Naya Rivera, you changed and inspired us through our teenage years. You were a role model to many, impacting our lives deeper than most people could ever understand. To lose you is unthinkable. You were at one of the most joyous, vibrant times of your life when you were taken from us. My heart goes out to all of her family. Little Josey, I know you'll grow up remembering and learning every day what an amazing soul your mother was. Yolanda and George, I'm so sorry for your loss. No parent should ever have to outlive their child. Mychal and Nickayla, the bond you three had was stronger than even most siblings can understand. To everyone Naya touched in her life, may we all remember her forever, not in sadness but in the joy she so effortlessly shared with the world. Naya Rivera, rest in peace and power.
I related so much to the Santana story ark I'm from Brazil originally and came out when I was 16 to the disappointment of my parents now I'm happily married to a wonderful woman but half my family still don't talk to me but I'm ok with that as the people in my life accept and support me for who I am to everyone going through this keep strong it gets better. Just remember WWBD ( what would Brittany do) ;)
@@ranip7644 well to gay people it is a part of them. When ur straight it’s considered the default. When ur gay ur considered different. So simply being urself is considered a political statement. Not an accurate comparison
My children.. my grandchildren and my great grandchild will NEVER have to worry about me not accepting them. Hell I'll be front and center at there wedding! Love is love🏳️🌈❤️
When, and who? Santana still has left side bang, and a bun on the top right through all of the shots, from what I can tell. And “Abeulita” has that same weird bang cut and bottom cut.
Santana is such a strong character to me. When I first realized I was gay, I came to this video. That was about a year ago... Now i'm realizing how much this video really meant to me. Even though I still haven't come out, it makes me feel better time to time.
I feel the exact same way. When I told my parents, who are religious, the same thing. This is exactly what happened to me and that’s why this video means so much to me
her grandma is mean but you have to understand that catholics are very strict when it comes to heterosexual relationships and homosexual relationships. They believe that being homosexual is a choice but it's not. A lot of people who are very religious and their comes out to them they disown them. Its like being a member of scientology. If someone leaves the church of scientology they are completely shut out of their families life. You can not contact them, speak of them, or see them ever again.
"Everybody has secrets, they're called that for a reason". Interesting answer: she's mad at her not because she's a lesbian, not really, but because she's chosen to make it public. This is so different from the truth-based American culture. I think that grandma had some issues on her own in the past, but repressed them for family/society/whatever's sake, and now she expects Santana to do the same, or at least not tell her.
Niniane17 remember they are Latina it’s the Latin culture that’s what we are like (not me in perticular) but for Latin’s they do not like it when people aren’t straight.
As progressive as my family is, this is the exact response I would get if I did something like this. We’re taught to make sure our secrets that might “ruin the family’s reputation” are kept hush hush no matter what it is.
No literally and specifically for hispanic LGBT she meant so much to us, I remember my sister seeing this scene and it resonated alot with her (we're both gay but y'know she could relate a little more bc she's a girl)
I like that one day at a time they mention that that they just call it being different that’s how my family is well my dads family super accurate for Latinos
@@bunnyford7691 “for some”, no homophobia is so heavy amongst our culture, along with colorism, racism, machismo, and so on. it’s important we face these issues, if not for us then for our future generations .
Are you kidding me? She doesn´t care about her granddaughter running around and sleeping with every guy she met, but when she find her one love and it´s a girl, she cast her grandchild out?!?!? Does anybody else see the irony?
I dont want to start a fight, but in my opinion sleeping with a lot of people is okay if you are protected and the sexual relation is a mutual consent. It's more the bullying I woudn't like if I was her grandma...
LizzyButtercup this happens in real life and its horrible I have supportive parents so it wasn’t that bad but it’s something we have to chance just for who we love 🏳️🌈💛
reminds me of Brooklyn Nine Nine when Rosa's parents were originally fine thinking that Rosa was in an unhappy relationship with an unmarried man because at least that's straight, but hearing she's bisexual they couldn't accept it.
shteve119 you don’t love boys the way your suppose to love girls. You love boys because that’s who you are and that’s ok. Your happiness is all that matters. If people can’t love you and accept you for who you are they are not worth your time.
“It’s selfish of you to make me uncomfortable” It’s selfish of YOU to tell your granddaughter she has to suppress her feelings for girls because you have issues with her being gay.
She is an old lady. Sadly many elders are still homophobic, we cant blame them but make a change by teaching new generations to respect every being. Lgbtq+ people, black, white, latin, asian, europeans, indigenous people and animals too :)
Same. Only thing is... we're not "supposed" to love anyone. We aren't obligated to have a crush on anyone or love anyone. Whoever we love is true to us and that is a gift of the universe. That's just my take 👌👌
If i ever tell my family, this is would happen with some, some will push me away, some will think im sick and others will be their but such a small number. Im 22 and one day i will face this.
But there´s a lot of people that are with you. Yes, some of them are going to tell you bad things but you can´t hide who you are it´s like hiding a very big thing, someone is going to notice that. I am not telling you to come out but do you really prefer a life without being honest? Not with the other ones, with YOURSELF. If you don´t tell people you´re gay you´re not accepting yourself as who you really are. If people tells you´re sick or if they push you out it´s going to hurt but, all many things in the world hurt and no one is really safe from bullying. But you have to remember that you have communites, friends, many people that you can meet, that you already know. You can go to many places with gay people or with people with the LGBT community. And also, of you came out you´re going to know who really loves you and who doesn´t because the people that loves you is going to stay with you.
