5:35 She basically admits she was raped and the audience just laughs and still blames her bc her credibility as a "bad girl" is so low. Then Sally chimes in and says "Did you call the police?" No. It still happened regardless whether she reported if or not, Sally . . .
I know. They're like laughing at her and shit. It's wild how an audience of grown women are saying things like "it's not an excuse!! Who let him in!?!?" Sick.
You can tell this was a different time and era because this wouldn’t have never happened now … the mom would be the villain and that lady got up and said “ idc if ur mother don’t give you no respect, u ALWAYS give ur mother respect “ … man those were some wild times 😅😂
The one drawback of the 90s was the SEVERE lack of awareness about stuff like this. Conversely and ironically, awareness about said stuff is the only POSITIVE quality about today, and even then, theres more work to do
The fact that Sandy is crying, and Sally literally says, tough girls don’t cry? My heart I just I’m glad the world is different now this would never fly
Thank you for understanding. A lot of women in my generation were raped, molested and more while we were shamed. We knew no better and we were protected.
Gary probably SAed her during those 4 days, why else would she be calling him a "freak" with so much disgust & disdain. Thats probably also why she called it "abandonment" for her mom to leave her alone with him because from her perspective it probably felt like her mom set her up
It’s so frustrating watching these old shows now in 2024. The lack of care is unbelievable! They are crying out for love. The people interrupting them is horrible. I wonder how they are today
I wish they had let the girls speak. They cut off the one girl who tried to ask the "reformed" one, "can i ask you something? If your home life was so good, why did you -" cut off. Smh
These girls are extremely disrespectful, but the mothers definitely aren't innocent either. Many parents will do messed up things to their children and refuse to hold themselves accountable.
One of them said their mom burned her sister with a cigarette. The mom said it was an accident...sounds suspicious. I believe these people have definitely harmed their children. They didn't just become bad one day.
Sandy is hurt. No 12 year old acts like that for no reason, even the other girls they say they needed love? There moms dont know how to treat them they might “love them” but not in the way the kids want to be loved
Some do. However, in this situation she was coerced into intercourse with a boy five years her senior. The fact that her ma blames her only intensifies her anger.
The therapist was sh!t tho. When she asked the 15 year old girl who makes her life stressful, and the girl answered her mom, the therapist quickly denied what she said and told her that shes the one stressing herself. Baiscally did not listen to what she had to say and blamed her.
I get bad vibes from Sandy's mother. Sandy said she was raped, her mother barely batted an eye. It was that one audience member who showed her compassion. The fact that Sandy's mother found an adult male having sex with a 12 year old and blamed her daughter rather than the adult male who had sex with a child. I think a lot of these kids were raised by incompetent parents.
It's so sad. These girls are lost they need their mother's to stick by them I am appalled at the audience and Sally suggesting abandoning the children.
Whenever I would watch these types of shows; whether it'd be Sally, Maury Povich, Jenny Jones, I always said that there's always a REASON for these kids/young adults acting out the way they are (and 9 times out of 10; it has something to do with the parents), they don't just UP one day and DECIDE to be wild and act out. Plus, the people in the audience, IMO, always made the situations WORSE by their heckling, taunting and make snide comments cause THEY don't know WHAT could've been going on at their home (like the girl, Sandy, cause I too caught after she mentioned that she was raped, her mother didn't even flinch)
All of this also like the mom it feels like she has some kind of like weird jealousy toward her daughter she's got to know what's going on between the stepdad and the daughter and that's even disgusting for me to have to say how heartbreaking and did you notice how her eyes just looks so sad when the commenter was like you're 12 go back to playing with. I'm willing to bet anything she would definitely go back to playing with Barbies if she could the pain in her eyes is almost too much. The mom is so self-righteous it makes me want to vomit.. Her friends are probably the place where she goes to take this because she can't feel safe at home.
