Growing Up Poor: Breadline Kids | ENDEVR Documentary
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- Опубліковано 10 чер 2023
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In 'Growing Up Poor: Breadline Kids', three articulate and engaging kids tell their own stories and wryly observe the impact poverty and homelessness are having on their families, including the toll it is taking on their parent’s mental health. Warm, funny at times, but above all moving, this film looks at the realities of life on the breadline in Britain through the eyes of three amazing children.
Amid the gowned scholars of Cambridge, Courtney and her family struggle to stay afloat. Fleeing from violence they became trapped in a vicious circle of poverty, made worse by delays in Universal Credit payments. Despite all this, Courtney remains optimistic and resilient - relishing the chance to choose treats at her local foodbank, looking forward to getting her phone back from the pawnbroker, and encouraging her mum to get a boyfriend so she and her little brother “can have a dad.”
But as the biting north winds sweep across the fens in winter, even Courtney’s sunny outlook is challenged when there is not enough money left on the meter to boil a kettle for a hot water bottle. Shivering, she starts counting the pennies in her piggy bank. When her mum tells her the family has been turned down for an emergency fuel bank top-up, Courtney says simply, “That’s crazy, what do they expect us to do?”
In rural Suffolk, 15-year-old Danielle’s life was turned upside down following a breakdown in her parents’ relationship and subsequent loss of their jobs. They had to move out of the family home into temporary accommodation, and she now has to live and study in a cramped temporary one-room bedsit. With her GCSEs coming up, Danielle is struggling to cope with her anxiety in her family’s current situation.
And in the idyllic coastal town of Morecambe Bay, 10-year-old Rose’s family is part of the growing number of working poor. Only able to work 16 hours a week, Rose’s mum struggles to keep her head above water and despite her job, the family was forced into debt when they had to cover the funeral costs of Rose’s older sister, who died of cancer. As a result of the expenses around her death, they are now part of the New Poor who are having to do things they never before considered, like using a local food club that distributes food waste to families in their community.
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Amid the gowned scholars of Cambridge, Courtney and her family struggle to stay afloat. Fleeing from violence they became trapped in a vicious circle of poverty, made worse by delays in Universal Credit payments. Despite all this, Courtney remains optimistic and resilient.
In rural Suffolk, 15-year-old Danielle’s life was turned upside down following a breakdown in her parents’ relationship and subsequent loss of their jobs. They had to move out of the family home into temporary accommodation, and she now has to live and study in a cramped temporary one-room bedsit.
And in the idyllic coastal town of Morecambe Bay, 10-year-old Rose’s family is part of the growing number of working poor.
Is Universal Credit like welfare for in the US?
I empathize with the children of this generation. They're so vulnerable, yet the world they live in keeps getting worse on many fronts.
I was a single parent in the early 80s in San Diego, California. I'd already been building a career in printing and graphic design since I was a teenager but there were times with layoffs when I had to fall back on government support. With that, even though I was doing some illustration under the table, there were times where there was only enough food for my son...I went without. Community gardens, food co-ops, barter/trade opportunities are a good option for people experiencing economic challenges.
I'm in my 60s now and have an online business with my only son. We sold everything and moved into a used RV with solar and a generator. We are now living in central Mexico and with the great dollar/peso exchange rate and affordable healthcare we are now living much better lives. Still was swimming upstream in the US despite the fact that I have a master's degree and part of a PhD. Just got tired of fighting so hard just to survive...not thrive.
You should all tell your government to not INVADE or CREATE CHAOS in other countries. Save the money to take care of their own people instead of creating misery elsewhere. Now that misery has come back to haunt your country.
@@bangballs all the Big countries around the World have done the same. It is a cycle of violence. The Rich profit from invading others....
Courtney is the most intelligent and well rounded 8 years old i have ever seen! She is like the voice of reason in that family. God bless her.
So sad! That’s called paretified child.
And it’s not something that should be applauded or admired.
that's what happens when you have to grow up too fast to care for everyone else including your own parent. It's sad, it's not something to commend.
@@joddydominguez6696ofc it shouldn’t be applauded or admired but i think she deserves to be recognized as a brave little girl
@@moshimoshi533 it is sad she had to mature early, but it's also hard to ignore how bright and smart the girl is. Tbh I think no matter the circumstances these qualities would shine in her. She's really bright kid and will likely go far in life.
@@vanillablossom no, she won't. let's pray she will not become an alcoholic or drug addict or such. but she definitely will be traumatized for life.(
Child hunger should never happen no matter the reason or why. My heart hurts for these children.
There is enough food to feed everybody in the world, it’s just some ppl are too greedy to share
@@JustanotherLizThere's enough real estate for each and every person on earth to have a home yet people had to pay rent.
@@JustanotherLiz And what have you done to help the poor in your community? Are you too greedy to share your paycheck, your house, your meal, your time? It's always someone else's responsibility, isn't it?
Exactly children should ever go hungry. The people screaming pro-life are the same that vote for politicians that are against social programs that would feed and care for those children. Make it make sense.
Hunger is one thing. They lack any safety.. that's the hard part for me. Knowing that they constantly feel that anxiety compered with a sense of not being able to change or do anything about it.. constantly being scared & feeling helpless. They risk of complex PTSD are greatly inhanced.
" everyone is equal...apparently " - that statement from the little girl is quite powerful when you start to think about it.
it is.
why because she said something that might have multiple meanings or means something different in different contexts by chance?
@@skyscout3 Because little girls are supposed to be full of hope and dreams and it's evident by her statement that she was forced to grow up before she should have.
@@skyscout3 go work on yourself
Omg🥺☹️when that sweet little boy said him sleeping in the corner of the room with dad & “It’s not the best but at least I have a roof over my head. It’s just the way my life is going”. That got me right in the heart. I hope he is successful and happy.
