Lawrence Adjah On Why Majority Of Black Men Feel Unwanted, Unseen, And Are Lonely In This Country

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  • @INEVERKNEWTV
    @INEVERKNEWTV  3 місяці тому +2

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  • @blackwolverine1
    @blackwolverine1 3 місяці тому +19

    As a Black Man myself. A number of us globally are more comfortable being unassuming, introverted and much rather "let silence be our story".

  • @amandawilliams9303
    @amandawilliams9303 3 місяці тому +58

    Black men are wanted, needed, and beautiful 😊

    • @stryfetc1471
      @stryfetc1471 3 місяці тому +4

      Look how few likes you have on this.
      Tells you the general concensus

    • @ASoulFulT
      @ASoulFulT 3 місяці тому +2

      I agree 😊

    • @tribalspear6568
      @tribalspear6568 3 місяці тому +2

      Bless up ❤

    • @whisper2284
      @whisper2284 3 місяці тому

      @@stryfetc1471This is a crisis amongst all men. Society has sent messages to men in general that they’re predators, misogynists, or simply no longer as useful in the lives of their families. Black men feel it even more because disadvantaged and even unethical Black men are given a greater platform to represent all Black men. Middle class Black men are ignored and silent. Also, the higher than average number of fathers who have turned their backs on their sons and who are absent from the home has created a stigma around what it means to be a Black man.
      A Black man doesn’t need a woman commenting on yt to validate him. What he needs is for the Black male community to force a different narrative about Black men. Make it cool and sexy again to be tradesmen like plumbers, mechanics, AC tech, and carpenters. Make the I.T. Professionals, male Nurses, Physicians, accountants, Lab scientists, etc…more attractive than the street pharmacist, jack boy and scammers.

    • @Bb-jm6wx
      @Bb-jm6wx 3 місяці тому

      They know this. They just have an incessant need for an endless amount of validation and attention like a black hole.

  • @WaleOOO
    @WaleOOO 3 місяці тому +42

    Truth breeds trust…Trust breeds unity…without Truth there can be no trust…without Trust there can be no unity…no one unifies with those they do not Trust…no one trust those that do not speak Truth

  • @WaleOOO
    @WaleOOO 3 місяці тому +18

    ...Help to revive our ancestor's reputation by imitating their commitment to Truth…Teach your children to do the same….SPEAK TRUTH ALWAYS

  • @dblaze213rd
    @dblaze213rd 3 місяці тому +16

    Important conversation, as I see my people striving for material gain to gain happiness. That hungry has made a lot of us lose sight of what’s truly important.. Community.

    • @DeionRoss
      @DeionRoss 3 місяці тому

      I whole heartedly agree thank you

  • @kovarcoley8418
    @kovarcoley8418 3 місяці тому +39

    This is kinda off topic yet on topic. Something i realized at my job is that most of the men there dont have packed lunches to come to work they always end up eating chips and soda for lunch. Its sounds silly but that really bothers me. I made food for a couple of them one time and they really appreciated it. Its like for the first time someone thought of them. How sad.

    • @RonnieWisdom
      @RonnieWisdom 3 місяці тому +5

      This is very very real!! I make my own lunch (meal prep) & it throws all of my colleagues off guard! LOL

    • @shazondiabailey9013
      @shazondiabailey9013 3 місяці тому +10

      They may be single. They can pack a lunch or pick them up something.

    • @Gvhbj
      @Gvhbj 3 місяці тому +2

      All men want is to feel appreciated

    • @OGxThree
      @OGxThree 3 місяці тому

      @@shazondiabailey9013are you a female by chance ?

    • @kovarcoley8418
      @kovarcoley8418 3 місяці тому +1

      @@shazondiabailey9013 that's true he can make his own food. But as a Jamaican woman I love to cook. I want to cook for my future husband so he can have lunch to go to work. Its one of the things I look forward to whenever I can get married. Some women say they don't cook for their man which I can't understand. You take care of him not because you have to but because you love him.

  • @o13sweetboy
    @o13sweetboy 3 місяці тому +7

    Black Men need to unite and build with one another thats the problem...stop looking for acceptance and validation from outsiders who hate you this has been said time and time again.🙄

    • @loveyesmarriageno123
      @loveyesmarriageno123 3 місяці тому +2

      yep, I agree with you 100% and I have been saying the same thing for a number of years. Unfortunately, far too many people know this to be true but have been brainwashed to hate their own.

