I've liked my crush for almost 4 years and they have known I liked them since last year. Today he asked this girl out and I had to witness it and I went into the hallways to cried :')
Sadly.. that’s not how it works. :( But it’s about when 2 people commit to each other, for better or for worse and lay down their pride, that’s when they stay together not when they are meant to be. Sadly, that’s just Disney. I wish it was true, it’d make it seem easier!
@@SUSU-xm2co Don't worry! I have recently talked to my friend and I have agreed to move on! When I posted that comment I was talking about the past. I'm hoping to get better soon. Thanks for the concern anyways! ^^
Its so bad for me... I get anxious around him, i try to avoid him but i always end up failing..I can't even focus on my life. I just can't stop thinking about him..
Funny story. So I actually did get over my crush, and it's all good. The only reason I'm watching this is because I know going back to school and seeing him again in January is going to bring all those feelings back and I don't want that.
he flirts with me and makes me belive he has feelings for me and then says he likes my friend and kind of likes some others but he's confused with his feelings so I get so confused??? i don't get upset knowing he probably doesn't like me like that it's the fact that he made me believe he had feelings for me and completely led me on that makes me angry.. only problem is that i can't say mad at people for long enough so I always end up forgiving him when he fucks up.. If he wasn't a friend it would be so much easier
Goodness.. that sounds hard.. but you know what? You are strong, and you've got this! :) This will be one of those life turning points in your life! That's super exciting.
i liked him he called me today asked me what i was doing and talked for a bit i started texting him and he told me he liked another girl and just liked me as a friend and i cried for 4 hours
You know he tell me,a girl proposed him and he too like her ,I tell oh wow you find your queen finally, But everyday he talks to me ,he tell everything to me ,now I realise that I have feelings for him, But it's too late ,now too he's massaging me ,I know it's not good to like anyone person guy I hope I can move on easily 😣
i remember last year i had the words "Mixed Emotions" and it was about my crush becaus i hated him sometimes but sometimes i liked him...and he would make a song out of it and he would always ask me what it meant but its still a mystery to him...
Awe.. I love writing, I understand how hard it is to, to let someone go who's just so special to you and inspires you in the most beautiful ways. But just imagine, if he isn't the one for you and he makes you feel this way, imagine how AMAZING it'll be when you do find the one :))
I tried letting go but I cant because it's hard when I see his face in the hallways and he have almost every class with me plus he sits at my lunch table 😭
I watched 16 Candles and was convinced m crush liked me. So my friend asked him and he was like "PFFFF NOOO" and ive liked him for like 2 years so that kinda sucked
AWE... I'm so sorry.. I can't imagine how hard that is. But sooner than later, you'll be able to look back and be thankful for all that you learned. Cheesy, but it's true and it'll be worth it. I promise ♥️. (the 2 years weren't wasted time)
I'm guilty of doing that too. One needs to do a hobby or aim to achieve anything that you want to do in your life, work towards it, work hard so you don't have any time to think about your crush. I know it sounds harsh but I hope it helps with the comment. God bless.
Just know that you're not alone in that category. Crushes on people are evil, because you don't choose them, your crushing chooses before you know it's even happening. Too bad the process of compatibility/ forming relationships didn't have this biological attribute. Crushes don't discriminate against incompatibility. To make it even worse on a completely different level, imagine the only stretch of time in your life, where you were ostracized into lonership, and could accept noone, is the only time anyone ever crushed on you.
I got over mine because I’ve been obsessed with them until quarantine I came into my senses my friends would be like he is ugly inside out and which was so true... even people in school would be like oooh not a good choice for a guy to like etc..fall for someone that’ll give into you, sometimes chasing that “one” person obsessing over them is a waste of time. I don’t think about them anymore at all and IT FEELS SO GOOD TRUST ME
I don’t believe age is to big of a deal. It appears to be a problem when you’re younger and may cause some problems, but I know of lovely grandparent(s) who are still married today and are 10 years apart. :)
What if your friend talk about u being obsessed. My friend keeps saying that im obsessed and i need to get over him but everytime i try to she keeps bringing him back up. Doesnt that mean that shes more obsessed than i am and the she LOVES him and not like him
Well beautiful, I don’t think she loves him, loves a-little bit different. :) Liking someone’s totally normal and when you like someone, you think or talk about them. A LOT. That’s not a bad thing. It doesn’t mean your obsessed. You’re friend probably just wants you more to herself cause she loves you. Maybe ask your friend to not talk about him around you because you’re trying to move on or just ask her if you can talk about something else! Cause I’m sure she loves you only wants to help! :)
you are the first person who is giving actual tips of real live situations. i love how you haven’t bad talked about the opposite person .... like this is so genuine and I can sense the love you have the want you have to help us feelings broken ... than you ♥️
The first one didn't help me, it just made me like him even more! So for my list, I put cute, kind, funny, loyal and smart. And my crush is all of those things!!! I need help...
I've liked a guy named Bryce for about 5 months in 6th grade and I did still like him now as a 7th grader (still am a 7th grader), but I've always known that he didn't like me back as a girlfriend or anything beyond as a friend. so I've been searching up about how to stop liking a guy, And then I stumbled across this video and I've been watching this almost every day now and trying all these bits of advice and It has really helped me a lot and now I'm slowly starting to only see Bryce as a friend and not as a Boyfriend/crush. And I just wanted to thank you for helping me to stop liking Bryce and I Love your positive attitude :)
I’ve liked my crush for 5 years and now that I’ve found out that he likes my bff... I’m... idk sometimes I’m mad at my bff, but then I’m mad at myself? It’s cuz I’ve told her I like him and now she acts like I’ve let him go forever but I NEVER told her I stopped and she just makes me get jealous so it gets in my nerves and now I just wanna cry oof
my best friend flirts with him and then claims she doesn't like anyone. She always tries to talk to him.. aren't true friends supposed to tread carefully around that one and only boy you like?
