Being pleasant to mum is one thing but the most important thing is to be in the first place is to be honestly sincere about it. Mothers are very observant and they easily sense pretending.
I have one serious enough "excuse" - I don't like people. I am straight, therefore I am pointing girls right now because of my sexuality, but the longer I talk to girls and women, in general, the more I dislike playing with them and putting any emotional effort towards them. Most of them are not worth it, just like most of the guys are not worthy of being my friend.
As an outsider, one of the best things in my youth was growing up in a Polish neighborhood. All of my friends were Polish; they were tough, stubborn, hardworking, and religious. At that time (the late 1950s) in order to date a Polish girl you first had to get permission from her brothers. They knew your reputation and if they told her that you were not dating material you were definitely history. And if she didn't have any brothers she would rely on her friends brothers.
@@andzelikasmusz8935 I lived on the 4900 block of Magoun Ave. East Chicago, IN. I lived just a few houses North of Saint Stanislaus Catholic Church. On a tour of Poland, I had the honor of visiting Kraków's Wawel Cathedral and praying at the reliquary of Saint Stanislaus.
Thank you. 🙂😊 I am a Polish woman and I totally agree! We are a unique combination of everything a woman is. We are beautiful, passionate, loving, caring. When we get angry, we don't hide it. When we are happy, the world knows it. We are like fire. Only experienced should be near us. 😉
I met my Polish wife through her roommate, who was my ESL student here in NY. We all went together to a club and the rest is history. 13 years married in 2019
Amusing but I don’t think this differs from anywhere else in the world, in essence. Be a decent guy, respectful, well-mannered, cultured and ambitious. I think most women, no matter where they’re from would say that’s what they look for in a man. As for the “hot tempered and headstrong” I don’t really agree. Polish girls are raised to be strong, independent and to have confidence in themselves. They are raised by their mothers and grandmothers who had to be strong through Poland’s recent history. This isn’t temper, this is strength of character.
You are not a man, you never dated women AND ou never dated foreign women. You have zero knowledge on the subject and your opinion is irrelevant. "Be a decent guy, respectful, well-mannered, cultured and ambitious. " Women give just the worst advice possible. "Be a dick, but make it funny"
About the temper, I'm Polish and what I usually hear from my Spanish friends is 'oh I wish girls in Spain were so reasonable as polish girls'. Also, no, most 20-25year polish girls won't ask you to pay for anything. Its the thing of the past, especially in the cities.we do require respect tho. I enjoyed the video, keep up the good work
Paying is not so simple so you can say "man always pays". The general rule is that the one who invite pay. So it is even possible, that girl will pay for a date. But of course men often suggest that they will do it anyway. But the most important thing is to do not force anyone. If a guy says that he want to pay and girl says "no", just accept it. I would say, that it is good for man to suggest that he will pay, but if a woman don't want it, then don't force her and let her pay for herself.
@@jekubos Preech, man, preech! ^_^ Plus, I would add, do not feel offended when it's the woman that wants to pay for a meal/ coffee/ drink- do not argue, just say "Thank you" and smile. :)
When I was about to meet my wife's parents for the first time, she seemed very concerned with it. Finally she told me why: her father was worried about whether I could drink vodka, as foreigners usually had an issue with it. To me it was a relief to hear that, though. I figured I'll be just fine: Lonely Planet Polish phrasebook had told me that "only Russians and Finns can match prodigious vodka consumption of the Poles", and I have this perk of being a Finn.
It's not about wanting to pay for you. They will pay for themselves, but they quietly expect that you'll at least offer to pay. I have always paid for myself, but if a guy wouldn't offer to pay - well, it was a little bit weird.
@@Railie777 I would say it depends from a person. I'm also a Polish girl and I feel very uncomfortable when someone offers to pay for me. I don't think that men should offer paying, this idea is strange for me and very old fashioned.
one thing - night club in poland usually means a strip club. Keep that in mind not to get into awkward situations. General rule of thumb for dealing with parents: you need to impress the father to get the girl and mother to get the guy
W Polsce kobieta ma bardzo silną pozycję.Matka Żona Babcia to pierwsza linia możesz z nimi walczyć początkowo wydaje ci się że odniosles sukces ale pozornie. Przegrasz zawsze.W Polsce jest matryjarchat. Czy to się komuś podoba czy nie.Winna jest nasza historia my szliśmy na dzikie pola a one rządziły.Potem byly powstania i znowu chłopów brakło. One rządziły.Ale ja niemam nic przeciwko temu. Sprawdziły się.
Ale dalej większość panów ma problem przywitać się też z kobietą podczas podawania sobie ręki w gronie głównie mężczyzn. To na pewno z szacunku i strachu :O
Kala El Część Pań nie ma z podaniem sobie ręki problemu, a część na wyciągnięcie ręki robi dziwne spojrzenia i wymowne gesty. To jak się witamy to niepisane zasady które poznajemy w trakcie życia, bo nie ma jednego jedynego słusznego sposobu witania się. Wielu mężczyzn prawdopodobnie ma podobne doświadczenia do moich i nauczyło się tego przez takie niemiłe sytuacje. (Pewnie wielu ma też inne i robi to z innego powodu, lub są po prostu niemiłymi ludźmi) Wydaje mi się że gdybyś była na miejscu mężczyzn, szybko zrozumiała byś dlaczego tak jest chociaż sam nie potrafię tego wytłumaczyć.
@@idontfeelsogood2063 szczerze nie znam żadnej kobiety, która obraża się, bo mężczyzna się z nią wita. Rozumiem ten argument, ale postaw się też na miejscu kobiety - która jest wykluczona z grupy (najczęściej nawet dołączający na nią nie spojrzy) a uzasadnieniem "dlaczego" jest to, że kiedyś jakaś jedną kobieta krzywo spojrzała.
It was easier for you because your girlfriend helped you and her parents not fluent in English so they could not ask you so many questions but usually this is what happens when you come to pick up their daughter they would interrogate you and ask so many questions and tell you to make sure you get her back safely and early home
Currently trying to date a girl in Poland. I’m really excited yet scared for what’s to come, but she is quite the best and funniest person I’ve ever met. She is really far away from me but lucky for her I can fly her here with me where she belongs, with her Romeo. Wish me luck!
Wow! Naprawdę przestudiowane! Cieszę się, że się tego podejmujesz! Tylko jedno: nie wszystkie polki są takie kłótliwe jak sądzisz hahaha. I... Nie spotkałam się jeszcze z tak popularnym tańcem. Jak widać, młodsze pokolenie jest mniej chętne do tego. Bardzo ci dziękuję za ten film!!! Woah! I'm so happy for you making this! I have only one thought: not every polish woman is so moody and likes arguing, yelling all the time, like you think hahah. And... I didn't see so many dancing people. Maybe young people aren't so keen on dancing nowtimes. But, lots of thanks for that video!!!
What an interesting perspective. I like your movies as I can find out how you see us, Poles and now, women as well. Sometimes is funny, surprising, sometimes I don’t agree but always I have something to think about. It’s enriching, thank you! Keep going :)
@Daniel Menefrego ale wy jestescie stereotypowi i strasznie kkrytyczni wobec kogos. Szony to wy jestescie. Tak jak facet moze sie umawiac z kim chce tak i kobieta. Przez takich jak wy polska ma opinie bycia ciemnogrodem.
@Daniel Menefrego opinia jedno obrazanie drugie. Uzywanie pejoratywnych wyrazen wzgledem kogos nie jest wyrazaniem tyle opinii co zwyklego chamskiego obrazania.
@Daniel Menefrego ponadto stwierdzasz w swojej takzwanej opinii ze szanujace sie kobiety nie beda z zagranicznymi. O ile to muzulmanin ktory ze względu na swoja religie nie moze jej szanowac to nie ma podstaw do stwierdzenia ze dana osoba sie nie szanuje.
From my experience: you'd have to impress my mum but never by buying her gifts. She judges how much a guy loves me from the way he looks at me or talks to me. Also, interesting - yes, rich - no. It's important to us that a guy has energy and passion. The more hobbies he has, the better. If he has an interesting job (like professional traveller or a cook) that's even better. And in terms of splitting the bill, I think it should be proportional to how much you earn. So if you earn twice as much as me I'll pay every third time.
