As an older woman (very late 40’s) I admire you so much for sharing this information because I wish I had this knowledge in my toolkit many, many years ago so I wouldn’t be where I am now. Thank you for inspiring the young women and equipping them with this wisdom and reminding us older women that we still need to care about ourselves inside and out.
Timestamps for future reference. 0:00 What "Letting Yourself Go" means and how to fix it 4:25 You can be your own priority 5:13 Routines and Systems 9:40 Prioritize 12:04 How to identify your priorities 13:55 Health and Wellbeing 14:18 Today's Sponsor: Embody 17:35 Delegate and Outsource 20:05 When should you delegate 21:13 Upcoming Videos and Outro
I heard a great way to be consistent with a skincare routine is to start your nighttime routine whenever you get home asap. So if you're done at the office or picking up kids at 4/5pm or something, do it then! So when you're tired it's already done.
Definitely need this. Finally walking away from my 4 year abusive marriage. Making the 22 hour trip back home next week, with my 2 year old. Have totally let myself go due to stress. Thank you Whitney. 💗 your videos have helped me begin to find my self worth again
You deserve better and so does your child ❤️ I'm proud of you for leaving, that's a huge not letting yourself go that just happens to come with many temporary smaller lettings go ❤️
Congratulations Kristin. I am so very happy for you ensuring your survival and that of your child. May the abuser get exactly what they deserve. Traveling blessings and healing wishes to you!
i’ve been hard on myself lately because i’m going through a depression funk and i’ve been feeling ugly just about everyday. from my clothes, to my hair, to the no makeup, i just always feel blah. really trying to break out of this funk & best believe these videos are motivating and inspiring to get myself back to normal. love you whitney! thank you so much for this empowering content!
I feel this deep in my soul. I’ve mentally physically exhausted myself to the point of going to therapy to help get me out of this funk I am in. I am struggling so much and I don’t where to start. I’ve started reading my scripture & joined a small group at church but I am still struggling! And I am so tired of struggling.
Great advise on prioritizing! This comes from a 60+ mom and wife. Great for young moms to hear. Another tip is to do anything you can do in advance! I always do my table scape weeks before as part of my seasonal decor. Then day/week of I add any feeah accents such as greenery to finish it off/sometimes as simple as herb cuttings as napkin ring/tie accents. My 3 girls were almost grown before I figured it all out so kudos to you!
Good Video as always Love that thumbnail tho Your Beautiful Self Makeup always on Point Nice Cheeks Structure Have a Fabulous Weekend Too Be Bless n Stay safe always
YES! Taking care of yourself is important! I was always criticized for that, but I did it anyway 👏. And keeping a schedule helps me literally stay SANE but that was always pushed back against HARD. So over it and ready to put me and my kids first. Sorry to spew about my personal drama but holy WOW an I resonating with you and your energy! 🙌🙌🙌 Thank you
I let myself go without even noticing it, trying to meet deadlines before the year ends and it left me completely drained. Yesterday I made the resolution to start focusing on getting myself back and this video just came at a perfect time.
I'm in messy bun and leggings land every day and for me that's not a problem, because I like the look more than I'd like the look and feel of pants or jeans, but I see how for many people it would be a bit of an issue
I was freaking killing it and then I had to move within a two month time span and it got real real guick! I didn't get a pedi for over three months and didn't comb my hair or care for my skin properly for the greater good of getting moved and now I'm getting back on track!!
Yeah, if one doesn't want to look like you because they have different tastes that doesn't mean they can't be high maintenance, it just means their high maintenance would look different
I needed this reminder. The first thing that always comes to mind with “letting yourself go” is physically…. Which does happen. As you can imagine, I’m a beauty junkie & pro makeup artist so im all about glam and there are times where I’ve gone days without makeup or my usual makeup routine or doing anything other than a bun to my hair. BUT… when you said spiritually, I FELT THAT. I have let myself go spiritually and I just discovered it. This video couldn’t have come in at a better time 💗
I started following you during your no buy videos. While I liked the concepts, and it gave me a lot of insight into the tricks the beauty industry uses to get you to buy more stuff, it did trend toward the negative. I’m really into this new content. I love these ideas you have about taking care of yourself inside and out. It’s a really positive message and I’m looking forward to what’s to come.
