This was the biggest life changing year of my life in every aspect took off the rose colored glasses at my age to see who he really is a narcissist time wasting player, how family/ in-laws, so called friends, coworkers really are and how they treated me. Been a long lonely journey in this lifetime excluding my deceased parents, full of more unhappy memories than good. Thanks for the words of wisdom from one old soul to another...always learning and growing daily... I'm no longer ignoring the red flags...finally free as a bird 🦅flying higher and higher each day. Thank you have a blessed day...♍️🌹
That's exactly what I said to my manager. Yes, I'm sweet but if people are not sweet to me, I'll match that. I'm not just sweet. I'm standing up for myself.
Thank you wonderful Wendy. 🙏 Taurus ♉️ here. Outside influences bullied me from the age of 7. This continued up to adulthood, in the workplace and into relationships. As well as my marriage. This all resonates but it happened over a period of 30 years but I left him for the 2nd and final time 2 years ago. I spent so long trying to appease him until I realised I was an exhausted empath. He is a narcissist. And yes! I had to dull down my feelings which I didn’t realise at first as I loved him. I always fooled myself into thinking he’d change. He was very uncomfortable when I got excited and displayed my true joy. I cottoned onto him and spent many years acting out in defence whether it be anger, sadness or frustration but little did I know back then that it was fuelling his control. He is now deliberately dragging his feet with the divorce. I’m happy once again, kids have grown and moved away. Because I felt it was time to leave and that I deserved better. I had to move in with my parents. I’m still happier now but I have become a carer along with my Mom to look after my Dad who has Alzheimer’s and COPD. (24/7 around the clock). I’ve been on a Spiritual journey for 5 years and I’m still striving forward with Faith. Thank you again. Love, light and peaceful vibes to you, your’s and the collective. ❤️✨🕊️🙏🥰 from England. xxx
Your readings are Incredible...This is a Life reading...So Very Resonant🦋💓 Much Love and Appreciation to you Wendy! Excellent Coaching - Love You! Feels One on One Seriously!
I believe it happens for us not to us. I’m stronger, wiser and grateful for the lessons and also believe we make the agreements with source before we come here on Earth. ❤xxx
Resonates, I knew he was a narc and so was my father. I stood up for myself and it was draining. It did feel good to be love. Bombed until the gaslighting and the discard came. I did not really believe him as I knew he was a charming liar but yes it did benefit me until it did not anymore and it was clear that loving myself felt better. And Yes what amazing reading! Helpful ❤ Thank you
Gosh the connection between early-life neglect and the deep desire to feel wanted really hit home. And the loss of self in the efforts of being loving enough for that other person to love me back... And hence the loss of perspective and poor judgement. Oh, do I ever know what it has been like being with a player energy for 7 years, who fully knew what he was doing and how to control and manipulate me. I knew early that he was working hard to put out my fire, to get me to submit and be obedient and to cherish and validate him, all the time, without reciprocation. I knew it, I saw it. But I couldn't get out. On top of that I became the Mother. And I became the safe person for him to dump on, but there was no tolerance of me ever stepping out of the ever-loving, forgiving, patient, meek mother role. If I did, there would be instant punishment through break up, stone walking, bullying and criticisms I am out now. Bad leaving the country. And ever so gently bringing all of the pieces of myself home. .
A friend of mine told me years ago " you're Ed's wife and Stephanie's mom but your not Bird no more" Bird is my nick name. Took me many years to break out but I'm finally Bird again, aka the logo of my side business.
Thank you so much Wendy. Again, spot on. But as for the rage - there is the further complication that if you dare to express anything but smarmy niceness in these systems they can't WAIT to label you crazy and unstable - that's exactly what they've been trying to provoke my whole life, and they're extremely disappointed that I haven't followed the script. Nevertheless, there are a million ways to destroy a person - so my family has pursued those avenues and landed on "She only cares about herself!" - so ugly and mean, a truly toxic web of interpersonal dysfunction that goes back generations. The youngest daughter is scapegoated. I've taken it like an old Roman, and it's funny (in a perverse way) that after doing absolutely nothing - showing the smiley face, never letting them see me sweat, keeping my cool and refusing to take the bait - doesn't matter. These are truly NO WIN dynamics. The system is designed to fail everyone stuck inside it. Sorry for the novel 🤣 I feel so validated, seen and heard.❤
LOL, Ive told my guides and yours "thank you" for the free guidance. Made me laugh. I needed that. Also, thank you for all of your energy, time and guidance. You are amazing and i appreaciate you so much. This reading was for me! Thank you so much!!!!!!!!!
