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  • @kagisomamabolo6775
    @kagisomamabolo6775 2 роки тому +1486

    Asking people to come dressed in white and then complaining about being upstaged is weird...make it make sense. Like how is it Ayan's fault that you are basic?

    • @GaeaThomson
      @GaeaThomson 2 роки тому +104

      And the way she was so stuck on it too!! It was hard to watch

    • @citydweller99
      @citydweller99 2 роки тому +17

      Aylan is passive aggressive

    • @hannahbarbarian6786
      @hannahbarbarian6786 2 роки тому +42

      @@citydweller99 who?

    • @TheEyeSeesAll
      @TheEyeSeesAll 2 роки тому

      Only the basic women tell the other women their basic are you a basic woman are you the woman who is the most basic out of all basic are you the origins of basic if not who are you to cast stones at the glass houses who are you to break the teeth of the women who wear white how dare you in the troll space patrol for the women who are wearing white unless you were way too and condemn those who were white

    • @ZipporahRian44
      @ZipporahRian44 2 роки тому

      You just proved you lack empathy, compassion and understanding. Sounding like the script they use in the show lol. It's sad to see how programmed people like you are. Bully 🌺

  • @KiDCRuDi_
    @KiDCRuDi_ 2 роки тому +827

    The fact that Ayan remained composed AND gave numerous complimentary boats about Caroline S while being the recipient of her tactless abuse is a testament to her character. I just love her!

  • @Turner__22345
    @Turner__22345 2 роки тому +435

    “they thought u were me “ girl whatt no they didn’t 😭🤣

    • @AlMiner
      @AlMiner 2 роки тому +45

      😂 And then Caroline had her nerve to call her back up. Chanel is looking at both of them as if they lost their damn minds. 🤣

    • @Anne_one
      @Anne_one 2 роки тому +18

      The delusion lol. Maybe Caroline thinks she looks like Ayan in her head.

    • @handleisGG
      @handleisGG 2 роки тому +2

      from the back? they did, SHE may be black but those wig hairs shole didn't come from black people.

    • @tiffanywalker4437
      @tiffanywalker4437 2 роки тому +20

      @@handleisGG chile you must be a friend of caroline cause you under every comment talking down on Ayan like she's done something personal to you 🤔🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @handleisGG
      @handleisGG 2 роки тому

      @@tiffanywalker4437 I dont know no Caroline, that lady looked yt from the back, what bw you know with bone straight blonde hair? Like quit playing and acting a foo im NOT invested in this racial drama you have hate watching these yt ppl on tv thats WEIRD im just telling it how it is. The girl LOOKS a whole diff race from the back end of story!

  • @CoCo-yv3hl
    @CoCo-yv3hl 2 роки тому +517

    Caroline wore a homecoming dress & got mad that Ayan an entire model looks better in the color she requested. Her & her friend are jealous

    • @bernadinetinker3028
      @bernadinetinker3028 2 роки тому +7

      Maybe, it was the cowgirl boots...

    • @laurensimonee
      @laurensimonee 2 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @luxuryconnoisseuraddict6900
      @luxuryconnoisseuraddict6900 2 роки тому +3

      That's right! you said it. She was jealous she didn't do a good job with her look and someone outshined her. I mean come on girl, UP YOUR GAME!

  • @darrylskylar8757
    @darrylskylar8757 2 роки тому +559

    Stanbury has so many microaggressions it’s insane. The way she grabbed Ayan and told her to speak to Juliet when Juliet didn’t speak to Ayan when Ayan was trying to walk away and defuse the situation really upset me!

    • @julsmcgee9346
      @julsmcgee9346 2 роки тому +106

      There was something VERY disturbing about that moment: "First of all, say hello." Speaking to Ayan like she's her child.

    • @diehoffart
      @diehoffart 2 роки тому +63

      In my opinion she crossed a line. You don’t just grab people like that. And I’m absolutely on ayan’s side. Why would she dress down just to make stanbury happy? She doesn’t need to kiss her arse 🤷‍♀️ she wore what she wanted and she respected the dress code. I just feel like stanbury deliberately decided on a white dress code, so she could start drama with someone. If she was honestly upset about Ayan turning it out, she needs to work on self confidence

    • @darrylskylar8757
      @darrylskylar8757 2 роки тому +51

      @@diehoffart I think Stansbury deliberately decided to have drama with Ayan before the season started. I remember Ayan being hurt that she wasn’t invited to her bachelorette party and not understanding why, because she was just out with Stanbury a week before, prior to filming starting. I’m not sure if a producer or Stansbury decided that her having drama with Ayan would be good for the show however, it’s apparent that someone did think it was a good idea. Ayan was so upset and confused with Stansbury not inviting her to the bachelorette party when they where all together the week before filming with no issues. Also, Sergio was talking and laughing with Ayan and Lesa at Nina’s party and the next time we see him Sergio is talking crap about Ayan and Lesa. This was fake, phony drama and I hope Stansbury and Sergio get called out at the reunion for their behavior this season!

    • @diehoffart
      @diehoffart 2 роки тому +11

      @@darrylskylar8757 absolutely it seems very forced and just for the cameras. Guess that’s what boring people who need a story line, need to do 😅

    • @bernadinetinker3028
      @bernadinetinker3028 2 роки тому +31

      Stansbury grabbed Chanel by the shoulder and pushed Chanel. She also put her hands in Chanel's hair. Stansbury is more than condescending- but physically abusive. Interestingly where this type of behavior is addressed.

  • @michelledyess138
    @michelledyess138 2 роки тому +751

    “Sit down,eat, leave us the hell alone and don’t tell us how to raise our kids” yasssss Ayan!! 😂 I I freaking love her! ❤️

    • @BlossomingTalent
      @BlossomingTalent 2 роки тому +33

      Me too! Ayan is effortless on this show.
      I wish we got to see her home :(

    • @jenniferwiilis5267
      @jenniferwiilis5267 2 роки тому +15

      She couldn’t of said it better than that kids= off limits

    • @See-if_I_care
      @See-if_I_care 2 роки тому +27

      But black people need to receive advice though. That's why our kids be running around all broken and bruised coz of the parenting styles that is not good for any child. Ayan is reaching ...

