Finding Real Friends as Adults w/ Ashley Choi, BM (KARD), and Peniel (BTOB) I GET REAL Ep. #6
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- Опубліковано 4 лис 2024
- We've talked a lot about love and heartache on the show so far but what about non-romantic relationships? Friends can sometimes be as close to us as family. Our hosts talk about blocking out fake friends, finding real ones, and the tough roadblocks in maintaining friendships as we get older and more busy.
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DIVE Studios Podcasts i hope get real would invite jae joining them for once😀
I have lost ALOT of friends.. I don't know why people prefer friends to "save face" and not tell them the truth? I guess in a way I could sugarcoat stuff, but I'd rather tell it straight to their face. And because of that I hv lost a lot of friends.. Maybe I am the problem? But at the end of the day.. People who don't value you.. No need to waste Ur time. It's the art of growing up.. Real friends r hard to find.. Keep the ones who accept you not just for the good.. But for the bad too❤️
I love this guys , for real , and i actually love you 3 a lot ! (If only the words weren't censored 😂)
I love how Peniel censors himself with "mother lover" "flunk you" "shitake mushrooms". I will steal those words
Me too haha, he's so creative
ikr! im like how did he come up with those😭
Wait until they turn all his censored words into a poster
Don’t forget the shizzle mizzles
I stan HAHHAHAHA
As an introvert, I like having friends but actually maintaining the friendship is tiring lol
edit: wow had no idea so many people felt this way too
All my friends are low maintenance n as an introvert i like that a lot
YES I’ve lost so many friends from being so introverted like I’ve had my friends block me and delete me everywhere because maintaining friendships is so difficult when you like your own company and especially when it comes to hanging out, I don’t have the energy for it, I have nothing against them, I love them, but sometimes I don’t wanna talk or hangout for a good 2 weeks and it’s nothing personal. it sucks :(
Omg thank you for this comment. I relate so much.
I was contemplating whether it was an introvert thing or not... like I love my own company. I’m good by myself. I love my friends too but I don’t feel the need to communicate with anyone sometimes.
Most of my friends don’t really understand it tho.
THIS
We are not alone.😅
Ashley’s life always has some of the juiciest stories on the podcast
I think she’s better at describing things. (maybe because I’m a chick and I understand her better).
For real 😂😂
Yup
True.. I am jealous with her life...
And it's so fun seeing these two react to her so dramatically 😂😂
Peniel’s “WHO YOU HONKING AT??” 🤣🤣
Cmon now 🤣
what' the honking supposed to mean tho?
@@VanLe-co3td It's probably just traffic
“there are 7 days in a week there’s time for everything” - Peniel
it says a lot about him, like he’s an idol and he still thinks that if someone wants he/she could still make time for everything
Its really not that easy. Just cause he can make time for things doesn’t mean everyone can. Don’t judge people. You don’t at all know their situation. I am very impulsive so most of the things i want and need to be done I can’t get done because of my disorder. Don’t be so narrow minded.
17:49 M&P: [being all serious]
ashley: there was a time when i got cut off completely from a friend
M&P: OHHUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU!!!!!!!!!!!! WADJU DOOOO?!?!?!?
diane: [laughs histerically]
That was so freaking funny lmao!!
I read this as they said it xD
Came from the podcast just to see their expressions AHHA
I love when diane laughs 😂😂😂
lol guys are literally so dramatic haha
Im introvert but when Im with someone who’s more introverted than me, then i’ll suddenly become a lil bit more extrovert to u know, not killing the atmosphere and make it awkward. BUT when im around extrovert person, i’ll let them do all the talk and i’ll just listen and go along with them😂
this is just me actually😂
I feel called outt.. lmao
sameee, i get youuuu
Meeeee toooo omgg!
felt
Haha BM is so mosey when somebody has a juicy story to tell... he’s like “Oh really?! What?!! Talk about it 👁👄👁”
BM and peniel do know some tea in this industry. I just wish I could know more😏😏😏😏
Peniel at the center makes sense he comes off as the mature voice of reason out of the three
Agreed. He's always like the brodge between the three, and there are times when he's like the one who concluded the topic and giving advice about that topic. I really love that bout him
I mean 'bridge'
@@zharyshine1035 no but 'brodge' is better it's bridge but also bro
@@something6510 lol i just realized😂
@@something6510 I am now using this term in my daily life.