out of the 4 girls, i can tell that sandy is a different story, as someone who is a victim of csa, just like sandy, i can tell you that it puts physical damage on yourself and your brain. i didn’t do what sandy ever did after it happened but i can tell you that. sandy admitted to her mother that she was basically r8ped and the mother did nothing and blamed it on her and that is completely on her. dawn, bridgitt and bonnie just need a reality check, as someone from kentucky, they are NOT in a gang, they just want to be seen as tough. they have no idea how hard life gets and they probably did after all this, i dont know what happened to them but i know that sandy is hurting.
this show is so painful to watch the way they shut down the kids and think the parents are always right . Kids wouldn’t lie and their attitudes are a reflection of how their parents treat them. Each child showed how upset they are with their parents and their parents just behaved so immaturely .
Did you just say "kids wouldn't lie"??? HAHAHA...are you kidding me right now? While I agree with most everything else you said, KIDS LIE ALL THE TIME! Lol
Same! I always thought, "Well, I'm not as bad as they are! There must be hope for me." That was before it was acceptable to blame all of my bad choices on everyone else. So I knew I didn't want to be THAT bad. There were no excuses for tnat shit back then.
“What can I do to prove that I love you” maybe get her some help cuz she’s been assaulted and everyone in the audience ignored it. Her mom needs to be worried that she might harm herself cuz she’s battling stuff alone
Firstly, the first little girl had been sexually assaulted. She should be being treated as a VICTIM. Not berated by a crowd full of adults. This show is mental.
8:22 I don’t agree with what that woman said ngl. That’s how u mess up your relationships with your kids. Yes u gotta discipline your kid if they do something wrong but it’s the way she said “always respect ur parents even if they never respect you” that got on my nerves. Treat others the way u want to be treated yk? I think that’s something the mother, daughter, and apparently the ppl in that crowd need to learn.
These kids are all basically admitting that their moms did not show them love. That poor 12-year-old at the beginning basically explaining how she was raped. She said no and he did it anyway? And the audience just laughs? What the fuck even is the 90s?
These 8th graders from Kentucky trying to convince people they were in gangs in the 90's is so funny. This is the first time I am hearing about gang members coming to the door asking to play with kids.
In middle school in small town ky in 1996 we had "crips". Lol like 3 to 6 kids that wore dickies, mechanic shirts, white under shirts and blue bandanas. They would come to school dances and sit in the corner brooding. They were in 8th grade and i was in 6th. Lmao I was convinced they were in a gang and that was the first time i had ever heard of a gang being in small town ky. Of course, now looking back, it was totally absurd and very laughable. But I just look at the music that was popular during this time and it explains so much. In fact, I know two of the people still, almost 30 years later, and they definitely have no connections to any gangs. You should have heard the rumors that swirled about them about how they would jump you and they got beat into the gang and they were real violent like I never saw any of them fight. I actually just told my husband the story the other day and we sat and laughed about it.
@@theL0VERS I truly love this story. I am from rural Ohio, we had a few of these types at a nearby school that would try to scare us but the only crimes they were involved with were shoplifting and smoking cigarettes they stole from their parents. There were also a few kids who would move to a bigger city and move back in two years and act like they had been in a gang. It was always a laugh.
i would be pissed if i was one of those kids on this show. the audience is judging and thinking they ate when they speak when is js embarrassing, the audience is sitting their minding other ppl their business. the audience have no life their selves and shouldn’t be judging if they don’t even know half of the shit the kids are going trough. there is no way the kids behave like this without a reason the mom ESPECIALLY the mom of the 2 kids in red are not innocent!
I fully understand these children need saving but bringing them on a show like this is wrong. most children who act up like this in most cases are crying out for help, so sit down with them and talk to them.
It wasn't her fault, it's the parents fault. Kids dont just turn out like this for no reason, come on bro. And instead of dealing with it quietly you bring them onto a show where a whole audience boos them? Oh yeah that should help. Smh.