Me too, bless these families so they may never struggle again!
I was raised poor. But I watched my mother closely. She made very bad decisions. Got into relationships quickly with men she didn’t really know. She was always either leaving or starting over. I left home at age 18. I did not repeat her mistakes. I did great on life. Watch your decisions. They will take you down.
Absolutely. Wise words
I agree so much of this was bad decisions. Meanwhile immigrants come with nothing and are killing it, some of these women are doing nothing to help their situation.
@michelleshelley995 i think its ok to be proud of your achievements. She/he obviously learned from her mum's bad decisions.
Not having a mother, I watched my father, he was a salesman, we were poor. I did what he did, no matter what I went to work. So I followed a good example. Later I found the Lord Jesus and followed His example and I did great in life.
@@michelleshelley995How is that bragging Michelle? That's a nice person giving you advice, reminding you that hoeing out isn't a good idea
The amount of food in this world that gets wasted and thrown away… Not a single soul should struggle with hunger. 😔😭
Supermarkets and restaurants should stop throwing food into dumpsters unless it's spoiled!
Thank you so much for saying this. You are spot on. If it weren’t for my dad, I’d be starving.
yup just got off so much thrown away daily :( i have to pull them too
Exactly... there is absolutely no shortage of food whatsoever. There is enough for everyone and then some. A lot of it gets thrown out/ doesn’t get distributed properly.
Especially the mountains of imperfect fruit and vegetables that never leave the farm. That could feed so many people.
I’m born and raised in Brooklyn NY. When my mom was alive, we lived well. Always had food, clothes, love, nice place to live, family time etc. After she passed away, was when I experienced poverty due to my father not picking up where my mom left off but instead got addicted to crack. I learned to deal with starving, being cold and left alone when he would go on his 3 day crack binge. I hated it! Now I have my own children and family,thank God that we are able to provide for them.
Courtney is so intelligent, positive and mature, I am sure that she's going to shine in life.
“Worrying is just being sad but not knowing when it will happen” that’s a really good quote
This is exactly what anxiety for kids feels like
Imagine being scared of not only the unknown but also the known things. You just don't know when & can't do mutch about it..
That constant stress could result in more severe mental issues like true depression, burnouts- acute stress reaction, complex PTSD, general anxiety disorder. Eating disorders like anorexia - one of the most deadly mental illness we know today..
Insomnia and other sleeping disorders..
This makes me so angry. Maybe they should be able to care about the people already living there, before letting more people come whenever.. this turns people against each other. This unequallity will lead to social unrest
@@ingridakerblom7577 I don’t imagine it I’m a handicapped veteran with PTSD 🤣🇺🇸 lol
No joke y’all the paranoia is the worst I have had in my life. It’s like always suspecting everyone to be dangerous 🤣 even if they are like a just walking by LOL
I grew up in poverty. Single mom. She suffered from depression, but in the 80’s there was no diagnosis. Although I’m doing 100x better as an adult- I still have that poverty mindset. A lot of my childhood was spent worrying about moving again, and my mom being more depressed bc of our situation and about feeding my little brother. I still feel like I carry the weight of the world with others who lived the way I did- and worse.
@@Minabobina007I can certainly relate! Hang in there. You’re obviously a warrior 💯 Hang in there & remember….it’s onwards and upwards 🌺💕
While dumping adult issues on a child isn't ideal, Courtney's mum seems to be very good at explaining things to her in a way she understands and that allows her to get involved in her own way -- kids don't like not knowing what's going on. I think she's doing a great job raising that little girl and I hope she grows up to be an equally smart and conscientious woman.
Agreed. Too many adults think that kids shouldn’t know about adult problems, but then you just end up with clueless adults when they grow up. We’re training future adults.
@@73cidalia 1000%
Kids can clearly see adult struggles anyways. They compare themselves with their peers all the time and they know what's not normal or how some things are supposed to be. By explaining the situation in a way they can understand, without venting or dumping your worries on them, you can actually make it easier for them to accept it, create a more solid family bond and help them come up with their own solutions. It's much scarier to have everyone around you always pretending everything's ok when you know it's not
@@bleachnbones7107 exactly- theres a huge difference between dumping your issues on a child and explaining things theyre clearly already picking up on. like i used to babysit a 6 year old who lived with her grandparents, one of which was addicted to hard drugs. they hadnt explained anything to her because of her age, until the night he relapsed really bad and started harming himself and saying very vulgar stuff. the poor kid was terrified and i had to go get her out of the house at like 2 am and figure out how to explain that in an age appropriate way on the spot. she wouldnt calm down until i was able to explain it to her, after that she was still very shook up obviously but she at least understood he was going to be okay and calm
kids shouldn't have to put through this trauma. They should be spending their youth playing around and having fun.@@73cidalia
The part where the kids were counting money to see if they have enough to turn the heating on brought back raw memories. I remember clearly as a 5 year old doing just that for my folks. Looking back now, our family has come a long way in the last 20 years or so. No easy way out. Just study hard and work hard to be financially stable
I remember periodically tipping the couch over to find any coins that might have slipped down into the holes under the cushions. We had a prepayed electric meter which would mean a power outage every time the money ran out.
@@GeeEee75 I hope you are in a better place now (financially & well being). Growing up in poverty has a massive impact which we carry with us for our whole life.
Seeing those babies so excited about receiving groceries breaks my heart. I pray everyone is doing well and thriving.
I really felt for the teenager trying to study but not having adequate study space, nor food. She seemed so stressed by elements out of her control. I remember similar struggles; it's hard to focus when you are hungry. Then there is the emotional impact your parents inadequacies have on you...its too much. I just wish I could hug her and tell her it's not her fault.
Me too same history, but I still try hard I will never give up to break the cycle!
And that’s such a huge part of the cycle too 😢 it’s so hard to learn when you are stressed and hungry like that
Can't she go to a library?
