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  • @AnnieLong
    @AnnieLong  11 місяців тому +153

    come meet me and other entrepreneurial teens LIVE www.thesparktank.org/programs
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    • @NicoleRarefaeter
      @NicoleRarefaeter 10 місяців тому

      Tim Au 係中二中三 歷史科老師係全級最令同學乞人憎的老師 老師入來教書係比人取笑恥笑侮辱咒罵 冇個學生掛住讀書 掛住鬧人 別的老師為安撫學生 於是校董於是把老師困在一間密室 200尺的房 然後係度改簿 其實老師改簿的基本係同其他老師一切工作 八個到十個 或者六個老師為一間教員室 係學校基本 但這次係一次把老師調入單獨房 係軟禁2000東華三院李潤田紀念中學
      香港北角雲景道
      近北角宣道會
      炮台山地鐵站
      因為老師不受全部學生歡迎
      而學校校方把老師軟禁在一間房
      在一間房獨自改功課
      在學校三樓The history teacher of the second and third middle schools in the department is the most hated teacher in the whole class. The teacher came to teach. The department made fun of others and insulted and2000李潤田中學
      因為老師不受全部學生歡迎
      而學校校方把老師軟禁在一間房
      在一間房獨自改功課
      在學校三樓2000
      Hong Kong China
      Tung Wah Group of Hospital
      Lee Ching Dee Memorial College
      Because the teacher is not popular with all the students
      And the school authorities put the teacher under house arrest入我哋谷 世界各地香港人避風港WhatsApp 要係外國生活 你現在在外國住嗎?不好意思要問 不好意思

    • @NicoleRarefaeter
      @NicoleRarefaeter 10 місяців тому +2

      何穎賢係ebay計劃向你哋件波衫件值錢衫然後放上網拍賣 ho wing yin is selling football and soccer jersey in ebay to make tons of money for selfish purposes

    • @digitalepisteme460
      @digitalepisteme460 8 місяців тому +3

      Please, is the Discord community active?
      I want to know if it's a community where I can learn & share my knowledge with others.

    • @TheMadyGallery
      @TheMadyGallery 6 місяців тому

      PLEASE tell me what microphone you use!!!

    • @rondajohnson448
      @rondajohnson448 6 місяців тому +1

      Idk how to use this but I would love to meet with you and or just speak with you. You said Boston and I’m actually from Boston and I just found your Channel and I’m super impressed.

  • @float4046
    @float4046 10 місяців тому +1307

    Limiting mindset : I wait for the perfect time.
    New Mindset : I create the perfect time.

  • @SharieFernandez
    @SharieFernandez 11 місяців тому +2302

    Since you told us to comment our limiting mindset: "Grades and schoolwork are the only factors that determine my success and worth"
    New mindset: My worth is defined by how much I am learning, and my success does not solely come from a bunch of results, but from what I build for myself and what I learn in and outside of the classroom

    • @AnnieLong
      @AnnieLong  11 місяців тому +91

      LOVE IT!

    • @heavencielo6999
      @heavencielo6999 10 місяців тому +21

      damn that’s good. Your first mindset was literally what i was think for me starting highschool. I’m happy that i saw this video because i could had gotten to a bad path of mental health because of grades”

    • @Diana-jp3tv
      @Diana-jp3tv 10 місяців тому +4

      This has git to be a quote, the second part

    • @pl_pier
      @pl_pier 6 місяців тому +2

      i feel that! but my parents always care about that good grades that will lead me to be successful whichs true but also not. you have your own mindset and YOU know what is good and better for you.

    • @user-ij6zz6tp4r
      @user-ij6zz6tp4r 4 місяці тому

      You are so real for that 😭

  • @linagrishko
    @linagrishko 11 місяців тому +4127

    My limiting belief: if I'm following Christ, I cannot be a successful and wealthy entrepreneur. The NEW belief: I can do everything through Him who strengthens me

  • @Decenthuman_01
    @Decenthuman_01 4 місяці тому +155

    Limiting mindset: i used to believe that i am going to fail especially because im young, inexperienced and nothing really goes the way you want it to.
    New mindset: i now believe that if i want to make something happen, ill do it no mater what and being young does not mean being vulnerable. Starting early just means that you have more time to experiment and learn!!

  • @User-vf1vf
    @User-vf1vf 11 місяців тому +852

    Limiting mindset: I have trouble finding out what I want to do and what path is for me. I can't seem to figure out or discover what is my purpose and because of this I have no routine or plan to follow.
    New mindset: Instead of not doing anything, I should try new things and get out of my comfort zone and explore different options. Im still young and looking for new skills to develop. I should take things day by day, but each day should be purposeful and add meaning to my life

    • @bonkers4488
      @bonkers4488 10 місяців тому +22

      hey, i'm having the same trouble as you with "discovering purpose" but recently i just learned that YOUR purpose or identnity is not found in what you do, how you feel, what you have, your experiences or whatever you get from this world. Because if all that is taken away what do you have left? Yourself. You alone as an individual are crafted with an identity and purpose without even doing anything. Remember, You don't have to try to be any more to gain some sense of purpose. Idk if you believe in Jesus, but I learned that by having faith in Jesus. Because He made everyone in his image and to be like him. 😊 Hoped this helps, love ❤

    • @Sleepyhead_Reya
      @Sleepyhead_Reya 10 місяців тому

      That's what I want to do as well I have had trouble figuring out what I want to do too and I want to make an effort to explore and try to new things for myself

    • @fairyglow7903
      @fairyglow7903 10 місяців тому +1

      I relate with this so much 😭

    • @Chloe-wz5ic
      @Chloe-wz5ic 9 місяців тому

      @@bonkers4488 wow thank you so much for this

    • @faithkruz
      @faithkruz 9 місяців тому

      i relate to this one!

