Facts brotha he also said we shouldn’t trust either one of these plantations the brotha Malcolm said “we’re chumps , we put the democrats first and they put us last “ … Black folk shouldn’t support either of these racist parties they both suck
@@treyg2750 Podcasts and other media continue to platform him and others like him. Having a voice and a lot of "followers" makes them defacto leaders.. Maybe not of the community but of their bubble. Personally, I'm of the opinion that media needs to STOP asking entertainers and athletes about this kind of stuff... They usually have 0 idea what they are talking about.
Only Black men complain like this publicly. But yet they have more kids than any other race of men by multiple different women. BM was just doing to their black community but now they are doing it to other races of ppl to as they date out more than anyone. Think Nick Cannon...they have tons of black and biracial kids by multiple women then complain about the kids. They also don't believe in marriage.
Sure it should be vilified, because it was designed specifically to criminalize black men, just as America has consistently unabatedly done; the reason why it was Never an issue - only until achievements were made via civil-rights era. For hundreds of years they never criminalized it, but you wait until achievements were won via civil-rights?? Out of 1.2 billion in the rears, how do black men owe 75% of it when from a community that's only 13% of the population?? And thats because it's by design. Child support is just another but legal clever Crime Bill.
Why would anyone lie by saying they never heard of child support until they were in their 50's. If anyone is that old and didn't know of it, that person needs more education.
Roland, you’re absolutely right, but I have a concern: child support should be strictly for the child’s needs. I've heard of some women getting pregnant just for the sake of child support checks, which I find lazy. However, the real problem arises when a man is ordered to pay child support and is being a responsible father, yet the mother uses that money for her own expenses-getting her hair and nails done, buying club outfits, and so on. Child support laws across all 50 states need a major overhaul. The funds should be distributed on a card similar to food stamps, strictly for the child’s food and clothing. If it’s discovered that a woman is misusing child support funds for personal expenses, the state should redirect part of those payments into a fund specifically for the child. While Big Worm made some questionable comments, his statement about abolishing child support was particularly ignorant. By the way, Roland, I’m a proud Houstonian and a JY alum. Go Lions!
Right? It's super ways to not have to pay child support. But the men who end having to do it can't do that one simply thing. Or they intentionally get with women who are only with them for their money, then act surprised that all they want is money. Men who aren't out here slinging dick like a sling shot don't have to pay child support.
He's a bad messenger!! But his concern for men wrapped up in the unfair and biased court system in some of these states is warranted. He just don't understand it's a state issue, but maybe he just wants them to speakout about it.
Hello! They have never been married but always have numerous kids by different women. Too many men making less than 40k concerned about “check babies” when they don’t even make enough money to support themselves and shouldn’t even have babies.
OMG!!! Faizon Love. What in the hell! I agree with you Roland. It is so frustrating listening to these idiots. They are hopeless. Thank you Roland Martin for calling them out.
@@jasoneaton9477 If you are a Black / brown man - you will need your own vote - for the CANDIDATE who will NOT CREATE LAWS TO LOCK YOU UP …. 🤔 JUST BECAUSE 🙋🏾♂️🙎🏽♂️🙍🏽♂️🙎🏾🙋🏽♂️ YOU are a BLACK MAN. So don’t FOOL yourself THINKING you are fooling someone else. 🙄 It will be you & others who LOOK like YOU who you will SCREW. trUmpp is NOT & will NOT be your friend on any level. WISE UP.
Black Men sit online EVERYDAY bashing BW, talking abt makeup, eyelashes and BW hairstyles, & getting passports to screw foreign women!🤦🏽♀️ Yet, they NEVER talk to other BM about real issues that affect BM like their early death rates, BM killing other BM, BM pay disparities, BM HIGH unemployment rates, BM criminal & abusive behaviors etc...🤦🏽♀️
I remember when my son was small and his father used to complain about child support so I said, Fine you keep him and I'll pay child support and visit him a few times a week, Well he couldn't even survive for 2 weeks! After that I had no problems at all!!!
Damn straight! I'm fuming! Who wants to have a baby and live off a check that doesn't amount to anything a mother has/have to go through for the rest of that child's life!!! Be real! It just shows how most men think. I could go on and on and probably never finish saying what a woman has to go through raising children alone. She/we didn't get babies alone!!!!! Be men and do your part!!!! Period!!!
@@oneandonly1990 and they make you pay these unnecessary fees with the order. And if the father is able and willing to take care of his seeds of course. Public don’t need to know anything as it’s a private party’s business. I took care of mine way before any order. Like I said it’s a tool to take away the fathers from their offspring. Look up maritime law
Respectfully as a 25 year old I received full custody of my 10 month old daughter. I’ve worked in a male dominated field of 6 figure earners for the last 29 years. Respectfully child support even at what we make is not even close to what I’ve spent on my daughter. I’ve listened and spoken to many men about child support and parenting. I have been very candid about the costs of child care, tuition, medical, housing, daily expenditures ect….The biggest concern I hear is the lack of communication and access of responsible men to their children. In most cases if the two truly respected each other’s decision making they probably would have stayed together. Kids cost money to raise.
@@mckinneyman4325 You're correct. But a lot of men use the "lack of access" as an excuse to justify non payment. None of them ever say they went to court to get a set visitation schedule or shared custody...because they don't want the day to day responsibility. The real problem is they don't have "access" to the mom and want to withhold their money as punishment. The old "she's spending the money on herself" is another excuse. If they see their child and they aren't homeless, starving or naked the child support...which usually doesn't scratch the surface...is going where it's supposed to go...for the child's needs.
@@mckinneyman4325 I truly agree with 💯. It takes 2 parents to raise a child, especially within their very foundational years, until they reach at least 22. The main issue is not even child support lts about selfishness. Because I know there are people who spend a fortune of cruises, fancy eating, designer cloths, cars, perfumes,.liquor and outings, yet they can't even buy milk for their own child, or even if they do, they do it out of obligation, not out of love of parent-child relationship. If you bring a child into the world, it's your obligation to take care of them, just as your own parents took care of you. Unfortunately, there are people who will abuse a system ( including child support). The motives are always on a full display! Unfortunately, it's sad to see a 50+ yold man seems to not understand what his obligations are. I'm somehow agree with very few things he said about abusing child support system.. hopefully he himself doesn't agree with himself about most of what he said. He is just trying to look for attention and get a hit on UA-cam! Newer knows what his motives could be. Maybe he is sincere and is not a well spoken person!
WHEWWWWWW! RO is lit today and giving a masterclass on fire in this segment!!! Man this dude is the Truth and needs to be the #1 media broadcast in the world. Family lets support this man on every single thing he does & spreads him to Family, Friends, Church, Groups, etc. This is so important for the movement of fairness for everyone
Nothing says how much you truly value and love your children like stepping in front of the whole world to complain about having to pay for them when nobody asked/forced you to have them in the first place!!!!
He's saying women are quicker to leave a man if she can get a good child support check, rather than sticking it out and staying together. Therfore breaking up the family. Not trying to defend him, just pointing that out.
@@raymondireland8103i may be wrong but circumstances of child custody and child support differs in divorce I believe. So if he was divorced he could fight for custody. But having children out of wedlock leaves men bent over in family court. Point is. DONT HAVE CHILDREN OUT OF WEDLOCK!