@@Handlebrake2It may be to far or unsafe to walk and they wouldn’t have the money for transportation there and back.
Me too, I had to study on the floor and place my books on the bed-couch cuz there were no desks and only one very small table. Then during quarantine i had to place my laptop on my pillow and sit down on the bed for like 2 hours with my camera on. It was terrible. Worst thing is that teachers used to treat me like an idiot because I had too much on my mind and generally wasn't able to study
As a mental health nurse I was impressed with the way Courtney’s mum explained to her the effects of her mental illness. She gave correct facts whilst making it easy to understand. Kids like Courtney who are curious and intelligent are better off being told what’s going on in an age appropriate way as when info is withheld they often think the worse which is quiet often now where near as bad as what is happening in reality
True I grow up sometimes my parent's lie bout the truth so it's hard to understand.what is happening in their situation..
Yep. I am always honest with my kids in an age appropriate way ans always tell them it's never their fault.
Being told what's going on yes... but only if it doesnt bring an extra burden on her young shoulders
I was not. That child is way too aware of her mom's struggles for her age. She should be a carefree child
@ohsillymelly She is intelligent and curious and those kids will make things up in their heads if it's not explained to them. Imaginations get away from them. It's way better to have conversations age appropriately.
8 year-old Courtney is so smart and mature for her age. I am truly rooting for her and her family. It just sucks she has to worry so much due to her circumstances and tender age
Here in Canada, if you don't have any food in your fridge, there's a good chance CAS will take your kids and put them in an abusive foster/group home, where they'll be malnourished & possibly molested while the person doing so is paid by the government.
I'm sure growing up poor is tough, but growing up poor and removed from your family is brutal.
How do you know it. And is it only because of food or other more reasons. Thanks for responding in advance.
I kept my 3 kids with me . I made 3 meals with one pound of hamburger or well ate rice and beans . I went to school at night and earned a teaching degree. I’m retired now and my adult kids were made resilient by our struggles .
@@CATAGUILAR what was possible 20/25 years ago when your children were actual children,is not possible now. Get off your high horse
Nice food Bank.
SUCKS
Courtney is just a precious little girl. I wish her mother would keep her from worrying about the lack of money for heating. It is not a child's problem how bills will be paid.
I agree bringing stress and worry on a child in there young age brings anxiety in there adulthood
I know this first hand
Let the child be a child
yes, but as as a child who experienced this too, even if parents try to hide things we know what is happening so we worry. I guess the balance of being honest and not burdening the child is needed. But how
Well her mum has issues and she’s trying
Because Courtney knows their situation, she understands why she can't have what a lot of other children have, and why they can't " just put the heater on " when it gets cold.
That's true, but is not easy to be in that mother's shoes, she's probably anxious and depressed, and is doing the best she can. She probably feels terrible when her kids want to put the heater on and she can't
This was my childhood. Struggling between heat or eat. Dad disappeared and left us with nothing while mum worked two jobs to survive. I won a place at University, emigrated to the States and never looked back. Now in my late 30s, watching this just haunts me. Brings back bad memories. All I can say, is never give up hope
Where were you from my dude?
@@noddingbart6915 Oxford so exactly like the family in Cambridge, it was completley unaffordable for poor people to survive. I now live in Kansas City. USA which is more affordable and there isnt a rigid class system where you kinda stand out for being working class. But the USA has its cons too. Nowhere is perfect especially if you are struggling and trying to sort yourself out
My family was rich, then dude to gambling habits of my dad, we became poor. We just ate like 1 time a day. Good thing there was the internet. I studied how to make bread, bought a bread maker from my savings and sold breat with fillings in school. I taught my sisters as well so we were called the bread siblings. We sold everything we can think of growing up in school so we made lots of contacts. I also practiced intermittent fasting and also eating 1 time a day. Drinking a lot of water helps. All of us 3 graduated in food service oriented industries later then after working for 2 years, we put up a burger joint, then a barbecue joint then a soup joint then we mix all together to make a small restaurant. We are not earning much but at least we are independent. Amazing what learning buying and selling can do to a person.
It’s great to hear when someone is able to break away from such a hard situation. You should be so very proud of yourself with all you have done and how far you have come. 😊all the best 😊
Attachments make people poor . Men use women for their own sexual needs. They leave them, pregnant and don’t commit themselves to their responsibilities. Single parenthood is a great burden on women and the rest of the society they live in.
Love creates sorrow and suffering. 😭😭😭😭.
I never knew how bad my old situation really was until I saw other kids going through the same things
I grew up in a lower middle class home. My parents didn’t grow up in posh circumstances. I was the only child who went to university, and my divorce landed me in poverty again. I fought my way out. We’re doing well now, but only because of the sacrifices and hard work on my part. I went hungry to feed my kids for years. They only recently learned that. They look at me differently.
One of the biggest reasons I didn’t want to have a child. We can barely support ourselves, let alone a baby. This breaks my heart . I’m not against having kids, this was just our choice
Yes, you're absolutely right. As it harsh as it sounds, people should not even thinking to bring innocent children into this very difficult world, if they cannot even make sure to have a stable family economic for living and have a good mentally equipped to raise a children.
Poor kids.
The benefit system created a bunch of single mothers honestly.
I think a few of these families got hit with hard times (losing a job) and are just having a hard time getting back on track. My parents were married for 22 years when when the 2008 recession happened and we got hit hard. I'm pretty sure they didn't expect this outcome.
This is neo feudalism
Smart.
I feel so bad for these kids, no child should ever have to carry the burden of adult worries. Sadly I know exactly how these kids feel. This was my very childhood experience 30yrs ago. This documentary brought back so many buried traumas 😣
Yes,I feel so bad I pray 🙏🏽 they get the help they need.
