America Main This 2 Things Are Never In My Luck 😌 | DIML Vlog | Simple Living Wise Thinking
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- Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
- America Main This 2 Things Are Never In My Luck 😌 | DIML Vlog
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Hi friends, in this vlog I have shared a day in my life vlog .
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Hi Payal ,
It’s just my opinion ,I have been with Indian community for past 11 yrs ,they are very competitive.There would be one group of working Moms who would mingle with on working mom’s to grow in their career and other group of Stay At Home Mom’s (SAHM’s ) who would focus on their kids studies and will be like my Kid is in GT program (Gifted and Talent ) program and influence others to do what they do with their kids .And in Indian community is diverse ,you will not have Bengali community people in one place .
And I dont have much experience with American’s .My American neighbor ,the wife helped by reaching us when our pipes broke due to frost and it was flooding our bedroom.So she was helpful .
It is better to be on your own ,doing vlogs .There will be lot of politics in Indian community and very competitive.
This totally matches with my experience. Thanks for sharing your experience rather than sugar coating. The purpose of immigration is to integrate with the society. But unfortunately Indians do not do that rather they would be happy competing in their own bubble. Very sad. 🙏
Thanks for bringing this up. Agree with your points. Was thinking about similar points when Payal was referring to this point
I totally agree with all of you. Very competitive, politics, groups , sub groups, region/ caste groups what not.I came to know that so many groups people will create my 14 years stay in USA i have experienced all these
I too agree.....I don't like to unnecessarily compete with others in community groups.....It looks childish. Instead,we can better our skills. More peaceful environment at home without unnecessary competition and stress.
Many immigrants come to this country and don't integrate. Though you can preserve your culture you have to adapt to life here to some extent. Living in a bubble restricts to one mindset. Children being raised here don't have the same mindset. You can not restrict them to only associating with Indian classmates. The more you do that they will be lost as there is different cultural expectations at home and when they are in school they are exposed to different views. They have to take the best of both cultures and adapt and learn to live in this world that is diverse. Some Indian communities are too focused on competition and status and comparing kids accomplishments. Quite frankly it is my American friends who had my back in time of need. Indian friends are fair weather friendships for the most part. (Here for the good times disappear in bad times)
Payal i dont agree with such view that only need indian community. We have come to america let us respect white also and we csn stay among them. If they have so much indian go india. I have all american friends
You r great
Yes difference hai old or new me.....new is so clear pic..😊
Thanks dear
Exactly
Yes we see a much difference....
The new lens is much brighter and clear...
It's looks nice 👍🙂
Yes..this new lens is clearer and bright..
Have a net work, where you can call those people even in the middle night, who will drop everything and will just say “we are on our way.”
You have to give them the same support system.
Otherwise, it doesn’t work.
I second this. I actually commented her to make some efforts and make friends who are just a call away. Friend are like family for all those are away from their home country.
All my friends stay around 2 hrs away from me so they r not call away . They are far
If she is happy with her family ,let her be ,because she is not dependent on anyone and has to have,friends ,around ger 24/ 7,she is happy and nor depressed ,she also talks to her parents and in laws ,quite a bit ,so maybe that is all she needs and she she feels she needs friends she will then , makes friends, Payal you do you,do not worry about opinions
“all or nothing”. Is not the way to go with making friends, we have moved multiple states, upstate NY very few Indians. It was American friends who came through.
I also live in white community Payal it's really hard to make friends becoz of different culture,. I love ur vlogs they give me positive energy just ignore nosey people ❤ 😊
I know I feel everything so fake to be honest .
Yes bahut difference lag raha hai new lens is very bright and clear
Pay- can I ask why your care for comments?
I mean. Last vlog was brutal.
Just wondering why you care.