You can't fix stupid. I was taken to court in Georgia for over $25,000 of child support. The prosecutor was pissed at me because I brought my dauther to court as my witness. She lived with me since she was in the second grade and they were trying to get me when she was in the 10th grade. She told me I should have left her in school and brought documentary proof. It occurred to me that if they did not accept the documents, I would be in jail, but they would have a problem locking me up with my daughter in the court room as my witness. They locked me up in court for 15 minutes while they questioned my daughter... Then, they let me go and I never heard from them again. She later went to FAMU.
@@yonahel9018 oh wow! Was the mother receiving TANF/welfare or something and the state was owed $25k…just curious?! Most courts do not allow, nor want minors in court unless absolutely necessary and there is a process for that. And, often times NCP does not follow up with court if/when they become CP. But, glad it worked out for you and congrats to your FAMU daughter!
Whyyyy did I just started laughing as soon as Roland said " of the things that's getting on my nerves" before knowing what was about to be said next😅😅😅
THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! Roland Martin, and never mind the criticism of those who will never take the time to be informed as you are to share 'accurate' information. BLESSINGS 🙌
I’m so tired of men complaining about child support and the reason they’re paying child support is because they are not putting in the TIME for their children. TIME matters in the case of child support. You pay more when you CHOOSE to be a PART TIME parent. It’s your choice Faizon. If they abolish child support, it would allow people all over the country men & women to abandon their responsibilities as parents. You had them…take care of them.
❤❤❤Facts your child. You made them stop making children. Then you will not have to pay children. I don't have a pet, why because it is a responsibility to take care of one. Children are the same way. (Your responsibility) N**** please
@@dukestandard4743 yes it does! I know this for a fact! In California child support is based on how much TIME the parent spends with the child and how much income the parent makes. For example, I f you have your child 6 months out of the year, plus weekends and some holidays. Why would you pay those days when the child is at your house? Spend TIME with your kids.
@@oloxoice7097 That’s absolutely ludicrous. What about your child? That’s why I tell women, don’t have a baby for a man, have it for yourself because it’s going to be your baby. There are consequences to not being there for your kids besides child support. They grow up and you will need them one day. My father was POS father who NEVER gave my mother any kind of support. Now he’s old with diabetes and the only help he has, is the 4 children he abandoned. Thank God for our mothers who taught us to be good people. He was never hurting her by not helping, he was hurting us.
Not paying your child support: "That reasoning is like me saying, I'm having a tough time right now... So I'm not going to buy my kids any food, clothes, or pay the rent. I'm not going to put gas in the car to take them to school. I'm not going to take them to the doctor's office because I'm really not trying to pay these co-pays. I'm still going to have those things... just my kids can't have any of what I have. I simply don't have enough to share" Now imagine if the custodial parent also didn't do these things in addition to you not doing them. Your child probably wouldn't make it. Not financially supporting your child means you think it's the responsibility of the custodial parent to fund your children alone. How much energy and time is expended and spent on the child as a noncustodial parent vs the one who has primary custody? Too many non custodial parents only see the money and not the mental and physical load.
Exactly. And if the mom is able to go out and enjoy herself every now and then, good on her, it’s a really hard job to be a parent, much less doing it all on your own. I give them a lot of credit for standing by their kids!
Some one does are else he wouldn't have a channel with more than 500 views, so people do care about what he is saying only ones don't care are the ones that's watching or how would you know he has one. Cause you are watching him now 💯💯🤣😂🤣
Really... abolish child support... I just about spit out my coffee I was laughing so hard... I wonder where this guy got his no brain thinking from... I can't believe there are people who think this way...
We can “abolish” family court when people start treating each other with care and actually standing up and doing what’s right! But, knowing humans, that won’t happen.
Like it or not, alot of men are suffering in silence! I married my wife had kids... she left to "find happiness" Sued me for child support! Ive never not been there. It was on me to get a lawyer and fight for 50/50 custody. Got 50/50 and I still have to pay her! All he's saying is that this needs national attention! There needs to be reform nationally... Everyone is talking about abortion rights nationally and not state wide! We need the same attention focused on the family courts, it's a complete scam! Not everyone has the same interest in the agenda that's being presented!
@@Berealwiteachother well it’s rare because fathers are rarely the custodial parent but those that do collect need that money and probably wouldn’t agree with Faizon
@@HerbalQueen but it isn’t weaponized like what is done to us. Also, why are we even entertaining the law of the seas? Cmon I know you heard of maritime law. I’m not lost nor dead or even absent so tell me why I deserved to pay twice as they got that but my lil ones always needed things? I’m not sure it makes sense. Also the Supreme Court deemed it no good for the family. I didn’t assault or disrespect or any of that stuff! Why did they give the orders when they know what those women will do and are doing all the time with support money? They will straight up just disrespect a man in front of the the hearing officers. Saying things like”I’m used to living a certain way, or he just needs to pay” it is disgusting and no justice is served. It screws the lil ones
Thank you, Roland Martin, for educating us about this very important matter. People, STOP!!! recording misinformation!! And one more advice, there are many forms of birth control if you do NOT want children. Don't get mad and spread your personal lack of responsibilities on others!!
I also wanted to say that I love watching Roland and Co. Roland always knows what he's talking about. I wish you had your own show on TV that EVERYONE could see. There are so many people who don't watch UA-cam. I know folks could watch these videos anytime, I just wish it was more widely seen. You are so RIGHT on every issue!!!
What is with men crying about taking care of their children, it's so sad but they're perfectly happy with the tax payers providing, for their children as they continue to make more 🤯🤦🏽♀️😒
He said he didn't know what child support was until he was 50 and was called into court and said he thought that was for deadbeats. If he's not a deadbeat, then how did he wind up in court for it?
@@ninjak38_mjwilson3There can be a lot of particulars involved in that. Do they owe past arrears while they're paying? Are they paying the amount of what the court ordered? Is domestic violence involved that they're being jailed for? Nobody knows what's exactly involved in someone else's legal cases unless they were at the hearings, and even then sometimes not everything comes out, and some people simply doesn't tell the truth or everything. But just listening to his rhetoric, he sounds like he has some type of deficit.
Easy. Women take men that take care of their children to court all the time. I was one of those men. I did the math and was giving my sons mother $600 a month. She thought I wasn't giving enough or trying to get over. The court gave her $640. So do you think $40 was worth going to court. Or does $40 make you a deadbeat?
Sorry but you didn’t hear him you heard his words not what he was trying to say. Family courts penalize fathers then when and it hurts the child as much as the absence
@@edwardjordan5685the confusion I had with Faizon’s “suggestion” is he started off by saying Blk families are being destroyed. Paying child support is not in anyway a family unit. In essence we put the cart before the horse. If we want a strong family nucleus, start off by getting married before starting a families.
@@jamberry8026 I agree mostly with your comment but with a slight difference. Wasn’t it irresponsible of parties to become parents before becoming a married couple. I’m certainly not naïve to think men women are not going to have sex B4 marriage. But a pregnancy can be prevented, and no I’m not suggesting all the responsibilities should be placed on women.