    • @ellenhajie2421
      @ellenhajie2421 2 роки тому +53

      @@See-if_I_care what nonsense!!! There are many black kids who are great 👍just as there are many kids of other cultures/races who are troublesome. GTFOH

    • @lawtraf8008
      @lawtraf8008 2 роки тому +3

      @@See-if_I_care No they don't

  • @robbycharmed
    @robbycharmed 2 роки тому +536

    I'm a black woman, how can you be me? haha I LOVE CHANEL AYAN

    • @-Epiphany
      @-Epiphany 2 роки тому +24

      Nah she said "how can u be me" big difference...

    • @luxuryconnoisseuraddict6900
      @luxuryconnoisseuraddict6900 2 роки тому +4

      hahahha! the best response isn't it! AMEN

    • @robbycharmed
      @robbycharmed 2 роки тому

      @@luxuryconnoisseuraddict6900 THE BEST RESPONSE HAHA

  • @Jeng4280
    @Jeng4280 2 роки тому +253

    Chanel Iyan looks like a young Iman. She’s stunning! And they are jealous that she looked better than they did.🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @ZipporahRian44
      @ZipporahRian44 2 роки тому

      Aaaand? It's not ok to feel insecure? lol. Women are lost

    • @dannimcleod1364
      @dannimcleod1364 2 роки тому +26

      @@ZipporahRian44 in my opinion (as a woman) it’s perfectly okay to feel insecure. It is not okay however to project your insecurities onto another person. That’s where it crosses into not being okay.

    • @ZipporahRian44
      @ZipporahRian44 2 роки тому

      @@dannimcleod1364 Cos you always admit to your wrongdoings and is humble right? Anyone coming with white lace and a bridal train draping down their behind is either ignorant or purposefully manipulative to the bride.

    • @dannimcleod1364
      @dannimcleod1364 2 роки тому +7

      @@ZipporahRian44 there wasn’t any wrong doing in my opinion. The request was to wear white. She wore white. Was it something I would’ve worn no. But I also am not friends with people who have this kind of money. She sees how the chick dresses going to grab a coffee in a neon pink gown so like.. what did she expect? If the bride wanted to stand out she should’ve bought a more grand dress.

    • @ZipporahRian44
      @ZipporahRian44 2 роки тому

      @@dannimcleod1364 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 That is true. So she's ignorant but I think alot off people are being harsh on her. Judging a bit to viciously cos we aren't perfect. We can talk about it but the tone is off in general.

  • @robertstanley9633
    @robertstanley9633 2 роки тому +279

    Chanel Ayan is carrying this franchise, if this show were to be named Chanel Ayan & Friends I wouldn't mind it ...

    • @luxuryconnoisseuraddict6900
      @luxuryconnoisseuraddict6900 2 роки тому

      AMEN. I'm all in with Chanel Ayan. I would love to have her as my client! She would become my friend so easily

    • @icyunvme2400
      @icyunvme2400 2 роки тому +4

      I like Ayan but Lesa is my fav😭

  • @aarushkumar7052
    @aarushkumar7052 2 роки тому +540

    Chanel can’t help that she’s iconic and serves every look.
    Caroline looks basic as hell.

    • @adamghammouri8613
      @adamghammouri8613 2 роки тому +6

      Frl

    • @AlMiner
      @AlMiner 2 роки тому +9

      😂 FACTS!

    • @homebody6353
      @homebody6353 2 роки тому +3

      She can’t help it. The melanin was popping .

    • @blackgarmentbag7482
      @blackgarmentbag7482 2 роки тому +4

      The bride knew she was coming🤣🤣🤣

    • @handleisGG
      @handleisGG 2 роки тому

      why yaa lying for ayan tho 🤭🤭🤭 you kno damn well she can't serve every look 🤣

  • @ladieesc0
    @ladieesc0 2 роки тому +122

    "first of all say hello" (as if she's a child) yet this lady walked up didn't say hello to Ayan but instead walks up yelling "I'm trying to figure out who's getting married". Then later says "no I don't know you" lol. So you're admitting you don't know her but felt it was okay to walk up saying that yet Ayan gets "reprimanded" for not saying hello. It's the privilege, audacity, & unawareness for me!

  • @justcallmebon2684
    @justcallmebon2684 2 роки тому +232

    Caroline is obsessed with Ayan.
    How could anyone mistake Ayan for Caroline? She’s delulu

    • @handleisGG
      @handleisGG 2 роки тому +1

      from the back? YEA she looked white let's not act like she was wearing an afro wig

    • @justcallmebon2684
      @justcallmebon2684 2 роки тому +23

      @@handleisGG They do not have the same stature, skin color and Caroline isn’t the only blonde in the dessert. Be real

    • @handleisGG
      @handleisGG 2 роки тому

      @@justcallmebon2684 she still looks white from the back end of story. Her "stature" doesnt matter when shes in a room full of people wearing white covering her entire body and just the blonde hair is visible from the back, she LOOKS yt.

    • @justcallmebon2684
      @justcallmebon2684 2 роки тому +19

      @@handleisGG She doesn’t look like Caroline PERIOD. When Caroline becomes a tall, thin, statuesque, black model, call me 🤙

    • @handleisGG
      @handleisGG 2 роки тому

      @@justcallmebon2684 from a far you cant tell she still looks like a white girl with LITERAL straight blonde hair

  • @angelicahermida338
    @angelicahermida338 2 роки тому +116

    Why did she grabbed Chanel like that???

    • @CoCo-yv3hl
      @CoCo-yv3hl 2 роки тому +36

      Exactly pure hatred

    • @ziao.1359
      @ziao.1359 2 роки тому +12

      Right…. That push was mixed with hatred and aggressive. Omg

  • @MimiO23x
    @MimiO23x 2 роки тому +67

    she said “the bride knew I was coming” 😧😂

  • @workittworkit
    @workittworkit 2 роки тому +210

    Stansbury is threatened by Ayan. Period. She’s been on a hate campaign all season. EVERYONE looked more of a bride than stansbury because stansbury has no fashion and is basic. What is classy and dignified about insulting and assaulting your guests because they have better style than you?