While I like shows like this, it shows what it was like growing up in this time. I grew up in a household where the parents played victim after they would push me to the edge. They all had one thing in common with these people: they failed to listen when it mattered. Now at 35, I'm bitter and have little to no contact with family since my grandma passed. I've been been to the psych ward twice and jail once. Even in adulthood, it never stopped. That's narcissists on steroids.
These are from the 90s there good shows But the kids now are even worse there's other influence out there besides gangs like social media violent video games and the drugs have gotten worse
I dont think it is right to expose private matters of minors on national.television. The mother scared of her children should consult therapists and probobly send the children to. A boarding school for children with emotional problems.
🙂 the kids' attitudes are disgusting ngl, but let them speak ik for a fact the flower lady was physical with her kids, the kids said so, burn? Knock out? And so forth? 🙂
Sounds like my ex bff. She was 10 having sex with 21 year olds, and having abortions, getting arrested for threatening to cut her grandparents' heads off, and even buying tattoo guns and tattooing herself.
Why would a mother leave her child alone whit a grown man thats not related to her in any way 4 days whitout any other adult seing whats going on in the house i think its wierd to leave Gary alone whit a little girl sounds like the mom dont really care about her daughters safety its her stepfather not her real dad.
Can relate my twin daughters now 27 I get yelled out if ored over spoke disrespected wee have my little cute babies gone I fill like am walking on egg shells I cry I feel if ored sooo dis included alone I am 56
5:35
She basically admits she was raped and the audience just laughs and still blames her bc her credibility as a "bad girl" is so low.
Then Sally chimes in and says "Did you call the police?" No.
It still happened regardless whether she reported if or not, Sally . . .
I know. They're like laughing at her and shit. It's wild how an audience of grown women are saying things like "it's not an excuse!! Who let him in!?!?"
Sick.
You can tell this was a different time and era because this wouldn’t have never happened now … the mom would be the villain and that lady got up and said “ idc if ur mother don’t give you no respect, u ALWAYS give ur mother respect “ … man those were some wild times 😅😂
A message to all the parents of the world. Keep your doors locked at night
Never take advantage of your grandparents
The one drawback of the 90s was the SEVERE lack of awareness about stuff like this. Conversely and ironically, awareness about said stuff is the only POSITIVE quality about today, and even then, theres more work to do
The fact that Sandy is crying, and Sally literally says, tough girls don’t cry? My heart I just I’m glad the world is different now this would never fly
Thank you for understanding. A lot of women in my generation were raped, molested and more while we were shamed. We knew no better and we were protected.
Something happened to her. Probably Gary, they never really let her talk, under that anger is a hurt little 12 year old girl
Exactly.
Gary probably SAed her during those 4 days, why else would she be calling him a "freak" with so much disgust & disdain. Thats probably also why she called it "abandonment" for her mom to leave her alone with him because from her perspective it probably felt like her mom set her up
yupp and she most likely told her friends and that’s why they are so angry with her too
Who says something « happened » to her?
Right 😢
It’s so frustrating watching these old shows now in 2024. The lack of care is unbelievable! They are crying out for love. The people interrupting them is horrible. I wonder how they are today
I wish they had let the girls speak. They cut off the one girl who tried to ask the "reformed" one, "can i ask you something? If your home life was so good, why did you -" cut off. Smh
I agree! I was thinking the same thing!
These girls are extremely disrespectful, but the mothers definitely aren't innocent either. Many parents will do messed up things to their children and refuse to hold themselves accountable.
One of them said their mom burned her sister with a cigarette. The mom said it was an accident...sounds suspicious. I believe these people have definitely harmed their children. They didn't just become bad one day.
This is true
And vice-versa
Sandy is hurt. No 12 year old acts like that for no reason, even the other girls they say they needed love? There moms dont know how to treat them they might “love them” but not in the way the kids want to be loved
Some do. However, in this situation she was coerced into intercourse with a boy five years her senior. The fact that her ma blames her only intensifies her anger.
