One very important factor that keeps a relationship going...even though most people are not ready for this conversation is Each person in a relationship deserve to be their own person,have their own space to an extent. Yes,share everything together,with each other but you've gotta give each other space enough to be their own person. Then they share things with you on their own Accord. It's not by force. This is how trust is built. You're not trusting a person because you HAVE to trust them. You're trusting because you believe that even though they're free enough to do whatever they wanna do,but they still do right by you.
Nedu, you are speaking my mind. My take is, I do not support snooping on your partner's phone. It only brings unecessary insecurity and suspicion even when there is nothing. .I've had my fair share of such experience.
Honestly, with the way Naomi talks, I can outrightly tell that she isn't a lady who invests quality time in building her intellectual capacity but she is always on about the trending topics on SM, how to look good, vibes, chills and inshallah. You can just tell from the words that comes from her mouth and the opinions she gives.
Building intellectual capacity to answer whether or not to check your partner’s phone? Lol. There’s nothing stupid in her opinion that you should be able to check your serious partner’s phone.
@@kaybest9607 her opinion is rubbish, she is not honest with her opinion and She has not point. First she said she will delete her chat before she allows her man to use her phone. Abeg
Low key Naomi is the most realistic tbh ehennn they say because you are like her ehennn even tho!!! Seriously whether relationship or marriage your partner phone should be accessible…not really checking in detail but accessible that you don’t have to hide…and nedu there is nothing like small cheating and the fact the women at home don’t check her their husbands phone make them good wives!!!
It’s not ok to check one’s partners phone as it’s a sign of respect and trust. I have never bothered to check. I was brought up to be comfortable with being open. So during my dating days and currently, I would usually leave my phone in open places, openly type in my password and even go through messages and chats openly. Doing this created trust between us and boo found himself also mirroring what I did. Within 2 months, we could pick each others phones cos we are besties too. With this kinda openness, trust and respect we never needed to check each others phones. I have never ever checked his phone and no one has given me any reason to do so 😊. And of course I wouldn’t want my phone checked cos it would feel like he doesn’t trust me.
“You see men and you just see cheating” this Adetoun statement is a wicked stereotype. Probably, people who share this same opinion about men being promiscuous isn’t just based on previous experiences on encounters but possibly having a father who misbehaved. Abeg, let’s be guided.
😂😂😂 i love nedus honesty, I like Naomis thinking sometimes but she’s to inequality with men, I like hb character he’s is a soft guy but watch for him 😂🤣🤣😂 you guys really made my day all of you.
Hello 😊I really agree with Toun when she said she likes space sometimes , I am also wired that way and sometimes my partner would misinterpret and feel I want to break up.
Naomi is bias in capital letters walahi...one could say a chameleon too. If you observe, she says contradictive statements, the easiest way to highlight it, is when she's talking am about the same thing concerning the opposite sex. The main reason for a topic or show like this is to show transparency and undiluted truth. The truth here is these ladies will always go for what's in their favour first, the rest follows, regardless of whether it's right or wrong.
When noami said “mistakes do happen” Sis no one cheats by mistake, they either do it or they don’t there’s no middle line and definitely there’s nothing like cheating by mistake Everyone that cheats does so intentionally
I’m not gonna lie the trailer had me disagreeing with Naomi so much but she probably makes the most sense here. I don’t agree that only the man should be transparent, both parties should be transparent. However, I don’t like the other peoples stance why will you not check the phone because you already think they’re cheating and you don’t want stress. Being married to someone you think is cheating sounds more stressful than just knowing the truth tbh.
I wouldn't mind if the next talk on the show would be about " doing yahoo and all other fraudulent act,is it really right or wrong??" I really want to hear your says about this... . Thank you 😁❤️
Any girl that is always curious to check her guy's phone, (his messages to be precise) most of the time has things to hide too. Person wey dy use knife kill no dy gree make person use knife go her back. Every relationship blossoms on trust, if you have to check his messages then your trust is compromised, change.
Marriage and relationship is a partnership, your partner should have unrestricted access to your phone and vice versa, once these things are not there and both parties have secrets and all there's a problem. if you can't be like that with your partner then think twice about being in a relationship with them.