Faison sound dumb regarding child support issues. Spent 30 years working @ child support agency & many don’t pay enough per month so that the custodial parent can alone afford food & think they pay too much. Men & grandparents are also custodial parents.
Child support is a necessary evil and a blessing. An evil for a parent that's doing the right thing to support their children and the money grabbing custodial parent views the child as an income. But a blessing for the children and custodial parent needing assistance from the deadbeat parent that's not carrying his or her weight in providing for the children.
@@edwardjordan5685 Faizon should have used his words and spoke facts not feelings, Dr. Carr addressed the importance of using your words. No surprise the commentators are commenting on Faizon’s stupidity.
This is the main reason I’m thankful for an enlightening show of the black community like Roland’s because otherwise a lot of us in the black community would keep thinking like a field hand slave.
I see the pain in this man’s voice. He clearly misspoke. Even if I accept the premise he’s uneducated he clearly speaking to inequality in custody and costs Common brothers and sisters we are smarter then that
Oh trust me we know it's not in my experience in the state of DE child support office majority of the women come in complaining of where their check is they have their light bill to pay for
And Faison apparently had not read his court documents, Child Support is for babies who have to be taken care of, Faison is assuming the child shouldn’t eat, Nor be taken care of by both parents !!!
I'm a Black woman who called Black men out for not voting and having the loudest mouth! Our people don't want to talk about that or child support. We don't correct our own people and get angry if another race corrects us. Yea, I said it! Thanks, Roland! Pay your child support, use a common, and vote for VP Harris.
Hello Anne, looking at Fazon I saw more hurt or anger potentially a court system that possibly denied him access reasonable access equal access and or a dollar amount that went well beyond taking care of your children. I’m telling you I heard him say that a child support system is unduly prejudiced toward non-custodial parents, many times by virtue of your sex. No one is advocating for not taking care of your responsibilities again taking Tire as the example his ex does not require $10-$20,000 per month to care for a single child and the money is in the best interest of the child, anything that’s above what required to care for the child reasonably maybe even generously to $3000 a month Chevy put into a trust fund for the child use when they’re adults so again using Tyrese as the example that additional seven to $17,000 put in a trust per month for the child as an adults and what is the responsibility and other woman to provide financial support. The pain I saw and frustration in that man’s face will transfer to that child at some point, the woman should know that if she cares about the child and not the check again I grew up in the family of 11. My father worked two jobs to care for us while my mother took care of us so I was well aware of the responsibility men of color should take, I’m saying women of color if we’re staying in the community should do the same and care about the children and not anything personal so I would call on these women who think 20,000 is worth it to demand an accounting of where that money goes doesn’t require 20,000 a monthhe requires the love the attention the time the laughs the hugs that’s how you care for your child
@@fergusonDJcause Melania and Trump is A FAKE MARRIAGE!!!! THAT'S WHAT IT MEANS !!!!!! He hasn't lived with her in 2 1/2 years!!!!!! Shed be a BOGUS 1ST LADY!!!!!!
Hey Roland I was born at Jefferson Davis County Hospital, Houston Texas, Harris County. Twenty-eight years later, I trained there as an Obstetrician/Gynecologist. They called me “the JD baby”. I didn’t care. I have practiced medicine for almost 40 years, raised and educated 3 daughters . You bring up things I know! Went to Cullen Jr. High and Jack Yates Sr. High . I was bussed in my last year to Austin Sr. High. Just so nice to hear your opinions and your show and to hear things I know (Scott Street😉). God Bless You my lil’ Brother So proud of you 👏🏾
Roland Martin please keep this going because you are doing a great job to educate people who worship some of these uninformed comedians, so-called Rappers and sports personalities, blessed love, cheers, my brother.
Should have made a video talking about the pay of black actors and actress.. maybe talk about the importance of education. Fellas, no matter the situation is enforced or not, take care of your child. Women, this goes for you as well.
Talking about a dead beat Dad the award goes to that guy and the way he looks if anyone laying down with him even after the kids leave home,he should still be paying out of appreciation 😂.
Faizon was obviously referring to costs. Unfair inequality in the custody and financial system that’s is so blatantly biased towards the mother. If a father is actively involved in the life of the child then REAL cost should and time should be fairly distributed. A woman is not a better parent by virtue of her sex. For the true dead beat parent I couldn’t care less but the penalty toward the none custodial parent creates exactly the pain you see in Faizon face and if you don’t think that transfer to child both ways you are sadly mistaken
Thank you for the civics lesson for those who don’t READ and those who can’t READ. It’s also a lack of teaching in the home and the school is an additional teaching.
My daughter is going thru this right now in Hawaii. Her ex husband told the court that he doesn’t see why he should have to pay child support. The court won’t let her relocate and keeps giving this man mor chances than there are black holes in space.
@@thecajunphoenix I know, she has been stuck on the island for the sake of her child. He tells here "oh, you can leave any time you want, but since the child was born here, I won't agree to it."
You remember in school when we were all separated: Remedial, Standard, Honors, AP, IB...well after graduation everyone was just released into the wild. Tell me you never voted in local and state elections without saying it. BTW the debate was FUN!
LOL! She probably will not have the time to educate everyone. We need to do more for the schools/educators to be empowered, engaged and well funded to do their jobs!! Parents need to ensure their children are present, respectful and open to learning
Roland I wholeheartedly agree with you! This segment needed to be heard! I respect you for calling out Fuzzy Love and any other ignorant person who make baseless accusations and statements. However, please do not invite Burke back onto your platform. I’m a big on psychology and reading body language. I was deeply saddened by Burke’s demeanor throughout your segment. And her response was even worse than her attitude and demeanor. If I noticed this distraction I bet others did too.
Political people family. Every time I say to myself I hope a black person don't say nothing dumb on national television because it looks like it reflects all of us. Hey it's obvious the brother is feeling the pain he thought he was going to get a pass because his name was big perm. 😭 Well God bless the brother you really tried.🙏
Alot of people just don't want to research topics. Most people don't understand simple civic, but I agree with you, Roland. I know so many ignorant people who think like Faizon Love.
The disrespect for Kamala is mind boggling. He is addressing both candidates, supposedly, but only the woman gets the disrespect. The guy has real issues!
Man I appreciate what you do to keep in form and up to date on matters of life and politics. I always loved how you challenged everybody on CNN when no one else wouldn't and now how you school these drifters and call out there lies and hypocritical tendencies.
😂 people making less than 6 figures a year complaining about child support crack me up. Hell, you pay much less than the men who aren’t on child support and the mothers to take care of your kids.
Exactly! More like less than $50k and whining about child support. 😂 BUT pay $800* per month car payment to LOOK as if they have $$$…make it make sense?!
Take care of your children instead of someone making you do it. And it's a shared experience. You should want to do everything in your power to help the child succeed. You have to realize that Mom or Dad has the child 24/7. You're just coming through with coins. Grow up.
