The Truth About Our Friendship | PlanBri Uncut Episode 259

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  • @cheyennemackeil8982
    @cheyennemackeil8982 4 місяці тому +418

    It’s the way Bri’s whole identity switches with each relationship and overlap

    • @Hollieeahle
      @Hollieeahle 4 місяці тому +8

      !!!!!! Every time

    • @DiegoLeggo
      @DiegoLeggo 4 місяці тому +9

      Young people are allowed to change and evolve as much as they need to until they finally end up living the life reflecting who they are intrinsically. I don't think that's super offensive.. she's just a human who's lived through this drastic change in lifestyle going from a college student to a massive influencer. it's more nuanced than reducing it down to a "switching up."

    • @dbboykid10
      @dbboykid10 4 місяці тому +2

      Yeah that was obvious from day 1 if you watch early episodes they talk about how even in hs Bri switched up, then college same thing and when Bri was alone in NY she recruited Grace basically because she had no one else. Now we only know what is given from the podcast but seems like Bri just uses Grace as a last resort when she has no one else and then when things are going well, well Grace gets kicked to the curb.. They are still super young so time will only tell how it plays out but the track record isn't good lol

    • @JKboston47
      @JKboston47 3 місяці тому

      She exaggerates the Boston, Grace does not.

  • @user-sz1ye8gk5r
    @user-sz1ye8gk5r 4 місяці тому +332

    it is clear from even a casual listener that bri ditched / drifted away from her best friend because of her new celebrity boyfriend. her talking in circles about wanting different things as if that isn't a direct cause of changing yourself for a guy.... we support you Grace!

    • @iamthenews5624
      @iamthenews5624 4 місяці тому +5

      Exactly!!!!!!!!!

    • @Urmumsaho
      @Urmumsaho 4 місяці тому

      @@jadechaya9025sorry I don’t watch that pod could you pls fill me in on what he said 🥰

  • @iiissaviiibe
    @iiissaviiibe 4 місяці тому +371

    The entire episode summed up:
    Bri continually repeats, "We both were thinking the same things and not communicating. Thinking we hated each other. That's it."
    Grace agrees halfheartedly, repeatedly, because it's more than that and as usual she is more invested in the friendship and more heartbroken.
    Watching this made me realize how emotionally immature Bri is. The fact that she just keeps saying, "It was so funny" when Grace was clearly really anxious about the entire situation. It wasn't funny, Bri, you just can't handle the situation/conversation.

    • @St99748
      @St99748 4 місяці тому +27

      Exactly. Bri did so much more talking than Grace and spoke for both of them and you could tell it wasn’t was Grace was feeling. I was really sad for her. Bri is a shitty friend who dropped her lifelong best friend for a dude.

    • @mamarmst
      @mamarmst 4 місяці тому +11

      Exactly and Bri wants to pretend she is ‘growing up’

    • @tiffanyholmes6610
      @tiffanyholmes6610 4 місяці тому +3

      She is growing up! Her and Zach are serious and just bought a house together, they are putting down roots!

    • @mamarmst
      @mamarmst 4 місяці тому +10

      @@tiffanyholmes6610 he buys all his gf houses in their hometowns lol

    • @clairez8122
      @clairez8122 4 місяці тому +2

      Bri sucks since her new personality

  • @morganmotley9847
    @morganmotley9847 4 місяці тому +86

    1. Bri may have started this podcast on her own but I personally started watching for grace so please give her some flowers. 2. Bri needed Grace as much as the opposite, gaslit her into thinking she was the most important person in the world to her just to a abandon her and call Zach her “best friend” that shit hurts. 3. I really wish Bri could stand accountable for hurting Grace and just apologize, this episode was a hard watch…

    • @WhatsAOlivia
      @WhatsAOlivia 4 місяці тому +4

      Yeah like when does she EVER complement Grace in this video?? It’s just sad really.

  • @taylornicole_s4413
    @taylornicole_s4413 4 місяці тому +565

    I’ve sat here and watched and stayed silent until it gets to the part where Grace teared up and I can’t keep quiet any longer. It’s obvious Grace cares about the friendship more than Bri. It’s sad and not fair. If my best friend was on the verge of sobbing I would have done so much more to make sure she was okay. I also wouldn’t have totally dumped my bestie for some guy who’s cheated on the last 2 women he’s been with when my friend and I were living our literal dream. Bri you take advantage of Grace’s loyalty and then throw her feelings aside and she deserves a better friend. I’ve loved you both but truth is Bri needs to be a better friend.

    • @walks5203
      @walks5203 4 місяці тому +26

      DING DING DING

    • @mamarmst
      @mamarmst 4 місяці тому +26

      Yup. Sadly this feels like an attempted PR move on Bri’s part. I just feel for Grace because I have been that friend

    • @taylornicole_s4413
      @taylornicole_s4413 4 місяці тому +21

      @@mamarmst it’s the worst feeling ever. Z & B will end and then she’ll come crawling back to Grace and Grace will love & accept her because SHE is the good friend in this equation. I used to love them both so much I’m so sad 😞

    • @MNel2011
      @MNel2011 4 місяці тому +26

      I’m glad that Grace has such a great family during this sad time.

    • @JustineBB86
      @JustineBB86 4 місяці тому +10

      I don’t think it’s fair to make that assumption based off social media. We do not know these people in real life. It is impossible to know everything that’s going on with them based off social media.

  • @TheKaygmck
    @TheKaygmck 4 місяці тому +106

    I think people could tell that there's a shift in the vibe. We have all been in Grace's shoes and most of us have been in Bri's. When you fall in love it's easy to feel like this is everything, and right now it is. But, you'll never have the history you do with Grace. I'm 37 years old, been best friends with the same person since i was 12. We have been through this over and over. Remember what you two have and how rare it is to find that person. Don't let a relationship change you so much that you lose her.