BM and Peniel are soooo sassy 😂
i was scrolling and thought this said sexy, but both are true
@@mercuryshinki7652 😂😂
@@mercuryshinki7652 yep!.. Sexy and Sassy
I love Diane laughing in the background, so wholesome
Same 😂😂
Who is diane ??
@@hanaeelbouti5230 Diane is the girl who’s laughing in the back. She helps run the podcast and helps the idols with ideas.
@@hanaeelbouti5230 basically inshort Diane is the producer for Dive studios ( KPDB show and get real)
You know what time it is?
It's "Maltilda and Peniella teasing Asheley" time
*Penelope
Nobody:
Peniel: I nEveR wEnT tO ColLegE
The cactus at the back looks like it’s ready to fight hahaha
I love this trio 😻
I cant unsee that now lol
Awee its cute
Its beefing with Peniel
OMG THE TINY ARMS 😂😂😂😭
ᕦ⊙෴⊙ᕤ
Ashley: **talks**
Peniel and BM: OH SPILL THE TEA!!!!
Its amazing how this podcasts gets real not just because of their topics but also how they think and talk. Like BM forgetting what he was about to say, their stories, and how they react about what the other person was talking about hahahah. Like it makes me realize that dude these people who are so cool and does amazing stuff also experiences sht like normal people do. I mean I know that theyre just people like us but I unconsciously think differently. Im sorry. I hope to get more of these so I kinda know what to expect when I grow up alittle more #GETREAL
I totally get what you mean. It's like how are they so talented but still be dorks like all of us plebs
Right? I really like how relatable it is.
Me: litterally losing all my friends during quarentine
Also me: who needs friends when i have ashley,penelope, and big matilda
Lmao xD
Me i haven't really talked in 2020 bc of quarentine
I need penelope, ashley, and big matilda in my lifee 😂😂🤣🤣
Right? I would kill for friends like them ❤️
Ashley looks like a mermaid :3
Ikr her seafoam green hair looks✨✨
Your comment reminds me of 'Mermaid' which is a song by Cube Entertainment rap line including Peniel, of course. .and yeah, I agree with you..but idk why my screen is showing a different color, not green but cyan...
@@wenawena709 i just don't know how to describe colours lol. Yes, there is a bit of cyan in there too :3 (if u understand what i mean)
Peniel saying to Ashley "who do you think we're talking about" is like scolding a sibling being slow hahaha
I've probably had the worst day of my life today (tested positive for covid19) but I saw that this got posted and i honestly already feel better (emotionally haha) Thank you for always making me smile. :) (EDIT: thank you so much for the kind words and well wishes 🥺)
Aluz,take good care of yourself,take your vitamins and follow your doctor's advice.I hope you recover super quickly.
get well soon!
I hope you recover soon💕💕
Get well soon!
Get well soon ❤️
loooool matthew was ready to get pissed when peniel was using him as example and he didn't know if it was real or not i died
Penelope’s reinvented curse words:
Schnizel mizzle
Flunk that guy
Motherlover
What the flunk
Shitake mushrooms
He’s a dingdong
What's the meaning of schnizel mizzle
Why are they so relatable everytime tho.
P.S. don't cut the curse Pd-nims!