I don't have a crush but I clicked on this because the thumbnail...it's cute😅 I need you in my life. I love your energy and the way you think. Keep doing what your doing❤️
Thank you so much for this video, good to know that there’s people out there like you that want to help people out of care and expect nothing else in return x
I do my best to impress him... But the best thing to do is IGNORE him... I LOVE him but I HATE him in the same time... (My crush cheated on me... Sooooo yeah I have support from my BFF's like this UA-camr who helps me in times like this... Thx 4 making this video!! Tysm!!)
Y'all I know this was made 5years ago but wise advice does not have an expiry date. You are the only person who has given realistic advice and I love you! Hope you continue to prosper. Like really, you have been really helpful. Thank you
I know this video is kind of old, but this is my first time seeing it. My crush and I became really close. She helped me mentally when I was at my lowest. She was the only one there for me when noone wasn't. Then suddenly she just stopped texting me, but still talked to me at school. Then slowly stopped talking to me at school even though we sit close to each other in class. I'm trying my best to get over her, but it's so hard when I'm worried about her and if she is okay. I'm super protective, and I just want her happy. I just wish I knew what I did wrong to lose the only person who cared for me when I was ready to give up. Idk, but your video helped abit. I dont think you will even see this comment cause the vids old, but maybe just me writing this will help? Idk. Sorry.
I don't care how old this video is and the fact that this is the first video of yours that I'm watching. I just want to tell you (even though ik there are maximum chances you won't be able to read this) that you did a really amazing job here! You listed everything in the description even though you have mentioned it all in the video too. That's just so cool- I mean. There are many like me who like to read more than they like to hear. You're so amazing, love you for doing this.❤️ PS- sorry if the English seems odd, it isn't my first language.
The one tip that was to talk to your friend and vent everything is true. I had no one to talk to so I hold all these emotions and literally broke down 2 days ago and started to push people away for awhile. That's why I'm trying to change my mind set so I can move on! Ty for ur tips
I pushed most of my friends away but im getting better to I feel like my bestie wont listen to me she just wants to tell her stories ,so I needed some tips about crushes to and ive learned to FOCUS ON YOURSELF and be the best you as possible ,now I have loads of friends and I dont try to fit in I try to be myself and ive gotten closer to my crush that way anways ,I really understand where you're coming from :)
I started liking this person. I didn’t know I like them because I was in a relationship at the time. And we were best friends. After I broke up with my ex, I started to notice my feelings. In the beginning of me noticing my feelings that person liked me too. But as my feelings grew I finally confessed. They turned me down and said that we should be friends because they didn’t want us being together ruining our friendship. I was angry at first. I found out everything. I just wanted to see if we could try, and if it didn’t work out then I’d really let go of it all. But they refused. Then I started to be really really sad. Crying for hours, deleting pictures, ripping drawings, hiding paintings, everything of them away. I even stopped being friends for a while. I’ve tried so many methods of healing. Nothing has worked. I’ll come back to this comment once I get over them. Hopefully, soon.
I have one, the reason I started liking him is, first people shipped me and him like CRAZY cuz APPARENTLY he likes me and second he makes me laugh and makes me so happy 🥺 and now sometimes I feel like I don't like him sometimes I feel like he's ok and sometimes I want to see him and it's always when I say I really want to be close to him 🥺😫😭
I used to have a crush on his person last year and he found out because some people told him. And then I also found out that he’s also dating my friend for 2 months now and that just broke my heart. It took me 2 days to heal it. I’m glad that I over him and meet someone new.
Here’s My Story, So I gained feelings for my brothers best friend, I’ve liked him for almost 7 years... He would always tease me and stuff when my brother was gone.. so he would flirt with me a lot when it was just us.... he’s everything on the list and he’s like perfect and I don’t know what to do!
I've liked someone for 3 years. We were texting A LOT over the summer, but then we.. just .. . stopped .. .. i didn't.. but he did.. . It's been 4 months and I still cry about it. i know that the signs of him not liking me are abundant and I really don't want to make him uncomfortable, (because someone else is doing that to me right now), and i can't keep hurting because it's just too painful. But after liking someone for 3 years, it sure is a freaking hard thing to stop.
I’m in a stargaze with someone who doesn’t know I exist I really want to get over it because everything I do I get bored and think about this person so most of these tips I’m gonna try,crying I do that a lot and stop daydreaming and dreaming about this person so I’m also gonna try staying off this person’s page unless they post something new so to stop going on the page and just looking at their new post...
Yeah, it's tough when you're friends. And they're taken already, but sometimes they seem like they feel something too. But I want to respect what already is. And I wasn't looking for a relationship with anyone to begin with (still healing, and figuring out what I even want in a relationship/who I want to be). But feelings just sorta happened. :/ It is however, at least in my perspective, helping heal and strengthen boundaries, self love, unconditional love, and respect. It's just hard to fight or let go of feeling sad for what isn't. But I also have to keep reminding myself that my thoughts are not reality/it won't be like my thoughts. I do wish to stay friends, but I hope this back and forth pain & love feeling gets better over time. Thnx for the video. :) good reminders & tips.
I've had this crush on this guy for 2 years now...I just want to stop liking him because I always get nervous around him and my heart starts beating really fast. I don't know if he likes me but I'm pretty sure he doesn't like me so I really want to stop liking him...
I'm in a position where I can't really talk to friends about it and I've started obsessing over somebody online... she's a great human but deep down I know she isn't the one for me right now... atleast yet. So I want let go of my attachment to her and just be good friends. And for now I can't talk to anyone about it and this video is a helping me a lot. I like the friendliness and comfort vibes I'm getting. Thank you :-)
I fricking love you so much!!❤️ the things you said were helping a lot. This is the first video of you I saw, and let me tell you I don’t usually subscribe to people if they aren’t super awesome..☺️The only thing is.. I have a little crush on a guy that I can NEVER be with. I don’t really wanna be with him anymore, but I always catch myself trying to impress him... I always feel like “I don’t like him anymore but when he gets close I fricking Crush again...when I wrote down the future husband qualities I was just thinking about another crush🤦♀️I can’t make up a dream boyfriend bc idk how to create flaws, and I don’t like perfect people(since no one is).That crush however I really like. I’m making up these fantasies(like us just chilling, going for walks n stuff) and I look at zodiac sign things and then I see him as his sign and me as my sign and it’s really unhealthy..😕 idk what to do about that.