  • @fatimasabir4884
    @fatimasabir4884 11 місяців тому +411

    Old mindset: "I have to be 100% prepared for everything I'm going to do."
    New mindset: "I am going to jump at opportunities, even if I think I don't have the exact skillset for them."
    I think that it's so easy to 'not act' because you don't feel ready enough, when in actuality, you're just missing out on an opportunity to grow and expand. And just as a little piece of evidence as to how shifting your mindset can work, I started a podcast even though I wasn't 100% sure about how the logistics were going to work, what types of social media content I was going to put out and so on. But I started, and now we're at over 140k plays! Moral of the story: DO THE THING YOU'RE AFRAID OF, you won't regret it (obviously, when using common sense and when not endangering your safety).

    • @ingekaspers6412
      @ingekaspers6412 9 місяців тому +4

      I am proud of you that you took that step. Really motivitating to read your story!

    • @Jesicaah
      @Jesicaah 9 місяців тому +1

      I'll definitely try to have the same mindset at you! Thanks for sharing it

    • @sahraishere9591
      @sahraishere9591 7 місяців тому +1

      What is the podcast called, so that i could also listen to it?

  • @akankshitwadte-tardeo2951
    @akankshitwadte-tardeo2951 4 місяці тому +52

    Guys it's perfectly alright to not be making 6 figures at the age of 16 or during your youth, I know it doesn't apply to everyone, but seeing these ultra successful teens can sometimes make us feel like we're lacking something and can often make us rush for success, As long as you're putting your best effort and living happily, you'll find your own way. Have a great day :D .

  • @caramelwaferscreations9972
    @caramelwaferscreations9972 11 місяців тому +222

    Limiting mindset: not knowing where to start or having too much things that I want to do at a time. Also procrastination is a big thing sometime I spend way too much time on my phone when I feel stressed
    New Mindset: take things one at a time and focus on what I am best at before taking on something else ❤

    • @maeyun9793
      @maeyun9793 3 місяці тому

      I COULDN'T PROPERLY PUT TOGETHER MY LIMITING MINDSET AND A PROPER NEW MINDSET FOR MYSELF BUT THIS IS SMTHN I RELATE TO SO MUCHHHHH THIS COMMENT HELPS A LOTT

  • @melissachai
    @melissachai 11 місяців тому +926

    i’ve been following your journey since you were in eighth grade and it’s so impressive to see how you’ve grown since :) i’m only a year younger than you but your journey inspires me!! keep being amazing annie

    • @AnnieLong
      @AnnieLong  11 місяців тому +59

      aww thanks melissa 🫶🏼 this means a lot

    • @NicoleRarefaeter
      @NicoleRarefaeter 10 місяців тому

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      Tung Wah Group of Hospital
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    • @adeola1919
      @adeola1919 9 місяців тому

      same

    • @Cozy-Cooking
      @Cozy-Cooking 4 місяці тому

      huh@@NicoleRarefaeter

  • @-cinammonflan-9831
    @-cinammonflan-9831 2 місяці тому +17

    Limiting mindset: I'm going to fail if I try
    New mindset: I'm going to LEARN if I try

  • @Destanyee
    @Destanyee 11 місяців тому +160

    Limiting mindset: It’s too hard and people will judge me
    New mindset : you’ll never know till you try and people will judge you no matter what you do

  • @SabinaGilyaz
    @SabinaGilyaz 11 місяців тому +155

    My limiting mindset is that I am too young to be pursuing my goals and working on myself. Instead I should stop "growing up so fast". I remember you mentioned in another video that everybody grows at their own pace and that really helped me. I'm also still worried that because of my age, I wouldn't get anywhere with my passion project or any entrepreneurship goals. But, I am working on this and you have been a big help and inspiration!

    • @hnnhml
      @hnnhml 10 місяців тому

      Age is just a number, do whatever feels right to you🙌🏻

  • @mayerlol
    @mayerlol 11 місяців тому +33

    My old mindset was like: I wanna do it, so ill do it one day. But now i know that it is important to just do it NOW!

    • @callmekanii129
      @callmekanii129 11 місяців тому +1

      I didn’t know how much I needed to hear this,

  • @rebekahjoy
    @rebekahjoy 11 місяців тому +98

    I love that you mentioned just trying things. It’s such a simple concept yet we think of it as too hard to execute. We too often let fear (or laziness) stop us from trying the things we want to try. But if we simply just do it (nike is onto something), we never know how it might change the trajectory of our life in a positive way.

