2021 anyone? I listen to my wife sing this and it brings tears every time. This and Almost Lover are some of the beat unrequited love songs i have heard. Takes you right there
I discovered this song years ago when this guy I really liked moved away. Years later, after my most recent breakup, I come back to this song So I can cry it out.
Heard it on One Tree Hill season 5 when Peyton was telling Lucas to be happy and started drawing the 3 hearts vanishing with the waves of the ocean.. Got curious and look for it on UA-cam and I honestly from that moment this song became one of my favorites. The lyrics, her voice... just love it!
I can *hear* and *feel* the emotion in this song. Makes me wanna cry each time I hear it, yet I wanna play it on repeat constantly. I LOVE her voice with it, she makes the emotion come even more to life.. You can tell it comes from her heart. I can relate to it, too. Gah omg I love her so much. This 'band' is amazing. (I put band in quotes because it's just her singing)
I heard this for the first time on the show "One Tree Hill". It is a beautiful song for a heartbreaking moment of the show. its one of my fav songs now.
Issue of intimacy - without commitment established it only leads to disaster. For love to grow there is the demand of trust and honesty; vulnerability is the ground for growth. Yesterday must be forgiven and gone too. Otherwise, our own soul will destroy what our very heart desires in the name of self. I hear the pain in her voice - so beautifully done yet so sad.
Brilliant songs do not get old, they stay and remind us of the good and sad times... now its 31st of Dec 9.37pm, UK... it's windy raining and I'm still listening to this just before 2025
I heard this song on "One Tree Hill" and i went crazy over it immediately! A fine frenzy is one of the most talented bands I've ever heard of. Their songs are simply amazing, the meaning behind it. Though I'm not into romance stuff, i absolutely LOOOOVE their songs.
Such a beautiful song. My heart breaks just a little when I hear it. It reminds me of clinging onto some little bit of hope that isn't really there, but I want it to be.
If you're wondering about why ashes and wine, its because once something becomes ashes, they can't go back. Same goes with wine. Once its fermented, there is no going back. I think its the wine part that is confusing some people. So she's saying, "is there a chance, or is there no going back?"
ur partly correct, if u leave wine alone it will get better with age, so the singer is saying if we are ashes (its over for good) if we are wine (we will be fine) thats what she means when she asks the question are we ashes or wine
amanda wagner I always thought the wine part meant drinking... Like "are we through yet because i want some wine?" You're explanation makes more sense. .-.
I don't think it can mean ashes (it's over, no going back) or wine (be okay in the end/fine wine ages well) because she doesn't say "are we ashes OR wine" she says "are we ashes AND wine"... So the fermented/spoiled wine theory makes more sense than wine getting better with age.......... I have no idea why I felt the need to bump into a year old conversation on this at 1 in the morning but there you go ha)
I've heard of this song ten years ago when I was still in college. I was hooked up with A Fine Frenzy. And now, ten years later...I'm happily married with the love of my life. But deyymmm...as I listen back to this song, it still brings me back to tears.. not because I had a bad breakup but it's just that I felt the pain in this song. It's still so effective. Weewww
This song has by far been something to help me get through one of the hardest times in my life... i absolutely love this song along with others so emotionally related to some of the things people are going through:
time passed by I can listen to another musician and another songs but I am for sure and by far in love and under this song's spell. I absolutely adore this song.
Ive had A Fine Frenzy's album for at least a month and just realized how beautiful this song is...in this time in life im extremely happy, but when this song comes on i just cant help but lose it
I loved this song instantly because the meaning in the words have been so true for me. I wanted this from my ex for a long time, some hope and some how I had to hear this song to stop feeling that way. We are now ashes and wine.
This song brought me to tears....thought I was starting to breathe again without his love and this just brought all my resolve crashing back down again :'(
This song is for the only love of my life. Even though things didn't work out like planned, you still have my heart and soul. Not a second goes by without a thought or reminder of you. I love you with every breath that I take...
i cried so hard when i listened to this. every word of this song describes how i feel. i love him so much i just wish he could feel the same way. i wish he knew how much he broke my heart. am i not good enough?
Heard this song on Pandora while I was doing my homework. The instant I heard it, my chair fell over, was sprawled out on the floor for a second, and I crawled over to the computer to write it down. Got some bruises, but it was worth it. LOL
And there are always chances. Chances at life, love, freedom & greatness. No one path is right for anyone. There can be multiple right answers in this life. Maybe it's not ashes and wine... Only one person can answer that.
