loving and respectful,kindness,empathy which shows she was brought up in a good way and that beating you just witnessed by the mom was giving to all the children and grandchildren,so anyone who doesn’t like can go and burn the ocean 😅 well done mama Africa mother 🥂
@@heavenlyconsciousness6192 te parece que el maltrato es buena crianza ??? El desapego que tiene felista y lawu por sus niños te parece admirable??que concepto de la maternidad tan retrogrado…..,, el amor ,la disciplina y el respeto,no se inculcan con maltrato .IGNORANTE.
Praise your colonialisms culture beating
Which country is that?
Primitivo,y salvaje, Avanza que te quedas atrás,en la cueva 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ esto te parece gracioso????el maltrato lo ves como algo gracioso ????
In Southern Africa we get the same discipline it's not child abuse as its to teach a child. In the West:go to your room and...we're like wow! you have your own room! haha. "Russell Peters"
Thank you for bringing back this lovely music 💕 Love how Lawu’s husband and videographer interact with Lawu/Felista’s family.
Spare the rod spoil the child.
This is clearly not discipline 😢This is pure raw abuse. Hitting child's legs with such a big stick😢She is evil 😮You can talk to the child en they will understand en even give u more reasons as to why they didn't go to school 👈Perhaps they are being bullied en school isn't enjoyable any more. You will get more out of the child than subjecting them to such hate punishments. That's why most African children grow up miserable en depressed en they don't do well in school coz the parents don't take time to sit down their children en Get to the root cause of the matter👌Hitting isn't the answer . And that's why the abused African children also grow up to abuse their children, all in the name of discipline.
@@princesslove2376 what is discipline in your case?
When we was younger we got hit with anything. And we still love our parents, and grandma.
Depending on that child rebellion, it obviously frustrated that woman he was doing something he had no business doing.
@@princesslove2376 All I know is you should have seen what the slave owners did to the Hebrews when they took them from their homeland. This have nothing in comparison to that. 😑
@@princesslove2376you're in the comment section shouting abuse 😂😂😂😂sorry but we don't want school shooting and suicide in our communities thank you next
@@princesslove2376Your comment is ridiculous, mind your own business.
Lawu’s husband has lost weight keep going son you look great......It seems Africa is good for you constant working out without you even knowing.❤❤
The new haircut makes him look younger, too. I'm glad that they are happy.
His mom will probably not be happy to see it 😂😂😂
He is a kind soul
As an African child this beating pained two days, and the thought of it kept you away from doing wrongs... as you grow older you appreciate this discipline for it kept you safe from dangerous things of the world.
Better to discipline your child than leaving the world to do it for you..... for in later years you will regret.
Beating are not lessons . This is a child everything is knew .
Africa was the land of the slave and to show beatings are primitive. Most African don’t even keep their children in the country .the leave and come to be buried .Obviously it’s frown upon by Africans . And then to film it by an Asian man and social media is bananas .
Absolutely 💯
Here in Africa children are properly disciplined. No child beaten on the legs with a small stick dies. Those with negative responses probably don't understand how we do it here in Africa. Our children know that when you do something stupid things like skipping school you will get it and will never do it again. There is a difference between how we discipline our children and how those raised in Europe or America where children even answer rudely to elders. Here respect is a must to both parents and teachers including any elderly person. That wasn't cruelty but discipline. This boy will never skip classes again. It's a pity some Africans are trying to imitate the west in raising children. Here one look and the child knows.
That is not discipline, that's abuse, don't generalise, not all African mothers chastise their children or grandchildren.
This is clearly not discipline 😢This is pure raw abuse. Hitting child's legs with such a big stick😢She is evil 😮You can talk to the child en they will understand en even give u more reasons as to why they didn't go to school 👈Perhaps they are being bullied en school isn't enjoyable any more. You will get more out of the child than subjecting them to such hate punishments. That's why most African children grow up miserable en depressed en they don't do well in school coz the parents don't take time to sit down their children en Get to the root cause of the matter👌Hitting isn't the answer . And that's why the abused African children also grow up to abuse their children, all in the name of discipline.
