I still travel solo at the age of 85! I am a decent German speaker and I love visiting Germany, Austria, and South Tirol in Italy. My trips generally are between 3 and 5 weeks. In 2023, my daughter finally traveled to Europe with me, and together we visited Belgium, Germany, Austria, Hungary. She had a blast and is now planning a trip to Greece on her own!
I think the lack of adequate vacation time in the US is a huge factor. Most people only get 2-3 weeks off a year. If they are like me, my family doesn't live that close to me. So I spend at least one or two weeks a year visiting them on holidays/birthdays/summer vacations, etc. For us to visit Europe from southern California is a major investment in both money and vacation time. I went for 3 weeks about 25 years ago, and I think you really need that long to make it worth it. Especially if you plan on visiting multiple countries.
I’m sure this isn’t for everyone, but if your time is limited maybe go for quality over quantity. For example instead of needing to see Venice, Florence, and Rome, just spend a week in some beautiful town in Umbria or Puglia, or Lombardy. Then make short days trips and relax!
I am in France but worked for a large US company and I was surprised that most Americans, after som years, had 4 weeks of paid vacation per year, not including the holidays. Difference was, that they took days here and there rather than weeks straight, and 3 weeks straight - never.
Buy the plane ticket six months out and now one is committed to the adventure . Don’t tell me what he knows but where he has been . Travel is one of the greatest forms of knowledge there is . Thank you kind sir for your wonderful adventurous spirit .
I buy 10 months out the week the flights are listed. 1. I'm committed. 2. So far, over 10 years of buying flights, the price I pay that week doesn't get any better over the 10 months. The prices go up and down, but never gets lower than the price I paid that first week.
the only problem with purchasing a ticket early is that I get paranoid that something will happen and I cant go, so then I have to buy travel insurance early to cover the ticket!! I did this recently to Europe, as I usually plan only about 4 to 6 weeks ahead
There was a man who left his dogs alone at home for days. When he came back his hungry dogs ate him. He might have thought he left enough food. Seriously, I don't think much pets can be left alone. It's also adding to the cost for a petsitter. Traveling is expensive enough. Many pets have separation anxiety too. There were terrible stories of pets dying from how the workers on airplanes treated them too.
My number one: sitting in an economy class seat for the 10+ hours it takes me to get to Europe (along with the hassle of getting through the airport) and then arriving at my destination wiped out for the next two days.
There is something weird about the economics of flight classes. A lot of times it would be cheaper to book a 5* hotel and a masseuse to help recover from a long haul flight rather than take a business or first class flight with a lay down bed,
I can tell you my one and only reason: I can't afford it! I would absolutely LOVE to see the world, but that costs money, lots of it and I have none. So that's why I watch travel videos like this, so I at least have the illusion of traveling.
Travel isn't as expensive as you think. If you have zero dollars yes focus on life but if you eat out a couple times a week even if it's fast food look at your budget see what you can cut out. I've traveled to El Salvador for $300 the plane ticket was $150 the Airbnb was $100 for five days and Ubers and papusas were around 50$. It just depends on your travel style.
For myself, I live very frugally so I can travel. But, I made travel my priority. I buy food from discounted food stores, clothes from liquidation stores (and I rarely shop), no "cable" tv, refurbished phone, etc. I literally live my life for the chance to travel. I make less than 48K per year, and I travel at least 7 weeks out of the year. I've seen all 50 states because 45 of them, I slept in my car at truck stops, state parks, rest stops, or on the side of a quiet country road. Slept in tents. Pawned jewelry for gas while on the road. Now at 57, I've also been to other countries. I'll be in Hawaii next week. Staying at a campground where the cabins are only $100 per night for 4 people. Going to Germany in April. Austin, Texas in February. I know not everyone can do what I do, but as a solo female traveler since the age of 18 who's made a life of traveling on the cheap, I hope you can sometime.
Throughout 2024, I traveled solo to 3 countries in Europe: France, Portugal, and Finland. I have done my research ahead of time and know exactly where to stay. It was Incredible! I’m going to Haarlem Netherlands and Trieste Italy from March 19th-25th, 2025. 3 days in each of those countries. Can’t wait!
I was hoping to visit Trieste after Piran and Portorož, but couldn't fit into my schedule. Would've definitely visited there and even eat at Harry's Piccolo if I could fit in. Enjoy your time in March!
I've traveled solo to all 50 states and several countries. I'm going to German for 3 weeks solo in April, and I'll travel to Switzerland, Italy, and Austria while I'm there. It's so fun because anything is possible on a whim. Have a great time!
Every time I go on a trip the number one thing some people say is “be safe”. Now I know that they mean well but that fear is not just the plane. I know people that are afraid to go to San Francisco or New York or Chicago. How could they fly to Paris ? Unfortunately news overhypes the bad stories But you nailed it for so many. Mobility or health issues can stop people that really want to travel. A ten hour flight can feel like torture for someone with a back issue.
I had to make a decision about flying long distance because of my spine injuries. I literally save money for a year just so I can fly business class to Europe or Hawaii and be comfortable. I pay more for my flights than the trip itself. But, it's the only way I can do it.
Another reason I have come across over the years... Letting family or friends dictate what you do with your free time. Don't let anyone tell you and your family what you should do with your time. You can always meet up with your family or friends for the 40th time next year!
I wanted to visit Pakistan for many years, and kept putting it off due to safety concerns. Finally went earlier this year, I had nothing to be worried about - amazing country, friendly people, great food, spectacular scenery and tons of history. Highly recommend, definitely going again!
For those who don’t want to fly, road trips can be lots of fun and adventurous! We’ve taken great road trips from Ottawa, Canada to drive to NYC, Chicago, the Carolinas, Cape Cod, Hilton Head as well as in Canada to Montreal, Quebec City, Nova Scotia, PEI, Cape Breton and Newfoundland ( including a ferry)! They were all great and memorable trips that we cherish. We’ve also taken lots of trips to Europe etc. by plane, but road trips are so much fun especially if you leave yourself open for unexpected finds along the way! And no baggage restrictions - just chuck it into the car! Travel enriches your life, just do it!
I have not traveled by myself. I always take at least one of my sons with me. It gives me someone to share things with and gives them new experiences also. They love it ❤. I use my tax refund if there is any and/or save up and prepay as much as possible. It can be done with a budget. My boys are older, too, and can contribute. Just do it even if it's a short trip.
Flying is the worst part of international travel. It’s not fear, it’s the abysmal experience of dealing with the airlines and airports. The quality has just gone down the toilet! But it doesn’t stop us, just something we have to pass through to get there.
@@Graygeezer I love the travel, I spend extra and go business and first class, I’m not rich but I class the flight as a big part of the holiday and put money into that part of it. In the long run it makes the holiday better as there is no jet lag cause you can actually sleep and eat well.
I have agoraphobia. I used to get anxious for a 3 hour car trip. But I kept trying and now I’ve lived all over the country! About to leave for Hawaii in January, I’m nervous, but it’s going to be a major accomplishment for me!!
I also live with agoraphobia, and it can be an absolute nightmare. I've managed to travel quite a bit during certain periods of my life, so I want to say a huge Congratulations to you because I know the extreme difficulty involved!! There may be setbacks sometimes, but keep up the good work and keep striving towards all your travel dreams :)
What an accomplishment! I have flight anxiety. I've switched flights last minute in the midst of a panic attack. But I've always gone on that trip, and not regretted it. But making that step, it's hard. Proud of you for fighting the good fight for yourself 💛
@@RedemptionArcTravels True but the fact that plane crashes = almost certain death while most car crashes can be survived is what plays on people's minds
I have been trying to get to London for years. The two times I was close to going emergencies came up and I had to use the money to deal with them. I am bound and determined to get there eventually, even it takes until I am 80.
