Carl Crawford is from Houston TX and she had a WHOLE baby by him. So Lavon being from Alabama is BS!
The difference here was that Carl was worth $100M at the time of her engagement to him.
I commented the same thing without seeing your comment first lol. Agreed!
So at her age she won't be meeting another Carl Crawford any time soon😂😂😂😂
Exactly 💯 if this guy Lavon was a professional athlete, Evelyn would make it work. She's so full of it.
Had he been a high profile well known athlete, she wouldn’t have had a problem moving to ATL. She’s so used to dealing with men who’re toxic + full of drama that when she finds a normal one, she don’t know what to do with him.
He was too regular megular for her plus he couldn’t satisfy her gold digging tendencies.🙄😒
Nivea was the most honest by leaving the show with out a connection.
She should have not been on there nobody wants a fat single mother anywayz
And all the BUMS were at here. Did you pick up on that? One man wore the same pair of pants I know 10 times. Lol the one with the tongue ring.
Nivea said I got kids😂 she ain’t pressed to be up under no man and I love that for her, she knows her worth.
Honestly, he dodged a BIG BULLET! 😅 Good for him. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
And people in my hometown of where he is from in Alabama thought I was hating when I said this wasn’t gonna last. If you don’t know Evilene’s character from the BBW you wouldn’t understand. That man wasn’t on her level. He deserves so much more & better as I told his sister
He deserves what he wants for himself. He picked her. That’s who he wants. You don’t know him. Most women are delusional about the character of these random guys they don’t know.
@Metaphysicalmindspace777 How do you know this person doesn't know him? She might very well know him, since she speaks with his sister.
@@loqueniabenson8860 exactly 🤣🤣🤣 People read to respond only & not to understand. But they are correct. That was his pick
Evelyn’s character aside, who would actually believe that a relationship developed for a tv show would actually last?!🤣
I dont feel sorry for him. These men will never learn their lesson. With Evelyn background of being a industry passaround and goldigger he should have know better than to try to wife her.
She said she is from the Bronx and he’s from Alabama so there was a disconnect. However, Carl Crawford is from Houston, Texas (also the South) but she saw no disconnect there because the money was right 😂
She knew that, I believe these dating shows are a gimmick
Flavor Flav been saying that years ago he was on the show with a whole woman at home.He had no intentions of being with New York or any of those girls.
Right, I'm surprised they took it that far to get engaged. Nivea is the only one who I think was real about it.
@@russelljennifer72Now see, I never knew that. Now it all makes sense 😂
It was inevitable. He isn’t her speed. Besides, she’s too old to be stringing men along. I’m glad she kept it real with herself on this matter. God bless us all!
I don't think she was into him like that.....
Funny thing I’m from New York and my husband is from alabama and we work out just fine. Everyone is different , Alabama is somewhere I never imagine living but I live in huntsville and me and my family are just fine .
Rt I'm from new York my man is from Louisiana you learn to compromise the difference such as mentality
Why does this doesn't surprise me? I've always thought it was for a storyline for the show. She knew he lived in Atlanta but instead, she chose to accept his proposal. Evelyn, IMO doesn't like men who are a gentleman, she likes those who have a little bad boy in them. If she wanted it to work, and 😮get to know him better, I'm sure he had no issues with traveling to her or them meeting halfway between where they lived. Evelyn just wasn't that into him. I'm quite sure there's a woman out there who would love him just the way he is, even if he does live in the South.
Anyone who's ever BBW knew that wouldn't work -- he doesn't have enough money. If he had the money she wouldn't care where he was from. She's always been in relationships for the bag. She does not mess with anybody without big bags.
That last reason was weak!! People meet in college, fall in love, get married and stay married. So location has nothing to do with it.
Evelyn felt he wasn't where she wanted him to be financially 😢😢😢
Yep, she’s money hungry! It’s like girl you don’t have your own money
I don't understand when she said she's from the Bronx and he's from Alabama. Ochocinco is from Miami Florida. Carl Crawford is from Texas. I think maybe he doesn't have enough money for her.😒
All of her reasons sound like excuses
I saw that coming!
He didn’t have enough money for her. 😅
That's ultimately what it boiled down to! Had he been rich, she wouldn't have given a damn about any of that other stuff!!!