@Roland, the Federal Government can abolish Child Support. The Federal Government first established child support legislation under the administration of President Gerald Ford, following a push from Congress. In 1975, Ford signed the law that authorized states to develop their own child support enforcement programs. This legislation, informally referred to as the "Runaway Pappy Act," was enacted amidst broader concerns about absent fathers and growing welfare costs. At the time, Ford's presidency faced significant political challenges, having assumed office after Nixon's resignation, which led to his portrayal as an "unelected" president. Many political analysts believe that Ford signed the legislation in part to strengthen his standing with voters in the lead-up to the 1976 election. Despite his public support, Ford expressed reservations, noting that the law might overextend government authority into private family matters-a concern that has remained part of the broader debate surrounding child support policies. You need some biological daddy lessons vs. Faizon needing civic lessons.
I'll add to that and say that since prolifers consider it a life at conception...so should child support. That'll shut up a lot of them forcing unwanted pregnancies
I love how you continue to educate us on civics, Roland. We should have learned it in school, but in all of my years of public school education, I never had a civics lesson. NEVER.
He has to be joking right. My daughter get 150 every two weeks for her child cause he decided to go out and have affair not her. That doesn’t even cover childcare. Thank God she has a good job to help support herself.
@@clairegazzillo6775Obviously, you don’t remember that Roland came from mainstream media. He built HIS OWN. Look him up. Check his record. He ain’t in a basement for sure. Even if he was, he’s the BOSS.
My grandmother says, “watch who you get your children by”.
Yes, Grandmother, yes!!!
This is such wise advice. The elders knew what they were talking about. It’s so true.
Yes! Mine said mind who you sleep with bc you just may get pregnant.
She is wise because it's true
LOL!!
This is why Malcom X said we should NEVER allow entertainers to be put in the position of "community leaders"
He is not even close to becoming a community leader. This is a person with a celebrity status just airing his thoughts.
Facts brotha he also said we shouldn’t trust either one of these plantations the brotha Malcolm said “we’re chumps , we put the democrats first and they put us last “ … Black folk shouldn’t support either of these racist parties they both suck
@treyg2750 the community leaders are entertaining..lol Roland is entertaining ...lol All this debate over someone's personal opinion... dumb shyt
@@treyg2750 Podcasts and other media continue to platform him and others like him. Having a voice and a lot of "followers" makes them defacto leaders.. Maybe not of the community but of their bubble.
Personally, I'm of the opinion that media needs to STOP asking entertainers and athletes about this kind of stuff... They usually have 0 idea what they are talking about.
Don't apply this standard to people who go against what you say 😂 cough cough meg the stallion
Children deserve support and it should not be vilified.
Only Black men complain like this publicly. But yet they have more kids than any other race of men by multiple different women. BM was just doing to their black community but now they are doing it to other races of ppl to as they date out more than anyone. Think Nick Cannon...they have tons of black and biracial kids by multiple women then complain about the kids. They also don't believe in marriage.
Sure it should be vilified, because it was designed specifically to criminalize black men, just as America has consistently unabatedly done; the reason why it was Never an issue - only until achievements were made via civil-rights era. For hundreds of years they never criminalized it, but you wait until achievements were won via civil-rights?? Out of 1.2 billion in the rears, how do black men owe 75% of it when from a community that's only 13% of the population?? And thats because it's by design. Child support is just another but legal clever Crime Bill.
Why would anyone lie by saying they never heard of child support until they were in their 50's. If anyone is that old and didn't know of it, that person needs more education.
The entire state pays for the child he doesn't want to pay for...
Part of the problem is that people want to be entertained when they should be listening and learning.
I agree 💙🇺🇸
Fact. Uninformed and uneducated.
Agreed👏🏿 and mostly blacks want to be entertained🙄
Say that again.
Exactly!
Why would they do that? I supported my children and raised them. Come on man grow up. U had em' u support em'
You sound like a clown.
You really pay to watch this channel smh you need to get out more .
Pay the child support or don't get the woman pregnant
@@yahawahschampion8790 from what I can tell I get out as much as you, you're trolling me. you don't want this smoke.
Roland, you’re absolutely right, but I have a concern: child support should be strictly for the child’s needs. I've heard of some women getting pregnant just for the sake of child support checks, which I find lazy. However, the real problem arises when a man is ordered to pay child support and is being a responsible father, yet the mother uses that money for her own expenses-getting her hair and nails done, buying club outfits, and so on.
Child support laws across all 50 states need a major overhaul. The funds should be distributed on a card similar to food stamps, strictly for the child’s food and clothing. If it’s discovered that a woman is misusing child support funds for personal expenses, the state should redirect part of those payments into a fund specifically for the child.
While Big Worm made some questionable comments, his statement about abolishing child support was particularly ignorant. By the way, Roland, I’m a proud Houstonian and a JY alum. Go Lions!
It's always the ones out here creating broken homes who cry about child support. He is such a fool. 🙄
Do you know his situation
Right? It's super ways to not have to pay child support.
But the men who end having to do it can't do that one simply thing.
Or they intentionally get with women who are only with them for their money, then act surprised that all they want is money.
Men who aren't out here slinging dick like a sling shot don't have to pay child support.
He's a bad messenger!! But his concern for men wrapped up in the unfair and biased court system in some of these states is warranted. He just don't understand it's a state issue, but maybe he just wants them to speakout about it.
Hello! They have never been married but always have numerous kids by different women. Too many men making less than 40k concerned about “check babies” when they don’t even make enough money to support themselves and shouldn’t even have babies.
they need you to provide the table and then complain like these women are the gold diggers.
Faizon listen up! Child support is not punishment! It's the responsibility you owe to the children you elect to create ..and, yes, it costs money.
The moral of the story is, don’t sleep with a fool.
Condom is still
Cheaper than child support🎤
If you're familiar with Fazion Love, you know he beefs with everyone for no absolute reason. Sounds like he has child support issues
That's bc he needs attention.
To stay relevant
It's exactly those 2 above👆🏾
Exactly.
He’s the definition of a contrarian
OMG!!! Faizon Love. What in the hell! I agree with you Roland. It is so frustrating listening to these idiots. They are hopeless. Thank you Roland Martin for calling them out.
I'm that idiot whose vote u need.. 😅😅
@@jasoneaton9477 If you are a Black / brown man - you will need your own vote - for the CANDIDATE who will NOT CREATE LAWS TO LOCK YOU UP …. 🤔 JUST BECAUSE 🙋🏾♂️🙎🏽♂️🙍🏽♂️🙎🏾🙋🏽♂️ YOU are a BLACK MAN. So don’t FOOL yourself THINKING you are fooling someone else. 🙄 It will be you & others who LOOK like YOU who you will SCREW. trUmpp is NOT & will NOT be your friend on any level. WISE UP.
Black Men sit online EVERYDAY bashing BW, talking abt makeup, eyelashes and BW hairstyles, & getting passports to screw foreign women!🤦🏽♀️ Yet, they NEVER talk to other BM about real issues that affect BM like their early death rates, BM killing other BM, BM pay disparities, BM HIGH unemployment rates, BM criminal & abusive behaviors etc...🤦🏽♀️
Faison’s baby mamas deserve 20 x child support for laying with him
Lol!
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And a complementary psych eval.
I remember when my son was small and his father used to complain about child support so I said, Fine you keep him and I'll pay child support and visit him a few times a week, Well he couldn't even survive for 2 weeks! After that I had no problems at all!!!