    • @luxuryconnoisseuraddict6900
      @luxuryconnoisseuraddict6900 2 роки тому +2

      That part! Everything you said, AMEN

    • @samkerr117
      @samkerr117 2 роки тому

      Also because everyone wanting the wedding more than that basic god damn bride 😂😂
      She don’t care . It shows

  • @AFCompany
    @AFCompany 2 роки тому +219

    They need to be happy anytime Chanel Ayan shows up because she absolutely carries this show. Also what was Caroline expecting? Chanel dresses like she going to the met ball just to use the bathroom in the middle of the night. Duh she is gonna outshine everyone including you.

    • @luxuryconnoisseuraddict6900
      @luxuryconnoisseuraddict6900 2 роки тому +6

      AMEN! Without Ayan, there is no show and it would be utter useless! She's the Queen

    • @victorj.2693
      @victorj.2693 2 роки тому

      Boy!!!! she show up wearing couture to a local market, then, squate to eat Ethiopian food with her fingers, a 👸🏽

  • @mayastill258
    @mayastill258 2 роки тому +102

    Imo I think Sara didn’t overstep because she asked for permission. I think Caroline actually low key was triggered because she knew she was right. All of sudden your hanging up pics of you son after your house has been a shrine to yourself. Brooks was drunk and needed time to digest the Conversation.

    • @GirlychocobeautyPink
      @GirlychocobeautyPink 2 роки тому +17

      Yeah...That is questionable If she Had all those photos Of him stored Away 😐

    • @mayastill258
      @mayastill258 2 роки тому +4

      @@GirlychocobeautyPink definitely.

    • @phoebe_ouma
      @phoebe_ouma Рік тому +8

      Just watching the season, I was looking for this comment. That outburst was uncalled for. She has serious issues 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @robertcurry4832
      @robertcurry4832 9 місяців тому +6

      And the fact that she was 2 years shy of sending him to boarding school in Switzerland and he has no damn clue 😵‍💫

    • @legionshafi
      @legionshafi 5 місяців тому +1

      @@phoebe_oumayes! It’s like she doesn’t have time to raise him but swears he her word. And is always talking about how her mom raised her etc which too me it seems like unresolved issues 😂

  • @souldrn
    @souldrn 2 роки тому +123

    how are you gonna ask for advice and insight on something, whether it’s parenting or children, and then get mad that someone tells you their advice

    • @drkaryeroe
      @drkaryeroe 2 роки тому +30

      She asked about boarding school.. then Sara asked if she could say an opinion then proceeded to imply brooks don't love her son right essentially. That's gonna make any mother defensive.

    • @alexisdavis7578
      @alexisdavis7578 2 роки тому +3

      @@drkaryeroe correct!

    • @legionshafi
      @legionshafi 5 місяців тому

      Right but that was very telling to me. She has some unaddressed trauma from her childhood. Saying she would be upset if her kid ate his food with his fingers was crazy to me 😂

  • @darrylskylar8757
    @darrylskylar8757 2 роки тому +146

    I LOVE Ayan! She’s funny as hell! I love that she shows her vulnerability on camera because when Stanbury and her drunk friend Juliet confronted her about her outfit, you could tell that it really upset Ayan to be tagged team like that.

    • @АннаХеврингова
      @АннаХеврингова Рік тому +1

      Ayan didn`t even wear dress, idk why she`s mad, she came in body suit, since what brides wear it

  • @yallgonlearntoday
    @yallgonlearntoday 2 роки тому +335

    Brooks is a maniac. Sarah was right. She asked and it hurt. Even her crying in front of her mom…her mom didn’t even reach out and touch her. Hold her. This entire season should be a wake up call for her but it probably won’t.

    • @vumilia_virgo
      @vumilia_virgo 2 роки тому +12

      Eyi different families do things differently really....so not everything is that deep and must be done in a certain way...let us first appreciate that we are different people from different tribes before we judge based on how we do things in our own tribes.

    • @yallgonlearntoday
      @yallgonlearntoday 2 роки тому

      @@vumilia_virgo you can do that if you choose. I however trust science. She shows us on tv how she speaks and treats her child. She couldn’t even cut up his chicken for him. Perhaps you’ve been through the same or you are doing the same…but that doesn’t excuse the none affection a child needs. Children who grow up that way tend to be over emotional or not emotional at all. There is usually NO middle to that. So while people may raise their children that way, it doesn’t mean it’s right, nor does it mean, especially when asked, that we shouldn’t voice our opinion.
      Stansbury herself is a walking example.

    • @moniquewatkins9952
      @moniquewatkins9952 2 роки тому +28

      Sarah was COMPLETELY wrong. A mother knows to mind her business when it comes to another mother and her children. If the child isn’t being physically abused, keep your opinion to yourself. Sarah need to worry about her own culture and how women and children are treated within it.

    • @moniquewatkins9952
      @moniquewatkins9952 2 роки тому +9

      @@vumilia_virgo The way women and men are treated in Sarah”s culture isn’t anything to brag about.

    • @yallgonlearntoday
      @yallgonlearntoday 2 роки тому +48

      @@moniquewatkins9952 I think y’all need to go back and WATCH the scene. Sarah barely said anything after saying you need to be closer to your son. Caroline blew up after her best friend called her cold hearted. Sarah just got all of the blame.

  • @darrylskylar8757
    @darrylskylar8757 2 роки тому +49

    I think Stansbury deliberately decided to have drama with Ayan before the season started. I remember Ayan being hurt that she wasn’t invited to her bachelorette party and not understanding why, because she was just out with Stanbury a week before, prior to filming starting. I’m not sure if a producer or Stansbury decided that her having drama with Ayan would be good for the show however, it’s apparent that someone did think it was a good idea. Ayan was so upset and confused with Stansbury not inviting her to the bachelorette party when they where all together the week before filming with no issues. Also, Sergio was talking and laughing with Ayan and Lesa at Nina’s party and the next time we see him Sergio is talking crap about Ayan and Lesa. This was fake, phony drama and I hope Stansbury and Sergio get called out at the reunion for their behavior this season!

