I don't like myself! (how to fix this)

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  • Опубліковано 16 лис 2024
  • Liking yourself is hard right?
    Specially when you have so many perfect people and things around you.
    But how do you do that?
    How can you like yourself?

КОМЕНТАРІ • 227

  • @sparshbabele3562
    @sparshbabele3562 3 роки тому +22

    All that we need to have a good start to a day is words of wisdom from someone to look upto.
    Thanks 🙏🏻

  • @abhinavsanjana
    @abhinavsanjana 3 роки тому +12

    1.) Career
    2.) Health
    3.) Relationship ...
    This is Great Great Insight ...
    This is the Path to Wins ...
    That's why IITians Won Everywhere ...
    This is Sheer Brilliance ...
    Super Intelligent Chetan Sir

  • @niharikakurma2964
    @niharikakurma2964 3 роки тому +1

    Best video so Far.Much needed but hardly found anywhere. Thankyou🙏

  • @kapiljain5191
    @kapiljain5191 3 роки тому +4

    Kya realistic banda hai yaar ye..... I am in love with your videos.

  • @deepalitripathi3160
    @deepalitripathi3160 3 роки тому +31

    Sir, i was feeling like this from 2-3 days. aisa laga ki aap mere baare mein baat kar rhe ho ! Thank you sir, you made my day!🤗

  • @neelamghale8789
    @neelamghale8789 3 роки тому +8

    I can't explain in words how your video makes me feel alive and be better version of myself... Lots of love..From NEPAL..🙏🙏❤️

  • @subhankardas8477
    @subhankardas8477 3 роки тому +3

    Sir please keep making these type of videos where a person can turn back from his/her most weak situation. This video is a gem ❤️. I don't know why people don't talk about these much...when these are the most fundamental thing of human emotion. Whenever a person is trying to achieve something in his life he is going to face these hard times of pulling himself. I have not seen any one in UA-cam giving these advices except you. Thank you so much sir for highlighting these emotions.

  • @Roshanp33
    @Roshanp33 3 роки тому +6

    Yes it works, I start gaining some confidence when I started working out, since I was getting physically fit which covers one aspect of my life and can focus on other things like career and relationships....

  • @debolinaroy3123
    @debolinaroy3123 3 роки тому +1

    Such a complex topic of self love is so beautifully solved..simple small steps...thanks sir

  • @seeratarora702
    @seeratarora702 3 роки тому +3

    Required achievements must be there for this inner voice !!
    Thanks for motivating us sir ❤

  • @abhishekmaurya8987
    @abhishekmaurya8987 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for always being for us. And in my case these are Carrer and Relationships......

  • @kalidascomputercenter
    @kalidascomputercenter 3 роки тому +1

    I usually see your videos sir but I say this is the best video you made for youngsters like us because I have been there in 2012 doing my engineering in cse and my soul used to scold me and say what are you doing in your life and I used to talk to myself endlessly until One day I read about Nikola Tesla and became too curious to see his achievements.. Then that day I decided I can't spend my life like this doing stupid self talk and having no purpose. That day I decided to develop a software and spent my 3 years doing nothing only developing it day and night and after three years I literally typed 10,000 lines of codes on computer and felt that I am really worthy in this world. Now no one scolds me inside and always says I am proud of yourself. Almost I never think. No thoughts bother me anymore. One day I will implement my software in govt primary schools of UP and will day proudly I have achieved something in my life and wants to be remembered forever. I am working hard to get my next stone to reach the top of hill.
    You are a true inspiration!!!! sorry I never read your books.

  • @anshitajharia3608
    @anshitajharia3608 3 роки тому +3

    This is so true and relatable sir.... I will be working on it and improve myself .. Thanks a lot sir for your advice and it is really helping me a lot ..

  • @abhitak1331
    @abhitak1331 3 роки тому

    you are discussing the topic which many people cant share with anyone, thank you for everything

  • @lakshasingla5928
    @lakshasingla5928 3 роки тому +1

    There is a reason why Chetan Bhagat is a name so massive. Thank you for this video sir.

  • @nishantroyclub
    @nishantroyclub 3 роки тому +1

    Sir you're so awesome! Your vibes, advices and deep knowledge of life is really worth appreciation. To say the least, I'm glad to be one of your channel's subscribers! Thank you for another positive and awesome video! Sir always stay happy, healthy and blessed. 🤗❤

  • @abhinavsanjana
    @abhinavsanjana 3 роки тому +8

    This is the Best Advice I Have Ever Got in my Life ...

  • @nooh9640
    @nooh9640 3 роки тому

    It's a very important topic & nobody even talk about it, we are very thankful to u that you focus on it sir & give us a very practical solution, it feels connected to us.