Thank you Roland for breaking this down, because some people are not aware.
This is what "I've never voted in my life" looks like!!
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Roland schooled him on child support!
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You can't put a price on stupidity.
We need civics 101 back in the general public, period
BADLY!!!!
For real. Bring back Schoolhouse Rock and play it during primetime.
Civics is taught tho.
I learn civics in school!
Say that for the confused folks in the back of the class…
Ignorance is at an ALL TIME HIGH
With the uneducated.
Damn straight! I'm fuming! Who wants to have a baby and live off a check that doesn't amount to anything a mother has/have to go through for the rest of that child's life!!! Be real! It just shows how most men think. I could go on and on and probably never finish saying what a woman has to go through raising children alone. She/we didn't get babies alone!!!!! Be men and do your part!!!! Period!!!
Futon love is an idiot at best....oh yeah I did say Futon
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Another pandemic we need to get out of.
Mr Martin continue to inform and educate our people I enjoy your podcast.
Faizon is old enough to remember Schoolhouse Rocks. He just didn’t pay attention!
They will blame Kamala for their own personal problems.
WHO?
Stop with the they BS. Faizon is one man that made a stupid statement
taking no accountability or responsibility for their own actions. Dude sounds so ignorant in his discussion.
@waltporter7707 No, he's not. Big Mike and others sat down with Robert Kennedy to whine about child support, too.
@@waltporter7707 he isn't the only one. K!ller Mike is on the same child support bs.
Let the Church say Amen! Our people perish because lack of knowledge!!
Amen.
Amen🙌🏾🙌🏾
And the lack of interest in wanting knowledge.
“Black people perish for lack of knowledge “
Preach Roland👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🌹
If you make them, you take care of them. I understand there are issues with the courts, but you made them.
Yeah in private and should be allowed to take care of theirs in private!
@Berealwiteachother but if they refuse to care for their children in private then the "public" must know and you will be forced.
@@oneandonly1990 and they make you pay these unnecessary fees with the order. And if the father is able and willing to take care of his seeds of course. Public don’t need to know anything as it’s a private party’s business. I took care of mine way before any order. Like I said it’s a tool to take away the fathers from their offspring. Look up maritime law
@@Berealwiteachother It’s not always in private. Many of you brag to your friends about how you “hit that”.
@@thelovelycamille528 that’s beside the point. Women do it too! Private meaning not needing a mediator.
Whoever listens to Faizon for advice should feel nothing but shame!
I don't know him, but from this, I don't think he is someone I would listen to about anything
Respectfully as a 25 year old I received full custody of my 10 month old daughter. I’ve worked in a male dominated field of 6 figure earners for the last 29 years. Respectfully child support even at what we make is not even close to what I’ve spent on my daughter. I’ve listened and spoken to many men about child support and parenting. I have been very candid about the costs of child care, tuition, medical, housing, daily expenditures ect….The biggest concern I hear is the lack of communication and access of responsible men to their children. In most cases if the two truly respected each other’s decision making they probably would have stayed together. Kids cost money to raise.
@@mckinneyman4325 You're correct. But a lot of men use the "lack of access" as an excuse to justify non payment. None of them ever say they went to court to get a set visitation schedule or shared custody...because they don't want the day to day responsibility. The real problem is they don't have "access" to the mom and want to withhold their money as punishment. The old "she's spending the money on herself" is another excuse. If they see their child and they aren't homeless, starving or naked the child support...which usually doesn't scratch the surface...is going where it's supposed to go...for the child's needs.
@@mckinneyman4325 I truly agree with 💯. It takes 2 parents to raise a child, especially within their very foundational years, until they reach at least 22. The main issue is not even child support lts about selfishness. Because I know there are people who spend a fortune of cruises, fancy eating, designer cloths, cars, perfumes,.liquor and outings, yet they can't even buy milk for their own child, or even if they do, they do it out of obligation, not out of love of parent-child relationship. If you bring a child into the world, it's your obligation to take care of them, just as your own parents took care of you. Unfortunately, there are people who will abuse a system ( including child support). The motives are always on a full display! Unfortunately, it's sad to see a 50+ yold man seems to not understand what his obligations are. I'm somehow agree with very few things he said about abusing child support system.. hopefully he himself doesn't agree with himself about most of what he said. He is just trying to look for attention and get a hit on UA-cam! Newer knows what his motives could be. Maybe he is sincere and is not a well spoken person!
WHEWWWWWW! RO is lit today and giving a masterclass on fire in this segment!!! Man this dude is the Truth and needs to be the #1 media broadcast in the world. Family lets support this man on every single thing he does & spreads him to Family, Friends, Church, Groups, etc. This is so important for the movement of fairness for everyone
I agree. And I hope everyone who can would join this channel to become a member. Even $5 a month helps to support Uncle RoRo's Black Star Network.
Nothing says how much you truly value and love your children like stepping in front of the whole world to complain about having to pay for them when nobody asked/forced you to have them in the first place!!!!
*Preach it, Bishop Thomas Cross!!!!!!* 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
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THIS 🙌🏽!!!
Talking about the Black Family but no support for the children? Make it make sense
Exactly….folks need to focus and pick a struggle! 😂
Thank you for pointing that out. I was so lost in the toxic fog of his illogic that I missed the simplicity of that important fact.
He's saying women are quicker to leave a man if she can get a good child support check, rather than sticking it out and staying together. Therfore breaking up the family. Not trying to defend him, just pointing that out.
He's perpetrating a fraud. He was born in Cuba.
@@raymondireland8103i may be wrong but circumstances of child custody and child support differs in divorce I believe. So if he was divorced he could fight for custody. But having children out of wedlock leaves men bent over in family court. Point is. DONT HAVE CHILDREN OUT OF WEDLOCK!
He said "women are getting pregnant "...WOW...so he wasn't paying his child support!!
The people share perish from lack of y'all. Please keep teaching Mr. Martin. You're the king 🤴 💙💙
You can't fix stupid. I was taken to court in Georgia for over $25,000 of child support. The prosecutor was pissed at me because I brought my dauther to court as my witness. She lived with me since she was in the second grade and they were trying to get me when she was in the 10th grade. She told me I should have left her in school and brought documentary proof. It occurred to me that if they did not accept the documents, I would be in jail, but they would have a problem locking me up with my daughter in the court room as my witness. They locked me up in court for 15 minutes while they questioned my daughter... Then, they let me go and I never heard from them again. She later went to FAMU.
Her mother tried to get you, not the court.
Wow 😮 I’m so sorry you and your daughter had to experience that situation.
We celebrate you for being what you’re daughter needed!
@@yonahel9018 oh wow! Was the mother receiving TANF/welfare or something and the state was owed $25k…just curious?! Most courts do not allow, nor want minors in court unless absolutely necessary and there is a process for that. And, often times NCP does not follow up with court if/when they become CP. But, glad it worked out for you and congrats to your FAMU daughter!
The crazy thing alot of men feel this way.
Whyyyy did I just started laughing as soon as Roland said " of the things that's getting on my nerves" before knowing what was about to be said next😅😅😅
He sooo 💅🏾🌈
Like the Michael Jackson song "If you can't feed your baby, than don't have a baby. Don't think maybe, if you can't feed your baby."
