Wow wow wow!! Every word is a gem! I have to rewind. Lack of Self love, comparison to others and past self keeps me standing still in struggle. I’ve recognized this and It’s a challenge to correct when you have negative self talk but this helps so much!! Thank you Ed.
Indeed! I have to love myself first so I can give love. I am growing myself so I can be the best version of me which is the greatest thing I can do to show love for me. If I don’t become the person that God has created me to be, I am missing out on loving myself. I am God’s creation and worthy of all LOVE from me! I am myself’s best friend, I take me wherever I go, I am the first to love myself. And ultimately, the best version of me have the power to love others!
Wow, Ed, thanks so much! This is a self-reflection activity so needed. Disciple, action. = a happy heart in balance & harmony. Loving yourself IS a sacred daily practice. When we approach life this way change occurs into a new you in a higher vibration. So grateful. xo
14 Signs that You Don’t Love Yourself Enough…(~16:50) Thank you for the list below, and for expounding upon each one, @EdMylett! 1.) You do whatever you can do to avoid conflict (~17:45) 2.) You feel awkward more often than not (~18:48) 3.) You are always looking for an escape (phone, alcohol, drugs, gossip, pornography…)(~19:23) 4.) You’re constantly feeling misunderstood (~22:21) 5.) You’re resentful all the time (~23:00) 6.) You’re afraid to step outside your comfort zone (~23:30) 7.) You need permission from others when you make a decision (~24:47) 8.) You feel invisible (~25:37) 9.) You compare yourself a lot (~26:50) 10.) You think twice before speaking on a regular basis [not in the sense of being kind or considerate] (~28:20) 11.) You feel like you have to be perfect (~29:16) 12.) Your life just doesn’t feel right (~30:30) 13.) You feel like no one knows the real you (~31:25) 14.) You’re kind of making yourself sick …[in your gut, sore, tired, emotional, etc.] (~33:25)
#10 is also an indication that you’re around the wrong people, people that don’t support you people that don’t share your values, goals, mindset and so on. Which is because you want to be accepted due to not loving yourself enough.
The Desiderata speaks to your comment @ 28:00. If you compare yourself with others, you will become vain and bitter, for always there will be greater and better persons than yourself. Until we have accepted God as our source and everything and everyone else as a resource, we will constantly be searching for what really doesn't exist.
You're speaking for a lot of us. Something I’m working on with myself also Just know you are deeply loved and not invisible. I believe Ed is part of his church, but Erwin McManus is a great person to check out. He really helps with changing the perspective
Appreciate your honesty, when I saw your comment I can relate. At one point in my life when I thought i was it, things I was chasing externally were really just to build up a fake image. Inside i thought about death. Don’t know you, what or who you believe in? Just encourage you there is Hope and His name is Jesus. Felt lost until I found who I really was in Him. He credited you out of Love, made You in His image. find true identity and purpose in Him. He can give you a true Joy a true Peace like nothing else in this world can offer. Even through the darkest storms of our lives, He is faithful 🙏
I feel this. Lack of self-love is exactly what happens to me. I've been seeing a therapist and meditating to help me to stop projecting. To stop trying to reach perfection.
“healthy social interactions” very difficult to have, and even more difficult to find your spiritual family. It is so difficult to find time to grow a relationship (friendship or romantic one) when there is so much need in the world; in my case, my priority is helping animals. Nevertheless, I know that you are right. Thank you.
It's like whispers from God and answers to my prayers. The best part, it was shared with me by a best friend at one of the most critical point in my life. I got work to do. Thank you Ed for another prowerful message and guidance. May the universe helps us all in our journeys.
Thank you Ed for shining a mirror on things that we often accept as this is just the way things are. Asking for permission by getting many opinions is one that I am dealing with now. This was a lovely call out and confirmation that my discipline muscle needs bulking up. There were a few more that are screaming for attention. Keep up the beautiful ministry Ed. 😊 God bless you and your family❤❤
Sir ! What would you say if I believe that God guided me to you ? I just wrote a social media post about self love. I haven’t posted yet but soon wîll. I don’t love myself never have. I don’t even know if I can accept being loved. I guess that’s a reason why I go out into the world and give love. I’m on a crusade and mission from God 8000km done out of 27,000km all on foot ! DISCIPLINE!!! you said it !! Thank you brother! I pray God opens a door I could meet you one day
Thk u for having me on your show! With Faith and Will I win the 2 minute drill! I will be asking u What’s your one Big Thing? Changing / Saving 8 billion lives! 👍💪😎 Love playing golf ⛳️ and tennis 🎾 wu at Medinah CC! Rich Harvest! Butterfield CC! Black Sheep! Change / Save Lives!!! God Bless u and your family 🙏🙏🙏❤️
I fell to all of these. How do I proceed when I want to love but because I don’t love myself I feel like my projection of love is not good enough. Therefore I fall in to the category of resenting everything… Ed mylett you are a saint and I wish I could spend a day with you.