Aweee love, I’m sorry. This whole relationship thing is hard because there’s isn’t a perfect a + b = c for everything. I’d say try to write the list less from a perspective of Prince Charming or ‘The Perfect Guy’ and more from the standings of Qualities Your Parents Have [the qualities you like, of course haha] or things you love about grandparents, friends, family etc. Right down traditions you want to keep or political views, things that when you put this ‘crush’ to the test [for a lack of better words] it’s not about him being perfect but him being someone who is a liked minded person, someone who’s perfect FOR you. ♥️
I'm having a crush on the guy i really hate much back in elementary days. And now after years we met again but there this awkwardness between us. I liked him, yeah i used to because starting today I'll forget about my feelinhs towards him:)
I've been in love with one of my best friends for over a year, he can't like me even if he wanted to. He knows how I feel, he's known since a month after these feelings began. He makes me so happy, means the world to me. After a while i started introducing him to some of my other friends. We all formed some kind of squad and we'd talk every day in our group chat. Fast forward to 12-16-20 at around 10pm.. him and one of my friends told me they are dating... my friend knew I loved him. Though I know people can't control how they feel, i'm glad they are happy. I would be lying if I said I was content with the whole situation though.. i'd be lying if I said I hadn't stayed up sobbing that night. It hurts a lot, but it's been a little bit and I feel somewhat better after me and him agreed to stop talking until my feelings are gone. I'm glad we have that mutual understanding.
My crush is very toxic he acts so flirty and gentle with me but then he does the same with other girls when I finally stopped talking to him he showed his true self and I hated that so I keep going back to him without realizing it's unhealthy so I want to fix it
Just keep yourself busy. Change your thoughts every time you see him or her. Think about anything that is unattractive about that person , such as their moodiness , crooked teeth , bald spot etc. hang out with others and soon you won’t have a crush anymore
Thank you so much for sharing this advice! I finally realized that I actually like a guy I knew for so long but I know that it won’t work, at least not right now (how you rephrased that letting go quote really made perfect sense to me btw) but like I said: hearing and watching this video has made me step back and see what I’m going through! You’re the best!
I've been looking at these type if videos to try and get this guy off my mind and almost all these videos say to think of all their flaws but when I think of their flaws, I find him even more cute!!! 😚 Not to mention, my pupils dilate every single time I think of him!
Here how it is: Think of a cars exhaust system: If you or crushing/Dating it is as simple is unbolting the clamp or bolting it up again If you are married, you guys are literally welded together. Im a mechanic so.
Hello lovely i know a man who can help you to bring back your love to you without delays he was the one that helped me to get back my love within 48 hhours
I always ask myself “DO YOU WANNA STOP LIKING HER OR NOT!?”. She brings me hope this one day, sending signals she likes me or whatever, and the next day she does NOTHING. it’s literally messing with meeeeee aaaaaaaaaaaaa
Ive been liking this boy for 2 years. Hes my best friends brother so its hard to stop being around him. I wanna stop liking him because he is 4 years older than me and at first i thought he talked to me differently from every other girl but really he was just being the same to everyone. Ugh i really hate him but i love him soo much. Ive been trying soo hard, think negative abt him and everything, but its like i just cant stop loving him. Its like im mentally attracted to Him. I try to find intrest in someone else but I JUST CANT ITS SOOO HARD I LOVEE HIIMMMM UGHHHHH.
I’v liked my crush for 6 years almost 7 and we almost have had like 5 sentence i’v liked him for half of my life and it’s hard we don’t talk at all I’m friends with his friends so yeah you helped me a lot
I appreciate your suggestions. I've done everything you've mention except the letting him go part which is why I'm searching for advice. I don't know how to stop thinking about him. I've been away from him for two years and I still think about him.😢 This is a miserable way to be but I guess I'll keep praying and hopefully it will come to an end. Thank you for your advice. 😊
You’re the sweetest person ever thank you so much for making me smile and helping me through this 💖 I have a crush on one of my closest friends, but I know I’m not ready for a boyfriend, and I know he’s really not what I want, or who I think I deserve if that makes sense - like, he’s not deep, he’s not thoughtful - he’s just a fun friend, so this video really helped me bc of all of your AMAZING POSITIVITY 💖 thank you!!!!
There’s this one person I like but it’s obvious they don’t like me back and looks like their dating someone I’m trying to get rid of the crush but I can’t and it really hurts. But this UA-cam is really positive and gives amazing vibes
I have a crush on a school mate and he has a gf! The minute I found out I tried my hardest to stop liking him. It’s all superficial because I’ve never even spoken to him lol... I was starting to get passed it, but there’s times where I can feel him looking at me so I’ll look back and we make eye contact 😭 like bro why are u looking at me?!!
Wow this video really spoke to me, this is the best how to get over your crush video I've seen! (and I've seen a lot) so inspirational, thank you. I came to this video feeling crushed and now I feel empowered :) Edit: I’m over him now! (It took 3 months lol)
I met this girl in my univ class I asked her out and we have been on 4 dates for the last 3 weeks. She says yes when I ask her out and I really have fun and she also seems to be. I told her that I asked her out because I kinda liked her and this wasn't one of my plans to make a friend and she said lets see how it goes. However she seems not that interested in me, she doesn't ask how my day was or how my classes went or if I had lunch. Yes those things might not be that important for her but it is for me. I would like my partner to think of me from time to time during her day. My friend advised me to lay low for a while for her to think about what she wants and if she wants what I want she has more room to be active. Like in the video if this is the level of attention I would be getting in possible futute relationship with her I dont want to be with it. Thanks for clearing my mind!!