Well said magret
Where has the respect taken us to? Africa has one of the poorest countries in the world, Violence is not dicipline. Respect is good but we have to unlearn some toxic ways of discipline. I am a mother and strict and discipline my kids but never with physical abuse. There are other ways of disciplining a child
Believe me that kid will appreciate it in the future! 😉
Baby girl hair style looks beautiful
See how Lawu ,s husband walks away after hearing why the kid got disciplined? He gets it. Asians don't mess around about school either.
@@KzukMq "typical African thoughtlessness". Go away.. you just make noise all over the place. If you think your way of life is better, good for you. Don't tell others how to live theirs. Go away to you perfect, non-African thoughtful life.
You so sound so very ignorant!
That man will never bring his child to Africa. That's not how you discipline children. They can be beaten on the bum not with sticks and also talk to... these children become nervous wreck when they become men. And abuses thier children and wife
A eso le llamas disciplina,RIDICULA eso se llama MALTRATO INFANTIL
He walked away in disgust and definitely don't understand the mother!
I started watching this channel because I was drawn to how Felista respected her father in law and family in China.
It’s her mother that instilled discipline in her and her siblings that makes us watch her continuously and we will continue to watch. A naughty child needs to be disciplined by their parents, Feli is not a delinquent. She was molded by those same hands. In Africa we respect our parents and look after our elders in their old age. This is not abuse, if you don’t understand the culture please refrain from using commentary that is hurtful. Children must be disciplined- it’s not always that they get a hiding- missing school however! The child will never repeat that mistake again.
@Manhii I do not disagree on the fact that children should not be disciplined, but they need to be shown some affection as well.
@@Cloud7.8 GET OUTTA HERE..
@@cathymclaurin4340 top of the day to you too
@Manhii that was assault not smacking. She was not disciplining , she was inflicting pain.
@Lelams-t2c Call it what you want..
Oh here come the snowflakes talking about abuse and unsubscribing. Its funny though if that kid committed a crime yall would be the same ones talking bout how the kid parents must not have raised them right. Yall out here judging but look at how studious and hardworking all this woman children are.
@@toracabey93 but he didn’t commit a crime!! There is other way to correct wrong behavior!! I am from Africa and hitting children in school nor at home is so wrong and hitting wives as well is so very wrong.
@@lovenature4241you’re not African 😅
You are either not an African not understand the African way @lovenature4241
@@lovenature4241you are not from Africa because that’s the way Africans disciple there kids . This is the right way
@@favourrichard8095obviously she is not 😂
I Wish here in Denmark we did this to the children because they are so disrespecftful and they ditch us at the plejehjem/home when we get Old. All African children are disciplined I have met and all adults tale Care of their parents at Old age.
All african children you are fool which africa? Africa is not a country
Speak for your country and your regions
Love the true authentic footage. In other countries, kids are held accountable for their actions at a very young age. Everything is not abuse. Abuse is when you don't feed your children for days, leave them home alone, allow someone to molest them. Abuse is when you allow your children no guidence. That young child is well taken care of and loved. As a person who got a few beatings myself along with my siblings as adults we can sit and laugh at it now and how it made us better for it. It is all memories for us good ones. So if anyone who want to unscribe go right a head. No love lost here. Bye Felicia.
So right. Some of those with negative comments are the same people who are so frustrated in bringing up their children who are already delinquents for lack of discipline.
Depends on the family.. In the US, too.
Very true we also laugh about it now, that was discipline 😂
The mother needs more education than that poor boy. Abused children sooner or later experience trauma and start to hate those who abused them in their youth! 😢
@@KzukMq wat do u mean by abused does it look like abusive to u, we in Africa that's how we are brought up it's called disciplining. And grew up pretty well
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Amen!
Never skip school 😊 proud of you mama
Me too. Do what is necessary to keep our kids out of the system. Train up a child!
I never object to what is shared in these videos , but there was no need to put it in the video for his friends and all the world to see.
Nothing wrong with disciplining the child but we must get away from shaming children. It affects self confidence in the long run.
Que primitivo, salvaje
Stop being so sensitive. The Bible tells us to discipline our children. There were ten of us children in my african american family that were disciplined just like that little boy was and we all grew up to be respectful adults. The disrespect from our young people excelerated when corporal punishment (not abuse) became a crime.
@@suekimpston who said not to discipline him?? Always ready to quote Bible but pick only parts of it . What does disciplining him have to do with posting it on the internet for the world to see ? - is that loving? Is that kind? The disciplining was done but there was no need to post it - that’s shaming- unnecessary.