  • @emmeythegod3910
    @emmeythegod3910 2 роки тому +150

    Caroline’s mad she looks basic at her own party how’s that Ayans fault 😂😂😂

    • @luxuryconnoisseuraddict6900
      @luxuryconnoisseuraddict6900 2 роки тому +3

      Right! Can anyone help it if you have a dull personal stylist who's got no game like you (from us to caroline)

  • @epiphania8820
    @epiphania8820 2 роки тому +169

    I’m not gonna lie someone NEED to be told how to raise their children cause a lot people are BAD parents. To many people on this planet that have been traumatised by their parents all cause those parents wanna follow outdated traditions that don’t benefit the children and that are borderline abusive. If one of your friends have to tell you to be to be more affectionate to your child, instead of getting angry you need to take step back and analyse how your treating your child and fix that.
    A lot of abused, emotionally or physically neglected children would LOVE to have an adult like Sarah who ready to be on there side rather then an adult who looks the other way because it’s seen as “disrespectful” to tell another parent how to raise their kid.

    • @JustJaniel7
      @JustJaniel7 2 роки тому +13

      Thank yoooou!

    • @SG-kp5hi
      @SG-kp5hi 2 роки тому +13

      Exactly. Some time I asked am I been too hard or straight on my kids, or am I been too lenient? It's always good to get another opinion? I even ask my kids, we have conversations. What she said was out of love for her and her child. She's a single mother, n as parents there's no manual we learn everyday. Even our kids teach us at times. She should not ve taken it personal. We learn everyday from different cultures n pepo, n they learn from us all as well.

    • @alphamukeba2008
      @alphamukeba2008 2 роки тому +2

      Exactly.

    • @rogueallcopsarebadx372
      @rogueallcopsarebadx372 2 роки тому +4

      110% It takes a village

    • @a.thomas501
      @a.thomas501 2 роки тому

      Maybe it's me but in the BRAVO promo Stanberry comes out in a ball gown smack dab in the middle of the lineup. I'm sure many eyes were focused straight on her. I found that attention seeking saying all eyes on me. Like she was the star of the franchise. What that by accident or on purpose? All these woman are supposedly successful and well off. They're just creating a story line from another part of the world that's exotic and mysterious. The fact that Ayan is still modeling at 43 and can bring it is a testament within itself. INSHALLAH

  • @robbycharmed
    @robbycharmed 2 роки тому +82

    Brooks is drunk and too defensive, Ayan is iconic, Sara didn't mean any harm by it - and she needs to stop with the lip fillers.

  • @rhiannajd4412
    @rhiannajd4412 2 роки тому +151

    I understand Sara’s intentions but obviously it wasn’t received the way she wanted it to be. There should’ve been an apology there regardless. Caroline did overreact though.
    I also give Stanbury and her boy toy a year.

    • @melanindonnaricca9645
      @melanindonnaricca9645 2 роки тому +22

      Agreed, Sara should’ve kept it quiet, I mean after all she prefaced with “we don’t know each other well”. She should’ve def stayed out of it.

    • @moniquewatkins9952
      @moniquewatkins9952 2 роки тому +5

      When a person feels disrespected their reaction can’t be dictated by Sarah, you or anyone else.

    • @thejohnsonmixfamily7093
      @thejohnsonmixfamily7093 2 роки тому +2

      Caroline acts that way for rating

  • @missjenny3870
    @missjenny3870 2 роки тому +30

    @6:16 was grounds to give her a good poke at her forehead like don’t touch me like that am I your child? Ayan was so nice to her even after that.

  • @BojiTrazona
    @BojiTrazona 2 роки тому +46

    Stanburry is really jealous of Ayan.

  • @GETYOUREDUCATION
    @GETYOUREDUCATION 2 роки тому +34

    If this is what Caroline thinks Ayan looks like as a bride, imagine what her actual wedding dress looked like…. 💁🏾‍♀️

  • @michaelmorris437
    @michaelmorris437 2 роки тому +118

    Brooks and Sara’s breaking the fourth wall moment took me out. Housewives franchises nowadays are seriously getting their own “bravo bravo fucking bravo” moment and I’m here for it🤣

    • @missjenny3870
      @missjenny3870 2 роки тому +3

      Yes! I repeated it so many times 🤣

    • @darrylskylar8757
      @darrylskylar8757 2 роки тому +7

      True! I also think the aspect of not getting loud in public also attributed to them breaking the fourth wall as well.

    • @r.22r
      @r.22r 2 роки тому

      Brooks was getting a little too out of control and was very close to breaking a whole load of local laws. Very very close. They had to stop it.

  • @ricardslodge
    @ricardslodge 2 роки тому +21

    Why wouldn't you have your family at the head table?
    And tbh, the majority of their guest upstaged Caroline in regards to attire.

  • @marykay7878
    @marykay7878 2 роки тому +51

    wow, the way caroline grabbed her and turned her around...karens in the comment section will be triggered, but i am telling you, caroline is of those women who are always passive-agressive towards women of color who are anything but subservient. how is a wig a veil. how is a loooong as blond wig anything like your shoulder lenght hair? how are you asking women to wear white to your wedding, and when they come in bodysuit ! and a cape, you think it resembles a wedding gown? ayan went out of her way NOT to wear something that resembles a wedding gown. have never seen a bride with naked thighs and a cape. caroline could have said that to any other woman wearing a white dress and it would have made more sense.

  • @lisaloki5337
    @lisaloki5337 2 роки тому +50

    I am living for Ayan! Loving everything about her. Caroline is being ridiculous. Like she said she is a black woman how can she be you???👀👀👀😁😁😁😝😝😝

  • @chialfa7322
    @chialfa7322 2 роки тому +54

    I think Sara should’ve just apologized. Despite what her intentions were, that’s not the point. The point is that Caroline’s feelings were hurt so just say you’re sorry. It’s a sensitive subject Sara should’ve understood that. Many people get defensive when you question how they raise their kids it’s normal.

