Why You're Still Hesitant To Attack During Sparring

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  • @GabrielVargaOfficial
    @GabrielVargaOfficial  Рік тому +45

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    • @yannikoob4966
      @yannikoob4966 Рік тому

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    • @lr2119
      @lr2119 Рік тому

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      @jab2ez Рік тому

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  • @thisismychannel607
    @thisismychannel607 Рік тому +170

    Punches per round on the bag: 90
    Punches per round sparring: 7

  • @bongkem2723
    @bongkem2723 Рік тому +162

    Your experience is superb, very on point
    1. Protect the head (hands up)
    2. Good distance, head off centerline
    3. Chin tucked
    4. Ask people to go lighter
    5. Multiple shots before exit

  • @cooljamminsthedude1077
    @cooljamminsthedude1077 Рік тому +811

    i have the psychological issue of not wanting to hurt my partner too much. Lacking this "killer instinct" i feel like im hitting there guard intentionally or just not beeing as crisp with the attack etc. dunno what the right approach is bc i ofc dont want to really hurt my partners but training this way would, i think lead to forming bad muscle memory/habits

    • @ajmjl9102
      @ajmjl9102 Рік тому +119

      It’s not that you lack control but your not confident in your control

    • @GabrielVargaOfficial
      @GabrielVargaOfficial  Рік тому +567

      I've done that for years. I target the forehead so I don't hit their nose. Then in the fight I often forget to change and target the chin or nose. Being nice can form bad habits.

    • @antoniocatanese4258
      @antoniocatanese4258 Рік тому +7

      same!

    • @cooljamminsthedude1077
      @cooljamminsthedude1077 Рік тому +31

      @@GabrielVargaOfficial thanks for ur comment :) maybe with more control and the fact that im not really competing hard or anything, i can have confidence that if you had the same issue, it wont be as big of deal for me with my much smaller goals of going for my first fight after 2 years training muy thai

    • @shikaplayz5437
      @shikaplayz5437 Рік тому +13

      THIS RIGHT HERE!!!

  • @TheShadow265
    @TheShadow265 Рік тому +90

    As someone whos had this problem in the near past a big solution that helped me was training to keep my eyes on my opponent, so practicing keeping my eyes open while receiving strikes + keeping my head up during head movement helped a ton.

    • @Knx3k
      @Knx3k 5 місяців тому +2

      @Matija-ml4zq probably he means not looking at their feet

  • @miclarry119
    @miclarry119 Рік тому +13

    Never heard this angle addressed with such a clear and attainable direction. Perfect guidance in my opinion 👌

  • @alexkehoepwj
    @alexkehoepwj Рік тому +2

    The balled up sock thing is brilliant, thank you

  • @Theo-vb4yw
    @Theo-vb4yw Рік тому +125

    Thank you Gabriel, every time you post a video,you 're helping a lot of young fighters 🇮🇹🔥

  • @raccoonmyroom6861
    @raccoonmyroom6861 Рік тому +54

    My training skyrocketed after I got better about asking people to go lighter. This is such a great message and love your content.

    • @Knx3k
      @Knx3k 5 місяців тому

      I will asap

  • @josephjoestar995
    @josephjoestar995 Рік тому +4

    Best advice ever since I’ve started MT - honestly I couldn’t relate more to every point

  • @S04B3L
    @S04B3L Рік тому +2

    You have no idea how much you helped me become better in such a short time!

  • @quickfeed7592
    @quickfeed7592 Рік тому +11

    All great tips, I'd add feinting to the list, as well. A lot of the time, new guys are so unknowlingly obvious about when they're going to strike, to the point that it's like child's play to people that have sparred/fought a lot. Developing feints is not only something most experienced people don't even do well/often, it's something that makes your opponent second guess both your, and their own, attacks.

  • @stelo4286
    @stelo4286 11 місяців тому +2

    This video literally specified all of my problems inś sparing. Wow man, thanks!