I feel like if you suspect something or you have a gut feeling about something then satisfy your curiosity because in some cases that curiosity might just be the answer that you need, that’s my own 2 cent
Naomi is the life of this podcast as much as the others and if there is no opposition in this argument, it'll be fucking boring... But her instances are 100% legit cos that's the nature of relationships amongst human (a man having ten women around probably asked eight of them out and two happened on their own and a woman who has ten men around her, its definite they all slide into her DM) and we know our guys, the real demons, even when they hear NO will still keep pestering. So if you as a guy, you dey check your woman phone, it is for two reasons which are to either you want to look for an excuse to push her away or you want to die before your time. So to me, Naomi is the realest. Thanks
Nice topic. Nedu you have spoken my mind. If the man is doing what he should be doing, the woman should allow peace by not checking on hubby phone. I am happily married going to 10 years with kids but my wife never trusted me a day. She accused me of sleeping with my own blood sis, Which I found it wrong and unacceptable, apparently nothing as such ever happened. I don't hide things from her. We both have each other phone password. My problem is when checked my phone she goes through my family chat and uses whatever we discussed as a family to talk to me anytime we have arguments which i see offensive. My question. I stood my ground not to give her my password, though she accusses me of cheating on her but told her nothing of such only trying to keep my family chat away from her so she won't disrespect me or any of them. I love her and I like to make her secure around me. Should I allow her to go through my phone or stick to the boundaries i set of not giving her my phone to allow peace allow? Thanks
I check phones oo. I’m with Naomi 🤣🤣🤣 hmm. But I’d rather not. I need full transparency. I wouldn’t want my babe to hide his phone. We should know each other passwords. I wouldn’t even need to search, I know everything.
I am of the opinion that as partners in a relationship there should be unhindered access to each others phone. I don't see any reason why your significant other can't have access to your phone. Not for the purpose of checking but just for access sakes, the way you can have access to your partners car, clothes and other belongings. If there's nothing to hide, why hide it.
Checking your partner's phone for me isn't bad, I thought serious relationship/marriage is supposed to be an open, transparent thing.. once you say you're inlove with someone how do you even go around fucking every guy/every girl.. I still don't understand why people cheat
Privacy is not always about cheating. There are some other things people keep to themselves, maybe friends conversations or family conversations u don’t want ur partner or anyone else
@@georgeyeya9839 I know that, I just don't support when a girl/guy hides their phones, turn it into an argument, put the phone on silent when the partner ask for the phone. It doesn't mean they want to start checking every single chat.
I don't know why everyone is picking on Naomi alone......everybody on the panel dey ooze toxic vibes. Wanting time alone is an empath thing( personality type), however some do it just to manipulate the other person. Toun might be an empath. Ignorance is not bliss And "that set of Women" that form ignorant,that men always bring up whenever we have this conversations( not just about phones), is dying inside( either like toun forming I dont care or like the drama queen bleeding all over the place). Mentioning "that woman" gan sef is manipulation at its finest.
(Boy) so me nor go know if I Dey waste my time with ba? Na only u wan know if u Dey waste ur time with me Na this thing nearly make me break up with my girl o, u nor wan leave street abi? What stop you from telling other guys you have a male friend already?? Cause u are beautiful? If I don’t fit you, then leave
It's better to protect your sanity by avoiding your partner's phone. Naomi when you are In a relationship that's not going anywhere, you will know without checking the phone. IMO
But seriously why should we ignore cheating partners, this is more serious than insecurity and hypertension. Until you get into bigger problems. Every1 will be moving in circle, even your boo get a boo.🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
@@ugwupeter3707 it’s not opinion, she is giving advice and there some people who are not allowed to do that.. let’s say it’s her opinion, she is not straight with it. She wants to check her partners phone but don’t want hers to be checked. Even if you will check hers she will delete the chat. Common is that the opinion u are talking about . Privacy is not always about cheating, sometimes people have conversations in their phone they don’t want others to know. Maybe friends or family chats
Lol this is funny. My dear checking of phone will not stop a cheating man or woman. Like naomi said, she will delete her chats before she allows her partner to check it. Same with guys, they can delete chats and open the phone for u to check.