  • @hannataylor5725
    @hannataylor5725 4 місяці тому +309

    it really sucks that grace got left in the dust and bri was mad at her and still invalidated her in this conversation, like grace was practically grieving a friend🥺

  • @kaitlana12
    @kaitlana12 4 місяці тому +257

    I missed the part where Bri apologized to Grace

    • @Theredsummer
      @Theredsummer 4 місяці тому +3

      Oh yikes, I guess your ears don't work.

    • @tiffanymp4152
      @tiffanymp4152 4 місяці тому +6

      apologize for what😂 are u apart of their friendship ? u don't know shi LMAOO fix the parasocial issues i beg

    • @user-ed2qh2bk4q
      @user-ed2qh2bk4q 4 місяці тому +2

      You all are weird. Did you even listen to either one

  • @ashleegoralski2307
    @ashleegoralski2307 4 місяці тому +230

    the just omalley pod needs to happen for this summer !!! she can tell us all about her life on the road, her party life, funny influencer stories, etc. Grace go on cancelled and just trish alone so everyone can hear the real you!!!

  • @cierraposey7823
    @cierraposey7823 4 місяці тому +139

    GRACE is the friend any girl on this entire planet would love to have by their side. Stan GRACE ❤️

  • @walks5203
    @walks5203 4 місяці тому +425

    BRI IS SO ANNOYING. “It was MY podcast first this started off as just me” literally Grace deserves so much better

    • @Carly-bc1im
      @Carly-bc1im 4 місяці тому +21

      That’s literally what happened though lol Why are you watching if you find her so annoying. 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @walks5203
      @walks5203 4 місяці тому +20

      @@Carly-bc1imfor Grace obviously

    • @Carly-bc1im
      @Carly-bc1im 4 місяці тому +15

      @@walks5203 ok so if you like Grace so much, why are you doing exactly what she asked people not to do?

    • @colleenhayes807
      @colleenhayes807 4 місяці тому +3

      Because she’s doing it for her “bestfriend” who is the bad boy. I guarantee the only reason Bri met with Grace was for her to clear her name, and try to stop the hate

    • @Urmumsaho
      @Urmumsaho 4 місяці тому +5

      ⁠literally would not be where it’s at now without grace!!!

  • @cheyennemackeil8982
    @cheyennemackeil8982 4 місяці тому +187

    Grace has been carrying this podcast, if bri wants to go solo then cancel it tbh. Why is grace the only one showing up in person to BRIs podcast studio

  • @delaney1110
    @delaney1110 4 місяці тому +80

    Im so glad the comments are what they are bc it's all true

  • @hannataylor5725
    @hannataylor5725 4 місяці тому +186

    i completely agree with all the takes on bri invalidating grace and taking zero accountability. not to mention grace is the one in the studio doing the podcast every week, bri is a three hour drive away but can’t actually come film the pod? ridiculous

    • @MeganSullivanx
      @MeganSullivanx 4 місяці тому +14

      Wait I just realized that- they were literally together last night but couldn’t be together in the studio for a heavy convo like this when Bri isn’t far.. smh

  • @LoveHeartsMakeup
    @LoveHeartsMakeup 4 місяці тому +149

    I do think it’s important to note that throughout all of this, Bri had Zack to turn to. This sort of fight (as someone whos gone through it) is so much more difficult for the single friend. There’s a big void left while for the person in a new relationship, their life can still feel very full. Bri got two dogs and a cat and a new relationship and traveled the world, and I’m sure for grace it felt like nothing new came to her the way it did for bri. It can be so difficult to course correct after a fight like this, hope they can find ways to continue to prioritize each other.

  • @daniellecaddick2180
    @daniellecaddick2180 4 місяці тому +131

    Barstool needs to give Grace her own pod with full creative control. She’s the real reason most of us watch and seeing her do a solo pod just confirmed it! Give the people what they want!!!

  • @chesapeake_ripp3r
    @chesapeake_ripp3r 4 місяці тому +659

    Bri talked a lot, but said absolutely nothing. I’m sorry Grace, we love you.

    • @walks5203
      @walks5203 4 місяці тому +22

      Literally she kept repeating the same shit I’m like did I rewind the ep?

    • @chesapeake_ripp3r
      @chesapeake_ripp3r 4 місяці тому +3

      @@samanthagray7297 Preach

    • @HaliLaRae
      @HaliLaRae 4 місяці тому +18

      That’s what I thought. At times it’s like grace is talking to a brick wall getting no where. Idk

    • @Theredsummer
      @Theredsummer 4 місяці тому

      Chloe, just say you’re brain dead and don’t have any comprehension skills. Did you watch it? Or were u projecting?

    • @JustineBB86
      @JustineBB86 4 місяці тому +6

      If you love her then why are doing exactly what she said is making things harder for her…

  • @marissamcgough3579
    @marissamcgough3579 4 місяці тому +69

    Sounds like bri got a new boyfriend and completely ditches grace. Grace then becomes upset with Bri and distances herself. Now Brianna is gaslighting Grace and saying well you were mad at me and being bitch because I was a bad friend so now I’m gonna be mad at you for being mad at me.. Bri needs to take accountability and realize she changed and ditched her best friend after getting into a relationship. Of course people do grow apart and can do their own thing but you should never be that girl who abandons her friends after getting into a relationship. Bri didn’t make an effort to keep their friendship alive while also balancing a relationship. Grace is upset and misses her friend. Also says a lot that Zach and Grace never talk or hangout and Zach unfollowed Grace. Clearly they don’t like eachother.. that doesn’t help the rift either.

  • @sizetensolemates
    @sizetensolemates 4 місяці тому +175

    finding your path doesn’t mean following your boyfriend around and cosplaying a cowgirl but go on

  • @jessieprinzo
    @jessieprinzo 4 місяці тому +41

    “Weird to talk about real life stuff since the breakup!!”
    Grace: “actually my grandma died”

  • @laurarosas4687
    @laurarosas4687 4 місяці тому +32

    Bri trying so hard to control the narrative is very telling.