Peniel wearing Big Tiddie Gang merch is so cuuuuuute 😍💙🎺
I like big tiddie gang president's curious face when he was asking Peniel who he cut off from his life were lol
his name is bm get it right
@@riearene5230 I know. And i also know that he is the big tiddie gang president lol
@@mrys3167 then stream their upcoming single when it drops, you better
@@mrys3167 then stream their upcoming single when it drops, you better
@@riearene5230 i will. I am a fan of Kard. What is ur point btw? No hatin gurl lol
I love how the guys always encouraging Ashley to be Savage and Spill things she's actually seems sweet but not very fake with people but she seems easily hurt by others I couldn't be her close friend I'm too protective I'd be punching people everyday 😂 I've had many male friends since I was little it would be very easy to be friends with BM and Penile they remind me of guys I grew up with
DoMiNiQuE *Peniel...i think your autocorrect is betraying you. 😂
@@btobsslowblueocean3121 ahahaha
penile
PENILEEEU I FUCKINHRBH CRYINGGGCH
I'll leave my typo here for your enjoyment 👍
Ashley 5:46: “It was when my friends from New York came, and she brought her baby. Yes?”
BM: YE-👁ㅇ👁
Sometimes you gotta cut off toxic friendship when u have friends who doesn't like u being happy, and they manipulate, and lie, and just disrespect u..
“WHO YOU HONKING AT” freakin Peniel 😂
Fr were trying to listen to an important conversation😂😂
I had to cut my friend off this year even though we were a good friends for almost six years . She was a hypocrite and she talked to me only if she needed me . I really don't like those kinds of people and it's makes me sad to think back of all the moments we shared together but I never regretted my decision ever.
Good for you 💖
I was in the same situation, sucks to have to go through that but at the end of the day it's the best thing for you
Don’t you always get something out of friendships and relationships tho? I’m not saying that the purpose of relationships are to “use” others but I think we always get something out of it whether we want something from someone or just truly enjoy their presence. You’re still receiving joy from someone.
@@NoNo-zw2bz I don't know who you're saying this to but
But to answer your question yes you can joy and like the feeling of them when they are around but it's different when they only talk to you when they something or when it's convenient for them but when you know need them they are nowhere to be found and that's the part that sucks, that was kinda the situation I was in so this my perspective
Same. I had to do the same this year and I've never been happier in a long time. We'd been best friends for a long time but I had to do it for my own sanity.
I love how much Korean American idols stand for eachother and are such great friends too🤧🤧. I feel like all the Divers + Sammy from The Rose are just so real and I feel much closer to them than a lot of other Kpop artists. I love you guys so much❤❤❤
True that
I need more than once a week of "Pajamas Party of Ashley, Penelope, and Big Mathilda" Best of the best podcast i've ever known💙
I honestly wanna see them talk about race and dating and stuff would be fun🙆🏾♀️btw LOOVVVEEEDD this episode, the way Peniel talks, his views on life and the way he lives it just makes him more attractive than he already is oh my gosh like can I be his friend😭
Interesting topic! Love it x
Laughed so hard when BM and Peniel were doing the Regular Show "oooooh" and "aaaah" when Ashley was telling her story of a friend cutting her off. 🤣 I love this trio.
Somehow I don't think Peniel will be infatuated and blinded.
same
@@shanialindsay7420 He seems too put together and adult-ish lol
K-American group are my faves
i'm absolutely living for ashley's hair, i CANNOT stop looking at her
Take a shot of water everytime Peniel says “like”, you’ll stay very hydrated :)
I'll be bloated lmao
Will Yakult do?
I wish youtube comments had retweet buttons for this very reason
Oh man i need to do that cz ya girl never drinks unless... Oh no i don't drink
Take a shot of alcohol and you'd-
Master Peniel giving life lessons on friendship is something we all need-
PERIOD.
Also honestly, I'm in medical profession and it's tough for me to reconnect with people or for that matter hangout with my best friend. I always feel bad that my work holds me back from them and also I don't want them to get the wrong notion that I'm ignoring them or such. So that fan mail part is honestly so relatable.
what ashley knows about penelope and big mathilda ?!?!OMG HAHAHA I saw that comment in the other episodes too I laughed at that
I finally checked out Sammy from The Rose and man his cover of LANY ILYSB was "ENCHANTING" 😍
Check out the Rose too!!! Their songs are amazing...!
@@docanj812 i spent the day listening to them and I'm definitely a fan now.
Period stan the rose sound
The Rose is amazing and have saved many lives with their music
@@strawberrypocky179 I'm not gonna lie I've been listening them on repeat for the past few days.