i think the conversation is having access to your partners phone ,this is not necessarily checking his phone for something .the topic is having access to his phone ,his password. cos some partners dont approve of their partners having as little as their passwords.
in as much as checking your partner phone isnt right, id still advise that you check it tho especially if you are a woman because these men are not loyal however, if you want to have access to your husband/boyfriend phone, then there should be no issue with him also having access to your phone too. A clear conscience fears no accusation; so as a man or woman, this will help u understand if ur wasting your time and resources..... its not right but it prevents unnecessary future drama. If ur a wife and you know ur husband cheats, it will help u protect yourself, so oga doesn't go out and carry STD or STI or even worse, HIV and gives you that was patiently at home, taking care of your home. and if your a girlfriend, u decide if u can work with it or not (Vice versa) a cheating/lying partner never changes
8:15 so are we saying no man is loyal that every man you enter relationship with is a cheater? If that’s the case, then what’s the problem checking the phone? I’ll check and stop sleeping with the guy if he cheats. I no want STI.
Husband material just be giving me joy episode by episode 😂😂
Naomi being the real frankly speaking 💯💯💯
To be sincere
"Cheating is not gender exclusive..."
One very important factor that keeps a relationship going...even though most people are not ready for this conversation is Each person in a relationship deserve to be their own person,have their own space to an extent. Yes,share everything together,with each other but you've gotta give each other space enough to be their own person. Then they share things with you on their own Accord. It's not by force. This is how trust is built. You're not trusting a person because you HAVE to trust them. You're trusting because you believe that even though they're free enough to do whatever they wanna do,but they still do right by you.
Toun is always real when it comes to important issues like this 💯👏
Husband material is funny oo😂 always making me laugh
You wanna play candy crush on my phone 😂😂 - Husband Material
Omg i love toun's comments she is always very specific and straight to the point.....love you babe 💜💜💖💖
Nedu, you are speaking my mind. My take is, I do not support snooping on your partner's phone. It only brings unecessary insecurity and suspicion even when there is nothing. .I've had my fair share of such experience.
Honestly, with the way Naomi talks, I can outrightly tell that she isn't a lady who invests quality time in building her intellectual capacity but she is always on about the trending topics on SM, how to look good, vibes, chills and inshallah. You can just tell from the words that comes from her mouth and the opinions she gives.
Building intellectual capacity to answer whether or not to check your partner’s phone? Lol. There’s nothing stupid in her opinion that you should be able to check your serious partner’s phone.
@@kaybest9607 but she doesn’t want him to check hers..lmao
@@kaybest9607 her opinion is rubbish, she is not honest with her opinion and She has not point. First she said she will delete her chat before she allows her man to use her phone. Abeg
@@kaybest9607 there are evidently stupid things are opinions are based on and very bias
@@kaybest9607 eeeeewh 🤮
In this episode, I agree with Naomi on a number of things.
Everyone has this natural tendency to check the phone but we go just pretend.. Curiosity drives you to really know what's happening.
Exactly
Husband material is a super lion!!!!!
Osheeeyyyy!!!!!🙌🙌
UNN folks gather oooo
I'm here oo✋
@@ChinezeNwandu yeahhh💃💃💃 nice to meet you!
Low key Naomi is the most realistic tbh ehennn they say because you are like her ehennn even tho!!!
Seriously whether relationship or marriage your partner phone should be accessible…not really checking in detail but accessible that you don’t have to hide…and nedu there is nothing like small cheating and the fact the women at home don’t check her their husbands phone make them good wives!!!
Naomi capping nonsense!!! Cheating has never been a mistake cuz you’re absolutely 100% aware of what you’re doing.
It’s not ok to check one’s partners phone as it’s a sign of respect and trust. I have never bothered to check. I was brought up to be comfortable with being open. So during my dating days and currently, I would usually leave my phone in open places, openly type in my password and even go through messages and chats openly. Doing this created trust between us and boo found himself also mirroring what I did. Within 2 months, we could pick each others phones cos we are besties too. With this kinda openness, trust and respect we never needed to check each others phones. I have never ever checked his phone and no one has given me any reason to do so 😊. And of course I wouldn’t want my phone checked cos it would feel like he doesn’t trust me.