On point! I am at the point where it's terribly obvious to myself and my partner that I have let myself go. Some days I don't even want to get out of bed, including today, still in bed, haven't showered in not 1 not 2 but 3 days. Whimper.
Sending you prayers and love ❤️ . U have inspired me so much thank you for being transparent with your journey.. I used to believe in goals but since I watched your videos. I believe in systems n routine
This content is helping me get my shit together so much!! I’m also curious to hear more about the vitamins. I know that too much Vitamin A can build up in the body and become an issue but I wonder about how they formulate these!
Oh wow, that's wonderful about your daughter and husband figure skating! It's a dream of mine that I'm terrified of because I'm terrified of falling on ice
Totally agree that a planner is a super powerful tool for becoming more intentional with your time. Ooh, I have a priority matrix pad in my etsy shop. Such a great technique
Loved it! Really needed this 💛thank you. I’d love to hear a dedicated video to your thoughts on beauty and how they affect your internal and how your internal affects your external. I totally agree with you on it and would love a full video on the topic- if that’s something you’d be interested in doing 🥰 xx
I can not say on how many levels I can relate to everything you say in this video. There are so many people that make motivational videos but don't succeed in actually motivating, but you are so real and to the point. I love it ❤
We can’t do anything without Jesus. We can’t do this life in our own strength, we’ll eventually run on E (empty). Whoever is reading this, God loves you soooo much!
Whitney adore you so much ! You are an inspiration. I just got myself a Notiq planned in rose gold ! ✨💖 Thank you for being you and for your wonderful content. I appreciate you so much.
I will promise to myself that I’ll start making money I would save a lot of it in order for me to look and feel confident and good about myself. I want to be High Maintenance girl soon *Manifesting and Planning*
I'm watching this as I'm preparing coffee and getting ready to wrap gifts while the rest of the house is asleep...neurodivergent folx like us have the WORST time getting a routine! I still have no set routine other than the nights that I work! Haha
When I plan a big meal, I do delicate… I had my sister in law bring meatballs, my sister bring over guac (plus buy chips) and my mom stuffing for Thanksgiving (it’s the meal I host because it’s my hubby’s b-day) - I cook the Turkey, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, butternut squash soup etc plus desserts - my mom had me bring over some desserts for Christmas Eve… because Christmas Day is my birthday and I wanna be low key, I want to go out for a movie and have dinner out… New Year’s Eve we do a takeout potluck and I think it’s really fun, the kids enjoy the bell out of it.
As an older woman (very late 40’s) I admire you so much for sharing this information because I wish I had this knowledge in my toolkit many, many years ago so I wouldn’t be where I am now. Thank you for inspiring the young women and equipping them with this wisdom and reminding us older women that we still need to care about ourselves inside and out.
Thank you so much!!
I'm 50- agree! I'm still a work in progress!
Timestamps for future reference.
0:00 What "Letting Yourself Go" means and how to fix it
4:25 You can be your own priority
5:13 Routines and Systems
9:40 Prioritize
12:04 How to identify your priorities
13:55 Health and Wellbeing
14:18 Today's Sponsor: Embody
17:35 Delegate and Outsource
20:05 When should you delegate
21:13 Upcoming Videos and Outro
Thank you!
I heard a great way to be consistent with a skincare routine is to start your nighttime routine whenever you get home asap. So if you're done at the office or picking up kids at 4/5pm or something, do it then! So when you're tired it's already done.
Husbands - its called being a present parent - just existing in the same house is not enough!
Alllllrighhhtyyyyy
I really needed this, I've been struggling with getting myself back on track, thank you 🙏💜
You got this babe!
Definitely need this. Finally walking away from my 4 year abusive marriage. Making the 22 hour trip back home next week, with my 2 year old. Have totally let myself go due to stress. Thank you Whitney. 💗 your videos have helped me begin to find my self worth again
Omg! Congratulations on taking steps for yourself my love! So proud of you xoxoxo
You deserve better and so does your child ❤️ I'm proud of you for leaving, that's a huge not letting yourself go that just happens to come with many temporary smaller lettings go ❤️
Congratulations Kristin. I am so very happy for you ensuring your survival and that of your child. May the abuser get exactly what they deserve. Traveling blessings and healing wishes to you!
You can do this! Don’t doubt it for a second! May God bless you in your journey to healing ❤️🩹
Wishing you and your little one all the very best Kristen xxxx.