    • @safa-uc1mk
      @safa-uc1mk 9 місяців тому +4

      Love this! Just do it x ) lol nike rly onto something

  • @2838lovechiu
    @2838lovechiu 4 місяці тому +25

    girl. Youre the BOMB. Fully supporting you. 21 here and spent 2 gap years after high school just to find my own direction. Now im feeling alive as ever. 🥰

    • @anelafeger8083
      @anelafeger8083 3 місяці тому +3

      Ah feels so great to hear someone too who is the same age and place as me!

  • @SavvySaxy
    @SavvySaxy 5 місяців тому +32

    I started this video thinking that you were in college. When you said you were 16 I was like holy hell, this girl is YOUNGER than me? I'm 17. It's weird to find someone who's younger than me that's really successful like this. I mean, good for you for sure, but it just made me realize man I need to start that UA-cam channel and stop saying I'll do it eventually LOL

  • @abenap9221
    @abenap9221 10 місяців тому +103

    Limiting mindset: I don’t have the time or discipline to focus on my personal projects, I should just focus on school instead
    New mindset: we all have 24 hours in the day, it’s all a matter of how we use it. Nobody is naturally disciplined, it’s a skill you have to build on

  • @alyssarizzo1805
    @alyssarizzo1805 9 місяців тому +6

    Limiting thought: it’s never going to happen I’m not one of those lucky people I give up. New thought:I will make what I want happen

  • @WeitoGo919
    @WeitoGo919 11 місяців тому +63

    To think you are one year younger than me and such a hugeee inspiration for me to be more active is still shocking to me lmao! You are so amazing and just so incredible. Thank you for making this!

    • @protectomegax2674
      @protectomegax2674 11 місяців тому

      I am also one year older and I couldn't agree more with you.

  • @izzywall4593
    @izzywall4593 11 місяців тому +68

    Hi Annie! So my old mindset was thinking that I'm doing enough. I go to a super small school, I'm an only child, and our school is super easy so there is very little that challenges me in academics and my personal life. I want to be the kind of person (through a new mindset) that always strives to be better and learn more. I've gotten too comfortable doing the bare minimum. I love your videos :)

  • @Bamb1subliminal
    @Bamb1subliminal 11 місяців тому +12

    My limiting mindset is that I’m not good at communicating and thats just who I am and I can’t change that.
    My new mindset is that I can get good at it by just doing it a lot. And pushing myself out of my comfort zone to talk to people.

    • @hnnhml
      @hnnhml 10 місяців тому

      Practice is key thats so true

  • @Lia-yx6pc
    @Lia-yx6pc 6 місяців тому +4

    my limiting belief- “i’ll do it eventually”
    my new belief- now is the right time, i will not procrastinate

  • @liviaherri5315
    @liviaherri5315 11 місяців тому +17

    Limited mindset: I am afraid it just not gonna work and to be honest I don't have an EXACT new mindset because I just feel like everything put together, it might not work. There is only one thing that actually keeps me motivated:" But, what if it does?" Thank you Annie❤️I love your content

  • @ninetynine_0
    @ninetynine_0 11 місяців тому +15

    Probably one of the most limiting mindsets I have is comparing myself to others and not thinking I’m enough. I have found myself feeling lesser than some people more than often which kinda keeps me in my own shell, and I think next year in tenth grade I will put myself out there more, have confidence, and not conspire myself to others.
    Another thing would have to be speaking’s what’s on my mind, I’m a out spoken person but I am constantly surrounded by people who are degrading and have all the same ideas. It would be good for next year if I speak my truth with confidence

  • @ranzie4529
    @ranzie4529 10 місяців тому +49

    Hi Annie!
    I'm graduating from college this year and immediately entering law school. I'm a lot older than you (and maybe others in the comments section), but your piece resonated with me. Thanks for posting things like these. Keep it up!
    Limiting mindset: I must bury myself in many academic and extracurricular activities to validate myself.
    New mindset: It's ok to enjoy life outside of socioeconomic achievements.

    • @hnnhml
      @hnnhml 10 місяців тому

      🙌🏻

  • @alexandradiaz384
    @alexandradiaz384 2 місяці тому +8

    Limiting belief: people will judge me and I will fail

  • @greencave1188
    @greencave1188 5 місяців тому +19

    Hii Annie! This year I'm turning 15 and I do realize that growing up means you have much more responsibility to take care of, and that's why learning to manage things like social, studies, mindset, habit, and businesses are so damn important! I stumbled to your video when I was finding tips to start managing personal finance and a business as a student, and it might be the most worth it decision that I did. The fact that you're still a high school teen too just inspires me so much! I love how these topics you're talking about just relates so deeply to our every day teenage life. Hope you keep making contents like these girlie, xoxo!
    Limiting Mindset : The fact that I'm always scared to take actions or do things because of the judgement of others or I'm not meeting up to their expectations.
    New Mindset : I don't need to be right, I don't need to be perfect. Because no one gon' be owing me anything, just like you said in the video girl. I have to realize that I'm worthy even if I did a mistake, it's not like the world is going to end cause I did something wrong. That's why I need to recognize my self worth and be brave to take actions. Making mistakes means I'm learning, so it's normal to do so. I don't have to be perfectly good at something to contribute to other people. Just start doing it first. I will learn to trust myself and that's on periodt y'all!!! 🔥🔥🔥

    • @SparklinAnique
      @SparklinAnique 2 місяці тому

      Hi, I just wanted to ask how everything is going for you because I am also 15 and I want to start a business as a teen.