  • @harshvardhanranvirsingh9473
    @harshvardhanranvirsingh9473 3 роки тому +1

    The critical point that I got from this video is that we should not be scared if we don't love ourselves because love is like a heavy emotion that is quite tough to sense towards ourselves.

  • @GargiLakhani
    @GargiLakhani 3 роки тому +2

    Ok... I m SERIOUSLY gonna try it. I literally need internal validation. Because now this negative voice in my head is so much out of control & it's suffocating me.

  • @dramnaarshad215
    @dramnaarshad215 3 роки тому

    The most important 👏and thought provoking msg,great best

  • @sourabhsharma908
    @sourabhsharma908 3 роки тому

    sir till today we were jst told to like ourselves,but how to like nobody told,today u did that part.Thanx a lot.

  • @nehalkhan9443
    @nehalkhan9443 3 роки тому +23

    After one month I will again watching this video and questioning myself , is I am overcome from situation or not.
    I think I can do that.

  • @dhanashrigawai3514
    @dhanashrigawai3514 3 роки тому

    Aap hamesh ekdum sahi wakt par sahi video dal dete ho sir
    I mean everytime your video helps 🤗Thank you so much sir❤🤗

  • @harshalwagh6065
    @harshalwagh6065 3 роки тому

    First time i find the real fix of that big problem with me, thanks sir.

  • @vineetg112
    @vineetg112 3 роки тому +2

    Its a great advice but we should keep in mind that sometime the same voice gives us some good direction and keeps us motivated.

  • @shehnazabbasi1819
    @shehnazabbasi1819 3 роки тому

    This is so well explained. Loved it. Thank u so much🙏

  • @NarendraVishnoi-ou8ep
    @NarendraVishnoi-ou8ep 2 роки тому

    Thanks a lot sir,, it really works,when i watched this video i woke up to be good with my inner voice as my best friend and as soon as i started like myself,, 🙏🇮🇳

  • @rishitesting
    @rishitesting 3 роки тому

    Your videos are really comforting us.
    Thanks for discussing such topics.

  • @vikkaskatariya679
    @vikkaskatariya679 3 роки тому

    Very beneficial vdo of all time..same conditions......i surly try to ovrcm of these

  • @chayanikapegu5370
    @chayanikapegu5370 3 роки тому

    Exactly I wanted this video today ....thank you sir and thank you God

  • @ashishpandey7914
    @ashishpandey7914 3 роки тому +1

    I can't express in words that how much i needed this video ... thank you so much Sir ❤️

  • @vijaykumar-ru2yf
    @vijaykumar-ru2yf 3 роки тому

    Thank you very much sir ,the most important topic which no youtuber is talking about .. everyone is just talking motivation RESPECT ++ hopefully 1 day i will meet you

  • @achalkhadse8844
    @achalkhadse8844 3 роки тому +1

    Dear sir , iam at class 12th students now. I follow u and your video .at starting of my 18 age I got a such motivation vedio and life direction vedios for my life and career I was really thankful for you and from last 3 months I follow your video regularly I feel some Change in myself beacause of your video sir.
    Thanks so much sir 💞 .

  • @abhishekrajguru2111
    @abhishekrajguru2111 3 роки тому +3

    Best way is to start working out. I know it sounds cliche but it solves a lot of problems

  • @palakrathore5061
    @palakrathore5061 3 роки тому

    Thank you for this video! Your Daily Dose videos helps me alot!

  • @fishmn7414
    @fishmn7414 3 роки тому

    One of the most touching topic for me. Thank you Chetan for touching upon this. It made me feel much better 👍🙏

  • @hellojapan915
    @hellojapan915 3 роки тому

    I can't agree more. Thank you for taking such a sensitive topic

  • @vishwajeetgadhavi6799
    @vishwajeetgadhavi6799 3 роки тому +1

    The concern is that pandemic has worsened the situation in crowds.
    I think this can make a great article even. It's also one of the least talked psychological issues.

  • @SANDEEP_388
    @SANDEEP_388 3 роки тому +1

    (1) Mental & health
    (2) Career
    (3) Relationship

  • @khushbootiwari8087
    @khushbootiwari8087 3 роки тому +1

    much needed video 💕thank you sir

  • @mallikarjunphulekar
    @mallikarjunphulekar 3 роки тому +1

    Relatable stuff...Sir... thanks for making this one for youths...🙏♥️👏😇

  • @neeraj80798
    @neeraj80798 3 роки тому +1

    Much needed video..dil se thank you🙏

  • @akshaygurav3038
    @akshaygurav3038 3 роки тому +1

    Sir Ur correct but ye Jo aap bol rhe ho o other dimensions hai .. spiritual like osho, jaggi vasudew...sir please think on that cause love, peace ye alg chij hai ye video pr lagu nhi hota pr samjane ke liye Bola sir...Ur always awesome

  • @shubhamgupta9174
    @shubhamgupta9174 3 роки тому +3

    Sir thankyou so much for motivating us...