I hear you man. Child support is a scary thing.
@@johnwebb2442 OMG! Stop it! 😭🤣
THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! Roland Martin, and never mind the criticism of those who will never take the time to be informed as you are to share 'accurate' information. BLESSINGS 🙌
Professor Roland Martin and your panelists - I love y'all ❤ Black Excellence 💯
these lowlifes are making hardworking Black fathers like myself look bad. They are living stereotypes
Thank you.
Loud, proud, and ignorant!😂😂😂😂 Bless his heart!
@@All.Natural. 😂😂😂
He said that ignorant foolishness out loud! ..With his whole chest. 😩😩
Exactly….,Ive said this for YEARS about Roland!
The ignorance about civics is astounding.
I’m so tired of men complaining about child support and the reason they’re paying child support is because they are not putting in the TIME for their children. TIME matters in the case of child support. You pay more when you CHOOSE to be a PART TIME parent. It’s your choice Faizon. If they abolish child support, it would allow people all over the country men & women to abandon their responsibilities as parents. You had them…take care of them.
❤❤❤Facts your child. You made them stop making children. Then you will not have to pay children. I don't have a pet, why because it is a responsibility to take care of one. Children are the same way. (Your responsibility)
N**** please
Child support doesn't have anything to do with no "time' 😂😂😂😂😂
A woman choice to Abort it's a man choice to pay child support
@@dukestandard4743 yes it does! I know this for a fact! In California child support is based on how much TIME the parent spends with the child and how much income the parent makes. For example, I f you have your child 6 months out of the year, plus weekends and some holidays. Why would you pay those days when the child is at your house? Spend TIME with your kids.
@@oloxoice7097 That’s absolutely ludicrous. What about your child? That’s why I tell women, don’t have a baby for a man, have it for yourself because it’s going to be your baby. There are consequences to not being there for your kids besides child support. They grow up and you will need them one day. My father was POS father who NEVER gave my mother any kind of support. Now he’s old with diabetes and the only help he has, is the 4 children he abandoned. Thank God for our mothers who taught us to be good people. He was never hurting her by not helping, he was hurting us.
Not paying your child support:
"That reasoning is like me saying, I'm having a tough time right now...
So I'm not going to buy my kids any food, clothes, or pay the rent.
I'm not going to put gas in the car to take them to school.
I'm not going to take them to the doctor's office because I'm really not trying to pay these co-pays.
I'm still going to have those things... just my kids can't have any of what I have.
I simply don't have enough to share"
Now imagine if the custodial parent also didn't do these things in addition to you not doing them.
Your child probably wouldn't make it.
Not financially supporting your child means you think it's the responsibility of the custodial parent to fund your children alone.
How much energy and time is expended and spent on the child as a noncustodial parent vs the one who has primary custody? Too many non custodial parents only see the money and not the mental and physical load.
Exactly. And if the mom is able to go out and enjoy herself every now and then, good on her, it’s a really hard job to be a parent, much less doing it all on your own. I give them a lot of credit for standing by their kids!
Thanks God for you Roland.
Keep on, keeping on❤❤
Stupidity is proudly on display for all to see and hear.
If we could get a dollar for every stupid idea on social media, we would be billionaires.
Child support will never be abolished. It is in the states best interest to see to each child, living in any state, to be financially supported.
Roland needs to be a teacher for civics classes nationwide ..
Please Roland Martin is a guy with a UA-cam channel nobody cares what he has to say
@@clairegazzillo6775exactly😅
He has much more than a UA-cam channel...smh.
@@clairegazzillo6775but here you are, though 🙄🙄
Some one does are else he wouldn't have a channel with more than 500 views, so people do care about what he is saying only ones don't care are the ones that's watching or how would you know he has one. Cause you are watching him now 💯💯🤣😂🤣
Really... abolish child support... I just about spit out my coffee I was laughing so hard... I wonder where this guy got his no brain thinking from... I can't believe there are people who think this way...
We can “abolish” family court when people start treating each other with care and actually standing up and doing what’s right! But, knowing humans, that won’t happen.
Like it or not, alot of men are suffering in silence! I married my wife had kids... she left to "find happiness" Sued me for child support! Ive never not been there. It was on me to get a lawyer and fight for 50/50 custody. Got 50/50 and I still have to pay her! All he's saying is that this needs national attention! There needs to be reform nationally... Everyone is talking about abortion rights nationally and not state wide! We need the same attention focused on the family courts, it's a complete scam! Not everyone has the same interest in the agenda that's being presented!
Men also collect child support Faison....
Rarely
@@Berealwiteachother they also rarely show up to court for custody which is how so many end up on child support. Look it up.
@@Berealwiteachother well it’s rare because fathers are rarely the custodial parent but those that do collect need that money and probably wouldn’t agree with Faizon
@@HerbalQueen I had custody of mine but got only three payments in 15 years! Only reason she isn’t in jail is because she is dead.
@@HerbalQueen but it isn’t weaponized like what is done to us. Also, why are we even entertaining the law of the seas? Cmon I know you heard of maritime law. I’m not lost nor dead or even absent so tell me why I deserved to pay twice as they got that but my lil ones always needed things? I’m not sure it makes sense. Also the Supreme Court deemed it no good for the family. I didn’t assault or disrespect or any of that stuff! Why did they give the orders when they know what those women will do and are doing all the time with support money? They will straight up just disrespect a man in front of the the hearing officers. Saying things like”I’m used to living a certain way, or he just needs to pay” it is disgusting and no justice is served. It screws the lil ones
Faizon Love is an unserious person. He’s a big dummy.
For some reason your comment made me laugh out loud…LOUDLY!!!🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
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@@nf3982he should be shame😮😮😮😮😮
Is Faizon the Black Donald Trump, just clueless?
😂😂😂 along with Jermaine Dupri!
Thank you, Roland Martin, for educating us about this very important matter. People, STOP!!! recording misinformation!! And one more advice, there are many forms of birth control if you do NOT want children. Don't get mad and spread your personal lack of responsibilities on others!!
I also wanted to say that I love watching Roland and Co. Roland always knows what he's talking about. I wish you had your own show on TV that EVERYONE could see. There are so many people who don't watch UA-cam. I know folks could watch these videos anytime, I just wish it was more widely seen. You are so RIGHT on every issue!!!
What is with men crying about taking care of their children, it's so sad but they're perfectly happy with the tax payers providing, for their children as they continue to make more 🤯🤦🏽♀️😒
The child support system is broken but not due to ignorance.
@@phillipwood4924 No it's nothing wrong with the system it's just fine .. More likely the men are broke and that's due to their ignorance.
He said he didn't know what child support was until he was 50 and was called into court and said he thought that was for deadbeats. If he's not a deadbeat, then how did he wind up in court for it?
It’s true you can be a supportive father and all and can still be garnished for child support depending on what state you’re from or file at.
It has happened believe that.