  • @bridgets_here
    @bridgets_here 11 місяців тому +46

    My limiting mindset: Everyone is better than me/I’m not good enough/Heavy comparison in general.
    Being the youngest kid in my family, I feel a lot of pressure to be just as good as my older siblings, who are all very successful. They each found their niche with what they do, their passions, hobbies, and even personalities. Being the little sister, I often feel like everything is taken, like I can’t do anything without copying one of my siblings, which stages a problem: I feel like I suck at everything I do. My parents say I’m the ‘jack of all trades’ but I just feel lost and as if I don’t belong anywhere. One of those activities that I’m unoriginally in is orchestra (which is what’s causing my epiphany).
    Last night I got my orchestra placement for the upcoming school year at my heavily musical school, and to be honest I cried about it. A lot. I got placed in the exact same level I was at the year before, despite being second chair viola in that orchestra and practicing plenty before my audition. But after reflecting, the reason I was upset was not because I’d really wanted to be in the higher orchestra, but I was embarrassed that I was still in the low class. I go to a very small, competitive, and challenging high school, and I was scared of what my classmates would think when they saw my chair. But in reality, it makes sense.
    Many of my classmates want to be professional musicians or composers, and are in groups outside of school, take private lessons, and practice multiple hours a day. I play viola because performing groups are required. I want to go into computer science, and I’m on my school’s academic decathlon team, so my evenings outside of homework are spent coding and reading (not practicing my instrument for more than 30 minutes).
    I’ve realized that I can’t compare myself to people who have different goals, motivations, and lives than me, because I don’t know what they’re actually doing, just like they don’t know what I’m doing and want to do. People often say that what is presented on social media is just the tip of the iceberg, but I believe real life is too.
    My new mindset (though it’s low key cheesy): I’m only in competition with myself, and I’m only in control of myself. I would apologize for this being kinda long, but I needed this out of my system.
    Annie, this video could not have come at a better time, tysm

    • @AnnieLong
      @AnnieLong  11 місяців тому +5

      so so proud of u

    • @bridgets_here
      @bridgets_here 11 місяців тому

      @@AnnieLong ❤️❤️

    • @kotab4372
      @kotab4372 11 місяців тому

      I'm the youngest in my family too I also play in orchestra (cello), if you don't mind me asking what are your goals?

  • @reigndroplet
    @reigndroplet 11 місяців тому +5

    Limited mindset: I’ll do it when I get to college or after senior year or after I get used to the new school year (so much waiting gaahhh)
    New mindset: I’m going to make time for achieving my goals, designate systems and support towards where I want to go and where I want to be. ❤

  • @golferrrrrrrrr
    @golferrrrrrrrr 4 місяці тому +2

    i used to watch your tea spilling videos back in the day and loved them… BUT I AM SO GRATEFUL AND HAPPY TO HAVE STUMBLED ON TO YOUR CHANNEL AGAIN AND SEE THE SUCCESSFUL WOMAN YOU HAVE BECOME ❤️ inspiration at its finest. 💐

  • @aurnaur_itsanamerican5133
    @aurnaur_itsanamerican5133 11 місяців тому +5

    The limiting mindset I have is that i’m not as good as other people are so I might as well stop trying. The new mindset that I will strive for is to persevere even through doubt, because it doesn’t matter how much I know in comparison to others. My most important competition is between myself and past me.

  • @SharieFernandez
    @SharieFernandez 11 місяців тому +12

    so happy with where you've grown to, so glad I stuck with watching this channel because u provide so much value to my mindset 💕

  • @rociofp8630
    @rociofp8630 4 місяці тому +3

    Limiting mindset: I believe I am going to fail before I even start, thinking “If I am not good at it inmediately, I’ll never be good”.

  • @Leangap
    @Leangap 11 місяців тому +10

    OMG, Annie! Thank you for sharing our program with your amazing community. We're honored to be a part of your journey and to have the opportunity to impact the lives of ambitious young people around the world. 🌎❤

    • @hnnhml
      @hnnhml 10 місяців тому

      🙌🏻

  • @lyioszf
    @lyioszf 11 місяців тому +6

    my old mindset: your grades define you and only care about what other people think of you.
    Now: There are ups and downs in life so don't worry if you don't get the grade you want but don't give up! Also don't care about what other people think, people don't actually care they have their own life and problems, so take some time to get to know you and commit to self care

  • @coralinestwin
    @coralinestwin 11 місяців тому +1

    my limiting mindset is definitely that i tell myself where i am isnt good enough. i feel behind everyone when truthfully im ahead even if its only in small ways. i hold myself back by thinking i cant get ahead

  • @deelynnetta6618
    @deelynnetta6618 11 місяців тому +9

    My limiting mindset is the judgement of people my age and FOMO. Growing up I was a lot more serious and I would always hear people saying I'm too mature or that I was and old person at heart, I took all of this as insults as if it were bad since I wasn't living up to expectations. After watching your videos about being alone and not having friends your age I realise that some people aren't meant to stay in your life sometimes God brings you through seasons of isolation and that is where you grow the most. With all that being said I challenge myself to show up for my own expectations and desires, to not focus on the remarks of others but focus on the direction I desire to go in and I'll trust that God will provide and remove the people so that I may grow into the best person I can be. I challenge my heart, mind and being to strive towards what my heart calls out to whether I am judged or "miss out" in certain areas.