By the time we were 7, 12, and 17 years old our family had traveled to Mexico, Canada, and Japan. We also traveled to thirty five States, including Alaska, and Hawai'i.
As a blind person, I could tell you I’ve been lots of places in this great world and haven’t seen shit. I got to experience a lot, though from the hustle and bustle and cobblestone streets of Rome to Roatan, Honduras and their insanely beautiful beaches that I could go swimming in, and they’re literally no waves. New York City with its insanity. Vegas with its insanity and beautiful women. New Orleans with its awesome food. It goes on and on. I also wanna say that for some people it may not be anything but they don’t really know about going to other countries but the US is so big and the people are so different anywhere you go there’s plenty to keep you entertained..
I wish more Americans would travel abroad so they could see first hand how other countries do things (some for the worse, but most for the better)...of course, this means traveling with an open mind. I love being an American, but what I despise are Americans who've never been anywhere while beating their chest and saying we're the "best" at everything. SOOOOO not the case! And, I would NEVER travel to a country without learning a handful of words/phrases in their language...Please, thank you, you're welcome, sorry, excuse me, etc. It's not hard, and while most countries can speak English (or at least a little English), it's not uncommon to occasionally bump into someone who doesn't. I was in Germany a couple of years ago in a shop, and had I not taken a few remedial courses in German I wouldn't have been able to complete the transaction with the store owner. Plus, I think it's just common courtesy to at least make an effort. You're in their home, you should be a polite guest, not an entitled jerk. Finally, if you're afraid of the language barrier...start off by traveling to an English speaking country (UK, Ireland, Canada, etc.). By the way, when we were in Stockholm a few years ago, most Swedes spoke better English than most Americans. And most of all, they have fika (with cardamom buns...mmmmm)!
The building I moved in to in February was made in 1947. My 80 year old neighbor has lived here since the mid 50's, save for a couple of years. She says she doesn't travel abroad, because they don't understand her there. Funny thing is, she speaks very serviceable English. Some people just aren't made for travel, and the thought of travel can be anxiety inducing. I get miserable if I don't travel enough.
I was one of those people who was terrified to fly. Discussed it with my family doctor & told her there was no valid reason for my fear, and we talked about it. She prescribed me the lowest dose of Xanax and it worked like a charm! Sometimes, I would board and after takeoff, I’d fall asleep & get a great nap (it depends on how early the flight was). Other times, it just took that edge off and I’d watch a movie on my tablet, be awake the whole trip. Either way, I’m now a great traveler who is able to fly WITHOUT the medication. 👍🏼 Don’t let the fear keep you from flying! It’s funny…I now actually prefer to fly, than to drive, whenever possible. Who’d have ever thought that????
Brilliant!!! Probably the best travel video I have watched. Your videos address real issues travelers face. Like loosing there meds, fear of flying, excuses not to travel. Since "finding" you on You tube you have enriched my (our) travel experience 10 fold. Thank you so much for all you do for us. I know it's rough traveling around the world having fun!! hahaha!!! Merry Christmas to you and your family.
I got my first passport at the age of 38, just before the pandemic hit. Last year, I went abroad for the first time ever - I'd never been to an airport before, and I went by myself. The destination was Melbourne, passing through Frankfurt and Singapore (I just stayed in the airports for those). The only reason I could afford it was because I was on a secondment at work and the pay allowed me to set aside some money (I stayed with friends in Melbourne so didn't have the cost of a hotel).
I like traveling solo for simple reasons of going where I want to go, when I want to go, spend as much or as little time at one place, eat where I want to, etc. Often, I would see what I wanted to see in a city and go on to the next destination without constraints. It may have been 3 or 4 days or it may be in less than 24 hours. I've done that in a few European cities and I liked how I did it.
My exe's aunt won't travel because "planes are falling out of the sky every day and every cruise ship is always sinking." Doesn't stop her though from driving on the freeway at 35 in the left lane.
Thank you for talking about the fear of flying. For ages I would get anxious just seeing a plane take off. I finally broke down and talked to my doctor and got a prescription for a low dose of Ativan and voila, I became a flying aficionado 👍
Thank you for this video. My pet peeve is the whole narrative that once you have kids you can’t travel. Your channel has inspired me to continue traveling w/ my kids. Making priceless memories with my children are the best vacations ever 😊
My kids are 2 years apart and there mother died several years ago. Since the younger one became school age I've begun taking them on some trips with me. They are generally excited and have great fun with airports and flying. I've found with road trips that it is good to build an extra day in outbound and stop frequently. After a week away they don't mind a brisk, more focused return trip as much.
As a person who loves to travel, and has relatives who don't, thank you! My dream vacation is to take all my family ( ALL) on a trip together. Plus close friends as a bonus... I feel that even if I had all the money, planned everything, picked the relatives in their home, transported them and pay for everything, they still wouldn't go...
@@kellygb4370 Cause of the same reason, if they feel they can’t afford for it, they wouldn’t then. They’d feel burdened. ❤️ It isn’t personal, it’s just depending on trust & reciprocity of a pure kind (very rare).
@@kellygb4370 hello! I can be a "seat filler"🤣 😁 for one or some (if I take my two kids and husband) of your family members...can you take me instead? 😉
Hi Wolter I just love your blogs and videos As a person who came from a family who never traveled much before (until the past few years) I agree with all of your points they are spot on . I find when i also talk to people who don't travel much many of the same "fears or "excuses" are also stated by people to me. I find that if you take the time to plan as well as do your research prior and the biggest of all is to create a savings fund exclusively for travel expenses traveling is actually easier than most realize until they actually DO IT! Thank you again for all of your advice!
We finally had the financial flexibility to travel again. I was even able to take multiple trips for the first time in years. But I did develop a dislike for air travel. It’s not a fear of flying, it’s more about being contained in a tight space and trusting my life with people I don’t know and maybe a little altitude sickness.
Here in the U.K. I go on coach tours as a solo traveller. I’ve used companies such as Shearings on a trip to Italy this year & Ledger to Austria last year. I’m visually impressed too. So you can go on holiday by yourself but with other people.
I can't stand body odor, cologne, and perfume in airplane. People these days douse themselves with a bucket of perfume. It gives me headaches whenever i smell it.
For me, it is a combination of: horrible overthinking/anxiety (makes planning stressful, unable to enjoy myself), terrible social awkwardness, and a lack of enough PTO to be able to travel the way I would actually want to, and with that, knowing the pile of paperwork that will await me when I come back leads to more anxiety. I cancelled a trip to Spain earlier this year just because of a combination of these things. I want to get better at these things in the future (not much I can do about the PTO thing). I want to go to Ireland in 2025 and I hope that I am able to follow through with it this time.
Hey, I hope you can go to Ireland this time. It might be less intimidating as it's a shorter flight, you can see a lot in less time as it's a smaller country (maybe manage it in that lil PTO slot). No language barrier might help, too. Also, you're not alone. I've changed flights because I was having a panic attack. Anxiety is real and scary. But every time I go despite that feeling, I'm glad I did.
I was that way for decades, inheriting that bug from my mother. (My dad traveled often due to his Air Force career) I started international traveling when I met my girlfriend (now wife of nearly 35 years), who hails from South America. Long story short, we've been actively traveling abroad since 2017....and the experiences have been invaluable.
