Its the alcohol, a lot of people lose all their wits and senses on alchol, crazy to think about how many millions of people fall to alcohol addiction and thousands and thousands of people die from od or drunk driving getting others killed, there is so much shit that comes with alcohol, dont get me wrong, i love myself a cold beer or two, but alcohol is a big driving factor in ruining yours and others life, number 1 drug that kills people is alcohol, plus getting drunk just sucks overall, getting drunk is like getting hit in the head while losing 50% of your braincells, overated as fuck
This poor guy is lost. You can tell in his eyes, he’s lost everything. So tragic that this accidents are so common now a days. Bless her soul and his recovery. Prayers to all involved.
@ajzombie10 NOT an accident! Did they accidentally get drunk? Murder! So acceptable for people to drive drunk! Yes, I've lost people to THIS. Slap on the hand -every time! And NONE were 1st time offenders
Apparently the mom of the bride is now challenging the validity of their marriage and trying to sue because she wants the daughter’s estate which, from the lawsuits is millions of dollars.
@@fitnesspoint2006 wow you’re heartless and please don’t assume people’s ethnicity just because they’re giving condolences. This is painful and I understand what it’s like to lose someone important to us. This comment wasn’t asking for anyone’s opinion it was just me put out my once again condolences and I’ll do that for anyone and everyone who has lost someone cause even though people come and go in this world that doesn’t mean people have to suck it up so please leave people TF alone
This is probably the most heartbreaking I have every seen. The happiest day of your life and in a matter of seconds it's all gone. Prayers for this grieving man.
This is beyond heartbreaking. A few hours earlier they were thinking about the rest of their lives, and hours later she’s gone forever… So devastating. Sickening. I hope that drunk driver NEVER gets out of prison.
There are some people who drink too much, get into a car to drive, and don't realize what major harm they can cause. This girl should feel remorse and guilt for the rest of her life.
Yeah. Anyone who could go forty over and have a blood alcohol level three times over is clearly lacking in basic morality. What a waste! Ugh. I feel so so sorry for this man who lost his wife. God bless! This is heartbreaking.
I lost half my family in a tragic car accident a week before Christmas 2013. My significant other (28 years old) and his little brother who lived with us (18 years old) gone in the blink of an eye. I became widowed at the ripe old age of 26 years old and left with our 3 year old daughter to raise on my own. It’s a hell I wouldn’t wish on my worse enemy and it’s truly a miracle I survived that time in my life. Some advice I can pass along…The first year you will be in a fog, just going through the daily motions while everyone else’s lives move forward. There’s a name for this first year and it’s called “widows fog”. They say not to make any big life changing decisions or even small ones during this time because your brain has been through so much trauma, physically, emotionally, mentally. Therefore our brains are just not functioning like normal. I believe that fog is almost a form of protection from the excruciating pain. Enjoy that first year because after that fog lifts and everyone around you has moved on from the tragedy, that’s when it really hits the absolute hardest. That’s when you realize every day that goes forward into the future takes you further away from the one you love and all of sudden you wish you could go back to that first year just to be closer to her. 💗 Men grieve differently from woman. There’s no timeline to grief, no steps you must go through, no right or wrong way. Some find companionship quickly after, alot of widows often seek out the comfort of someone who was close to the deceased one as well. Some like myself, choose to still be alone 10 years later. All of it is okay. I highly suggest going on Facebook and joining some of young widowers groups. Those groups saved my life early on in a lot of ways because nobody else can truly understand the nightmare unless they’ve been through it themselves. And it helps tremendously to be connected to others going through similar and just knowing you’re not alone in your pain. The bad news is you have a long journey ahead but the good news is and as much as I didn’t want to hear it at the time, one day in future there will be a light at the end of the very dark tunnel. The constant pain will lessen and eventually turn into a dull ache that ebbs and flows like the ocean waves. Some days those waves will get so high and literally leave you gasping for air. Other days those waves might be calm and still. Don’t fight against them. You just gotta ride them out. In the end, the man you will become after trekking this journey will be one of uttermost strength, perseverance, truly indestructible, and given the rare gift to see and appreciate life in a way most others can’t. 10 years later and I can finally say that I wouldn’t be who I am today if I didn’t survive such a tragedy in my life. In some strange way, it revealed me to myself and I wouldn’t change that for anything. 💪🏼 Hang in there! 🤍