  • @manideepag2058
    @manideepag2058 11 місяців тому +3

    literally QUEEN, YOU INTRODUCED ME TO SELF - IMPROVEMENT 🛐🛐

  • @camiii40
    @camiii40 11 місяців тому +4

    Limiting mindset: I think people are always saying bad stuff about me behind my back even when they are not.
    What I will do to change my mindset: Put myself out there and just not care what other people think

  • @tinker_sso6620
    @tinker_sso6620 9 місяців тому +2

    My mindset before was "What if I don't make anything from this", Now it is "This will be a learning opportunity either way."

  • @chocobun2006
    @chocobun2006 10 місяців тому +5

    =Limiting mindset:
    - my grades in high school are the only one who can define my future life and success
    -I'm not capable of doing new things because of my weaknesses
    =New mindset:
    - My success doesn't depend on grades, but rather depend on what I learned during my academic life
    - I'll try new things regardless of my weaknesses like fear and lack of skills and try to face them, and discover a new self

  • @feeblefablefum
    @feeblefablefum 11 місяців тому +3

    I have been wanting to start a youtube channel for so long but school has been so burdening yet I literally procrastinate and waste my time and I'm starting to feel like I'm falling behind, and don't know where to start. I appreciate this video so much! I'm a junior and this encourages me to just go try and pursue my goals despite my limiting beliefs about myself :)

  • @oliviamainmeat6615
    @oliviamainmeat6615 11 місяців тому +13

    Okay, so I’ll try to put out my limiting mindset and my new one as well:
    Limiting: I shouldn’t ask people for help and/or communicate my needs directly towards them.
    (Lots of childhood stuff going on behind that. Not having such a great relationship with my mother who basically taught me that I’m not loved anymore if I have needs.)
    New: I can (and will) ask people for their help when I need it. It’s their decision to say yes or no.

  • @hellopeople1748
    @hellopeople1748 6 місяців тому

    i remember when i was a kid and i saw you spam commenting on huge youtubers comments to follow you and check out your page, i did and i’m glad too! can’t believe how far you’ve come annie!

  • @kittycakesz255
    @kittycakesz255 10 місяців тому +1

    This is so helpful in so many ways.. i feel like youve opened so many.. points in my life and its so mind boggling to see someone “get their life together”, but i know this is just the little steps youre taking for a bigger future.. i love this.

  • @KamrynHall
    @KamrynHall 11 місяців тому +9

    I think a limiting mindset/belief I have that’s keeping me in the rat race is comparing myself and my content to others. I.E. I’m not good enough, I don’t have this, they have that, etc. I think a new mindset I can have is “what makes me different?” “What makes me stand out?” How can I use my individuality to its greatest potential!

  • @samanthasafari3519
    @samanthasafari3519 11 місяців тому +4

    One thing that has been keeping me from getting out of the rat race is my social anxiety and asking for help. I really want to get into the mental health field but I feel like there’s not enough opportunities in my small town to do so. But now I realize that it’s my limited mindset of not reaching out and finding opportunities myself 😊

  • @bria100976
    @bria100976 27 днів тому +1

    My limiting belief: Being afraid to be perceived by others while trying and having them witness any sort of failures.
    My new belief: Proceeding with courage and having patience with myself while I learn! Being okay with asking for help or advice ❤

  • @jiminsleftsock804
    @jiminsleftsock804 4 дні тому

    My limiting belief is that things will be handed to me. I just graduated high school and I am ready to leave that mindset behind. My new mindset is if I want something I have to put in the work to achieve it.

  • @aud5878
    @aud5878 10 місяців тому +3

    Limiting mindset: I promise myself I'll do things and I usually don't end up doing it.
    New mindset: I will value my own time and this is one of my favorite quotes "Be strict with yourself and tolerante of others"

  • @ambriellecalixte
    @ambriellecalixte 11 місяців тому +3

    Limiting mindset: I’ll do that when I’m older. I’m not ready yet.
    New mindset: Do it now. Push yourself, and you’ll grow.

  • @ellieeagleson714
    @ellieeagleson714 7 місяців тому +1

    My limiting mindset is believing I’m not smart or good enough to achieve what I really want to. I see other people, even younger than me so much smarter with their life put together and it makes me feel lost. I’m changing this by taking more opportunities that get me out of my comfort zone and learning that just because I’m doing things at a different pace doesn’t make me any less successful.

  • @lilyhibbard
    @lilyhibbard 10 місяців тому

    Hi, Annie, you have been incredibly inspirational to not only me but so many other young people.
    An OLD belief I can talk about is being so hard on myself about my grades to the point where if I got anything below an A I would be kicking myself or crying, knowing that a result on a test or a homework assignment doesn't define my intelligence level nor who I am as a person.
    My NEW belief going forward is to focus on using my drive to benefit my future, for example, making money, advising people, and giving back to my community because those things are what truly count. But referencing your video I can agree to still focus on schoolwork and get the grades I deserve, while still believing that I can be imperfectly perfect.