@@TheRoxyB you have bigger problems than that, love 😏
Flicia, is a hard working woman, at home and in China ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
The entire family is, her brothers also..
Every culture is different. Ppl like to judge but not taking in this is a different country. I’m sure he won’t play hooky again. Discipline is necessary
Mom raised some beautiful character children with lots of integrity, which is beautiful. I am not saying she don't love her children and grandchildren, but love on them show them u love them by hugs kisses attention. Children crave that
They get both here
Most off african's people we don't hug it's not part of our culture .
@@Nellyma681 they got both love and discipline.
4:50 That is what the American children need, they are off the chain.
11-19-2024
I love the discipline 😊
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@@clove7934
Are you in America?? You don't know what they need. Off the chain?? Using American slangs , huh?? It's one thing to discipline and all together different to abuse. That was 100 percent abuse. I wouldn't beat an animal like that, unless it was trying to kill 🤢🤢🤢
Be careful posting discipline of children especially caning. Other cultures may not understand. There is a way you discipline, this one is borderline abuse.
She was hitting him all over
In Africa we discipline . We don't leave our children to be indiscipline. Don't judge
This is clearly not discipline 😢This is pure raw abuse. Hitting child's legs with such a big stick😢She is evil 😮You can talk to the child en they will understand en even give u more reasons as to why they didn't go to school 👈Perhaps they are being bullied en school isn't enjoyable any more. You will get more out of the child than subjecting them to such hate punishments. That's why most African children grow up miserable en depressed en they don't do well in school coz the parents don't take time to sit down their children en Get to the root cause of the matter👌Hitting isn't the answer . And that's why the abused African children also grow up to abuse their children, all in the name of discipline.
@@princesslove2376 I'm american and I gave spankings to my children back in the day when government wasn't telling us how to raise children. Trust me it worked. They were more respectful and after one or two spankings I didn't need to do more. I always had the switch hanging somewhere they can see and remind them. They are grown now and we laugh at it. Time out? I don't do time out.
@@princesslove2376Oh please...Her adult children are admired and respected as fine adults.. SHE RAISED THEM WELL... These grandkids are gonna be raised the same.
@@rosetta4880Same here.. Time out was a waste of time. My grandkids know.
They warn one another....
@@cathymclaurin4340 😂 that's right. And I used to tell my adult children if you want me to babysit I don't do time out you know what I do. My youngest grandchild is 15 so they escaped my punishment. 😂
Nous sommes tous ici grâce à la personnalité que reflète Felista, humble aimanté respectueuse....C'est une grande partie grâce à l'éducation que sa mère lui a donné donc arrêter de juger. En afrique c'est comme cela qu'on nous discipline et nous remercions nos parents pour cela. Merci!
No!!!! That is wrong!!! At every level. I did that to my first born. Because it is how I was raised in South Africa. Then I realised what all those beatings did to me over the years. I stopped and never did that again to my other 2 children. Up till today I regret doing that to my first born. There are other and better ways to discipline children.
This is clearly not discipline 😢This is pure raw abuse. Hitting child's legs with such a big stick😢She is evil 😮You can talk to the child en they will understand en even give u more reasons as to why they didn't go to school 👈Perhaps they are being bullied en school isn't enjoyable any more. You will get more out of the child than subjecting them to such hate punishments. That's why most African children grow up miserable en depressed en they don't do well in school coz the parents don't take time to sit down their children en Get to the root cause of the matter👌Hitting isn't the answer . And that's why the abused African children also grow up to abuse their children, all in the name of discipline.
@@mstique3957 какие? может поделитесь
@@mstique3957 je vous comprend mais sachez que dans la campagne les enfants font souvent l'école buissonnière la plupart de temps pour jouer avec ses amis. Peut être que la maman a déjà parlé mais le petit n'écoute pas en sachant qu'en Afrique l'école n'est pas gratuit et le meilleur moyen de réussir sa vie est souvent de passer par les études raison pour laquelle la dame est dur envers le petit
@@princesslove2376 spare the rod spoil the child,we were disciplined and never died from it
I thought this was an old video until Lawu's husband appeared. The families are very engaged with each other. What happened to Felista's other two Chinese men friends who started the oil business for the family?
In the USA u would go to jail for that.. child abuse!