    • @rogueallcopsarebadx372
      @rogueallcopsarebadx372 2 роки тому +1

      But some people do need to be called out for their parenting. Just cause u gave birth to or conceived a kid don't mean u own them or u get to treat them like shit. They are human too. I will call out parents when I see some fuck shit. Just cause somethings "cultural" doesn't mean it's right

    • @chialfa7322
      @chialfa7322 2 роки тому +5

      @@rogueallcopsarebadx372 it depends on, sometimes it's not your place to call people out because how do you know that your way of parenting is the best?? being a parent is already hard enough as it is, so they don't need someone to shame them on what they're doing. I don't agree with Caroline's way of parenting and she can't really get mad at Sara when she was the one that asked for advice ,but something triggered her so the best thing to do it just to apologize and move on.

    • @alexisdavis7578
      @alexisdavis7578 2 роки тому

      @@rogueallcopsarebadx372 It wasn’t her place to call Brooks out.

  • @bangervlogs8751
    @bangervlogs8751 2 роки тому +9

    I can’t believe how calm Ayana was. Had she tried that on almost any of the other housewife shows she woulda gotten hands thrown her way

  • @jennaebradshaw1308
    @jennaebradshaw1308 2 роки тому +134

    Caroline is dramatic and overly sensitive and Sara should’ve still apologized you can’t tell someone how they should raise their children. CHANEL STAN!!

    • @phillipahorton5346
      @phillipahorton5346 2 роки тому +25

      But Caroline asked for advice.....She keeps forgetting to mention that when she is retelling the story.

    • @patriciorodriguez1020
      @patriciorodriguez1020 2 роки тому +12

      Then don’t ask for her opinion and move on 🙄

    • @shakirafilmsbabati3032
      @shakirafilmsbabati3032 2 роки тому +2

      Caroline should apologize for treating her guests so horribly

  • @MsSherrisJ
    @MsSherrisJ 2 роки тому +19

    Caroline and her friends are jealous of Ayan...period!!

  • @KiDCRuDi_
    @KiDCRuDi_ 2 роки тому +36

    5:00 C Brooks "(re: Sara) ...you know exactly what you said, you were trying to be a therapist which you don't have the credentials for..."
    I'm CRYING lmao

  • @jenniferakufo9575
    @jenniferakufo9575 2 роки тому +11

    I am so passionate about communication. I’ve been on both sides…saying something & being quick to defend myself when someone calls me out on it because it hurt them & I couldn’t see it because I felt like my character was being attacked…& then being the person to share my feelings and being dismissed.
    I’ve learned that it takes active listening to be able to understand one another when discussing feelings. All they’re trying to do is make you self aware of how what you said made them feel from their perspective..key word PERSPECTIVE! Doesn’t mean you’re wrong or intentionally tried to hurt them. They just want their feelings to be acknowledged & their voice to be heard. Nobody gets to tell someone how they should feel. Just acknowledge how your comments made them feel from their perspective, apologize, & reassure them you meant no harm. That’s it! People make this type of stuff so difficult that’s why relationships crumble! Smh it’s a learning moment everyday for us all

  • @GraceRoberson
    @GraceRoberson 2 роки тому +18

    Chanel was being so nice at her wedding actually, considering they don't exactly like each other in the first place lol

  • @jordanhoward3916
    @jordanhoward3916 2 роки тому +48

    Maybe next time Brooks shouldn’t ask for peoples opinions on how she should handle HER Child🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @feline_star
      @feline_star 2 роки тому +7

      She actually didn’t ask for Sara’s opinion on how to handle her child, she only asked her what she thought about boarding school

    • @jordanhoward3916
      @jordanhoward3916 2 роки тому +6

      @@feline_star Understood but it’s still under the same umbrella babes.. even if she asked Sara what time did she think it would be appropriate to send her child to bed she still would be opening the floor to unwanted opinions and suggestions that she(Brooks) obviously isn’t open to🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @priscillasandoval1954
    @priscillasandoval1954 2 роки тому +17

    At first I didn’t believe that Sara had a degree in psychology, but seeing how she is an expert at gaslighting, I believe her now.

  • @cstaylor1989
    @cstaylor1989 2 роки тому +32

    So Caroline married a child
    That she can boss around 😂😂😂

  • @JewelsCrystal
    @JewelsCrystal 2 роки тому +51

    Nah Brooks was super awful at that dinner at her house to her male friend and honestly I agree with Sara. Why couldn’t she tuck her kid in instead of nanny lol? They wouldn’t have cared if she left the table for a couple of minutes to do so. I also agree with Sara about the boarding school thing too. Boarding school doesn’t mean the best education. You don’t have to go to boarding school away for the best education. He’s so young.

    • @thejohnsonmixfamily7093
      @thejohnsonmixfamily7093 2 роки тому +1

      she was smiling while she was supposedly mad so I say rating

    • @canesugar911
      @canesugar911 2 роки тому

      Boarding school means a better education because it's lessons extend beyond the classroom.

    • @allenabategana570
      @allenabategana570 2 роки тому +1

      First of all, nothing is wrong with Brook's parenting. Problem is with you helicopter mums. Second, every type of school is bad for particular children. My brother did not enjoy or flourish in those schools that were not boarding school. I loved boarding school and flourished there more. My parents did not tuck me in bed. I love my parents, they are affectionate and I am affectionate and loving. Point is, you don't tell people what to do with their kids or criticize how they do parent. You don't know them or their kids and the needs, strengths or weaknesses of their kids. They know better than you a stranger. Best advice would have been supporting her decision and telling her to do what is best for her kid. Not making a decision for her and criticizing her initial decisions. Helicopter mums are too annoying and people like Sara with their toxic positivity crap.

    • @canesugar911
      @canesugar911 2 роки тому

      @@allenabategana570 thank you for this comment. She(sara) hides her bitchyness behind this positivity and spirituality crap.