The therapist immediately chose to work on the children. For many years, it was normal for parents to abuse their children without any accountability.
The therapist was sh!t tho. When she asked the 15 year old girl who makes her life stressful, and the girl answered her mom, the therapist quickly denied what she said and told her that shes the one stressing herself. Baiscally did not listen to what she had to say and blamed her.
I get bad vibes from Sandy's mother. Sandy said she was raped, her mother barely batted an eye. It was that one audience member who showed her compassion. The fact that Sandy's mother found an adult male having sex with a 12 year old and blamed her daughter rather than the adult male who had sex with a child.
I think a lot of these kids were raised by incompetent parents.
Where was the step dad she sure don't like Gary
It's so sad. These girls are lost they need their mother's to stick by them I am appalled at the audience and Sally suggesting abandoning the children.
Whenever I would watch these types of shows; whether it'd be Sally, Maury Povich, Jenny Jones, I always said that there's always a REASON for these kids/young adults acting out the way they are (and 9 times out of 10; it has something to do with the parents), they don't just UP one day and DECIDE to be wild and act out. Plus, the people in the audience, IMO, always made the situations WORSE by their heckling, taunting and make snide comments cause THEY don't know WHAT could've been going on at their home (like the girl, Sandy, cause I too caught after she mentioned that she was raped, her mother didn't even flinch)
All of this also like the mom it feels like she has some kind of like weird jealousy toward her daughter she's got to know what's going on between the stepdad and the daughter and that's even disgusting for me to have to say how heartbreaking and did you notice how her eyes just looks so sad when the commenter was like you're 12 go back to playing with. I'm willing to bet anything she would definitely go back to playing with Barbies if she could the pain in her eyes is almost too much. The mom is so self-righteous it makes me want to vomit.. Her friends are probably the place where she goes to take this because she can't feel safe at home.
Booing at a child ? She is a 12 year old child !!!! Talk about toxic . This kid is hurting.
out of the 4 girls, i can tell that sandy is a different story, as someone who is a victim of csa, just like sandy, i can tell you that it puts physical damage on yourself and your brain. i didn’t do what sandy ever did after it happened but i can tell you that. sandy admitted to her mother that she was basically r8ped and the mother did nothing and blamed it on her and that is completely on her. dawn, bridgitt and bonnie just need a reality check, as someone from kentucky, they are NOT in a gang, they just want to be seen as tough. they have no idea how hard life gets and they probably did after all this, i dont know what happened to them but i know that sandy is hurting.
I kinda feel bad because the kids don’t seem like they were being listened to enough
Sandy looks like she's auditioning for an 80's music video
These girls need love :(
i LUV SALLY!!!!!!!Thank you so much.hope u got more thanks
this show is so painful to watch the way they shut down the kids and think the parents are always right . Kids wouldn’t lie and their attitudes are a reflection of how their parents treat them. Each child showed how upset they are with their parents and their parents just behaved so immaturely .
Did you just say "kids wouldn't lie"??? HAHAHA...are you kidding me right now? While I agree with most everything else you said, KIDS LIE ALL THE TIME! Lol
There is no excuse for badly touching or sexually abusing anyone.
When I was a kid, I was scared my parents would put me on this show if I misbehaved 😂😂😂😂
SAME HAHAHAHA
Same! I always thought, "Well, I'm not as bad as they are! There must be hope for me." That was before it was acceptable to blame all of my bad choices on everyone else. So I knew I didn't want to be THAT bad. There were no excuses for tnat shit back then.
I would got paws put on me
“What can I do to prove that I love you” maybe get her some help cuz she’s been assaulted and everyone in the audience ignored it. Her mom needs to be worried that she might harm herself cuz she’s battling stuff alone
Parents brought up kids, to teach them respect and love, and to have boundaries.