I couldn't stop laughin at some of your dating tips, especially about getting to know a lil bit of Polish history to impress 'his' date's dad, uncle, etc.. :D Good job and I'm sure it works! :D (no sarcasm at all!!! : ] )
You are correct that Poles know more about America than Americans know about Poland. One of several books I read about Polish history was Adam Zamoyski's 1,000 years of Polish History. They've been around for a long time and their national anthem reflects that in the words, "We are still here".
If you have anything valuable to contribute to our society, the udea of moving here could be acceptable. If, however, all you think about is to find a place you could anjoy- you are not welcome
Hei, i live in Norway since 2008, I am dating Norwegian guy halv a year now. People are the same i would say, what makes difference is a culture. But this is not major in our case, more funny. So You can expect similar situation;) I think though that finding a Wright guy is same difficult as in Your own country, you need to kiss a plenty of frogs ;)
As for paying for a girl, well yea, if you invite her somewhere, you better be prepared to pay but if it was a mutual initiative or she said something like "oh let's go *there*, in 90% of cases, she's going to pay for herself.
Well Boyyyyy I’m a Polish woman living in US - & it’s astonishing but 9/10 you are correct. Some statements I would phrase differently or wouldn’t generalize that much but; overall 👍🏻
@@marlenakoperfilt9416 and from *my* background (I'm Polish) almost everyone I know is Catholic. Poland is historically a very Catholic country and that's a fact. And isn't "less than half of the population" a statistic too?
@@pankarmelek3372 im just trying to point that this guy has limiting beliefs. Like how can you put 20milion women into one sack? And on top of that say that a good partner is conservative catholic? Just think about it
Currently dating a polish girl, it's so difficult, she gets mad a lot, hence why I'm here, I agree when you say about being a gentleman but I would treat every date the same, I'd still open car doors and pull out chairs especially if I liked them, that's universal, I also agree about family, she has 3 kids back in Poland and they are her first priority, don't get in the way of a polish mum especially when she's mad. I dated an Italian which honestly is much easier, they are easier to make happy. Thanks for the extra insight into dating polish women, I subscribed
Dude I just laughed at your comment because me (I'm from the UK) and my gf (polish) just broke up. It would seems almost every day she would have a go at me about something...like I could never do anything right! I came to this video to understand her more. We won't be getting back together but it helps me understand where I went wrong. It seems the small things are big things for polish girls. I treated her well...took her to many cities in europe, paid for many things and treated her well...but it was small mistakes i didn't know I was making that would make her blow up every time. i just thought she was being dramatic. If I didn't txt her back within an hour it was a problem. My attention was important to her and I just thought she was needy. Culture definitely had a part in our break up. Are you still with your gf?
1:30 You don't say. Having or not having a girlfriend/boyfriend has nothing to do with forms of communication. It's all up to you, your style, appearance, personality, etc.
I actually went searching for videos like this talking about the culture differences between the USA and Poland, specifically because on my study abroad trip to Poland, I met for the first time in my life a guy I was interested in. We met at a dance club a few times, and I was the one who asked him out on a date, which normally I had never done before, and even though my visit was short, we stayed in contact when I went back to the states through social media, chatting virtually almost everyday (though me being the positive american, I chatted way more than he did), and it would be about 7 months now as friends. Naturally, the more we've stayed in contact the more I want to get to know about his culture and about him, but im mostly hesitant to broach anything romantic since I'm not sure where he stands, what I can say or cant say haha.(for context, Im in my early 20's, and im Venezuelan American so a lot of polish culture like family and religion crosses over, so i really like that) Americans are more the type to go for it and be blunt, dating is more casual (I dont date since I have little time for it), and I can see interacting with a polish guy is more slow going , cautious, and not quick to put a label onour friendship since they seem more serious about commitment, which was novel to me. Naturally I got very curious on what all this meant from a polish guy in the 21st century 🤣 As a venezuelan american woman, i can say with confidence a lot of the traits you mentioned about polish women are the same in my culture, so at least if I ever get the nerve to ask him out again seriously, he will be used to my temper hahaha! on that note, Id love to see what poles say about dating culture from both women and men 🤔
First! :D Yes! Polish mother-in-laws can be intimidating and many times purely destructive, and I really mean it. There is even a short lyric about them: 'szła teściowa przez las, pogryzły ja żmije, żmije wyzdychały a teściowa żyje' which goes more-less like this 'mother-in-law went thru the woods and was bitten by vipers, vipers are dead now but mother-in-law very much alive'. On the other hand polish fathers-in-law, the traditional ones are much, much easier going, especially if you know how to work with your hands (fixing cars or home improvements) and have moderate to high tolerance for adult beverages. :) Man who is unable to work with his hands is commonly referred in Poland as 'Dupa' (Ass), and will score very low on a father-in-law scale, the only reprieve from that is if a dude makes really a shitload of money and can afford hiring people to do these jobs without hurting a home budget in a least. :D You forgot; ABSOLUTELY MUST OPEN CAR DOOR FOR HER ...like an old-fashioned chauffeur!! They expect that! God forbid you get behind a wheel and press the door button or pull a lever on a pass side for her from the inside! You are TOAST as a dating material! LoL!
Gdzie ty zyjesz człowieku? Jakie otwieranie drzwi samochodu? Nikt tego nie robi od dekad! Wystarczy poobserwować zachowanie ludzi w miastach. Ale dobrze ze zaczynasz cos tam z zycia rozumieć. Opisales nie teścia i teściowa tylko ogólnie sytuacje pokazująca różnice miedzy mezczyznami a kobietami. Zaczynasz juz rozumieć ze małżeństwo to toksyczna sprawa i nie służy mezczyznie. Czas na wiecej czerwonych pigułek - posłuchaj o MGTOW...
E tam słuchasz i nie słuchasz. Dobrych dziewczyn nie spotkasz w klubie czy w centrum - tylko jednorazowe przygody. Przez przyjaciół, przez rodzinę, przez zainteresowania.
Jak nie masz grubego hajsu przy dupie, to nawet przyjaciele, rodzina, zainteresowania nie pomogą. Dożyliśmy czasów, gdy dla kobiet the most important for women's are huge money and good job. ;)
nice, my wife is polish though born here in the USA and has a lot of these traits. She even sent me a link to this video saying "see it's normal for us" lol.
Hi! A lot.of videos talk about dating polish girls, I was wondering how are the men and why no one talk about it? :) Btw I found your video and I'm happy you have a new follower! ^_^ I'll go to Poland soon.
They will expect from you to know how to cook and to like it. If your plans become serious you will enjoy having the last say in the home and your decisions about everytking in familly will be the law. But there is also price, you will be responsible for children health and education. It will be your bit to keep familly feed and house clean. Some guys will share the house duties but it likely will be them 'hepling you in your duties'. Perhaps right thing to do will be to use your powers to 'train' the partner to participate in house routines.
@@LoveMyPoland I hope you will make a video for dating Polish men soon! I'm curious about what young boys are taught about dating and if the father or mother are the bigger influence on the young man. My teenage daughter has a male teenage penpal in Poland and I need some insight in case this becomes more than a friendship 😊
Your girlfriend at that time told her parents want they wanted to hear from you and convinced her parents you're nice guy because she loved you and still love you.
I hate guys to jump to wrong concussion about Polish woman because I think they're very nice good girls and exelent mom and wifes. I have brothers and they told me American girls just too easy and I just told them please don't put all American girls to the same bascet because I am sure not all of them the same just because you had some bad experiences.
Sill I think your girlfriend now your wife helped you with that because it was up to her if she wantsto be your wife. You' was nice guy don't take me wrong and the way you was behaving politely and respectful at front of her parents (special her mother) helped because that just conformed you're the guy for her and they did not gave you hard time. Mother is close to her daughter specialy when they're in that age I am sure they been talking about you before you even had the chance to met her in person. I am sure your wife said nice things about you to her parents special her mom that's why her parents treated you the way they did because they knew their daughter was in love with you . Most of the girls not bring the boyfriend home to meet their parents if they are not serious about the guy because they know their parents will ask a lots of questions and don't want to deal with that themselves and put her boyfriend through. In your case since they could not ask you all the questions because of the language barrier they all asked their daughter more about you. Maybe I am wrong in your case because I was not there but I know if that were my parents they would definitely do that if I brought American to their house to meet my parents
A “night club” sounds sooo wrong for a polish viewer. It’s rather a place where men go to “watch” women doing “things” 😅 when talking about places destined for hanging out at night it’s much better to use “club” rather than a “night club” - but that’s for the Poles. Dont know about the rest of the world. But since you said it son comfortably I’m sure it has to be correct for the American audience
Your wife made it easier for you because you was from U.S. so if you did something wrong they just forgive you but if you was actually polish the mother and father we ask you a lot of question the same way like in United States when you was young.