    • @Mi-qr4uw
      @Mi-qr4uw 2 роки тому +2

      You do realize when she told her son to go upset, she kissed him and said she loved him and that she would be coming upstairs later with him and sent the nanny to go with him for the time being… how is anything wrong that? Her friend even asked the kid does he think his mom crazy and he said no, then joked and said only like 20% … obviously her son feels love from his mother and isn’t complaining, so who is Sara to have an opinion especially after she admitted she doesn’t even know much about the situation

  • @jasmines6768
    @jasmines6768 2 роки тому +67

    Caroline is so reactive but its a sensitive topic and Sarah should apologize. Sounds like shes insistent on being right

  • @kayee7938
    @kayee7938 2 роки тому +4

    "The bride knows I'm coming..."😄💜

  • @Mookie.mp4
    @Mookie.mp4 2 роки тому +8

    “when black people invite you to their house…” lol I’m dead

  • @esjae2693
    @esjae2693 2 роки тому +16

    Wow Sara the Guru is unapologetic hmmm 🤨 seems like she’s got some inner work to do!

    • @GirlychocobeautyPink
      @GirlychocobeautyPink 2 роки тому +6

      Yeah..I love Sara But she didnt Own anything and Comes across Very selfrighteous

  • @zen5526
    @zen5526 2 роки тому +76

    If she can’t swallow the pill then she shouldn’t go around asking people about her parenting styles

    • @velvetkitty8883
      @velvetkitty8883 2 роки тому +2

      Thank you!

    • @TheLeon910
      @TheLeon910 2 роки тому +5

      she never asked her , plus Brooks's son doesnt look unhappy so nobody asked Sara for her stupid constructive critism ! it sad so many hypocrites there are on this comment section

    • @charleec433
      @charleec433 2 роки тому +8

      She asked her about boarding school, not parenting

    • @RayFamilyreality
      @RayFamilyreality 2 роки тому +8

      Her decision to send him to boarding school is a part of her parenting so YES she did ask indirectly yet directly, about her parenting. Smdh.

    • @charleec433
      @charleec433 2 роки тому +8

      @@RayFamilyreality Asking about boarding school in no way implies that you are opening the door for criticism about your parenting skills. That doesn't even make sense.

  • @dek1518
    @dek1518 2 роки тому +40

    I actually feel like brooks is jealous of Sarah in some way, especially after she made the comment “you’re not perfect” and she’s said before Sarah has the best plastic surgery done. There’s some subtle undertones of jealously there. I don’t think Sarah was judging her parenting styles but she does come off like she wants to give unsolicited advice.

    • @justcallmebon2684
      @justcallmebon2684 2 роки тому +17

      Ugh no. Nothing to be jealous of. It’s that Sara pretends she’s a know it all so of course people are going to take note that she’s not perfect.

    • @Aryantics
      @Aryantics 2 роки тому +7

      She was trying to help the poor child lol

    • @allenabategana570
      @allenabategana570 2 роки тому +3

      Jealous? No. We must be watching different shows. Brooks loved Sara before the parenting scene. She found Sara sweet and nice. That is why she invited her to her home. She wanted her opinion on boarding school. Not her criticism of her parenting. Meanwhile, helicopter parenting has produced more lazy, traumatized and unproductive entitled children. I find no problem with Brooks parenting. She is affectionate to her kid but tougher. Which is fine.

    • @nafizy1
      @nafizy1 Рік тому

      I agree with you but I think more so insecure because I feel like brooks lowkey don’t like the way she responds to things & she wants to find flaws in Sara to make herself feel better about herself which is why she persisted on pointing out her flaws.

  • @LoLoC228
    @LoLoC228 2 роки тому +26

    Stanbury wishes lol! Girl Stop! & Sara wrong, she jus need to say sorry so we can move on. Brooks better than me

  • @VETASALMONE11
    @VETASALMONE11 2 роки тому +13

    But Sara’s son cusses...and denies her authority

    • @danxg1423
      @danxg1423 2 роки тому +1

      Literally, but I guess that’s being a good parent 🥴

  • @thatgirlPAIGE94
    @thatgirlPAIGE94 2 роки тому +49

    I do not think Sarah meant any harm 🥴

    • @arieljones8001
      @arieljones8001 2 роки тому +17

      But she should have said sorry

    • @thatgirlPAIGE94
      @thatgirlPAIGE94 2 роки тому +6

      @@arieljones8001 | I agree

    • @velvetkitty8883
      @velvetkitty8883 2 роки тому +7

      @@arieljones8001 the moment she got drunk and loud I say EFF an apology. If she’s so freaking triggered by it then it must resonate a bit ☕️ if it don’t apply let it fly. And THATS the tea sis.

    • @MiaMixx
      @MiaMixx 2 роки тому +2

      It's just how Caroline B chose to receive it because she's already wounded. Any other normal human being would have said, Meh! Whatever... what's for dessert?

  • @Rudeytabooty
    @Rudeytabooty 2 роки тому +14

    Did anyone see how Caroline asked her how she felt and when she told her she’s been dragging it ever since, like if you don’t want to hear someone’s honest opinion maybe you shouldn’t ask such stupid questions

    • @itskamtime
      @itskamtime 2 роки тому +5

      She was asking about boarding school tho. And when Sara questioned if she could ask something and Caroline said yes, Caroline obviously didn’t think she would say something like that. I understood what Sara was saying but it wasn’t her place nor are they friends like that to judge her parenting

  • @judyneno4492
    @judyneno4492 2 роки тому +24

    I am a black women how can you be me 🤣🤣🤣😅 perriiiod

  • @OmoOndo87
    @OmoOndo87 2 роки тому +8

    A lot of people upstage her. Jealousy is a real disease.

  • @gingerdad127
    @gingerdad127 2 роки тому +25

    Ayan is so much fun! Love her energy! 😇🥰

  • @LinusLarrabee
    @LinusLarrabee 2 роки тому +46

    Sarah should have NEVER crossed the line of telling how someone should raise their child. You barely know Caroline Brooks.

