The average American is one pay check away from being homeless so I won’t judge the attic guy, but it’s important as men to have a priority’s right. Maybe dating shouldn’t be your main focus right now.
@@JaysRandomnessChannel well, clearly she doesn’t think that way because she clearly stated “till death do us part”. There are wives out here that believe in being the helpmeet, sometimes the men overlook that because y’all too, are out here trying to have fun.
If any pookies or ray ray’s dare to dm Yauneek please know she will run a background check on you and contact local authorities on you, she not playing or up for games! 😂
lol we ran a check on her too. She has a beautiful home 👌🏽 lovely yard. I love the rocks lol 😂. Nah y’all better not play with auntie. She needs a good stable one because she offers a lot.
@@EsiriE Yeah, he had on a sweatshirt, some sweats, IN HIS HOUSE. It just sounds like some arbitrary old nibba babble that makes no sense. It sounds good, but when you think about it, wtf is dressing like a teenager, teenagers ACTUALLY strive to dress like adults in terms of casual wear, it's the age where they began to create their fashion identity and create fashion trends that inspire their generation. There's an entire UA-cam documentary about if people aged faster in the past, and most of it comes down to how you dress, but there isn't some goofy teenage attire when you dig deeper. It's just there are certain clothes that add the appearance of our social perspective of age. The guy in the OP profile pick looks old because of his suit type, configuration, and suitcolor, he looks like he's in his late 40s with his particular facial hair. Should we all dress like that to go to Walmart? Sit at home in a gray suit looking like Steve Harvey? People dress like they did when their generation inspired their fashion.
@@EsiriE Yeah, he was just wearing a sweat suit set, I wrote a lot and explained it all, but the comment auto removed. But yeah, it's arbitrary, there's studies on this, and no one born today is gonna dress like the guy in the OPs profile pic. The suit and facial hair style makes him look late 40s. I wrote about how there is a connection though, search, "did people age faster," but it's deeper than that, the video is surface level. Edit: NM original comment posted. Not meant to go in on you lol.
@@5thElement0560people wanna be comfortable. I’m 44 & wear sweats most the time cuz it’s comfortable. If I’m going somewhere important I’ll dress up & be uncomfortable,but as soon as it’s over I’m putting my sweats back on. No one wanna feel uncomfortable all day
Wishing Gerald all the best in reestablishing himself and trying to get his life in order! It's truly sad, the way some people joke about others living environment(s). Especially, when so many are struggling just to maintain and pay rent/mortgage... along with other basic needs. On average, over 6,000 households per day are threatened with eviction, so life can change at a moments notice for many. My prayer is, that we are more kinder and empathetic towards one another. And regardless of someone's bad choices in their past (multiple kids by various people), we all deserve the right to redeem ourselves and lives for a much better tomorrow. 🙏🏾
I remember growing up with formal dining room tables set like we were expecting company. We weren’t allowed in there unless we were dusting the plates and spoons. 😆
Most men, even strong men want soft feminine women. That lessens your dating pool by a lot. Only certain men want a woman that's exmillitary and identifies as strong.
It may be a strong misconception thinking strong men move by displaying their strength. If women of all cloths were opened to capable men, the dating market could be very different. Salute and thank you for your service sis.
@@JaysRandomnessChannel Femininity and fitness are beautiful qualities, but true SUBSTANCE lies in the depth of CHARACTER and the richness of the soul they bring to a relationship.
I get it, but we are trying to know everything and forgetting that in real life you might connect with that person. If we live in reality then we understand that if you live in a major city and you don’t have a partner then the smartest thing to do is to share and save, doesn’t mean you can’t date and travel and have a lot of savings. Why not look forward to getting a place together, everyone wants to move into a perfect set up, that’s not life.
she came on the show to tell kendra her relationship collapsed due to her watching the show. NOW THATS SOME FUNNI STUFF.. even on replays the comment section dont disappoint kendra your so blessed chile.
The show gave him confirmation for what he already knew…he was living in the twilight zone lmaooo…suddenly, he realized his worth 😅🤣😂. A lesson to the ladies who already have a man…don’t go chasing waterfalls when you already in a decent place.
All the men that have all these kids with multiple baby mommas were in their dog stage. No! You just hit the wall finally and your at Rock bottom in the attic .
Yeeessssss auntie!!!!! Yauneek out here making young girls look RAN THROUGH low level and sad! Where's her husband, let's go bro! Yauneek is awesome 👍🏾
I could be labeled a staunch critic of Kendra…but seeing her growth humbles me…her “living in the moment” comment is what this generation needs. I’m in technology more than any person in these chats (build them and break them to rebuild them) but the balance of turning them off to live is always a present thought…kudos Kendra ❤️❤️❤️
This idea that women need to get married in their 20s and 30s is ridiculous, I am happily married and didn’t get married until 40. Some people actually use wisdom and wait until they can offer their best so they don’t end up getting divorced. So many of you are criticizing Yauneek for being in her 50s and not married, so what. Now, if she had 5 kids and wasn’t married y’all still would’ve dogged her. Make it make sense, she’s a great catch hopefully a great guy finds her!
the marriage rate for blk women is 25%. whats the baby mama rate? now ask yourself again whats really ridiculous. its clearly not working out for the ones who didn't get married and spend their 20s and 30s having fun, babies, relationship trauma, and debt.
@@meloran2571 so not getting married young means it’s not working out? Wrong…some of us used common sense and didn’t have kids young, made the right choices, and have success in both career and marriage. We do exist….we aren’t unicorns.