It took me about 3 months, BUT I had classes 5 days a week for 4 hours a day at certified school. I would expect a typical personal to become communicative in 6 mos to 1 year (assuming you put in the work ).
I've dated a Polish girl and she was by far the best girlfriend I've had (even though she unfortunately had spent years in the UK so had been influenced by the gender war nonsense stuff taking place there) I would actually like yo move to Poland as I've been there a number of times now and really love it, the cities (Krakow, Gdansk and Gdynia) are gorgeous and have this sort of enduring feel to them, the country in the south is beautiful. But as someone who is fairly ambitious and can't doesn't much Polish (learned a bit but combining the fact I find it difficult and that I've heard even after 10 years of loving there, a lot of people are still hard to understand for locals when speaking Polish) what sorts of jobs would even be available or realistic to get for foriegn people? Keeping in kind I want to move there to be a part of society and because I love the culture and people from what I've seen, and yes....the women are absolutely amazing and ridiculously attractive. Not sure if it's realistic but I would love to meet a nice Polish girl and settle down. They have something special I can't quite out into words that nobody else does, and I'm pretty well traveled.
How did you met your wife? How long you was dating her? How was your first date? How diid you ask her to marry you? How many girls you been dating before your wife in Poland?
Russel, please tell us who will you be rooting for on Saturday 23 July in the semi-finals of the world league in volleyball :)? Poland has just advanced and both teams will play with each other :)
I think most of the stuff you've mentioned makes sense in smaller cities or more traditional families (or your experiences are slightly outdated since you're married now) :D As someone who lives in Warsaw I can't imagine any of my friends letting a guy pay on a date (in extreme cases it is also considered offensive :D), making a scene in public or letting their mothers interfere in their relationship :D I also can't dance at all :D Great video though, I absolutely love your channel!
My wife is half Polish/half Italian and can have a bad temper. It definitely comes from her mom’s side (Sicilian) because her dads side (Polish/Lithuanian) is just as cool and calm as could be.
Love My Poland! Heck my ancestry is even more complicated. Lol. On my mother’s side there’s Mexican Native (Yaqui); Dutch; French; and Javanese (Indonesian), and on my father’s side there’s Norwegian; Icelandic; Irish; and Welsh. Talk about a mix, huh?
honestly the things you mention are realtively true, but they may be arguable depending on generation and region I assume. E. g. to be frank, I have NEVER came across any kind of dancing on family celebrations (maybe apart from weddings), most of my friends are not really the kind to shout or be any kind of passive agressive, especially in public. But what's worth mentioning is that I noticed more of this kinds of arguments you mentioned just beetween for example mother and daughter only and more often in families from smaller towns rather than big cities and more old dated ones. Although about being a gentleman and paying for her meal - in my experience that's really true! I mean it really depends on a girl and the paying part is changing a bit, but when you do pay for her (also for example for her museum/cinema/theatre etc. ticket) it's more like, it shows that it is a date and not just a meeting (unless there are circumstances that show that it's not a date even though he's paying). But when you pay for her or if you are a gentleman that shows that you are cultural, you know how to behave, you were raised well and care for her and in general it just feels nice :)
Podejście "know how" wynika tez w dużej mierze z tego, że kobiety cenią sobie nie tyle wiedzę, co zaradność. Rura przecieka? Pojedź po uszczelkę do Castoramy i napraw. Trzeba pomalować, lecisz po pędzel, farby i malujesz. Amerykańska gospodarka jest bardzo mocno oparta na serwisie, ale w polsce nie dzowni się po każdą duperelę do "specjalisty". Amerykanie do tego tak przywykli, że wielu traktuje to jak coś oczywistego, w granicznych przypadkach traktując pracowników jak "sługi" albo "niewolników", zapominajac, że to też są ludzie. Na koniec taka zaradność, świadczy o tym, że mężczyzna potrafi zadbać o dom, kiedy potrzeba jakiejś naprawy a do tego wiele (chyba większość) bardziej docenia fakt, że jakiś prezent jest zrobiony ręcznie, dla Niej, w miarę możliwości technicznych, od prezentu/zakupów ze sklepu, wydaniu pół wypłaty na coś co można zrobić samemu. Bardziej doceniają czas poświęcony, niż wartość samego prezentu. Jak to się mówi "it's the little things that matter".
I'm a pol and I live in Scotland since 2008 and I'm still single. There are not soo many beautiful girls in here and also not alot of polish girls. To be fear, I kinda prefer english girl then polish.
You are settled well in Poland now. You are seeing it, so you know it !!!! 9 of 10 !!!! Actually, I am even more behind these days than you can even think, bro !!!! :o))
There are exceptions to the rule - I'm a female and I hate dancing, probably will never learn, and I think I'd refuse to dance even at my own wedding, lol! My partner doesn't dance either, and also loves cooking (me, not so much). But I generally agree with all you said. Disappointing hearing about the level of knowledge in America though... Thanks for sharing your perspective!
They will expect from you to know how to cook and to like it. If your relationship become serious you will enjoy having the last say in the home and your decisions about everytking in familly will be the law. But there is also price, you will be responsible for children health and education. It will be your bit to keep familly feed and house clean. Some guys will share the house duties but it likely will be them 'hepling you in your duties'. Perhaps right thing to do will be to use your powers to 'train' the partner to participate in house routines.
I'm 21 and most of my girl friends (and me) don't expect the man to always pay for us :) We like to split, especially when it's our first date together. Later when you're in a relationship or close to being in one, it usually works in an kind of exchange-based dynamic, for example he invites her to a restaurant and he pays but the next date is proposed by her and she buys tickets to a concert of the band they both like. Or they go to the cinema and he buys the tickets but she buys popcorn for both oft them. Of course, some young girls still expect the man to pay for them but I'd say it's not more than a half and it depends on the people you hang out with and where you live, I live in Łódź (3rd largest city in Poland) and consider myself liberal, so do most of my friends but I'm guessing at the countryside, in more conservative communities "The man pays" is probably more common. You wonder if it changes with the young generation - I'd say it surely is changing :) And I think it's great, some guys (not the great kind haha) may expect something in return for paying for the woman but if it works like I described, once he pays, once she pays, there's no such issie and all is fair. PS. I was talking about her and him but it's the same for the LGBT community from what I know :)
I’m 19 and American and am visiting Poland for the first time. I met this Polish girl through friends about a week ago and am interested in her. I got her WhatsApp and am hoping to see her again before I leave in a few days. However I don’t want to come on too strong, would asking to see her again before I leave be too much to a typical polish girl or do you think it would be fine? So far we haven’t texted each other yet but we have met 3 or 4 times now. I don’t know if that’s too much and could be viewed as an invasion of privacy or something like that. Because I know some other cultures like French girls can be like that at times, especially from an American. Thanks so much for the great vid!
WHy do you think Polish dating sites like Sympatia are full of women only looking for super long term relationships and mr right rather than mr right now or just flings and romances?
I'm not Polish. But I full on agree with number 3. I am that way. I have a horrible temper. But once I let it out I'm ok and I normally don't hold on to whatever made me mad.
Oh... What..? Jeez, no! Where did you look for a girlfriend? At a farm? ^^" Sorry if I'm being rude, but it sure sounds like it. I'm a Polish woman and honestly, I feel a little offended of what you said here. First of all - don't look for a partner in a nightclub - unless you look for a short hook-up (sure, there are exceptions to that but that's all). #1 'mamushka' is more of a Russian phenomenon as far as I heard... Yes, I introduced eventually my partner to my parents (because why not?) But their opinion had little importance to my relationship. I don't take my partner to my family all that much either... Sure, there will be girls who like to hug momma's skirt but they are NOT the norm. Trust me. #2 Yeah, I can't dance either. Guess what - it's not a problem for me. #3 Is that a problem that women have an opinion..? My partner is happy that I'm not just a doll to look at. And no, Polish women don't have a tendency to scream at the top of their lungs in the middle of a street. This is why I suspected you dated either very immature individuals or ones raised on small farms and it was extremely offending to me. #4 I was the one to force half paying... I'm over 30 years old. And being a gentleman is not required but come on - of course it will help! #5 Oh come on, you don't need to know any Polish history or anything! But have any topic you can talk about. Be it traveling, animals, cooking, whatever. Or do you want only to look in the eyes of the other person and say nothing? #6 It sounded so wrong - pretty much like 'be rich or else no woman will want you'. Yes, we as Polish people often have a complex of being treated as poor or uneducated. It's troublesome but not unfounded. But it's not true that you can't find anyone if you have small ambitions. Simply - you have to find smb who has similar ambitions to you. It's also a problem if you have too high ambitions and the woman you're interested in doesn't. What can I say? You just have to pick smb similar to you and not spread silly rumors.