I feel for Santana in this episode I know it was hard for her to admit her true self to someone important in her life and that took such great amazing courage. Reality is hard when half of the people you love abandons you from life for the choices you make while the other half accepts you with open arms I honestly hope they bring her abuela back for a storyline with Santana see where their relationship stands
Me too because I haven’t come out to my grandma yet and I’m afraid to because she’s Christian and my friend told his parents and his dad isn’t happy about it idk about his mom tho my parents however are ok with it I’m just not sure if I’ll ever want tell my grandma I just feel so bad for my friend because it’s not a choice it’s something that you discover once you get older I mean people can’t help it if they like girls or if they like both it’s just who they are and if people don’t accept you for who you are then they are not worth your time or your energy
I feel her there, I tried opening up to my dad and he didn't accept me. Now we just don't talk about it and he still hasn't accepted I hope we can talk to each other again
You will. Just give him a lot of time for him to find a way to accept you. In the main time you can talk to me about it. I totally feel the same way when I told my parents that I am Transgender. My dad thinks he's protecting me by forcing me into the men's public restroom, but it only makes me feel humiliated, and degraded. I don't know how to start a civil unrest for all women to use women's public restroom not just cis women without getting arrested
Other way around for me. Coming out as bi to my mom was like Kurt coming out to his dad. If I had come out to my dad before my mom and I left, I'm positive his reaction would've been like this, and worse. He was already abusive and extremely homophobic. I'm glad Glee essentially showed a what to do and what not to do contrast.
This scene first came out when i was 14 years old, at this point i knew deep inside that i was a lesbian. But i refused to ever admit it to myself, let alone anyone else. There was so much shame and self hatred inside of me. Then i saw this scene, before this i had never seen a lesbian coming out scene on tv. And it was then that it struck me that the only thing i was missing was a little bravery and courage. Even though Santana's grandmother rejected her, she stood true to herself and walked her path. I realized that no matter what anyone thought of me or how anyone might react, I would make it through. Thank you, Naya. You played this role with so much love and dignity and even if you might never realize how many people you deeply touched and gave strength to, we are out here and we remember you.
R.I.P. Naya Rivera. Your time on Glee has molded and shaped the better most of us into the people we are today. You showed little Latina girls to be proud, you gave women confidence, you gave representation to the LGBTQIA+ community, and in a way, you were a voice for so many marginalized groups of people. You were talented, radiant, beautiful, and strong. The roles you played have helped so many people throughout the years, and it’s truly saddening how we have lost you. Naya Rivera, you will always play an integral part in cultivating my childhood, my appreciation for music, and my compassion for all communities of people. You awoke my eyes to the possibilities of the world and the people I share it with. You taught me to be tolerant, accepting, and strong. Naya, may you Rest In Peace knowing you’ve impacted and changed the lives of so many people. From your friends, to your family, and your fans. We love you.
“you’ve made your choice, now i’ve made mine. it’s selfish of you to make me uncomfortable.” being gay isn’t a choice, it’s not something you get to pick when you’re a specific age. it’s practically fate. you either are or you aren’t. and it’s not selfish of her to make her uncomfortable. it’s selfish of the grandma to not accept her. R.I.P Naya.
Actually, it is a choice. While it's true that you can't choose who you fall in love with, you can choose who you get into a romantic/sexual relationship with. It's also your choice on whether or not you act on your feelings towards another person. You are in total control of your thoughts, emotions, & behavior; but if you're not, that means that there is something very wrong with you & you should see a psychologist about it
@@j.i.r608 Loving who you want isnt a choice!!! Just like being transgender isn't a choice or being non-binary isn't a choice. I THINK you should see someone if YOU are thinking like that because right now I am disgusted that anyone would think that.
@@j.i.r608 it is not a choice. Do you think straight men choose to only have a boner to women? its a biological response. With gay men, they can only be turned on by another men. Obviously this applies to gay women too.
@@calliopedollhouse259 I know that! I just meant I don’t like to see someone I saw as such a beautiful character acting out that ugly scene. Of course she’s just an actress, it was just a gut reaction. I’m not a moron. Lol.
If you're gay, that's totally cool. If your grandma can't accept that, then she'll be proving she has the intelligence of Patrick Star or Homer Simpson, like all homophobes.
Thats nice . My grandmother is latina and she has already heavily expressed her basically hatred for the lgbtq community . Honestly not a surprise bc that's just Latino culture. Its been like this for a long time and even in this day and age with people being more open there is always still those fucking annoying types of people still preaching the same vulgar hatred over and over . Its annoying. And tbh I don't think ill ever come out to her, I don't feel the need to explain myself to anyone . Not even her even if she is the closest thing I've ever had to a real mother
NSB 2003 Brittany going to meet Santana’s grandmother was so sweet. Brittany even spoke Spanish. Wonder where she learned that from? Santana because Mr. Shue was a worthless Spanish teacher 😂
I went through this with my Aunt. I remember her telling me "You're a walking sin, a disgrace to this family." That really broke me.... I just HATE people like that because EVERYONE SINS!
Your right, everybody does sin. But Loving who you love, male or female. I can't believe love is a sin. I hope you see it that way too. You never had anything to be ashamed about. Anybody who had a problem with it or didn't approve, thats nothing to do with you. Thats their business, let them off 💜
I came out to my mum one week ago (in honour of Naya in a way) and this is almost exactly the same way she reacted. My heart is shattered but this storyline always gave me hope. I hope Naya knew how many lives she changed, I'll love her forever.