I said a prayer for you. Even now because I know you’re doing better but I’m sure you still have those moments. I loved the advice you gave. Continue to be strong ❤️
@Tara Von….You explained this BEAUTIFULLY! That is an almost exact synopsis of what lies ahead. My condolences to you for your family as well as to this Groom for His Beloved Wife. I lost my daughter 8 yrs ago at 3 months and as I was reading your comment, I was time-lining my own journey. My “fog” lasted 2 yrs. From the time of her passing till 2 yrs later when I had to start the grieving process because I had checked all the way out. He does have a rough journey ahead. Therapy coupled with a support group is what saved my life. Thank you for the reminder of just how far I’ve come😊
Sending you so much love and light. Thank you for sharing this will ABSOLUTELY help others who read it. The world is very grateful that you are still here! 🩷🩷🩷
me too i hope she stays. im not a mean person, I love ppl, but in something like this, I feel there should be a death penalty sentence. if she doesn't get it on earth she will answer on judgement day
No one made this women drink to the level she was at. She did that to herself, if your at a company party don’t drink if you plan to drive . The drunks never die in these situations. It is always some special to everyone. My heart goes out to Sam’s husband. May Sam RIP. Forever !
@@writtenhousesecurity6499 no it’s a bad idea to drink and drive… also that area is known for people on golf carts. I have been there myself it’s only a 25 mile an hour zone. Pedestrians always have the right away anyway. There are different places around there that rent golf carts to beach goers. If the street is 35 miles per hour or less, you can ride a golf cart on it at Folly Beach.
So true, I'm still tears writing this. I pray that she is punished to the full extent of the law. Even tho the others are being sued for their part, she needs to be held accountable for her actions. She could have said no. Praying for this Sam's husband and family for peace and comfort and healin.😪🕊🙏🕊
I think if I lost my soul mate on my wedding day I'd be ready to take my own life. I could never have the strength this man has to go on tv and speak. It's crazy the respect I have for him I wish there was something we could do to ease his pain but I know we can't. The game of life, True love and tragic death💯
Dont say that, he is young he can find another "love of his life" and still have a great life. It's a tragedy, very hard to bear but you can overcome it.
@@Alejojojo6 don't think you understand what the love of your life is. It's not multiple people. Obviously you can love anyone but there is one "love of your life" not everyone is like you and can just forget someone they cared about like that
My 24 year old son was killed with a gunshot that blew his head, it's been a year and no support if it wasn't for my 8 year old son I would've took my life for sure. The pain is unbearable I cry daily.
He has suffered a horrible loss as well as her family what a horrible tragedy. My heart goes out to all of you. She looked like such absolutely beautiful woman. Bless you all.
It’s just incredible how life shows you immense joy and happiness, and immense pain and sorrow in the span of a single day. He was married in the morning, and by evening, a widower. She had her life at the start of the day, and by the end, she lost her life.
My heart goes out to this guy. I can't even imagine the pain he is in. Their whole life was ahead of them and taken away in an instant. Prayers for him and her family.
This was truly heartbreaking too. It happened to another couple who just got married on their wedding day a few years ago. They was leaving the church when their car was hit and bride and groom died.
It's so hard to watch this video without getting teary eyed and choked up. Aric seems like such a great guy. Prayers for him and his recovery, as well as Sam's family and friends. And anyone else who is also in this same situation.