  • @starplayzreadbio373
    @starplayzreadbio373 2 місяці тому +3

    Yeah I'm 16 trying to figure out 'what I want to become when I grow up' 👁👄👁

  • @poohbeardrawz8043
    @poohbeardrawz8043 11 місяців тому +3

    Bad mindset I’ve been holding onto recently… “I have to be 18 to do anything cool” and “I have to chose RIGHT NOW or not at all when it comes to a career”. I want to start doing things now. So my new mindset:
    “If I want to do something, I’m going to hold myself accountable and follow through every time” I want to meet intelligent people, talk to professionals, and get my but out the door and into the field I want to chase after so I can make a difference.
    Another negative mindset I’ve had: “the world is too big for me to make a difference”
    From now on I want to start believing in myself and my dreams. I want to make a difference in the world. And it starts “with one small step”.

  • @korinnaiaccarino745
    @korinnaiaccarino745 10 місяців тому +2

    My limiting mindset is probably me thinking that in order to do or start something, i already have to be really good at it like a professional. A new mindset i’m gonna have is that trying is going to get me further than being too scared to try it. You can never have too many experiences.

  • @nathanlu1141
    @nathanlu1141 11 місяців тому +3

    Limiting mindset: not taking action on an idea. Most of the times when there’s something I want to pursue (a job, a volunteering opportunity, being outgoing, going way out of my comfort zone), i tend to not take action. Even when i do, i usually don’t go all the way to complete something.
    New mindset: Journal and learn what really matters to me, and what I actually want to pursue. Create a schedule and checklist and work your way through. DONT give up.

  • @Addie_48
    @Addie_48 11 місяців тому +31

    Girl you inspire me so so much. I’m going into 8th grade this year and really want to start trying harder in school and writing non fiction self help books and start studying psychology(not a professional at all lol) You feel like an older like-minded friend to me. You even helped me to start my podcast (which I quit) but still, you are such an inspiration to middle and high schoolers. Keep doing what you’re doing girl ❤

    • @AnnieLong
      @AnnieLong  11 місяців тому +7

      awww this comment is literally what keeps me going ty.

  • @moluriy3796
    @moluriy3796 11 місяців тому

    Hii, I just wanna say that i watched like 4 of your videos long time ago and now when i started watching you again i really feel like i am really in need of someone like you in my life, your videos are amazing. I do'nt have any really inspiring people around me that are my age. I just feel weird and i feel like it stops me from growing (and it just make me lonely). That's why youtuber like you are very important for me. (I am sorry if my
    English is not perfect, i am trying my best

  • @ivywennergren8988
    @ivywennergren8988 10 місяців тому

    a mindset that i have that holds me back is that i always think that someone else will always do it better. which is probably true but i don’t want to let it stop me from trying new things anymore!

  • @tiktokroyalty4063
    @tiktokroyalty4063 11 місяців тому +24

    Limiting mindset: Not being good enough (basically not living up to everyone else's success) or being to young to be working towards my goals and working on self love (I just sometimes feel like im not being a normal teenager and that i'm growing up too fast)
    New mindset: We all work and grow at different paces, someone else's success doesn't mean that is where i'm also supposed to be heading.

  • @madalena17
    @madalena17 10 місяців тому +3

    Limiting mindset: My punishment for having done things I regret and bad things in general is to see everyone around me succeed, but not me.
    New mindset: Its okay to make mistakes, we are all healing and sometimes we hurt others because of that and that doesn't mean I won't succeed... I will, I am capable of it and I'm gonna live my dream life.

  • @ItsMarissa
    @ItsMarissa 9 місяців тому +3

    As told, limiting mindset: "You need to have enough knowledge and available time to become successful and have the life you dream of."
    New Mindset: I am enough to make mistakes and work hard around the time I have. I don't need to focus on the results, but on what I make out of what I am doing and learning from the experiences I do.
    I have always wanted to be successful and have a life that is a dream and uncontrollably fun since I can remember. Like you said, the Gen Z generation only depends on things that are given to us. I want to get out of that and work hard for myself and do the impossible that many people my age wouldn't do.

  • @phalaenopsis6986
    @phalaenopsis6986 11 місяців тому +2

    my limiting mindset : I am not quallified/smart/strong/... enough to do something or to try something. I am breaking this cycle of thoughts by exposing myself to areas where I will feel/be an impostor, and learn to be comfortable with uncomfortable. I recently got a summer job which is totally out of my comfort zone - and I turned out to be a good match for the situation!! I am ready to try new things that I was putting of for such a long time :)

  • @viviantang5131
    @viviantang5131 11 місяців тому

    Thank you Annie so much for your videos! I’m preparing to go to college in September and watching your videos helps me evaluate many different aspects of my life, and makes me a better person overall

  • @jenniferosiberu1123
    @jenniferosiberu1123 11 місяців тому +9

    Limiting mindset: "things have to be perfect/ I need to get my life together before I begin anything" there will never be a "perfect time" start now ❤

  • @thomasoliver555
    @thomasoliver555 9 місяців тому +3

    NEVER LIMIT YOURSELF you can be successful early
    I've been a student of "LIFE" for three years now after finishing college. Before you graduate from school and enter the real world, you need to organize yourself. Your greatest asset is you! so in v e st heavily in yourself to experience miracles.