Thank you Naomi, you’ve got to know if your partner is doing anything funny. You have to be better prepared.
Naomi knows how to talk on her favour 😂😂
Ah swear
Naomi didn’t answer if she has cheated…..😂😂😂
“You see men and you just see cheating” this Adetoun statement is a wicked stereotype. Probably, people who share this same opinion about men being promiscuous isn’t just based on previous experiences on encounters but possibly having a father who misbehaved. Abeg, let’s be guided.
😂😂😂 i love nedus honesty, I like Naomis thinking sometimes but she’s to inequality with men, I like hb character he’s is a soft guy but watch for him 😂🤣🤣😂 you guys really made my day all of you.
Hello 😊I really agree with Toun when she said she likes space sometimes , I am also wired that way and sometimes my partner would misinterpret and feel I want to break up.
Naomi makes every topic interesting this kind of remind me my secondary School days when we de do debate well well
Naomi is bias in capital letters walahi...one could say a chameleon too.
If you observe, she says contradictive statements, the easiest way to highlight it, is when she's talking am about the same thing concerning the opposite sex.
The main reason for a topic or show like this is to show transparency and undiluted truth.
The truth here is these ladies will always go for what's in their favour first, the rest follows, regardless of whether it's right or wrong.
Fax!
Av trained myself not to check on any man's phone. I don't cheat. I am only saving all my tears for tears of joy.
The double standards 😂😂
How did they get your number in the first place?
Faithful girls don't give out numbers 😂😂
Aswear you no lie 😂😂😂
I support you 💯
Wow, so Husband material studied in UNN, our alma mater ahbi wetin dem dey call am again 😂👏🏻
Its Touns contributiions for me and her voice. Chai!
I completely agree with Toun, why should I put myself through that emotional stress. Brooooo i choose peace of mind over drama
Naomi don start😭😭😂😂😂
Just be single, and mingle, like a pringle.
When noami said “mistakes do happen”
Sis no one cheats by mistake, they either do it or they don’t there’s no middle line and definitely there’s nothing like cheating by mistake
Everyone that cheats does so intentionally
Exactly
The girl na idiot jare I no like at all
She go just da talk nonsense for mouth
Naomi be making me laff
So u wud check yo partners fone buh wudnt allow him check yours...so funny 🤣
Ke ife onye a n'ekwu ifea 😂😂😂
Out of most of their videos 🤣, I actually took note on somethings in this episode, this was really good 💯
I’m not gonna lie the trailer had me disagreeing with Naomi so much but she probably makes the most sense here. I don’t agree that only the man should be transparent, both parties should be transparent. However, I don’t like the other peoples stance why will you not check the phone because you already think they’re cheating and you don’t want stress. Being married to someone you think is cheating sounds more stressful than just knowing the truth tbh.
Naomi is saying rubbish
@@joeogbe2915 absolute rubbish. I think she does cheap drugs. Cos how can an adult be talking like this?? Lol.
I wouldn't mind if the next talk on the show would be about " doing yahoo and all other fraudulent act,is it really right or wrong??" I really want to hear your says about this... . Thank you 😁❤️
Haba you should know the obvious answer... Lets's not paint or sugar coat a bad thing good 😊
I'm always watching to hear naomi's takes on different topics and she never disappoints
Las las... Naomi na ashawo oh, she can't be trusted😂😂
Swears
Husband material is spot on, you outgrow some excesses
Naomi always knows how to protect herself 😂 I love her sha
Any girl that is always curious to check her guy's phone, (his messages to be precise) most of the time has things to hide too. Person wey dy use knife kill no dy gree make person use knife go her back. Every relationship blossoms on trust, if you have to check his messages then your trust is compromised, change.
Marriage and relationship is a partnership, your partner should have unrestricted access to your phone and vice versa, once these things are not there and both parties have secrets and all there's a problem. if you can't be like that with your partner then think twice about being in a relationship with them.