That scream at @12:51 always takes me out. 😂
WHAT?!
Sally agrees that she should abandon her child??? Wtf?
I feel like Sandy's mom is lieing. I feel sorry for Sandy.
Firstly, the first little girl had been sexually assaulted. She should be being treated as a VICTIM. Not berated by a crowd full of adults.
This show is mental.
I felt so sorry for Sandy
8:22 I don’t agree with what that woman said ngl. That’s how u mess up your relationships with your kids. Yes u gotta discipline your kid if they do something wrong but it’s the way she said “always respect ur parents even if they never respect you” that got on my nerves. Treat others the way u want to be treated yk? I think that’s something the mother, daughter, and apparently the ppl in that crowd need to learn.
I agree totally. Respect goes both ways. Kids are humans too and deserve respect.
sandy seems like a broken and hurt child, she was different from the other girls and you can tell:(
This 12 year old will end up in prison
Will? Lol she did you do realize this was almost 30 years ago right?
@@thatgirl9000I totally forgot that lol😭
Why does the mom in the flowered dress sound like Appalachian Lucille Ball
Sally always calls a therapist. Take control of your own show.
bro bridget was just tryna be heard
These kids are all basically admitting that their moms did not show them love. That poor 12-year-old at the beginning basically explaining how she was raped. She said no and he did it anyway? And the audience just laughs? What the fuck even is the 90s?
These 8th graders from Kentucky trying to convince people they were in gangs in the 90's is so funny. This is the first time I am hearing about gang members coming to the door asking to play with kids.
In middle school in small town ky in 1996 we had "crips". Lol like 3 to 6 kids that wore dickies, mechanic shirts, white under shirts and blue bandanas. They would come to school dances and sit in the corner brooding. They were in 8th grade and i was in 6th. Lmao I was convinced they were in a gang and that was the first time i had ever heard of a gang being in small town ky. Of course, now looking back, it was totally absurd and very laughable. But I just look at the music that was popular during this time and it explains so much. In fact, I know two of the people still, almost 30 years later, and they definitely have no connections to any gangs. You should have heard the rumors that swirled about them about how they would jump you and they got beat into the gang and they were real violent like I never saw any of them fight. I actually just told my husband the story the other day and we sat and laughed about it.
@@theL0VERS I truly love this story. I am from rural Ohio, we had a few of these types at a nearby school that would try to scare us but the only crimes they were involved with were shoplifting and smoking cigarettes they stole from their parents. There were also a few kids who would move to a bigger city and move back in two years and act like they had been in a gang. It was always a laugh.
The 11 Year old resembles a young Amanda Bynes on Nickelodeon.
Sally was so calm with these guests but she would tell em how it is when needed
I’m from Sandy’s city and I FIRMLY believe something has happened to her.
What happened?
i would be pissed if i was one of those kids on this show. the audience is judging and thinking they ate when they speak when is js embarrassing, the audience is sitting their minding other ppl their business. the audience have no life their selves and shouldn’t be judging if they don’t even know half of the shit the kids are going trough. there is no way the kids behave like this without a reason the mom ESPECIALLY the mom of the 2 kids in red are not innocent!
I fully understand these children need saving but bringing them on a show like this is wrong. most children who act up like this in most cases are crying out for help, so sit down with them and talk to them.
Damn!
Did they just gloss over crappy Gary?
I also hope she doesnt mean what I think she means when she says with disgust that Gary's a "freak"
They did 😢
This aged like ass.
sandy is misunderstood i was like that when i was her age she just needed someone to listen to her
14:46 I think it's so cute how the mum was picking up the ashes of clothes and putting it on the peice of paper
Stacy you made your daughter like that.
the mom from the 2 kids in red clearly did something to the kids and is NOT innocent or the victim here.
It wasn't her fault, it's the parents fault. Kids dont just turn out like this for no reason, come on bro. And instead of dealing with it quietly you bring them onto a show where a whole audience boos them? Oh yeah that should help. Smh.