  • @sofiamaria194
    @sofiamaria194 4 місяці тому +54

    Bri was just on BFFs saying there was no fight and everything was fine. Calling all of us annoying and wrong…. And we were right? She’s still downplaying it in this…She has gone completely psychotic, wow.

    • @user-ed2qh2bk4q
      @user-ed2qh2bk4q 4 місяці тому +1

      You all are annoying and wrong hahaha THIS HAPPENS TO MOST ADULT FRIENDSHIPS
      you aren’t them. It’s a natural thing sometimes for 2 people to grow apart due to different wants and needs in that time. Just sh go live your life. I promise you, caring this much about social media influencer friendships will ruin you

  • @juliacarol2417
    @juliacarol2417 4 місяці тому +115

    I honestly feel like they need to call it quits on this pod and I never thought I would say that. The spark is gone between them. Bri has definitely made it clear where her priorities lie. Grace deserves better:(

  • @Hollieeahle
    @Hollieeahle 4 місяці тому +22

    Bri is such a loser. Grace will thrive! Zach will cheat/dump her ass within the next year or two (like he always does) and coming crawling back…I’ve seen this film many times before 😂

  • @FNav-t5n
    @FNav-t5n 4 місяці тому +188

    Be an individual. I feel like you just morph into any relationship you get in. Grace has been there for you for everything. Don’t take your friendship for granted.

    • @AM-gt1yt
      @AM-gt1yt 3 місяці тому

      Girls like bri can't do that. They just become extensions of their boyfriend bc they have no identity of their own. It's pathetic and sad and hopefully she actually "grows up" and gets much needed therapy to figure out why that is.

  • @mamarmst
    @mamarmst 4 місяці тому +251

    Oh shocker everyone was right. Bri just lied on bffs too saying that the fans were crazy. Lol how does she have any fans left? Her letting Grace take the blame is wild when everyone who had been in this type of friendship knows the real reason lol. Bri only cares about how this is affecting her PR-wise. Poor Grace. Also Bri growing up doesn’t mean ditching your entire life and personality to follow a man around 😂

    • @CTLee420
      @CTLee420 4 місяці тому +8

      I mean she’s right, people are kinda crazy for the assumptions they’re making as to why they’re going through a rough patch. Especially people that are supposed to be their fans.

    • @deadshot8330
      @deadshot8330 4 місяці тому +9

      @@CTLee420everyone said the vibe is off the energy is off ……and we all got gaslit by Bri and told we’re stupid and crazy for feeling that way and now flash to today where guess what we weren’t wrong we were right so let people feel how they wanna feel in these comments you don’t know these people any better than we do so let us be

    • @CTLee420
      @CTLee420 4 місяці тому

      @@deadshot8330 where did Bri say everyone was stupid and crazy? I don’t remember her ever saying that?

    • @deadshot8330
      @deadshot8330 4 місяці тому +6

      @@CTLee420 called us crazy and insane in the bffs podcast this week just to turn around to do this and in one of the last couple episodes the insanely stupid comment was made but I’m not gonna go look lol

    • @sofiamaria194
      @sofiamaria194 4 місяці тому

      This comment>>> Well said.

  • @sofiamaria194
    @sofiamaria194 4 місяці тому +70

    This makes it pretty clear to me that Zach is the main cause of the tension in this friendship.

    • @St99748
      @St99748 4 місяці тому +3

      ☝️

  • @FNav-t5n
    @FNav-t5n 4 місяці тому +43

    I’m never one to comment on anything on here but Bri, it is extremely unhealthy to drop everything in your life that is your foundation for a relationship ship that is toxicity codependent with Zach.

    • @samanthagray7297
      @samanthagray7297 4 місяці тому +7

      It's not normal like she's claiming and I truly believe she thinks it is.

  • @delaney1110
    @delaney1110 4 місяці тому +50

    It isn't "growing and maturing" if you're doing the same things the other person is doing still the only difference is you're not doing it together. Bri is not better than Grace.

    • @mollys614
      @mollys614 4 місяці тому +8

      It’s blowing my mind! Does she not see these comments😭 I just really hope she realizes shes throwing away her relationships for one rich narcissistic man.

  • @sarahtobin3132
    @sarahtobin3132 4 місяці тому +71

    I've never seen someone with the ability to take ZERO accountability for their actions the way that Bri does about everything. Feels like so much gaslighting on her end

  • @britneystanger591
    @britneystanger591 4 місяці тому +294

    Can they touch on grace and Zach relationship? Pretty sure that’s the reason of the strain in the friendship that he’s making Bri distance herself

    • @rachelmarie6793
      @rachelmarie6793 4 місяці тому +6

      I was thinking the same thing honestly because he unfollowed her and BFFs a while ago and it’s still not following her which is weird.

    • @NoelRoselynn
      @NoelRoselynn 4 місяці тому +6

      I’m wondering what Zach and Grace’s relationship is like as well. If Grace and Zach were super cool, one would think that Bri and Zach would invite Grace to come out and visit in certain cities to be apart of the tour and hangout. Seems like an easy fix for besties who miss each other.

    • @mirandagraham1935
      @mirandagraham1935 4 місяці тому +4

      Curious as well! If Bri chooses a man over her childhood best friend then that’s low!! I’d lose all respect for her. Hopefully all is well though!

    • @Milly2286
      @Milly2286 4 місяці тому +8

      Bri would never. She wouldn’t even talk about it when Dave tried pressing her when Zach unfollowed her and Grace on Instagram. Can’t make her bf mad then she won’t be able to follow him around and live in that giant house

    • @Milly2286
      @Milly2286 4 місяці тому +5

      @@NoelRoselynnyes! Also if I had a new giant house I’d be inviting my supposed best friend over

  • @mikeotto753
    @mikeotto753 4 місяці тому +185

    “You guys are crazy” “you people are so annoying” bri about her own fans when asked about a rift in their friendship. The next pod it’s confirmed the fans were 100% right lol.

