Bi kiama, my best teacher, blessed to have had her as my swahili teacher for 4years, btw hizo 4years her lessons zilikuwa guidance en counseling🤣🤣 hope to meet her again, We still have some unfinished business, she made me a promise en I have never forgotten
Wa! Was very much in agreement with wakiama until she said women should ignore their husbands infidelity and wait until they come back. Yaani as women are we ever gonna get someone who is on our side? Everyone including these counselors want us to push our feelings on the side as we wait for the men to get tired of their infidelities and we should pick up from where we left like nothing happened when they come back. Tell Wakiama to also give men the same advice ala! Tell her to tell men to wait until their wives get tired of their mpango wa kandos and come back coz yes we also see handsome men with everything we need huko nje. We have feelings too. Pls women if your man cheats, don't let the society force it's narrative on you. If you want to forgive him go head but if you also want to kanyanga kubwa kubwa pls do. Like she said this life is not a rehearsal. Ati ukule ujipodoe and be happy as your man cheats? Weuh! Huko tulitoka. It's not your fault that your partner cheats. We have all these responsibilities especially when kids come and balancing all of them leave us with little to no time to always look sexy for these men. And by the way as these men wenye mnawatetea age we also notice younger men so msituletee na hizi outdated shenanigans zenyu. The woman has to deal with so much even without the the partner cheating. We have kids that we take care of 90% of the time, we have body changes, we have to fight to get equal pay at work, we have to be at our destinations before dark otherwise we have to deal with rapists and murderers among so many things. Then our own gender like Wakiama want us to add to looking sexy and turning a blind eye to our cheating husbands. Get out of here!
Sit home, look the other way, and deal with STD's. I think I was cut from a different cloth, I have no problem walking away, I'd rather live single than entertain disrespect.
Thanks my dear sisters, always on point! Continue with what you're doing _despite the negative comments n criticism, u guys r doing a commendable job👍 barikiweni sana
Kagoni, thank you for featuring this.. i love her wisdom. Kindly discuss men and jealousy next time. What makes a man fail to compliment his wife? A family member has been married for over 10 years na she’s ever so smart and so beautiful figure iko sawa even after pregnancies but during our girl talk she says as much as they are happily married, hubby doesn’t give her compliments… could he be jealous or insecure?
I used to be soo bitter at times until when I meet my biological dad at the age of 26 years. Actually never wanted a relationship only to see him face to face and that was enough for me.
@@alicemuthoni6599 kabisa msoo, i fend up nikae single bt my children siwezi waacha ngangana na wao hadi mwisho, afadhali single kuliko kukaa na mke amekudhalau sababu ya kuwa hataki kuona ukiedelea na hii kuedelea ni yenu na yeye bt hataki anakudhalau, yani hatosheki kwako sababu ako tamaa sana na pesa
Hello Monica, I am really happy for today topic but ask fellow tr, how do you deal with a man who you give due respect, he loves his kids, given you freedom to advance yourself, he is responsible but, he gives you silent treatment and anahanya ukimuuliza he stonewall and break communication. How do you deal with one sided relationship??
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Seriously you are not genuine 😂
Bi kiama, my best teacher, blessed to have had her as my swahili teacher for 4years, btw hizo 4years her lessons zilikuwa guidance en counseling🤣🤣 hope to meet her again, We still have some unfinished business, she made me a promise en I have never forgotten
Wa! Was very much in agreement with wakiama until she said women should ignore their husbands infidelity and wait until they come back. Yaani as women are we ever gonna get someone who is on our side? Everyone including these counselors want us to push our feelings on the side as we wait for the men to get tired of their infidelities and we should pick up from where we left like nothing happened when they come back. Tell Wakiama to also give men the same advice ala! Tell her to tell men to wait until their wives get tired of their mpango wa kandos and come back coz yes we also see handsome men with everything we need huko nje. We have feelings too. Pls women if your man cheats, don't let the society force it's narrative on you. If you want to forgive him go head but if you also want to kanyanga kubwa kubwa pls do. Like she said this life is not a rehearsal.
Ati ukule ujipodoe and be happy as your man cheats? Weuh! Huko tulitoka. It's not your fault that your partner cheats. We have all these responsibilities especially when kids come and balancing all of them leave us with little to no time to always look sexy for these men. And by the way as these men wenye mnawatetea age we also notice younger men so msituletee na hizi outdated shenanigans zenyu.
The woman has to deal with so much even without the the partner cheating. We have kids that we take care of 90% of the time, we have body changes, we have to fight to get equal pay at work, we have to be at our destinations before dark otherwise we have to deal with rapists and murderers among so many things. Then our own gender like Wakiama want us to add to looking sexy and turning a blind eye to our cheating husbands. Get out of here!
Sit home, look the other way, and deal with STD's. I think I was cut from a different cloth, I have no problem walking away, I'd rather live single than entertain disrespect.
Thank you but work with your unfinished business in your marriage. Don't take what I say if you are bitter. Deal with it and move on my dear.
Very educative don't be policeman chasing your husband use that energy to make yourselves beautiful 💖 Thank you wakiama.
I love this lady niari mataro mega muno ngaii akurathime
Me what I know can make marriage work is when both of you love each other..