Arey Payel di, we are your friends .. you are very responsible family person.... You get happy when your kids take good food ..they are healthy. You live for your family... ❤❤❤
Thanks dear
Hello ji kuch to log kahenge aap family ko dekho aap buhat acha ho
Yes this new lens is clearer and bright... very nice vlog ❤
New lens is so good clarity :) , we yesterday was talking same thing, we came from India its 3 years now my son is in 11th grade , but he is so reserved and me too I live in suburbs , so quite, whole day at home :( ,, just thinking that may be after 3-4 years move back to India as we are in our 40's so we can live with our old parents too 💖
Yes we can see the difference
Picture is much clear
totally agreed payal....i reqlly giv u 10 on 10...its not a joke.indians hav a totally diff mindset ..still ur cope up hats to u lady
yes payel maam there is a difference. new lens has a brighter and uniform color visibility.
Hey Payal, I have yet to catch up on your this vlog..for your ear problem, if you haven't resolved already try putting debrox ( ear wax thinner)...sometimes ear wax accumulates which makes it difficult ... It's over the counter and doesn't need any doctor prescription
Payal,
You have ear ache.
Please put some coconut oil in your mouth and gargle after spit it out.
You will see a lot of difference.
It's called oil pulling
Payal, scientific fact, ear infection is not contagious!!!! But cold is contagious that could develop into ear infection.
The cold could be viral or allergies.
Hi payal ,
Yes lense is much clearer than before . 👍🏻
Kindly use some mild antiseptic drops like soframycin ear/ drops . They aren’t harmful . And can be used without doctors prescription.
Do not ignore thinking , it’s allergy .
For allergy too we take medicines na ?
If you have betadine gargle please bring that do gargling . Throat nose ears are connected so may be this will be useful . This too isnot having side effects .
That’s the reason I feel Bharat is having best medical services , than us .
U need to stop using your ear buds for some days ... These are also one of the reasons you get ear infections
After watching your last video, I went to urgent care for ear pain and sore throat. They checked for strep , covid, and ear infection. Nothing but saw some fluids in ear. So started generic form of Claritin D. There is ear pain but little less . I hope you feel better too meri saheli ❤
Payal your daughter will go to college soon . Please move to New Jersey Princeton, Plainsboro, south Brunswick. You will feel you are in iNDIA and commuting to New York is easy .you can plan now as we are all getting old and it makes a big difference . I used to live in Clifton earlier and was so sad, but after moving to an Indian place everything changed and don’t miss India . The schools are very good.
Actually Princeton is far from New York as Shamik’s office is near to Grand Central and he does almost 4 days a week to city now plus Rai will go and then Sid will begin his journey so we are confused as our among top 20 schools in New York . But you are correct as we grow old we need some Indian community. I feel it now
@@SimpleLivingWiseThinking
My sister lives in Princeton and commutes to New York thrice a week . Lot of Indian community all park their car and go to New York. I know it will be further , but no big deal worth considering . Many of my friends moved and are happy as there is so much activity .
I understand everything cannot be perfect . Someone has to compromise . Even my husband used to drive to Secaucus every day .
@@anupamadubey9590 yes dear we will see as I have to look at the school also and lot of other factors .
Wow new lens is very clear and bright. I exactly know what you mean. I feel loner but happier as I am not part of any rat race of class comparison, kid comparison etc. Hope you feel better soon.
Same here
Our family is our best friends!! Good enough! More friends, more trouble!!! 😂😂
Correct
100 % true
Hi Payal, most important difference between us and them is BOLLYWOOD FILLMS. Hindi films pr discuss karna our favorite topic 😂😂
Hahahaha
Hi Payal! 😊 Yes, there's definitely a difference, the new camera is much more clear and bright.
Yes it is much difference, it's nice.
Yes...
New lens pic is bright
Simple living recipe arun singh main American my luck thing much special chicken curry masala
Payal ur ears are really hurting badly... please take good care...and haan new lens❤
Dear Payal, Sich nice vlogs. I am from Kolkata but settled in Canada. I came across your vlog by chance. I normally do not watch vlogs. A friend here recommended me your vlog. I watched some. You are such a genuine person. So pure. Your vlogs are interesting, motivating, easy to relate as there is NO artificiality at all. Please ignore negative remarks. I am going to watch your vlogs regularly.