I respect that she's not a BM👩🏾🍼 4x's over, or being reckless with the institution of marriage💒. But I think it's difficult for ppl (including me) to fathom why such a beautiful, well kept woman is unwed or without children at the age of 54. Now her career choice is most definitely a TOP reason -- blk ppl, especially blk men (even the law abiding ones), are NOT fans of law enforcement! Also, being around a male dominant industry may naturally make a woman MORE masculine. And if she's attracted to alpha-masculine men, then unfortunately she'll lose in the game of love ❤. Those men prefer femininity in not only looks but in character traits, in which she stated that she struggles with.
@@SweetTriece I’m not sure why there has to be something wrong with her because she isn’t married. Maybe take a different perspective that maybe she dodged some bullets in not getting married to the wrong men, and didn’t marry someone just to marry them. I don’t think that means there’s anything wrong with her.
@@DrLoveIsLima OK, let's be REAL 🙄 and stop ✋🏾 being or acting naive. If a person made it well into their 40's-50's who happens to be extremely beautiful/handsome, in pretty good shape, got there sh*t together, AND have ALWAYS wanted marriage (and a family), they will get scrutinized 🧐 in the dating market place as well as by their family. AGAIN, LETS KEEP IT REAL!! For example, if a EXTREMLY handsome, educated, well established man (a 6-6-6) came on the show at 54 stating that he had never been married, or had any children, but wanted both all of his adult life, ppl would assume he was GAY, too picky OR a playa'. Especially if he works in a field where he's surrounded by women. I don't create or enforce social stigmas, I just understand them and try not to live in dislusion when in "polite" discussion 🙂. ...and I never said anything was wrong w/ her. I do recognize that Blk women are much more likely to not get or be married. She is giving herself a winning chance by keeping up her physical appearance and not having (multiple) BD's. But in all honesty, in MY opinion, blk ppl (unlike other groups) look down on law enforcement. Note how KG responded when she mentioned her line of work. There was a brief moment of discomfort that I personally felt. But I could be wrong. Also women, unlike men, that work in law enforcement or in military 🪖 appear masculine by default. These same women want masculine men, but these masculine men may be intimidated by a woman who is THAT independent, and she could probably do a better job protecting them than the other way around 😆
Let’s normalize not embarrassing ppl. Kendra please use some wisdom when asking questions. Even if ppl pay to ask questions, still use wisdom. U don’t have to read everything ppl pay to ask. Yes it’s obvious he needs to get his priorities together but guess what we are all ONE paycheck away to being homeless or loosing everything & when these elites hit that switch everybody gonna be out unless u are covered by the Most High Yah. Let’s show a little more grace especially if the person is trying to get themselves together.
Doesn't look good when Yauneek was attempting to be deceptive about getting married to save her ego. Kendra: Were you engaged? Her: I was proposed to. Gotta love the honesty
I suspect she was embarrassed and ashamed about looking THAT good 🤩, who is also driven and financially stable, BUT wasn't able to, for OVER 30+ yrs, get at least ONE proposal 💍 and/or have gotten married 💒. That's probably a huge ego destoyer when you're as competitive as she said she is.
@@SweetTrieceif u have a circle of friends always propping u up, they’ll never bring that reality to light. She did say she was a workaholic. Those men might have not seen a space in her life for a man. Real men know that u r mostly squeezing yourself into a woman’s life hoping to get some attention from now and then (that’s why men develop hobbies).
I doubt she's single because she couldn't find men who wanted her. I think it's clear that she has placed her financial stability and career above her personal life. @@SweetTriece
why is being real considered shady? guests stay coming up here talking bout working out and hitting the gym when the kendra cam shows otherwise. last woman screaming gym couldn't even stand up for the kendra cam.
Kendra, I'm with him all the time, present and we do a lot together. Some of us are here to be entertained 😂😂 thats it. The most I would do is go in another room if im loud laughing while he sleep 😂😂 The nerve if her and him to think this was the issue.
Attic Man mentioned his hair is real. Sir, you are too old for these boneless braids and we don't care. Some women must hype him up about his hair. Men hit 40 and wanna try braids and mess. 😐 Can we go back to haircuts?!
Women get 15-18 and start chopping off hair they momma's worked hard to help grow since they were babies...then they wanna throw on weaves and wigs, can we go back to NATURAL hair? See how that works?
@jaysrandomnesschannel as someone who works in the industry and has serviced many people, that is untrue. I do not have people of that age sitting in my chair with that story. Since when are women aged 15, 16 and 17? Those are kids and you called them women? That's odd. However, I do have several men who sit in my chair, over 40 and finally want to try braids and plaits. I'm not sure where in the continents you reside but of all my years of being behind the chair I have yet to see a female of those ages and have chopped their hair with disregard of what mother supposedly helped grow. 🫢 Before I even responded I assumed you had to be a man of a certain age group who fit my statement. 🫣
@@ravencherokee so can we back to natural or nah? And you're right, most women chop their hair in their late 20s or early 30s when they have a great awakening and want to reinvent themselves by starting over in all facets.
@MenofValueSpeaks What do you mean natural hair? That's vague. 98% of my clients are natural and I've been a Cosmetologist for years so I'm lost on can we go back to natural hair. People are just not out here getting relaxers like back in the day. Now if you mean go back to hair that we are born with and styled without extensions/wigs then there's a point. But natural hair itself is a vague term.
@MenofValueSpeaks now I do agree with chopping around those ages but what he listed were kids and didn't make sense. For some reason a chop is the induction to a new life. I'm not someone who believes I have to cut my hair just because I found myself or on a new journey but yes, some women have certain beliefs and will.