There are some really cool plane spotter channels that I really think could help some people that have fear of flying, watching plane after plane take off and land without issue can help some, sometimes even in the worst weather you see the professionalism of the pilots that get the planes down in bad weather or don't take a chance and go around to try again. I watch them as a sort of ASMR, and imagine the the places that the planes are headed to. And, I hear from people in the chat that it really has helped them with their fear of flying.
You realize that there is more than one Toledo in the world, right? The the one, that i would think of does not even have a Zoo and is older than 2000years. That town is actually a really fantastic travel destination near Madrid. Only problem is, that most Spanish people speak next to no English.
How about straight up greediness? I have some friends who make good money, no medical debt, no kids, but a thought of spending $1000 on a plane ticket throws them into a rage: "What? Thousand bucks? To look at some painting in France...F that!" (Granted it does not preclude them spending money on other useless garbage.)
The mental hurdle of travel with/after cancer is only one aspect of it - the insurance is a very big factor, at least here in the UK the companies aren't legally allowed to discriminate, but they will go out of their way to make sure it's unaffordable! (15 years later I'm only just getting to "normal" levels - though certain places are still obscene!) As a traveller though, a lot of the stuff that puts people off genuinely makes me more likely to go, if there's a slight fear factor it means you'll enjoy it so much more when you get there to realise it's actually nowhere near the barrier you'd built up in your mind.
If you have limited mobility issues, I don’t recommend traveling to Vancouver, BC because you will do a lot of walking because parking close to the attraction, restaurant, or eatery is nearly impossible
I have in-laws who have the means to travel but don't travel because: 1-Don't want to part with their money. 2. Have no interest in seeing other cultures and other people...a waste of time and money. 3. Comfortable in their own 10 mile radius bubble. 4. Travel only to visit people. 5. The bottom line is most people have no interest in traveling period.
My ex-wife is of Mexican descent, speaks fluent Spanish, and you can see into Mexico from her house. She has NEVER been to Mexico! Cause we have a daughter together I still go to El Paso where she lives to see my daughter. I have been to Mexico twice now! 🇲🇽🌮🌴
My fear of flying has gotten worse as I've aged. Also, I'm tall and have back pain, and most seats are uncomfortable and lack leg room. So any flight more than a few hours is difficult.
I do love the Mark Twain travel quote about it being fatal to prejudice. I say travel is the best education.. it's hard to be a hater if you have been places and talked to people. The biggest haters are the ones who have never left their state... yet.. have an entitled opinion and think they know about the world.
In 2016 I made a commitment to travel, whether local or abroad. I "cut the cable", put an additional $75 month to a travel fund, make my own coffee drinks and other lifestyle modifications. It took a bit to adjust but now its habit. I plan travel many months/years in advance. Yes it takes a commitment but know it can be done.
Excellent video as always Mark. We love traveling and we went to Spain 2023 and Ireland 2022, and 20 other countries between 1988-1989. And we considered a trip for this year but our daughters moved between places domestically so that was our traveling this year. That was one excuse to to not travel overseas, and you touched on a big reason: the dread of having to plan it out. Expedia certainly makes the process easier, but just the thought of establishing an itinerary and figuring out where exactly you were where to go can be time consuming and stressful. What we will do for the next one is take advantage of our AAA membership where travel agent services are available, I believe free. Next destination is Japan.
"No one to travel with" Some people with this Reason for that: fear of getting lost, which is i can understand and relate. Especially for 1st time experience.
My Nan has been to Northern Ireland (I've never been), America (Connecticut and New York which I've never been to as I've never been to America), Australia (Melbourne which I've never been to as I've never been to Australia), Bangkok (never been) and Singapore (never been) A few other of my family members on both sides (my Mum and Dad's sides) have been to America
I don't travel abroad because 1. I don't make enough money to save for a vacation. 2. I only get two weeks vacation per year and I'm not allowed to use both weeks in a row. 3. Major disability prevents me from sitting in one place too long. 4. I'm single and I don't have someone to watch my pets so when I do travel, my trips are a day long max. 5. Can't afford pet lodging for the same reason that I don't earn great wages. There are more people in my situation than most people realize.
Thats what I call trains and busses around my part of the world, or 'Germ Tube' is another. Because of the grubs who cough and sneeze all over the other passengers.
Mark: I've seen almost all of your videos and I just got back from my 10th international trip. I admit: 1. 10-12 hours on a plane hurts your bum A LOT 2. Related, I can't sleep on a plane 3. Related, I can't afford a 1st class or business-class seat, the trip is ALREADY the budget! 4. Related, the jet-lag is awful! 5. Weather changes can be hard on your health 6. Sometimes you can get sick when on vacation! 7. I brought back a European string of COVID-19 weeeeee 8. It's really expensive, I just spent $5,000 USD on 7 days in Finland, so did my girlfriend. And we don't "live large!" ALL WORTH IT TO ME
Hey, I fell off a chair and bruised my tailbone (ps chair backs make lousy ladders). I took a special seat cushion with me on several long haul flights for the next year. It helps, alot! And grab some JetZone for that jetlag. (Full disclosure I am not a doctor, check with yours before taking jetzone). 😅
My husband uses a CPAC machine. They recommend distilled water be used in the machine. I have friends that say they can’t get distilled water in other countries. I have always been able to find distilled water in any country from Mexico to Jamaica to Europe. I guess I look harder.
At 9:57 that highway is Highway 37 in Novato, California Marin County. It runs east and west from Novato to Vallejo before it meets up with Highway 80.
I didn't travel anywhere as a child. We did the odd day trip to the seaside, but that was it. Now I am retired and can't afford to travel, I spent a lot of time looking after a parent, now I live on my own, but I have found hobbies that I can afford.
A language barrier can seem like a tough obstacle, but we have technology to make that an easier hurdle to clear. When I was in Vietnam, I had an entire conversation with a taxi driver just using the translation apps on our phones. I live in Korea, and even without technology, I can get by. I saw a doctor who had very limited English. I had to use nothing but hand gestures and very basic, broken Korean to explain my cold-like symptoms. But he understood enough of what I was trying to say, and he figured out what was wrong with me.
Health is definitely the thing for me. Just going to my brother's for an extended weekend, two-thirds of my duffel bag was medical supplies. Then there's the wheelchair. And I'm diabetic so I have to carefully pick and choose what to eat for three days. I should be braver, I know. Heck, if I was confident enough to go from my hotel to the Louvre or the British Museum, that right there would be a great time. 🌍
I had a job where we were only allowed to take off on Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays. I could never take off on Mondays or Fridays. So how much could I do leaving on Tuesday morning and coming home Thursday afternoon?
7:10 Normally, I am a solo traveller . No-one else can keep up with my schedule . Occasionally I've met up with others for an hour or two of the schedule but that's it . 9:35 ha ha ha that had me laughing hysterically in the bed! Very funny but also accurate !
I’ve had a travel savings account for over 30 years. My monthly contribution increased as my salary improved. It’s one of the smartest things I ever did to make sure I traveled regularly.
I'm Australian so flying to Europe or America was somewhat expensive and felt like it needed a long trip to justify the expense. I avoided because of time and money for my entire working career but now that I'm retired I've taken a few long trips and they've been wonderful. I wish I had the resources to do it more when I was younger.
What about the exaggerated perceptions of danger abroad? (especially for certain places like the Middle East or South America). Or the notion that people outside the US hate Americans (for Americans)? Those are some other big ones.
Toledo (my home town), Cedar Point sounds like a great summer! Love it! I am afraid to fly and am yet to get on a plane. 2025 I am flying to Europe. I am so scared but YOLO! If it's meant to be, it's meant to be. We travel with our daughter all the time after being told 14 years ago, when pregnant, well there goes your travel time. Daughter has been to California 4 times already (from FL). We are always looking for a way to travel. 14 day cruise coming soon!