I agree 1000% children should not be burdened with our problems that they have no control over. It’s traumatic for me as well bc I was that child. My Mom didn’t mean to hurt us but by speaking to us about every detail and how bad things were, we then were made to worry constantly, it’s sick.
Agreed
Im growing up poor, but i swear im ganna be a millionare
It’s absolutely heartbreaking to hear children talking like adults about life worries.
I am so impressed with Courtney and also Danielle's little brother. Listening to Courtney verbalize her understanding of what "worry" is was incredible. It is heartbreaking to listen to her talk about how she worries about food and money while she is at school, mindboggling for an 8year old to think about. I would imagine she's going to grow up to be an incredibly smart and well achieved woman. Danielle's little brother was so resilient and had such a sweet attitude in wanting to keep his father company. He was worried about his father being lonely. These kids are so strong. God bless them.
I like how the girl says "Everyone is equal...apparently." just shows that what we say and how we are, are 2 completely different things.
If you ever see this Courtney I want you to know that I was once a little girl exactly like you helping my mum even when she was mean to me, and now I'm almost 30. Sometimes little kids experience these things so our heart has time to grow strong enough to help other little kids and families just like us. Sometimes you might not feel loved or feel sad and alone, but know that you can fill your future with as much love, warmth, and things that make you as happy as you want. The only way to do this though is by trying your best at school, finding a part-time job in high school to pay for your school books, clothes and own food and by never giving up on what you want to be. I am now studying to be a doctor, and many other people just like us have become doctors, nurses, teachers and helpers. Just because you are poor now, it doesn't mean you have to be poor for your whole life. If I could tell my younger self one message it would be not to worry about my mum's problems, it's not your fault. You have a big heart and a bigger purpose, be strong, because it's not your job to worry about your mum or look after her, you need to look after your dreams first.
I hope you're doing well in life. What a sweet, heartfelt message for Courtney. Hard work is definitely the way for success, for us "commoners". All the best!
Your story incourages all of us including Courney. Thanks for sharing your private struggling period. Wish you have succesful future ehead!
I wish you all the best! Sending you love
You're an amazing person❤
🥰😍😍😍😍
The weight of the world is already on that 8 year old girls shoulders and she has such a lucid grasp on it all. My heart hurts for all of them.
Courtney and her brother are such a good, loving, smart, beautiful and bright children. I hope their future brightens up.
I relate heavily to the teen, Danielle. My parents both had mental health issues as well and I was suicidal from the age of 6 because I felt like such a burden. It hurt seeing my parents put their own mental health over my well-being.. it made me feel inadequate and so very low. I had no self confidence until I was 22 years old, but I do also have bipolar and anxiety, and suicidal tendencies. However, I have a son. So I pick myself up every day and show up for him. I talk to others, and meditate, and work thru my emotions. I have mental illness but my son is more important than myself and what goes on in my head. I don’t want him to ever feel like Danielle or myself growing up.
Family history of mental illness, treated for same but decided to have a child, anyway. No reasonable person will applaud that decision.
Well done!!!
To be honest this video my blood boil… All I see are parents that are too busy feeling sorry for themselves… And this comes from someone who grew up in extreme poverty. Living in a shack, without running water, toilet etc. I never met father my father and my mother had mental/emotional struggles, she I was parentified from a young age, I became my mothers emotional support, husband, mother, sister, friend, etc …
I was suicidal from a young age as well. But after becoming a mother I decided I had to do better than that… I’ve been doing psychotherapy, meditation, counselling, everything you can imagine to be better and be there for my kids…
@@joddydominguez6696 love that for you!!! It’s definitely hard. Being a parent is the toughest job in the world - especially when you have mental illness!! But making ANY type of progress is necessary, and kids will pick up on that :’)
Having kids brings out soooo much trauma for mothers, it can be overwhelming ! But our kids have to be worth it for us to be better people 🖤
Hey Mango, there will always be people who are there to help and support you, even just in this thread. Our thoughts can be so difficult to bear sometimes, but then also you know there will be thoughts that break through.
I find writing things down helps me process my thoughts into a logical order and not just swirling around and around in my head.
Find people who care, be honest and not afraid of judgement. Good people will think well of you if you treat them with respect. This helps weed out those who are more a burden than a blessing.
I wish you and your son all the best. You are not alone.
You are a warrior and also an angel at the same time, God bless you my dear...you are already victorious!!!
This was such a perspective changing video. Sometimes I find myself envying really rich people without noticing how blessed I am. I never worried about food,bills or space in my room. I go to University and only focus on my passions and school work. I never really in deep thought considered others who can’t even turn on their heat. This really showed me so much about how I look at life and how I should be so much more grateful for the life I do get to live. I definitely will look into volunteering around my community to help those in need. Much better use of my time then being upset about what I don’t have, especially now that I know how much it is that I really do have.
Social media especially tries to make us feel like we have to make 6 figures a year and have a nice car and all of this when that’s not attainable for most people. Strive to be stable and successful (whatever that means for you), you don’t have to be rich to be happy. You can have a great life making an “average” income, it’s all about how you navigate things and whether you’re doing something you truly love
Hmm define nice car. I think ani e car is one that drives safely and has heat.
Might as well be on govt assistance if you don't make 6 figures nowadays. Need at least 80k for a family, 50k and your just as poor as a welfare family. It's ridiculous people work hard and still suffer and struggle to provide
Unbelievable how these kids have nothing but still manage to be thoughtful and caring. Kids who have everything just want more, more, more.
They don't know anything else. So they don't know "what thy are losing" they don't know how it is to be spoilt.
Yes they may imagine, but the more deep understanding is not there..
There's a strong correlation according to various studies that peoples in lower socio-economic classes have more empathy, compassion, and are more physiologically attuned with suffering compared to peoples in high socio-economic classes.