I think he is very observant :-) as a woman & mother I have to agree with most of it. I have lived in metropolia cities most of my life but do not mind farms and villages where people tend to be more conservative. There is no reason to be so uptight & offended. Just take it with little bit of distance. My mom taught us 30 years ago to split bills with dates (boys). I get she did the same 50-6- years ago. However, men gesture to take responsibility to pay was always welcomed. It does not mean it was usually accepted. Now, I teach the same my daughters. I wish my parents made comments about my dates when I was an adult. Maybe I would not be as open & would choose wiser?
From my perpective he was right in most of the think although few were exagerated. I think you didn't understant the last point. It was not about being rich but about wanting something more from life and not relaying on others when it comes to money.
Tell me, where does being the smartest guy in the room get you? In Poland? In America? It's not about being the person with the highest education. It's the man with a dream and the motivation to take it. The American dream has nothing to do with education... And in Poland, you're working for a simpleton. Seen it a thousand times
@Marcel Huchwajda yes, ignorance is frowned upon. But define intelligence. Geography knowledge? IT knowledge? Literary knowledge? Political? Historical? Where do we start and how much do we require without falling behind in an increasingly fast paced world? This is America's problem we aren't lacking by choice. There is no conspiracy to dumb us down. We have to be effective in the work force, and many people in Poland have knowledge that just doesn't necessarily help them succeed.
I dont mean that we the smartest, there is a lot of smart ppl everywhere and there is no dumb nations. I just wanted to share that compered to Poland school in america was sooo easy for me and teachers were way easier on you. And because of that most kid were using teachers that belived everything. And I feel like it got me really lazy as teachers litteraly would belive me that i dont have my homework done because on my way to school i got kidnaped by aliens and they stole my backpack. And kids there were using it (me too) and most of student were just lazy and rather making excuses instead of just getting work than. (90% of my teachers were like that) but I think that there is no point of good education for everyone. If u wanna be a pizza guy or store cashier y u have to waste so much time to have all that unessesery knowledge. We do need education but I think it should be more practical. And the knowledge should be diffrent for every individual as everyone is diffrent and will do diffrent things on life
Im hungarian and i dated a polish girl and i realized that. She is my true love. But I did something wrong and i want to fix what i did and idk how :( Me and her had a long distance relationship and i wanted to travel to her and meet her. But she doesn't wanted. I just want to ask. How i can bring her back? 😢
Szczera prawda 👌
And never change ❤️
teściowa nigdy cię nie lubi i nigdy nie polubi :D
a moze byc NIESZCZERA?! prawda to prawda. period.
@@cray97w36 < A moja ex tesciowa, to po rozwodzie od razu zarzyczyla mowic do siebie: "prosze pani" - a nie mamo !!!! Screw you - even better :o))
I'm Polish guy who is listening about how to date Polish women from a American xD
About advice for non Polish guys 😜
Must tell my wife xD
Same
And I think we spell an American not “a American “
To słabo świadczy o Twoim powodzeniu, lub dobrze o twojej ciekawości (jeśli, tak jak ja, uznać niewinną ciekawość za pozytywną cechę) 😂😂😂
True. Every mama has 6th sense about boyfriends.
Being pleasant to mum is one thing but the most important thing is to be in the first place is to be honestly sincere about it. Mothers are very observant and they easily sense pretending.
Absolutely right!
true
There's no excuse not to have a girlfriend
ouch
Nub
Or boyfriend. Yeah, didn't like that part.
I have one serious enough "excuse" - I don't like people. I am straight, therefore I am pointing girls right now because of my sexuality, but the longer I talk to girls and women, in general, the more I dislike playing with them and putting any emotional effort towards them. Most of them are not worth it, just like most of the guys are not worthy of being my friend.
Jajajajajjajaja
@@PsicologoJulioNieto you laugh in español :o
As an outsider, one of the best things in my youth was growing up in a Polish neighborhood. All of my friends were Polish; they were tough, stubborn, hardworking, and religious. At that time (the late 1950s) in order to date a Polish girl you first had to get permission from her brothers. They knew your reputation and if they told her that you were not dating material you were definitely history. And if she didn't have any brothers she would rely on her friends brothers.
Love hearing things like this. Thanks for sharing! 😊
Which neighborhood did you grow up in?
@@andzelikasmusz8935 I lived on the 4900 block of Magoun Ave. East Chicago, IN. I lived just a few houses North of Saint Stanislaus Catholic Church.
On a tour of Poland, I had the honor of visiting Kraków's Wawel Cathedral and praying at the reliquary of Saint Stanislaus.
@@mrbill2600 amazing 👏
😎👍🏼
I spent my youth in Poland. I studied there. My wife is from Poland of course. Polish women are the best.
@Angelina
Po polsku sie mowi 'prosze?'
But in English say, 'Excuse me!?'
Thank you. 🙂😊
I am a Polish woman and I totally agree! We are a unique combination of everything a woman is. We are beautiful, passionate, loving, caring. When we get angry, we don't hide it. When we are happy, the world knows it. We are like fire. Only experienced should be near us. 😉
@@lidiastrong3005 And you feel better now?🤣🤣
@@KrissowskiM Bad choices.
@@KrissowskiM Are all polish man alcoholic?! If that true, than you are too!
I met my Polish wife through her roommate, who was my ESL student here in NY. We all went together to a club and the rest is history. 13 years married in 2019
Amusing but I don’t think this differs from anywhere else in the world, in essence. Be a decent guy, respectful, well-mannered, cultured and ambitious. I think most women, no matter where they’re from would say that’s what they look for in a man.
As for the “hot tempered and headstrong” I don’t really agree. Polish girls are raised to be strong, independent and to have confidence in themselves. They are raised by their mothers and grandmothers who had to be strong through Poland’s recent history. This isn’t temper, this is strength of character.
Well put dow
You are not a man, you never dated women AND ou never dated foreign women. You have zero knowledge on the subject and your opinion is irrelevant. "Be a decent guy, respectful, well-mannered, cultured and ambitious. " Women give just the worst advice possible. "Be a dick, but make it funny"
Vonatar great comment! spot on!
Ryszard Bizon Thanks for that, but my Polish wife would disagree 😀
@@sirgallant5000 You sound like a whiny incel haha
About the temper, I'm Polish and what I usually hear from my Spanish friends is 'oh I wish girls in Spain were so reasonable as polish girls'. Also, no, most 20-25year polish girls won't ask you to pay for anything. Its the thing of the past, especially in the cities.we do require respect tho. I enjoyed the video, keep up the good work
Paying is not so simple so you can say "man always pays". The general rule is that the one who invite pay. So it is even possible, that girl will pay for a date. But of course men often suggest that they will do it anyway. But the most important thing is to do not force anyone. If a guy says that he want to pay and girl says "no", just accept it. I would say, that it is good for man to suggest that he will pay, but if a woman don't want it, then don't force her and let her pay for herself.
@@jekubos Preech, man, preech! ^_^ Plus, I would add, do not feel offended when it's the woman that wants to pay for a meal/ coffee/ drink- do not argue, just say "Thank you" and smile. :)
Don't tell my boyfriend, cause he is paying for most things and I find it sweet 🤣
Are you high or something? Or simply a liar?
Don’t buy into that crap! As you can see in responses from Polish women - they are materialistic as fuck...
When I was about to meet my wife's parents for the first time, she seemed very concerned with it. Finally she told me why: her father was worried about whether I could drink vodka, as foreigners usually had an issue with it.