I feel like if you suspect something or you have a gut feeling about something then satisfy your curiosity because in some cases that curiosity might just be the answer that you need, that’s my own 2 cent
Honestly Naomi represents the views of most young ladies.
This Naoomie dey craze 🤪 😂
Haha, I share Adetoun's sentiments, lol. We both don't want the stress of the unknown. Namesakes thinking alike 😆
See expo o!!!!! "Search I'm outside " "search Meet me at"
Nnedu and his friend are realest persons here...no cap
It's nedu's girllll for me 😂😂😂😂
She has a point, but it is a two way sword.
Naomi is the life of this podcast as much as the others and if there is no opposition in this argument, it'll be fucking boring... But her instances are 100% legit cos that's the nature of relationships amongst human (a man having ten women around probably asked eight of them out and two happened on their own and a woman who has ten men around her, its definite they all slide into her DM) and we know our guys, the real demons, even when they hear NO will still keep pestering. So if you as a guy, you dey check your woman phone, it is for two reasons which are to either you want to look for an excuse to push her away or you want to die before your time. So to me, Naomi is the realest. Thanks
Nice topic. Nedu you have spoken my mind. If the man is doing what he should be doing, the woman should allow peace by not checking on hubby phone. I am happily married going to 10 years with kids but my wife never trusted me a day. She accused me of sleeping with my own blood sis, Which I found it wrong and unacceptable, apparently nothing as such ever happened. I don't hide things from her. We both have each other phone password. My problem is when checked my phone she goes through my family chat and uses whatever we discussed as a family to talk to me anytime we have arguments which i see offensive. My question. I stood my ground not to give her my password, though she accusses me of cheating on her but told her nothing of such only trying to keep my family chat away from her so she won't disrespect me or any of them. I love her and I like to make her secure around me. Should I allow her to go through my phone or stick to the boundaries i set of not giving her my phone to allow peace allow? Thanks
Cheaters think everyone cheats. I hope that helps
Nedu u dey calm down. The show is not about u alone. Abeg make we hear more from others
The opposite sex moving to you in your dm is not the problem , I mean people do stuff. The problem is you entertaining them.
I check phones oo. I’m with Naomi 🤣🤣🤣 hmm. But I’d rather not. I need full transparency. I wouldn’t want my babe to hide his phone. We should know each other passwords. I wouldn’t even need to search, I know everything.
Naomi: If he gets tired he should leave
Me: watin this one da talk again
From the beginning husband material made it obvious where he stands by saying “especially your phone, your own phone”
It's the sense of entitlement from Naomi for me
I agree with husband material … “cheating is not Gender exclusive” 💯💯
I am of the opinion that as partners in a relationship there should be unhindered access to each others phone. I don't see any reason why your significant other can't have access to your phone. Not for the purpose of checking but just for access sakes, the way you can have access to your partners car, clothes and other belongings. If there's nothing to hide, why hide it.
Thank you
Agreed but some partners abuse the unhindered access. They check it to monitor who you are talking to and this is born out of insecurity.
Clash of the Titans 😂😂😂
E be like say the relationship don tire you
Hubby's phone should have unhindered access biko
Too be sincere Naomi is been realistic
Husband material is just hilarious😂😂
something is really wrong with this Naomi girl 😂😂😂
I like this conversation menn
The Truth is, For a Relationship to Work, You guys must once in a While know what is Happening in Each others Private Life, Checking is Necessary
Checking your partner's phone for me isn't bad, I thought serious relationship/marriage is supposed to be an open, transparent thing.. once you say you're inlove with someone how do you even go around fucking every guy/every girl.. I still don't understand why people cheat
Privacy is not always about cheating. There are some other things people keep to themselves, maybe friends conversations or family conversations u don’t want ur partner or anyone else
@@georgeyeya9839 I know that, I just don't support when a girl/guy hides their phones, turn it into an argument, put the phone on silent when the partner ask for the phone. It doesn't mean they want to start checking every single chat.
@@georgeyeya9839 in a relationship I believe in privacy but there's a difference between privacy and cheating
Some people will think that Husband material na stingy guy but if you get am as BF u go enjoy shaa
Aswear ooo
I just love the way he presents himself
Naomi na tata ....in every relationship there should be a level of privacy...