Practice is the key 🔑! Great content. Thank you for being so open in a way that others can relate and learn from! ☺️👍🌸
i’ve been hard on myself lately because i’m going through a depression funk and i’ve been feeling ugly just about everyday. from my clothes, to my hair, to the no makeup, i just always feel blah.
really trying to break out of this funk & best believe these videos are motivating and inspiring to get myself back to normal.
love you whitney! thank you so much for this empowering content!
Thank you so much for watching! And just keep getting up and doing the next right thing :)
Yes!! Planner life
Have you read the book tiny habits? It’s an awesome book that teaches how to introduce a new habit into your already set routines.
Oooh! I need to look into it :)
I feel this deep in my soul. I’ve mentally physically exhausted myself to the point of going to therapy to help get me out of this funk I am in. I am struggling so much and I don’t where to start. I’ve started reading my scripture & joined a small group at church but I am still struggling! And I am so tired of struggling.
Great advise on prioritizing! This comes from a 60+ mom and wife. Great for young moms to hear. Another tip is to do anything you can do in advance! I always do my table scape weeks before as part of my seasonal decor. Then day/week of I add any feeah accents such as greenery to finish it off/sometimes as simple as herb cuttings as napkin ring/tie accents. My 3 girls were almost grown before I figured it all out so kudos to you!
Good Video as always
Love that thumbnail tho
Your Beautiful Self
Makeup always on Point
Nice Cheeks Structure
Have a Fabulous Weekend Too
Be Bless n Stay safe always
You as well! ;)
AnyTimE
Keep doing your thing
I Sure Am
YES! Taking care of yourself is important! I was always criticized for that, but I did it anyway 👏. And keeping a schedule helps me literally stay SANE but that was always pushed back against HARD. So over it and ready to put me and my kids first. Sorry to spew about my personal drama but holy WOW an I resonating with you and your energy! 🙌🙌🙌 Thank you
I always need to write notes while watching your videos! Awesome work
Thank you!!
I let myself go without even noticing it, trying to meet deadlines before the year ends and it left me completely drained. Yesterday I made the resolution to start focusing on getting myself back and this video just came at a perfect time.
I'm in messy bun and leggings land every day and for me that's not a problem, because I like the look more than I'd like the look and feel of pants or jeans, but I see how for many people it would be a bit of an issue
I was freaking killing it and then I had to move within a two month time span and it got real real guick!
I didn't get a pedi for over three months and didn't comb my hair or care for my skin properly for the greater good of getting moved and now I'm getting back on track!!
but thats ok :) as long as we get back up its all we can hope for :)
Yeah, if one doesn't want to look like you because they have different tastes that doesn't mean they can't be high maintenance, it just means their high maintenance would look different
Yes!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼
I needed this reminder. The first thing that always comes to mind with “letting yourself go” is physically…. Which does happen. As you can imagine, I’m a beauty junkie & pro makeup artist so im all about glam and there are times where I’ve gone days without makeup or my usual makeup routine or doing anything other than a bun to my hair. BUT… when you said spiritually, I FELT THAT. I have let myself go spiritually and I just discovered it. This video couldn’t have come in at a better time 💗
I started following you during your no buy videos. While I liked the concepts, and it gave me a lot of insight into the tricks the beauty industry uses to get you to buy more stuff, it did trend toward the negative. I’m really into this new content. I love these ideas you have about taking care of yourself inside and out. It’s a really positive message and I’m looking forward to what’s to come.
Whitney, you are making a great channel. Keep going.
Thank you so much!
I LOVE the prioritizing tips! I always use my planner but categorizing my task list like that is perfect.
On point! I am at the point where it's terribly obvious to myself and my partner that I have let myself go. Some days I don't even want to get out of bed, including today, still in bed, haven't showered in not 1 not 2 but 3 days. Whimper.
Sending you prayers and love ❤️ . U have inspired me so much thank you for being transparent with your journey.. I used to believe in goals but since I watched your videos. I believe in systems n routine
This content is helping me get my shit together so much!! I’m also curious to hear more about the vitamins. I know that too much Vitamin A can build up in the body and become an issue but I wonder about how they formulate these!
I am having a great experience but come to the live stream!
@@whitneyhedrick I definitely will! I love beauty supplements
Oh wow, that's wonderful about your daughter and husband figure skating! It's a dream of mine that I'm terrified of because I'm terrified of falling on ice
Just do it! Fall down and get back up. I eat it all the time when roller skating. Get some padded pants!