@@abbrakadabraalakazam that makes a lot of sense. I grew up lower ses with addicted father and checked out mother and I feel like I bear peoples' burdens maybe more deeply or more often. People who have been given everything don't realize what a gift it is to not struggle.
Tbh the same can be said for adults as well.
Because of sin!
Gospel means good news! The bad news is we have all sinned and deserve the wrath to come. But Jesus the Messiah died for our sins, was buried, and then raised on the third day, according to the scriptures. He ascended into heaven and right now is seated at the Father's right hand. Jesus said, "I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand; repent and believe in the gospel."
Wow Courtney has an amazing awareness and self awareness when she explained what anxiety was. She’s so well and calmly spoken. I just know her future will be bright ❤
Growing up, I had a mother who cared more about herself and her wants and needs than she cared about ours. I am ten years older than my little sister and I had to raise her. We had no food in the house so I had to walk to the grocery store every day and steal food to feed my sister. Poverty is a real thing despite what rich politicians would want people to believe. The fact that a 13-yr old girl had to steal food to feed her baby sister is just criminal. ESPECIALLY in a country that loves to call itself the greatest in the world.
👏👏👏
Courtney is absolutely adorable, her voice is so melodic, and she’s so wise and kind....I hope they are doing well
The little boy is wise beyond his years describing his father’s state of depression.
That little girl is so mature for her age, and she is so sweet ❤ her mom is lucky to have her as a daughter
True
Courtney is incredible. So bright and so observant and sweet. She would make an excellent solicitor. All my fingers crossed for her… and the other lovely kids in this too.
The number of moments in here that made me cry! This doc was very well done.
Courtney is 100% going to be a solicitor when she grows up. She is so smart, articulate, scrappy, confident & unlike the other kids doesn't have an ounce of defeatism, self-pity or envy. Very impressive 8 yo
“Unlike the other kids”…. Very weird wording. These kids all have the right to feel how they do. They will all have different feelings. Her being positive doesn’t make her “better” it just shows how she deals with things. The reality is they all are correct to feel how they feel because they absolutely should not have to be dealing with this. Who’s to say who will be successful or not? Not trying to fight and she is bright, but to act as though the others are wrong for feeling defeated, self pity and even envy due to their predicament is dead wrong.
@@IGot7RevtinyArmyStayOnceBlink thank you. We don't need to compare these kids...
I agree. She’s fantastic. She’s a true gem
Omg yes I agree she is so smart so mature beautiful girl not immature she is soo switched on 🙏
She is not "unlike" other kids. She is also 8 years old. She has many years to do nothing. You say she's all these things, but is she really. There is a camera there too. There is every potential for things to not go well. She will soon have her own opinions. You put her on this pedestal that she shouldn't be on. She is a kid and kids are often innocent. That is what you are seeing, a normal kid.
I find that the most poorest, poverty stricken children & teenagers are very well spoken. My heart goes out to them.
The amount of stress on their shoulder have impacted their personnality and perception on life massively at a very young age. Unfortunately, they most likely inherited the mental problems or disabilities of their parents so it is not safe to assume that their level of maturity will put them out of poverty.
Dad has depression. They have no food but he has a pack of cigarettes on the couch. That makes me really angry.
I completely agree. Like omg that's $10 bucks that can make 2 meals. SMDH
My Mother was brainwashed into smoking addiction at a time when cigarettes got handed out as free samples.
I've always hated those things.
As a child I would hide them or destroy them.
I didn't understand how difficult her addiction was for her.
She's had several medical professionals inform her that in her specific case, it's dangerous to try and quit.
Due to complex mental health issues combined with the addiction she has had multiple memory blackouts. Some lasting weeks. Not remembering anything which occurred during that time. Full psychological blank.
I don't blame her, I know how much she's tried. I blame those who pushed the harmful addiction for profit.
Pack of smokes in Australia $30
@@roniidee9989 how do you get them that cheap....cheapest my (elderly) Mum (addicted) can access in Australia (rural) is $34 for a 20 pkt.
That little Courtney is the most adorable little girl...."All that's coming out is coppers!!" So beautiful....I pray that her family's situation changes and they are able to flourish.
This woman has really really good kids. I almost cried watching them. They were so cute and so well behaved. That mother is doing an amazing job and I sincerely hope she knows that. Way to go mom!
Yes that’s what happens when you have been abandoned don’t get child support judged by your so called family your kids know the truth and understand you are doing your best. What they lack now they will gain in the future that’s what I’m hoping. People don’t get it until they are in it.
Me too
The thing is her kids are behaving as adults. This is a big problem for their future as they do not have a normal childhood. Being like that is a survival mechanism for them. So they are not well behaved, and no kids are supposed to behave well according to adult standards. They have to be like that and I feel really sorry for them.
They’re not just wel behaved kids. They’re traumatized and have been forced to grow up too fast in some areas which means that other areas are forever going to be stunted to the age they were when the trauma took place. It’s why they seem so good. They’re more mature in regards to their understanding of things that shouldn’t even be on their radar.
They're not just well behaved, they're traumatized.
Broke my heart to hear such a beautiful intelligent girl say she thinks about killing herself but doesn’t want to add more stress and hurt upon her family… 💔 We all get those emotions all over digital numbers in our accounts and it controls the whole trajectory of our lives… Society has become so focused on money that the saying “ Money can’t buy happiness “ doesn’t ring true anymore. It absolutely changes everything for people and that’s just the cold hard truth of the matter 😔
Its been shown that to a point, money does buy happiness. Once our core needs are met, though, any more money than that does not affect happiness.
The line where we can afford all our core needs being met is forever rising, though. That's the problem :(
Yep exactly. It buys happiness up to 75k a year or whatever the number is these days
You can literally see the depression all over her face, her tone, poor girl.