He isn't her type. The way he dresses, the way he grooms his beard. He is an average Joe. She doesn't like average joes
She likes a different aesthetic. An aesthetic that oozes or mimics money.
when I first saw him this season on BBW, I was shocked cause he for sure ain’t her type. Now finding out they met on a dating show for tv…🤦🏻♀️ 🙄🤣🤣🤣
I'm from Alabama and my husband of 22 years is from Wisconsin. If you really love a person it can work if you put the work in.
Not quite what she meant though. You can’t compare the pace of life in Wisconsin to New York City. Wisconsin and Alabama aren’t that different as far as pace. I would venture to say the pace of life in both of those states are similar.
Her relationship's never last 😫
He is a good man. She did the right thing by letting him go. His Ms. Right is out there. I am glad she didn't string him along and then break his heart.
Evelyn is one of those ppl who despite everyone around her knowing she's destined to be single, she doesn't 🤷🏾♀️
That part 😂 she’s looking for a man to supply her with the perfect lifestyle. But she’s older and men are getting sick and tired of her crap 💩
BS. She ended that relationship because she is like most spicy Puerto Rican women who want a bad boy type of man. Blue collar men is not her type. And he does not have that Chad Johnson or Carl Crawford money either so she ditched him. She is use to a man that spends bands on her daily and wont think twice about it. This would of never worked. She is use to a certain lifestyle. Im not a fan of hers at all because of her stank attitude towards DSBW
She's used to the fast-paced life and he is a laid-back country boy. He probably didn't bring enough drama for her. Maybe if he cheated, abused her, and stole her credit cards things may have worked.
LMAO at "Maybe if he cheated, abused her, and stole her credit cards." 😂😂😂😂
@empressorius she likes a challenge like Chad and his brood...she likes $wag
First things, first, everyone knows Evelyn is superficial and a colorist.
Secondly, if she knew all that why even except the man’s proposal.
And what does him being from the South have to do with them not connecting.
I’m glad they split because he doesn’t need anyone like that in his life.
He was such a nice, good, wholesome man! It will be a long time, before she meets another one like him. I tell ya, wherever there is a good man, there is a bad woman. Those were just all excuses she gave. She’s used to niggas, knocking her upside the head, & constantly lying & cheating on her. But don’t know how to receive a good man. She belongs to the streets.
Evelyn and Tamara were engaged for TV just like Ready To Love ❤️ cast members.
Sounds like he ain’t got no money to take care of her like that. That’s why she on back on BBWs because she need to provide a certain lifestyle
His net worth was 1-2 million I think but still that’s not enough for women like her
Bingo or he is that type that is not going to be getting used/tricking on her.
That woman has a preference...RICH ATHLETES... Single, taken, married, she doesn't care....just be rich and play sports...Sad, but true..
It dont matter where they live nor the circumstances. If its meant to be there is no challenge to hard to work through. Therefore, she can't blame the show, his son, the long distance. People make things like this work all the time when they want each other. Im not saying its easy but if you truly want the relationship, you will make it work.. They are just simple not meant to be, and it's ok.
RUN MR. LEWIS, RUN 🏃🏽♂️🏃🏽♂️🏃🏽♂️🏃🏽♂️
They were cute but he wasn't flying her out like those "ballers" and stuff she's used to. Move along. He deserves better anyways. Who's to say she wouldn't start calling him monkeys and such down the road.
Girl I’m from the Bronx and my husband is from Houston, TX . We’ll be celebrating 10 years in May soo yea
now its crazy because when i watched this show i knew and i said that none of the men they chose were right for them!
I'm from NY and my husband is from Burkina Faso. Evelyn just wasn't into that man. She's also a terrible person
The streets were calling and Evelyn came running!!! She's for the streets and that's a fact he dodged a huge bullet bc then walls ran through .
I'm originally from Brooklyn and my husband is from the country-most part of southern Illinois. People who are meant to be together will be together despite where they come from. It's about getting to know a person and growing together. IMO Evelyn is a broken woman who needs to CONTINUE to work on her healing. Getting on these reality shows to find true love isn't going to work. Lozada is superficial IMO and despite her humble beginnings she is not going to settle for anything less than a million-dollar basketball player with baggage and fidelity issues. IMO
Being from two different places is cap. I’ve been married for seven years after meeting my opposite! First off I’m a professional clown and my husband is a bank Vp. Secondly I’m a Black girl from Portland Oregon and my husband is a Mexican immigrant raised in a tiny Washington state town of under a 1k people.