@@DJ-ec9lnshe seemed masculine initially but as she continued and talked about being a police officer and military i understood. it was an initial assumption.
I think ppl come back that quick without an update when their interview is not with Kendra …. Maybe they feel it won’t get as many views if it’s not Kendra …. I wonder if anyone noticed that. Lemme know lol
Not just jamaican men but not all men in general will do that, that being said, I've dated a jamaican & he most certainly did (doubt religion has anything to do with it) lol
Yauneek spent her whole life in two male dominated fields, is competitive, and was able to remain feminine, pleasant, and presented herself well. Some bw will tell you the only reason they're masculine and have a nasty attitude is because they have to take on a "man's role" and get a job where they have to answer the phone and type.
She's a high ranking leo... she will want to dominate the relationship, and she's used to giving orders, she'll but heads with a guy, unless he submits... I assume that's what she's not married.... at 54, even if she is in shape. No man wants to deal with that much masculinity, you think you saw femininity, but she was in a relaxed state and all the signs lead to she will want a submissive man, one of those quiet men.
Woman who work in male dominated fields, especially those who work in uniform or construction boots, are more likely to lean into their "femininity " when they aren't working. Having to take on "a man's role" means having to be both mother and father to your children because the father doesn't provide financially or emotionally regardless of your job.
@maiwritesmovies0560 What societal norms/expectations lead us to question someone in their 50s desiring a passive partner, and what deeper assumptions about gender roles and power dynamics are embedded within those judgments?
I get being tall and the false sense of protection it provides for women. Yes, I say false sense because most y'all baby daddies that never married y'all were tall. But I digress. But before 35 women have to ask themselves if height is more important than getting married. Stats, which y'all hate say that short men are 32% less likely to divorce. Google it like I did.
The goalpost has moved yet again, NOW it is acceptable to brag about ALMOST getting engaged 🤦🏾♂️ She chose the career and it has afforded her the luxury of being able to buy fancy things but it clearly was at the expense of being able to have a meaningful relationship. Think about it, if she is this fine at 54 then how fine was she at 25 🤔
Well, when you hear 54 and never married OR children maybe she mentioned that because people try to shame you for never having done any of those things at her age.
She said she is competitive. That’s like Serena Williams not having her tennis rackets and tennis balls when she play. It shows she is willing to invest in what’s meaningful to her.
@@lifeisatripenjoytheride This woman is hardly Serena Williams and it’s hardly the same. However comparing this woman’s recreational bowling to the Genius of one of the greatest professional athletes of all time (male/female) truly encapsulates and defines the true delusion that woman are crippled by. That analogy is Ludicrous.
@@Issey_B_Devo Bowling is recreational for her but the correlation that I’m making is a woman who is competitive and is invested into something will spend the money, effort, and time into it. That’s not a masculine trait, that’s a person with a certain type of character and ambition. We see this with both sexes, I mentioned Serena Williams because she is female that does this on a larger scale. No different than Tiger Woods. People’s view of masculinity are skewed if they think that her mentioning having invested in bowling equipment makes her masculine. These traits are what separates the top from the rest. Ambition, time, and energy put into getting there and staying there but it starts with the little things.
I'm so confused why she called in to tell Kendra they broke up because of her watching the show? Maybe she needs someone to vent to but not on a live show
I bet he wishes🤞🏼he gets messaged by a woman with HER own spot cuz he appears like one of those dudes that plots his way into living ON a woman...but he eventually gets kicked out by her, begs his relatives to provide temporary shelter UNTIL he secures his next female victim. That's why he gave KG a year timeline b/c on average, that's been his time frame in getting a new girl to take him in 😂. ...A female Ray-Ray will take him in b/c she'll want her sheets warm and the batteries in her alarm system replaced 😂😂
@ 1:06:11 at the beginning of the interview, he said he's been inthe US a year then later inthe interview, he says 2yrs! Make it make sense sir!!🤔 Nonetheless, he made me laugh🤣🤣
Well you weren’t listening properly because Kendra ask me how long I was in new York (state) at the beginning of the interview and at the end she asked how long I had been in America 🇺🇸
So I suppose that means she comes to you that sounds a little bit dangerous in today’s world don’t you think? But I guess hookers have no fear (damn did I say the quiet stuff out loud damn ) 😂
idc idc i liked gerald and his kids are grown. he gone turn it around and make some woman happy. he is trying. now im not saying some one right now but i dont think he should be judged if i could live in someones attic and pay down debt i would.
For 53 yr old, Yauneek physically is attractive. There are some personality yellow flags that came across. Ultimately, she would seens to be suited for partner and not a husband. She has some Uber masculine traits that would rub a very traditional man the wring way over time. Military and other law enforcement types might not be a good fit. She would also be best with an older man who has a better probability of giving more grace for some of her masculine tendencies. Wish you well Mrs. Officer
No she never stated she slept with random man on her jorney to finding a man jerk. Can't say that if you don't really know where that person is coming from.
🤔How does the influence of media, such as dating shows, on personal relationships reflect broader societal values and expectations? And why might someone choose to end a relationship because of their partner's consumption of such media, compared to leaving due to other factors like incompatible values or communication issues?🤔
1:16:37 but realistically, she sound like a kid explaining and justifying when the get in trouble…. Like unfortunately…Kendra’s show is only one of the distractions that are interrupting relationships anyways and ppl don’t really be present as they should be anyways …. Ijs
Yauneek was good for a grandpa. Juju was a good pick. I never thought I see the day when black men don't like curvy women at least on here. I just don't think most men want their women massaging on men for a living, especially it's one of those Wolrdstar private massages.