@@lauratheexplora4936 I'm so sorry for you too 😔 It's so hurtful knowing your own parent won't even accept you but yeah, we're not alone and I'm always here if you ever want to talk to someone about it ❤
Seeing another gay Hispanic character when I was growing up was extremely reaffirming and I am so grateful I live in a time where I had shows like this. Rest in paradise Naya
Jchomes 12 Ikr Im not a sin I'm not going to HELL RIGHT WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE THAT DONT LIKE THESE PEOPLE THAY ARE LIKE U BUT THEY JUST LIKE THE SAME GENDER LIKE WTF
Jchomes 12 Ikr Im not a sin I'm not going to HELL RIGHT WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE THAT DONT LIKE THESE PEOPLE THAY ARE LIKE U BUT THEY JUST LIKE THE SAME GENDER
they followed through with the whole thing near the end of the series (albeit in a REALLY corny way), in a needless effort to bookend what they started.
its sad how her grand ma wont support her and be happy for her. to tell your grand daughter you never want to see her again is really hurtful and wrong. I for one was happy santana finally came out and was with brittany
She gave us so much with the character she played in this series. Such a beautiful and radiant soul. We will miss you so much Naya. In loving memory for an enternity
Speaking of which, maybe you can help me out with something. I'm working on an essay about Christianity and homosexulaity. I was wondering if you could clarify this from an article I'm citing, which explains why the former condemns the latter. "Our prayer is that pro-LGBT churches in the UK would rethink and change their current position regarding ‘pride’ and LGBT issues, that Christians across the nation would be united in a biblical view of marriage and sexuality. We long to see all people welcomed into churches, and more people come to accept Jesus as their Lord and Saviour, being transformed more and more into his likeness." Is it pro or con gay rights?
This scene really shaped my adolescence when I was struggling with my sexuality and I looked up to Santana several times. She was so brave and I wanted to be like that. I learned a lot from her. I can't believe Naya is gone, I will always remember her.
this is exactly how it'd go down if i told my parents i was a lesbian, x100. my dad would kick me out, and my mom would try to beat it out of me. they're lucky i'm not. i just know that if one of my kids one day came up to me and told me their gay, the first words i would say are "that's okay, i love you".
I feel so blessed that I can say that's exactly what my mom said when I told her: 'That's okey, to me you're my baby, just that' I still feel like crying when I think about it, I felt so relieved. I hope someday every person can experience that, I hope we move on from all this hate in the world.
i'm so so eternally grateful for naya's portrayal of this beautiful character and this storyline. she helped so many people and she will be missed dearly. may she rest in power
The bible never stated it as a sin, it’s just a stereotype cause some religious believes consider it bad and most people see Catholics as homophobic which isn’t true
She sounds so young at 2:17 and it's heartbreaking. I watched this one on my own first and I am grateful, because I knew I couldn't enjoy it properly with my family in the room after the not so great conversation we had when I came out as bi. Santana's story provides us with hope and inspiration. Naya is so talented
I really felt bad for Santana, coming out isn’t easy and it sure wasn’t easy telling her grandmother. Santana didn’t deserve anything her grandma has told her. She should be proud and happy that Santana even came to her, she shouldn’t have kicked her out of the house. Santana could’ve easily ended up on the street. It was selfish of her OWN grandmother to kick Santana out. She is the same person that she was before she told her grandmother she’s gay. This scene meant a lot to many people out there. Santana is strong. And I’m happy that Naya did everything she could to give us this character❤️
Well you don’t owe anyone anything ok so don’t feel pressured to say anything but I understand the feeling of wanting to tell your loved ones but believe me keeping it hidden hurts but as someone who came out to their Christian mom I regret it
I’m not gay - just an all-out straight- but I will say this is so not the way we Christians are supposed to respond to a situation like this. Jesus wouldn’t have responded in such a way either and I don’t believe He would approve our doing so either. Not to mention kicking your gay family member out of the house is absolutely the worst thing you could ever do in a situation like this! It’s true: it could have gone a whole lot worse (yelling, screaming, hitting) but this grandmother was still not behaving the way her faith preaches: compassion and love to people no matter who they become. My heart goes out to people like Santana out there in the world.
Ohh I know this feeling. My Italian family was just like that when I came out as a transgender. Today, my two brothers don't even talk with me, or my uncle, my niece.... I Just have my mom and dad now. Its hard.
This scene moved me back when I was questioning my sexuality, I didn't watch the show but I stumbled on Santana's story, Naya's portrayal is so sincere and in particular this powerful scene. I just want to thank her for fighting for this story-line and the work she put into this character, so heartbreaking what happened to Naya I wish her family all the strength in the world in this devastating time :(. She helped me understand what was going on in myself and for that I will always be thankful and remember her.
"Santana i will beat you with this chair." Something 100% my grandma would say to me this whole scene was everything Naya will be missed she was too amazing for us we didn't deserve her.
I actually came out to a lot of people with this scene and I just feel grateful to live at the same time as Naya. I love you and will miss you forever, my baby. rest in peace...😔❤
I really hope Santana's mom gives the abuela a piece of her mind for what she said to her daughter.Hopefully this season. I love Santana, she's the best character on Glee :3
whenever i imagine coming out to my grandparents this is the kind of scenario that i think will happen. i'm terrified, although i don't plan on coming out to anyone in my family (except for my cousin) until i am in college.
Im a lesbian but I'm scared to come out to my grandparents but I had a conversation with my aunt and I think she supports the Idea of being gay but I still don't want to come out
Santana did an excellent job in this scene she totally deserves an award for this performance glee made a perfect point not all families are going to be as accepting as kurt dad was especially in a Hispanic family and this scene made me love Santana even more I am going to go crazy the day i get the honor of meeting Naya Rivera
If my child or any of my family came out to me, even if I didn't agree with it, I would never react like this. People disagree with each other & that's ok but it's never an excuse to be unkind or unloving ❤️ I would still love them exactly the same ❤️
I told my brother I was bi by accident on the beach.. he was cool about it but he didn't understand at first... Also I always come to this video cus it makes me feel safe about my sexuality.. I know this will happen with my family one day
This scene is way too powerful and I love it so much!! Santana Lopez, the person who made so many of us girls say that we are gay and finally accept ourselves for who we really are. Thank you Naya for giving us the strength to feel good about ourselves. Rest easy. We love you❤️
I am not gay myself but I know a lot of people who are and this scence right here helped them so much. This secence means so much to so many people. I just can not believe naya gone so heart breaking. She deserved such a longer life. My love goes out to her family. One of my fav celebs so heartbreaking. Thank you Naya for the impact you have had on this world. So many people needed this. RIP Naya miss you❤️
i love this lgbtq representation in the hispanic community. queer woc don’t get enough representation as it is and for 2000s tv, this is amazing to see!