    • @rogueallcopsarebadx372
      @rogueallcopsarebadx372 2 роки тому +1

      Nah when I see a parent acting a fool I will say my piece. Some of these parents just suck at parenting

  • @christophernewton7115
    @christophernewton7115 2 роки тому +32

    Wait wasn't she just dancing having fun im sorry but bs your dress was basic even your guest looked better

  • @munab3666
    @munab3666 2 роки тому +21

    Stanbury was getting mad aggressive on Chanel and its making me so uncomfortable. The way she grabbed her. Lol I think Stanbury wishes people would mistake her for a gorgeous black model 😭😭

  • @MrAlwaysSinging21
    @MrAlwaysSinging21 2 роки тому +14

    1. Brooks translation: When raising a black man. You have to alter the curriculum in how we are raised. What Sara views as strictness or militant behavior- that’s providing structure and discipline for HER son. Based on our culture, she raising him to withstand outside factors. And the fact she kind of had to sugarcoat it bothered me, but she has to tell her story how she wants.
    2. “It’s not my problem if I upstaged them bride. The bride knew I was coming!!” 🤣🤣🤣 Ayan is my favorite

    • @Shay416
      @Shay416 2 роки тому

      Omg Ayan is a national treasure 😭😂😭😂😭 guys don't invite a high fashion model and dress basic if you don't want to be upstage. Duh.

  • @shannie4184
    @shannie4184 2 роки тому +5

    Ayan definitely upstaged Caroline with no f..s given 😂👏 love it

  • @pn504
    @pn504 2 роки тому +26

    Sara talking bout empowering women, yet she is so insecure she changed her entire face. I couldn’t believe, she doesn’t look like the same person. No one who would go to that extent to change their appearance should be a spoke person for empowering others.

    • @Bettyboop08
      @Bettyboop08 Рік тому

      Definitely. She’s a liar and lied about everything she actually said too. Girl mind your business lol

  • @ericmaine
    @ericmaine 2 роки тому +9

    Why are the confessionals being filmed in Macy's furniture department ?

    • @angeljones255
      @angeljones255 2 роки тому

      Lol, I think they are using the ladies powder rooms.

    • @MiaMixx
      @MiaMixx 2 роки тому

      I want to know who wears flipflops on their confessionals?

  • @dayanatobias5196
    @dayanatobias5196 2 роки тому +4

    The fact that a she outdressed the bride was not on her at all. Many people wore more extravagant stuff in white but she used the excuse that she had a train. NO just say she looks BETTER than you. And most people don’t sit and address people and ask them why they wore what they wore.

  • @Jmarie0134
    @Jmarie0134 2 роки тому +10

    Sara should apologize bc it offended Brooks although that might not have been the intent but Brooks was on one that night period 😂 from telling the one girl she didn’t care about her dad being sick she needed to stay & talk to her to this Sara thing like girl you tipsy lol

  • @1wateroak
    @1wateroak 2 роки тому +6

    Anyone could have worn Ayana’s outfit and it wouldn’t have been an issue but bc it’s her it’s a problem 🙄

  • @ChrissyGBeauty
    @ChrissyGBeauty 2 роки тому +10

    Chanel is just everything lol

  • @styledbytareva
    @styledbytareva 2 роки тому +6

    The envy of Ayan is not even funny at this point! She has on a bodysuit and a cape. Nobody thinks she is the bride in Dubai. Come on now stop it. 🤪

  • @roaram4937
    @roaram4937 2 роки тому +31

    Sara is completely out of line on this. Her continuous But but but, shows her ignorance and how much she feels she is above the rest. Just because your nice in public, doesn’t mean you don’t throw daggers behind doors.

  • @ticavdh5596
    @ticavdh5596 2 роки тому +5

    I didn't like it when Brooms came for Nina, I was so mad. NINA is the sweetest on the show

  • @terrysihu3841
    @terrysihu3841 2 роки тому +40

    Sara didn’t say anything wrong, Caroline is just being dramatic and taking everything out of context.... and to top it all she’s drunk 🥴.

  • @trinitee624
    @trinitee624 2 роки тому +12

    Sara was definitely out of pocket. Caroline asked about boarding school not parenting tips. Mind your business.

    • @Bettyboop08
      @Bettyboop08 Рік тому

      Yes. Unless a child is being abused. Mind your business!

  • @amethystjones9677
    @amethystjones9677 2 роки тому +24

    Ok yes Sara should have kept her opinion to herself and should have not done it publicly( national tv) but Caroline is being excessive, she expressed her disapproval and vocalized how she felt once. Its not necessary to re hash again especially at someone's bridal party. Like be crazy off camera.It’s not what u say its how you say it. She could have just told Sara that they could have the convo another time.

  • @Seyybradford
    @Seyybradford 2 роки тому +5

    Sara no one made you the voice of reason.

  • @travistheentertainertv6870
    @travistheentertainertv6870 2 роки тому +15

    Sara was speaking truth......I'm glad somebody said it.

  • @matthewdar886285
    @matthewdar886285 2 роки тому +1

    The bride knows I’m coming.

  • @amandasimpson34
    @amandasimpson34 2 роки тому +1

    Sergio looks amazing. Complete transformation from when he first filmed

  • @trailerparkart2429
    @trailerparkart2429 2 роки тому +4

    Sara is not my favorite, but she is right on this one. Caroline should be more warm with her son. As a single parent, it's hard enough to raise a boy and make him feel loved, strong and secure. That little boy needs his momma, not a business manager.

  • @Juicyxcouture
    @Juicyxcouture 2 роки тому +2

    The fact that they still fighting and missing the food

  • @ArmandyLaPearl
    @ArmandyLaPearl 2 роки тому +10

    Ayan just looks good lol she does NOT look like Caroline!

  • @yvonnepingleton5063
    @yvonnepingleton5063 2 роки тому +8

    Sarah suggesting to Brooks to be more affectionate toward her son, is not the same as telling her how to raise her son. Sometimes the truth hurts.

    • @Mi-qr4uw
      @Mi-qr4uw 2 роки тому

      She literally told her to go tuck in her son. Brooks kissed her son goodnight and told him she’d be up there in a little bit. Then Sara told her she should be the one upstairs tucking him in.