Not @ BM whispering on a global podcast.😭 "She blocked you."
BM and Peniel are so messy 😭 they keep trying to get Ashley caught up.
Is this what having guy friends feel like? 17:51 lol their reactions are SO EXTRA 😂 especially BM's "she blocked you?" at 19:08
This exactly how it is lol and sometimes the guys hype u up over these things more than your girls😂😂
Depends on the guy, of course, but from my experience, most of the guy friends I've had were "extra," haha. They can be more hype and dramatic than girls, and it's hysterical.
Guy friends are always extra. You can just be yourself rather than when you’re with girl friends. 😅
@@bielars3433 yall need different girl friends then if you cant be yourself around them lol😂
i like how Peniel is so talkative and you could see him having a good time and just relax
If that scenario wasn’t hypothetical, BM was about to verbally eviscerate that guy on the podcast. You can see the gears turning haha
The fact that BM and Peneil are ALWAYS ready to throw hands over Ashley makes my heart warm. Like, they are probably the big brothers she never wanted but they are the ones she is stuck with now
Why does Ashley look like she was about to cry when Peniel and BM were talking about that bad vibes guy? :( Her face looks so sad after she kinda shifted to asking BM if he did not have to cut off a friend like that?
She has a cute concerned face when she's listening carefully or asking serious questions and it's absolutely adorable.
Dude, this podcast has been such a need in this quarantine. It's like I'm with friends again :')
When I was in highschool my mom's illness got worst. I also was babysitting. Often my friends wanted me to hang but I declined. As a result, alot of those friendships drifted apart, the second half of my senior year. A part of me was mad because they didn't understand the responsibility I had as a caretaker. However, I also understand because there were times I could have done better. Anyways, it's been yearsss and we're all adults now. My mother passed away a few years ago so those memories i had with her are more significant than any friendship. But I'm thankful to still have my best friends (going on 10+ years).
They're not lying when they said GET REAL IS THE BEST PODCAST IN THE WORLD!!!!
More episodes pleaseeee! ❤❤❤
I like Matthew's vibe soo much. he's chill, very nice. I feel like I feel safe when I hang out w/him. the same with peniel.
I swear to god diane's laugh is one of the best things at dive.
Bm's, ashley's and peniel's vibes are so positive and just uplifting, their podcasts are always so interesting and gets you hooked and they give such good advices?? I love it
Im waiting for the episode when it REALLY gets real, and there’s tears and hotter than hot tea spilled
41:25 bm meant to say "vicariously" but ended up saying "bi-curiously" and it doesn't look like anyone in the comments section noticed🤣
As a person who studied pre-med for two years and is now studying for entrance exams for medical universities like bro fr i have no time to hang out tho i want to so like stuff like this makes me day. Like even a random text is like so nice cause yk they still care tho you can't really hit them up.
The realest of friendships don't need contact or communication everyday. If friends make time to spend with you knowing they are busy they tend to be real. You make time for the things and people you really want.
It's really okay to cuf off some (toxic) friends from your life it's like choosing peace of mind over some craps.
And sometime people calls you fake friend for not being able to be there when they need you but dude you can't be there for them ALL THE TIME. You have your own life to live, you have work and stuff. You don't breathe for your friends.
Trueee!!! But that's the thing, sometimes we get scared of losing more friends .. they would say bad things about you to other people to make it seem like you are the toxic/problematic one. Ughhhh
@@sarafaizal1788 if they go around and talk shits about you they are worth losing. We don't need such big ass problems in our lives.