I just want to give Courtney a big hug. She is so mature and understanding. She will have a bright future 💜
OH, sweet Courtney, you will go on to do AMAZING things in this world. Such a bright, smart, beautiful young lady wise beyond her years.
This broke my heart. Seeing the mother struggling with her daughter's death and being in this financial hardship over her funeral is heartbreaking. Courtney is such a clever girl and such help to her family. She shouldn't be expected to take on so many roles at 10 yrs old; hopefully, she won't have to continue. I also really feel for Danielle as well. She is in a position no 15 yr old should be in, and the toll it has on her and her family is devastating. I can relate to what she is going through, I was in a similar situation at 16. Hope they get the help they need.
When Courtney said she wanted her mom to have a boyfriend so they could have a daddy, I teared up. Normally kids don't want a new dad because it's a stranger coming into their lives, but for her to see it as needed for the family despite that is just.. No words :(
Probably thought it would make her mother happy aswell . Like a princess in a movie . Hurt my heart too
Mom could use a dude WITH A GOOD STABLE INCOME. That's what the daughter was thinking about she was just wise enough to not say it outright.
Having gone from being a single mom to being a married mom again, it is a drastically better situation. I no longer have panic attacks because I feel backed against a wall financially and there wasn't enough of my to go around. I felt the only way to make it would be to split myself in two so I can work 24/7 and watch the kids. The financial burden would get so bad I literally would break down sobbing, chest hurting, breathing hard, heart racing....now I we are making it. Not always fluently but I never backed against the wall by myself. I know there are two of me now. I know I I back up. I have support. I have companionship. We aren't meant to go life alone and it's not just about finances. The stress it brings to a single parent isn't natural. We aren't meant to suffer that load on our own. When we have a companion, we can smile with our children more. We have more of us to give. My mom never chose to remarry after her divorce and I haven't forgot the disservice that was to our family...for us to never have the chance of having a father again. Her mental health, financial health, and physical health went down hill. She let herself go in all areas of life. Had she had a companion she likely would not be disabled now. That was her choice. When you have kids, the choices shouldn't be all about you. It should be about the greater good of the family. I can not ever get behind someone voluntarily aiming to be a single parent. It's not fair to the kid.
She knows her mother needs help.
@@Kra-ri6fdNo one "voluntarily chooses to be a single mum". I'm so glad you found a partner to love and your life is easier, but it just doesn't happen for everyone. And why is everyone blaming the mothers? I don't hear many prople commenting on how shabby it is the fathers don't pay child support.
I made all the so called 'right choices'..Good paying job/married with kids/savings/lived within our means...Then..my husband died and we lost everything..Its not always a matter of bad decisions..Compassion and community support can make a huge difference. Especially til ppl can get back on their feet..🙄
People are very quick to offer prayers/share likes..we need more ppl to help out on a grassroots level. No one is immune to poverty/loss or hardship..
Courtney, Danielle, and Rose are all inspirations.
"I'll take car of you too". Oh Courtney is the sweetest, smartest girl. The sense of responsibility she feels at that age is amazing. I feel sorry that she has to spend her youth worrying. On the other hand I have a feeling that it'll make her a very strong woman one day. Best of luck to her.
Courtney is an angel! What a beautiful and mature 8 year old. No child should ever be put in such a position. I feel for all these families.
Watching little children starving and in poverty hurts my soul 💔
The first thing I told and taught my daughter was to put herself first.
Her education was the most important thing and to be careful in her life choices...
With all of Courtney's mums struggles she is holding her head up through a horrible battle and doing so much she should be proud of. She takes ownership and works hard. Way to go mum. Proud of you in Canada.
Yes, 👍 keep going and call on God ❤❤
What struggles...of not wanting to work..this world is the way it is because of this nonsense thinking
She's an adult, she's not a victim. This is coming from someone who grew up in domestic violence. She should work
She's literally talking to her 8 year old child about her mental health problems and the medication she's taking along with her money problems.
That's NOT what a good parent does.
@@HaggisMuncher-69-420 which she developed overnight 🙄.. excuses..she needs to work.. mentally ill in terms of laziness..cause she was fine before..this is sickening and pathetic..
My mom was a single parent of 4. We hardly had anything to eat growing up. We had milk, diet coke, and poptarts to eat. We relied heavily on school lunches for most of our diet. My mom didn’t even try to go to the food bank, and she didn’t care about trying to cook us meals once we were old enough to microwave food or fry an egg... She was “tired of cooking.” I remember she used to go to costco and buy some frozen food, but it wouldn’t last long. She spent her money on her acrylic nails and her wine while we were skinny as rails and starving. Didn’t help that my two older brothers constantly devoured any food we had. Dad helped a little. We would have a meal with him during visitation. I was at one point 20lbs underweight. I was constantly on the verge of passing out at school from malnutrition.
And you know, I don’t care at all about it. I just wish she cared more about us. Its hard enough to be hungry, but to be hungry and ignored by your mom because she didn’t want to converse or play with her own children… well, that hurt more than the hunger pains.
I'm so sorry you experienced that.
😢❤
Where are you from?
Wow, that is sad. Our family started out very poor too back in the day despite my dad being in the Air Force Fulltime. We only ate at school. However, as I got older, things got way better - luckily. I sent went to college and totally flipped the script on that. My wife and I are about to retire and are financially secure so, WE HELP the homeless and the poor. I love helping families like this in the US. Great video. Thanks.
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Watching this brought memories that I actually never forgot. We were quite poor in the 80's and 90's here in Brazil. My father was sick and worked odd jobs and my mother was a maid. The money was enough to pay rent, but food was another deal. I remeber eating sausages, spam and pasta, and a combination of the three, for about 4 months straight. I can't stand the sight of these three items. I'm in my 40's now and it still hurts seeing and remembering hunger. I went hungry to school way too many times. I work so hard nowadays fearing it would happen again and it makes exhausted. But I consider myself lucky 'cause I knew there were children in worst conditions back then. I have this childish dream that someday no kid will go through hunger. Maybe someday it will come true.
thank you for sharing this. You did good.