@@ninjak38_mjwilson3There can be a lot of particulars involved in that. Do they owe past arrears while they're paying? Are they paying the amount of what the court ordered? Is domestic violence involved that they're being jailed for? Nobody knows what's exactly involved in someone else's legal cases unless they were at the hearings, and even then sometimes not everything comes out, and some people simply doesn't tell the truth or everything. But just listening to his rhetoric, he sounds like he has some type of deficit.
Easy. Women take men that take care of their children to court all the time. I was one of those men. I did the math and was giving my sons mother $600 a month. She thought I wasn't giving enough or trying to get over. The court gave her $640. So do you think $40 was worth going to court. Or does $40 make you a deadbeat?
Well then she can't lie on the father, the court will be your record. And that is the way r@@ninjak38_mjwilson3
Faizon Love and Jermaine DuPri need Civics lessons. He’s a big dummy.😂😂
Sorry but you didn’t hear him you heard his words not what he was trying to say. Family courts penalize fathers then when and it hurts the child as much as the absence
@@edwardjordan5685the confusion I had with Faizon’s “suggestion” is he started off by saying Blk families are being destroyed. Paying child support is not in anyway a family unit. In essence we put the cart before the horse. If we want a strong family nucleus, start off by getting married before starting a families.
@@edwardjordan5685 In my opinion women who keep their children away from you irresponsible men are doing the right thing for their child.
@@KDG111 🗣PREACH‼and Keep Preaching because I don't think they heard you telling the TRUTH❗
@@jamberry8026 I agree mostly with your comment but with a slight difference. Wasn’t it irresponsible of parties to become parents before becoming a married couple. I’m certainly not naïve to think men women are not going to have sex B4 marriage. But a pregnancy can be prevented, and no I’m not suggesting all the responsibilities should be placed on women.
Faison sound dumb regarding child support issues. Spent 30 years working @ child support agency & many don’t pay enough per month so that the custodial parent can alone afford food & think they pay too much. Men & grandparents are also custodial parents.
Exactly!! He sounds ignorant and irresponsible not wanting to support children he or any other man helped produce!
Child support is a necessary evil and a blessing. An evil for a parent that's doing the right thing to support their children and the money grabbing custodial parent views the child as an income. But a blessing for the children and custodial parent needing assistance from the deadbeat parent that's not carrying his or her weight in providing for the children.
This was hilarious... I hope he gets a chance to say "my bad"...
Too bad he won't.
Abolish child support. How stupid is he. By the way, I liked the 'like melania comment'. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Again I heard inequality in child support and custody
@@edwardjordan5685 Faizon should have used his words and spoke facts not feelings, Dr. Carr addressed the importance of using your words. No surprise the commentators are commenting on Faizon’s stupidity.
That was brilliant by Dr. Carr
DR. CARR shut the whole convo down with those two words.
Yeah, I heard it to 😂😂😂😂😂
This is the main reason I’m thankful for an enlightening show of the black community like Roland’s because otherwise a lot of us in the black community would keep thinking like a field hand slave.
Once again, it shows who took civics & American history class, AND PAID ATTENTION IN HIGH SCHOOL, and those who didn't.
I see the pain in this man’s voice. He clearly misspoke. Even if I accept the premise he’s uneducated he clearly speaking to inequality in custody and costs Common brothers and sisters we are smarter then that
Exactly. Knowledge is power.
I retired from a child support agency. I could tell you numerous stories. AND its not just black people.
Oh trust me we know it's not in my experience in the state of DE child support office majority of the women come in complaining of where their check is they have their light bill to pay for
Oh there's no doubt there
And Faison apparently had not read his court documents,
Child Support is for babies who have to be taken care of,
Faison is assuming the child shouldn’t eat,
Nor be taken care of by both parents !!!
It’s good that there’s people like you who can articulate the hard difference in an easy way for simple minded people.
I'm a Black woman who called Black men out for not voting and having the loudest mouth! Our people don't want to talk about that or child support. We don't correct our own people and get angry if another race corrects us.
Yea, I said it! Thanks, Roland!
Pay your child support, use a common, and vote for VP Harris.
So true!!!
@toniarochell163 is it though 🤔
Well said FINE LADY !
You mean use a condom.
Still, you are right.
Hello Anne, looking at Fazon I saw more hurt or anger potentially a court system that possibly denied him access reasonable access equal access and or a dollar amount that went well beyond taking care of your children. I’m telling you I heard him say that a child support system is unduly prejudiced toward non-custodial parents, many times by virtue of your sex. No one is advocating for not taking care of your responsibilities again taking Tire as the example his ex does not require $10-$20,000 per month to care for a single child and the money is in the best interest of the child, anything that’s above what required to care for the child reasonably maybe even generously to $3000 a month Chevy put into a trust fund for the child use when they’re adults so again using Tyrese as the example that additional seven to $17,000 put in a trust per month for the child as an adults and what is the responsibility and other woman to provide financial support. The pain I saw and frustration in that man’s face will transfer to that child at some point, the woman should know that if she cares about the child and not the check again I grew up in the family of 11. My father worked two jobs to care for us while my mother took care of us so I was well aware of the responsibility men of color should take, I’m saying women of color if we’re staying in the community should do the same and care about the children and not anything personal so I would call on these women who think 20,000 is worth it to demand an accounting of where that money goes doesn’t require 20,000 a monthhe requires the love the attention the time the laughs the hugs that’s how you care for your child
DR. Carr had me rolling when he said "like Melania " after Roland said check babies.
IKR! 😂😂
That was pretty stupid being that she’s married
@@fergusonDJyou can still collect child support, even if you’re married in some states.
@@myjjobsession9084if you’re separated, not sure how that has to do with Melania
@@fergusonDJcause Melania and Trump is A FAKE MARRIAGE!!!! THAT'S WHAT IT MEANS !!!!!! He hasn't lived with her in 2 1/2 years!!!!!! Shed be a BOGUS 1ST LADY!!!!!!
Hey Roland
I was born at Jefferson Davis County Hospital, Houston Texas, Harris County. Twenty-eight years later, I trained there as an Obstetrician/Gynecologist. They called me “the JD baby”. I didn’t care. I have practiced medicine for almost 40 years, raised and educated 3 daughters . You bring up things I know! Went to Cullen Jr. High and Jack Yates Sr. High . I was bussed in my last year to Austin Sr. High. Just so nice to hear your opinions and your show and to hear things I know (Scott Street😉).
God Bless You my lil’ Brother
So proud of you 👏🏾
They get on my nerves too Rowland. Why are they saying mess and it causes mess. Like VP Harris said do you want Trump to win?
I DON'T WANT HIM TO WIN!!!
Lol! You so right Martin! They need to ask somebody that isn't foolish!!!
Right, He shouldn't be able to run for president!!! I would be a better president than him! Thrump!
Roland this is why I watch your show. You educate the uneducated including the uneducated who have an internet platform. Keep up the good work Roland.
Nasty work 🙀
Roland Martin please keep this going because you are doing a great job to educate people who worship some of these uninformed comedians, so-called Rappers and sports personalities, blessed love, cheers, my brother.
Should have made a video talking about the pay of black actors and actress.. maybe talk about the importance of education.
Fellas, no matter the situation is enforced or not, take care of your child. Women, this goes for you as well.