These lyrics are quite beautiful "... coffee laced intoxicating on her lips." I, personally, thought the lyrics were intended the way Darrale stated, and I am a lesbian! How funny! I never thought of it as a lesbian written song! It really doesn't matter, does it? It's what you make of it and take from it! A gorgeous piece of work, Alison!
das lied ist so traumhaft schön!! dieses ist etwas sehr besonderes!! denn dieses lied hilft eine freundin von mir immer sehr!! gott segne das lied! ich hab dich echt sau lieb :* S.!♥
This song is me right now, i never fell as hard as i did for her. Now all i have left is mixed messages and i cant help but hope it can work again. it was beyond perfect and it ended so suddenly, wasnt ready at all. funnily enough she introduced me to this singer too :\
i don't know about anyone else, but i'm glad she doesn't get as much recognition as other artists. if she did, she would become mainstream, and then her music would start going down the drain.
@raportzmiastaN lol 'ashes&wine' is an old saying for lovers who are now parting. It refers to the wine left of the counter, and the ashes in the fireplace. It's over, and the scene is gone, as well as their love.
Does it matter how people found this song? The fact that they heard it on some television show doesn't stop it from being an incredible song. Apparently the producers of said show (or whomever handles the music) agreed with all of us listeners that this was a great song that fit what was probably a suitable moment on that TV show. Those that heard it on that TV show must've felt something from it and that's why searched it and found it. No need to be immature about who you found the song from.
And it really does feel like after 4 and a half years our entire relationship is ashes and wine. That is to say, the sweetest of memories and also the worst.
2021 anyone? I listen to my wife sing this and it brings tears every time. This and Almost Lover are some of the beat unrequited love songs i have heard. Takes you right there
Still true in 2022
I discovered this song years ago when this guy I really liked moved away. Years later, after my most recent breakup, I come back to this song So I can cry it out.
2022 🎉
Thats cool. Must be nice to hear her sing. I miss these kind of music.
Bich its December of 2023 😂
Heard it on One Tree Hill season 5 when Peyton was telling Lucas to be happy and started drawing the 3 hearts vanishing with the waves of the ocean.. Got curious and look for it on UA-cam and I honestly from that moment this song became one of my favorites. The lyrics, her voice... just love it!
i first heard this in Vampire Diaries...i fell in love with it...and now i cant stop listening to and singing it..describes me sooo well
Yes I'm still listening to this in 2019
2020
2020
2020😭
2020 ❤🍷
And i am listening in 2020 August
I can *hear* and *feel* the emotion in this song. Makes me wanna cry each time I hear it, yet I wanna play it on repeat constantly. I LOVE her voice with it, she makes the emotion come even more to life.. You can tell it comes from her heart. I can relate to it, too. Gah omg I love her so much. This 'band' is amazing. (I put band in quotes because it's just her singing)
Totally agree!!!!!!!!! Kaylie
'tis indeed achingly beautiful :(
Hope is a dangerous thing, and regret will eat you alive. I'll live with both for the rest of my life. It is what it is.
Well said......
+Jessica Topper You said exactly what I feel.
balerick48
It's best to live in the felt presence of immediate experience
If I was a tattoo person I would get that on my butt.
"I thought friends don't manipulate friends.
...You and Katherine have a *lot* more in common than just your looks."
I love The Vampire Diaries too :)
Courtney Clark Hell yeah, friend. ;]
That's awesome I just watched that episode the other day!
It's one of my favorites. :)
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I heard this for the first time on the show "One Tree Hill". It is a beautiful song for a heartbreaking moment of the show. its one of my fav songs now.
Issue of intimacy - without commitment established it only leads to disaster. For love to grow there is the demand of trust and honesty; vulnerability is the ground for growth. Yesterday must be forgiven and gone too. Otherwise, our own soul will destroy what our very heart desires in the name of self. I hear the pain in her voice - so beautifully done yet so sad.
@Jon micheal i am sure that it is good to her that it is over. doesn't have to be with a man who doesn't respect women at all.
Brilliant songs do not get old, they stay and remind us of the good and sad times... now its 31st of Dec 9.37pm, UK... it's windy raining and I'm still listening to this just before 2025
I heard this song on "One Tree Hill" and i went crazy over it immediately!
A fine frenzy is one of the most talented bands I've ever heard of. Their songs are simply amazing, the meaning behind it.
Though I'm not into romance stuff, i absolutely LOOOOVE their songs.
Such a beautiful song. My heart breaks just a little when I hear it. It reminds me of clinging onto some little bit of hope that isn't really there, but I want it to be.