Fear of flying is no joke. And anxiety isn't logical so you can't just think your way out of a panic. Talk to your doctor. Acupuncture and a lot of prayer help me get on most of our flights.
I'm glad I did my traveling in my youth. Mexico, Colombia, and the UAE. I also resided, worked, & studied in those 3 fantastic countries. At 19, I planned my trip to Mexico --- w/o a travel agent, no internet, 100% enjoyable. By myself. Met wonderful people. I did this twice. Then I lived and worked in Colombia for 5 years. Later, Abu Dhabi for 3 years. 🎶 Those were great times! 🎶 This is a great video ... great advice. Now that I'm old and mobility is an issue, while I don't disagree with your comments about traveling while being disabled, I do say that the thought of traveling is a bit more daunting. If I did get that "travel bug" again, I definitely wouldn't do it alone. Bon Voyage, travelers. Wolter's World is a great resource.
We would travel more, and for longer, but we have dogs and don't like to leave them for too long. We have a great dog sitter who comes to the house but the dogs still get stressed when we are gone.
I know I am not the norm, but for me, I prioritized traveling in my teens. I wanted to see and experience as much out there as I could. I worked 2 and 3 jobs into my 40s, I never married, never had kids. I would work long enough to save for a road trip, quit, and go. When I got back, I got another job, and did it again. Slept in my car at rest stops, truck stops, state parks, etc.. Now, I'm 57, been to all 50 states, several countries, and I'm still traveling. I'll be in Germany in April. Granted now I can afford to travel more "in style" than when I was in my 20s, but because I prioritized it, I did it. I make less than 48K per year. Again, I know not everyone can, but that's what I did.
I have been to dozens of countries and I HATE flying. I'm claustrophobic, so flying is definitely the worst part unless you are in business class. Talk to your doctor about getting a few pills that will relax you, like xanax or a muscle relaxer. Its totally fine and quite common.
But most places don't. Planes, trains, hotels, restaurants don't do that. Just do some research or get help with research. Or go off-season when prices may be lower even with the supplement. And some outfits are dropping the supplement sometimes
They imagine that they could rent the room to a couple or family and get the extra $$$ from packing more people in. While there are some costs which are fixed, like laundry, most of it is pure greed.
If you are too busy for work. Plan a work trip. Go on a business trip and see the sites where you are. Also can start planning small. Trip to San Antonio. Build up from there.
I travelled a lot this year (UK, Turkey, Ireland, Toronto, Niagara Falls, NYC), and a lot of people who aren't as travelled keep expressing to me how worried they are for my safety. Kinda want to give them some grace, as I know they haven't travelled much, but I wish they could hear me when I explain that a) there are ways to check if your destination is safe, b) I do that research, and c) lack of familiarity with a country often breeds an irrational presumption of danger that doesn't really exist.
Not everyone prioritizes travel the same way. I always want to leave our state and fly somewhere but my husband could care less. I go somewhere solo about once a year. Not everyone can travel with their kids either. I’ve tried that off and on for more than 7 years and it’s only gotten worse. So they no longer go with us. When I’m on vacation I need that retreat time, not just parenting somewhere else.
The US has horrible labor laws and workers get negative 2 hours per year off compared to Europe. That plus we have to pay for our healthcare - these things eat into time and money to travel. Europeans simply don’t understand this.
You have good list. One of my pet peeves of travelling is to figure out how to get from airport to hotel and vice versa unless its not managed by travel agancy. Thing is, its usually always one of these: train, metro, bus, taxi. Still bugs me to figure it out. I guess it has affected some plans. Definately not all though.
It’s important to acknowledge different people’s comfort zones around common barriers to travel. For channel subscribers it’s safe to say we all love travel but may prioritize it in different ways at different times in our lives. I love to travel and have been fortunate to travel widely in my home country of the US, but just got back from only my second international trip ever after a gap of over 24 years. What happened? We had a family, have struggled financially, and live in a part of the country that does not have an international airport or easy access to cheap flights (an issue I did not see mentioned). And I’m another person who hates to fly. We have prioritized our limited travel opportunities to visit family who are spread out in all parts of the continent. We also prioritize travel to specific destinations rather than travel for the sake of traveling. But that’s our choice. More recently our circumstances have changed and we were able to prioritize that big trip to France to mark a major life event (and visit our daughter who is studying abroad). It was wonderful and we enjoyed every minute of it, but it will be a couple of years before we can do that again.
sadly, my one and so far only international traveling was done literally months before I was diagnosed with rectal cancer.. having the now missing parts makes traveling a challenge.. some da6s the mailbox is too far.. enjoy travel while you can...
I heard a story of a man who doctors said his terminal illness couldn't be helped and to just go home and wait for death. Since he thought he was dying anyways, he splurged on a lot of traveling. He was then refreshed and healed. I'm not saying every sick person has to do that, but this is a nice story. Stress is a killer too. There was a doctor from decades ago that pushed for patients to go outside for health and well-being when they were often just stuck inside. I heard some hospitals made laughter rooms where patients could watch comedy and laugh and be refreshed.
One thing I would never do is ask a travel agent on the best travel arrangements - it's like asking a car dealer 'Which is the best car?' - they will sell you the 'deal' where the agent makes most profit.
I still travel solo at the age of 85! I am a decent German speaker and I love visiting Germany, Austria, and South Tirol in Italy. My trips generally are between 3 and 5 weeks. In 2023, my daughter finally traveled to Europe with me, and together we visited Belgium, Germany, Austria, Hungary. She had a blast and is now planning a trip to Greece on her own!
Wow. Amazing. You should do videos of your travels. I don't see many solo travellers aged 80+ 🤙
I think the lack of adequate vacation time in the US is a huge factor. Most people only get 2-3 weeks off a year. If they are like me, my family doesn't live that close to me. So I spend at least one or two weeks a year visiting them on holidays/birthdays/summer vacations, etc. For us to visit Europe from southern California is a major investment in both money and vacation time. I went for 3 weeks about 25 years ago, and I think you really need that long to make it worth it. Especially if you plan on visiting multiple countries.
What you do is just work until you save up 20K or more, then quit the job, and travel in really cheap countries for a few years
@@manout3372 Sounds like a great career and retirement plan. And what do you do if you have a family?
@@norwegianblue2017 Or what if you don't want to travel in really cheap countries? What if you want to go to Paris or London? Neither is cheap.
I’m sure this isn’t for everyone, but if your time is limited maybe go for quality over quantity. For example instead of needing to see Venice, Florence, and Rome, just spend a week in some beautiful town in Umbria or Puglia, or Lombardy. Then make short days trips and relax!
I am in France but worked for a large US company and I was surprised that most Americans, after som years, had 4 weeks of paid vacation per year, not including the holidays. Difference was, that they took days here and there rather than weeks straight, and 3 weeks straight - never.
Buy the plane ticket six months out and now one is committed to the adventure . Don’t tell me what he knows but where he has been . Travel is one of the greatest forms of knowledge there is . Thank you kind sir for your wonderful adventurous spirit .
I buy 10 months out the week the flights are listed. 1. I'm committed. 2. So far, over 10 years of buying flights, the price I pay that week doesn't get any better over the 10 months. The prices go up and down, but never gets lower than the price I paid that first week.
the only problem with purchasing a ticket early is that I get paranoid that something will happen and I cant go, so then I have to buy travel insurance early to cover the ticket!! I did this recently to Europe, as I usually plan only about 4 to 6 weeks ahead
"I cant leave my cat by themselves" meanwhile the cat prefers the house to themselves lol 😂
easy like that 😄, but i can not complain
Cats will always be fine left alone, it's the dogs that have a problem lol
There was a man who left his dogs alone at home for days. When he came back his hungry dogs ate him. He might have thought he left enough food.