I don't know why everyone is picking on Naomi alone......everybody on the panel dey ooze toxic vibes.
Wanting time alone is an empath thing( personality type), however some do it just to manipulate the other person. Toun might be an empath.
Ignorance is not bliss
And "that set of Women" that form ignorant,that men always bring up whenever we have this conversations( not just about phones), is dying inside( either like toun forming I dont care or like the drama queen bleeding all over the place).
Mentioning "that woman" gan sef is manipulation at its finest.
(Boy) so me nor go know if I Dey waste my time with ba?
Na only u wan know if u Dey waste ur time with me
Na this thing nearly make me break up with my girl o, u nor wan leave street abi? What stop you from telling other guys you have a male friend already?? Cause u are beautiful? If I don’t fit you, then leave
ashawo dy naomi eyes
I just think Naomi likes playing devil's advocate on all topics
Women insecurities are the reasons for checking their partners phone...
This Naomi babe sha 😂
It's better to protect your sanity by avoiding your partner's phone. Naomi when you are In a relationship that's not going anywhere, you will know without checking the phone. IMO
I love Naomi
Naomi hmmm!
Nawah ooo
I swear i love you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😔
Noami sha, sometimes I want nod you 😂🤣
Make I no talk wettin day my mind sha, but Naomi case na wa ooo
If Naomi was acting this character, then she’s doing a very good job.
Agreed
But seriously why should we ignore cheating partners, this is more serious than insecurity and hypertension. Until you get into bigger problems. Every1 will be moving in circle, even your boo get a boo.🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Naomi and saying trash 🤝
Who else is ready to hear Naomi saying rubbish again😊😊
I haven't watched it but I already know😹
She is open to her opinions so please let her feel free to discuss it out
Like ehhhhh…., I just know she caps alot 😅😅
@@ugwupeter3707 it’s not opinion, she is giving advice and there some people who are not allowed to do that.. let’s say it’s her opinion, she is not straight with it. She wants to check her partners phone but don’t want hers to be checked. Even if you will check hers she will delete the chat. Common is that the opinion u are talking about . Privacy is not always about cheating, sometimes people have conversations in their phone they don’t want others to know. Maybe friends or family chats
I so much like Naomi 🔥🔥🔥🔥men are just cheaters 🤦♀️as a lady u need to know where u stand
Lol this is funny. My dear checking of phone will not stop a cheating man or woman. Like naomi said, she will delete her chats before she allows her partner to check it. Same with guys, they can delete chats and open the phone for u to check.
Your partners phone maybe clean but he or she is cheating
@@georgeyeya9839 true nah God go help now a days relationship especially for Nigeria
NIce one
i think the conversation is having access to your partners phone ,this is not necessarily checking his phone for something .the topic is having access to his phone ,his password. cos some partners dont approve of their partners having as little as their passwords.
Angel Nedu 😂😂😂😂
Husband material 💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️
Toun is sure tired of Naomi's opinions😭😭😭😭😩 like girl have some manners
Funny Naomi 🤣
in as much as checking your partner phone isnt right, id still advise that you check it tho especially if you are a woman because these men are not loyal however, if you want to have access to your husband/boyfriend phone, then there should be no issue with him also having access to your phone too. A clear conscience fears no accusation; so as a man or woman, this will help u understand if ur wasting your time and resources..... its not right but it prevents unnecessary future drama.
If ur a wife and you know ur husband cheats, it will help u protect yourself, so oga doesn't go out and carry STD or STI or even worse, HIV and gives you that was patiently at home, taking care of your home.
and if your a girlfriend, u decide if u can work with it or not (Vice versa)
a cheating/lying partner never changes
Who do men cheat with? Goats, Sheep, Horse? No be women?
If you like stress check and be ready for the outcome too
Hmmm... This topic wey Una bring , we fit write thesis on top this and not finish oh.. let me listen first before comment.
8:15 so are we saying no man is loyal that every man you enter relationship with is a cheater? If that’s the case, then what’s the problem checking the phone? I’ll check and stop sleeping with the guy if he cheats. I no want STI.