This is absolutely brilliant and everyone can benefit from listening and doing what's said in this video. Thank you, Ed!! An excellent and comprehensive list!
Thank you so much Ed, this was very helpful. Most of the time I really love myself, but sometimes there is a period that it doesn’t feel like it. Your wise words just get me back on track. God bless you 🌟
Thank you, all of this makes sense. I am going to love myself and accept myself. I want friends to love me, but not accept me. I want to learn new things and grow while being challenged
Wow wow wow!! Every word is a gem! I have to rewind. Lack of Self love, comparison to others and past self keeps me standing still in struggle. I’ve recognized this and It’s a challenge to correct when you have negative self talk but this helps so much!! Thank you Ed.
Indeed! I have to love myself first so I can give love. I am growing myself so I can be the best version of me which is the greatest thing I can do to show love for me. If I don’t become the person that God has created me to be, I am missing out on loving myself. I am God’s creation and worthy of all LOVE from me! I am myself’s best friend, I take me wherever I go, I am the first to love myself. And ultimately, the best version of me have the power to love others!
I'd rather be so confident people think Im cocky like my senior year as opposed to being miserable and depressed. It's like being rich vs being poor.
"you can be both good enough and getting better" - Lewis Howes
Wow, Ed, thanks so much! This is a self-reflection activity so needed. Disciple, action. = a happy heart in balance & harmony. Loving yourself IS a sacred daily practice. When we approach life this way change occurs into a new you in a higher vibration. So grateful. xo
Thank you for all that you do brother 🙏🏻
Thank you ed for these videos...im on self discovery now for years now...your content helps me change the negative thoughts and
14 Signs that You Don’t Love Yourself Enough…(~16:50)
Thank you for the list below, and for expounding upon each one, @EdMylett!
1.) You do whatever you can do to avoid conflict (~17:45)
2.) You feel awkward more often than not (~18:48)
3.) You are always looking for an escape (phone, alcohol, drugs, gossip, pornography…)(~19:23)
4.) You’re constantly feeling misunderstood (~22:21)
5.) You’re resentful all the time (~23:00)
6.) You’re afraid to step outside your comfort zone (~23:30)
7.) You need permission from others when you make a decision (~24:47)
8.) You feel invisible (~25:37)
9.) You compare yourself a lot (~26:50)
10.) You think twice before speaking on a regular basis [not in the sense of being kind or considerate] (~28:20)
11.) You feel like you have to be perfect (~29:16)
12.) Your life just doesn’t feel right (~30:30)
13.) You feel like no one knows the real you (~31:25)
14.) You’re kind of making yourself sick …[in your gut, sore, tired, emotional, etc.] (~33:25)
I loooved this. Want to listen to to it over n over. Thank you sir
Thank you Ed.
I needed to hear this today. I hope and pray it's a Wake-up Message.
Art❤…VALUE AS ALWAYS -Love you Ed x
This message really helped me brother! Thank you for sharing this!
Thanks, Ed! Been a big fan and been watching for years. Keep bringing the great content. Would love to connect! God bless.
This hit home to the core
Thank you.
Great! Ed Mylett do works on war footing. Very awesome
Thank you once again Ed ❤
#10 is also an indication that you’re around the wrong people, people that don’t support you people that don’t share your values, goals, mindset and so on. Which is because you want to be accepted due to not loving yourself enough.
Is the List found on your website?
The Desiderata speaks to your comment @ 28:00. If you compare yourself with others, you will become vain and bitter, for always there will be greater and better persons than yourself. Until we have accepted God as our source and everything and everyone else as a resource, we will constantly be searching for what really doesn't exist.
Thank you!
Ok is there anything more fascinating than this??????
Oops , almost all..work to do.👍❤️....🏃➡️....🏋♂️....
its really true
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Whose thinking are you thinking?🔥🔥
🫶🏼🫶🏼
This definitely HITS HOME. I’m freaking miserable and it’s just disgustingly projecting to everyone I love.
You're speaking for a lot of us. Something I’m working on with myself also
Just know you are deeply loved and not invisible. I believe Ed is part of his church, but Erwin McManus is a great person to check out. He really helps with changing the perspective
Appreciate your honesty, when I saw your comment I can relate. At one point in my life when I thought i was it, things I was chasing externally were really just to build up a fake image.
Inside i thought about death.
Don’t know you, what or who you believe in? Just encourage you there is Hope and His name is Jesus. Felt lost until I found who I really was in Him.
He credited you out of Love, made You in His image. find true identity and purpose in Him.