As much as I respect your work the narrative is a bit askew. Although some subjects may have small string of truth. The majority is completely unfounded.
Your readings are very healing and substantiating. Thank you Wendy.
You are really helping me. I'm at a turning point that's working out. ❤
This was the biggest life changing year of my life in every aspect took off the rose colored glasses at my age to see who he really is a narcissist time wasting player, how family/ in-laws, so called friends, coworkers really are and how they treated me. Been a long lonely journey in this lifetime excluding my deceased parents, full of more unhappy memories than good. Thanks for the words of wisdom from one old soul to another...always learning and growing daily... I'm no longer ignoring the red flags...finally free as a bird 🦅flying higher and higher each day. Thank you have a blessed day...♍️🌹
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Thankfulness you Wendy ❤❤❤
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That's exactly what I said to my manager. Yes, I'm sweet but if people are not sweet to me, I'll match that. I'm not just sweet. I'm standing up for myself.
Thani you, Wendy. Reading adding up 100% to me, As mostly so.
Thx for your kind words, Wendy😂
Thank you for explaining the anxiety when others are in their emotions. Thank you for the tools.
You're welcome 😊
My heart to your heart with so much gratitude 🙏❤️🌞🦁
I told a war vet years ago going thru deep feelings not to run away, shake hands with it and go from there.
True. Was very ungrounded at that time. Was difficult to deal with that.
Source put us in each others lives because we all had things to learn.❤
YESSS!!! didn't like to be betrayed, so also I'm not going to betray myself 🌼
…stands with fist, thankyou for the posted words.
Thank you wonderful Wendy. 🙏 Taurus ♉️ here.
Outside influences bullied me from the age of 7. This continued up to adulthood, in the workplace and into relationships. As well as my marriage.
This all resonates but it happened over a period of 30 years but I left him for the 2nd and final time 2 years ago. I spent so long trying to appease him until I realised I was an exhausted empath. He is a narcissist. And yes! I had to dull down my feelings which I didn’t realise at first as I loved him. I always fooled myself into thinking he’d change. He was very uncomfortable when I got excited and displayed my true joy. I cottoned onto him and spent many years acting out in defence whether it be anger, sadness or frustration but little did I know back then that it was fuelling his control. He is now deliberately dragging his feet with the divorce.
I’m happy once again, kids have grown and moved away. Because I felt it was time to leave and that I deserved better. I had to move in with my parents. I’m still happier now but I have become a carer along with my Mom to look after my Dad who has Alzheimer’s and COPD. (24/7 around the clock).
I’ve been on a Spiritual journey for 5 years and I’m still striving forward with Faith. Thank you again. Love, light and peaceful vibes to you, your’s and the collective. ❤️✨🕊️🙏🥰 from England. xxx
Your readings are Incredible...This is a Life reading...So Very Resonant🦋💓 Much Love and Appreciation to you Wendy! Excellent Coaching - Love You! Feels One on One Seriously!
This reading was a tour of my life and mind. Exactly what I'm dealing with right now.
A balance of Light and Dark is so good for our soul.😂❤
A balanced recipe 😂
Omg it’s like you were sitting here with me this am 🤣🤣. Crazy accurate
I believe it happens for us not to us. I’m stronger, wiser and grateful for the lessons and also believe we make the agreements with source before we come here on Earth. ❤xxx
Woo-hoo, my favorite time of day, Wendy time.
Thank you 🙏
@@wingspiritualclarity1233 I thank you!
Thankyou hun, that was an amazing reading 🙏💜🤍💜
Thank you
What an AMAZING reading! 😉😅
Thanks, Wendy! ❤
You're welcome 😊
I love you Wendy...
The clearest channel..
You are...xo
Awww! Thank you!!!!! 🙏🙏
Very personal reading for me. Much love and many blessings to you
Thank you 🙏
Thank you, another loving and supportive message. Blessed be beautiful lady.
You're welcome 😊
First time for everything, you nailed me!
Wow♥️✨
Thank you🙏🏼✨
You're welcome 😊
Resonates, I knew he was a narc and so was my father. I stood up for myself and it was draining.