The average American is one pay check away from being homeless so I won’t judge the attic guy, but it’s important as men to have a priority’s right. Maybe dating shouldn’t be your main focus right now.
That goes for us women too. U have to be ready to provide as well if you're married, if sumthn happens to your husband. Till death due us part.
@@veronicawhite3826women don't care about vows anymore...they bounce from marriage based on "feelings" these days.
@@Roccofan😂😂😂😂
@@RoccofanYep! He has soft hair and Hispanic roots. That's obviously all that is required. I'm laughing, but it really seems that basic.
@@JaysRandomnessChannel well, clearly she doesn’t think that way because she clearly stated “till death do us part”. There are wives out here that believe in being the helpmeet, sometimes the men overlook that because y’all too, are out here trying to have fun.
If any pookies or ray ray’s dare to dm Yauneek please know she will run a background check on you and contact local authorities on you, she not playing or up for games! 😂
I can't! I got warrants 😂😅
lol we ran a check on her too. She has a beautiful home 👌🏽 lovely yard. I love the rocks lol 😂. Nah y’all better not play with auntie. She needs a good stable one because she offers a lot.
Gentlemen we have to step up. We have too many fellas that’s 30 plus but still dress like a teenager.
Can you describe dressing like a teenager??? What guy dressed like a teen in this video??? You gotta elaborate.
@@5thElement0560hmm I’m thinking he means Kimarlie? The Jamaican
@@EsiriE Yeah, he had on a sweatshirt, some sweats, IN HIS HOUSE.
It just sounds like some arbitrary old nibba babble that makes no sense. It sounds good, but when you think about it, wtf is dressing like a teenager, teenagers ACTUALLY strive to dress like adults in terms of casual wear, it's the age where they began to create their fashion identity and create fashion trends that inspire their generation.
There's an entire UA-cam documentary about if people aged faster in the past, and most of it comes down to how you dress, but there isn't some goofy teenage attire when you dig deeper. It's just there are certain clothes that add the appearance of our social perspective of age.
The guy in the OP profile pick looks old because of his suit type, configuration, and suitcolor, he looks like he's in his late 40s with his particular facial hair.
Should we all dress like that to go to Walmart? Sit at home in a gray suit looking like Steve Harvey?
People dress like they did when their generation inspired their fashion.
@@EsiriE Yeah, he was just wearing a sweat suit set, I wrote a lot and explained it all, but the comment auto removed.
But yeah, it's arbitrary, there's studies on this, and no one born today is gonna dress like the guy in the OPs profile pic. The suit and facial hair style makes him look late 40s. I wrote about how there is a connection though, search, "did people age faster," but it's deeper than that, the video is surface level.
Edit: NM original comment posted.
Not meant to go in on you lol.
@@5thElement0560people wanna be comfortable. I’m 44 & wear sweats most the time cuz it’s comfortable. If I’m going somewhere important I’ll dress up & be uncomfortable,but as soon as it’s over I’m putting my sweats back on. No one wanna feel uncomfortable all day
Yauneek was a great guest! Hope she finds what she’s looking for!
One of the best to ever come on here
@@Matthew7.7and military and competitive.
@@Matthew7.7you sound like a BETA. WHACK ASS LOL
@@Matthew7.7 she's more feminine than the nurturing nurses who been on here
yea she was nice
Wishing Gerald all the best in reestablishing himself and trying to get his life in order! It's truly sad, the way some people joke about others living environment(s). Especially, when so many are struggling just to maintain and pay rent/mortgage... along with other basic needs. On average, over 6,000 households per day are threatened with eviction, so life can change at a moments notice for many. My prayer is, that we are more kinder and empathetic towards one another. And regardless of someone's bad choices in their past (multiple kids by various people), we all deserve the right to redeem ourselves and lives for a much better tomorrow. 🙏🏾
Okay Yauneek Jackson. Catch of the night.
I remember growing up with formal dining room tables set like we were expecting company. We weren’t allowed in there unless we were dusting the plates and spoons. 😆
Yauneek is a beautiful, kind woman. She’ll find the love she deserves!
Military women are cut from a different cloth. We are strong women and need stronger men. I’m super proud to serve.
Most men, even strong men want soft feminine women.
That lessens your dating pool by a lot. Only certain men want a woman that's exmillitary and identifies as strong.
what branch?
It may be a strong misconception thinking strong men move by displaying their strength. If women of all cloths were opened to capable men, the dating market could be very different. Salute and thank you for your service sis.
😂😂😂
Thank You ❤🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
Whew chile that shit had me cracking up 😂
Kendra: That's how my hair look under this wig 😂
Him: OK.... 😐
Nobody hitting Kimarlie up 😂. The box has to be ate sir.
Would you want him to!!? With those teeth, he'd be scratching your back while he's down there. Might even lose a tooth.
Stds are a thing
Just like the D needs to be topped off.
Gurrrl..u nastyyyy
Yauneek is very well spoken . Hope she finds a good fit. She seems to be a nice genuine person at heart ❤
Okay Yauneek! now this is how yall should be coming.
I like Yauneek! Looking for more friends in ATL and I like her vibe. Very classy and down to earth!
Yauneak is so freaking pretty.
I always try to guess the ages before they say and I thought she was in her 30s. Beautiful woman.
Kimarlie ain't got NUFFIN to worry bout...ain't nobody let him do that anyway!! Teeth razor sharp!
He might say the same about you.