Seriously, I don't think much pets can be left alone.
It's also adding to the cost for a petsitter.
Traveling is expensive enough.
Many pets have separation anxiety too.
There were terrible stories of pets dying from how the workers on airplanes treated them too.
@taa64777
No cats do not approve if the staff run off for extended periods of time. You will get the "Where have you been? Not that i care" look.
My number one: sitting in an economy class seat for the 10+ hours it takes me to get to Europe (along with the hassle of getting through the airport) and then arriving at my destination wiped out for the next two days.
There is something weird about the economics of flight classes. A lot of times it would be cheaper to book a 5* hotel and a masseuse to help recover from a long haul flight rather than take a business or first class flight with a lay down bed,
Ikr! I went from Munich to Dubai in economy and I don’t want to travel anymore.
I can tell you my one and only reason: I can't afford it! I would absolutely LOVE to see the world, but that costs money, lots of it and I have none. So that's why I watch travel videos like this, so I at least have the illusion of traveling.
If you really want to travel you can work on increasing your income so you can.
Travel isn't as expensive as you think. If you have zero dollars yes focus on life but if you eat out a couple times a week even if it's fast food look at your budget see what you can cut out. I've traveled to El Salvador for $300 the plane ticket was $150 the Airbnb was $100 for five days and Ubers and papusas were around 50$. It just depends on your travel style.
Budget and don’t blow your money on stupid things like fast food/takeout etc
For myself, I live very frugally so I can travel. But, I made travel my priority. I buy food from discounted food stores, clothes from liquidation stores (and I rarely shop), no "cable" tv, refurbished phone, etc. I literally live my life for the chance to travel. I make less than 48K per year, and I travel at least 7 weeks out of the year.
I've seen all 50 states because 45 of them, I slept in my car at truck stops, state parks, rest stops, or on the side of a quiet country road. Slept in tents. Pawned jewelry for gas while on the road. Now at 57, I've also been to other countries.
I'll be in Hawaii next week. Staying at a campground where the cabins are only $100 per night for 4 people.
Going to Germany in April. Austin, Texas in February.
I know not everyone can do what I do, but as a solo female traveler since the age of 18 who's made a life of traveling on the cheap, I hope you can sometime.
It's possible to travel the world on $1000 usd a month (or slightly less). I've been doing it for years. That's $12,000 usd a year... poverty! Lol 😂
There are also the people that just don't enjoy travel. My mom is one of those people. We've tried many different types of trips, she hates all of it.
Throughout 2024, I traveled solo to 3 countries in Europe: France, Portugal, and Finland. I have done my research ahead of time and know exactly where to stay. It was Incredible! I’m going to Haarlem Netherlands and Trieste Italy from March 19th-25th, 2025. 3 days in each of those countries. Can’t wait!
I was hoping to visit Trieste after Piran and Portorož, but couldn't fit into my schedule. Would've definitely visited there and even eat at Harry's Piccolo if I could fit in. Enjoy your time in March!
@ Thank you!
I've traveled solo to all 50 states and several countries. I'm going to German for 3 weeks solo in April, and I'll travel to Switzerland, Italy, and Austria while I'm there. It's so fun because anything is possible on a whim. Have a great time!
I always travel solo and love it, did turkey, Spain and France in 2024. Doing Germany, Austria, Hungary, Czech and Dubai in 2025
Every time I go on a trip the number one thing some people say is “be safe”. Now I know that they mean well but that fear is not just the plane. I know people that are afraid to go to San Francisco or New York or Chicago. How could they fly to Paris ? Unfortunately news overhypes the bad stories But you nailed it for so many. Mobility or health issues can stop people that really want to travel. A ten hour flight can feel like torture for someone with a back issue.
I had to make a decision about flying long distance because of my spine injuries. I literally save money for a year just so I can fly business class to Europe or Hawaii and be comfortable. I pay more for my flights than the trip itself. But, it's the only way I can do it.
Some people don't want to leave there comfort zone...
And many people who do travel, travel to a comfort zone (all inclusive etc)
Another reason I have come across over the years... Letting family or friends dictate what you do with your free time.
Don't let anyone tell you and your family what you should do with your time. You can always meet up with your family or friends for the 40th time next year!
I wanted to visit Pakistan for many years, and kept putting it off due to safety concerns. Finally went earlier this year, I had nothing to be worried about - amazing country, friendly people, great food, spectacular scenery and tons of history. Highly recommend, definitely going again!
I ❤ solo travel. No drama, no waiting on others, just freedom
For those who don’t want to fly, road trips can be lots of fun and adventurous! We’ve taken great road trips from Ottawa, Canada to drive to NYC, Chicago, the Carolinas, Cape Cod, Hilton Head as well as in Canada to Montreal, Quebec City, Nova Scotia, PEI, Cape Breton and Newfoundland ( including a ferry)! They were all great and memorable trips that we cherish. We’ve also taken lots of trips to Europe etc. by plane, but road trips are so much fun especially if you leave yourself open for unexpected finds along the way! And no baggage restrictions - just chuck it into the car! Travel enriches your life, just do it!
My wife is great at finding interesting stops along the way. For example on the way to South Dakota we visited the Matchstick Museum in Iowa.
I have not traveled by myself. I always take at least one of my sons with me. It gives me someone to share things with and gives them new experiences also. They love it ❤. I use my tax refund if there is any and/or save up and prepay as much as possible. It can be done with a budget. My boys are older, too, and can contribute. Just do it even if it's a short trip.
Flying is the worst part of international travel. It’s not fear, it’s the abysmal experience of dealing with the airlines and airports. The quality has just gone down the toilet! But it doesn’t stop us, just something we have to pass through to get there.
@@Graygeezer I love the travel, I spend extra and go business and first class, I’m not rich but I class the flight as a big part of the holiday and put money into that part of it. In the long run it makes the holiday better as there is no jet lag cause you can actually sleep and eat well.
I have agoraphobia. I used to get anxious for a 3 hour car trip. But I kept trying and now I’ve lived all over the country! About to leave for Hawaii in January, I’m nervous, but it’s going to be a major accomplishment for me!!
I also live with agoraphobia, and it can be an absolute nightmare. I've managed to travel quite a bit during certain periods of my life, so I want to say a huge Congratulations to you because I know the extreme difficulty involved!! There may be setbacks sometimes, but keep up the good work and keep striving towards all your travel dreams :)
@ Thank you!
Have a great trip to Hawaii! I'm going next week. It's my favorite state to visit. You will be so happy you did it, I promise!
What an accomplishment! I have flight anxiety. I've switched flights last minute in the midst of a panic attack. But I've always gone on that trip, and not regretted it. But making that step, it's hard. Proud of you for fighting the good fight for yourself 💛
3:12 Remember, the chances of getting into or even dying in a car accident are greater than getting into and dying in a plane crash
@@RedemptionArcTravels True but the fact that plane crashes = almost certain death while most car crashes can be survived is what plays on people's minds
Great advice! We have always traveled with our kids and by the time they were 5 years old it was easier to travel with them than without them.
I have been trying to get to London for years. The two times I was close to going emergencies came up and I had to use the money to deal with them. I am bound and determined to get there eventually, even it takes until I am 80.