  • @cesarepozzoli6655
    @cesarepozzoli6655 Рік тому +9

    Man, I must admit that I'm a big Valtellini fan and I mostly watch his channel, but after stumbling to yours here on yt I have now watched some of your tutorials and they also are very helpful and very well explained! You are both accomplished pro fighters that go deep in explaining to us amateurs the basics (and also stuff for more advanced guys) and how to actually implement them during our practices. It's still unbelivable to me that nowdays you can find on line such good tutoring for free. I'm subscribed to your channel too, keep up the great work.

  • @buxboi5308
    @buxboi5308 Рік тому +1

    My son had many of these problems - in just one session on your tips we made mad progress - thanks for your videos

  • @symoneh4402
    @symoneh4402 Місяць тому

    Just now watching this as I prepare for an exhibition fight and it’s very helpful. Thank you!

  • @Kuroiraven
    @Kuroiraven Рік тому +3

    Last one is complete true on my end, I have a base of wrestling, I am aggressive and trust my technique, but I am still green on kickboxing. I have been told that I have a heavy hand, but I can't just go into the offensive like that, the mind says go, but instinct says back off lol. Needed this to know that is normal, Thanks man.

  • @fynn3528
    @fynn3528 Рік тому +50

    Really needed this right now. I do Muay Thai for about half a year and learnt a good amount of techniques but I am way to passive with attacking. My defence and counters are quite good but I almost never dare to throw a combination first. Thank you!

  • @kritsonthebeat
    @kritsonthebeat Рік тому +6

    Thank you Gabriel 🙌 I had my first 2 kickboxing fights yesterday, light con and I felt all of these ways at times during the rounds. I am 6,2 and came up against an opponent even taller and heavier so I was hesitant to engage when close. Lots to learn, thank you for all the advice brother, have a blessed day 🙏

  • @thisisclaudiawang
    @thisisclaudiawang Рік тому +7

    This is pure gold content as I’m thinking to enter my first amateur fight and I’ve been sparring a lot lately and always looking for ways to improve my game. This is definitely one of my weak spots that need development.
    Thank you for your amazing videos!

  • @MingerHarrier
    @MingerHarrier Рік тому +2

    I wish more people were like you about the tip 4, I'm one of those guys who ask for a light sparring or tell them to go lighter if they start hard hitting. I don't care if I'm seeing as weak or something but when I was younger I left a few times with a headache after a sparring session or unable to walk good for a few days and I don't want that anymore.
    Also, it's not always people who are better or same skill as you, sometimes people who are less skilled start hitting you hard when they get frustrated

  • @thedanish5523
    @thedanish5523 Рік тому

    wow it's very nice of gabriel to post a video very specifically about me

  • @fabiocorreagomes
    @fabiocorreagomes 2 місяці тому +1

    Great tips! Greetings from Brazil!

  • @joostfloot5279
    @joostfloot5279 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much for all these videos. Your channel really is a goldmine!

  • @dconquerord
    @dconquerord Рік тому +20

    Hi Gabriel! Thanks for everything you taught me! I will finally get a chance too go to fight in a match, in August this year, at beginner amateurs. Next month I will have 1 year of kickboxing. Until then I'm gonna train harder than ever. Thank you for everything!

    • @GabrielVargaOfficial
      @GabrielVargaOfficial  Рік тому +7

      Best of luck!

    • @matthewramos6212
      @matthewramos6212 Рік тому

      Have you fought yet? If so how'd it go?

    • @dconquerord
      @dconquerord Рік тому

      @@matthewramos6212 Unfortunately, no. There was no fighter in my weight class (~ 90 kg/198 lbs).

    • @matthewramos6212
      @matthewramos6212 Рік тому

      @@dconquerord bro where are you from, I'm like 220 right now, but that's with a lot of room to drop

    • @dconquerord
      @dconquerord Рік тому

      @@matthewramos6212 I'm from Romania, what about you?

  • @V12509
    @V12509 Рік тому +3

    Yesterday in the gym I shadow boxed while remaining in place, I stood in my stance along a line on the floor and I started doing combos in my place, no feet at all. I was looking at my head in the mirror, my goal was to move it off of center line even if it's a tiny bit mid combos and of course at the end of the combo I finish with a slip or a roll. I need to get in the habit of moving my head more and this is a good drill I feel.