Thanks dear that’s so sweet of you
Payal mujhe Walmart se bahut ache mangoes mile. You should check in your nearby Walmart. They were very sweet and tasty in 2 days
Really Arre my place is weird we have no walmart near by 😭😭
Always love your simplicity ❤❤❤❤❤
Hi 👋 Payal,
We are watching your Vlog regular and completely understand yaar and became your friend virtual. Stay Blessed 😇 with your family… always happy 😃 and do what you like to do.
Thanks dear
Yes payal ...ur pic is more clear...take some med fr ur ear pain.. .get well soon ..
New lens is bright n clear vision....
Hi didi nice to see you and yes new pic is clear and like to see sid more 👍♥️🇵🇰
Main Sunnyvale me rahti Hu abhi and phir v main aapki tarah hi busy rahti Hu pure din cooking and kids me ,aasan nhi hota Aise hi bs friendship krna
Hi my friend apply some vicks vapor rub externally.. you will feel better.. God bless
Really thanks let me try
Good video ..I love your video so much ..plses take care your self and ear 👂 ka pain bohot hi syada pain hota hai 😢 take care payal didi ❤❤
Sure dear
Payel your new lens is giving little sharp feature compare to your old one. Anglewise both are same.
Correct
New lense ,you are genuine person
This lence is very good
Payal asa lagta hai sana ke alawa koi aur kaam wali tumko nahi milegi choro ase sana ko
Yes… this lens is more sharper and more natural
New lens is so so better....
i mean it really works for u
Hi!dear how are you all?
Jar jar jeta lifestyle..it is totally personal..
Yes new lens👌
Jitna jhansh niklyga utna oil achha hoga...jhansh bolty h
Yes, there is a lot of difference
5:52 sana removed her shoes. 👏
Payal, lens is definitely different and flood...your old lens emits yellow light whereas new lens emits white light and is more clear...but i would say both are good....the content you provide is more important....if to give my honest opinion both are good....when editing you decide if you want to keep or return.
DD i think apko mum's(infection) huwa...
It's seasonal sickness...I saw in vedio ur right ear ko as pass thora fula huwa..that why i told you..
Doctor dekhaiya...don't be late
As soon take antibiotics becoz it's take attack to another person.
Hi Payal! Hope u all are doing good! Was worried about u all… no video since 4 days… take care dear… And hope ur ear pain is better now… 😊
its so true abt making friends, dere r perks of staying in indian community. i guess only ppl staying here ll understand dese things. i was so worried if we ll hav indians or nt wen we bought home, bt thankfully we hav few family.
Your thecha recipe is not correct… don’t add so much of oil to the pan while you cook chilies and other stuff… only small teaspoons full is good enough.. don’t add jeera… just chilies until they have some spots on them then garlic and then peanuts and then dhaniya and add 10/12 dhaniya saboot(seeds) if u want to add coconut then add dry one and then pulse it in mixir jar don’t make a paste out of it… it should have some corse ness to it
Hi di I’m a dentist and I would suggest have a check with ur dentist for ur pain, if the pain is behind the ears and radiating towards your teeth n jaw. Have a check with ur dentist.
Hi Payal ! Enjoying your blog with tea in the morning.
Anyways sorry about your ear.
Try putting a heat pad on your neck and behind the ear. Do you have any balm? Like tiger balm. You can apply that too. If not that apply lavender oil ,massage and apply heat pad.
Hope u feel better. You can get lavender oil at any store or at ama,on. Just make sure it's pure form
New lens is much clearer and brighter! Also Payal, check your wisdom tooth, that might be the problem.