Great video! Travel advisor here - thanks for recommending us. We are a valuable resource!
By the time we were 7, 12, and 17 years old our family had traveled to Mexico, Canada, and Japan. We also traveled to thirty five States, including Alaska, and Hawai'i.
As a blind person, I could tell you I’ve been lots of places in this great world and haven’t seen shit. I got to experience a lot, though from the hustle and bustle and cobblestone streets of Rome to Roatan, Honduras and their insanely beautiful beaches that I could go swimming in, and they’re literally no waves. New York City with its insanity. Vegas with its insanity and beautiful women. New Orleans with its awesome food. It goes on and on. I also wanna say that for some people it may not be anything but they don’t really know about going to other countries but the US is so big and the people are so different anywhere you go there’s plenty to keep you entertained..
I wish more Americans would travel abroad so they could see first hand how other countries do things (some for the worse, but most for the better)...of course, this means traveling with an open mind. I love being an American, but what I despise are Americans who've never been anywhere while beating their chest and saying we're the "best" at everything. SOOOOO not the case! And, I would NEVER travel to a country without learning a handful of words/phrases in their language...Please, thank you, you're welcome, sorry, excuse me, etc. It's not hard, and while most countries can speak English (or at least a little English), it's not uncommon to occasionally bump into someone who doesn't. I was in Germany a couple of years ago in a shop, and had I not taken a few remedial courses in German I wouldn't have been able to complete the transaction with the store owner. Plus, I think it's just common courtesy to at least make an effort. You're in their home, you should be a polite guest, not an entitled jerk. Finally, if you're afraid of the language barrier...start off by traveling to an English speaking country (UK, Ireland, Canada, etc.).
By the way, when we were in Stockholm a few years ago, most Swedes spoke better English than most Americans. And most of all, they have fika (with cardamom buns...mmmmm)!
The building I moved in to in February was made in 1947. My 80 year old neighbor has lived here since the mid 50's, save for a couple of years. She says she doesn't travel abroad, because they don't understand her there. Funny thing is, she speaks very serviceable English.
Some people just aren't made for travel, and the thought of travel can be anxiety inducing.
I get miserable if I don't travel enough.
I was one of those people who was terrified to fly. Discussed it with my family doctor & told her there was no valid reason for my fear, and we talked about it. She prescribed me the lowest dose of Xanax and it worked like a charm! Sometimes, I would board and after takeoff, I’d fall asleep & get a great nap (it depends on how early the flight was). Other times, it just took that edge off and I’d watch a movie on my tablet, be awake the whole trip. Either way, I’m now a great traveler who is able to fly WITHOUT the medication. 👍🏼 Don’t let the fear keep you from flying! It’s funny…I now actually prefer to fly, than to drive, whenever possible. Who’d have ever thought that????
I’m in France by myself right now. That said I do speak fluent French so that does help.
Brilliant!!!
Probably the best travel video I have watched.
Your videos address real issues travelers face. Like loosing there meds, fear of flying, excuses not to travel.
Since "finding" you on You tube you have enriched my (our) travel experience 10 fold.
Thank you so much for all you do for us.
I know it's rough traveling around the world having fun!! hahaha!!!
Merry Christmas to you and your family.
I got my first passport at the age of 38, just before the pandemic hit. Last year, I went abroad for the first time ever - I'd never been to an airport before, and I went by myself. The destination was Melbourne, passing through Frankfurt and Singapore (I just stayed in the airports for those). The only reason I could afford it was because I was on a secondment at work and the pay allowed me to set aside some money (I stayed with friends in Melbourne so didn't have the cost of a hotel).
I like traveling solo for simple reasons of going where I want to go, when I want to go, spend as much or as little time at one place, eat where I want to, etc. Often, I would see what I wanted to see in a city and go on to the next destination without constraints. It may have been 3 or 4 days or it may be in less than 24 hours. I've done that in a few European cities and I liked how I did it.
My exe's aunt won't travel because "planes are falling out of the sky every day and every cruise ship is always sinking." Doesn't stop her though from driving on the freeway at 35 in the left lane.
Thank you for talking about the fear of flying. For ages I would get anxious just seeing a plane take off. I finally broke down and talked to my doctor and got a prescription for a low dose of Ativan and voila, I became a flying aficionado 👍
Thank you for this video. My pet peeve is the whole narrative that once you have kids you can’t travel. Your channel has inspired me to continue traveling w/ my kids. Making priceless memories with my children are the best vacations ever 😊
My kids are 2 years apart and there mother died several years ago. Since the younger one became school age I've begun taking them on some trips with me. They are generally excited and have great fun with airports and flying. I've found with road trips that it is good to build an extra day in outbound and stop frequently. After a week away they don't mind a brisk, more focused return trip as much.
As a person who loves to travel, and has relatives who don't, thank you! My dream vacation is to take all my family ( ALL) on a trip together. Plus close friends as a bonus... I feel that even if I had all the money, planned everything, picked the relatives in their home, transported them and pay for everything, they still wouldn't go...
@@kellygb4370 Cause of the same reason, if they feel they can’t afford for it, they wouldn’t then. They’d feel burdened. ❤️ It isn’t personal, it’s just depending on trust & reciprocity of a pure kind (very rare).
@@kellygb4370 hello! I can be a "seat filler"🤣 😁 for one or some (if I take my two kids and husband) of your family members...can you take me instead? 😉
Hi Wolter I just love your blogs and videos As a person who came from a family who never traveled much before (until the past few years) I agree with all of your points they are spot on . I find when i also talk to people who don't travel much many of the same "fears or "excuses" are also stated by people to me. I find that if you take the time to plan as well as do your research prior and the biggest of all is to create a savings fund exclusively for travel expenses traveling is actually easier than most realize until they actually DO IT! Thank you again for all of your advice!
We finally had the financial flexibility to travel again. I was even able to take multiple trips for the first time in years. But I did develop a dislike for air travel. It’s not a fear of flying, it’s more about being contained in a tight space and trusting my life with people I don’t know and maybe a little altitude sickness.
"Talk to your therapist" if you are scared of flying? A wealthy solution to a complicated problem.
Here in the U.K. I go on coach tours as a solo traveller. I’ve used companies such as Shearings on a trip to Italy this year & Ledger to Austria last year. I’m visually impressed too. So you can go on holiday by yourself but with other people.
I can't stand body odor, cologne, and perfume in airplane. People these days douse themselves with a bucket of perfume. It gives me headaches whenever i smell it.
For me, it is a combination of: horrible overthinking/anxiety (makes planning stressful, unable to enjoy myself), terrible social awkwardness, and a lack of enough PTO to be able to travel the way I would actually want to, and with that, knowing the pile of paperwork that will await me when I come back leads to more anxiety. I cancelled a trip to Spain earlier this year just because of a combination of these things. I want to get better at these things in the future (not much I can do about the PTO thing). I want to go to Ireland in 2025 and I hope that I am able to follow through with it this time.
Hey, I hope you can go to Ireland this time. It might be less intimidating as it's a shorter flight, you can see a lot in less time as it's a smaller country (maybe manage it in that lil PTO slot). No language barrier might help, too. Also, you're not alone. I've changed flights because I was having a panic attack. Anxiety is real and scary. But every time I go despite that feeling, I'm glad I did.
@ Thank you for the encouraging words, yes I think Ireland is a better place to start off with. Happy holidays!
I always show my Mum your videos when I travel abroad with her, Mark ❤
I was that way for decades, inheriting that bug from my mother. (My dad traveled often due to his Air Force career) I started international traveling when I met my girlfriend (now wife of nearly 35 years), who hails from South America. Long story short, we've been actively traveling abroad since 2017....and the experiences have been invaluable.