  • @raphiey
    @raphiey Рік тому

    still the best coach on UA-cam! thanks for the content

  • @mindovermovementbg3450
    @mindovermovementbg3450 Рік тому +2

    This is something I’ve always wondered and never realized I had this question.

  • @lumisonjean5897
    @lumisonjean5897 Рік тому +1

    Another gem dropped by sensei Varga 🔥🔥

  • @gijswatzeels7429
    @gijswatzeels7429 Рік тому +1

    This is so crazy every time something that happens to me you make a video about it the very same moment! (: Let's sit down and watch.

  • @jamesm.5125
    @jamesm.5125 Рік тому

    This is great information for all fighters who find they have this issue, I know I do.

  • @CarlWheezey
    @CarlWheezey Рік тому

    Exactly what i needed today, was sparring and noticed i havent been landing as much or as consistently as the other lads i train with

  • @Taparoo2
    @Taparoo2 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for the video. My issue was from the fear of being tagged upon entry.

  • @geowa3724
    @geowa3724 Рік тому +8

    I’ve been in a situation where I asked somebody to calm down and go lighter, but they didn’t. So I turned up the intensity and ended up getting them. But that always sticks out of my mind because I’ve heard that multiple times tell your partner to go lighter but in the one time that I did asksomeone to go lighter, they didn’t.

    • @bloodsports94
      @bloodsports94 Рік тому +1

      Bad sparring partner. If someone doesn't respect you maybe try not sparring them. They sound like jerks.

  • @penjejakangin6236
    @penjejakangin6236 Рік тому +3

    Thank you Gabriel for this tips 🙏

  • @lsk8308
    @lsk8308 Рік тому +2

    I laughed when I saw the one about getting hit anytime you enter striking range. That was a good impression of me against some higher level guys I sparred in the past

  • @AlexN2022
    @AlexN2022 Рік тому +3

    there is also the simple fact that most people aren't used to getting hit. So when you're just starting, you pay too much attention to getting hit. Instead of a trivial event, getting hit becomes this dramatic thing.
    So get your mind conditioned to getting hit. Pick a partner that you can trust to go light. And for the whole round, force yourself to stay in continuous exchange. You can be passively defensive - tuck the chin in, keep the other hand high - but keep throwing continuously and don't let yourself break distance. Notice when your gaze slips too low and get it back on your opponent's chest.

  • @SonnyCrocket-p6h
    @SonnyCrocket-p6h 11 місяців тому

    My 5th Dan instructor loved both head butts and spear-hand attacks. Since leaving Korea, 50 years ago, I"ve never once seen anyone attacked with the fingertip strike.. Building enough finger strength to use the spear hand, without damaging one's fingers, is just something nobody bothers to do in the US. but it's a devastating weapon if you've got that strength and that 4" of increase "reach" and that point on your weapon. That strike, delivered up under the ribs, to the armpit or neck, is a game-changer.

  • @january511977
    @january511977 Рік тому +1

    Thank u so much for each and every tips all are valuable than gold

  • @DCYPT
    @DCYPT Місяць тому

    Thank you very much, brother

  • @champ1159
    @champ1159 Рік тому +8

    Love your videos man! Due to some circumstances I'll be very far away from any fight gym and I've gotten lazy in the past couple of weeks so I'm trying to get back to my routine and hopefully learn some new things I can use for when I can get back to formal training

    • @GabrielVargaOfficial
      @GabrielVargaOfficial  Рік тому +7

      Keeping up with your own training will definitely help keep your skills sharp.
      I hope the channel assists a lot with that as well.

  • @Gigi-nb9ry
    @Gigi-nb9ry Рік тому +2

    Gabriel coming in hot with that Top Tier content once again, thanks coach! I really like this type of content. not a lot people talk about the psychological component of fighting. I would love to hear your take on how to fight a friend in a bout!

  • @cherryb0ng
    @cherryb0ng Рік тому

    Last week someone recommended tucking something under my chin. I didn't use it but yesterday he asked me if I had tried doing that. I was kind of surprised that he even remembered how I was struggling with this because he is not my instructor but the considerate question made me want to train with this method. Now that you are saying it too it's quite clear.