I related so much to the Santana story ark I'm from Brazil originally and came out when I was 16 to the disappointment of my parents now I'm happily married to a wonderful woman but half my family still don't talk to me but I'm ok with that as the people in my life accept and support me for who I am to everyone going through this keep strong it gets better. Just remember WWBD ( what would Brittany do) ;)
Naya Rivera, you changed and inspired us through our teenage years. You were a role model to many, impacting our lives deeper than most people could ever understand. To lose you is unthinkable. You were at one of the most joyous, vibrant times of your life when you were taken from us. My heart goes out to all of her family. Little Josey, I know you'll grow up remembering and learning every day what an amazing soul your mother was. Yolanda and George, I'm so sorry for your loss. No parent should ever have to outlive their child. Mychal and Nickayla, the bond you three had was stronger than even most siblings can understand. To everyone Naya touched in her life, may we all remember her forever, not in sadness but in the joy she so effortlessly shared with the world. Naya Rivera, rest in peace and power.
🥺💔
So beautiful of you to remember all her family members. Peace to Naya, peace to her family and her baby Josie, peace to you.
🥺 it must have been sooooo much harder for her son🥺 we miss her but we know she is in a better place❤️❤️❤️
perfectly said 🤍
@@deleted2001 she died?😭🥺
"i'm just too tired. i have to just be me" OMG that killed me
How are there no replies with 4.5k likes lol
There was no reply system back then
It shouldn't have. Your sexuality isn't you. It's part of you but it's not who you are. You can still be you and love people of the opposite sex.
I related so much to the Santana story ark I'm from Brazil originally and came out when I was 16 to the disappointment of my parents now I'm happily married to a wonderful woman but half my family still don't talk to me but I'm ok with that as the people in my life accept and support me for who I am to everyone going through this keep strong it gets better. Just remember WWBD ( what would Brittany do) ;)
@@ranip7644 well to gay people it is a part of them. When ur straight it’s considered the default. When ur gay ur considered different. So simply being urself is considered a political statement. Not an accurate comparison
The way that Naya delivered the lines and facial expressions are just so wonderful. She's a great actress. And Santana oh my brave baby..
I cried this scene
Being a Latino Gay and seeing this was so powerful! I felt this so much! RIP NAYA💜
I love how in glee that woman plays an abuela called alma and in Jane the vigirn, she plays an abuela called alba. xD
Loving who you love is not a choice but wheather or not you accept and still love em no matter what is and grandma made the wrong choice
My children.. my grandchildren and my great grandchild will NEVER have to worry about me not accepting them. Hell I'll be front and center at there wedding! Love is love🏳️🌈❤️
This is most saddest than titanic
R.i.p beautiful 🥺
what episode is this?
“Santana are your pregnant? Because I will beat you up with this chair!”😂😂😂 Me 2😂😂😂😂💀
This scene meant so much to me. Can’t believe Naya is gone now.
I know 😭😭💜💜💜❤🖤
my heart hurts so much
Glad im not the only one bing watching her scenes on youtube ❤ we lost someone fucking amazing. 2020 is genuine shit.
I agree I’m watching all her videos too🥺🌈❤️ She honestly did sooo much for people especially playing this character
Mily The Au Pair I know it’s so difficult to realized that Naya is done. So sad
I love this scene, but her hair changing every cut is such a distraction 😭 damn why’d I have to notice.
NESSIEEEE OMG
Didn't expect to find you here, but price.
When, and who? Santana still has left side bang, and a bun on the top right through all of the shots, from what I can tell. And “Abeulita” has that same weird bang cut and bottom cut.
Omg Nessie !!!!
@@neveroddoreven6597 the hair sticking out on the side of the rest (her right, our left)
Santana is such a strong character to me. When I first realized I was gay, I came to this video. That was about a year ago... Now i'm realizing how much this video really meant to me. Even though I still haven't come out, it makes me feel better time to time.
Alix K YES! Me to!
Alix K i havent come out since two years...I told my friends but not my parents...I'm to afraif they react like abuela
I feel the exact same way. When I told my parents, who are religious, the same thing. This is exactly what happened to me and that’s why this video means so much to me
Congrats! 👏
Same same same
"Santana are you pregnant, because I will beat you up with this chair." - I love it!
Isabella Santana My Mom would say that😂😂😂
Isabella Santana love a violence threat?
But this is horrible! :O
😂😂😂
Isabella Santana
Best line of the entire episode
"When I'm with Brittany, I finally understand what people are talking about, when they talk about love."
Cuando estoy con Brittany, finalmente entiendes de lo que habla la gente, cuando hablan Sobre el amor🤩🤩Great phrase from Santana
I read this comment right when she said it 😂
her grandma is so mean
poor santana
I agree with you so mush right now and you are so right.
now you know how Santana got her attitude
samantha lee it's something Hispanics do... but luckily I am not that type of Hispanic
samantha lee no
her grandma is mean but you have to understand that catholics are very strict when it comes to heterosexual relationships and homosexual relationships. They believe that being homosexual is a choice but it's not. A lot of people who are very religious and their comes out to them they disown them. Its like being a member of scientology. If someone leaves the church of scientology they are completely shut out of their families life. You can not contact them, speak of them, or see them ever again.
"Everybody has secrets, they're called that for a reason". Interesting answer: she's mad at her not because she's a lesbian, not really, but because she's chosen to make it public. This is so different from the truth-based American culture. I think that grandma had some issues on her own in the past, but repressed them for family/society/whatever's sake, and now she expects Santana to do the same, or at least not tell her.
Niniane17 remember they are Latina it’s the Latin culture that’s what we are like (not me in perticular) but for Latin’s they do not like it when people aren’t straight.
that is such an intelligent reading of a glee scene...
Eriii Swa same for black people. And unfortunately, this need to keep face in the public allows many people to get hurt.