  • @arundhati05
    @arundhati05 3 роки тому

    Very simple and logical way of explaining things!
    Thank you, Sir 😁

  • @nitinyadav829
    @nitinyadav829 3 роки тому

    Sir your videos always work for me like NEVER BACK DOWN 💥

  • @Komalkumari-qk6ot
    @Komalkumari-qk6ot 3 роки тому

    Thankyou so much sir.💕 I also had the same problem. Thankyou for helping me in improving myself 🌼

  • @iswarya9347
    @iswarya9347 3 роки тому +2

    Such a wonderful words you've shared with us, sir!!! It helps me shaping and improving my lifestyle. It's such a pleasant thing watching your videos..
    I'm a big fan of you, from Tamilnadu.❤️

  • @tahakapasi6159
    @tahakapasi6159 3 роки тому

    Chetan sir you are the big brother I always wanted.

  • @arman2731
    @arman2731 3 роки тому

    Bahut Bahut Dhanyavaad Sir. Bahut achi Baat kahi aap ne

  • @sarthakkulkarni5797
    @sarthakkulkarni5797 3 роки тому

    We also have to completely stop criticizing ourselves... Eventually... I have been immensely tormented because of this inner critic... We have to shut that voice down... Or go deep to the voice and observe without judgement... Criticism never helps anyone it always make it worse... Appreciating yourself and encouraging yourself is the way forward

  • @mansa1432
    @mansa1432 3 роки тому +7

    Me currently in this situation.....
    Not able to crack exam in spite of so much hardwork nd dedication....

  • @gauravjadon3726
    @gauravjadon3726 2 роки тому

    I hope this would help me , I had tried a lot of things but as time passes I start to do the same thing,
    So lucky to find you

  • @twenties3154
    @twenties3154 3 роки тому

    Sir Thanks for this valuable advice.

  • @rumi9517
    @rumi9517 2 роки тому

    Relatable sir 🥺🥺, thank you so much 💓

  • @purtijain8655
    @purtijain8655 3 роки тому

    Sir this video touch my heart,u really solved my problem

  • @YogeshKumar-vz2wn
    @YogeshKumar-vz2wn 3 роки тому

    Ek ek baat bilkul sahi kahi h sir aapne 1000% right

  • @nonityadav3620
    @nonityadav3620 3 роки тому

    Really inspiring you are guiding society with your valuable experience and knowledge ❤️❤️

  • @monishaverma8531
    @monishaverma8531 3 роки тому

    So correct and inspiring all the time.. I love his vedios!

  • @sanketmudgalkar9500
    @sanketmudgalkar9500 3 роки тому

    Very relatable 🙌😊thanks for the video sir.

  • @santoshpawarrecords4781
    @santoshpawarrecords4781 3 роки тому +1

    Very nice and useful information, Sir. Love from Pune ❤️

  • @shantanuchauhan8130
    @shantanuchauhan8130 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks... After lockdown last year i left gym but repercussion of leaving the gym is that i am not feeling motivated my 2 yr hardwork on my body is now feels like almost zero this affect my work and slowly slowly my relationship too. I dont know.how to improve. This video hint me what is going wrong. Let see how i can help it out

  • @hrishikeshkalshetti7299
    @hrishikeshkalshetti7299 3 роки тому

    Thank you sir for motivation 🙏
    Love you❤️

  • @elbertintestine
    @elbertintestine 3 роки тому

    Thank you sir. Practical talks 👏👏

  • @amitshukla3486
    @amitshukla3486 3 роки тому +2

    I pushing myself down but from today I never gonna do again 😈😈 may be sb kuch okay Ho jaye

  • @Aayushi4444
    @Aayushi4444 3 роки тому +1

    💚needed this video. A big Thank you sir💗

  • @bethechange1989
    @bethechange1989 3 роки тому +1

    Lekin sir isme realtionship jab kharab hote hai ,usase bahar aana mushkil hota hai nd thats affect health nd career...but yes as said we have to work on what is in our control , will try it

  • @bhimsinghsolanki8381
    @bhimsinghsolanki8381 3 роки тому +1

    Best advice😊

  • @iimnarendra
    @iimnarendra 3 роки тому

    Very nice video sir self esteem is very essential

  • @Priya_T011
    @Priya_T011 3 роки тому +2

    Sir plz next video on Mental Health.

  • @altalewis2009
    @altalewis2009 3 роки тому

    Very informative and valuable video

  • @namansingla2009
    @namansingla2009 3 роки тому

    sir i think the most important thing these days is not motivation videos, not those resources but its the right guidance, right guru who can show them path. who can guide them when they feel low. if chanakya wouldn't have been there with chandragupta he would have ended some place else.