😂😂😂😂
Beautiful woman, I wish her luck and I hope she doesn't settle. She exudes warmth and class 🥰
Yauneek is a whole catch! Feminine and humble.
❤ A SOLID Foundation, Fulfillment, Friendship, Flexibility, & Fun: ❤
The Five F's a mature woman should bring to a relationship. ❤
Y'all like to leave out the fitness and the femeninty 😢🤧
All these F's were created by women. Mens F's are totally different. So, how SOLID can they really be? Lol!
@TheEzwider88 That could be added. Thanks for bringing that to my attention.
@@SHES5543 Added??🤔 those two are THE most important qualities. The hell you talkin' bout Willis??😂
@@JaysRandomnessChannel Femininity and fitness are beautiful qualities, but true SUBSTANCE lies in the depth of CHARACTER and the richness of the soul they bring to a relationship.
Ms. Yauneek make a brotha want to move to Georgia 🤩🤩
I think it's good to ask if someone is living by themselves or not.
I get it, but we are trying to know everything and forgetting that in real life you might connect with that person. If we live in reality then we understand that if you live in a major city and you don’t have a partner then the smartest thing to do is to share and save, doesn’t mean you can’t date and travel and have a lot of savings. Why not look forward to getting a place together, everyone wants to move into a perfect set up, that’s not life.
@@Chazzabox1Having a roommate isn’t the same as sharing an attic with your nephew, due to debt and child support.
I truly agree
she came on the show to tell kendra her relationship collapsed due to her watching the show. NOW THATS SOME FUNNI STUFF.. even on replays the comment section dont disappoint kendra your so blessed chile.
The show gave him confirmation for what he already knew…he was living in the twilight zone lmaooo…suddenly, he realized his worth 😅🤣😂. A lesson to the ladies who already have a man…don’t go chasing waterfalls when you already in a decent place.
My hubby know I watch this show. It’s for entertainment. Definitely happy at home.
All the men that have all these kids with multiple baby mommas were in their dog stage. No! You just hit the wall finally and your at Rock bottom in the attic .
Yauneek looks amazing and she was on point. Hoping she finds a good match/husband.
Yaunneek is everything most men are looking for. She:a beautiful woman with a sweet personality. I wish her all the best!!
I meant Yauneck
But never married. What's up with that? Everything that looks good aint good for you. IJS
Yeeessssss auntie!!!!! Yauneek out here making young girls look RAN THROUGH low level and sad! Where's her husband, let's go bro! Yauneek is awesome 👍🏾
I could be labeled a staunch critic of Kendra…but seeing her growth humbles me…her “living in the moment” comment is what this generation needs. I’m in technology more than any person in these chats (build them and break them to rebuild them) but the balance of turning them off to live is always a present thought…kudos Kendra ❤️❤️❤️
Keith has a good energy, hope he meet that special lady 💯🙏🏾
Yauneek got caught up in that "close to marriage". If you aint never been married just say that!
This is a comedy show 😂 I enjoy watching sometimes.
It really is
Yesss I always have a damn snack or lil sippy sip 🍹 😁
That’s exactly what it is
100% Puro!
big facts 😂😂😂
This idea that women need to get married in their 20s and 30s is ridiculous, I am happily married and didn’t get married until 40. Some people actually use wisdom and wait until they can offer their best so they don’t end up getting divorced. So many of you are criticizing Yauneek for being in her 50s and not married, so what. Now, if she had 5 kids and wasn’t married y’all still would’ve dogged her. Make it make sense, she’s a great catch hopefully a great guy finds her!
the marriage rate for blk women is 25%. whats the baby mama rate? now ask yourself again whats really ridiculous. its clearly not working out for the ones who didn't get married and spend their 20s and 30s having fun, babies, relationship trauma, and debt.
@@meloran2571 so not getting married young means it’s not working out? Wrong…some of us used common sense and didn’t have kids young, made the right choices, and have success in both career and marriage. We do exist….we aren’t unicorns.
I respect that she's not a BM👩🏾🍼 4x's over, or being reckless with the institution of marriage💒. But I think it's difficult for ppl (including me) to fathom why such a beautiful, well kept woman is unwed or without children at the age of 54. Now her career choice is most definitely a TOP reason -- blk ppl, especially blk men (even the law abiding ones), are NOT fans of law enforcement! Also, being around a male dominant industry may naturally make a woman MORE masculine. And if she's attracted to alpha-masculine men, then unfortunately she'll lose in the game of love ❤. Those men prefer femininity in not only looks but in character traits, in which she stated that she struggles with.
@@SweetTriece I’m not sure why there has to be something wrong with her because she isn’t married. Maybe take a different perspective that maybe she dodged some bullets in not getting married to the wrong men, and didn’t marry someone just to marry them. I don’t think that means there’s anything wrong with her.
@@DrLoveIsLima OK, let's be REAL 🙄 and stop ✋🏾 being or acting naive. If a person made it well into their 40's-50's who happens to be extremely beautiful/handsome, in pretty good shape, got there sh*t together, AND have ALWAYS wanted marriage (and a family), they will get scrutinized 🧐 in the dating market place as well as by their family.
AGAIN, LETS KEEP IT REAL!!
For example, if a EXTREMLY handsome, educated, well established man (a 6-6-6) came on the show at 54 stating that he had never been married, or had any children, but wanted both all of his adult life, ppl would assume he was GAY, too picky OR a playa'. Especially if he works in a field where he's surrounded by women.
I don't create or enforce social stigmas, I just understand them and try not to live in dislusion when in "polite" discussion 🙂.