Eriii Swa this is not always true in every Latin country... not mine at least, in my city everyone is bi lol
As progressive as my family is, this is the exact response I would get if I did something like this. We’re taught to make sure our secrets that might “ruin the family’s reputation” are kept hush hush no matter what it is.
naya literally shaped an entire generation of lgbt youth and her impact on the community will never ever be forgotten ミ☆
Who?
No literally and specifically for hispanic LGBT she meant so much to us, I remember my sister seeing this scene and it resonated alot with her (we're both gay but y'know she could relate a little more bc she's a girl)
she really did
@@stephenbyrne2170Naya the actress that played santanna
It's gross
Y'all have no idea how accurate this is for latinos. If you have a gay child even if she's out it is still basically an open secret.
Same with Filipinos. I’m Filipino and Latino so double negative 😬
Well, maybe true for some but not for all.
I like that one day at a time they mention that that they just call it being different that’s how my family is well my dads family super accurate for Latinos
@@bunnyford7691 it’s enough for you to be able to generalize
@@bunnyford7691 “for some”, no homophobia is so heavy amongst our culture, along with colorism, racism, machismo, and so on. it’s important we face these issues, if not for us then for our future generations .
" I'm the same person I was a minute ago."
" Its selfish of you to make me feel uncomfortable."
Those lines were just....wow. They are just wow.
Yeah
It’s actually the other way around, it’s selfish of the grandmother to make Santana uncomfortable.
This was such a good depiction of how even your most trusted confidant can hurt you like this out of no where
@@AntonioHernandez-ot5bo what-
This
Are you kidding me? She doesn´t care about her granddaughter running around and sleeping with every guy she met, but when she find her one love and it´s a girl, she cast her grandchild out?!?!? Does anybody else see the irony?
I dont want to start a fight, but in my opinion sleeping with a lot of people is okay if you are protected and the sexual relation is a mutual consent. It's more the bullying I woudn't like if I was her grandma...
LizzyButtercup Yes
LizzyButtercup this happens in real life and its horrible I have supportive parents so it wasn’t that bad but it’s something we have to chance just for who we love 🏳️🌈💛
They’ve all been taught from a young age that being who you are is wrong and following stereotypes is what’s right
reminds me of Brooklyn Nine Nine when Rosa's parents were originally fine thinking that Rosa was in an unhappy relationship with an unmarried man because at least that's straight, but hearing she's bisexual they couldn't accept it.
i admire santana for being so strong, i dont have the courage to come out with people in public, but im gonna come out to you people
shteve119 thats sweet!
shteve119 you don’t love boys the way your suppose to love girls. You love boys because that’s who you are and that’s ok. Your happiness is all that matters. If people can’t love you and accept you for who you are they are not worth your time.
Virtual hugs
either way we're proud of you for realizing it for yourself and later when one day you come out.
“It’s selfish of you to make me uncomfortable”
It’s selfish of YOU to tell your granddaughter she has to suppress her feelings for girls because you have issues with her being gay.
She is an old lady. Sadly many elders are still homophobic, we cant blame them but make a change by teaching new generations to respect every being. Lgbtq+ people, black, white, latin, asian, europeans, indigenous people and animals too :)
shut up kid
@@azulaisafunnylewdgirl you seem to be the kid instead
@@ValeriaHernandez-06
k kid,go cry in a corner
@@azulaisafunnylewdgirl ok? Did you finish?
i love boys they way im suppose to love girls
shteve119 - that's okay, I don't love anyone...
i love both
I love both the way i am suppose to love boys
Same. Only thing is... we're not "supposed" to love anyone. We aren't obligated to have a crush on anyone or love anyone. Whoever we love is true to us and that is a gift of the universe. That's just my take 👌👌
Me too
"Santana, are you pregnant? Because I will beat you up with this chair."
That line got a chuckle out of me. The rest of it brought tears to my eyes.
If i ever tell my family, this is would happen with some, some will push me away, some will think im sick and others will be their but such a small number. Im 22 and one day i will face this.
are you gay to because there nothing wrong with that.
has someday come?
thefearofvideogames Im so sorry :(
thefearofvideogames i hope you're ok
But there´s a lot of people that are with you. Yes, some of them are going to tell you bad things but you can´t hide who you are it´s like hiding a very big thing, someone is going to notice that. I am not telling you to come out but do you really prefer a life without being honest? Not with the other ones, with YOURSELF. If you don´t tell people you´re gay you´re not accepting yourself as who you really are. If people tells you´re sick or if they push you out it´s going to hurt but, all many things in the world hurt and no one is really safe from bullying. But you have to remember that you have communites, friends, many people that you can meet, that you already know. You can go to many places with gay people or with people with the LGBT community. And also, of you came out you´re going to know who really loves you and who doesn´t because the people that loves you is going to stay with you.
After watching this episode, I felt afraid to come out to my mother. I did though and she didn't take it well
Ellie Smith Im so so sorry :(
be strong
Ellie Smith I'm sorry. I know we don't know each other or anything but I accept you
same here, we can only hope that time will help, right?
oops just realized this comment was 4 years ago lol
I feel for Santana in this episode I know it was hard for her to admit her true self to someone important in her life and that took such great amazing courage. Reality is hard when half of the people you love abandons you from life for the choices you make while the other half accepts you with open arms I honestly hope they bring her abuela back for a storyline with Santana see where their relationship stands
At least it took time for her grandma to accept her with a little thing known s suecology
Me too because I haven’t come out to my grandma yet and I’m afraid to because she’s Christian and my friend told his parents and his dad isn’t happy about it idk about his mom tho my parents however are ok with it I’m just not sure if I’ll ever want tell my grandma I just feel so bad for my friend because it’s not a choice it’s something that you discover once you get older I mean people can’t help it if they like girls or if they like both it’s just who they are and if people don’t accept you for who you are then they are not worth your time or your energy
I feel her there, I tried opening up to my dad and he didn't accept me.