Im currently in a bad situation, i liked this girl since the start of the school year till now, turns out, my best friend also liked her, one day, i noticed something fishy abt those two and realised that they were potenitally dating, so now i have 2 choices, either to keep on persueing that person or to just get over it and persue someone else
I rlly like my crush , but the problem is she/he thinks were only friends and he/she has a friend and i think that his/her friend also has a crush on him/her , so everytime he’s/ she’s with his/her friend i get extremly jealous. (sorry for the bad grammer, i’m not gonna say wich gender i like bc i think i’ll get bullied
I just started grade 8 and in the first 2 days I like this kid, we r just so alike and I can actually talk to him unlike others. I'd keep liking him but im super anxious at co-ed schools and I need to move of it will get worse. So it's best if I stop as that's the only thing stopping me from moving.
Okay people time for a story Sooo I have had a crush on this guy for the last 3 years and recently like abt 6 or 7 months, we got pretty close than we used to be and I was having a lot of fun talking to him abt the most random things. Even tho I do have feelings for him, I genuinely appreciated his friendship and these 6 months was sooo much fun!! Yesterday something happened, a mutual friend of us (she is really close with him , they have been friends for years and years) she wanted to prank him by saying I like him and stuffs. Then I kind of showed that I am not interested in doing that, then she got mad at me and now idk whether or not she went ahead with her prank or not but he has been keeping a distance from me and the convos we used to have abt the most random things are all gone now. Actually I am leaving here in 2 months time so I knew that by then I would be staying away from him cos of the situations so I wanted to make these months as fun as possible so that I willmt have any regrets and now I think it's ruined. So I was planning to take my time and get over him after I move away and like gradually lose contact with him (this is natural, ik it will happen so I was getting prepared for that phase) . But now here I am looking for tips to move on coz a certain someone did something and I don't even know what she did coz she isn't willing to tell me, I had fun thhese months but time to move on :(
YOU ARE SO SWEET🥺 you radiate such a positive energy and it made me smile so much on how you keep a positive attitude. It made me think of how I want to be this way too. Thank you I really needed this💖
I've liked my crush for almost 4 years and they have known I liked them since last year. Today he asked this girl out and I had to witness it and I went into the hallways to cried :')
Crybaby Hamilton Dawson why is this what happened to me yesterday😭😭
Aw I'm so sorry😭😭
I'm so sorry to hear that... But don't worry you're gonna get over it eventually. You're gonna find someone better 😀
awe baby I’m sorry but it always get better
My crush has dated like 10 girls.. ALL MY BEST FRIENDS
"If two people are meant to be together, eventually they'll find their way back"
Sadly.. that’s not how it works. :(
But it’s about when 2 people commit to each other, for better or for worse and lay down their pride, that’s when they stay together not when they are meant to be. Sadly, that’s just Disney. I wish it was true, it’d make it seem easier!
To backstab each other one last timr
This is how it works in kdramas only
Don’t worry everyone I no longer like her. And I have finally met someone who I like very much and who likes me back :)
@@camerongray7767 I also don't like my crush like you but unlike u I haven't got anyone to love me back
I can’t cry I can’t feel anything I haven’t ate in like 2 days and I can’t sleep it’s 4 in the morning he likes another girl
Yep, me too. It's very unhealthy.
@@musicaddict8470 please go get something to eat🥺🥺🥺
@@SUSU-xm2co Don't worry! I have recently talked to my friend and I have agreed to move on! When I posted that comment I was talking about the past. I'm hoping to get better soon. Thanks for the concern anyways! ^^
@@musicaddict8470 it's ok I just don't want u to starve hun
@@SUSU-xm2co Awe! Thanks! I actually have never had someone be so kind like that! I'm surprised people online can actually be that caring! ÓwÒ ♡
For some reason I CAN’T LET GO like my soul is literally attached to him I DON’T know what to do
J THANG same:/
Me too , i just cant let go of him , i feel like me and him have a connection
I feel the same way for my crush, we just have to find a way to work it out with him.
zenab amin same
Same and it hurts when they don’t like you it really does.
JESUS CHRIST ❤️❤️❤️can change people for the better. ☀️
AMEN, PREACH IT. ❤️
He really can change people for the better.
She sounds like a Woman who loves Jesus! ❤️
Amen sister
AMENNNNNNNN
Rejection does not = unworthiness
Performance does not = worth
Outward appearance does not = value
Striving does not = success
Very well said 👏
I want to uncrush my crush not bc they breaks my heart, I just want to see them as my friend bc it's uncomfortable to think about them 24/7
Its so bad for me... I get anxious around him, i try to avoid him but i always end up failing..I can't even focus on my life. I just can't stop thinking about him..
Ik😭😭😭
sounds like you are a sump. lol. couldn't be me
ik that feeling and it’s horrible it’s even worse cuz I see him with other girls and it breaks me😭
@@jayyvibs he talks with them jokes with them ...
I feel you....
Funny story. So I actually did get over my crush, and it's all good. The only reason I'm watching this is because I know going back to school and seeing him again in January is going to bring all those feelings back and I don't want that.
What happened ?
omg same condition , i had crush on this guy 2 yr back and now here we go again ,repeating the history break my heart twice
This is the worst part
@@vilmatryphena5389 ikr sameeeeee
@@sofiael7350 i started liking him again and eventually he rejected me and said i was "kind of weird" hella understatement and his loss oh well
he flirts with me and makes me belive he has feelings for me and then says he likes my friend and kind of likes some others but he's confused with his feelings so I get so confused??? i don't get upset knowing he probably doesn't like me like that it's the fact that he made me believe he had feelings for me and completely led me on that makes me angry.. only problem is that i can't say mad at people for long enough so I always end up forgiving him when he fucks up.. If he wasn't a friend it would be so much easier
idk bro you have literally explained my situation, I’m so confused but how’s things for you now?