    • @Carly-bc1im
      @Carly-bc1im 4 місяці тому +6

      Have seen the comments? Those are not fans. Like grace said, if you’re a fan of her you should be rooting for their friendship. The people coming on here just to hate them are weird af for that

    • @tiffanymp4152
      @tiffanymp4152 4 місяці тому +4

      these mfs are notttt fans😂 the way everyone knew NOTHING abt the actual situation, except for lack of chemistry in recent episodes, yet were spamming grace's comments talking shi on bri as if that was supposed to result to anything lmao #1 hater and instigator behavior and if they are fans and claim themselves to be, they do deserve to be called crazy and annoying😂 u know damn well

    • @user-ed2qh2bk4q
      @user-ed2qh2bk4q 4 місяці тому +2

      You guys are fucking mean hahahha not fans. Who tf cares. Live and let live. Just watch for fun and go touch grass 😘

  • @alyssapooletable
    @alyssapooletable 4 місяці тому +241

    can’t believe Bri took no accountability and let Grace call herself and asshole & blame herself
    oh wait, i totally CAN believe it because bri does it time and time again! boa gate, stealing merch designs drawn by independent artists, the list goes on!

    • @christinecondrey9363
      @christinecondrey9363 4 місяці тому +7

      Omg troll 🧌 did you even listen they both took accountability for not communicating w each other bri is in a diff era and so is grace it’s ok to want diff things y’all hate on bri but watch her weird

    • @alyssapooletable
      @alyssapooletable 4 місяці тому +20

      @@christinecondrey9363girl i’m not the only one who took that away from this podcast if you check the other comments 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @JustineBB86
      @JustineBB86 4 місяці тому +1

      What podcast did you watch?

    • @JustineBB86
      @JustineBB86 4 місяці тому +4

      ⁠@@alyssapooletablethe only people that took that from this podcast are Bri haters… people with logic and without a biased hatred for Bri, did not get that from watching this pod

  • @mpnkny
    @mpnkny 4 місяці тому +57

    "Grace just doesn't want this life and I do!" Brianna....we all follow a guy around once or twice. Yours just happens to be really wealthy. Grace doesn't have the same privilege, and you won't forever either. You didn't need Grace anymore and left, which is fine, but don't gaslight her.

  • @deadshot8330
    @deadshot8330 4 місяці тому +189

    Wow what a way to say Bri takes no accountability meanwhile Bri’s been calling us freaks and weirdos for thinking they were fighting for months and guess what they were………..also weird that theirs no mention of the giant boss baby elephant in the room…….team grace always

    • @babydemon666
      @babydemon666 4 місяці тому +2

      Did someone say 🎶 goo goo ga ga? 🎶

  • @Boysenberry717
    @Boysenberry717 4 місяці тому +233

    Bri has no accountability and basically blames Grace for the reason their friendship was off. I wish she gave Grace a moment to truly explain how she felt. I feel like for Grace it’s more like her best friend forgetting about her and following her bf wherever he goes.

    • @nicholasround4722
      @nicholasround4722 4 місяці тому +9

      Exactly. I think Grace feels awkward saying how she really feels because she's grateful for the opportunity to be on the show and to work at barstool and she knows Bri thinks that Bri is A and she is B. But Grace needs to realize how popular she's become in her own right and embrace that confidence

  • @hannahs2244
    @hannahs2244 4 місяці тому +82

    It felt like Bri was just word vomiting to keep Grace quiet. This breaks my heart. Speak your truth Grace. Bri will regret this so much if her and Zach break up.

    • @AM-gt1yt
      @AM-gt1yt 3 місяці тому

      If? You mean when

  • @MalloryBaker-m2i
    @MalloryBaker-m2i 4 місяці тому +112

    Bri talking but saying nothing. Grace you deserve better!

  • @morganmotley9847
    @morganmotley9847 4 місяці тому +33

    Grace, if Bri wants to revolve her world around a guy please just let her. You have so much to offer and I’m so excited to follow you on your journey.

  • @rebeccaporter3322
    @rebeccaporter3322 4 місяці тому +10

    The beating around the bush from the Zach elephant in the room 😂

    • @St99748
      @St99748 4 місяці тому +4

      Exactly. They were fine until Brianna started dating Zach. He doesn’t like Grace and Grace doesn’t like him, and I’m sure that’s a big part of this issue.

  • @bellat3430
    @bellat3430 4 місяці тому +25

    Bri said it for what it is, in the past Grace was part of her relationships with her boyfriends per Bri’s own words, “it was like a thruple”. But now with Zach, it’s not like that anymore. Healthy relationships don’t have you ignore your friendships especially those that have been in your life since day 1. It’s pretty obvious that either Zach doesn’t like grace or Grace doesn’t like Zach or both. That’s the tiff or tension and that won’t go away unless one breaks up with the other or they work it out. I’ve seen this happen so many times in my own life. And I feel bad for Grace who feels like she’s losing her best friend. Also Bri shouldn’t feel like she has to say yes to all of Zach’s tour dates etc. it’s healthy to make time for your friends and have some time apart from your boyfriend. And if your boyfriend is upset for that then he obviously has some insecure/controlling problems. I really hope they are able to work this out.

    • @samanthagray7297
      @samanthagray7297 4 місяці тому +3

      Zach has a history and Bri is trying to avoid being the repeat 😂😂 she can't let him out of her site or their done.