  • @rnd322
    @rnd322 2 роки тому +10

    Caroline thinks being a parent is a silver bullet. Just because you’re a parent doesn’t make you right. If you don’t wanna receive a parenting opinion, then don’t accept it. Nobody owes anyone an apology for giving their opinion. Ugly truth hurts

  • @countrygirlxo7188
    @countrygirlxo7188 2 роки тому +5

    Who has all of their guests come in white. Like that’s confusing enough of course you’re going to blend in

  • @memibarb
    @memibarb 2 роки тому +6

    I love Ayan❤️❤️

  • @Ashley_Magnolia
    @Ashley_Magnolia 2 роки тому +1

    2:55 that part!

  • @NewCreationInChrist896
    @NewCreationInChrist896 2 роки тому +4

    Amen show love by disciplining your children.
    Proverbs 18:34 💕
    "He who spares his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him promptly."

  • @dreams2realityint
    @dreams2realityint 2 роки тому +3

    Did she ask anyone else there why they had Blonde hair cause I know she’s not the only one with extensions in her hair and not wearing her natural color

  • @fahadsalah3168
    @fahadsalah3168 2 роки тому +6

    Why is she talking to ayaan like that ?

  • @memibarb
    @memibarb 2 роки тому +4

    You don’t tell people how to raise their kids it’s rude you don’t know this lady to say what she needs to do with her child smh

  • @elizabethchicos2936
    @elizabethchicos2936 2 роки тому +1

    Great venue

  • @truelynathania3312
    @truelynathania3312 2 роки тому +1

    Sis is a real model walking down those stairs backwards for people to think that tall skinny black woman is the white bride

  • @bangervlogs8751
    @bangervlogs8751 2 роки тому +2

    At this point I’d rather watch a show just about Chanel, her life, friends etc

  • @sassyempress7916
    @sassyempress7916 2 роки тому +22

    Caroline Brooks is so aggressive towards Sara it's disgusting.

    • @jennaebradshaw1308
      @jennaebradshaw1308 2 роки тому +4

      She wasn’t that aggressive at all

    • @judyneno4492
      @judyneno4492 2 роки тому +5

      Yes she was

    • @alexisfendi
      @alexisfendi 2 роки тому +4

      @@jennaebradshaw1308 she definitely was girl… but in this case it was kind of warranted

    • @jennaebradshaw1308
      @jennaebradshaw1308 2 роки тому

      @@alexisfendi maybe I’m just used to being being more aggressive

    • @MiaMixx
      @MiaMixx 2 роки тому

      She's the Nene Leaks of this franchise

  • @thesirbryanrodriguez
    @thesirbryanrodriguez 2 роки тому

    The Dorinda coming out from Caroline’s mouth haha 😂

  • @Ali-ch7uy
    @Ali-ch7uy 2 роки тому +4

    First of all…
    There is no need whatsoever to say “When black women invite you over eat, leave & don’t say anything about the kids”What does being black, white, Arab, Asian etc have to do with it?? I hate that!!
    Brooks asked for Sara’s opinion in the first place, & Sara also asked if she could speak on her child, all she said was that she should be more affectionate to her son, Brooks over reacted because she knows it’s true, as do her best friends that were there. Brooks is horrible to her kid, she treats him like an accessory. She asks him “Do you want mommy to cut your chicken?” Then She tells her nanny to cut it. Then she tells him that she will come up and tuck him in bed, then she tells the nanny to go do it. Brooks is clearly a Narcissistic, I mean She has NO pics of her child on the walls, only her, and in poster size too. So odd.. then she wants to send him to boarding school so he’s not around her. If she wants to help him maybe send him to a summer camp for a few weeks, kids definitely learn so many things. My oldest daughter is a Jobs daughter and she went to camp a few times and had the best time.

    • @veesmith81923
      @veesmith81923 2 роки тому +5

      Honestly, she asked if she should send him to boarding school..nothing more. She asked stansbury the same. All Sara had to say was no ..she took it upon herself to do a deeper dive and psychanalyse brooks, which is odd because Sara is insightful in her own right but she is no therapist nor a psychologist. I honestly feel like she overstepped

    • @allenabategana570
      @allenabategana570 2 роки тому +1

      To answer you on your first comment, Ayan was alluding to culture. And she is right. As an African living in Uganda, she is right.

  • @queenslimclermont
    @queenslimclermont 2 роки тому +14

    QUEEN CHANEL AYAN! 🌈✨💯🔥❤️
    & Sara is right in this situation. She was trying to tell Caroline (K MICHELLE 2.0) to be more affectionate & it did triggered her. She is still not heal at all. She was so drunk & belligerent & twist up everything.
    I do not see Sara being judgemental at all.

    • @bernadinetinker3028
      @bernadinetinker3028 2 роки тому +2

      Caroline's son will grow up and will not want to be an emotional slave to his mother and her demands for adoration.

    • @kwanzadixon4722
      @kwanzadixon4722 2 роки тому +4

      Yeeeeesssss!! When I first saw her, I thought she looked just like K Michelle and Leesa looked like Megan the Stallion.

    • @bernadinetinker3028
      @bernadinetinker3028 2 роки тому

      Belligerent describes Caroline as well as confrontive

  • @robertcurry4832
    @robertcurry4832 9 місяців тому

    Brooks was triggered because Sara hit a nerve, and for the record I’ve never met a mother that has photos of herself around the house but none of or with her child. She’s sending that boy to boarding school simply because she’d rather him not be there.
    Sara’s too self righteous, and doesn’t know how to keep observations to herself.
    The only emotions Stanbury has perfected in showing are negative ones

  • @teeahrahahnet
    @teeahrahahnet 2 роки тому +1

    Ah hell no when she said first of all say hello i would've had to look around to see who tf she was talking to.

  • @coralysdelmar764
    @coralysdelmar764 2 роки тому +2

    Caroline’s behavior is completely unacceptable, she was being condescending to Ayan. Ayan you’re a queen darling and you look stunning, I think Caroline was jealous because you looked better than her on her own wedding lol.

  • @brooklynwatsontv
    @brooklynwatsontv 2 роки тому +2

    Stanbury is a mess. She’s terrible for being so aggressive with Ayan. Turning her body around and touching her hair. How disgusting and how jealous. She should’ve asked Ayan for style advice for her event versus brining an ugly friend to gang up on Ayan. Stanbury is pitiful. Truly.