Now we just don't talk about it and he still hasn't accepted I hope we can talk to each other again
You will. Just give him a lot of time for him to find a way to accept you. In the main time you can talk to me about it. I totally feel the same way when I told my parents that I am Transgender. My dad thinks he's protecting me by forcing me into the men's public restroom, but it only makes me feel humiliated, and degraded. I don't know how to start a civil unrest for all women to use women's public restroom not just cis women without getting arrested
Other way around for me. Coming out as bi to my mom was like Kurt coming out to his dad. If I had come out to my dad before my mom and I left, I'm positive his reaction would've been like this, and worse. He was already abusive and extremely homophobic. I'm glad Glee essentially showed a what to do and what not to do contrast.
I’m sorry your dad was homophobic.
Sounds like you have your mum on your team, though, which is good. 💐
This scene first came out when i was 14 years old, at this point i knew deep inside that i was a lesbian. But i refused to ever admit it to myself, let alone anyone else. There was so much shame and self hatred inside of me. Then i saw this scene, before this i had never seen a lesbian coming out scene on tv. And it was then that it struck me that the only thing i was missing was a little bravery and courage. Even though Santana's grandmother rejected her, she stood true to herself and walked her path. I realized that no matter what anyone thought of me or how anyone might react, I would make it through.
Thank you, Naya. You played this role with so much love and dignity and even if you might never realize how many people you deeply touched and gave strength to, we are out here and we remember you.
💙💙💙
this comment lowkey making me cry
R.I.P. Naya Rivera. Your time on Glee has molded and shaped the better most of us into the people we are today. You showed little Latina girls to be proud, you gave women confidence, you gave representation to the LGBTQIA+ community, and in a way, you were a voice for so many marginalized groups of people. You were talented, radiant, beautiful, and strong. The roles you played have helped so many people throughout the years, and it’s truly saddening how we have lost you. Naya Rivera, you will always play an integral part in cultivating my childhood, my appreciation for music, and my compassion for all communities of people. You awoke my eyes to the possibilities of the world and the people I share it with. You taught me to be tolerant, accepting, and strong. Naya, may you Rest In Peace knowing you’ve impacted and changed the lives of so many people. From your friends, to your family, and your fans. We love you.
Stop you're making me cry a river 😭😭😭
"santana are you pregnant because I will beat you up with this chair"
hahaha
and then the rest of this is just 🥺
“you’ve made your choice, now i’ve made mine. it’s selfish of you to make me uncomfortable.”
being gay isn’t a choice, it’s not something you get to pick when you’re a specific age. it’s practically fate. you either are or you aren’t. and it’s not selfish of her to make her uncomfortable. it’s selfish of the grandma to not accept her. R.I.P Naya.
Santana is a really great actress!!
Naya Rivera is the name of the actress.
Naya Rivera
*Naya
and now she's missing :(
Millie not missing anymore 😭😭😭
it's not a choice and it's just who they are, and when people say it is, it sickens me
Actually, it is a choice. While it's true that you can't choose who you fall in love with, you can choose who you get into a romantic/sexual relationship with. It's also your choice on whether or not you act on your feelings towards another person. You are in total control of your thoughts, emotions, & behavior; but if you're not, that means that there is something very wrong with you & you should see a psychologist about it
@@j.i.r608 sexuality is attraction, not who you choose to have relations with!
@@j.i.r608 Loving who you want isnt a choice!!! Just like being transgender isn't a choice or being non-binary isn't a choice. I THINK you should see someone if YOU are thinking like that because right now I am disgusted that anyone would think that.
@@j.i.r608 it is not a choice. Do you think straight men choose to only have a boner to women? its a biological response. With gay men, they can only be turned on by another men.
Obviously this applies to gay women too.
@@j.i.r608 so you agree? Who you’re attracted to isn’t a choice? That’s basically what you’re saying💀
I didn’t realize this was the same grandma as Jane the virgin
I know
I’m so sad to see her like that!! She was such a beautiful person on Jane the Virgin. So sad!!
@@anniepie11 she is not actually homophobic, she is an actress
@@calliopedollhouse259 I know that! I just meant I don’t like to see someone I saw as such a beautiful character acting out that ugly scene. Of course she’s just an actress, it was just a gut reaction. I’m not a moron. Lol.
I started crying so much at this scene. I’m afraid it might happen to me with my grandmother... edit: i told her, SHES SO SUPPORTIVE OMG IM SO HAPPY
If you're gay, that's totally cool. If your grandma can't accept that, then she'll be proving she has the intelligence of Patrick Star or Homer Simpson, like all homophobes.
Thats nice . My grandmother is latina and she has already heavily expressed her basically hatred for the lgbtq community . Honestly not a surprise bc that's just Latino culture. Its been like this for a long time and even in this day and age with people being more open there is always still those fucking annoying types of people still preaching the same vulgar hatred over and over . Its annoying. And tbh I don't think ill ever come out to her, I don't feel the need to explain myself to anyone . Not even her even if she is the closest thing I've ever had to a real mother
My stomach is churning with sad feels.
ok, just a story line form a tv show, but, I am SO angry with grandma.
OMG me too that was so mean there was no reason to do that.
Eventually she came around and accepted Santana
NSB 2003 Brittany going to meet Santana’s grandmother was so sweet. Brittany even spoke Spanish. Wonder where she learned that from? Santana because Mr. Shue was a worthless Spanish teacher 😂
When she talks about brittany in 1:20 its the cutest thing ever
it really is 🥺
right :)
I went through this with my Aunt. I remember her telling me "You're a walking sin, a disgrace to this family." That really broke me....
I just HATE people like that because EVERYONE SINS!
Remember you are beautiful...just the way you are.
When people do that, I believe that their faith in god is completely discredited.