    • @Alex-fy2fw
      @Alex-fy2fw 4 місяці тому

      No matter how good of a friend- if your reoccurring relationship problem is your overbearing best friend… then that might be the problem. That doesn’t mean grace is a bad person but bri has never had a chance to love someone without feeling like she had her bestie tagging along then that’s her business?? The discourse is so weird. I’m sure Zach will be just a phase to bri but bri ain’t never had a phase without grace so let her do what she’s gotta do, it’s her life not ours! If you’re a real fan you support grace on her own and believe in her come up without bri. And if you fr love bri you’d be able to see from the jump she’s been anxious asf about this type of lifestyle and has constantly gone back and forth finding herself (as we all should as ladies in our 20s, we’re all trying our best !!) . If they love and support each other regardless of the phase then no one should have anything to say ❤️ they’re both gonna kill it in their futures and its exciting !!!

  • @walks5203
    @walks5203 4 місяці тому +160

    GRACE DESERVES A BETTER FRIEND.

  • @HanaJama258
    @HanaJama258 4 місяці тому +49

    Grace.. run. This girl is a friend to no one but herself

  • @katiedanielle71511
    @katiedanielle71511 4 місяці тому +343

    Typical Bri. Taking NO accountability. Pawning the whole thing on Grace. You can tell there is a power imbalance and why grace is saying what she’s saying. Bri saying she’s maturing, stable, and doesn’t want to party is insinuating Grace is the total opposite of those things. Just be real, Zach hates Grace. And changing your whole personality for him is more important than Grace.

    • @deadshot8330
      @deadshot8330 4 місяці тому +45

      This right here!! like girl you ain’t settling down yall drunk, shrooming, and having 🎈 parties…..furthest thing from stable

    • @CTLee420
      @CTLee420 4 місяці тому +22

      Why are you even watching someone you clearly dislike so much 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @katiedanielle71511
      @katiedanielle71511 4 місяці тому +24

      @@CTLee420I like grace and she deserves better, period.

    • @CTLee420
      @CTLee420 4 місяці тому +12

      @@katiedanielle71511 deserves better how? They’re going through a rough patch like all friends do. I think people need to stop making assumptions into facts.

    • @walks5203
      @walks5203 4 місяці тому +13

      Yup literally blamed Grace for having feelings

  • @cmwms99
    @cmwms99 4 місяці тому +34

    If bri didn’t follow Zach around what’s the likelihood that she’d wanna go out and explore other things lol let’s be so fr.

  • @kathleen6300
    @kathleen6300 4 місяці тому +47

    Bri once again taking zero accountability. Zero apology towards Grace but what’s the point when she’s going to continue to follow the serial cheater around and ignore her BFF and give zero effort to her one job!

  • @tal3335
    @tal3335 4 місяці тому +7

    Grace! Mid 30 yr old here who’s been in your exact same shoes with a super close BFF during my 20s. This episode almost gave me ptsd on how similar the dynamic was and how painful it was at the time. Keep doing you and I promise the more you focus on yourself, you’ll end up on top here!

  • @AbigailUlmer
    @AbigailUlmer 4 місяці тому +12

    it feels like grace has so much more to say but is just saying “yeah” so she doesn’t lose bri😢😢

  • @cougardancer97
    @cougardancer97 4 місяці тому +17

    I love you bri but girl…you can’t just sit there while Grace is blaming herself for things and be like “yeah so the only issue is Grace was just upset that we didn’t spend 24/7 together anymore and that’s totally healthy and normal to be apart”. Yes it is normal is have some time apart but it’s SO CLEAR that Grace is not just upset about not being together 24/7. You cut her off multiple times in this pod and spoke for her and put words in her mouth when you can tell she doesn’t agree 100% with what you’re saying. Please take some accountability. I watched this pod since it was just you alone - but this is hard to watch. A simple acknowledgment that you’re both at fault would go a long way. You say you both just assumed things about each other, but not that you both take responsibility - instead you’re letting Grace take the fall and painting the picture that she was jealous and needed more attention. Obviously this does not concern me and idk yall but seriously, this is painful to watch. Not sure how everyone besides you can read graces body language and tone 🙃 love you bri but please take some responsibility here.

  • @kelly3957
    @kelly3957 4 місяці тому +49

    I feel like I just watched a full episode of Bri gaslighting Grace and also saying their friendship hasn’t been working out because Bri has “grown up” and Grace is still stuck in the partying phase. I didn’t know following your brand new bf on tour all year was growing up

    • @AM-gt1yt
      @AM-gt1yt 3 місяці тому

      Exactly. If anything it's regressing

  • @ebdreamed
    @ebdreamed 4 місяці тому +15

    What I don’t like is how they (Bri basically) acts like no one has a friendship as deep as them. Like be so real lmao

    • @winterdivinity7922
      @winterdivinity7922 4 місяці тому +1

      Yep she uses that as a defense mechanism but majority of people are starting to see through it and realize she’s actually quite a shitty friend. lol

  • @cbk-sl4mj
    @cbk-sl4mj 4 місяці тому +48

    can Bri recognize that maybe she moved too fast in this relationship and is prioritizing it time and time again over this friendship???? THAT IS WHY Grace is upset.!!!!!!

  • @VR-on9wf
    @VR-on9wf 4 місяці тому +17

    Bri is such a narcissist lol “I didn’t want to ruin my exs life anymore” “i started this podcast on my own” “I am growing up” no you literally hooked Zach Bryan and you are a glorified groupie lmao

  • @flowerchild_92
    @flowerchild_92 4 місяці тому +31

    She bought a house with a guy shes been dating less than a year? Lol

    • @drew2473
      @drew2473 4 місяці тому +8

      Someone said it was 8 million, Bri doesn’t have 8 million lol she moved into a house that her rich BF bought is more like it

    • @WaterGirlNYC
      @WaterGirlNYC 3 місяці тому

      She moved in with the last two
      Boyfriends she had before him too. Literally moved from one to the next. She needs therapy, not a boyfriend

  • @Amy-le1cz
    @Amy-le1cz 4 місяці тому +17

    NOT PINNING YOU AGAINST EACH OTHER, WE ARE POINTING OUT THE FACT BRI CANT SEE SHE DITCHED HER BESTIE FOR A GUY THATS GONNA LEAVE HER

  • @lynsss__8928
    @lynsss__8928 4 місяці тому +51

    Bri is not settling down Bri is just a full time girlfriend now who still parties, she replaced Grace with Zack.