Sorry but is 15 year old "Dawn" being portrayed by a 40 year old cracked out actress?
Omg can u upload anymore that aren't on Nosey? Thank you so much
While I like shows like this, it shows what it was like growing up in this time. I grew up in a household where the parents played victim after they would push me to the edge. They all had one thing in common with these people: they failed to listen when it mattered. Now at 35, I'm bitter and have little to no contact with family since my grandma passed. I've been been to the psych ward twice and jail once. Even in adulthood, it never stopped. That's narcissists on steroids.
That’s so relatable!!
These are from the 90s there good shows
But the kids now are even worse there's other influence out there besides gangs like social media violent video games and the drugs have gotten worse
Exactly this situation is just one of many things i took into consideration for choosing NOT to have kids.
It's normal now a days for people to choose not to have children.
These girls want love from their mothers and time together their is help for theses girls
Listening to the black people in the audience responding 😅😅😅😅
CUZ WE LOUD N WE GONNA TALK BACK
@@rbaltimo congratulations
Who needs a gang when you have parents?
I dont think it is right to expose private matters of minors on national.television.
The mother scared of her children should consult therapists and probobly send the children to. A boarding school for children with emotional problems.
Did you not listen.. they already tried therapy. Sending a kid off doesn’t solve a problem it adds to them
It sounds like if the mother's did their job as mother's they may be better children.
These are years after the fact, but shouldn’t mom be somewhat accountable for daughter’s bad behavior!?
I get so mad watching these and seeing how the CHILD gets the blame for shit like this!!
Is there another one about this 3 families?
She looks at least 35 lol
Dawn?😂 Her mom looks like about 80
@@sankara5ever yes 😂😂😂😂
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Any updates?
Sally was the shit
I feel like the girl with the old mom might be lying. She seems like she’s trying to just get attention.
Dang that’s a big ol 12 year old!
Burning clothes of a daughter shows she is disturbed
❤Education system has failed......teach tem our jail consequences ❤
🙂 the kids' attitudes are disgusting ngl, but let them speak ik for a fact the flower lady was physical with her kids, the kids said so, burn? Knock out? And so forth? 🙂
All of em became Dollar General assistant managers , part time lot liazards when they grew up🤣🤣🤣
Sounds like my ex bff. She was 10 having sex with 21 year olds, and having abortions, getting arrested for threatening to cut her grandparents' heads off, and even buying tattoo guns and tattooing herself.
If she was 10, she couldn't consent.
@@Muirmaiden I know. But she said "I did consent and there's nothing wrong with it. The law is stupid."
@@shaneekabatty-cross It doesn't matter. Under the law, minors can't consent. Any adult that has sex with a child is a predator.
@@Muirmaiden I know duh.
@@shaneekabatty-cross You made a point of saying that she said she consented.
Good old fashioned as would work
Sandy was raped. If someone would have taken the time to get to the root of her issue, maybe she could have gotten help soon.
Why would a mother leave her child alone whit a grown man thats not related to her in any way 4 days whitout any other adult seing whats going on in the house i think its wierd to leave Gary alone whit a little girl sounds like the mom dont really care about her daughters safety its her stepfather not her real dad.
Can relate my twin daughters now 27 I get yelled out if ored over spoke disrespected wee have my little cute babies gone I fill like am walking on egg shells I cry I feel if ored sooo dis included alone I am 56
Your comment is unreadable.
@@Ausgar-yc1yl maybe my message is not meant for you just scroll on
13:30 😮😮😮
Sorry for whoever gets hurt over this but Dawn looks a mess
I think most of these out of kids lacked male romodels..
fathers??
Absence of a father in the home.
That's the worst whigger i,ive seen
Something happened to her. Probably Gary, they never really let her talk, under that anger is a hurt little 12 year old girl
Fact 💯