Dema S. the thing is though, it’s not a sin. Yes everyone sins but being gay is not one of them. The bible is simply man made and that’s it
Your right, everybody does sin. But Loving who you love, male or female. I can't believe love is a sin. I hope you see it that way too. You never had anything to be ashamed about. Anybody who had a problem with it or didn't approve, thats nothing to do with you. Thats their business, let them off 💜
@@namjoonsoldmyjamsfor3dolla404 you're right
Btw I think I saw you on another video before lol
I came out to my mum one week ago (in honour of Naya in a way) and this is almost exactly the same way she reacted. My heart is shattered but this storyline always gave me hope. I hope Naya knew how many lives she changed, I'll love her forever.
Sending love
@@lilymay3588 thank you, that really means a lot ❤
Aimee A I’m soo sorry. If I ever come out my mom would beat me so I feel for you ❤️
I hope that you are gonna be fine 😌
@@lauratheexplora4936 I'm so sorry for you too 😔 It's so hurtful knowing your own parent won't even accept you but yeah, we're not alone and I'm always here if you ever want to talk to someone about it ❤
i’m a gay man and santana’s character arc on this show meant so much to me.
That's totally cool, my friend
Same here. Her character and especially her storyline about coming out shaped me in so many ways. Naya did such an amazing job with this character.
Seeing another gay Hispanic character when I was growing up was extremely reaffirming and I am so grateful I live in a time where I had shows like this. Rest in paradise Naya
ITS NOT A SIN!
Jchomes 12 IT IS A SIN!
Jchomes 12 Ikr Im not a sin I'm not going to HELL RIGHT WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE THAT DONT LIKE THESE PEOPLE THAY ARE LIKE U BUT THEY JUST LIKE THE SAME GENDER LIKE WTF
Jchomes 12 Ikr Im not a sin I'm not going to HELL RIGHT WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE THAT DONT LIKE THESE PEOPLE THAY ARE LIKE U BUT THEY JUST LIKE THE SAME GENDER
Lool
Jchomes 12 it is... the Bible tells us it’s an abomination. However, we ALL sin, one way or another, so who am I to judge?
The fact this happens to kids in real life breaks my heart. It’s why we need pride
so, this is? the end of santana and het grandma? we are never going to see how it goes on with them?
Eline B we did see
they followed through with the whole thing near the end of the series (albeit in a REALLY corny way), in a needless effort to bookend what they started.
There are more epsiodes involving her in season 6
Eline B they make up and she later accepted santana
In the end her grandma comes to her and Brittany wedding
its sad how her grand ma wont support her and be happy for her. to tell your grand daughter you never want to see her again is really hurtful and wrong. I for one was happy santana finally came out and was with brittany
But she eventually accepted her
Yeah you are correct and I’m glad she did.
The scene that made me realize I could find the strength to come out, no matter what anyone’s reactions may be. Rest in the sweetest peace, Naya.
She gave us so much with the character she played in this series. Such a beautiful and radiant soul. We will miss you so much Naya. In loving memory for an enternity
She showed so many of us that it was okay to be true to yourself.
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I think Dianna Agron does a good job too. Both their characters have the most intense storylines in my opinion.
This is why she will always remain in our hearts...she touched so many ppl with the emotional scenes, especially this one💔
I don’t know how this woman can call herself a Christian while she hates someone. You can’t be a Christian and hate, period
Speaking of which, maybe you can help me out with something. I'm working on an essay about Christianity and homosexulaity. I was wondering if you could clarify this from an article I'm citing, which explains why the former condemns the latter. "Our prayer is that pro-LGBT churches in the UK would rethink and change their current position regarding ‘pride’ and LGBT issues, that Christians across the nation would be united in a biblical view of marriage and sexuality. We long to see all people welcomed into churches, and more people come to accept Jesus as their Lord and Saviour, being transformed more and more into his likeness." Is it pro or con gay rights?
As someone who’s Mexican, I’m thankful that my grandma didn’t react like this when I came out.
This scene really shaped my adolescence when I was struggling with my sexuality and I looked up to Santana several times. She was so brave and I wanted to be like that. I learned a lot from her. I can't believe Naya is gone, I will always remember her.
this is exactly how it'd go down if i told my parents i was a lesbian, x100. my dad would kick me out, and my mom would try to beat it out of me. they're lucky i'm not. i just know that if one of my kids one day came up to me and told me their gay, the first words i would say are "that's okay, i love you".
Shana I love you
your making me cry stop
I feel so blessed that I can say that's exactly what my mom said when I told her: 'That's okey, to me you're my baby, just that' I still feel like crying when I think about it, I felt so relieved. I hope someday every person can experience that, I hope we move on from all this hate in the world.
"Say something please!"...that kills me!
i'm so so eternally grateful for naya's portrayal of this beautiful character and this storyline. she helped so many people and she will be missed dearly. may she rest in power
She reminds me of Katniss.
squirttle92 who does?
squirttle92 me too
squirttle92 how
Well Naya(RIP) and Jennifer have similar acting styles and have similar voices
Why do you think god - he, she or it - is against homosexuality? Especially when they clearly allow it and create people to feel that way....