哇塞，小劉和光頭強，太利害了 ，再加上菲利的手藝，簡直太棒了，做了一道人間美味的甜甜圈，讓大家吃的讚不絕口，好開心，感謝小劉和光頭強，菲利的用心
Il est sensible le beau frère et aimant discret même sa femme un beau couple ne changez pas restez comme vs êtes
I love African mothers. they are good disciplinarian
This is clearly not discipline 😢This is pure raw abuse. Hitting child's legs with such a big stick😢She is evil 😮You can talk to the child en they will understand en even give u more reasons as to why they didn't go to school 👈Perhaps they are being bullied en school isn't enjoyable any more. You will get more out of the child than subjecting them to such hate punishments. That's why most African children grow up miserable en depressed en they don't do well in school coz the parents don't take time to sit down their children en Get to the root cause of the matter👌Hitting isn't the answer . And that's why the abused African children also grow up to abuse their children, all in the name of discipline.
My mother didn’t play with school either!!
@princesslove2376 you are right with your point, it's not everyone that turned bad because of the way we were beaten, I am an African , I was beaten and I am sure Fellisita does too, she did turn out well. A child with chose who he want to become either beaten or not
@@princesslove2376why, you are in every comment?
@@princesslove2376your opinion. That's why we are well behaved outside
@TheRoxy I totally agree. Child shaming is not cool. They should be questioned about posting this video.
I miss the other 2 gentlemen who were there from the beginning and helped Feli get to where she is now! Arguing?!
Feli she works so hard when she in China she her father in law helps her luv her grand pa help with kids God bless her family
We were raised like that in America, once upon a time 😢children mouth were washed out for using bad words, teacher were allowed to discipline children for to late, fighting, no homework done. We cried for a while, but we learned for a lifetime. Children now cry and get what they want. No government told parents they couldn't raised their children. Now alot of children are lost. That wanted to stop abuse but they also stop letting parents to be in control. I am sure those people who want to abuse their children are still around behind close doors and the other parents who wants to do the right thing feels helpless. I have seen so many mothers trying to talk to these little people and they don't understand, all they want is their desires. Glad their are country who raised their children and don't care what others think. ❤
Yeah In 1960s 70s and ask where those children are today . Why do we have people over 50 going to therapy etc the baby boomers gave their kids away or abused them . America stopped abuse because the parents were beat and had no tools . This is why your day there were more molestation and rapes because keep your mouth closed . Drugs etc but okay pain isn’t the answer for a child doing wrong everything is knew . Kids are not adults duh they don’t know what we know
Yees that's how we get disciplined in Africa and has helped very much. No where be like Africa 😅
That's exactly why Africa is the poorest continent in the world with people like you who think that it is ok to beat up a child or anyone that way, you should go back to live in 🌲
Yet Africa is full with criminals, so how did it help?
😮that brought back memories 😢😢😢. Why did he skip school ..
Another great blog in Tanzania from you guys! Enjoyed all of it and the difference between USA Chinese China and now African customs. 😊
Discipline, he will think twice before skipping school again.
Peut-être qu’à l'école ça se passe très mal , il se fait taper aussi et il a peur d’y aller . Je pense qu’il faudra interroger ce petit garçon sur ce qui se passe à l’école et surtout lui demander pardon .
@marleneruth9722 2024, That may be true. Something might be going on at school. I doubt very seriously if forgiveness is ask.
@@artmonarchia9096Je le doute aussi . C’est triste ! C’est un appel à l’aide ! Il porte seul sa souffrance ! Que Dieu console ce p’tit bonhomme ! Il a de grands choses à faire pour Dieu .
@@marleneruth9722Or maybe he just being truant. 🤷♀️
@@lesrinewhitby4653Aussi. Nous n'en savons rien .
So much love, camaraderie, and laughter ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I grew up in Africa and I don’t recall my mother ever beating me like that, that is child abuse. You don’t hit a child on the leg with a stick and slap him in the face ma. Did you use you hit your beautiful girls like that? I beg that is not your child and a relatives child entrusted in you to take good care of. I am totally shocked and appalled that you will even load this up on the Internet for the entire world to see it is disgusting.😢Stop the cruel abuse of the innocent boy. I’ve never watched your daughter beat her children on social media. Mama, this is shameless
❤❤❤Like the family at home.Lots of love ❤️ love to you all 🙏
Как можно так😱
Why is this woman abusing this child on a public platform like UA-cam. Long or those days when people are beating kids with whips. This is not slavery. Mom go sit down
That’s very mean to beat a child with a stick for any reason
Did anyone ask him why he hid in his room to avoid going to school? Is there something going on at school that he would choose to spend a boring day hiding?