@@mariechinks Omg yess!! there's this group of girls would go around telling lies to whole school about me. I don't care much cause after that my life is happy so yeaah. I just smile and wave
Peniel 42:21: "I kept running into the cactus, freakin cactus"
Me: 🤣🤣
Hahahaaha
Ashley: spilling hot tea
BM: uh huh, UH HUH, ok, uh huh Ok
He's so cute sometimes 🥺😆
i love Ashley's new hair color 💖
Omg and the two little braid in the front👌
@@unicats6785 yess !!! she looks really pretty 🤩
I also love Ashley's new hair color it is so beautiful 😍💕👏
“Shnizzle mizzle” Peniel I’d like to keep my lungs💀
I just.. i just want my friends to react the same way Peniel and BM do whenever I tell them anything 😭
He didn't lie when he said the best podcast in the world
Ashley is right, no matter how many times you say to your friends that their boo is "meh", if your friend is blinded by love, they will not listen! 😅
i have the fattest crush on peniel 🤒
Sameeedtt. If only i can marry him lolol
damn me too, i need him in my life😩
Big fat sssssaaaaaammmmmeeeee like I cannot describe how fat and juicy that Same is
Sameeee
@@shrekscumslut1341 bruh chill ???
Oh God an advertisement popped out right when Peniel said “transition” ooof
This podcast is awesome, it really feels like talking to a friend!
I really love their topic. I can relate. Also pls talk about saesang
This trio makes some of the best and most relatable podcast episodes.
This is the most positive comments section ive witnessed. And hilarious too.
The hype level of Peniel and BM everytime Ashley tells a story is a mood 😂😂
Peniel’s look when he said “there was a baby” 😂😂😂😂😂
the title scared me as i'm going into adulthood... and i'm a super awkward person (i had a terribly hard time making friends). I'm terrified but these are amazing to hear since i'm actually learning from them
Something about Matthew saying "boo thang" is real cute ^^
BM and Peniel freaking out about Ashley’s friend cutting her off is just so funny lmaoo
Anyone blessed to have Ashley as a friend are super fricken lucky, she is friendship goals!
Never been early like this in my life!
this conversation about friends make me miss my friends so much, I haven't seen them in soooo many months :(
as a btob fan for 4years, i never see this side of peniel hahahaha he more likely quiet and sweet when with btob but on dive studio he's like savage and sassy sksksksksks
Sammy is literally everywhere! I wish The Rose the best.
I wanna be their friends so bad!!! I need Ashley to be like an older sister friend. Yk like the ones that know cute guys and introduce you to them and the ones who look out for you and you can talk to. I neeeeed 😭😭😭
My friendship goal is to have really fun and interesting talks with friends like BM, Ashley, & Peniel.
Okay now I really wanna know who that 'him' is whose friend circle changes every 3 months lmao
Me too😭
They're legit talking about "him" in a official-worldwide UA-cam video lol🤣
Same tho like I’m tryna go through all these eng speaking idols but I’m jus like- none of them seem this way
I could be wrong tho
Bro I wanna figure this out soooo bad
Same 😭💀
I love Diane's laugh in the background 😂😂
I always enjoy watching and listening to Get Real with the three of them. I especially love Peniel, so adorable! 💙💙💙
Was waiting for the full podcast..
The podcast say "GET REAL" and I love how real they get into their conversation as if they aren't shooting💗.. Also I admire their friendship so much💜💗💜
“Is this hypothetical...?” LOL I know that mood. He was about to go off!
ashley is so pretty here 😍🥺
One of my favourite podcast because it's relatable 💯!!!!!!!
I had a “friend” that got mad at me and stopped being my friend because I didn’t say bye to them...... I was in a rush lmaoooo
This was my senior in high school too 😂😂
Whaaaaat. Are you serious.
lmao pls tell me you're joking
@@nedasharhan5089 what kind of high school do u go
@@archiejain3783 I went to a school in New York
this podcast always puts a smile on my face 😌 y’all are amazing !!
Tried to count how many times Peniel said "like" and I failed. Gosh! That's too many.
bruh, the lighting on Ashley's hair on her closeup cam
They know they getting censored, flunk that guy hahah
my most favourite topic so far: friendship! omg i love how this podcast emphasis on life, work, friendship and love. i mean everything is so relatable and i need guidance!
Bro peniel swearing is hilarious though he's been doing that for btob it's still hilarious hahahahahahaha
The first podcast I actually stick to. I love how honest you are and all the topics you cover. I'm literally binge watching/listening to it until I go over all episodes. Keep going, love you!