@@veraque331 lolol same
omg literally all same...
same bro
Player’s gonna play, the only solution is to walk away
omg this is like the sweetest video ever😭😭 i really really like this girl who is also by best friend lol this helped
Goodness.. that sounds hard.. but you know what? You are strong, and you've got this! :) This will be one of those life turning points in your life! That's super exciting.
Tabitha lol im bi and i like a taken girl- she likes me back but were trying to be friends
@@s4yorii586 I've got a similar problem lol
*Catch another fish in the sea*
Me: Yeah, why would i stay loyal to someone when he doesn't even like me? 😂
YAAAAAS. PREAAAAAACH! 🙌
i liked him he called me today asked me what i was doing and talked for a bit i started texting him and he told me he liked another girl and just liked me as a friend and i cried for 4 hours
You know he tell me,a girl proposed him and he too like her ,I tell oh wow you find your queen finally,
But everyday he talks to me ,he tell everything to me ,now I realise that I have feelings for him,
But it's too late ,now too he's massaging me ,I know it's not good to like anyone person guy
I hope I can move on easily 😣
i remember last year i had the words "Mixed Emotions" and it was about my crush becaus i hated him sometimes but sometimes i liked him...and he would make a song out of it and he would always ask me what it meant but its still a mystery to him...
Awe.. I love writing, I understand how hard it is to, to let someone go who's just so special to you and inspires you in the most beautiful ways. But just imagine, if he isn't the one for you and he makes you feel this way, imagine how AMAZING it'll be when you do find the one :))
I relate xxd
Okg same
I tried letting go but I cant because it's hard when I see his face in the hallways and he have almost every class with me plus he sits at my lunch table 😭
Right
I feel you😭😭
I watched 16 Candles and was convinced m crush liked me. So my friend asked him and he was like "PFFFF NOOO"
and ive liked him for like 2 years so that kinda sucked
AWE... I'm so sorry.. I can't imagine how hard that is. But sooner than later, you'll be able to look back and be thankful for all that you learned. Cheesy, but it's true and it'll be worth it. I promise ♥️. (the 2 years weren't wasted time)
Omg same !
I know how you feel, it happened to me today.😔😔😔
Its the same story with me.
The feeling when you know its wrong but you still want it
Me:looks up video on how to get over a crush
Also me:exits out of UA-cam to stalk his Instagram 😭😭
Brandy Triplet 😂😂❤️🤗
I'm guilty of doing that too. One needs to do a hobby or aim to achieve anything that you want to do in your life, work towards it, work hard so you don't have any time to think about your crush. I know it sounds harsh but I hope it helps with the comment. God bless.
Exposed me😭
Same...but with Snapchat lol(also the fact that she’s a girl but nvm
Thanks!!! Now I'm gonna be alone forever!!😊❤️
Samantha Leis yay!
Just know that you're not alone in that category.
Crushes on people are evil, because you don't choose them, your crushing chooses before you know it's even happening. Too bad the process of compatibility/ forming relationships didn't have this biological attribute. Crushes don't discriminate against incompatibility.
To make it even worse on a completely different level, imagine the only stretch of time in your life, where you were ostracized into lonership, and could accept noone, is the only time anyone ever crushed on you.
Lol
There are plenty of others. (Trust me on it, because it happened to me.)
I got over mine because I’ve been obsessed with them until quarantine I came into my senses my friends would be like he is ugly inside out and which was so true... even people in school would be like oooh not a good choice for a guy to like etc..fall for someone that’ll give into you, sometimes chasing that “one” person obsessing over them is a waste of time. I don’t think about them anymore at all and IT FEELS SO GOOD TRUST ME
I’m so shy when I’m around my crush that I just run away
Say me if your crush is like 3-6 yrs older than u
Me 4/5
I don’t believe age is to big of a deal. It appears to be a problem when you’re younger and may cause some problems, but I know of lovely grandparent(s) who are still married today and are 10 years apart. :)
Tabitha Leis oh ok good to know
What if your friend talk about u being obsessed. My friend keeps saying that im obsessed and i need to get over him but everytime i try to she keeps bringing him back up. Doesnt that mean that shes more obsessed than i am and the she LOVES him and not like him
Well beautiful,
I don’t think she loves him, loves a-little bit different. :)
Liking someone’s totally normal and when you like someone, you think or talk about them. A LOT. That’s not a bad thing. It doesn’t mean your obsessed.
You’re friend probably just wants you more to herself cause she loves you.
Maybe ask your friend to not talk about him around you because you’re trying to move on or just ask her if you can talk about something else! Cause I’m sure she loves you only wants to help! :)
you are the first person who is giving actual tips of real live situations. i love how you haven’t bad talked about the opposite person .... like this is so genuine and I can sense the love you have the want you have to help us feelings broken ... than you ♥️
She is amazing
AWE.. thank you so much for encouraging me ❤️
Tabitha Leis no problem 🤗
The first one didn't help me, it just made me like him even more! So for my list, I put cute, kind, funny, loyal and smart. And my crush is all of those things!!! I need help...