The Vampire Diaries introduced me to this song when I was in high school. Good times ❤️ I'm now 25 years old :') Alison, I love u
Not sure which is better, your intro or the little sl#t that introduced it to me. 🤔
"It's just a shame to let you walk away"
So sad.... :(
such a beautiful, meaningful song
She has the most calming voice.. I just found her on Pandora Radio and when she started singing i just fell in love with her voice!
2023... heard it again while re-watching Ghost whisperer and here i am... so calming voice and so love this song... where is she now?
still listening to this masterpiece in june 2021.
If you're wondering about why ashes and wine, its because once something becomes ashes, they can't go back. Same goes with wine. Once its fermented, there is no going back. I think its the wine part that is confusing some people. So she's saying, "is there a chance, or is there no going back?"
ur partly correct, if u leave wine alone it will get better with age, so the singer is saying if we are ashes (its over for good) if we are wine (we will be fine) thats what she means when she asks the question are we ashes or wine
amanda wagner I always thought the wine part meant drinking... Like "are we through yet because i want some wine?" You're explanation makes more sense. .-.
AJ Gentry 😂😂😂
I don't think it can mean ashes (it's over, no going back) or wine (be okay in the end/fine wine ages well) because she doesn't say "are we ashes OR wine" she says "are we ashes AND wine"... So the fermented/spoiled wine theory makes more sense than wine getting better with age.......... I have no idea why I felt the need to bump into a year old conversation on this at 1 in the morning but there you go ha)
this contrast between this tender voice, sounds like a rose wet from rain, and the strong voice, sounding like fire, always touches me!!
She is one of my favorite alternative vocalists. She has very strong vocals that don't need to be auto-tuned.
Beautiful and first time hearing it! Nov/5/2024. Divine timing as I listen with an aching heart.
I've heard of this song ten years ago when I was still in college. I was hooked up with A Fine Frenzy. And now, ten years later...I'm happily married with the love of my life. But deyymmm...as I listen back to this song, it still brings me back to tears.. not because I had a bad breakup but it's just that I felt the pain in this song. It's still so effective. Weewww
This song has by far been something to help me get through one of the hardest times in my life... i absolutely love this song along with others so emotionally related to some of the things people are going through:
Oh yes, Ghost Whisperer. That was a great time in life 💯
It's so touching and a feeling of something we lost in life earlier
And now we could get those things back...
Such a soothing song...
this girl is so amazing i cant get over it....listening to all her songs and love them all
This song is amazing and listening to it brings tears to my eyes as I’m experiencing the same thing. I want him back 😓
2024 anyone? 🫡
“Don’t know what to do anymore, i’ve lost the only love worth fighting for...” that hits diffrent sheesh😭😭😭😭
Delena feels😭😭😭😭😭❤❤❤❤
Thank you Tidal's algorithm for this song.
one tree hill brought me here. i miss one tree hill so much
Late to the comment, but I totally agree. Would be cool if they could pull off a reunion episode, but I doubt it would happen. :-(
Nobody could be a better Queenie!
Ohhhhh i heard this album soooo often. Man such good times. So beautful
I love her music
This has of my favorite of her songs. So beautiful.
I love this freaking song. This is my life wrapped into one song.
shes amazingly talented. and beautiful.
love these songs. so well written, and so well sung.
such a beautiful song and her voice gives it so much passion. couldn't help but shed a few tears :'(
time passed by I can listen to another musician and another songs but I am for sure and by far in love and under this song's spell. I absolutely adore this song.
One Tree Hill
Peyton! 😢😍🎶
After all these years she still gives me goosebumps. This song also reminds me of good times.
Love it:)
Ive had A Fine Frenzy's album for at least a month and just realized how beautiful this song is...in this time in life im extremely happy, but when this song comes on i just cant help but lose it
what a voice! absolute like this.
This is a beautiful song. I listen to it daily.
Quelques années de cela déjà j'étais en émoie en écoutant cette musique, elle me fait toujours autant passer tellement d'émotions...
My English teacher showed our class this song a few days ago. I AM IN LOVE WITH IT! HER VOICE IS SO BEAUTIFUL!
I loved this song instantly because the meaning in the words have been so true for me. I wanted this from my ex for a long time, some hope and some how I had to hear this song to stop feeling that way. We are now ashes and wine.
This song is my life.
2021 cause i needed this rn .
Heard it on Pandora and I've been listening to it ever since. I'm obsessed.
Always I do love my lover. Come what it may.