    • @jasondawson92
      @jasondawson92 3 місяці тому +2

      Yep also move in silence with our brothers because once they hear 👂 your plans they will try to sabatage it

    • @Gvhbj
      @Gvhbj 3 місяці тому

      Low vibrational woman will call them gay for doing so

  • @donaldwashington9017
    @donaldwashington9017 3 місяці тому +7

    This sounds as the man's life was a problem from the beginning. It's what your taught from the beginning of life and how you learn going forward 🤦‍♂️🤧

  • @thetruth5098
    @thetruth5098 3 місяці тому +12

    I have to say black men feeling unwanted and so on is quite contrary to what is going on in society right now. I see black men being celebrated and wanted by EVERYONE. So im confused

    • @LKonandupward
      @LKonandupward 3 місяці тому +2

      I agree with you as well.

    • @daphnesmith1686
      @daphnesmith1686 3 місяці тому

      They are wanting in every aspect.

    • @Carvalhouk
      @Carvalhouk 3 місяці тому +2

      Celebrated for the right reasons..

    • @josiahandre_
      @josiahandre_ 3 місяці тому +1

      What makes you feel that we are being celebrated and wanted?

    • @daphnesmith1686
      @daphnesmith1686 3 місяці тому

      @@josiahandre_ Then a Man must examine himself FIRST!

  • @curvyQT1
    @curvyQT1 3 місяці тому +22

    Men are judged based on how much money they have, and women are judged for their looks...smh. It is messed up, but this is the way that the world works, sadly.

    • @lefty206
      @lefty206 3 місяці тому

      Men are judged on looks too lol so it's even worse

    • @sherijones449
      @sherijones449 3 місяці тому +1

      Only towards Foundational Black Americas. Every other ethnic group seem to love themselves and their women and men no matter what size, hair length etc.

    • @curvyQT1
      @curvyQT1 3 місяці тому +3

      @@sherijones449 That is soo not true! Just about EVERY race has this dynamic, especially the whyte race.

    • @sherijones449
      @sherijones449 3 місяці тому

      @@curvyQT1 Well, Stay on your side and let me stay in my lane if my reality my Brother 👌💪🏿

    • @curvyQT1
      @curvyQT1 3 місяці тому

      @@sherijones449 Sounds good to me. Have a nice day!

  • @jasondawson92
    @jasondawson92 3 місяці тому +3

    All we got is the most high yah, real people that know real situations and see it, also good music for the soul

  • @adeyele45
    @adeyele45 3 місяці тому +4

    It’s demons and jinns. All we have to do is come back to the Most High God creator

  • @shaunmc013
    @shaunmc013 3 місяці тому +2

    This is a very deep and great conversation. Bravo 🎉 👏 🙌🏼 on this episode brother. Good questions and great guest man!!! You outdid yourself with this one..

  • @AngryManSki
    @AngryManSki 3 місяці тому +3

    I couldn’t hear the host questions. Why are you whispering? You have to address these.

    • @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442
      @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442 3 місяці тому

      Yeah I had the same problem I had to hook up my headphones.. but yea he just speaks like the way I do he speaks real softly in a very normal tone of voice What he needs to do is have his mic turned up Or get a Amp box so he can have his 🎤 turned up

  • @trieudinh9169
    @trieudinh9169 3 місяці тому +5

    Dude is on point. Very good interview

  • @kingfishbird6363
    @kingfishbird6363 3 місяці тому +6

    This shit has to stop ✋️

  • @chicfini
    @chicfini 3 місяці тому +3

    Everyday all day, I hear something bad about black men by black men on this Channel.

  • @thetrav2100
    @thetrav2100 3 місяці тому +5

    id say men in general, with how our society is and how women are acting toward men lately, not all but, alot forsure

    • @kayjeffs3741
      @kayjeffs3741 3 місяці тому +4

      Men have been hurting women for years and now the women are tired.

    • @thetrav2100
      @thetrav2100 3 місяці тому

      not all people are the same not all women are men beaters, not all men are women beaters it goes both ways, just because somebody hurt you doesnt give anyone the right to go take it out on some innocent person trying to be a good honest person though, that just perpetuates the cycle of hate.