To me it was a relief to hear that, though. I figured I'll be just fine: Lonely Planet Polish phrasebook had told me that "only Russians and Finns can match prodigious vodka consumption of the Poles", and I have this perk of being a Finn.
I am from Philippines my husband is Polish..
I'm in love with a Phillipina and am 100 percent Polish
Girls from the Philippines are great. I am 100 percent Polish
I live in Poland for almost all my life and i haven't met any single girl that wants you to pay the bill for her
I am sorry. It is a nice gesture that you are being deprived of...
It's not about wanting to pay for you. They will pay for themselves, but they quietly expect that you'll at least offer to pay. I have always paid for myself, but if a guy wouldn't offer to pay - well, it was a little bit weird.
@@Railie777 amen!
@@Railie777 I would say it depends from a person. I'm also a Polish girl and I feel very uncomfortable when someone offers to pay for me. I don't think that men should offer paying, this idea is strange for me and very old fashioned.
I like it when a guy pays for me or at least offers to
"Mamusha"
Mateczka Rassija.
one thing - night club in poland usually means a strip club. Keep that in mind not to get into awkward situations. General rule of thumb for dealing with parents: you need to impress the father to get the girl and mother to get the guy
W Polsce kobieta ma bardzo silną pozycję.Matka Żona Babcia to pierwsza linia możesz z nimi walczyć początkowo wydaje ci się że odniosles sukces ale pozornie. Przegrasz zawsze.W Polsce jest matryjarchat. Czy to się komuś podoba czy nie.Winna jest nasza historia my szliśmy na dzikie pola a one rządziły.Potem byly powstania i znowu chłopów brakło. One rządziły.Ale ja niemam nic przeciwko temu. Sprawdziły się.
Interesting history, thanks!
Tomek Tuchowski Powiedz to feministkom, kamień na kamieniu nie pozostanie ;)
Ale dalej większość panów ma problem przywitać się też z kobietą podczas podawania sobie ręki w gronie głównie mężczyzn. To na pewno z szacunku i strachu :O
Kala El Część Pań nie ma z podaniem sobie ręki problemu, a część na wyciągnięcie ręki robi dziwne spojrzenia i wymowne gesty. To jak się witamy to niepisane zasady które poznajemy w trakcie życia, bo nie ma jednego jedynego słusznego sposobu witania się. Wielu mężczyzn prawdopodobnie ma podobne doświadczenia do moich i nauczyło się tego przez takie niemiłe sytuacje. (Pewnie wielu ma też inne i robi to z innego powodu, lub są po prostu niemiłymi ludźmi) Wydaje mi się że gdybyś była na miejscu mężczyzn, szybko zrozumiała byś dlaczego tak jest chociaż sam nie potrafię tego wytłumaczyć.
@@idontfeelsogood2063 szczerze nie znam żadnej kobiety, która obraża się, bo mężczyzna się z nią wita.
Rozumiem ten argument, ale postaw się też na miejscu kobiety - która jest wykluczona z grupy (najczęściej nawet dołączający na nią nie spojrzy) a uzasadnieniem "dlaczego" jest to, że kiedyś jakaś jedną kobieta krzywo spojrzała.
It was easier for you because your girlfriend helped you and her parents not fluent in English so they could not ask you so many questions but usually this is what happens when you come to pick up their daughter they would interrogate you and ask so many questions and tell you to make sure you get her back safely and early home
Fajny chłop z Ciebie. Fajnie się ogląda i słucha. Wszystkiego najlepszego w Nowym Roku.
Dziękuję Ci barrrrdzo! Szczęśliwego Nowego Roku!
As a polish girl I can confirm, this is 100% true
Gabriela are you single
Currently trying to date a girl in Poland. I’m really excited yet scared for what’s to come, but she is quite the best and funniest person I’ve ever met. She is really far away from me but lucky for her I can fly her here with me where she belongs, with her Romeo. Wish me luck!
Wow! Naprawdę przestudiowane! Cieszę się, że się tego podejmujesz! Tylko jedno: nie wszystkie polki są takie kłótliwe jak sądzisz hahaha. I... Nie spotkałam się jeszcze z tak popularnym tańcem. Jak widać, młodsze pokolenie jest mniej chętne do tego. Bardzo ci dziękuję za ten film!!!
Woah! I'm so happy for you making this! I have only one thought: not every polish woman is so moody and likes arguing, yelling all the time, like you think hahah. And... I didn't see so many dancing people. Maybe young people aren't so keen on dancing nowtimes. But, lots of thanks for that video!!!
Sorry it took me so long to finally watch the video I requested. So interesting. I love your videos! Thanks old friend!!!
No problem. Thanks, Jessman!
What an interesting perspective. I like your movies as I can find out how you see us, Poles and now, women as well. Sometimes is funny, surprising, sometimes I don’t agree but always I have something to think about. It’s enriching, thank you! Keep going :)
niezłe, dobrą robotę ogarniasz nam tu w internetach człowieku, #props
Ferdynand Wspanialy widac ze jestes nowy w Internetach....
PRO-GAMER-COM-PL reklamując nasze sprzedajne szony robi dobra robotę?
@Daniel Menefrego ale wy jestescie stereotypowi i strasznie kkrytyczni wobec kogos. Szony to wy jestescie. Tak jak facet moze sie umawiac z kim chce tak i kobieta. Przez takich jak wy polska ma opinie bycia ciemnogrodem.
@Daniel Menefrego opinia jedno obrazanie drugie. Uzywanie pejoratywnych wyrazen wzgledem kogos nie jest wyrazaniem tyle opinii co zwyklego chamskiego obrazania.
@Daniel Menefrego ponadto stwierdzasz w swojej takzwanej opinii ze szanujace sie kobiety nie beda z zagranicznymi. O ile to muzulmanin ktory ze względu na swoja religie nie moze jej szanowac to nie ma podstaw do stwierdzenia ze dana osoba sie nie szanuje.
True :) So, maybe next episode abut Polish wedding? :)
Coming!
Including video footage :D
Love My Poland! Gonna be interesting. Can’t wait ✌️😁
That's a beautiful balcony & garden!
Great video + nice scenery, thanks!
From my experience: you'd have to impress my mum but never by buying her gifts. She judges how much a guy loves me from the way he looks at me or talks to me.
Also, interesting - yes, rich - no. It's important to us that a guy has energy and passion. The more hobbies he has, the better. If he has an interesting job (like professional traveller or a cook) that's even better.
And in terms of splitting the bill, I think it should be proportional to how much you earn. So if you earn twice as much as me I'll pay every third time.
You give very interesting observations about culture. Thank you
I'm dating a Polish girl and even though she was raised in America all of this is still accurate to her.
damn, dating polish girl raised in america, im jealous
bad for you(((
Run while you can!
So true as a polish girl I can tell everything is true 😂 and Mamusia is most important ❤️
Family Matters❤️
😂😂😂
My mother never said anything about who I'm dating, but we never been too close. However, I know girls whose best friend is their mother.
I couldn't stop laughin at some of your dating tips, especially about getting to know a lil bit of Polish history to impress 'his' date's dad, uncle, etc.. :D Good job and I'm sure it works! :D (no sarcasm at all!!! : ] )
No need to be rude lol
@@ceebee3083 Hmm? :|
I'm Polish and i definitely agree, i would be impressed by foreign people knowing my country's history...and my dad would be over the moon ;)
You are correct that Poles know more about America than Americans know about Poland. One of several books I read about Polish history was Adam Zamoyski's 1,000 years of Polish History. They've been around for a long time and their national anthem reflects that in the words, "We are still here".
Thank you for sharing this video!!! From USA!
What about dating a male?
I'm norwegian, planning on moving to Poland when I retire ☺
If you have anything valuable to contribute to our society, the udea of moving here could be acceptable. If, however, all you think about is to find a place you could anjoy- you are not welcome
Monika Marciniszyn Whaaaat?!😂
Hei, i live in Norway since 2008, I am dating Norwegian guy halv a year now. People are the same i would say, what makes difference is a culture. But this is not major in our case, more funny. So You can expect similar situation;) I think though that finding a Wright guy is same difficult as in Your own country, you need to kiss a plenty of frogs ;)
Don’t come! Keep the feminazi bullshit in your country! In Poland - no leftard ideas are welcomed and we don’t need scandinavian harpys!
@@KrissowskiM And how about ideas from incels like you?