Now you need to make a video on how to get your crush to like you lol
HAHA. You right! 😂
I've liked a guy named Bryce for about 5 months in 6th grade and I did still like him now as a 7th grader (still am a 7th grader), but I've always known that he didn't like me back as a girlfriend or anything beyond as a friend. so I've been searching up about how to stop liking a guy, And then I stumbled across this video and I've been watching this almost every day now and trying all these bits of advice and It has really helped me a lot and now I'm slowly starting to only see Bryce as a friend and not as a Boyfriend/crush. And I just wanted to thank you for helping me to stop liking Bryce and I Love your positive attitude :)
I’ve liked my crush for 5 years and now that I’ve found out that he likes my bff... I’m... idk sometimes I’m mad at my bff, but then I’m mad at myself? It’s cuz I’ve told her I like him and now she acts like I’ve let him go forever but I NEVER told her I stopped and she just makes me get jealous so it gets in my nerves and now I just wanna cry oof
its not her fault he likes her. man up.
my best friend flirts with him and then claims she doesn't like anyone. She always tries to talk to him..
aren't true friends supposed to tread carefully around that one and only boy you like?
this video was so helpfull thank you for important message
I don't have a crush but I clicked on this because the thumbnail...it's cute😅
I need you in my life. I love your energy and the way you think. Keep doing what your doing❤️
Awwww!! Thank you for leaving this comment, it made me smile ☺️♥️
Thank you so much for this video, good to know that there’s people out there like you that want to help people out of care and expect nothing else in return x
thankuu so much for that!! you were jus like my old self .... I'm so happy that i found your video🥺
I do my best to impress him... But the best thing to do is IGNORE him... I LOVE him but I HATE him in the same time... (My crush cheated on me... Sooooo yeah I have support from my BFF's like this UA-camr who helps me in times like this... Thx 4 making this video!! Tysm!!)
i like this guy its been 3 YEARS, we had something but i never admit it 3 years after here i am crying because he is dating someone else
I just love her energy ❤️by the way this literally changed what I think and feel about my crush 😔💔
The positive energy is encouraging and addictive
Y'all I know this was made 5years ago but wise advice does not have an expiry date. You are the only person who has given realistic advice and I love you! Hope you continue to prosper. Like really, you have been really helpful. Thank you
I know this video is kind of old, but this is my first time seeing it. My crush and I became really close. She helped me mentally when I was at my lowest. She was the only one there for me when noone wasn't. Then suddenly she just stopped texting me, but still talked to me at school. Then slowly stopped talking to me at school even though we sit close to each other in class. I'm trying my best to get over her, but it's so hard when I'm worried about her and if she is okay. I'm super protective, and I just want her happy. I just wish I knew what I did wrong to lose the only person who cared for me when I was ready to give up. Idk, but your video helped abit. I dont think you will even see this comment cause the vids old, but maybe just me writing this will help? Idk. Sorry.
Kai Allen i hope you and her are doing better!
Aww.
I think you should ask her why she did that :-: also how did it go so far?
Tabitha you're a breath of sunshine.
I don't care how old this video is and the fact that this is the first video of yours that I'm watching. I just want to tell you (even though ik there are maximum chances you won't be able to read this) that you did a really amazing job here! You listed everything in the description even though you have mentioned it all in the video too. That's just so cool- I mean. There are many like me who like to read more than they like to hear. You're so amazing, love you for doing this.❤️
PS- sorry if the English seems odd, it isn't my first language.
I really love how cheerful you are throughout the video and it uplifted my mood. Now I feels like 'Okay girl you got this!' Thank you so much.
her energy n way of talking is so natural n impressive 😁✨
The one tip that was to talk to your friend and vent everything is true. I had no one to talk to so I hold all these emotions and literally broke down 2 days ago and started to push people away for awhile. That's why I'm trying to change my mind set so I can move on! Ty for ur tips
I pushed most of my friends away but im getting better to I feel like my bestie wont listen to me she just wants to tell her stories ,so I needed some tips about crushes to and ive learned to FOCUS ON YOURSELF and be the best you as possible ,now I have loads of friends and I dont try to fit in I try to be myself and ive gotten closer to my crush that way anways ,I really understand where you're coming from :)
I started liking this person.
I didn’t know I like them because I was in a relationship at the time.
And we were best friends.
After I broke up with my ex, I started to notice my feelings.
In the beginning of me noticing my feelings that person liked me too.
But as my feelings grew I finally confessed.
They turned me down and said that we should be friends because they didn’t want us being together ruining our friendship.
I was angry at first.
I found out everything.
I just wanted to see if we could try, and if it didn’t work out then I’d really let go of it all.
But they refused.
Then I started to be really really sad.
Crying for hours, deleting pictures, ripping drawings, hiding paintings, everything of them away.
I even stopped being friends for a while.
I’ve tried so many methods of healing.
Nothing has worked.
I’ll come back to this comment once I get over them. Hopefully, soon.
Are you over them yet?
How are you now
This literally helped me so much. I just got rejected by a guy who told me he liked me. And I’m glad I watched this instead of doing something else
I have one, the reason I started liking him is, first people shipped me and him like CRAZY cuz APPARENTLY he likes me and second he makes me laugh and makes me so happy 🥺 and now sometimes I feel like I don't like him sometimes I feel like he's ok and sometimes I want to see him and it's always when I say I really want to be close to him 🥺😫😭
It also started like that with me and now that I like like him, he's into my best friend.
I used to have a crush on his person last year and he found out because some people told him. And then I also found out that he’s also dating my friend for 2 months now and that just broke my heart. It took me 2 days to heal it. I’m glad that I over him and meet someone new.
You remind me of the “Good advice cupcake”
AAH! That is the most unforgettable complement I've ever received! ♥️
I literally can’t understand how you hit all the points I wasn’t clear about in my own head. Thank you so much for making this video!
Here’s My Story, So I gained feelings for my brothers best friend, I’ve liked him for almost 7 years... He would always tease me and stuff when my brother was gone.. so he would flirt with me a lot when it was just us.... he’s everything on the list and he’s like perfect and I don’t know what to do!
Are you guys still friends
I've liked someone for 3 years. We were texting A LOT over the summer, but then we.. just .. . stopped .. .. i didn't.. but he did.. . It's been 4 months and I still cry about it. i know that the signs of him not liking me are abundant and I really don't want to make him uncomfortable, (because someone else is doing that to me right now), and i can't keep hurting because it's just too painful. But after liking someone for 3 years, it sure is a freaking hard thing to stop.
I’m in a stargaze with someone who doesn’t know I exist I really want to get over it because everything I do I get bored and think about this person so most of these tips I’m gonna try,crying I do that a lot and stop daydreaming and dreaming about this person so I’m also gonna try staying off this person’s page unless they post something new so to stop going on the page and just looking at their new post...