  • @user-hl4xd6nl3s
    @user-hl4xd6nl3s 4 місяці тому +126

    Love them. I’m getting the vibe grace still isn’t being fully honest with how she feels to bri, but I hope they make it through and grace deserves love so much! When she finds someone it will be a game changer

  • @Nk-qj1ix
    @Nk-qj1ix 4 місяці тому +13

    Really felt like Grace took responsibility for the entire situation when in reality she had done nothing wrong besides not talking about it sooner. Are we all glossing over the Zach unfollowing Grace online? This is when shit started and since then Bri has manipulated and flipped everything around. Most of us girls have had friendships with girls that have done this.

  • @melaniediamond6817
    @melaniediamond6817 4 місяці тому +25

    Grace you are special. You will go very far in your career. ❤

  • @Kayleahc
    @Kayleahc 4 місяці тому +103

    Grace can’t wait to see how you continue to grow!! You are hilarious and deserve your own recognition

  • @Kayleahc
    @Kayleahc 4 місяці тому +89

    Yes it’s normal for your friendship to change but it’s not normal to not tell your bff how you feel or give her a heads up, but downplaying it and making Grace seem like she’s overreacting over something “normal” is not right

  • @whitneygrace395
    @whitneygrace395 4 місяці тому +16

    32:09 y'all blaming your listeners is bs.This may be my last listen.

  • @koenig1121
    @koenig1121 4 місяці тому +38

    It's not just about their friendship, it's also a professional relationship. Grace is in NY holding down the fort, having to stop what she's doing to come into the office. Remember Dave let Mean Girls Pod go when they said they didn't want to come into the office - yes there was more to it, but I'm sure that hangs over Grace's head as she lives paycheck to paycheck. Bri gets paid a lot more money and then of course has ZB $$ and his Pop songs to carry them through :)

  • @thewholenesshome
    @thewholenesshome 4 місяці тому +17

    It sincerely feels like Grace has always lived in the shadow of Bri and Bri just doesn’t care enough to build Grace up to know she’s good enough to stand on her own. This is a decades long pattern that got them both through middle/high school and now followed them into their careers. Grace may not know how to do it without Briana or thinks all her success hangs on her relationship with Bri. Bri probably also likes the dynamic because she *always* will have a friend no matter what is happening guy wise. It’s super sad to see. I watched the Out and About Live stream and it was clear that Grace feels less than, not appreciated and not as loved as Bri and that’s NOT TRUE. You deserve your own light instead of standing in Bri’s shadow I PROMISE this community wants to see your shining!! 💛💛💛

  • @monkeymaroon
    @monkeymaroon 4 місяці тому +12

    It’s so sad how clearly one sided this friendship is. Bri blaming grace for the issues as if she didn’t just completely drop her for the new cool thing. While yes priorities change life changes healthy relationships allow for you to maintain both. You don’t need to spend every second with grace or with Zac you can just make an effort to speak with both. Grace you deserve better it’s sad you can’t see that but it’s true.

  • @joannah.
    @joannah. 4 місяці тому +31

    Bri never takes any accountability. All she does is talks in circles. Her head is so far up her own ass. Bri has changed so much for the worst over the past year. I feel bad for Grace, this friendship is one sided. Grace should have her own podcast.

  • @GFD618
    @GFD618 3 місяці тому +3

    Bri switched up her whole life when she started dating Zac. And I bet O’Malley will be there when he inevitably kicks her to the curb because she’s a great friend…it’s also pretty obvious Zac is possessive and was jealous of Grace always being around

  • @St99748
    @St99748 4 місяці тому +72

    Why wouldn’t Bri invite Grace to her house to have this conversation? Is she not allowed in the house? 🤦‍♀️

    • @Beccajade-hd7do
      @Beccajade-hd7do 4 місяці тому +6

      Did you not listen?

    • @St99748
      @St99748 4 місяці тому +30

      @@Beccajade-hd7do I sure did, did you? They said they met at a beach within walking distance to Bris house and it was cold so they had to get in the truck. So why didn’t they just meet at Bris house from the beginning? It seems shitty to not invite Grace to her house to have the conversation instead of a cold beach.

    • @maliatn5n72
      @maliatn5n72 4 місяці тому +30

      It's kinda obvious atp Zach doesn't like Grace at all.

    • @Beccajade-hd7do
      @Beccajade-hd7do 4 місяці тому +5

      @@St99748 right and then Grace said she was able to see the new house! And at the end of the conversation they were talking about hugging in the yard saying bye and people were driving by taking pictures of them….

    • @Lisa52442
      @Lisa52442 4 місяці тому +2

      Grace said she went to the house

  • @albinaaliu1
    @albinaaliu1 4 місяці тому +11

    The fact that Bri gaslighted her listeners on BFFs last night calling them crazy and annoying for speculating when they were right the whole time smh

    • @St99748
      @St99748 4 місяці тому +3

      Exactly. I hope Dave calls her out for that next week but I won’t hold my breath. 🙄

  • @GingerPhoenix4999
    @GingerPhoenix4999 4 місяці тому +45

    Sounds like bri is trying to convince herself what she's saying is true.