As for paying for a girl, well yea, if you invite her somewhere, you better be prepared to pay but if it was a mutual initiative or she said something like "oh let's go *there*, in 90% of cases, she's going to pay for herself.
Cee Bee Hahahaha, where? In men paradise?
That’s true
Well
Boyyyyy
I’m a Polish woman living in US - & it’s astonishing but 9/10 you are correct. Some statements I would phrase differently or wouldn’t generalize that much but; overall 👍🏻
What was the 1/10 that was wrong? Lol
So you are saying that a 'good' girl comes from conservative catholic home? Pardon, wtf?
I mean, 99% of Poles are Catholics soooo
@@pankarmelek3372 just statistics. From my background I can say that less then a half of the population
@@marlenakoperfilt9416 and from *my* background (I'm Polish) almost everyone I know is Catholic. Poland is historically a very Catholic country and that's a fact. And isn't "less than half of the population" a statistic too?
@@pankarmelek3372 im just trying to point that this guy has limiting beliefs. Like how can you put 20milion women into one sack? And on top of that say that a good partner is conservative catholic? Just think about it
I agree with Marlena, I don't think that so many people are conservative catholic, at least from my point of view
Currently dating a polish girl, it's so difficult, she gets mad a lot, hence why I'm here, I agree when you say about being a gentleman but I would treat every date the same, I'd still open car doors and pull out chairs especially if I liked them, that's universal, I also agree about family, she has 3 kids back in Poland and they are her first priority, don't get in the way of a polish mum especially when she's mad. I dated an Italian which honestly is much easier, they are easier to make happy. Thanks for the extra insight into dating polish women, I subscribed
In my experience, my wife can explode easily but gets over it in a flash. No passive aggressive crap. I prefer this method 😉
Dude I just laughed at your comment because me (I'm from the UK) and my gf (polish) just broke up. It would seems almost every day she would have a go at me about something...like I could never do anything right! I came to this video to understand her more. We won't be getting back together but it helps me understand where I went wrong. It seems the small things are big things for polish girls. I treated her well...took her to many cities in europe, paid for many things and treated her well...but it was small mistakes i didn't know I was making that would make her blow up every time. i just thought she was being dramatic. If I didn't txt her back within an hour it was a problem. My attention was important to her and I just thought she was needy. Culture definitely had a part in our break up. Are you still with your gf?
@@onlinejobsforpersonaltrain3148, maybe she was a malignant narcissist as my ex Polish girlfiend
1:30 You don't say. Having or not having a girlfriend/boyfriend has nothing to do with forms of communication. It's all up to you, your style, appearance, personality, etc.
I actually went searching for videos like this talking about the culture differences between the USA and Poland, specifically because on my study abroad trip to Poland, I met for the first time in my life a guy I was interested in. We met at a dance club a few times, and I was the one who asked him out on a date, which normally I had never done before, and even though my visit was short, we stayed in contact when I went back to the states through social media, chatting virtually almost everyday (though me being the positive american, I chatted way more than he did), and it would be about 7 months now as friends. Naturally, the more we've stayed in contact the more I want to get to know about his culture and about him, but im mostly hesitant to broach anything romantic since I'm not sure where he stands, what I can say or cant say haha.(for context, Im in my early 20's, and im Venezuelan American so a lot of polish culture like family and religion crosses over, so i really like that)
Americans are more the type to go for it and be blunt, dating is more casual (I dont date since I have little time for it), and I can see interacting with a polish guy is more slow going , cautious, and not quick to put a label onour friendship since they seem more serious about commitment, which was novel to me. Naturally I got very curious on what all this meant from a polish guy in the 21st century
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As a venezuelan american woman, i can say with confidence a lot of the traits you mentioned about polish women are the same in my culture, so at least if I ever get the nerve to ask him out again seriously, he will be used to my temper hahaha!
on that note, Id love to see what poles say about dating culture from both women and men
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Grew up in Buffalo, NY. Love to go to Polka dances. Miss that alot!
First! :D
Yes! Polish mother-in-laws can be intimidating and many times purely destructive, and I really mean it.
There is even a short lyric about them: 'szła teściowa przez las, pogryzły ja żmije, żmije wyzdychały a teściowa żyje' which goes more-less like this 'mother-in-law went thru the woods and was bitten by vipers, vipers are dead now but mother-in-law very much alive'.
On the other hand polish fathers-in-law, the traditional ones are much, much easier going, especially if you know how to work with your hands (fixing cars or home improvements) and have moderate to high tolerance for adult beverages. :)
Man who is unable to work with his hands is commonly referred in Poland as 'Dupa' (Ass), and will score very low on a father-in-law scale, the only reprieve from that is if a dude makes really a shitload of money and can afford hiring people to do these jobs without hurting a home budget in a least. :D
You forgot; ABSOLUTELY MUST OPEN CAR DOOR FOR HER ...like an old-fashioned chauffeur!! They expect that! God forbid you get behind a wheel and press the door button or pull a lever on a pass side for her from the inside! You are TOAST as a dating material! LoL!
Thank you, Lysy2!
Love My Poland!
Anytime! Honestly...If I was to do it over again I would NEVER marry a Polish woman :) (Polska baba) LoL
It's not for a weak man, that's for sure!
@@ysy662 dump hher/divorce. marry ukrainka!
Gdzie ty zyjesz człowieku? Jakie otwieranie drzwi samochodu? Nikt tego nie robi od dekad! Wystarczy poobserwować zachowanie ludzi w miastach.
Ale dobrze ze zaczynasz cos tam z zycia rozumieć. Opisales nie teścia i teściowa tylko ogólnie sytuacje pokazująca różnice miedzy mezczyznami a kobietami. Zaczynasz juz rozumieć ze małżeństwo to toksyczna sprawa i nie służy mezczyznie. Czas na wiecej czerwonych pigułek - posłuchaj o MGTOW...
Polen is a very beautiful country!!
"" Polen"?? I dont think so
@@monikamarciniszyn7445 verfluchten polen
There is no" Polen". Just Polska
@@KubuśpuchatekTVN Another brainless creature?😁😁
@@monikamarciniszyn7445 chyba Ty 😘
True : impress mamusia and you good
Exactly
Actually, I really enjoyed this, thank you.
E tam słuchasz i nie słuchasz. Dobrych dziewczyn nie spotkasz w klubie czy w centrum - tylko jednorazowe przygody. Przez przyjaciół, przez rodzinę, przez zainteresowania.
Jak nie masz grubego hajsu przy dupie, to nawet przyjaciele, rodzina, zainteresowania nie pomogą. Dożyliśmy czasów, gdy dla kobiet the most important for women's are huge money and good job. ;)
Would a Romanian guy and a Polish girl get along ?
I am watching from Cairo, Egypt. Thanks a lot for this information
nice, my wife is polish though born here in the USA and has a lot of these traits. She even sent me a link to this video saying "see it's normal for us" lol.
Genes 😉👍
Love the way u speak, I can understand everything.
Greets from Wrocław
Hi! A lot.of videos talk about dating polish girls, I was wondering how are the men and why no one talk about it? :)
Btw I found your video and I'm happy you have a new follower! ^_^
I'll go to Poland soon.
Good question 😊
They will expect from you to know how to cook and to like it.
If your plans become serious you will enjoy having the last say in the home and your decisions about everytking in familly will be the law. But there is also price, you will be responsible for children health and education. It will be your bit to keep familly feed and house clean. Some guys will share the house duties but it likely will be them 'hepling you in your duties'.
Perhaps right thing to do will be to use your powers to 'train' the partner to participate in house routines.
@@LoveMyPoland I hope you will make a video for dating Polish men soon! I'm curious about what young boys are taught about dating and if the father or mother are the bigger influence on the young man. My teenage daughter has a male teenage penpal in Poland and I need some insight in case this becomes more than a friendship 😊
Men prefer to suffer in secret than to talk about their failures.
I live in Warsaw, lived in Kraków, Katowice - quite different experience in bigger cities. :)
Jo_asia Go you mean you are dating girls? Otherwise your opinion in this matter is irrelevant...
Your girlfriend at that time told her parents want they wanted to hear from you and convinced her parents you're nice guy because she loved you and still love you.
No, I was/am pretty good at articulating what I wanted to convey. But interesting comment to say the least.
I hate guys to jump to wrong concussion about Polish woman because I think they're very nice good girls and exelent mom and wifes. I have brothers and they told me American girls just too easy and I just told them please don't put all American girls to the same bascet because I am sure not all of them the same just because you had some bad experiences.