  • @thegunslingerhd
    @thegunslingerhd Рік тому

    This video totally describes my issues in Muay thai

  • @z3rk545
    @z3rk545 Рік тому

    Your videos are so usefull to immprove self on off.,deff., mistakes and etc, thank you ...

  • @markwiddows2956
    @markwiddows2956 Рік тому

    Thanks again bro...never a disappointment viewing yer vids...never stop!!!

  • @vindicator75
    @vindicator75 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for the tips. Ya. Coach has told me to throw more combos in classx but I was always hesitant to get hit. He also tells me I keep my chin up often. Definitely going to put something on my chin when I shadow box next time.

  • @steve6548
    @steve6548 Рік тому +1

    Tagged your video to watch later. the description is me to a "T". Afraid to hit, in fear of getting tagged. Hope to get some good advice.

  • @Peter-the-Angry
    @Peter-the-Angry Рік тому +3

    My main issue when sparring was that I couldn't get past hitting my friends/teammates and hurting them so it just felt strange. When compared to someone I don't like ir an attacker is completely different.

  • @nwbdirge1198
    @nwbdirge1198 Рік тому

    Great tips will be utilizing these tonight

  • @richardgurney100
    @richardgurney100 Рік тому

    This is such excellent info Gabriel.

  • @bealotcoolerifyoudid7217
    @bealotcoolerifyoudid7217 6 місяців тому

    Man, some excellent advise 🎉🎉❤❤

  • @dante22723
    @dante22723 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this, I will be doing my first fight very soon but still having these anxious feelings whenever I spar and trying to overcome them and become better

  • @aniloubro
    @aniloubro Рік тому

    Love Gabe, brilliant advice

  • @Ash__Adler
    @Ash__Adler Рік тому +6

    All good tips 🙂 Regarding tip 4, you're right that the best thing is to just ask the other person to go lighter because it's not just a jerk thing; it's legitimately difficult to learn how hard is "too hard" without getting that feedback, especially if you're fairly new to sparring.

  • @gerardonunezdelafuente6330
    @gerardonunezdelafuente6330 Рік тому

    thank you, ill make this video my mantra till i get more skill and confidence :)

  • @Flareman21
    @Flareman21 Рік тому

    Thanks for this video it really helps me to switch to offense in a fight thanks.

  • @Infinite_Guide04
    @Infinite_Guide04 Рік тому

    You’re life safer Gabriel thank you

  • @talkingtoalison
    @talkingtoalison 3 місяці тому

    Very helpful!

  • @siegfriedo
    @siegfriedo Рік тому +1

    Thanks heaps for these tips Coach.
    Helps a lot. 💥💪👍

  • @WizardyDylan
    @WizardyDylan 8 місяців тому

    really good tips! subbed

  • @clinthawk9184
    @clinthawk9184 Рік тому

    thank you GV

  • @metekarabacak2234
    @metekarabacak2234 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this video, i started kickboxing 2.5 months ago, never been in any fighting sports before, yesterday i go sparring with someone in the gym who has been training for 2 years, and actually i wasn’t able to throw any punches to him, he was punching very hard, i was asking him to punch a bit lighter but he kept saying that this was his normal hand power, i was getting too much punches to my head and chest and actually i think that my ribs get damaged because it pains me since yesterday 😅

  • @iceburn5349
    @iceburn5349 Рік тому

    Just the video I need rn

  • @zMxsh
    @zMxsh Рік тому

    exactly what I needed thank you

  • @unwokesnake
    @unwokesnake Рік тому

    Great tips, thank you!

  • @michaelguild
    @michaelguild 11 місяців тому

    love your vids!

  • @jelaneytaters8149
    @jelaneytaters8149 Рік тому

    Ugh I struggle with #5 I'm quick enough I can get in a single hit often without getting but back, feel like this video was made for me, I need to chill and work on my combos when I engage. Gonna be repeating this like a mantra tonight when sparring 😂

  • @tallst1
    @tallst1 Рік тому

    Thanks for the video

  • @samscott9121
    @samscott9121 Рік тому

    Great video

  • @daansebastian
    @daansebastian Рік тому

    I get sooooo many hits on the nose! definitely using that tip🤲🏽

  • @Ferggyshorts
    @Ferggyshorts 11 місяців тому

    just got done my 6th spar as a newbie this was definitely my problem today i was overthinking everything

  • @DannyBivins-x6l
    @DannyBivins-x6l 2 місяці тому

    That’s why sometimes it takes a nice crack to the dome to get going

  • @bakersmileyface
    @bakersmileyface 4 місяці тому

    I think for me, my head switches into offensive mode and defensive mode.
    I think "I'm going to hit him" and then I hit him. And then I think "he's going to hit me" and I go into defensive mode. But in doing so I lose the timing to pull off any combos.
    I really need to start incorporating my defence into my offense and work more dynamically instead of having a switch.