Hi Payal ..lens is grt use karna..aur for your ear pain ..gharalu nuska..In cotton roll 2 lason and in nite keep in inside your ear it will give you sm relief ..smtime it becomes black because of infection.tc of your health also
Sid ko daycare main kyu bhejti ho daycare unn moms ke liye hota hai jo ya working hai,Ghar main 5 se 6 chote bache hai,yaa Ghar ke kaam busy hai tum naa toh working ho,naa Ghar main chote bache hai aur naa hi Ghar ka kaam hai.ghar ka kaam ke liye Mary hai,Rai bahut badi hai aur tum din bhar Ghar mein baithi Hui rehti ho
You really think she is not working?? Vlogging is a work and as long as she is earning she is working no matter from where. America is not like India where kids get to interact with each other. It is necessary for kids to socialize else they will be introverts and it be difficult to mix up with the white community there. and also maids are not like how we get in India. Think of her age also she will also get tired. Just letting you know no hatred.. only positivity :)
Tum log ko puch k karegi kiya ,uska jo man hai o karegi isme working se kiya lena dena
@@SWETHA-q4nmy own sister lives in USA so don't don't teach me about USA nd it's lifestyle nd fyi my sis is a dentist nd her lifestyle is much busier than but still my sis never sent my niece nd nephew to any daycare nd pls don't say that vloging is work vloging is hobby
Unka baccha hai.apko kya .uho jaha chai unko bheje.unki marji.apne paise se bhej rahe hai.
Ignorance is bliss is all I can say reading your comment. You comment is wrong in so many levels
Pan kahase liya di..
In Denver I have lots of all over Indian friends and have great American friends
Subscribed long back but all vlogs don't come.......why?
Payal show tomorrow ENT doctor..becoz it happens in serious that why dear ❤
Take combination of dark green chilies..long one’s and Thai green chilies for perfect spice level
New lens achha hai
Oi pungent smell ta ke hinditeo jhaanj e bole !! . 🤔 Karon amar koekjon bondhu bangali chilo na order jhaanj bolte sunechi onekbar.
Hypo allergenic not hypo. Allergetic
use over the counter fluticanosone spray from cvs or pharmacy available & steam also for ur ear pain
No matter what people say , you please see a doctor , about your ears .
May be wax or water got in - let the doctor see dear
Payal new lens are more brighter than the old one ! My suggestion- don’t return it !
New lenses are good
It looked like egg box 😂
Hahahahha
❤
There is definitely a difference in new lens..its clearer than the old lens
No ... Its not same ... There is a vast differencw
Very clear
New Lens has a lot of clarity and good brightness. I think it’s really good 👍
Bohot difference hai ... new lens is much, much better and clear ... 👌
Sid day care e jachhe tai o ato oshudtho hoye porche. Boro hole thik hoye jabe.
I too am an Indian living in a rich white neighborhood. Not a hater, but it is relatively easy to get along with them. I have white friends and Indian friends and love embracing their different cultures. ❤ Each to his own though. I always say…everyone has the right to live life the way that they choose to.
But we have our own choice right .
@@SimpleLivingWiseThinking That’s exactly what I said, dear. Each one has the right to their own choice and so do you. My suggestion as a fellow American Indian, you can join local Indian groups in your area, if you want. I do understand though, as a mom of a toddler (my toddler is six months younger than your darling boy), that it is difficult to find time to socialize….but it is important to take out some time during the week and do things with friends without our kids. I find that really helps my mental health because raising toddlers is a tough job.
@@nikitas5810 actually we have none here and see o be honest now I am so busy in my life that sometimes I feel so overwhelmed with everything.
Quality of the video is so much better 😊❤
Aao subhe ke 4 baje jagte ho?
No dear I reschedule it
1/2 a garlic clove in cotton and keep in ear, it might help, give it a try
New lens is better, better clarity and new lens light is brighter. Love it
certainly lens mein difference toh hain
Yes Payal now u r looking more fair and beautiful..
Nice vloge payal these lence are good the pic is clear and light is better.
Definitely more clear with new lens 👍
This new lens is more clear indeed 👍
Yes, little different from old lenses , it's is little bright then old picture
New lense is mor bright dear ❤ keep it
Take care of your ear and do some hot compress below 👂
Put few drops of onion juice Yr ear pain will go
Hi payal, I saw you and rai at Jefferson Valley Mall today. It was so nice to see you both .
It was so nice to meet you .
Yes there is difference between before and after your new camra lenses
Picture quality with the new lens is definitely much clear n bright 👍
Yes we can see the difference....... picture is more clear or bright from the new leans ❤