There are some really cool plane spotter channels that I really think could help some people that have fear of flying, watching plane after plane take off and land without issue can help some, sometimes even in the worst weather you see the professionalism of the pilots that get the planes down in bad weather or don't take a chance and go around to try again. I watch them as a sort of ASMR, and imagine the the places that the planes are headed to. And, I hear from people in the chat that it really has helped them with their fear of flying.
Honestly, I wouldn't STOP travelling if I could. I intend to become a constant traveller when I can!
Solo travel are, often, the best experience!!
Most times I invite someone along, I wish I hadn't. lol
Great content. Really enjoying your channel - Heading to Italy in the Spring so I've been binging your Italy videos.
Great topic, tks, Mark.
TOLEDO! Way to rep my hometown. The zoo and the art museum are really good.
There are some really good Metro parks as well
You realize that there is more than one Toledo in the world, right? The the one, that i would think of does not even have a Zoo and is older than 2000years. That town is actually a really fantastic travel destination near Madrid. Only problem is, that most Spanish people speak next to no English.
@amduser86 he was specifically talking about the one in Ohio. listen again
How about straight up greediness? I have some friends who make good money, no medical debt, no kids, but a thought of spending $1000 on a plane ticket throws them into a rage: "What? Thousand bucks? To look at some painting in France...F that!" (Granted it does not preclude them spending money on other useless garbage.)
The mental hurdle of travel with/after cancer is only one aspect of it - the insurance is a very big factor, at least here in the UK the companies aren't legally allowed to discriminate, but they will go out of their way to make sure it's unaffordable! (15 years later I'm only just getting to "normal" levels - though certain places are still obscene!) As a traveller though, a lot of the stuff that puts people off genuinely makes me more likely to go, if there's a slight fear factor it means you'll enjoy it so much more when you get there to realise it's actually nowhere near the barrier you'd built up in your mind.
If you have limited mobility issues, I don’t recommend traveling to Vancouver, BC because you will do a lot of walking because parking close to the attraction, restaurant, or eatery is nearly impossible
I'm sorry that your Dad had cancer. I hope he is alright.
The US is so large that going between states is like changing countries in Eurasia or Africa. Heck, most countries are outsized by TEXAS.
I have in-laws who have the means to travel but don't travel because: 1-Don't want to part with their money. 2. Have no interest in seeing other cultures and other people...a waste of time and money. 3. Comfortable in their own 10 mile radius bubble. 4. Travel only to visit people. 5. The bottom line is most people have no interest in traveling period.
My ex-wife is of Mexican descent, speaks fluent Spanish, and you can see into Mexico from her house. She has NEVER been to Mexico! Cause we have a daughter together I still go to El Paso where she lives to see my daughter. I have been to Mexico twice now! 🇲🇽🌮🌴
My fear of flying has gotten worse as I've aged. Also, I'm tall and have back pain, and most seats are uncomfortable and lack leg room. So any flight more than a few hours is difficult.
Great discussion!
This is going to sound ridiculous but my biggest fear of traveling is finding a place to go to the bathroom.
Hey Mark, very interesting video
Loved this video. There are many ways to travel and you can always do it
I do love the Mark Twain travel quote about it being fatal to prejudice. I say travel is the best education.. it's hard to be a hater if you have been places and talked to people. The biggest haters are the ones who have never left their state... yet.. have an entitled opinion and think they know about the world.
In 2016 I made a commitment to travel, whether local or abroad. I "cut the cable", put an additional $75 month to a travel fund, make my own coffee drinks and other lifestyle modifications. It took a bit to adjust but now its habit. I plan travel many months/years in advance. Yes it takes a commitment but know it can be done.
So true, most of my friends say they have other responsibilities and can't spend their time and money on travel.
Excellent video as always Mark. We love traveling and we went to Spain 2023 and Ireland 2022, and 20 other countries between 1988-1989. And we considered a trip for this year but our daughters moved between places domestically so that was our traveling this year. That was one excuse to to not travel overseas, and you touched on a big reason: the dread of having to plan it out. Expedia certainly makes the process easier, but just the thought of establishing an itinerary and figuring out where exactly you were where to go can be time consuming and stressful. What we will do for the next one is take advantage of our AAA membership where travel agent services are available, I believe free. Next destination is Japan.
AAA is a great travel resource.
"No one to travel with"
Some people with this Reason for that: fear of getting lost, which is i can understand and relate. Especially for 1st time experience.
Google maps are reliable, well most of the time ))
My Nan has been to Northern Ireland (I've never been), America (Connecticut and New York which I've never been to as I've never been to America), Australia (Melbourne which I've never been to as I've never been to Australia), Bangkok (never been) and Singapore (never been)
A few other of my family members on both sides (my Mum and Dad's sides) have been to America
I don't travel abroad because 1. I don't make enough money to save for a vacation. 2. I only get two weeks vacation per year and I'm not allowed to use both weeks in a row. 3. Major disability prevents me from sitting in one place too long. 4. I'm single and I don't have someone to watch my pets so when I do travel, my trips are a day long max. 5. Can't afford pet lodging for the same reason that I don't earn great wages. There are more people in my situation than most people realize.
"metal tube of death" you can't say that on the plane. 😂😂
Thats what I call trains and busses around my part of the world, or 'Germ Tube' is another. Because of the grubs who cough and sneeze all over the other passengers.
Mark: I've seen almost all of your videos and I just got back from my 10th international trip. I admit:
1. 10-12 hours on a plane hurts your bum A LOT
2. Related, I can't sleep on a plane
3. Related, I can't afford a 1st class or business-class seat, the trip is ALREADY the budget!
4. Related, the jet-lag is awful!
5. Weather changes can be hard on your health
6. Sometimes you can get sick when on vacation!
7. I brought back a European string of COVID-19 weeeeee
8. It's really expensive, I just spent $5,000 USD on 7 days in Finland, so did my girlfriend. And we don't "live large!"
ALL WORTH IT TO ME
Hey, I fell off a chair and bruised my tailbone (ps chair backs make lousy ladders). I took a special seat cushion with me on several long haul flights for the next year. It helps, alot! And grab some JetZone for that jetlag. (Full disclosure I am not a doctor, check with yours before taking jetzone). 😅
Just flew over to Europe and back in the last 10 days. My tail bone is still sore!
My husband uses a CPAC machine. They recommend distilled water be used in the machine. I have friends that say they can’t get distilled water in other countries. I have always been able to find distilled water in any country from Mexico to Jamaica to Europe. I guess I look harder.
At 9:57 that highway is Highway 37 in Novato, California Marin County. It runs east and west from Novato to Vallejo before it meets up with Highway 80.
Thanks for the honesty. Sometimes people have reasons that might sound crazy to other people but it’s their reasons.
I didn't travel anywhere as a child. We did the odd day trip to the seaside, but that was it. Now I am retired and can't afford to travel, I spent a lot of time looking after a parent, now I live on my own, but I have found hobbies that I can afford.
A language barrier can seem like a tough obstacle, but we have technology to make that an easier hurdle to clear. When I was in Vietnam, I had an entire conversation with a taxi driver just using the translation apps on our phones. I live in Korea, and even without technology, I can get by. I saw a doctor who had very limited English. I had to use nothing but hand gestures and very basic, broken Korean to explain my cold-like symptoms. But he understood enough of what I was trying to say, and he figured out what was wrong with me.
I need a vacation after taking a vacation!
You and Jocelyn are much better at traveling with a smile. I would rather watch you two and the kids.