Girl me too! Hahaha
@@sunnyday_lemonbars you make a great point about padding and I'm feeling silly for not having thought of it. Thank you, I now have some actual hope!
Totally agree that a planner is a super powerful tool for becoming more intentional with your time.
Ooh, I have a priority matrix pad in my etsy shop. Such a great technique
thats so cool! :)
Loved it! Really needed this 💛thank you. I’d love to hear a dedicated video to your thoughts on beauty and how they affect your internal and how your internal affects your external. I totally agree with you on it and would love a full video on the topic- if that’s something you’d be interested in doing 🥰 xx
Will do for sure :)
Oh my goodness!! Sweetheart what happened to the back of your hands????
I can not say on how many levels I can relate to everything you say in this video. There are so many people that make motivational videos but don't succeed in actually motivating, but you are so real and to the point. I love it ❤
Check out the organized money here on UA-cam. She is a functional planner who shows how to plan for your routines and habits.
oh girl.....I love me some organized money!!! :)
@@whitneyhedrick you seem like you would be planning besties 👯♀️
Love your jewelry!!!! Please dish! ;)
So so looking forward to some planning videos
We can’t do anything without Jesus. We can’t do this life in our own strength, we’ll eventually run on E (empty). Whoever is reading this, God loves you soooo much!
31 here and you better believe I have a laundry routine too! 👏
I watch all your old high maintenance videos over and over again. Please bring them back. Lots of love.
Returning very soon I promise :)
@@whitneyhedrick Yayy thank you
Can we have a vlog with your morning routine please? Would be very motivating for all of us!! Xx
Coming soon!
Love all routine and planning content from you! Thank you!
Yay! Thank you!
Whitney adore you so much ! You are an inspiration.
I just got myself a Notiq planned in rose gold ! ✨💖
Thank you for being you and for your wonderful content. I appreciate you so much.
Great video!! Love your content so much.
Thanks so much!!
I’m in a hopeless, miserable marriage.
As I write this I’m fighting with my husband. I hate him.
He thinks therapy is bullshit. I need help.
Uhhhh…. Yea. That was good, to say the least!!!! Struggling. Don’t want to…. Have to…. Mind game.
Love how you’re upping the video with add in text and clips of what you’re talking about! Appreciate all the info you freely share! ♥️
I will promise to myself that I’ll start making money I would save a lot of it in order for me to look and feel confident and good about myself. I want to be High Maintenance girl soon *Manifesting and Planning*
I need to get a new planner.
They’re so helpful
Agreed!
grateful to have found your channel ✨
Im glad you are here! :)
Your necklaces are beautiful! where did you get them?
Love your content Whitney. Thank you for all you do 💕
Thanks Whitney. This is good advice I needed to hear.
So Glad I found your channel!!! Love you!!!!
Thanks Whitney 🌸🤍🎀
Thanks for watching!
I needed this video! Thank you 🙏🏻
I'm watching this as I'm preparing coffee and getting ready to wrap gifts while the rest of the house is asleep...neurodivergent folx like us have the WORST time getting a routine! I still have no set routine other than the nights that I work! Haha
I have SO MANY routines that I follow and am trying to implement. I will have more videos on how to get into the habit of them and such :)
Just a perfect video.
When I plan a big meal, I do delicate… I had my sister in law bring meatballs, my sister bring over guac (plus buy chips) and my mom stuffing for Thanksgiving (it’s the meal I host because it’s my hubby’s b-day) - I cook the Turkey, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, butternut squash soup etc plus desserts - my mom had me bring over some desserts for Christmas Eve… because Christmas Day is my birthday and I wanna be low key, I want to go out for a movie and have dinner out… New Year’s Eve we do a takeout potluck and I think it’s really fun, the kids enjoy the bell out of it.
So your mans bday is thanksgiving and your is xmas? thats so cool!!!! Also Happy Birthday!!!!1
@@whitneyhedrick. Thank you MERRY CHRISTMAS to you and your wonderful family
I’m in the middle of finals and I’m relying on my skincare routine to keep myself grounded.
Gotta do what you gotta do! :)
Loved the video and I relate so much to everything you talk about!
Thank you!!
Love this!!!
Can you link the vitamins please?
just did :)
@@whitneyhedrick struggling to find it