    • @mellisabowie8691
      @mellisabowie8691 9 місяців тому

      That's what I tell my kids don't limit yourself. Go for it!

    • @thomasoliver555
      @thomasoliver555 9 місяців тому

      Yh.. I started early from college to take risks and opportunities. Yield great results, I just hit 6 figures in Income

    • @fertiksheena8005
      @fertiksheena8005 9 місяців тому

      I'm happy I bumped into this video and comments. I'm a freshman in college, I run a small business where I wash sideways and clear lawns to make a few extra bucks, I don't want to take up student loans. Any extra tips you care to share

    • @thomasoliver555
      @thomasoliver555 8 місяців тому

      @fertiksheena8005

    • @thomasoliver555
      @thomasoliver555 8 місяців тому

      @fertiksheena8005 live frugal, save money, buy only stuff you need, learn new skills, educate yourself about financial literacy and most importantly learn to In v e st, it's a great way to grow more. You can get a pro guide you as you start

  • @pipettemace_
    @pipettemace_ 10 місяців тому +1

    my limiting mindset is that my worth is limited to what people think of me, and that they think negatively of me. I’m changing this belief to ‘I am a positive person to be around’ and ‘I don’t care what people think about me!’

  • @sabeehabaako1696
    @sabeehabaako1696 6 місяців тому +2

    My limiting mindset is "I can't be any better than I already am because of the environment I come from and the people around me. What makes me think I can be successful or smarter than them? " and also " Not being sure what i want to become in future is going to hold me back drastically, I am not smart enough"
    My new mindset is going to be, " It is okay to get out of my comfort zone and I can't do anything I put my mind to, I CAN achieve my goals, I CAN be successful, I CAN learn and improve myself. My environment, grades and failures doesn't define me or my future and I CAN learn and build myself "

  • @christabellezegbe8124
    @christabellezegbe8124 10 місяців тому +3

    Limiting mindset: I have to stop letting the what if control my life because some times many other problems come with the self doubting. Also stop letting my appearance be the way people see me because that isn't all I am.
    New mindset: Self doubting will take over me if I let it so I need to make choices good or bad and live with it .

    • @hnnhml
      @hnnhml 10 місяців тому

      🙌🏻

  • @azbmqu
    @azbmqu 10 місяців тому +4

    Limiting Mindset: Socializing
    I’m very quiet and absolutely horrible at socializing. I’m always staying in my comfort zone and avoiding any sort of interaction, I’m also always worrying about what people think about me which is why I isolate myself from others.
    New Mindset: I’m going to practice socializing more and get out of my comfort zone, I’ll do things I don’t normally do since I think that’ll definitely help me be more confident and socialize more!! :)

    • @lucia-og9oh
      @lucia-og9oh 10 місяців тому

      hi, how do you plan to socialize? like where do you even go? (sorry if its weird, i’m kinda struggling rn)

    • @azbmqu
      @azbmqu 10 місяців тому

      @@lucia-og9oh Well, I’m currently still in hs rn so I’m just going to be more open to people and try starting simple convos. Work may even help with it since you have to be working with your colleagues depending on your job.

    • @azbmqu
      @azbmqu 10 місяців тому

      @@lucia-og9oh Basically just give people a chance ! :)

  • @likaelishkov5831
    @likaelishkov5831 10 місяців тому +1

    limiting mindset: its taking too long, i give up.
    new mindset: i know its going to take time but its going to be worth it if i put my heart into it and find passion in it

  • @peperomiagold6030
    @peperomiagold6030 8 місяців тому +1

    My limiting belief : grades define me
    My new belief : my life and succes are defined from my passion to learn and improve and not some numbers on paper

  • @LucasDungy
    @LucasDungy 10 місяців тому +3

    Limiting Mindset: “How am I gonna get people to like me, I need to start doing what’s socially acceptable”
    New Mindset: Just do my own thing, making UA-cam videos and I will attract the right people into my life

  • @SheriyaMT
    @SheriyaMT 11 місяців тому +3

    Becoming successful is not for me but after seeing this made me motivate to push more. Thank you!

    • @mintea9726
      @mintea9726 11 місяців тому

      Actually 💕💕

  • @LucasDungy
    @LucasDungy 10 місяців тому +1

    I've been doing YT for about 4-5 years? Just started this new channel about 2 years ago, hoping this works-out. Recently changed my mindset after watching this video. Thank u Annie!!

  • @kermitwearsasombrerokermit5776
    @kermitwearsasombrerokermit5776 9 місяців тому

    The point you made against comparing yourself to people more successful then you really hit me hard.
    It used to physically make me cringe when I saw someone who I, even in the slightest , wished I was.
    Even just talking about that topic for a few moments made me realize how selfish those thoughts were. Thank you for inspiring all of us to take inspiration from everyone around us and enjoying who we are and our own journeys to a 'successful' life!!!❤

  • @moony8996
    @moony8996 4 місяці тому +14

    I hate that these people never get straight to the point and always just make you feel bad for not being a child millionaire.