Health is definitely the thing for me. Just going to my brother's for an extended weekend, two-thirds of my duffel bag was medical supplies. Then there's the wheelchair. And I'm diabetic so I have to carefully pick and choose what to eat for three days. I should be braver, I know. Heck, if I was confident enough to go from my hotel to the Louvre or the British Museum, that right there would be a great time. 🌍
I had a job where we were only allowed to take off on Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays. I could never take off on Mondays or Fridays. So how much could I do leaving on Tuesday morning and coming home Thursday afternoon?
The daunting thought of having to plan a trip to Europe…I love that part! But it is definitely not for everyone.
I have a hidden disability (Asperger's Syndrome) and Manchester Airport are very accommodating for autistic people in past experience ❤
7:10 Normally, I am a solo traveller . No-one else can keep up with my schedule . Occasionally I've met up with others for an hour or two of the schedule but that's it .
9:35 ha ha ha that had me laughing hysterically in the bed! Very funny but also accurate !
I’ve had a travel savings account for over 30 years. My monthly contribution increased as my salary improved. It’s one of the smartest things I ever did to make sure I traveled regularly.
I'm Australian so flying to Europe or America was somewhat expensive and felt like it needed a long trip to justify the expense. I avoided because of time and money for my entire working career but now that I'm retired I've taken a few long trips and they've been wonderful. I wish I had the resources to do it more when I was younger.
What about the exaggerated perceptions of danger abroad? (especially for certain places like the Middle East or South America). Or the notion that people outside the US hate Americans (for Americans)? Those are some other big ones.
Toledo (my home town), Cedar Point sounds like a great summer! Love it!
I am afraid to fly and am yet to get on a plane. 2025 I am flying to Europe. I am so scared but YOLO! If it's meant to be, it's meant to be.
We travel with our daughter all the time after being told 14 years ago, when pregnant, well there goes your travel time. Daughter has been to California 4 times already (from FL).
We are always looking for a way to travel. 14 day cruise coming soon!
You'll have a wonderful time!
Fear of flying is no joke. And anxiety isn't logical so you can't just think your way out of a panic. Talk to your doctor. Acupuncture and a lot of prayer help me get on most of our flights.
@@jocelynwoltersworld thank you for the kind words.
I'm glad I did my traveling in my youth. Mexico, Colombia, and the UAE. I also resided, worked, & studied in those 3 fantastic countries.
At 19, I planned my trip to Mexico --- w/o a travel agent, no internet, 100% enjoyable. By myself. Met wonderful people. I did this twice. Then I lived and worked in Colombia for 5 years. Later, Abu Dhabi for 3 years. 🎶 Those were great times! 🎶
This is a great video ... great advice. Now that I'm old and mobility is an issue, while I don't disagree with your comments about traveling while being disabled, I do say that the thought of traveling is a bit more daunting. If I did get that "travel bug" again, I definitely wouldn't do it alone.
Bon Voyage, travelers. Wolter's World is a great resource.
We would travel more, and for longer, but we have dogs and don't like to leave them for too long. We have a great dog sitter who comes to the house but the dogs still get stressed when we are gone.
I always travel on my own.
Passports are expensive but they last for 10 years (in the UK anyway), or 5 years for child passports
I know I am not the norm, but for me, I prioritized traveling in my teens. I wanted to see and experience as much out there as I could. I worked 2 and 3 jobs into my 40s, I never married, never had kids. I would work long enough to save for a road trip, quit, and go. When I got back, I got another job, and did it again.
Slept in my car at rest stops, truck stops, state parks, etc..
Now, I'm 57, been to all 50 states, several countries, and I'm still traveling. I'll be in Germany in April.
Granted now I can afford to travel more "in style" than when I was in my 20s, but because I prioritized it, I did it. I make less than 48K per year.
Again, I know not everyone can, but that's what I did.
I have been to dozens of countries and I HATE flying. I'm claustrophobic, so flying is definitely the worst part unless you are in business class. Talk to your doctor about getting a few pills that will relax you, like xanax or a muscle relaxer. Its totally fine and quite common.
Sadly some places charge solo supplements when travelling alone
But most places don't. Planes, trains, hotels, restaurants don't do that. Just do some research or get help with research. Or go off-season when prices may be lower even with the supplement. And some outfits are dropping the supplement sometimes
I had never heard of that. I’m wondering what the line of thinking is on that. Do you know?
@528Circle No idea 🤷♂️
They imagine that they could rent the room to a couple or family and get the extra $$$ from packing more people in. While there are some costs which are fixed, like laundry, most of it is pure greed.
@@brucelee3388 I see
If you are too busy for work. Plan a work trip. Go on a business trip and see the sites where you are. Also can start planning small. Trip to San Antonio. Build up from there.
I travelled a lot this year (UK, Turkey, Ireland, Toronto, Niagara Falls, NYC), and a lot of people who aren't as travelled keep expressing to me how worried they are for my safety. Kinda want to give them some grace, as I know they haven't travelled much, but I wish they could hear me when I explain that a) there are ways to check if your destination is safe, b) I do that research, and c) lack of familiarity with a country often breeds an irrational presumption of danger that doesn't really exist.
Not everyone prioritizes travel the same way. I always want to leave our state and fly somewhere but my husband could care less. I go somewhere solo about once a year. Not everyone can travel with their kids either. I’ve tried that off and on for more than 7 years and it’s only gotten worse. So they no longer go with us. When I’m on vacation I need that retreat time, not just parenting somewhere else.
The US has horrible labor laws and workers get negative 2 hours per year off compared to Europe. That plus we have to pay for our healthcare - these things eat into time and money to travel. Europeans simply don’t understand this.
You have good list. One of my pet peeves of travelling is to figure out how to get from airport to hotel and vice versa unless its not managed by travel agancy. Thing is, its usually always one of these: train, metro, bus, taxi. Still bugs me to figure it out. I guess it has affected some plans. Definately not all though.
It’s important to acknowledge different people’s comfort zones around common barriers to travel. For channel subscribers it’s safe to say we all love travel but may prioritize it in different ways at different times in our lives. I love to travel and have been fortunate to travel widely in my home country of the US, but just got back from only my second international trip ever after a gap of over 24 years. What happened? We had a family, have struggled financially, and live in a part of the country that does not have an international airport or easy access to cheap flights (an issue I did not see mentioned). And I’m another person who hates to fly. We have prioritized our limited travel opportunities to visit family who are spread out in all parts of the continent. We also prioritize travel to specific destinations rather than travel for the sake of traveling. But that’s our choice. More recently our circumstances have changed and we were able to prioritize that big trip to France to mark a major life event (and visit our daughter who is studying abroad). It was wonderful and we enjoyed every minute of it, but it will be a couple of years before we can do that again.
sadly, my one and so far only international traveling was done literally months before I was diagnosed with rectal cancer.. having the now missing parts makes traveling a challenge.. some da6s the mailbox is too far.. enjoy travel while you can...
I heard a story of a man who doctors said his terminal illness couldn't be helped and to just go home and wait for death.
Since he thought he was dying anyways, he splurged on a lot of traveling.
He was then refreshed and healed.
I'm not saying every sick person has to do that, but this is a nice story.
Stress is a killer too.
There was a doctor from decades ago that pushed for patients to go outside for health and well-being when they were often just stuck inside.
I heard some hospitals made laughter rooms where patients could watch comedy and laugh and be refreshed.
One thing I would never do is ask a travel agent on the best travel arrangements - it's like asking a car dealer 'Which is the best car?' - they will sell you the 'deal' where the agent makes most profit.