...and I never said anything was wrong w/ her. I do recognize that Blk women are much more likely to not get or be married. She is giving herself a winning chance by keeping up her physical appearance and not having (multiple) BD's. But in all honesty, in MY opinion, blk ppl (unlike other groups) look down on law enforcement. Note how KG responded when she mentioned her line of work. There was a brief moment of discomfort that I personally felt. But I could be wrong. Also women, unlike men, that work in law enforcement or in military 🪖 appear masculine by default. These same women want masculine men, but these masculine men may be intimidated by a woman who is THAT independent, and she could probably do a better job protecting them than the other way around 😆
When Kimarlie started talking about “flat butt” ladies I was cryingggg 😩😂😂😂😂
What the hell is green shirt talking about?! Ho, why is you here?! *Joseline voice* 🤣🤣🤣
She has been Focused all of her life. 😊 go girl. Age ant nothing but a number
Let’s normalize not embarrassing ppl. Kendra please use some wisdom when asking questions. Even if ppl pay to ask questions, still use wisdom. U don’t have to read everything ppl pay to ask. Yes it’s obvious he needs to get his priorities together but guess what we are all ONE paycheck away to being homeless or loosing everything & when these elites hit that switch everybody gonna be out unless u are covered by the Most High Yah. Let’s show a little more grace especially if the person is trying to get themselves together.
Doesn't look good when Yauneek was attempting to be deceptive about getting married to save her ego.
Kendra: Were you engaged?
Her: I was proposed to.
Gotta love the honesty
I suspect she was embarrassed and ashamed about looking THAT good 🤩, who is also driven and financially stable, BUT wasn't able to, for OVER 30+ yrs, get at least ONE proposal 💍 and/or have gotten married 💒. That's probably a huge ego destoyer when you're as competitive as she said she is.
@@SweetTrieceif u have a circle of friends always propping u up, they’ll never bring that reality to light. She did say she was a workaholic. Those men might have not seen a space in her life for a man. Real men know that u r mostly squeezing yourself into a woman’s life hoping to get some attention from now and then (that’s why men develop hobbies).
I doubt she's single because she couldn't find men who wanted her. I think it's clear that she has placed her financial stability and career above her personal life. @@SweetTriece
Lord have mercy liking to go to the gym and working out is two different things.
Niseynicee is right about communicating. She never really answered questions.
Navii, whoever he was on his phone with, that is who he left you for. Just don't give him another chance. Move on, he's been had someone else. ❤
He scared she will find out something through the Kousins.
Maybe he broke up with her because she calls herself "queen." Ridiculous!
“Oh you like to go to the gym” Kendra always trying to be shady.
"Girl let's do the Kendra kam"😅😅
She knew that was a crockofshit...you can tell who REALLY works out and who just goes to the gym to take selfies.
why is being real considered shady? guests stay coming up here talking bout working out and hitting the gym when the kendra cam shows otherwise. last woman screaming gym couldn't even stand up for the kendra cam.
Yesss YAUNEEK!!!
Yauneek needs a strong black man 5' 10 or taller for she is a strong black women 💪🏾
Yauneek Jackson Five Stars!!!!!!😋😉
Kendra, I'm with him all the time, present and we do a lot together. Some of us are here to be entertained 😂😂 thats it. The most I would do is go in another room if im loud laughing while he sleep 😂😂 The nerve if her and him to think this was the issue.
Bredren eliminated himself from 90% of women...😂😂
Attic Man mentioned his hair is real. Sir, you are too old for these boneless braids and we don't care. Some women must hype him up about his hair. Men hit 40 and wanna try braids and mess. 😐 Can we go back to haircuts?!
Women get 15-18 and start chopping off hair they momma's worked hard to help grow since they were babies...then they wanna throw on weaves and wigs, can we go back to NATURAL hair? See how that works?
@jaysrandomnesschannel as someone who works in the industry and has serviced many people, that is untrue. I do not have people of that age sitting in my chair with that story. Since when are women aged 15, 16 and 17? Those are kids and you called them women? That's odd. However, I do have several men who sit in my chair, over 40 and finally want to try braids and plaits. I'm not sure where in the continents you reside but of all my years of being behind the chair I have yet to see a female of those ages and have chopped their hair with disregard of what mother supposedly helped grow. 🫢 Before I even responded I assumed you had to be a man of a certain age group who fit my statement. 🫣
@@ravencherokee so can we back to natural or nah? And you're right, most women chop their hair in their late 20s or early 30s when they have a great awakening and want to reinvent themselves by starting over in all facets.
@MenofValueSpeaks What do you mean natural hair? That's vague. 98% of my clients are natural and I've been a Cosmetologist for years so I'm lost on can we go back to natural hair. People are just not out here getting relaxers like back in the day. Now if you mean go back to hair that we are born with and styled without extensions/wigs then there's a point. But natural hair itself is a vague term.
@MenofValueSpeaks now I do agree with chopping around those ages but what he listed were kids and didn't make sense. For some reason a chop is the induction to a new life. I'm not someone who believes I have to cut my hair just because I found myself or on a new journey but yes, some women have certain beliefs and will.
I thought Yauneek would like women. I hope she meets a strong man. very well spoken, pretty and a straight boss.
Why would u say she would like women?
@@DJ-ec9lnshe seemed masculine initially but as she continued and talked about being a police officer and military i understood. it was an initial assumption.
I watch your show and I am very happily married. I have single daughters and friends I'm looking for them😂
Whats worst, a man living in the attic or a man living in the basement🤔
Isn’t the basement bigger? That man lives in the attic with his nephew.