Just love the advice and knowledge from wa kiama..God bless you and Monica
Wakiama nice advice 👍.........you look more prettier in short hair than plainted hair
Great words from Wa Kiama. I love the lesson.
Amazing Teaching..Let them that Have Ears Hear..All Glory to Our Good LORD God Almighty for His Steadfast Love Endures Forever Amen
Mwalimu has reminded me the book " mayai waziri wa maradhi na hadithi nyingine". I did it back in 2009
Thanks my dear sisters, always on point! Continue with what you're doing _despite the negative comments n criticism, u guys r doing a commendable job👍 barikiweni sana
Kagoni, thank you for featuring this.. i love her wisdom. Kindly discuss men and jealousy next time. What makes a man fail to compliment his wife? A family member has been married for over 10 years na she’s ever so smart and so beautiful figure iko sawa even after pregnancies but during our girl talk she says as much as they are happily married, hubby doesn’t give her compliments… could he be jealous or insecure?
I always look forward to wankiama episode,it's Soo educative...
I used to be soo bitter at times until when I meet my biological dad at the age of 26 years. Actually never wanted a relationship only to see him face to face and that was enough for me.
î mûthuri ûrîa wendete mûtumia wake na mûtumia ûcio ndendete mûthuriwe , rîu mûthuri atûrîte eyendithîrîirie harî we, toûndû mûthuri amwendete roho safi no muka ndamwendete, mûthuri ûcio eke atîa kana onake eherere mûka tene nîtene, no mûthuri nî endete ciana rîu mûthuri ateithagie ciana e haraihu toúndû mutmia nî mwîtíi, rûngathio, kwîburithia rîrîa aramenya nî wamwîra ûrrnda mûgûre kîndû ta mûgûnda toúndû arenda ndûkagûre oe bia ciaku , mûtumia gûtarî ûndû ûngîmwîra nî rûngathio, rîu mûthuri ûcio arateithia ciana e haraihu agatiga mûtumia wake na ciana no toúndû wa mûthuri kwenda thayû akeikaria peke yake toúndû ûrîa anyaririrwo nî mûka, rîu mûthuri ûcio augaha ndakahikania nîgwîtigîra atumia onaga othe ta mahana mûtumia ûria wake endete na ngoro yake yothe
Hatiri bata wa kujiforce ..Raha jipe mwenyewe bro ..💕
@@alicemuthoni6599 kabisa msoo, i fend up nikae single bt my children siwezi waacha ngangana na wao hadi mwisho, afadhali single kuliko kukaa na mke amekudhalau sababu ya kuwa hataki kuona ukiedelea na hii kuedelea ni yenu na yeye bt hataki anakudhalau, yani hatosheki kwako sababu ako tamaa sana na pesa
Ucio nimutumia mukingu .
First to comment,peace first
Ini Nii riu ona ndingicari wakiama murakindeithai muno thengiu kwi ngai na kuri metha ya kagoni
Don't chase a man use that time to look beautiful 💯💯
Good advice Esther thank you Monica for the good job u r doing
Ati ngerie mundurume ndakombane?Eheria ugicagi studio.
FYI Monicah today you look good your outfit looks mmmuh
Nilimeza p2 na nkashika ball🤔i will never trust any familyplaning again but i still thank God ma daughter ako 4years now na nkapata akili mzuri 🏃🏃🏃🏃
Haki Kagoni "nda ti kindu gia gutuma....." gutuika muritu kana no uria wa ma ni "ihu" "mimba" or "pregnancy "- biological words.
Monica, Good Job and God bless u for ur channel .
Thanks for educative us.
correction,gishokio ni mwenye ametoka Kwa ndoa akarudi nyumbani,kuzalia kwao ni mukoma thee
Beautiful women n brilliant minds, thank you 👍
great lessons learned
rudieni hapo pa baby shower plssss....acha nikae old school
Monica you are really doing great with these daily segments. Kudos! We see and appreciate your hard work
Kagoni geithika muno
Watching
Or someone tells you , “You have trapped me “ 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Ooh I love Bi Kiama she is such a amazing lady I would listen to her every day
Ladies you are owesome and l love the show.
Hello Monica, I am really happy for today topic but ask fellow tr, how do you deal with a man who you give due respect, he loves his kids, given you freedom to advance yourself, he is responsible but, he gives you silent treatment and anahanya ukimuuliza he stonewall and break communication. How do you deal with one sided relationship??
Yaani monica nonginya uhuthire ritwa Wanjiru🤣🤣
KAI WATURO NIKI ?AKORO NDURI NA WAGANU WI SAWA
@@mura5615 Ndiri na waganu no ritwa wanjiru nirihuthagirwo uuru😭😭
tuned
Waow great word nodathoma kaundu
God bless you wa kiama
looking good ladies
I love the lesson❤😍...
Wakiama unakaa poa ,u look fresh darling❤❤
Excellent 👌
Monicah you look very beautiful 🥰
njangiri no njangiri ona ungimika atia
Perfect 🥰 thanks mama , I like your lessons God bless you en Monicah too
Maya mataaro nī mathuranīre 👌
She strong woman
But why we give them our hearts, if he knows well that's I don't satisfied,
Hehehe Monica tigana na wanjiru
Very informative 😍😍😍😍
"Ati soldier"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
look
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