Weak.
Excellent question. No one will ever ask. Could be beatings from teachers, classroom boredom, sexual abuse, bullying or anything yet no one will ever ask because that’s how it is in many parts of Africa.
STFD
@ sad!
Wow no me gusta este tipo de educasion le dio duro al pobre niño 😢
That child will learn from it.
He will never skip a day of school again
Cela m'a rappelle des souvenirs, et je suis devenue la femme que je suis.J ai fait pareil à mes enfants en France, ils sont tous vivants et bien éduqués
菲利丝媽媽教育孩子很严厉，难怪菲利丝兄弟姐妹都很相亲相爱。菲利丝摘那茅树，可以抗蚊子，菲利丝今天做好吃的糕点，甜甜圈🍩，小刘哥亲手做了。菲利丝的家人第一次尝试这甜甜圈，很美味，大家吃到很开心。拉鸟和女儿最近笑容多了。祝福菲利丝家人幸福之家笑声传，事事如意乐无穷，大家身体健康。祝福小曾哥，老李舅舅和小康哥，事业春风得意，花亓富贵幸福，健康春意盎然，财富春潮湧动❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉👍👍👍💯💯💯
Both Felicia and Lawu cannot read and write. Thanks to their Chinese men they were saved.
Children should be fed before adults.Sending❤from brown skin South Africa
Why say 'brown skin????
@TUPPENCE-2 In the past pple have made assumptions that i am an oppressor!!!!!
Because of my name and surname...
C'est horrible comment elle frappe le petit mon Dieu . Mais c'est quoi c'est comportement. Il a fait une bêtise ok ! Tu frappe pas avec un bâton . Pauvre garçon . 😢😢😢
We need to let the children know who is the parent. Both my husband and I grew up with that type of discipline and we turned out great citizens.
Although, we don’t almost never used it on our children but we still discipline them (pull the ears, time outs, take their privileges away etc..). We also communicate with them about their bad behaviors and let them know about the consequences.
but above all, prayers have been key for us.
Call upon the Lord for our kids (instruct them at an early age).
Do not hit a child like this please! I alwaysbe upset in Africa when I lived there for 5 years because of that. My mom use to be like this and I wastraumatized, I had to go the therapy and I raise my kids afterr my therapy without needing to hit them. Talk every day to them.
The ladies look good. The skin is healing from the skin bleaching. Please dont bleach your skin. You are so beautiful.
I would not show anything like that on your channel again. If someone reports your channel to UA-cam it can be viewed as abuse. I was raised with switches and whoopings and so are my children. As an American this is something my siblings and cousins are use to. Some of you will view this as corporal punishment, UA-cam may view it this same way in their guidelines. You have to remember you have people from all nations watching your channel with different viewpoints on discipline.
The knock upside the side of the head after the flogging
😅😅😅😅😅😅
I'll bet he'll take his lil azz to school from now on!😅😅😅😅😅😅
I don't like the fact that,the beaten was filmed and put on internet like this. It is shamefull for the kid that the whole internet saw how he was beaten. Even though it is something most of us experienced when we were young. We all did wrongfull things when was young and got punished for it, but no one has put it on internet. I think this was showed just to make lawu's husband seen like the good Samaritan. No need we already applaud him as a good husband. This so wrongfull.I FEEL SO SORRY FOR THE YOUNG BOY.
Accuracy! There was no need for that to be posted at all.
That is the way we are disciplined in Africa and we then dont have entitled and spoilt brats
If we bring up our children like on the west they will not endure the hardship in Africa
Do you realize there was no bipolar in Africa because our children knew life was hard and they had no one to spoil them.
Suicide was also very rare...
Feli you did well the video is okay...and you look very healthy and physically fit
I would also flee to China for such a mother! 😢
Well said...
Pourquoi le caméraman a fait ça ? Il a voulu saboter la chaine de Félista ou quoi ? Ce n’est pas intelligent du tout !
Absolutely.