At least the attic is closer to God 🤭
I notice when the guest is *PROFESSIONAL* Kendra is *PROFESSIONAL RIGHT OF THE BAT!* Her ghetto side does *NOT* come out!!
Kimarlie probably just eliminated 99.9% of women that would’ve been interested😅
I will just stay with the 1%😂😂😂😂
@@KimarlieGayle-m4yit's 0.1 % not 1% ....sorry to be a bih!
I need Yall to come correct with Ms. Lieutenant
“No ass licking” got me on the floor 😢😂😂😂
I think ppl come back that quick without an update when their interview is not with Kendra …. Maybe they feel it won’t get as many views if it’s not Kendra …. I wonder if anyone noticed that. Lemme know lol
half this chic's pics on ig are of her in lingerie, or not wearing much. but she think quality men didn't hit her up because of who did the interview
I've thought the same thing. I saw it happen at least 5 times within the last few months.
@@JaysRandomnessChannel ohhhhh ok I thought it was just me .... thanks for confirming
Great Show 🎉
Navii girl, he used that as an excuse..he wasnt feeling you anymore
Kendra throwing shade about the gym and she smaller then you
Exactly 💯
Growing up, I’ve always heard that Jamaican men don’t eat 🐱. I wonder if it’s against their cultural
The one i dated did...and he was Rasta
Not just jamaican men but not all men in general will do that, that being said, I've dated a jamaican & he most certainly did (doubt religion has anything to do with it) lol
Stds are a thing
Yauneek spent her whole life in two male dominated fields, is competitive, and was able to remain feminine, pleasant, and presented herself well. Some bw will tell you the only reason they're masculine and have a nasty attitude is because they have to take on a "man's role" and get a job where they have to answer the phone and type.
Ridiculous
😊 Femininity thrives in all environments, regardless of gender dominance. 😊
She's a high ranking leo... she will want to dominate the relationship, and she's used to giving orders, she'll but heads with a guy, unless he submits... I assume that's what she's not married.... at 54, even if she is in shape. No man wants to deal with that much masculinity, you think you saw femininity, but she was in a relaxed state and all the signs lead to she will want a submissive man, one of those quiet men.
Woman who work in male dominated fields, especially those who work in uniform or construction boots, are more likely to lean into their "femininity " when they aren't working. Having to take on "a man's role" means having to be both mother and father to your children because the father doesn't provide financially or emotionally regardless of your job.
@maiwritesmovies0560 What societal norms/expectations lead us to question someone in their 50s desiring a passive partner, and what deeper assumptions about gender roles and power dynamics are embedded within those judgments?
Kimarlie gayle got me on the floor😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I get being tall and the false sense of protection it provides for women. Yes, I say false sense because most y'all baby daddies that never married y'all were tall. But I digress. But before 35 women have to ask themselves if height is more important than getting married. Stats, which y'all hate say that short men are 32% less likely to divorce. Google it like I did.
On the live chat someone said "a Muslime doing drugs in his car" I'm freaking crying 🤣
Someone else said "his weed is kosher" LOOOOOOOOL
Klmarlie he don't eat no cat No freaking stuff i see y he single 😂
If today is Wednesday, and she was on the show 5 days ago, that WAS last week. Duh
The goalpost has moved yet again, NOW it is acceptable to brag about ALMOST getting engaged 🤦🏾♂️
She chose the career and it has afforded her the luxury of being able to buy fancy things but it clearly was at the expense of being able to have a meaningful relationship. Think about it, if she is this fine at 54 then how fine was she at 25 🤔
Well, when you hear 54 and never married OR children maybe she mentioned that because people try to shame you for never having done any of those things at her age.
She could have been married at 25 had four kids and divorced by 54, looking for another partner to help her with those kids.
11:20 I’m competitive. Like when I go Bowling I come with my “BALLS AND EVERYTHING” 🤣🤣🤣 You said it Ma’am I didn’t. She’s the man she always desired.
Yo! U caught dat too….. when she said I bring my equipment I almost choked!!💀
She said she is competitive. That’s like Serena Williams not having her tennis rackets and tennis balls when she play. It shows she is willing to invest in what’s meaningful to her.
Women can’t even have fun and bring their own equipment. Geesh. Yall are soooo weak.
@@lifeisatripenjoytheride This woman is hardly Serena Williams and it’s hardly the same. However comparing this woman’s recreational bowling to the Genius of one of the greatest professional athletes of all time (male/female) truly encapsulates and defines the true delusion that woman are crippled by. That analogy is Ludicrous.
@@Issey_B_Devo Bowling is recreational for her but the correlation that I’m making is a woman who is competitive and is invested into something will spend the money, effort, and time into it. That’s not a masculine trait, that’s a person with a certain type of character and ambition. We see this with both sexes, I mentioned Serena Williams because she is female that does this on a larger scale. No different than Tiger Woods. People’s view of masculinity are skewed if they think that her mentioning having invested in bowling equipment makes her masculine. These traits are what separates the top from the rest. Ambition, time, and energy put into getting there and staying there but it starts with the little things.
Gheeze really said my kids are grown, my second youngest just got off work, your 11yo just got off work? Your 8yo is grown too?
😂
Right?! I can't stand when a man says that about their kids just cause they aren't young babies anymore.