    • @MeMyself984
      @MeMyself984 3 місяці тому

      @@kayjeffs3741that’s it, that’s all 🫡

    • @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442
      @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442 3 місяці тому

      ​@thetrav2100
      You are extremely right but you do got to know first it is never ever about rights and second that hurt and traumatized people often hurt and traumatize other people although some people most likely really do not know that they are hurting ppl including the ones that they may love And in the same breath, people who generally are less intelligently bookwise and mechanically wise are in general the ones who usually hurt people but they are not exclusive just more in general though

  • @renderuntocaesarwhatiscaes2300
    @renderuntocaesarwhatiscaes2300 3 місяці тому +1

    Its only so much a man can take before a man crash out. People got no idea how hard it is for the brotha man out here the most hated because they know what we capable of the only man loved by all women they cant stop that. We are a divided man so our enemies celebrate that. Rejoice in it. We must fix the ranks the people who shouldn’t be looked up to are. the people taking our money continuously do so because ain’t nobody standin up sayin something about it let everybody know.
    My pops told me about how back in the day when somethin was finna get boycotted everybody knew days in advance the word would go out. We dont have that kinda thing no more Everybody on code on point on message we fix that we will have a powerful seat at the worlds table
    it aint about running the world aint nobody God. it’s about being taken seriously respected opportunity for our children and grandchildren to shine make good money without racist in power above them working against them. I keep holding on my believe in us is strong cause we are the strongest. 👊🏾

  • @alphanatureon1
    @alphanatureon1 3 місяці тому +2

    BM are only handsome and beautiful to BBWs . . . .

  • @josiahandre_
    @josiahandre_ 3 місяці тому +2

    This is so relatable.

  • @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442
    @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442 3 місяці тому

    It is in general most human being nature to actually try to seek approval from who they think who care for them I do not know too many human beings who do not try to seek approval from it has always been like that since Cane and Abel days and it's always going to be that way until someone turns the lights out on this little planet this is not a man or woman or white or black or any other type of thing This IS mainly just basic sociology and basic psychology

  • @georgeduncan8946
    @georgeduncan8946 3 місяці тому +1

    Yes how we R Designed...🙏🏿be all u can. family 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💥, & Developing healthy boundaries... & recognizing toxic people helped me Rise

  • @moniquem1873
    @moniquem1873 3 місяці тому +3

    ❤❤❤

  • @chicfini
    @chicfini 3 місяці тому +4

    This chanel are filled with doom and gloom. The topics and guess is ALWAYS about problems🙄🙄🙄.

    • @Jamluji
      @Jamluji 3 місяці тому

      Are the problems not real? Do you have problems to solve?

    • @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442
      @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442 3 місяці тому

      So you go to a country that has a lot of money and you think you're going to get a lot of money but You Get Fooled by them and then you want to say turn off like this exist I can go to tell you are lost already if you are clicking on such " FOOLery "
      ( It is ALWAYS everybody else's fault that you got to habit )

  • @Djd271
    @Djd271 3 місяці тому +1

    This is just men in general but no ther group of females have actively criticized there men as much as bw sone warranted most not it’s to the point where there is mutual contempt

    • @teresam5199
      @teresam5199 3 місяці тому +3

      None of this has to do with Black women. Can you all just stand on your own two feet for once. My goodness!

    • @Put2CentsIn
      @Put2CentsIn 3 місяці тому +2

      @@teresam5199Exactly bro. Like wtf is this mf talking about

    • @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442
      @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442 3 місяці тому

      ​@@Put2CentsIn
      The both of y'all just made and proved his point very loudly and you in particular, have you ever gone to read the conversation and your comments of what you have posted up all over the place You seemed not to understand anybody that you comment to
      ( Dude tf are you on ??? )

  • @SelfBegotten
    @SelfBegotten 3 місяці тому +1

    Insightful... Simple... Beautiful... Thank you!!!!

  • @uchennakpaduwa9592
    @uchennakpaduwa9592 3 місяці тому +4

    Great perspective

  • @Carvalhouk
    @Carvalhouk 3 місяці тому +1

    The problem is the perception of success and the get money culture. Need I say look at P Diddy. I want to know why some want to have what they have created in terms of status. I'm not even sure even if white men want this because of the pressures etc. Is it all worth it.

    • @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442
      @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442 3 місяці тому

      This is with many people both men and women I mean yeah a lot of people do things for status, social status in particular and when you are made to do a lotta work bordering on the impossible then those same people are going to want some social compensation back as well I mean everybody's got to eat some kind of way We all can't be farmers and living off our own farmland
      You got to know and understand how the machine society and machine to capitalism actually works

    • @Carvalhouk
      @Carvalhouk 3 місяці тому +1

      @@wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442 I agree but on this capitalistic journey why let greed take over?, then greed turns into power and so on.