Il prends tout à la rigolade, un peu fou fou parfois. Hélas sur le net, c'est considéré comme violent, sauf pour ceux qui ont été éduqué avec des punitions. C'est une femme hyper calme, si elle s'est emportée, c'est qu'il avait dépassé les bornes. Ils ont coupé la vidéo sur d'autres réseaux. Certains parlent de prison pour mamie.🙏🧘♀️
Y lo que no vemos??😂😂 seguro que nos asustaría con lo que no vemos😂😂😂 tanto blanqueador las está volviendo locas🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ainda ficam dando risada pobre criança nesse lugar😢😢🇧🇷
Bom dia do Brasil vejo os vídeos de vovô e vovó e kaikai ele tá muito lindo e fofo parabéns aos papais Deus abençoe vcs todos abraço ❤❤
Thanks mom He will never ever skip school again ❤❤😊
That is so rude. Why beating him that much?
❤let me say I love you and your videos. Something I've been meaning to ask, are you using skin lightener? If you are please know the repercussions later on.
No no you dont discipline with that hard stick. You're wrong 😢
I'm so angry by all these idiots commentors. This is the grandmother beating her children. These two grown-up sisters who both now have their own children know their mother is not abusing those children. It just shows you how privileged and narcissistic your society in the west has become. No one can discipline children or have respect anymore. ALL these adults got beats as children. Love is correcting to do the right thing, both beating, speaking, and teaching our children, not to become delinquent criminals. I was strongly abused as a child, molested and sexually assaulted as an adult, and that is not abuse as I am physically and mentally educated on trauma and abuse. Grow some guts.... It's never nice to be criticised or smack or beaten. It is negative but this is the effective of the behaviour and action he took. This human life will teach us if we do not apply wisdom like good listening skills. He will thank his grandma when he get older. I watch both channels. Please do not feel discouraged by the no sense commentors. Sending you blessings as you continue to encourage your family. ❤❤
Felcia and Lawu cannot read or write and cannot do anything without their Chinese husbands. They can never stand on their own two feet.
Both Felicia and Lawu cannot read and write. Thanks to their Chinese men they were saved. 😂
@KzukMq Another stupid and ignorant comment of yours.
@@qe545 The truth is hard. Thanks to their Chinese men they survived. See how lovingly Lawu's baby's grandmother treats her grandchild. All love and the baby radiates that too!
@KzukMq Survived what precisely?? They are full-grown adults. You are obviously an ignorant ra*ist troll.
😂😂😂😂All those who passed through there please let's gather here
I am still alive and kicking thank you mama rest in peace ❤❤
@mahletgetu7847 thus how we grow up
That's how we discipline our children and it's okay, he will never repeat it again. Spare the rod and spoil the child.. we grew up that way and we didn't die but grew as well disciplined children full of good manners and respect to our parents and any other grown up person allowed.
Watching from Kenya
hmmm discipline like this in the 21st century? I was disciplined by my parents which left me traumatised even today in my 60's and seeing this woman doing this to the child bring back lots of memories. It would be better to talk to him and understand why he does not want to go to school; is he being bullied in school? That woman and Felista should find out the cause instead of such beating! I understand that is what they do in Africa where I grew up but come on, try to understand from the child's perspective. Some people on the platform may not agree with me but I can only speak how I feel.
There is abuse and disciplining my dear. Maybe in your case it was abuseI don't know
But this talking you suggested ain't going nowhere now, because we think that we love our children so much, only talking sweet talks as though we are apologising instead of disciplining them
That's my opinion.
I agree with you. A parent can discipline but also seek to understand what is causing a child to behave in a certain way. It's called balanced parenting and not going to one end or the other.
I thoroughly enjoyed this video.
That was quite a beating ! Ilikuwa kichapo ya umbwa. 😢 What pray had the lad done ? 🤔😥🇰🇪
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I believe in children getting scolding if they’re disobedient. As long as it’s not abusive. Mama wasn’t hard on him. He even got to hold unto the twig. Also I believe children should be served the food before the adults
In Africa we operate on a hierarchy, for order. Everyone gets fed, in order. It has worked for millennia.
Feily memang kakak yang baik, rajin, sabar, semangat dan tidak sombong.salam dari Indonesia.