It did feel good to be love. Bombed until the gaslighting and the discard came. I did not really believe him as I knew he was a charming liar but yes it did benefit me until it did not anymore and it was clear that loving myself felt better. And Yes what amazing reading! Helpful ❤ Thank you
You're welcome 😊
Gosh the connection between early-life neglect and the deep desire to feel wanted really hit home. And the loss of self in the efforts of being loving enough for that other person to love me back... And hence the loss of perspective and poor judgement. Oh, do I ever know what it has been like being with a player energy for 7 years, who fully knew what he was doing and how to control and manipulate me. I knew early that he was working hard to put out my fire, to get me to submit and be obedient and to cherish and validate him, all the time, without reciprocation. I knew it, I saw it. But I couldn't get out. On top of that I became the Mother. And I became the safe person for him to dump on, but there was no tolerance of me ever stepping out of the ever-loving, forgiving, patient, meek mother role. If I did, there would be instant punishment through break up, stone walking, bullying and criticisms
I am out now. Bad leaving the country. And ever so gently bringing all of the pieces of myself home. .
Beautifully put. Thank you for sharing 🙏
💫🔮✨🙏Amazing read …thanks Wendy!
You're welcome 😊
thank you for clarifying things, in the process of rebuilding with a different design...enjoy
Beautiful Enlightened reading ❤️
A friend of mine told me years ago " you're Ed's wife and Stephanie's mom but your not Bird no more" Bird is my nick name. Took me many years to break out but I'm finally Bird again, aka the logo of my side business.
Wilma marks. Thank u. So much❤❤❤❤❤❤
You're welcome 😊
Emotional Sherpa 😂 No more!! 👍
This reading really resonates and I have had to process so much grief after finally seeing things clearly. You are an amazing reader, thank you! 🙏💯
Thank you and you're welcome 🙏
Exactly. My marriage. I was not allowed to express emotions that did not affirm her. Lost myself for sure. Been hard coming back from after 22 years.
Lol. I only said "I'm only going to be kind and helpful to those who are nice to me" recently ❤
Yay! We're synchronized! 🙌
@wingspiritualclarity1233 alot of the things you have said on here I can resonate with!! 😃 thankyou x
Thank you so much Wendy. Again, spot on. But as for the rage - there is the further complication that if you dare to express anything but smarmy niceness in these systems they can't WAIT to label you crazy and unstable - that's exactly what they've been trying to provoke my whole life, and they're extremely disappointed that I haven't followed the script. Nevertheless, there are a million ways to destroy a person - so my family has pursued those avenues and landed on "She only cares about herself!" - so ugly and mean, a truly toxic web of interpersonal dysfunction that goes back generations. The youngest daughter is scapegoated. I've taken it like an old Roman, and it's funny (in a perverse way) that after doing absolutely nothing - showing the smiley face, never letting them see me sweat, keeping my cool and refusing to take the bait - doesn't matter. These are truly NO WIN dynamics. The system is designed to fail everyone stuck inside it. Sorry for the novel 🤣 I feel so validated, seen and heard.❤
Yes! Great share 🙌
i have been an emotional Sherpa but i'm shucking my burden lol😂❤
Thank you! Blessings
You're welcome 😊
Sure is amazing ❤
ohh it’s definitely a man who did this to me.
LOL, Ive told my guides and yours "thank you" for the free guidance. Made me laugh. I needed that. Also, thank you for all of your energy, time and guidance. You are amazing and i appreaciate you so much. This reading was for me! Thank you so much!!!!!!!!!
You're welcome 😊
Being kind is okay in some families, but ive learned this cant always work in dysfunctional families.😮❤😮❤
Right!?!?! Great share. Thank you 🙏
Thank you Wendy
You're welcome 😊
Love your insightful readings, u definately have a great gift!!Thank you
You're welcome 😊
It is and was disappointing. ❤
humans seem to be a stuck place. i lov ebeing god and not caring about people anymore and leaving them behind.
Wow thanks. Spot on for me, but its an adult son not partener. I will get there. X
Yesterdays video there were people in your yard as you were recording hope your safe thank you for your readings ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yes! You're so sweet. That's the property owner fixing up the space, putting in a fence. She's amazing. I'm so grateful for this space 🙌
@@wingspiritualclarity1233 thank God lol I'm a former New Yorker always eyes in back of my head ..prevention as I say..Happy your Safe ❤
This is a typical narcissist. Their opinions matters the most. Control is utmost on their minds.
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I get up and leave the situation, why sit in it
Hey Ms Wendy
Hope This Finds You Happy Healthy & Abundant
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It does! Thank you Faith!!!🙏🙏✨✨
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17:00 ppl don't want me to lose my temper, they made it bad aa well as spreading the whole time nonsense
Girls bye
Late today. 🥀
Are you seeing someone else?
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As much as I respect your work the narrative is a bit askew. Although some subjects may have small string of truth. The majority is completely unfounded.
Thank you
You're welcome
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