    • @kindabent3275
      @kindabent3275 3 місяці тому +2

      It's kinda inspiring tbf but everyone's circumstances are different.
      The whole mindset thing is true though. But again, it solely comes down to you as a person

  • @siddhipatodi
    @siddhipatodi День тому

    1st attitude-i was waiting for approval ,or maybe waiting for others to get me going
    now-i am going to be the one for myself and start experimenting more

  • @user-jd8tc5gq8q
    @user-jd8tc5gq8q 10 місяців тому +1

    my limited mindset: grades determine your future.
    new mindset: try new things in life and get out of my comfort zone to explore the non-academic life.

  • @cryptidddd
    @cryptidddd Місяць тому +9

    rich parents

  • @Talyapashuta
    @Talyapashuta 5 місяців тому +1

    One of my limiting mindsets is that I need to be completely ready for something in order to begin. A new mindset I will adopt is that there is always more stuff to do

  • @ashtee
    @ashtee 10 місяців тому

    I love your channel so much , it makes me motivated and feel peaceful ❤️

  • @bobaboba1760
    @bobaboba1760 6 місяців тому +1

    limiting belief: i use my mental health and business as an excuse to not to the things that i want to do but are out of my comfort zone
    new belief: i will feel better and less rushed if i do that scary thing instead of letting it burn a hole in my pocket

  • @jaydenhull
    @jaydenhull 2 місяці тому +1

    Limiting Mindset: I'm so different from everyone, I should just try to fit in with everyone else.
    New Mindset: I may be different from everyone else, but that's exactly what makes me stand out from the crowd.

  • @gigipearl19
    @gigipearl19 10 місяців тому +1

    My limiting belief is that because there aren’t a lot of opportunities where I live, it will be too difficult and I will end up embarrassing myself when I go into the “real world”. I need to remember that if I want to do something, then I will find opportunities, and I can’t let my fear of judgement stop me from doing what I love.

  • @ethanc7770
    @ethanc7770 2 місяці тому +1

    I have a limiting mindset of believing I am unable to do the work. I have a new mindset that I will be able to do work that others can do, I just have to cut out the distractions.

  • @Sabrinandstuff
    @Sabrinandstuff 4 місяці тому +1

    Limiting mindset: That I am to young to be teaching self-improvement/Self-care through my videos.
    New mindset: There is no age gap in improving your life

  • @aaestheticlemonn9426
    @aaestheticlemonn9426 2 місяці тому +1

    limited mindset: what if the thing i do will not gain any value? what if its a failier and I'm unsuccessful and my parents will be disappointed
    new mindset: it doesn't matter if its a failier I should try and see where it goes and my parents shouldn't be in control of my life

  • @cora4811
    @cora4811 6 місяців тому +1

    I’m doing research for my school, i really love that i chose this option.

  • @hannaha81
    @hannaha81 2 місяці тому

    Thank you Annie for this video - it's really inspired me.
    Limiting mindset: I will not get taken seriously becuase of my age/appearance.
    New mindset: Knowledge, conviction & dedication will take me all the way.

  • @hhhastiii5379
    @hhhastiii5379 3 місяці тому +1

    whats keeping me in the rat race = constantly seeking for good grades and not feeling enough
    how I'm gonna change that= I will remind myself how much I have advanced , and I will also remind myself that if I put the same effort into coding I will also see equal amounts of improvement.

  • @rishika1111
    @rishika1111 11 місяців тому +2

    I am gonna adopt this new mindset where I master my emotions and feelings. I start believing in myself even more so that the dominant thoughts in my brain are setting me up for success. I believe I will achieve this no matter what.

    • @hnnhml
      @hnnhml 10 місяців тому

      Yess🙌🏻

  • @approxer
    @approxer 10 місяців тому +1

    limiting mindset : I don't know what business should I start, I am too young to start anything so I should just keep learning.
    new mindset : I try out new things, all of my business ideas & plans I didn't do because of my age. There is no time to wait, I just have to do it. The game has already started.

  • @serenayassa7689
    @serenayassa7689 7 місяців тому

    I’ve grown up being told I can do what ever I like, mean while when ever I go and try something new I’m put down and good I’m reaching to far and could never achieve it. Because of this, I’ve grown up with the sense that I never achieve anything, and would always fail.
    I will change my mindset by taking a list of goals and working step-by-step, not listening to what others say when they say it but I will feel understanding that I will get there maybe not now maybe not in a year but with hard work and dedication I can achieve anything.

  • @ryusujin1989
    @ryusujin1989 9 місяців тому +1

    One limiting mindset I have is believing that after one successful practice session I’ve completely learned that subject
    my new mindset now is: learning takes time and you need to be consistent to truly learn

  • @LunaJoy
    @LunaJoy 11 місяців тому +1

    Love this Annie, so well structured and informative ❤

  • @user-hf2me7dg3m
    @user-hf2me7dg3m 5 місяців тому

    a month ago i was very confident in achieving my goals, about myself but then i let people get to me, feed on my energy and now i am back to square one where what limits me is the fear of failure, the new mindset i wish to achieve is to build a routine again, constantly look at my vision board and remove everything that hinders with my confidence, i have to do it all over again but you gotta do what you gotta do. isolate. get ahead.

  • @kalpana_svt
    @kalpana_svt 6 місяців тому +1

    My limiting belief is that "I just keep on thinking about things, I keep on making plans and do literally every single thing related to that particular topic in my mind and never really seem to take any action."
    New mindset: "I am going to take small ACTIONS within a reasonable amount of planning n all."