I don’t know why y’all are surprised. This lady has a history of sleeping with married men. There’s nothing else to say about her other than she loves the drama that her life comes with. I can’t feel sorry for black men that will openly play the role for a chick like her but wouldn’t do any of this for an actual black woman.
I saw this coming
Breakinĝ off an engagement has to be the most embarrassing thing ever. .
To say...
"Will you marry me, to .....wait...never mind"...
Gotta stop announcing everything to the world...
She jus didn’t connect with him and that’s fine
Evelyn don’t want no good man!
Honestly she’s a bag chaser! Plain and simple he didn’t have enough money for her liking
Seems like she knew she couldn’t control him‼️ So she backed out💯
He is too much of a “nice guy “ for her 😬
I am happy for him and wish him well. Now Let’s see if he puts out a statement like JR 😂
He seems so sweet, she's a ticking time bomb.... From the Bronx fighting on basketball wives..... That may not want a wife like that. He seems like the type who should be with a beautiful woman like Tamara Tia sister... Lol
@jewelljoyner3723 ...well...what about Tia...she's nice...looks just like Tamara, yet is actually single!!
Why did she say yes smh
I’m from Birmingham. I’ve met guys from all over the world. Ive had great relationships with guys from northern states. I didn’t stay in Birmingham though.
So his spicy latina let him go 🤷🏾♀️
North and south I think are different from NY and Alabama. Especially people from the Bronx, they have VERY strong personalities and honestly, the south is soooo different. It’s a lot slower (not as fast paced) and people tend to be polite, it’s very “no sir” and “yes sir” down there.
Evelyn saved this man some pain. She don’t want a good man.
We don’t care about her nor any news period. 💯💯💯💯 No disrespect attended Sis ♥️🌹🙏🏽
No. I'm not surprised. I knew Tamar's relationship wouldn't last and I knew Evelyn's wouldn't. Six weeks on a dating show is not long enough to get engaged. Being from different parts of the country could of had something to do with the breakup, but who knows.
I applaud Evelyn for making the decision to not go through with the relationship. It speaks Growth and Maturity on her part! I Wish them Both on finding the right Person to ❤
My husband is from the south and I'm from the west we connect just fine. Trust me.
2:14 Guys from the north love us Southern women, so I've never had that problem. But distance is an issue if they still live there.
I’m not surprised it’s over he don’t have enough MONEY 😂😂😂😂
As an Alabamian the record in my head scratched😂😂 wtf?!
Girl, she wouldn't care if his azz was fr the sewer in Alabama, if his wallet was to her liking!!!
I'm from the northeast and an ex boyfriend was from Texas and it didn't work out because he kept on complaining about me being standoffish, being not outwardly friendly, and suspicious. He kept on comparing me to southern women.
I'm Glad she did it before the marriage 😊 instead of making someone else miserable 😞
I hope Evelyn finds love. She so beautiful 😍
Yeeeeessss! I'm so glad she said it. I'm from the Midwest, living in Texas. It is so hard to date people who are originally from here. Texans are very proud, as I can imagine, so are New Yorkers. There are definitely regional differences, and the longer one stays in one area, the more they attach and hold onto outdated beliefs. I'm probably not describing it right. But just know it's a thing!! It is hard for a northerner to date a southerner, sometimes. We're open and upfront, while they're closed and private. They care about reputation and appearances, we care about character, and dgaf about what people think. We're just different.
She need to just focus on herself and her children, anyway I wish them both the best
They talked about all the obstacles while she was on the show btw as well
Her excuse makes no sense
Im heartbroken, i looooooved LaVon.
Girl let God guide you in every aspect of your life PERIOD!!I'm from West Texas and my husband is from Houston Texas, the South and we're just fine. It's her I think. It's weird.
You be on it! 😂 Bring us the news then.🙌🏾👏🏿👏🏿
I believe she got with him, experienced true love, got scared or was like “that’s it? It’s nothing like the movies” lol and it was too regular degular smeglar for her. This could have been worked out in my opinion once she heals her shadow/demons.💗⚖️🧘🏾♀️👁️
🎶🎶lailaahhh lailah laaiilahh tellls it aaaaalll🎵🎵
Not surprised! Periodt….
Nice she’s rethinking about her choices.,that’s growth.