  • @joaofonseca2012
    @joaofonseca2012 2 місяці тому

    This might be a stupid question, but please don't judge me. What's wrong with being hesitant? Why not attack when there's a clear opening?

  • @antoniocatanese4258
    @antoniocatanese4258 Рік тому +6

    Gabriel how about this: I go to kick the head, but obviously it's sparring, so I stop at the point of contact (as in "I would have gotten you"!). Partner proceeds to hammer me with punches or kicks to the other leg, ignoring the "danger" of the head kick I didn't land. Suggestions?

    • @notmyname3681
      @notmyname3681 Рік тому +1

      I have this issue; land a light front or side kick and my sparring partner walks through it and strikes as if it didn't happen. People need to respect every strike as if they were full strength. Maybe discuss it with your coach, or suggest this to any sparring partners. Point out that the only option if they don't is for you to go harder, which you don't want to do, and that you will both learn more and be safer if you do this.

    • @psilocybinenthusiast5200
      @psilocybinenthusiast5200 Рік тому

      Yeh land ur head kick next time once at a power level where they are hesitant or just refuse to spar w people like that. Up to u.

    • @jabarihaymond7704
      @jabarihaymond7704 Рік тому

      I understand what you mean but every strike isn't full strength, you also cant expect your partner to respect you when it comes to that if you aren't really committing to your attacks. Every attack doesn't have to be hard but it should be purposeful.

    • @notmyname3681
      @notmyname3681 Рік тому +2

      @@jabarihaymond7704 Sure, I agree and it sounds like the op is saying the same. Their guard is open, you could nail them, you land light or pull short a clean technique... And they act like nothing happened. Very different from landing a sloppy strike that could never have been significant, those should be brushed off.
      The issue is really that if you then go harder to make them 'notice' the technique, they then up their physicality because they've registered that you threw a harder strike than usual... Then it escalates.

    • @TiberiusRexx
      @TiberiusRexx Рік тому +5

      @@notmyname3681 my favourite is when they smile and shake their heads as if it was a real fight and they ate a bomb. Like, sit down mr granite chin lol.

  • @1smg346
    @1smg346 Рік тому +1

    1)hands up while punching
    2)move your head off the centre line
    3)tuck your chin look through your eyebrows
    4)ask guys to go light
    5)exit after attack
    Smesh everybody 👊👊👊

  • @greywolf9341
    @greywolf9341 11 місяців тому

    Point no. 4 is what i struggle with. Every once in a while there's a guy punching too hard either he's a jerk or he's stupid. My ego wouldn't let me to ask him to go easy. I would go completely defensive and wait till its over.

  • @bruhmoment-yt2zp
    @bruhmoment-yt2zp Місяць тому

    I struggle with this in my fights. My first fight i was super aggressive to the point of being non technical when usually im very technical. 2nd and 3rd fight i lost because i wasnt aggressive enough i didnt throw over maybe 70-80% power and never really tried to hurt my opponent. I waited for them and didnt throw with power because i didnt feel any urge to actually move foward and hurt them and win. I dont really know how to fix this i feel like its more of a mindset thing. My coaches say to keep fighting and eventually itll just click but i feel like theres something else i should be doing

  • @Jessy-Blaze
    @Jessy-Blaze Рік тому

    thank you gabriel, videos help out a ton. do you have a video about jab defense? like when to smother the jab or when to use hand control along with footwork? thanks

  • @Eiswolf777Gaming
    @Eiswolf777Gaming 3 місяці тому

    i am too defensiv in sparring, i am affraid to high and push kick and to rush in. i know i could do more but i have a big problem of attacking someone