My boyfriend just broke up with me and this song expresses my feelings exactly. Alison is amazing.
I FINALLY FOUND IT YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
This song brought me to tears....thought I was starting to breathe again without his love and this just brought all my resolve crashing back down again :'(
Murdy Gurdy are you sure? How long have you been hurting? I'm worried about that pain coming back to me after years I just want to get rid ofit
2022 anyone? it has a Seattle rain feel in it.
This song is for the only love of my life. Even though things didn't work out like planned, you still have my heart and soul. Not a second goes by without a thought or reminder of you. I love you with every breath that I take...
I've never been in a relationship in my life and I instantly related to this song for no reason
Queenie!😍
i cried so hard when i listened to this. every word of this song describes how i feel. i love him so much i just wish he could feel the same way. i wish he knew how much he broke my heart. am i not good enough?
Perfect way to start a new year, with a broken heart.
LOVE THIS SONG
'The answer to your question is yes, you've lost me for ever' ♥
Heard this song on Pandora while I was doing my homework. The instant I heard it, my chair fell over, was sprawled out on the floor for a second, and I crawled over to the computer to write it down. Got some bruises, but it was worth it. LOL
this is never gonna get old.
This song gives me chills every time.
Just discovered her today, already a fan.
someone here in quarentine? Love this woman
love this song so much! didn't know she's the actress who played queenie goldstein in the Fantastic Beasts movies. Such a talent.
I really love her music:X:X:X ...she has such a great lyrics and voice...she expreses deep feelings...
And there are always chances. Chances at life, love, freedom & greatness. No one path is right for anyone. There can be multiple right answers in this life. Maybe it's not ashes and wine... Only one person can answer that.
5th season of OTH. Made me cry like a baby..
These lyrics are quite beautiful "... coffee laced intoxicating on her lips." I, personally, thought the lyrics were intended the way Darrale stated, and I am a lesbian! How funny! I never thought of it as a lesbian written song! It really doesn't matter, does it? It's what you make of it and take from it! A gorgeous piece of work, Alison!
das lied ist so traumhaft schön!!
dieses ist etwas sehr besonderes!! denn dieses lied hilft eine freundin von mir immer sehr!! gott segne das lied!
ich hab dich echt sau lieb :* S.!♥
aww this song, right in the heart! Thanks for making a lyrics vid!
wow! I love all her songs!! so beautiful!
2023 👐🙌
15 people like Ashes and not Wine. Tisk Tisk.. What a beautiful song, and woman! (:
I forgot how much I love this song!
Ok, I am here for TVD... Damon Salvatore song..♥
...or One Tree Hill a year before TVD even aired
+Roger Smith yess
This song is me right now, i never fell as hard as i did for her. Now all i have left is mixed messages and i cant help but hope it can work again. it was beyond perfect and it ended so suddenly, wasnt ready at all. funnily enough she introduced me to this singer too :\
Listening in 2021 💕🎧
i love this song. her voice is sooo amazing
i don't know about anyone else, but i'm glad she doesn't get as much recognition as other artists. if she did, she would become mainstream, and then her music would start going down the drain.
i love the way in which she sings and i love the lyrics:X:X
I think I broke the thumbs up button. i know exactly how that feels- been goin through it for 2 years now.
This song....is just so relevant to everything going on in my life.
@raportzmiastaN lol 'ashes&wine' is an old saying for lovers who are now parting. It refers to the wine left of the counter, and the ashes in the fireplace. It's over, and the scene is gone, as well as their love.
Im in love with this song. I wish I could sing like her. Its so beautiful.
I said to myself, she looks like the girl in Fantstic beast........ and she is😍
My favorite A Fine Frenzy song!
2022 and still casually watching Vampire Diaries
2023 anyone?
2024 ❤
The guy that I love left me 9 months ago :'( still love him as much as the first day , i hope we'll finish together someday ..
The past break up feels 9.9
Does it matter how people found this song? The fact that they heard it on some television show doesn't stop it from being an incredible song. Apparently the producers of said show (or whomever handles the music) agreed with all of us listeners that this was a great song that fit what was probably a suitable moment on that TV show. Those that heard it on that TV show must've felt something from it and that's why searched it and found it. No need to be immature about who you found the song from.
And it really does feel like after 4 and a half years our entire relationship is ashes and wine. That is to say, the sweetest of memories and also the worst.
2023 and I had to listen again...memories 😢
20 may 2024 😢
Beautiful song... Stunning, really
when the night is over you only have...ashes from the fire and the wine cups.
i guess...
amazing song by Alson :)