Yeah, it's tough when you're friends. And they're taken already, but sometimes they seem like they feel something too. But I want to respect what already is. And I wasn't looking for a relationship with anyone to begin with (still healing, and figuring out what I even want in a relationship/who I want to be). But feelings just sorta happened. :/
It is however, at least in my perspective, helping heal and strengthen boundaries, self love, unconditional love, and respect.
It's just hard to fight or let go of feeling sad for what isn't. But I also have to keep reminding myself that my thoughts are not reality/it won't be like my thoughts. I do wish to stay friends, but I hope this back and forth pain & love feeling gets better over time.
Thnx for the video. :) good reminders & tips.
You’re very wise for a young kid. You have a positive future I feel!
I've had this crush on this guy for 2 years now...I just want to stop liking him because I always get nervous around him and my heart starts beating really fast. I don't know if he likes me but I'm pretty sure he doesn't like me so I really want to stop liking him...
I'm in a position where I can't really talk to friends about it and I've started obsessing over somebody online... she's a great human but deep down I know she isn't the one for me right now... atleast yet.
So I want let go of my attachment to her and just be good friends. And for now I can't talk to anyone about it and this video is a helping me a lot. I like the friendliness and comfort vibes I'm getting. Thank you :-)
I fricking love you so much!!❤️ the things you said were helping a lot. This is the first video of you I saw, and let me tell you I don’t usually subscribe to people if they aren’t super awesome..☺️The only thing is.. I have a little crush on a guy that I can NEVER be with. I don’t really wanna be with him anymore, but I always catch myself trying to impress him... I always feel like “I don’t like him anymore but when he gets close I fricking Crush again...when I wrote down the future husband qualities I was just thinking about another crush🤦♀️I can’t make up a dream boyfriend bc idk how to create flaws, and I don’t like perfect people(since no one is).That crush however I really like. I’m making up these fantasies(like us just chilling, going for walks n stuff) and I look at zodiac sign things and then I see him as his sign and me as my sign and it’s really unhealthy..😕 idk what to do about that.
Aweee love, I’m sorry. This whole relationship thing is hard because there’s isn’t a perfect a + b = c for everything.
I’d say try to write the list less from a perspective of Prince Charming or ‘The Perfect Guy’ and more from the standings of Qualities Your Parents Have [the qualities you like, of course haha] or things you love about grandparents, friends, family etc.
Right down traditions you want to keep or political views, things that when you put this ‘crush’ to the test [for a lack of better words] it’s not about him being perfect but him being someone who is a liked minded person, someone who’s perfect FOR you. ♥️
Tabitha Leis Thank you so much again!❤️❤️
For me I just have better things to do and plus all of the people I’ve ever crushed on in my life were out of my line
This video made me feel so much better
I'm having a crush on the guy i really hate much back in elementary days. And now after years we met again but there this awkwardness between us. I liked him, yeah i used to because starting today I'll forget about my feelinhs towards him:)
YOU GO GIRL! I believe in you ♥️. If you ever need anyone to talk to about this, I’m here. ☺️
I've been in love with one of my best friends for over a year, he can't like me even if he wanted to. He knows how I feel, he's known since a month after these feelings began. He makes me so happy, means the world to me. After a while i started introducing him to some of my other friends. We all formed some kind of squad and we'd talk every day in our group chat. Fast forward to 12-16-20 at around 10pm.. him and one of my friends told me they are dating... my friend knew I loved him. Though I know people can't control how they feel, i'm glad they are happy. I would be lying if I said I was content with the whole situation though.. i'd be lying if I said I hadn't stayed up sobbing that night. It hurts a lot, but it's been a little bit and I feel somewhat better after me and him agreed to stop talking until my feelings are gone. I'm glad we have that mutual understanding.
I really didn't want you to stop. You really explain everything so clearly and sweetly . Lots of wishes. Love you!
My crush is very toxic he acts so flirty and gentle with me but then he does the same with other girls when I finally stopped talking to him he showed his true self and I hated that so I keep going back to him without realizing it's unhealthy so I want to fix it
This video is so sweet omg
yea we daydream too
I like how she talks she's the one who's making me happy i mean it🤩❤🥰
You have no idea how much I loved your vibe💫
This vdo deserves a lot more. Wholesome af
Just keep yourself busy. Change your thoughts every time you see him or her. Think about anything that is unattractive about that person , such as their moodiness , crooked teeth , bald spot etc. hang out with others and soon you won’t have a crush anymore
Thank you so much for sharing this advice! I finally realized that I actually like a guy I knew for so long but I know that it won’t work, at least not right now (how you rephrased that letting go quote really made perfect sense to me btw) but like I said: hearing and watching this video has made me step back and see what I’m going through! You’re the best!
i’m confused about how someone wouldn’t like you you’re literally so fun and sweet ily
bc some people r just sad ppl and don’t like positive vibes lol
I've been looking at these type if videos to try and get this guy off my mind and almost all these videos say to think of all their flaws but when I think of their flaws, I find him even more cute!!! 😚 Not to mention, my pupils dilate every single time I think of him!
Here how it is: Think of a cars exhaust system:
If you or crushing/Dating it is as simple is unbolting the clamp or bolting it up again
If you are married, you guys are literally welded together.
Im a mechanic so.
This really helped me to get over him because I almost changed myself for the guy and thank you very much for this.
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i just have this feeling that i know i can’t let him go that i know we will be together but it’s so hard but i have a feeling i can’t let him go
I know that feeling, I hope you two work it out, good luck.