He can give you a true Joy a true Peace like nothing else in this world can offer. Even through the darkest storms of our lives, He is faithful 🙏
@@3800gman it’s hard to feel not invisible, like who the hell am I? I really enjoy Ed’s talks and I will look up your recommendation thank you.
I feel this. Lack of self-love is exactly what happens to me. I've been seeing a therapist and meditating to help me to stop projecting. To stop trying to reach perfection.
“healthy social interactions” very difficult to have, and even more difficult to find your spiritual family. It is so difficult to find time to grow a relationship (friendship or romantic one) when there is so much need in the world; in my case, my priority is helping animals. Nevertheless, I know that you are right. Thank you.
Discipline is an act of self-love! ❤ Really love this episode. Thanks, Ed 🌷
Yes, so hard to develop, for me. I'm getting better though. 😊
❤ 🙏 ‘speak truth to ourselves, speak power to ourselves, speak faith to ourselves, speak peace to ourselves’ ❤
Thank you for opening my eyes.
I had no idea, but now I know better.
thank you - love yourself- hugs to me
It's like whispers from God and answers to my prayers. The best part, it was shared with me by a best friend at one of the most critical point in my life. I got work to do. Thank you Ed for another prowerful message and guidance. May the universe helps us all in our journeys.
Thank you Ed for shining a mirror on things that we often accept as this is just the way things are. Asking for permission by getting many opinions is one that I am dealing with now. This was a lovely call out and confirmation that my discipline muscle needs bulking up. There were a few more that are screaming for attention. Keep up the beautiful ministry Ed. 😊 God bless you and your family❤❤
Yes we need to love ourselves even more when we feel like a failure or a disappointment. We need to love ourselves unconditionally! ❤
This is so deep and powerful… wow… amazing!! Need to listen to this more than once 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
So grateful my coach recommended you to me.
Thanks Ed, I could listen to this one on repeat. It's something I need to hear daily.
I love you man you seem so genuine somthing so rare nowadays . I hate conflict BUT I love myself and peace.
Sir ! What would you say if I believe that God guided me to you ? I just wrote a social media post about self love. I haven’t posted yet but soon wîll. I don’t love myself never have. I don’t even know if I can accept being loved. I guess that’s a reason why I go out into the world and give love. I’m on a crusade and mission from God 8000km done out of 27,000km all on foot ! DISCIPLINE!!! you said it !! Thank you brother! I pray God opens a door I could meet you one day
Have a kickass day Ed. Thanks for today's message 💪🏼.
Thk u for having me on your show!
With Faith and Will I win the 2 minute drill!
I will be asking u
What’s your one Big Thing?
Changing / Saving 8 billion lives! 👍💪😎
Love playing golf ⛳️ and tennis 🎾
wu at Medinah CC!
Rich Harvest! Butterfield CC! Black Sheep!
Change / Save Lives!!!
God Bless u and your family 🙏🙏🙏❤️
What a perfect topic Ed especially this coming holy week to reflect an recalibrate Thank you 😇
Thanks Ed, I also like the part you said about sports fans, not many people speak up about that, it's a very good point, especially in America
What if I am always in conflict with everyone, my colleagues, my parents, my siblings, my husband and etc?
I fell to all of these. How do I proceed when I want to love but because I don’t love myself I feel like my projection of love is not good enough. Therefore I fall in to the category of resenting everything… Ed mylett you are a saint and I wish I could spend a day with you.
❤❤❤Thank Ed god bless you so grateful for you .
This video was like a slap to my face, and it helped a lot❤
Oh how my papa loves me and I love him that is my heavenly
Thnx u fr creating this video
This is absolutely brilliant and everyone can benefit from listening and doing what's said in this video. Thank you, Ed!! An excellent and comprehensive list!
This video changed my life!
Thank you so much for this!
One day I'll be at your podcast sharing my memior I'm currently writing ✍️
Thank you for that app info 🙏🏻
Thank you so much Ed, this was very helpful. Most of the time I really love myself, but sometimes there is a period that it doesn’t feel like it. Your wise words just get me back on track. God bless you 🌟
Thank you, all of this makes sense. I am going to love myself and accept myself. I want friends to love me, but not accept me. I want to learn new things and grow while being challenged
Ed, thank you. I appreciate you restoring and resetting my minimum standards. See you soon my friend
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Appreciate it you Ed❤
So so good this is a year of big growth for me. Thank you for sharing this Ed. Love you brother.
🙏👏 Great Friday Morning, Thank K You & Amen 👏🙏🏁
Omg. I needed this sooo much. I need help in this area. This was so good.
I could use this walk up call, thank you, much love Ed👊
Beautiful ❤
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Amen 🔥
Great episode. Thank you Ed!
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Great advice ❤
Thank you Dear Soul 🙏
Love it as always Ed!
Our self is love
Thank you ❤
Thanks Ed!