    • @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442
      @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442 3 місяці тому

      Yeah I agree with you With some people greed just takes over in itself and sometimes what other people they go to feel like that they're not getting enough from the people that they work for or what other people people may talk bad about the people who are working hard and doing the impossible so greed and wanting what is owed start to take over in that situation
      But yea I agree

  • @kayjeffs3741
    @kayjeffs3741 3 місяці тому +4

    Nope. They don't want to do right by their women.

    • @MeMyself984
      @MeMyself984 3 місяці тому +1

      Exactly. Even Malcolm X said the BM won’t get any respect from the world unless he learns to respect his woman. Now we don’t trust too many of them from all the games and mess from over a century of madness

    • @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442
      @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442 3 місяці тому

      Stop picking all these Street scabies I'll tell you nobody wants to mess with the ELs right the ones who are about something

    • @burdock4419
      @burdock4419 2 місяці тому

      Their women don’t do right by the men

  • @chapter6verse22
    @chapter6verse22 3 місяці тому

    I don’t feel this way at all.

  • @FromMyPerspective0
    @FromMyPerspective0 3 місяці тому +1

    Loaded Lux Older Brother

  • @7DMEDIA1
    @7DMEDIA1 3 місяці тому

    Being a phenotypical blackman , it will always be more difficult..Now, in 20 years picture a caucasian pheotype being black because of one ancestor.. like the $5 Indian..Please have Dr Joy Degru on your show..

  • @cameronmanning8606
    @cameronmanning8606 3 місяці тому +1

    I needed to hear this

  • @eddiesoul4890
    @eddiesoul4890 3 місяці тому

    Some young men (In the 26 27 range ) feel the world owes them ..They don't like to work and they have there mothers attitide...So they listen to rap music as a rebelion to the world...

    • @MeMyself984
      @MeMyself984 3 місяці тому +1

      I was waiting to see who was gon blame Black Women in the comments 😂

    • @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442
      @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442 3 місяці тому

      Most people are generally like that most people white and black feel that life and everybody in life owe them something At this point this is more about General social science

  • @PresidentQuadrillions
    @PresidentQuadrillions 3 місяці тому

    I know him from harvard. He be capping. Get me on this show

  • @tymelogix
    @tymelogix 3 місяці тому

    The old rat in the maze attribute 🐀 (lab rat theory the theory of reinforcement)

  • @jayfoster7102
    @jayfoster7102 3 місяці тому +1

    Audio is low.

  • @Bb-jm6wx
    @Bb-jm6wx 3 місяці тому +1

    Because that’s how they wanna feel & because to Narcissists, they’re never satisfied. NEXT!

  • @vwellness88
    @vwellness88 3 місяці тому

    my heart 🥺🧚💚🔱🦁

  • @perosauce6321
    @perosauce6321 3 місяці тому +2

    DEUTERONOMY 7 vs 6 i read this every day to encourage myself, which makes me physiologicaly indestructible, in a world where my people are oppressed on a daily basis, i dont believe in human validation, from i have a 5g connection with the most high, thats all that matters, bottom line, the richest man isn't the one with the most money, its the man with the least desires, media makes people believe i need a significant other, BS, all the relationship trauma has made me realise isolation is the new heaven, i value my own company, the most high has never let me down, where as people always do.

    • @TerryGates-lx8ee
      @TerryGates-lx8ee 3 місяці тому +1

      It's facts about this but we not to be alone, It's really energy who's able to understanding the universal law

    • @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442
      @wethepplwhorblackerthanblu6442 3 місяці тому

      Number one why do you limit yourself to internet numbers did you not only realize that there are Engineers engineering more numbers but also number two yes great that you have this connection with the most high but I'm extremely sure the most high would love to see you in and with a fellowship group after all we are all not Stones unto ourselves I truly believe that this is the perfect time and perfect opportunity that that exists for you to find your people's who think and believe something similar like you I truly believe that the most high would love to see you comfortable what's people who are somewhat similar to you ( Now remember they are not going to be exactly like you they are going to have their differences from you and you're going to be different and not perfect from them as well so yeah I would not lean on human beings with my last breath but WITH the most Highs guidance ) I mean if you take a look in the Book of Genesis ( I don't know why everybody stops and stays at Deuteronomy and all the rest ) but if you take a look in the Book of Genesis this is where the glory of the most high is and where the glory of the most high is given also this is the area where you see the fall of Man and what we can do to get back on to the side of Glory from the most high from that area it goes directly to the Book of Mark and Matthew and John the Book of Grace through Salvation
      We are ALL in need for some 1