Sill I think your girlfriend now your wife helped you with that because it was up to her if she wantsto be your wife. You' was nice guy don't take me wrong and the way you was behaving politely and respectful at front of her parents (special her mother) helped because that just conformed you're the guy for her and they did not gave you hard time. Mother is close to her daughter specialy when they're in that age I am sure they been talking about you before you even had the chance to met her in person. I am sure your wife said nice things about you to her parents special her mom that's why her parents treated you the way they did because they knew their daughter was in love with you . Most of the girls not bring the boyfriend home to meet their parents if they are not serious about the guy because they know their parents will ask a lots of questions and don't want to deal with that themselves and put her boyfriend through. In your case since they could not ask you all the questions because of the language barrier they all asked their daughter more about you. Maybe I am wrong in your case because I was not there but I know if that were my parents they would definitely do that if I brought American to their house to meet my parents
nice garden man
U sąsiadów 🤙
A “night club” sounds sooo wrong for a polish viewer. It’s rather a place where men go to “watch” women doing “things” 😅
when talking about places destined for hanging out at night it’s much better to use “club” rather than a “night club” - but that’s for the Poles. Dont know about the rest of the world. But since you said it son comfortably I’m sure it has to be correct for the American audience
Your wife made it easier for you because you was from U.S. so if you did something wrong they just forgive you but if you was actually polish the mother and father we ask you a lot of question the same way like in United States when you was young.
How long did it take you too learn basic polish?
It took me about 3 months, BUT I had classes 5 days a week for 4 hours a day at certified school. I would expect a typical personal to become communicative in 6 mos to 1 year (assuming you put in the work ).
Love My Poland! , would you recommend something like babbel, or are face to face classes better?
Nazgul Lord what is your motivation to learn?
I've dated a Polish girl and she was by far the best girlfriend I've had (even though she unfortunately had spent years in the UK so had been influenced by the gender war nonsense stuff taking place there) I would actually like yo move to Poland as I've been there a number of times now and really love it, the cities (Krakow, Gdansk and Gdynia) are gorgeous and have this sort of enduring feel to them, the country in the south is beautiful. But as someone who is fairly ambitious and can't doesn't much Polish (learned a bit but combining the fact I find it difficult and that I've heard even after 10 years of loving there, a lot of people are still hard to understand for locals when speaking Polish) what sorts of jobs would even be available or realistic to get for foriegn people? Keeping in kind I want to move there to be a part of society and because I love the culture and people from what I've seen, and yes....the women are absolutely amazing and ridiculously attractive. Not sure if it's realistic but I would love to meet a nice Polish girl and settle down. They have something special I can't quite out into words that nobody else does, and I'm pretty well traveled.
I hope you find a good one again. There really is a special something that is hard to articulate in Polish girls 😊
So true! As a Polish woman I need to say that I would not change a word in this clip :)
You’re right 🥰
Hello 👋, hope you’re doing good today??
How did you met your wife? How long you was dating her? How was your first date? How diid you ask her to marry you? How many girls you been dating before your wife in Poland?
Hi and good job for the channel…is English commonly use in Cracow and in general in Poland? On 10 people how many speak English fluently? Thanks a lot
Many young people can speak English fluently in Cracow 💪
Well I'm Polish and I don't really care what my mum thinks of my decisions, hate dancing
But the temper, ambition and intelligence are true 😊😁
Russel, please tell us who will you be rooting for on Saturday 23 July in the semi-finals of the world league in volleyball :)? Poland has just advanced and both teams will play with each other :)
Since volleyball matters much, much more to Poles than it does to Americans, I'm pulling for Poland 💪💪💪
all right lads will try what he said, i have a date with a polish girl on Sat.. wish me luck guys
Great video man I am Irish and Italian and German my mom keeps telling me I am either polish or Slovak are Slovak or polish women hard to date?
Polish women are hard to date, yes. Unless you can handle a very strong - willed woman 💪. I'm still working on it 😉
Love My Poland! Awesome man I didn’t know that haha seems Slovak women are relax and chill same with Irish women haha
Love My Poland! True, strong willed, ambitious, and prefer an intelligent guy with good manners. They are also hard working and loyal.
It's not about nationality... it's all about personality.
If the Polish girl say she is a model run fast she is not about your best interest and she starts asking you to take pictures of here
mate! i love your clips. sooner
or later i really hope meeting you:)
American dating sounds quite different from English dating as well
I think most of the stuff you've mentioned makes sense in smaller cities or more traditional families (or your experiences are slightly outdated since you're married now) :D As someone who lives in Warsaw I can't imagine any of my friends letting a guy pay on a date (in extreme cases it is also considered offensive :D), making a scene in public or letting their mothers interfere in their relationship :D I also can't dance at all :D Great video though, I absolutely love your channel!
Warsaw is where the hos live. That's the exception
Roll Tide ... and I love your channel!
Roll Tide Roll! 🐘🐘🐘
Polish girls sound like a perfect fit
iam Indonesian, I would like moving to Poland, so interesting 😍
My wife is half Polish/half Italian and can have a bad temper. It definitely comes from her mom’s side (Sicilian) because her dads side (Polish/Lithuanian) is just as cool and calm as could be.
Wow! What a mix. 😮
Love My Poland!
Heck my ancestry is even more complicated. Lol. On my mother’s side there’s Mexican Native (Yaqui); Dutch; French; and Javanese (Indonesian), and on my father’s side there’s Norwegian; Icelandic; Irish; and Welsh. Talk about a mix, huh?
@@Erik_C_251 I love it! You are blessed 😊
Love My Poland! Thank you. Btw love your videos and I live in Lower Alabama so obviously I love your shirt.
Dziekuje :-) I'm sharing it with my Nepalese boyfriend :-) Thank you so much for the tutorial x
You cracked it! As a non-dancer I had to compensate in other areas.
Good stuff! Realy like your vids.
honestly the things you mention are realtively true, but they may be arguable depending on generation and region I assume. E. g. to be frank, I have NEVER came across any kind of dancing on family celebrations (maybe apart from weddings), most of my friends are not really the kind to shout or be any kind of passive agressive, especially in public. But what's worth mentioning is that I noticed more of this kinds of arguments you mentioned just beetween for example mother and daughter only and more often in families from smaller towns rather than big cities and more old dated ones.
Although about being a gentleman and paying for her meal - in my experience that's really true! I mean it really depends on a girl and the paying part is changing a bit, but when you do pay for her (also for example for her museum/cinema/theatre etc. ticket) it's more like, it shows that it is a date and not just a meeting (unless there are circumstances that show that it's not a date even though he's paying). But when you pay for her or if you are a gentleman that shows that you are cultural, you know how to behave, you were raised well and care for her and in general it just feels nice :)
Podejście "know how" wynika tez w dużej mierze z tego, że kobiety cenią sobie nie tyle wiedzę, co zaradność. Rura przecieka? Pojedź po uszczelkę do Castoramy i napraw. Trzeba pomalować, lecisz po pędzel, farby i malujesz. Amerykańska gospodarka jest bardzo mocno oparta na serwisie, ale w polsce nie dzowni się po każdą duperelę do "specjalisty". Amerykanie do tego tak przywykli, że wielu traktuje to jak coś oczywistego, w granicznych przypadkach traktując pracowników jak "sługi" albo "niewolników", zapominajac, że to też są ludzie. Na koniec taka zaradność, świadczy o tym, że mężczyzna potrafi zadbać o dom, kiedy potrzeba jakiejś naprawy a do tego wiele (chyba większość) bardziej docenia fakt, że jakiś prezent jest zrobiony ręcznie, dla Niej, w miarę możliwości technicznych, od prezentu/zakupów ze sklepu, wydaniu pół wypłaty na coś co można zrobić samemu. Bardziej doceniają czas poświęcony, niż wartość samego prezentu. Jak to się mówi "it's the little things that matter".
I'm a pol and I live in Scotland since 2008 and I'm still single. There are not soo many beautiful girls in here and also not alot of polish girls. To be fear, I kinda prefer english girl then polish.
🤔 Interesting
@@LoveMyPoland I live longer in there then in poland nearly 11years and in poland only 7 years. My polish in not fluent so maybe that's why.