  • @samyakjain6020
    @samyakjain6020 3 роки тому

    Really thank u sir , because this video's topic was like , as if it was addressed for me only. 🤩

  • @Jeev_0007
    @Jeev_0007 3 роки тому

    Nice one sir please make one video how save our time and energy to achieve our goals

  • @nishamishra3984
    @nishamishra3984 3 роки тому

    Thanku so much sir...i needed todays session...i can relate to it so deeply...❤

  • @raghottamjoshi4653
    @raghottamjoshi4653 3 роки тому

    Please make a video on body shaming, it's the most awaited video of you.

  • @prityumarvaishy5528
    @prityumarvaishy5528 3 роки тому +1

    Woowww I was waiting for vedio 😄😄😄 #newlifearise #chetansir

  • @Shinzo_sasegayo
    @Shinzo_sasegayo 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you sir i am happy now 😀

  • @ashwajitthukral9101
    @ashwajitthukral9101 3 роки тому +1

    yeh sab itna complex hai kyu, yaha jeene aaye hai ya yeh sab theek thak karne...😊
    These things will come so speedy in life and take ages to correct! I think it's all conditioning.

  • @prashantdongre6306
    @prashantdongre6306 3 роки тому

    Thank you very much sir

  • @amanali2052
    @amanali2052 2 роки тому

    Love yourself, is the most ignored word these days

  • @nishitadubey6407
    @nishitadubey6407 3 роки тому +5

    Hi Sir, I feel that when I focus on my career I am unable to focus on my health and also can't give time to the family. So It gets really difficult to balance everything.

    • @swistravel5207
      @swistravel5207 3 роки тому +1

      Yeh, same for me but what i think is age 20 to 25 is time for career, after 25 to 30 littel focus on family and health and after 30 you can focus on extra things.

    • @Gatoradeia
      @Gatoradeia 3 роки тому

      @@swistravel5207 im 20 with massive stress and depression.4th year medical aspiriant, idknw if i will become successful,every day im hopeless😥😥😥😥

    • @swistravel5207
      @swistravel5207 3 роки тому

      @@Gatoradeia please don't take stress , because with stress no one became successful, in my 20's i am take full of stress but now i don't take stress of anything and everything became simple

  • @shubhamjains1006
    @shubhamjains1006 3 роки тому

    Yes, health is in our control..

  • @JazzOphelia
    @JazzOphelia 3 роки тому

    U make exact video next day...wat I feel abt .. Nd need.. So relevant.. 👍

  • @howtodo9320
    @howtodo9320 2 роки тому

    you are like guru to me thank you so much guruji

  • @RoyalRaju
    @RoyalRaju 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks sir 😀

  • @madhusudanpandey211
    @madhusudanpandey211 3 роки тому

    Thanks Alot Dear sir ♥️🙏😇

  • @Abhineet09876
    @Abhineet09876 3 роки тому +2

    Jab bhi main khud se baat krta hu (sometimes) toh mere ghar wale kehte hai khud se baat karne walo ko pagal kehte hai 😅

  • @shreyashi9397
    @shreyashi9397 3 роки тому

    Unless we stop hating ourselves how would we help ourself to become a better version of ourselves......

  • @gurugill8346
    @gurugill8346 3 роки тому

    Sir I had health issue I am go through multiple surgery for past 3 years and lost job and still go through negative thinking and loose self confidence.

  • @simrankaur846
    @simrankaur846 3 роки тому +1

    Sir please make a video on how to control your mind.
    How to empty your occupied mind.

  • @ahelisaha6321
    @ahelisaha6321 3 роки тому

    Sir, need more videos like this one!

  • @shaxter
    @shaxter 3 роки тому

    Wonderful video Bhaiya!

  • @sagar7234
    @sagar7234 3 роки тому +1

    Hlo sir...
    Mai apse ek request karna chahta hu ki.. Ap ek bar is topic par video banaye ki...
    Koi bhi banda agar jis age group me h . To us age group ki kaun kaun si chij h jo usko karna chahiye... Taki usko apne next age group me ye feel na ho ki yr kas mai us time ye kam, padhayi, mauj, ya kuchh bhi aur kar leta to achha rhta.. Jo ki ab is age group me sahi nhi h karna...
    Plz sir......

  • @vibhanshusrivastav362
    @vibhanshusrivastav362 2 роки тому

    This deep thinking cant be achieved in a normal situation very well sir

  • @praloysarkar8254
    @praloysarkar8254 3 роки тому

    Sir, i have attention disorder problem,this reduces my productivity, how to deal with it. I don't use social media,not phone addicted.

  • @1A9S8R3
    @1A9S8R3 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you sir

  • @iadityajais
    @iadityajais 3 роки тому +2

    Next shwetabh gangawar

  • @pragalbhshukla7148
    @pragalbhshukla7148 3 роки тому

    Thank you sir for this..🥺🥺