  • @markoszoli2185
    @markoszoli2185 Рік тому

    I wish someone would have told me all this when I was younger. My sparring would have been so much better,

  • @BinaryNinjasPOV
    @BinaryNinjasPOV Рік тому +1

    how to avoid getting my toe stubbed when kicking in sparring? I just got my toe broken that way 8 weeks ago :(

  • @dudester6182
    @dudester6182 Рік тому

    Thanks Gabe, not gonna lie, sparring is not my favorite thing, lol I like the pads drills working tech

  • @Samuel-qf6ri
    @Samuel-qf6ri Рік тому +2

    I just over extend too much, particularly when I get too aggressive. Ate an uppercut which broke my nose as a result. So now I'm too defensive and just try to counter.

    • @AxaFin
      @AxaFin Рік тому +2

      Shadowboxing with heavy focus being on the back leg helped me stop reaching so much

  • @zandernienaber176
    @zandernienaber176 10 місяців тому +1

    I'm not scared of getting hurt but rather of hurting my sparring partner

  • @dma-rising8876
    @dma-rising8876 Рік тому

    Another banger

  • @k_rat94
    @k_rat94 7 місяців тому

    I keep getting thrown in the corner. It's like my coach and my sparring partner are getting a kick out of frustrating me. I walked out the gym last week in the middle of sparring cause I keep getting pushed in the corner and tensed up. Gonna go back tomorrow and just work on my form.

  • @igorg.8624
    @igorg.8624 Рік тому

    Keeping my chin down is something I have to train. I often get punched in the nose and get gun shy :)

  • @Starsteam1
    @Starsteam1 3 місяці тому

    It's a tricky one, defense is the most important thing about MMA, it's part of the reason why I train.

  • @kingkaratechop3978
    @kingkaratechop3978 Рік тому +2

    Good tips here! I think my main issue is remembering to breathe during sparring. I feel like I could do a lot better if I didn't run myself out of breath. Any tips to improve breathing while sparring?

  • @samuelfranzoso
    @samuelfranzoso Рік тому +4

    Hey Gabriel I have a quick question. I often find myself swapping stances from orthodox to southpaw during sparring, usually after some combinations. I'm comfortable in both, but is it wise? Should I instead focus on mantaining the same lead leg? Thank you for your videos they are all very helpful!

    • @GabrielVargaOfficial
      @GabrielVargaOfficial  Рік тому +5

      I actually have a video on that already but to sum it up it's okay as long as your defense isn't compromised.

    • @samuelfranzoso
      @samuelfranzoso Рік тому

      @@GabrielVargaOfficial thank you, I'll check it out

  • @madlabyrinth1875
    @madlabyrinth1875 Рік тому

    Awesome

  • @raphaelrousso7124
    @raphaelrousso7124 Рік тому

    Vraiment intéressant

  • @B2ClippedIt
    @B2ClippedIt Рік тому

    Head off center line
    tuck chin shadowbox with ball under chin
    High guard
    Distance 1 step away from him
    Multiple shots before exiting

  • @lobohez7222
    @lobohez7222 6 місяців тому

    My issue was, im tall and good looking, so all the girls had their eyes on me since first training in the gym and i immediatelly become the target for jerks who dont know how to treat a woman. So they hit me hard in sparring with intention to hurt me, it got better when i become a bit advanced and had now a quople of targets for revenge, where i didnt have to think oh i dont like to hurt people because i enjoyed to hurt them back.

  • @jaxonnevermore1394
    @jaxonnevermore1394 Рік тому +1

    Hey gabe! Good video as always.
    I have a match next month first or second week and I’m currently in camp.
    But I hurt my elbow and the doctor recommended me to rest for a week or two.
    Can you share some exercises to help with kickboxing without using my hand?

  • @chasemoeller8707
    @chasemoeller8707 Рік тому

    Couldn't of came out at a better time for me

  • @TI-rg4sn
    @TI-rg4sn Рік тому

    Is there a bonus if I have both 5? :D Thanks! Great video again.

  • @giornomus
    @giornomus 3 місяці тому

    I just got my ass beat today my first time sparring and I definitely didn’t attack like I thought I would