Polish your english and maybe you’ll get lucky one day mate 😂
Perhaps it's the same reason why Polish girls also prefer foreigners to Polish guys! 🤔
Super odcinek
About dancing! When you're invited as +1 you MUST dance and maybe don't get drunk that's a good thing too :D
You are settled well in Poland now. You are seeing it, so you know it !!!! 9 of 10 !!!! Actually, I am even more behind these days than you can even think, bro !!!! :o))
There are exceptions to the rule - I'm a female and I hate dancing, probably will never learn, and I think I'd refuse to dance even at my own wedding, lol! My partner doesn't dance either, and also loves cooking (me, not so much). But I generally agree with all you said. Disappointing hearing about the level of knowledge in America though... Thanks for sharing your perspective!
u musst be a fat&ugly nerd with asperger. pitiful.
@@hankhenry8160 You gave me and my man such a laugh, thanks :D
What about dating Polish men? What tips or “rules” would you suggest for American ladies?
I am no expert sorry, but many of the points I mentioned are useful I think.
They will expect from you to know how to cook and to like it.
If your relationship become serious you will enjoy having the last say in the home and your decisions about everytking in familly will be the law. But there is also price, you will be responsible for children health and education. It will be your bit to keep familly feed and house clean. Some guys will share the house duties but it likely will be them 'hepling you in your duties'.
Perhaps right thing to do will be to use your powers to 'train' the partner to participate in house routines.
what about an English woman wanted to date a polish man?
You dont deserve one
@@monikamarciniszyn7445 omg are you serious? Why are you aggressive?
I'm 21 and most of my girl friends (and me) don't expect the man to always pay for us :) We like to split, especially when it's our first date together. Later when you're in a relationship or close to being in one, it usually works in an kind of exchange-based dynamic, for example he invites her to a restaurant and he pays but the next date is proposed by her and she buys tickets to a concert of the band they both like. Or they go to the cinema and he buys the tickets but she buys popcorn for both oft them. Of course, some young girls still expect the man to pay for them but I'd say it's not more than a half and it depends on the people you hang out with and where you live, I live in Łódź (3rd largest city in Poland) and consider myself liberal, so do most of my friends but I'm guessing at the countryside, in more conservative communities "The man pays" is probably more common. You wonder if it changes with the young generation - I'd say it surely is changing :) And I think it's great, some guys (not the great kind haha) may expect something in return for paying for the woman but if it works like I described, once he pays, once she pays, there's no such issie and all is fair. PS. I was talking about her and him but it's the same for the LGBT community from what I know :)
I’m 19 and American and am visiting Poland for the first time. I met this Polish girl through friends about a week ago and am interested in her. I got her WhatsApp and am hoping to see her again before I leave in a few days. However I don’t want to come on too strong, would asking to see her again before I leave be too much to a typical polish girl or do you think it would be fine? So far we haven’t texted each other yet but we have met 3 or 4 times now. I don’t know if that’s too much and could be viewed as an invasion of privacy or something like that. Because I know some other cultures like French girls can be like that at times, especially from an American. Thanks so much for the great vid!
Thanks. I think you should go for it, personally. Just don't be creepy 😏
Love My Poland! Thanks so much! I’ll be visiting your channel quite a bit especially if things fall through! Keep it up man!
...about moms that is not real, we decide with who we date, if mother like him...that is perfeck but if not....we still date :)
Many still value their parents opinion most of all.
Great video!
WHy do you think Polish dating sites like Sympatia are full of women only looking for super long term relationships and mr right rather than mr right now or just flings and romances?
I'm not Polish. But I full on agree with number 3. I am that way. I have a horrible temper. But once I let it out I'm ok and I normally don't hold on to whatever made me mad.
its so funny to hear this especially that im polish haha
Your so nice marta krawczyk...
Cute.
Polish are actually very well mannered.
Oh... What..? Jeez, no! Where did you look for a girlfriend? At a farm? ^^" Sorry if I'm being rude, but it sure sounds like it. I'm a Polish woman and honestly, I feel a little offended of what you said here.
First of all - don't look for a partner in a nightclub - unless you look for a short hook-up (sure, there are exceptions to that but that's all).
#1 'mamushka' is more of a Russian phenomenon as far as I heard... Yes, I introduced eventually my partner to my parents (because why not?) But their opinion had little importance to my relationship. I don't take my partner to my family all that much either...
Sure, there will be girls who like to hug momma's skirt but they are NOT the norm. Trust me.
#2 Yeah, I can't dance either. Guess what - it's not a problem for me.
#3 Is that a problem that women have an opinion..? My partner is happy that I'm not just a doll to look at.
And no, Polish women don't have a tendency to scream at the top of their lungs in the middle of a street. This is why I suspected you dated either very immature individuals or ones raised on small farms and it was extremely offending to me.
#4 I was the one to force half paying... I'm over 30 years old. And being a gentleman is not required but come on - of course it will help!
#5 Oh come on, you don't need to know any Polish history or anything! But have any topic you can talk about. Be it traveling, animals, cooking, whatever. Or do you want only to look in the eyes of the other person and say nothing?
#6 It sounded so wrong - pretty much like 'be rich or else no woman will want you'. Yes, we as Polish people often have a complex of being treated as poor or uneducated. It's troublesome but not unfounded. But it's not true that you can't find anyone if you have small ambitions. Simply - you have to find smb who has similar ambitions to you. It's also a problem if you have too high ambitions and the woman you're interested in doesn't.
What can I say? You just have to pick smb similar to you and not spread silly rumors.
I think he is very observant :-) as a woman & mother I have to agree with most of it. I have lived in metropolia cities most of my life but do not mind farms and villages where people tend to be more conservative. There is no reason to be so uptight & offended. Just take it with little bit of distance. My mom taught us 30 years ago to split bills with dates (boys). I get she did the same 50-6- years ago. However, men gesture to take responsibility to pay was always welcomed. It does not mean it was usually accepted. Now, I teach the same my daughters.
I wish my parents made comments about my dates when I was an adult. Maybe I would not be as open & would choose wiser?
From my perpective he was right in most of the think although few were exagerated. I think you didn't understant the last point. It was not about being rich but about wanting something more from life and not relaying on others when it comes to money.
I have to agree with the dancing, most girls like to dance, but Polish girls take it to another level, they can go all night.
Ppl in america and school is a joke, I moved there for high school and had pretty much review for 3y rs. They like atleast 2/3yrs behind
Tell me, where does being the smartest guy in the room get you? In Poland? In America? It's not about being the person with the highest education. It's the man with a dream and the motivation to take it. The American dream has nothing to do with education... And in Poland, you're working for a simpleton. Seen it a thousand times
@Marcel Huchwajda yes, ignorance is frowned upon. But define intelligence. Geography knowledge? IT knowledge? Literary knowledge? Political? Historical? Where do we start and how much do we require without falling behind in an increasingly fast paced world? This is America's problem we aren't lacking by choice. There is no conspiracy to dumb us down. We have to be effective in the work force, and many people in Poland have knowledge that just doesn't necessarily help them succeed.
@Marcel Huchwajda Right. I think there's much more to this, but it would be best not to post my opinion on UA-cam. Let's say I hear ya 👍
I dont mean that we the smartest, there is a lot of smart ppl everywhere and there is no dumb nations. I just wanted to share that compered to Poland school in america was sooo easy for me and teachers were way easier on you. And because of that most kid were using teachers that belived everything. And I feel like it got me really lazy as teachers litteraly would belive me that i dont have my homework done because on my way to school i got kidnaped by aliens and they stole my backpack. And kids there were using it (me too) and most of student were just lazy and rather making excuses instead of just getting work than. (90% of my teachers were like that) but I think that there is no point of good education for everyone. If u wanna be a pizza guy or store cashier y u have to waste so much time to have all that unessesery knowledge. We do need education but I think it should be more practical. And the knowledge should be diffrent for every individual as everyone is diffrent and will do diffrent things on life
@Marcel Huchwajda 👍
Pretty cool vídeo and clear without getting ethnical.
Im hungarian and i dated a polish girl and i realized that. She is my true love. But I did something wrong and i want to fix what i did and idk how :(
Me and her had a long distance relationship and i wanted to travel to her and meet her. But she doesn't wanted. I just want to ask. How i can bring her back? 😢
😁 very good observations.
this was hilarious...i was laughing a lot 😅
About what its all true...