  • @delaneytaylor7885
    @delaneytaylor7885 3 місяці тому +2

    as a girl who has been in grace’s shoes, watching her get so emotional and teared up made me cry because i know that exact feeling of feeling sort of replaced by your friends boyfriend and feeling like you got dropped like an unwanted toy is the absolute worst and i hope she finds healing and growth on her own

  • @SaraDiLello-kh4qd
    @SaraDiLello-kh4qd 4 місяці тому +13

    Grace is amazing and deserves so much better

  • @sofiamaria194
    @sofiamaria194 4 місяці тому +9

    Bri does nothing but follow ZB around and changes her personality for him, isolates herself from everyone else, and is acting like it’s growth? She is so delusional..??!

    • @St99748
      @St99748 4 місяці тому +3

      And she wants to start an advice pod 🤦‍♀️

  • @juliacarol2417
    @juliacarol2417 4 місяці тому +14

    This went immediately downhill around the time Zach unfollowed Bffs, planbri and grace. Poor grace.

    • @juliacarol2417
      @juliacarol2417 4 місяці тому +2

      Also based on everything public about Zach’s previous relationships…. He’s pretty toxic

  • @Kayleahc
    @Kayleahc 4 місяці тому +101

    You can definitely tell they are on different pages, even still. Hope yall work it out and do what’s best for each other ❤

  • @user-wn3kn2mi4v
    @user-wn3kn2mi4v 4 місяці тому +10

    So sorry Grace, you deserve so much better

  • @emily847
    @emily847 4 місяці тому +44

    Love bri but I feel like she’s so out of touch with things that she does(unintentionally) to hurt people who are there for her most.like grace is taking accountability for her wrongdoings but Bri is just shrugging it off like she did nothing. Even if it wasn’t her intention at least acknowledge and apologize you made your friend feel that way. Just bc you get in a relationship doesn’t mean your friend will just be there bc you’ve always been friends

  • @annieharris8776
    @annieharris8776 4 місяці тому +8

    Bri gives 0 fucks about anything but her life and what goes on in it. Feel for you Grace. Think it’s super unfair and I really loved bri but I don’t stand for this shit. Sorry gets me heated that someone thinks they aren’t playing a part in someone else’s sadness.

  • @britneystanger591
    @britneystanger591 4 місяці тому +103

    Grace always doing the ad reads and work

    • @CTLee420
      @CTLee420 4 місяці тому +7

      She gets paid more to do ad reads so she probably wants to do them…

    • @caitlynenns
      @caitlynenns 4 місяці тому +7

      Bri did for years. She's earned a break

    • @bethanyrae19
      @bethanyrae19 4 місяці тому +6

      Did you watch? Bri did two of them....

    • @caitlynenns
      @caitlynenns 4 місяці тому +4

      Also bri did an ad read in this episode 😂😂😂

    • @madisonsmith105
      @madisonsmith105 4 місяці тому +3

      for the longest time they didn’t even allow grace to do ad reads that’s not on Bri lmao they’ve been said that

  • @jill.cappuccino5272
    @jill.cappuccino5272 4 місяці тому +6

    in this situation i’ve been grace and i’ve been bri, wishing u both the best. life is not easy and as good as it is to embrace new relationships, we should always also embrace the old (if good and applicable) u both r thriving and it makes me so happy to see. grace, it gets better, and bri, you will learn to balance both a longtime friendship, and a flourishing relationship. you both deserve happiness and i am confident it’s possible while still being active in each others life

  • @samanthagray7297
    @samanthagray7297 4 місяці тому +34

    This is honestly pathetic. Bri is wrong. She isnt growing up, she changed her entire personality and life for her "famous" bf who publicly talks about how shitty he is to his partners.
    Very funny how she started hating New York when she met Zach.

  • @juse4507
    @juse4507 4 місяці тому +6

    I love how on BFFs bri was like “yeah everyone online is just haters me n grace are fine everyone else is just crazy” which is her reaction to literally any criticism knowing damn well that she completely up and left her best friend who she knows isn’t in the best place to follow her less than a year old boyfriend around the country and move away w him leaving grace completely behind which she can’t even fathom as being shitty bc “she started the podcast by herself” like that’s not the point home girl everyone sees it but you. I feel like multiple times grace has made small expressions of being down and lonely and every single time it’s brushed passed and overlooked. She deserves an actual friend.

  • @CarrieStevens-tf8gz
    @CarrieStevens-tf8gz 4 місяці тому +8

    This just seems like a desperate attempt by Bri to make everyone like her again…..that was a whole lot of talking for her to say nothing …..the day that girl takes Accountability for anything will be a miracle in itself……..not a redditor or whatever the hell y’all keep blaming negative comments on just a used to be fan

  • @caronmorris33
    @caronmorris33 4 місяці тому +9

    Grace is fighting tears and to watch bri not even try to comfort her is so sad. Bri has not “grown up and settled down” she just followed her bf around for 6 months. This was a really sad and hard watch. Grace is so loyal and absolutely ride or die and the type of friend anyone would be so lucky to have. 😢 I hope grace sees how amazing she is and how many people wish they had a friend like her!

  • @ambercrystal4562
    @ambercrystal4562 4 місяці тому +17

    Grace your feelings are valid dont blame yourself ❤ ive been left as well it sucks

  • @julieparnell6245
    @julieparnell6245 4 місяці тому +40

    Good luck at the audition Grace !

  • @RachhhS
    @RachhhS 4 місяці тому +8

    Hard fucking watch not once did o hear Bri say sorry ab how she made grace feel… i started watching for grace and i will always support her . She needs her flowers

  • @gill3110
    @gill3110 4 місяці тому +37

    Bri takes accountability challenge: level impossible

  • @HanaJama258
    @HanaJama258 4 місяці тому +26

    Brianna transforms into whoever she’s dating. Once he’s gone she’ll be someone else smh a tale as old as time

  • @taylormcaroline
    @taylormcaroline 4 місяці тому +13

    I rarely comment on UA-cam videos, but this needs to be said. Grace, you are so loved. You deserve good friendships and success and you will get it all and more if you continue to be yourself. You don’t need to hold on to things that make you feel bad about yourself or undeserving of supportive friendships. Believe what everyone is seeing and saying. YOU HAVE SO MANY FANS!!!