🙏🏾💪🏾💐
I think the distance did it for Evelyn. I remember her mentioning to him how are they going to do it with the distance. He probably didn’t want to move to where he is at because he likes that down south thing. And he didn’t wasn’t to follow her and live the city industry life 🤷🏽♀️
She is a true indeed city girl.
My mom is from Brooklyn NY and married my dad from Macon Georgia. I'm from NY and married my husband who is from Nigeria. This is a weak excuse. There is something else going on here..smh
I'm from LA and dating someone from the south of the USA would definitely be a cult shock and have never been attacked to do that LOLOLOL
She don’t like him. That’s it she wants a Uber rich man but she’s getting old . She probably won’t be able to find her dream man!!!! Too many moving parts lmao
I know Lavon, and he is a good man in real life! Very genuine. Im not surprised by this at all. Long distance relationships are cool when young, but not ideal when you're over 40. My opinion
I’m from NYC and for the RIGHT Man U will not have a problem!!!! Glad she ended now better than later❤❤❤🎉🎉😂
He have deep southern roots with morals and values and she is from hustle and bustle and she get it by any means necessary! That is what I got out of ….”He is from Alabama and I am from New York”
He wasn't a millionaire engagement off period 😂
Somebody gonna love that good ole down home country boy with some smothered pork chops and homemade biscuits.
Every reason she gave is valid. And yes it’s a huge different from people up north and people from the south. Not in a bad way just different worlds. But compatibility plays a huge part.
But people marry from different countries and continents, it all does come back to compatibility.
@@sbusisiweshaba1715real love does not matter where you’re from. The girl was not feeling the dude period. Evalyn. Like bad guys with money….and that man wasn’t it.
Wasnt Chad from the south.
We all know whoever Evelyn dates will only last for 5 minutes and it’s on to the next.
She doesn’t know what she wants. This guy too good for her 😢
I don't care much for her nasty ass attitude. However, she does what a lot of women don't do but need to do. She leaves.
A lot of women afraid to be single/want that marriage title so bad that they will marry anything, knowing he/or she isn't for them early on. They stay for years, procreating in the mess while the mate has them stressed, depressed, bitter, angry, financially struggling, a married-single mom, abused, cheated on and etc.
If a relationship doesn't work, hell just move on. Maybe you find one you can happily settle down with, maybe you wont. Just make sure you're doing what you need to make yourself happy no matter if you're single or not.
Amen and Amen..Love Evelyn's courage to say what it is for her..She had more financially to lose and when she asked him if they could just date, he said no. That is also a red flag. Had she marry and without a prenup, then she would have been quite vulnerable financially. I love love and I would love nothing more than that to be enough however women are permitted to change their minds. So what if she prefers a man with more financially, men have their preferences as well however women unafraid to speak their trues are vilified. Lavon seems lovely yet we do not truly know all the feels.
@@thelegendhimself3938 We as family members and friends pay for it when these women get with these mates that aren't financially stable.
I currently have sisters, cousins, nieces, aunts, friends, coworkers and associates who got a grown ass man but asking my single ass/their parents/friends to help pay bills, buy diapers, food, babysit.
My niece sends us picture of an empty fridge. Girl he was broke before you had the kids, broke now because he won't get a job. After she got mad because we stayed on her about herself getting a job/her man getting one to better their lives/the kids. I told her any time she asks me for money I'm going to ask why her man doesn't have it.
She finally stopped asking me, but still ask other family members. The girl used to ask every two weeks for money. She's on welfare, rent $100 dollars, food stamps, WIC but letting that boy lay up playing video games all day, half watching the kids. Now she's allegedly working two jobs.
Oh but I'm supposed to give my money because they chose to get with/stay with a broke dude. But see nobody will listen to me because I'm single. Yet they can come to my single ass for money. Because I'm single, I don't know what I'm talking about when I tell them to leave a cheater, beater, deadbeat dad, broke/broken dude. I'm single because I won't put up with the bullshit and haven't found someone who isn't with the bullshit, but I'm still happy because I love myself. So I mind my business/money and let people live their life how they want to.
He doesn’t make enough money for Evelyn. I knew a “regular” guy wasn’t going to be enough for her. I hope she returned the ring.
I'll never understand why men think dating Evelyn is a good idea. Fella's, READ the Yelp reviews before dating her!
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Literally I was surprised that she had got another sucker knowing her reputation
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