Lol did it work out?
no
it didn’t work
I always ask myself “DO YOU WANNA STOP LIKING HER OR NOT!?”. She brings me hope this one day, sending signals she likes me or whatever, and the next day she does NOTHING. it’s literally messing with meeeeee aaaaaaaaaaaaa
Ive been liking this boy for 2 years. Hes my best friends brother so its hard to stop being around him. I wanna stop liking him because he is 4 years older than me and at first i thought he talked to me differently from every other girl but really he was just being the same to everyone. Ugh i really hate him but i love him soo much. Ive been trying soo hard, think negative abt him and everything, but its like i just cant stop loving him. Its like im mentally attracted to Him. I try to find intrest in someone else but I JUST CANT ITS SOOO HARD I LOVEE HIIMMMM UGHHHHH.
You really have a nice personality... ur behavior feels so comfortable ❤
I love her happiness.... it’s so contagious and I felt so much better after watching this video💖
I’v liked my crush for 6 years almost 7 and we almost have had like 5 sentence i’v liked him for half of my life and it’s hard we don’t talk at all I’m friends with his friends so yeah you helped me a lot
This aready made me feel GREATTTT I FEEL SO GOOD
I appreciate your suggestions. I've done everything you've mention except the letting him go part which is why I'm searching for advice. I don't know how to stop thinking about him. I've been away from him for two years and I still think about him.😢 This is a miserable way to be but I guess I'll keep praying and hopefully it will come to an end. Thank you for your advice. 😊
Okay you deserve so much more subscribers
I'm not okay
Really needed this type of vibe and motivation
You’re the sweetest person ever thank you so much for making me smile and helping me through this 💖 I have a crush on one of my closest friends, but I know I’m not ready for a boyfriend, and I know he’s really not what I want, or who I think I deserve if that makes sense - like, he’s not deep, he’s not thoughtful - he’s just a fun friend, so this video really helped me bc of all of your AMAZING POSITIVITY 💖 thank you!!!!
Awww I’m so glad. :) praying for you today!!
Tabitha thank you sm 💖🙏🏻
There’s this one person I like but it’s obvious they don’t like me back and looks like their dating someone I’m trying to get rid of the crush but I can’t and it really hurts. But this UA-cam is really positive and gives amazing vibes
I love how cheerful and happy you are such good vibes.
I have a crush on a school mate and he has a gf! The minute I found out I tried my hardest to stop liking him. It’s all superficial because I’ve never even spoken to him lol... I was starting to get passed it, but there’s times where I can feel him looking at me so I’ll look back and we make eye contact 😭 like bro why are u looking at me?!!
Wow this video really spoke to me, this is the best how to get over your crush video I've seen! (and I've seen a lot) so inspirational, thank you. I came to this video feeling crushed and now I feel empowered :)
Edit: I’m over him now! (It took 3 months lol)
You are so kind and humorous. I really enjoyed watching you, wish I have friends more like you, thanks for sharing this, I'm feeling better already
you are so motivating! thanks for cheering us up, you're fire! ♡🔥😊
I met this girl in my univ class I asked her out and we have been on 4 dates for the last 3 weeks. She says yes when I ask her out and I really have fun and she also seems to be. I told her that I asked her out because I kinda liked her and this wasn't one of my plans to make a friend and she said lets see how it goes. However she seems not that interested in me, she doesn't ask how my day was or how my classes went or if I had lunch. Yes those things might not be that important for her but it is for me. I would like my partner to think of me from time to time during her day. My friend advised me to lay low for a while for her to think about what she wants and if she wants what I want she has more room to be active. Like in the video if this is the level of attention I would be getting in possible futute relationship with her I dont want to be with it. Thanks for clearing my mind!!
Is everything better now?
Im currently in a bad situation, i liked this girl since the start of the school year till now, turns out, my best friend also liked her, one day, i noticed something fishy abt those two and realised that they were potenitally dating, so now i have 2 choices, either to keep on persueing that person or to just get over it and persue someone else
I rlly like my crush , but the problem is she/he thinks were only friends and he/she has a friend and i think that his/her friend also has a crush on him/her , so everytime he’s/ she’s with his/her friend i get extremly jealous. (sorry for the bad grammer, i’m not gonna say wich gender i like bc i think i’ll get bullied
I just started grade 8 and in the first 2 days I like this kid, we r just so alike and I can actually talk to him unlike others. I'd keep liking him but im super anxious at co-ed schools and I need to move of it will get worse. So it's best if I stop as that's the only thing stopping me from moving.
Okay people time for a story
Sooo I have had a crush on this guy for the last 3 years and recently like abt 6 or 7 months, we got pretty close than we used to be and I was having a lot of fun talking to him abt the most random things. Even tho I do have feelings for him, I genuinely appreciated his friendship and these 6 months was sooo much fun!! Yesterday something happened, a mutual friend of us (she is really close with him , they have been friends for years and years) she wanted to prank him by saying I like him and stuffs. Then I kind of showed that I am not interested in doing that, then she got mad at me and now idk whether or not she went ahead with her prank or not but he has been keeping a distance from me and the convos we used to have abt the most random things are all gone now. Actually I am leaving here in 2 months time so I knew that by then I would be staying away from him cos of the situations so I wanted to make these months as fun as possible so that I willmt have any regrets and now I think it's ruined. So I was planning to take my time and get over him after I move away and like gradually lose contact with him (this is natural, ik it will happen so I was getting prepared for that phase) . But now here I am looking for tips to move on coz a certain someone did something and I don't even know what she did coz she isn't willing to tell me, I had fun thhese months but time to move on :(
Are you guys still friends
i have a crush for like 3 months but when i knew he has a girlfriend so i searched some of this vidoes and it maked me happy for myself again
YOU ARE SO SWEET🥺 you radiate such a positive energy and it made me smile so much on how you keep a positive attitude. It made me think of how I want to be this way too.
Thank you I really needed this💖
you are so sweet your energy made me smile all along :) i love your video, i think its really helpful and it gave me inspiration... thank uu
Awwww. 🥰. Thank you!! You’ve got this!
This is honestly so so amazing and helpful! Thank u so much♡
This makes my full day! I'm so glad love. :)