He said his oldest are 22 & 21
I'm so confused why she called in to tell Kendra they broke up because of her watching the show? Maybe she needs someone to vent to but not on a live show
She just wanted attention and her 15-min of fame 😅. She already back w/ him 😂
Jamaican men always say they don’t go down .. I thought that would have change.. I love Jamaican men but in the bedroom they are not fun at all
@@Matthew7.7 I dated Jamaicans my whole life and in the bedroom it’s no fun
@@Tisha-oi5ynThen why did you date them?
44:35 38 Years and 5 kids later, his player days are over… no thank you sir
I bet he wishes🤞🏼he gets messaged by a woman with HER own spot cuz he appears like one of those dudes that plots his way into living ON a woman...but he eventually gets kicked out by her, begs his relatives to provide temporary shelter UNTIL he secures his next female victim. That's why he gave KG a year timeline b/c on average, that's been his time frame in getting a new girl to take him in 😂.
...A female Ray-Ray will take him in b/c she'll want her sheets warm and the batteries in her alarm system replaced 😂😂
46:27 I agree it should remain surface level to just crack the door and allow the connection to occur from there naturally
Navii - WTH, what can we do with this information?
@ 1:06:11 at the beginning of the interview, he said he's been inthe US a year then later inthe interview, he says 2yrs! Make it make sense sir!!🤔 Nonetheless, he made me laugh🤣🤣
Well you weren’t listening properly because Kendra ask me how long I was in new York (state) at the beginning of the interview and at the end she asked how long I had been in America 🇺🇸
Yauneek is 54? 🌹😳😍🌎🇪🇨🙏🏽
Living in someone's attic? Dang. My fat arse on my couch laughing at this.
Yes I had to be really and talk the truth
She look fabulous
Gheeze gotta get out that attic
Yauneek I hope you find a good man & come back to tell us all about it! (:
Im into Yauneek… maybe bc she’s a little masculine and Im attracted to masculinity??? But she’s dope, I hope she finds happiness….
Gym, gym, gym says the woman with a double chin, belly, and weighs over 220lbs.
That's most the women! Sad ppl be obese at 27, 32, 37 just never lose the weight. Alot of weight age ppl women and men.
😂right
TRAVELING MASSEUSE… who gonna say it 🫣
That’s the new PR game bruh…ye didn’t know…these girls are coming up with new marketing strategies 🤣😂😅
So I suppose that means she comes to you that sounds a little bit dangerous in today’s world don’t you think? But I guess hookers have no fear (damn did I say the quiet stuff out loud damn ) 😂
He said 1 yr he has been in the US from Jamaica, now he said 2 yrs in the State 😢👀🤦🏽♀️😬🥺
He actually said 1 year in New York and 2 years in the U.S
Most Of His Kids Are In There 20’s Though 😂
Navii come on now you too old to be calling in saying your dude broke up with you 🤦🏾♀️
that's sound like something a person in middle school will say childish
Yauneek is a tough fit. I wonder what she is like when she gets mad... at 54.. what happened after 30..
Yauneek 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
If he was determined he would be in his own place by now and to be staying with his aunt and can’t talk out loud 😂😂 he is very picky
Navii…girl 😩😭
Does anyone know what time Kendra comes on? I’m always missing her UA-cam lives….even with the notification bell turned on 🙁
Monday, Wednesday and Friday at 10pm (Eastern). Facebook and IG times are 8pm and 9pm (eastern). Sometimes she does UA-cam on Saturdays.
Grand aunt is nosey lol 😆
idc idc i liked gerald and his kids are grown. he gone turn it around and make some woman happy. he is trying. now im not saying some one right now but i dont think he should be judged if i could live in someones attic and pay down debt i would.
Kimarlie. Thank you 4 saying no freeky stuff in the bedroom. 😂😂
Not eating cat is a dealbreaker lol are there women who will actually go for that? I guess maybe asexual people🤷🏽♀️
I truly agree
Did the first Sista say 54? Cuz if so…🗣️Where!!
I thought she was at least 30. Aging like fine wine.
For 53 yr old, Yauneek physically is attractive. There are some personality yellow flags that came across. Ultimately, she would seens to be suited for partner and not a husband. She has some Uber masculine traits that would rub a very traditional man the wring way over time. Military and other law enforcement types might not be a good fit. She would also be best with an older man who has a better probability of giving more grace for some of her masculine tendencies. Wish you well Mrs. Officer
"Ms. Officer " she's not married
@@brianfreckles8542 It's a song reference guy. relax
@TruthFLA I know, I was being facetious- relax
I’m glad Kendra start challenging they BS… like the girl that jept hollering gym but when she stood up, nothing said gym🫤
Bruh…that’s 90% of them on here 😅😂🤣
She actually has a nice shape. She wasn't too thin or big
Yauneek is a perfect example of a modern BW who prioritized her career and sleeping with random men for decades over a husband.
Such an ignorant comment! You sound remedial!
No she never stated she slept with random man on her jorney to finding a man jerk. Can't say that if you don't really know where that person is coming from.
🤔How does the influence of media, such as dating shows, on personal relationships reflect broader societal values and expectations? And why might someone choose to end a relationship because of their partner's consumption of such media, compared to leaving due to other factors like incompatible values or communication issues?🤔
Ok look at Kimarlie’s teeth- whoooo would want him to go downtown anyway???
1:16:37 but realistically, she sound like a kid explaining and justifying when the get in trouble…. Like unfortunately…Kendra’s show is only one of the distractions that are interrupting relationships anyways and ppl don’t really be present as they should be anyways …. Ijs
Yauneek was good for a grandpa. Juju was a good pick. I never thought I see the day when black men don't like curvy women at least on here. I just don't think most men want their women massaging on men for a living, especially it's one of those Wolrdstar private massages.