Kudos to Danielle for trying to keep up with her studies during a difficult time. Her father should make sure she has those study guides she needs.
Danielle looks like a snacc in her school uniform.
She is motivated. And has a GREAT work ethic. If she was able to keep away from trouble she could go really really far ❤
Why not her mother?
@@JK-xt7ro Why not the school? Education is meant to be free in the UK. The schools should have copies to give to children in poverty.
@@slydoll7877 Higher taxes.
I loved how Courtney's mom explained he mental health condition. Hat's off really. Instead of her giving in and just getting annoyed when Courtney (understandably) didn't get it the first time, she literally showed patience and drew it for her. Great visual too! And you can see when it clicked in Courtney and she made her own visual of her understanding with mum filling in details. Sometimes, this "mature" talk between parents and their kids are lacking and kids develop deep resentments why their parents are acting the way they are. That brief chat definitely will help their relationship and Courtney would be more understanding of the situation. She's very smart for her age!
I just want o give Danielle a huge hug. I hope her school gave her the support she needed.
Everyone’s judging in the comment .. stop blaming the parents and watch how hard those family fights together and how they love each other god blessed them all ❤
"We try to make her life in heaven nicer." ☹Coming from someone who lost my sister to cancer a year ago, this hits home.
I know this was filmed about 5 years ago. I do hope they're all doing well now.
This is what my family went thru. My brothers n sisters were hungry most days. My parents struggled to feed us. We went to school without food n had problem paying school fees. My school uniform were patched up so many times n socks, shoes had holes but we siblings dare not have the heart to ask mum to buy new ones. We knew mum was already struggling putting food on the table. Life is so unfair for kids to suffer hunger. Wishing no kids should go hungry in this cruel world.
Courtney is absolutely amazing. She’s so in tune to everything going on.
Seeing Danielle's mom, dad and siblings hugging and encouraging her when she didn't the grades that she needed just shows what love and support that she has, something that many of us, rich or poor, grew up without.
No. This attitude sucks. The child didn't get the grades cause she spent too much time stressing over her home situation her mother was too openly sharing. Just like pretending Santa is real, we also need to pretend other things are REAL.
Courtney is the cutest little girl ever. She has so much sass, yet is so sweet but mature for her age. She shouldn't have such anxiety.
Courtney has an exceptional open mind 🎉
Her graphics tell her ability to comprehend her mothers moods ❤
And she does it with everything. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
It's because her mom explained it to her. Most parents scream at their kids when they're in a bad mood and the children never know why.
@er ha I wish my mom explained her moods. I remember my brothers and I being called every name in the book when she would have her mood swings. Especially when she'd come home from work. She would scream at us for not cleaning or keeping the house organized and that we were useless. Uhh..hello, I'm 8 years old, sorry I can't cook you dinner, do laundry and clean up the place lol.
I watched my mothers face and movements,
I watched my father in the same way
Judging the atmosphere and feeling the energy that I had to live within to survive.
grown up to early issues later
All my love and support to these families, and to the family who lost her daughter/sister, I’m so very sorry for your loss 🌸
Heartbreaking...
But also really inspiring and admirable how maturely the little girl deals with these things.
I spent a life career in family social work - i never met children able to speak so wisely ....a credit to them
Courtney's mom is great and I respect her so much, dealing with a personality disorder, depression and poverty is so very tough but she stays strong for her kids and her kids learn to be just like her. They will do great things in the future
Me and my kids stuggle to get by but we still make ends meet. This makes me count my blessings and to be thankful for the little that we do have bcuz there is always someone who is worse off
these children are all so compassionate and sensitive. I'm so impressed with all of them.
We are not yet rich but not poor, simple life, no car, working class but I already feel very blessed because our cupboard is full💝, we get to cook special meals on our birthdays and eveb invite some relatives💝 makes me appreciate all that because of this video. So heartbreaking😭 I hope they all get out of poverty someday and get the comfort they deserve❤
I grew up with a few times where money was really tight, but my mom never made it super obvious or made us feel like we were in danger of being hungry or if the power would be shut off. I always appreciated that.
I know it can seem hopeless and horrible but parents have to try to not make it so obvious how rough their situation is. I felt so bad hearing that girl joke about being taken away by social services, she shouldn’t even have to know that there’s a possibility of being torn away from her mom.
I was a single mum at 16 and I'm forever grateful for food banks, but I also did whatever it took to have food in my cupboards for my child.
I'd beg, borrow and steal.
I'd do it again too.
The little girl is so mature man. She and her mother are like two grown up friends
That little girl should NOT be worrying about finances, that's for her mother to figure out
DONT BE DISCUSSING these issues with a child
She should be FREE to be a kid, go to school, play, etc. Not worry about grown up issues
Its sad tbh.
@@sherribatko8981 Many mothers are dumping everything on their children these days. It’s extremely sad.
That is the problem. Mama is too immature and irresponsible to be a proper parent to her child.
The mother needs to grow up and get a job and not dumped all her problems on Courtney who is just a young child
The mother did an EXCELLENT job showing her daughter about her illness with pencil and paper. 👍🏽👍🏽
"We are not rich, but we are not poor either." They have each other. That's what's important.
That adorable dog is so chill and let the mum used its back as a desk to write 🥺
I feel so badly for them, this kind of poverty is absolutely soul crushing.
I couldn’t imagine ever letting my kids go hungry. Makes me feel extremely grateful that I’m able to provide for my children no matter how overwhelming it gets sometimes. It’s obvious these parents love their children dearly. Governments need to pump more money into mental health services and family services to offer parents the tools they need to get out of the rut and live healthy lives.