  • @avanowak3797
    @avanowak3797 4 місяці тому +19

    I think that bri obviously deserves to live her life and do what makes her happy, but i for sure think grace is feeling a little blown off. She’s had a new boyfriend within 1 month of like her last 3 break ups, and has even spoke ab how she struggles being alone which is very obvious. Even when she’s “ alone” she still has a boyfriend for the past 3 years. THEN Got with zach ASAP after her last boyfriend , now is with him 24/7 nonstop. I’m sure it breaks graces heart. always being the single , lonely friend & treated much differently. It’s not bri’s fault grace is alone, but it’s still really sad / hard to see her go thru this. it’s obvious

    • @emily847
      @emily847 4 місяці тому +3

      Right like if that was my friend and I saw how hurt I made them feel, even unintentionally, I would feel awful and be right there with them and apologize or at least acknowledge the reality of what my friend is experiencing as a result of my actions. I love them both but it’s sad to see like you said. It comes off as though Bri just doesn’t care and that obviously would be so hurtful to anyone in a friendship to realize about the other. I hope Grace realizes what a good friend she is and that she deserves that same care and love

  • @violetchantress5796
    @violetchantress5796 4 місяці тому +4

    I really felt for grace. Esp when she almost started crying. I had a traumatic friend break up and I was in a very similar situation/ position as her. It all was very heavy and took a massive toll on me… I just felt abandoned. Also, I get where Bri is coming from, but the whole podcast instead of truly recognizing and showing her understandment about graces feelings to the audience, she just went on these weird rambles the whole time like what 😭

  • @camc4879
    @camc4879 4 місяці тому +11

    I want give Grace a hug! 😢

  • @Lucra.Living
    @Lucra.Living 4 місяці тому +54

    *Grace felt Abandoned and Bri didn’t Calm her enough and reassure her to where it turned to anger and fear* I’m glad they both opened up and I know Grace will find more bonds in NYC even though its been a Comfort zone being mainly Bri. YOU BOTH GOT THIS ❤❤❤

  • @morganrhodez
    @morganrhodez 4 місяці тому +5

    I hope the next episode is an accountability episode Bri. Your “best friend” deserves that.

  • @nicoleheaps223
    @nicoleheaps223 4 місяці тому +4

    This video pulled on my heart strings. About 4 years ago this situation happened with my best friend of 13 years and we never were able to have this conversation and mend the extreme close relationship we had. We are still friends but barely speak and our lives couldn’t be farther away from each other now. 😢

  • @colleenhayes807
    @colleenhayes807 4 місяці тому +6

    We’ve all had a friend who had completely changed once they started dating someone. It’s devastating to see, I completely understand Graces anger, which is better described as hurt and sadness for lost a bestfriend. I’m a fan or follower wtf you guys want to call it but I’ve noticed they weren’t connecting the same way they use to as soon as Bri started dating Zach. & obviously Bri had the podcast before Grace came along that’s why it’s “planbri” and all the ads have her name as the promo code which is unfair. I’m here for both of them not just Bri. And Bri consistently reminds barstool fans that the only reason Grace is there is because she kept bring her around until Dave gave her a job which is so condescending and obviously hurtful.

  • @sebxax1306
    @sebxax1306 4 місяці тому +10

    Bri has no longevity in the space. she used to be funny but now she’s just annoying. big unfollow

    • @winterdivinity7922
      @winterdivinity7922 4 місяці тому +5

      Yep. Grace is the true shining star in this dynamic. She’s original, funny, and humble- she will go much further than Bri in the future. I think them drifting will actually be good for Grace to pave her own way.

  • @Lucra.Living
    @Lucra.Living 4 місяці тому +40

    It’s *VERY* obvious Bri started getting her happiness from *ZACH* and prioritized that because SHE WAS HAPPY AND GOOD, So she didn’t care or worry how GRACE was feeling because she’s on to a *NEW* Source of happiness. Just like she overlaps relationships.. when she finds NEW HAPPINESS… she leaves without *THOUGHT* of how the person behind Feels. It’s SAD For GRACE!! And they’re saying don’t pick sides because *BRI DOESNT WANT TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY AND PEOPLE CALLING IT OUT* we would respect it if she owned it and grew from it. GRACE DESERVES ACTUAL CARE AND LOVE FOR HOW SHE FEELS 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Carly-bc1im
      @Carly-bc1im 4 місяці тому +7

      If you like Grace so much then why are you doing exactly what she said is making things harder for her?

    • @Lucra.Living
      @Lucra.Living 4 місяці тому +6

      @@Carly-bc1im because BRI told her to be a certain way on HERE. If you can’t see a narcissist vs an empath here.. I’m grateful you haven’t been through it but it’s clear as day to me

    • @Carly-bc1im
      @Carly-bc1im 4 місяці тому +1

      @@Lucra.Living even if that is the case. Comments like these are hurting more than they’re helping. Grace has great support around her and all these comments just seem to be adding unnecessary stress to her

    • @Hollieeahle
      @Hollieeahle 4 місяці тому +5

      I think this Carly is bri on her burner account she’s the only one on Bri’s side / commenting under every post

    • @Carly-bc1im
      @Carly-bc1im 4 місяці тому +6

      @@Hollieeahle lol or just maybe some people don’t feel the need to be such a hater in the comments section.

  • @ashleegoralski2307
    @ashleegoralski2307 4 місяці тому +30

    i think grace just needs her own podcast at this point, bri wants to do her own thing and just talk about her dogs which is fine and grace has a huge loyal fan base and could be barstools own like brittney broski and carrying the comedy i can see it now