Talking about a dead beat Dad the award goes to that guy and the way he looks if anyone laying down with him even after the kids leave home,he should still be paying out of appreciation 😂.
@rolandsmartin we need MEN like that person in the video to OWN AND DO THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES AND STOP THE ASSININE SELF CENTEREDNESS
Faizon was obviously referring to costs. Unfair inequality in the custody and financial system that’s is so blatantly biased towards the mother. If a father is actively involved in the life of the child then REAL cost should and time should be fairly distributed. A woman is not a better parent by virtue of her sex. For the true dead beat parent I couldn’t care less but the penalty toward the none custodial parent creates exactly the pain you see in Faizon face and if you don’t think that transfer to child both ways you are sadly mistaken
ASSinine is correct!
Assinine self centeredness is all he knows🤓
@@edwardjordan5685 most men don’t want the kids anyway. That’s why they end up with the mothers.
@@ejharrisjr40 we need Strong Alpha Black men, not these Bata moist men like Rolland
He either has never voted or is a Trump supporter. I'll bet my whole paycheck
He have a trump supporter
You'll need your whole paycheck just to get by.
Faizon Love just reeks of being a MAGAT.
He could be both. A lot of the people that stormed the capitol didn’t vote either lmaoooo
Civics education needs to be MANDATORY in every state and school district.
And also not tainted by the MAGATS who spread misinformation.
Thank you for the civics lesson for those who don’t READ and those who can’t READ. It’s also a lack of teaching in the home and the school is an additional teaching.
My daughter is going thru this right now in Hawaii. Her ex husband told the court that he doesn’t see why he should have to pay child support. The court won’t let her relocate and keeps giving this man mor chances than there are black holes in space.
@RolandMartin1bu yes sir, I’m all ears.
That sucks.
That judge needs to be thrown off the bench for favoring her deadbeat ex-husband instead of her.
@@thecajunphoenix I know, she has been stuck on the island for the sake of her child. He tells here "oh, you can leave any time you want, but since the child was born here, I won't agree to it."
You remember in school when we were all separated: Remedial, Standard, Honors, AP, IB...well after graduation everyone was just released into the wild. Tell me you never voted in local and state elections without saying it. BTW the debate was FUN!
😂😂😂 Right!
I want VP to win and help educate Americans on stuff. Thank you Roland!!!
LOL! She probably will not have the time to educate everyone. We need to do more for the schools/educators to be empowered, engaged and well funded to do their jobs!! Parents need to ensure their children are present, respectful and open to learning
It is not her job to educate them. At some point, people have to take responsibility for their lives and take the initiative.
Please no.
Roland I wholeheartedly agree with you! This segment needed to be heard! I respect you for calling out Fuzzy Love and any other ignorant person who make baseless accusations and statements. However, please do not invite Burke back onto your platform. I’m a big on psychology and reading body language. I was deeply saddened by Burke’s demeanor throughout your segment. And her response was even worse than her attitude and demeanor. If I noticed this distraction I bet others did too.
Political people family.
Every time I say to myself I hope a black person don't say nothing dumb on national television because it looks like it reflects all of us.
Hey it's obvious the brother is feeling the pain he thought he was going to get a pass because his name was big perm. 😭
Well God bless the brother you really tried.🙏
Abolish child support = Abolishing the Child's RIGHTS to support under the LAW
Alot of people just don't want to research topics. Most people don't understand simple civic, but I agree with you, Roland. I know so many ignorant people who think like Faizon Love.
As a man you should willingly take care of your children, you’re less of a man !
He's basically saying he was already taking care of his kids so WHY should he be on child support
@@stevenpralour8496they don't think. They used to letting the government think for them
Absolutely!!!!
If I don't understand something I will research it to get a clear understanding of it.
The disrespect for Kamala is mind boggling. He is addressing both candidates, supposedly, but only the woman gets the disrespect. The guy has real issues!
Man I appreciate what you do to keep in form and up to date on matters of life and politics. I always loved how you challenged everybody on CNN when no one else wouldn't and now how you school these drifters and call out there lies and hypocritical tendencies.
😂 people making less than 6 figures a year complaining about child support crack me up. Hell, you pay much less than the men who aren’t on child support and the mothers to take care of your kids.
Exactly! More like less than $50k and whining about child support. 😂 BUT pay $800* per month car payment to LOOK as if they have $$$…make it make sense?!
Take care of your children instead of someone making you do it. And it's a shared experience. You should want to do everything in your power to help the child succeed. You have to realize that Mom or Dad has the child 24/7. You're just coming through with coins. Grow up.
@Roland, the Federal Government can abolish Child Support. The Federal Government first established child support legislation under the administration of President Gerald Ford, following a push from Congress. In 1975, Ford signed the law that authorized states to develop their own child support enforcement programs. This legislation, informally referred to as the "Runaway Pappy Act," was enacted amidst broader concerns about absent fathers and growing welfare costs.
At the time, Ford's presidency faced significant political challenges, having assumed office after Nixon's resignation, which led to his portrayal as an "unelected" president. Many political analysts believe that Ford signed the legislation in part to strengthen his standing with voters in the lead-up to the 1976 election. Despite his public support, Ford expressed reservations, noting that the law might overextend government authority into private family matters-a concern that has remained part of the broader debate surrounding child support policies.
You need some biological daddy lessons vs. Faizon needing civic lessons.
Some men hate being financially responsible for their children. Sad... Sorry to tell ya, child support ain't going nowhere 😂pay your child support.
I'm all in on child support but with a mandatory DNA test at birth
Yes I totally agree 💯 and I'm a WOMAN ❤
Nothing wrong with
Yes. If you file for child support a mandatory DNA test is required. Agreed
Every child born needs a dna test. Especially in states that ban abortion.
I'll add to that and say that since prolifers consider it a life at conception...so should child support. That'll shut up a lot of them forcing unwanted pregnancies
I love how you continue to educate us on civics, Roland. We should have learned it in school, but in all of my years of public school education, I never had a civics lesson. NEVER.
I just can't!
Ditto ... The mfers are exhausting...
Me either! As a mother whose work to raised 4 children and No welfare No Medicaid and very little to no child support imagine the struggle.
Roland had me laughing out loud at work watching him drag this goofy dude 😂😂😂
What about the men. Last I checked it takes two to create. Why wouldn’t you take care of his child.
Take Faison to school Roland
Child support is state
Google, Google, Google could help Faizon. Faizon does not have intellectual curiosity.
He has to be joking right. My daughter get 150 every two weeks for her child cause he decided to go out and have affair not her. That doesn’t even cover childcare. Thank God she has a good job to help support herself.
I hope she sues him and drags him back to court for more child support because he's despicable and pathetic.
Thanks Roland. Dr Carr is correct about “weaponized ignorance “, this is why Trump loves the uneducated.
childsuport is a federal provision
Roland we need you on a bigger platform to teach them uneducated people some civics lessons 😮😮.
Roland Martin is not ready for prime time this is why he's broadcasting on UA-cam out of his basement
@@clairegazzillo6775Obviously, you don’t remember that Roland came from mainstream media. He built HIS OWN. Look him up. Check his record. He ain’t in a basement for sure. Even if he was, he’s the BOSS.
That's why educating is important