True. It's sickening, at least here in the states, that if a parent makes above a certain amount, they get cut from all gov't funding. Yet, what they get is not enough to get out of the poverty. It's a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation.
@@janetslater129I've had a few friends of mine get denied for almost all govt assistance one in particular cannot get help even tho she's a single mom with 2 kids bc she "makes too much money" . She struggles constantly. It's messed up. She works full time as a receptionist at a Dr office n works part time as a manger at a retail store a few nights a week n on weekends..she pays the taxes which ultimately fund these programs but cannot benefit from them. Makes no sense. I'd love to see how they figure you make too much money when after rent (which is skyhigh all around our tri state area) additional bills, gas to get to your job, household/hygienic essentials etc etc your left with literally 3$.
@@LeeLeeCRNIf she works full time like that she won’t qualify as she has a full time job. She should apply for government housing if housing is super expensive. Or she needs to move to cheaper place, perhaps she can get another job in a different state. I mean she has two jobs right? I don’t know anyone who qualifies for government assistance with a full time job and another part time job.
Praise god
comme ci, comme ca, what a very intelligent child Courtney is. all these children deserve the best . and i hope nothing but the brightest future for every one of them.
I was born into poverty and my mom was a drug addict. I was hospitalized twice bc of malnutrition. I can definitely say I know what hunger is and no child should have to know what that feels like. ❤
this made me want to hug my little one so tight, I am so blessed to be able to put food on the table for her. 🙏🏽
17:05 this hits hard. Courtney seems like an awesome kid. I hope she grows up successful and takes care of her family.
I wonder if she will become something helping others like her. I know it’s the reason i went into my field of work (teacher) it’s the only place I called safe
I love how this doc was produced. We get to hear from the children who are the most impacted by this crisis and have little to no agency. I also like how the doc captured the unsaid. Like the mold in the state-sponsored housing. Very well done.
I am inspired by you Courtney.I love how resilient you are.
My family in the last year have finally gotten out of poverty it was horrible. We finally have a safe warn home and plenty to eat . We are very blessed to be where we are now. To anyone who is struggling just know things will get better 🙏
Amen
@@Basedeyecel um yeah I was my dad had a stroke at work and when he got out of the hospital he lost his job. Then we lost our house. And we were sleeping in churches and friends places . Until we were able to find a small house to rent. And our benefits barely covered food. So we had to choose to pay monthly rent or have enough to buy a family of four just enough food to get by. My dad is a veteran and he was officially disabled a little over a year ago and we were the finally able to get a house we can heat and have air conditioning. And we don't have to worry about food anymore. So I'm not lying or trying to get attention I was trying to give people hope that you can escape poverty.
The fact that courtney is a good bright kid is something that many people lack,she is joy,she is happy even when they have nothing which is more important than having money yet feeling empty,she lives happily with her mom even on nothing,which is something I adore,I know she will change her family's destiny🎉😢😊,we have money but feel empty,her family is the money she will have till the end,all the best courtney
The pain of growing up in poverty is heartbreaking 💔
God bless! Watched with tears. Yes, everyone is equal !
So many of these comments failed the vibe check. It's so incredibly easy to judge when you are not in the situation. "Just get a job", "just stop being depressed" , "you're not struggling cuz you have a house", "just be an adult". So many ignorant people who have no ounce of humanity or sympathy. There are thousands of different combinations of circumstances that don't allow people to just stop being poor. I only hope none of you come face to face with one.
I grew up in a working class family. Both my parents worked and also struggled to pay bills. They would never let anyone else pay for their family. No free ride. Work is essential to contribute to society. Everyone has to pull their weight.
Yep agree. It's easy to judge but difficult to judge well ❤
@@Iworkwithnitwits No one is going to disagree with working but for some of these situations, work alone isn't enough. The first woman was fleeing DV, meaning she now has two kids she has to provide for under barely one income ( even with one income it's still tough). Telling single mothers to just work their way out of poverty means you don't understand that poverty is a cycle. Also, working class family is different than a poor family. Again, you are confused about various income levels and what they mean lol. If you don't know, then stop giving bad advice. I know what I'm talking about, because I have been poor and worked my way up but that took about 4 decades bro, so just stop it.
@@rosiekapun207 Why did she have children with a violent good-for-nothing loser? She didn't think about the future.
@@littlelizzi3135everyone is untitled to judge righteously.
I grew up just like you Courtney. Life wasn’t easy at first but now I have everything I want; the struggle is over ❤
Poor Courtney having to worry about not having money and being concerned for her own mother. No child should have that feeling since it takes away their innocence and childhood it seems. God bless her and I really hope their situation has gotten better.
I personally don't think someone in financial struggle should have pets. It's a lot of time and money they likely can't spare. Vet visits, animal food, cat litter is expensive. To me pets are a luxury, for their sake and the owners.
The problem maybe that they had the pet before their difficulties started. It’s heartbreaking to think that they are judged for this. Not forgetting they would also be judged for abandoning their pet. This beloved animal ,may be one of the few last comforts to these brave and wonderful children.
Animals use to help you trough the hardest of times. Don't forget that and don' judge
Actually that came on my mind too. But then I thought that having to give your pet away would break their hearts. No, not correct way of thinking.
This makes me so sad. On my 18th birthday I left home and experienced hunger like this, but I cant imagine being a child and feeling those pains. Now that I'm a mom my heart also hurts for the parents who know their kids are starving and probably feel hopeless
Im crying this little girl is so strong and smart I hope she has a wonderful life she deserves to be happy
That little girl is the oldest child I've seen. How mature and understanding of her mum's situation she was and still managed to behave like a child from time to time. It's sad that a child her age has to grow up so fast in these conditions.
Courtney is such a mature sweetheart of a child ❤ I hope her & family, as well as all of the families shown here today in much better circumstances & doing great!