EXACTLY, but people will always twist it and then talk about murderers etc. existing, just to prove their “point”
There's totally a gay love story in the Bible.
god isn’t against homosexuality religious people just twist the words of the bible to use it as a reason to be homophobic
@@sersastark Where!!!???😒😒😒😒
The bible never stated it as a sin, it’s just a stereotype cause some religious believes consider it bad and most people see Catholics as homophobic which isn’t true
She sounds so young at 2:17 and it's heartbreaking. I watched this one on my own first and I am grateful, because I knew I couldn't enjoy it properly with my family in the room after the not so great conversation we had when I came out as bi. Santana's story provides us with hope and inspiration. Naya is so talented
No me gusta verla llorar :/
Thai ǂ it’s cool how she can speak Spanish and English
Santana was my favorite. She’s gone. It’s so hard🥺
I really felt bad for Santana, coming out isn’t easy and it sure wasn’t easy telling her grandmother. Santana didn’t deserve anything her grandma has told her. She should be proud and happy that Santana even came to her, she shouldn’t have kicked her out of the house. Santana could’ve easily ended up on the street. It was selfish of her OWN grandmother to kick Santana out. She is the same person that she was before she told her grandmother she’s gay. This scene meant a lot to many people out there. Santana is strong. And I’m happy that Naya did everything she could to give us this character❤️
My brother is homophobic and i just realized I’m a lesbian and I don’t know what do I don’t want this exact thing to happen
Well you don’t owe anyone anything ok so don’t feel pressured to say anything but I understand the feeling of wanting to tell your loved ones but believe me keeping it hidden hurts but as someone who came out to their Christian mom I regret it
This is why I don’t want to come out to my mama
Everytime i watch this video i get teary eyed god Santana is just amazing in this scene
I’m not gay - just an all-out straight- but I will say this is so not the way we Christians are supposed to respond to a situation like this.
Jesus wouldn’t have responded in such a way either and I don’t believe He would approve our doing so either. Not to mention kicking your gay family member out of the house is absolutely the worst thing you could ever do in a situation like this!
It’s true: it could have gone a whole lot worse (yelling, screaming, hitting) but this grandmother was still not behaving the way her faith preaches: compassion and love to people no matter who they become.
My heart goes out to people like Santana out there in the world.
Ohh I know this feeling. My Italian family was just like that when I came out as a transgender. Today, my two brothers don't even talk with me, or my uncle, my niece.... I Just have my mom and dad now. Its hard.
This hits different when you’ve just come out and not been supported by your own mother.
This scene moved me back when I was questioning my sexuality, I didn't watch the show but I stumbled on Santana's story, Naya's portrayal is so sincere and in particular this powerful scene. I just want to thank her for fighting for this story-line and the work she put into this character, so heartbreaking what happened to Naya I wish her family all the strength in the world in this devastating time :(.
She helped me understand what was going on in myself and for that I will always be thankful and remember her.
"Santana i will beat you with this chair."
Something 100% my grandma would say to me this whole scene was everything Naya will be missed she was too amazing for us we didn't deserve her.
That's why Santana is so scare to came out..poor her
Wish her grandma understand her someday
She does in later seasons
@@rita609 what's this episode? And the season??
Elle Cullen season 6 episode 8. Brittany and Santana’s wedding
I actually came out to a lot of people with this scene and I just feel grateful to live at the same time as Naya. I love you and will miss you forever, my baby. rest in peace...😔❤
I really hope Santana's mom gives the abuela a piece of her mind for what she said to her daughter.Hopefully this season. I love Santana, she's the best character on Glee :3
My heart is broken, this scene showed me to be okay with who u are. I love you naya rest easy💔
The power of this scene and the impact it had on people... Naya you are an inspiration, you will be dearly missed but NEVER forgotten💕
The grandma actress has been typecast into the strict Conservative grandma 😩
Being conservative has nothing to do with supporting lgbt.
I'm straight but this scene made me cry! I can't imagine my grandmother rejecting me in any way :(
"I love girls the way that I'm supposed to feel about boys." Has society always pushed our children to being straight?
Yep.
whenever i imagine coming out to my grandparents this is the kind of scenario that i think will happen. i'm terrified, although i don't plan on coming out to anyone in my family (except for my cousin) until i am in college.
Anytime i think abiut naya i always tear up, such an amazing, talented woman i feel so lucky just being able to witness such beauty in every way
Im a lesbian but I'm scared to come out to my grandparents but I had a conversation with my aunt and I think she supports the Idea of being gay but I still don't want to come out
Take your time girl you got this ❤🏳️🌈
@@deviantwolff3620 thank you
Santana did an excellent job in this scene she totally deserves an award for this performance glee made a perfect point not all families are going to be as accepting as kurt dad was especially in a Hispanic family and this scene made me love Santana even more I am going to go crazy the day i get the honor of meeting Naya Rivera
"It's selfish of you to make me uncomfortable"
I don't like that she said that. At all.
If my child or any of my family came out to me, even if I didn't agree with it, I would never react like this. People disagree with each other & that's ok but it's never an excuse to be unkind or unloving ❤️ I would still love them exactly the same ❤️
This is how I came out to my aunt 😭💗🥺
I told my brother I was bi by accident on the beach.. he was cool about it but he didn't understand at first... Also I always come to this video cus it makes me feel safe about my sexuality.. I know this will happen with my family one day
season 3 episode 7
This scene is way too powerful and I love it so much!! Santana Lopez, the person who made so many of us girls say that we are gay and finally accept ourselves for who we really are. Thank you Naya for giving us the strength to feel good about ourselves. Rest easy. We love you❤️
when im with brittany im finally understand when the people talk when they talk about love
I am not gay myself but I know a lot of people who are and this scence right here helped them so much. This secence means so much to so many people. I just can not believe naya gone so heart breaking. She deserved such a longer life. My love goes out to her family. One of my fav celebs so heartbreaking. Thank you Naya for the impact you have had on this world. So many people needed this. RIP Naya miss you❤️
Thank you Naya💔🕊❤️
This scene gets me every fucking time.
Is it wierd that i memorised this whole conversation?
amanda gonzalez not at all dear
amanda gonzalez naw you jus have an amazing memory
amanda gonzalez ovivouvoivovkitt
amanda gonzalez not at all
i love this lgbtq representation in the hispanic community. queer woc don’t get enough representation as it is and for 2000s tv, this is amazing to see!
I related so much to the Santana story ark I'm from Brazil originally and came out when I was 16 to the disappointment of my parents now I'm happily married to a wonderful woman but half my family still don't talk to me but I'm ok with that as the people in my life accept and support me for who I am to everyone going through this keep strong it gets better. Just remember WWBD ( what would Brittany do) ;)