Additionally, how humiliating for the child. Everyone in the world will see his shame. This is disgusting and unacceptable. We have even witnessed Feli doing this to Dodo. This is wrong,I don't want to see this. It hurts my heart and brings back to mind how my siblings and I were treated. Don’t film this please.
Wake up! Those people that don't discipline there children, those children become tyrants like the one in Israel. Like the ones who enslave people. If children aren't disciplined they become are biggest social problem because they don't understand respect and boundaries.
Hi Lawu, you're so blessed, my dear with your partner and your sister fil I love and camera man. Lots of love
China saved them. Now I understand why they wanted to leave Tanzania as quickly as possible! 😢
ITS MAMAS SANDAL OR WHIP..... i celebrate friendship....warmth of friends, family
I remembered Mama whipped my behind with a rubber slipper. Those were the days when I was a naughty child.
That was not fair beating a young child
He won't do whatever he did again🤔. That's the way I was raised. Guess what, I am a contributor and not a burden to society. Parents let kids get away with many things that will haunt them in the future. Hold the line grandmother 🇺🇸💚
Aah aah,why are you beating her like that
in africa we discipline children. so dont judge her shes doing the right thing. she knows whats best for him. she doesnt want him to become a dependant or liability when he grows up.
That’s why their called Africans 😖
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I find most Caribbean and African parents don't give their children that love hugs caring affection and attention they need. Children need more love and attention than being spoiled with things.
See the boy beat by mom that he try to skip school,remind me that my mom beat me when I was little kid I also skip school,teaching me very good lesson,in Chinese culture school so important in your future,western will say child abuse 😅thats why western kids no respect for adults and the teachers,😢if you hit the kids for disciplined and some body report on you,you can in jail or take your child away, I live United States thats why i know,like Tanzania culture similarly Chinese culture,no wonder Felista adapted Chinese culture so well ❤👍
This is Africa and that kind of discipline is good. Meant to correct it wasn't harmful. Next time he will think before playing truant.😅
It's still wrong and not funny
This is clearly not discipline 😢This is pure raw abuse. Hitting child's legs with such a big stick😢She is evil 😮You can talk to the child en they will understand en even give u more reasons as to why they didn't go to school 👈Perhaps they are being bullied en school isn't enjoyable any more. You will get more out of the child than subjecting them to such hate punishments. That's why most African children grow up miserable en depressed en they don't do well in school coz the parents don't take time to sit down their children en Get to the root cause of the matter👌Hitting isn't the answer . And that's why the abused African children also grow up to abuse their children, all in the name of discipline.
Mais pourquoi a t’il fait l’école buissonnière ? Si tout se passe bien à l'école, qu’il n’y a aucune raison, alors la punition est nécessaire . Mais si à l'école ça se passe mal , qu’il se fait taper et qu’il est en souffrance , alors cette punition l’a détruit. Il faut parler avec lui , il faut savoir ce qui ne va pas .
Soyons amour et à l'écoute des enfants . Même si on se fâche ,on crie, on tape, après la tempête on se calme et on discute.
There are different ways to show a kid respect this is clearly not the way.
Why are they still in tanzanians???? Is it a certain amount of time that you have to stay there before you can leave????
In the Pacific, thats how we were raised and are raising our children. At least we grew up to be respectful adults and take care of our aging parents out of love rathet than dumping them in old age care homes. For all your westerners commenting against such decipline, don't be surprised if your kids are disrespectful & don't give a damn about you when you're old,grey and frail.
Agree with you totally. Very well spoken. Asians are the same
I am Asian and my mom beat me too when I was little
This is not discipline, this is abuse. It very hard to watch the fear in his eyes. 😡
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He owes Mama an apology for submitting her to world criticism. There was no cruel intent here. The whipping wont be repeated if he'd follows the instructions of his elders.
Bonjour ! Vous faites souvent des la Maltraitance enfantine dans vos vidéo ! Ce n’est pas normal.
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This is child abuse and violence, skipping school has never killed nor hurt anyone. Hitting a child like that caused emotional trauma and pain. I was born in the late 80s and was never disciplined by hitting and I turned out very well. I'm raising my child non violently and teaching them communication. People should stop generalising, NOT all AFRICANS beat their children.
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You are entitled to your opinion.
Just a thought. Is Lawu's baby with them in China. I know Rose couldn't get a visa for her baby. That baby needs to be with his parents