I can see your point, but you also have to think that there are other perspectives, some people watching get to be aware of the risks of drinking and driving, also I believe there are people who are watching that genuinely cares about them and that are praying for them, and trying to help as they can, I used to see the worst in people and society as well, but believe me there are two sides to everything, we just see what we want to see
As someone young who also suddenly became widowed 7 months ago, I want to say to him I am so so sorry. For me it was traumatic too. It was a terrible shock, to suddenly lose the love of my life and my best friend in one life-changing evening. I see his tears and I feel those from experience, and I just want to say, you're not alone in your grief. There are many of us out here. Too many unfortunately, but we are here. After the initial shock, when you are ready, my one piece of advice is that it feels good to connect with other young widows/widowers. They've either walked this dark road before, or are currently walking it, and have alot of support to give. Not only do you lose your spouse and best friend, but you lose all your hopes and dreams and few will understand that specific situation and your specific feelings and thoughts like other young widows/widowers. I was also surprised that when it happened to me, that a few older adult aquaintances that I knew reached out to me to tell me theor own tragic stories of their first wives or husbands who had died decades prior. Information I was totally unaware of actually. All of these stories of other's experiences can't make the pain less, but they can help you feel less alone in your grief. It's a club no one wants to be a part of. I'm sending him so much love and may the universe carry him through this initial shock to calmer days and weeks. ❤
Stephanie; that was the best advice ever. Aric experienced the loss of the love of his life on their wedding day. It was also the loss of all of his dreams, hopes, and aspirations. It is a good idea to seek solace and help from others, and become a part of a group whose experienced similar hardships. This is not a time to be alone. Aric will always hold his bride in his heart, but in time this experience will become easier to manage. I will pray for Aric and all of you who are still currently dealing this kind of tragedy. With deepest love and sympathy, ❤️🙏
Bless your heart. Just remember. This life may seem long, but it's only a blink of an eye once our time comes, and I believe you will see him again some day and that when your time comes, he will be preparing a "Welcome home" for you. Very sorry for your loss. May God bless you and keep you. Always look to the cross.
This will change him forever. Grieving will take years. His wife did not want to die but was killed so carelessly. I hope he gets justice and heals eventually
My friends fiancé died in bed next to her unexpectedly a week before their wedding. It’s been a few years now and she is not the same person. I feel so bad for her.
I can't even imagine him even being this composed to give sn interview. Thanks for sharing your feelings with this interview. Everyone who heard of this tragedy 3 weeks ago has you in their prayers. Hang on to the memories. My heart breaks for you.
Ugh, I went to school with Sam. She was such a sweet person. When I first heard about this tragedy, I absolutely could not believe this was THE Samantha Miller I grew up with. So much love to all of her friends and family ❤️ I'm so sorry
This is so beyond heartbreaking. He lost his wife on their wedding night because of someone else’s ruthless and careless decision. My thoughts and prayers are with Sam’s husband, family, and loved ones. Rest in peace Sam. 💗
@debussy843 It might have been in the country. But, the girl was driving 3x faster than the speed limit, so she's definitely at fault! Especially adding being drunk! If she did try to not hit them, her reflexes would've been slower. & she was driving too fast anyway to swerve out of the way or stop.
@@debussy843 It is a BEACH town. Crowded Beach town... The question that should have been asked is WHY? . WHY was she SPEEDING on a crowded 15 miles speed limit. that clearly posted & usually crowded with beach goers, tourist and residents walking on the side of the beach road.........WHY did it happen to her? She made it happen and the consequences are hers.. ..
Resorts sometimes have access streets or short distance to travel by golf carts. And they will have vehicles drive on them too. Distracted driving you don’t realize the vehicle is picking up speed and when you mix alcohol 3 times whatever or even drugs you don’t have control of anything. Not even your reflexes or quick reactions. And at night. Someone saw her in that condition at allowed her to leave. She could have hit someone even on a highway or grocery store parking lot.
It is a beach community and golf carts are allowed to drive on the roads. They had just left their wedding on the beach and were being transported back to the house where they were staying.
Drunk drivers steal SOOO MUCH. This breaks my heart. My mom was killed by a drunk driver before I was married or had children. I call it generational theft! And to be honest I don’t see it as an accident b/c you KNOW beforehand what the consequences COULD BE of getting drunk. I see it as an intentional crime. These horrible crimes are not taken seriously enough and devastate families FOREVER! I hope this man continues to heal and seek justice. My most sincere condolences.
I knew someone who was killed in a hit and run by a drunk driver. He was a dear friend of my family and had a family of his own with children and foster kids. Drinking while driving is one of the most narcissistic things you can do - risking the lives of others for the sake of pleasure and convenience.
If you hear how the drunk crotch goblin talks to her parents and boyfriend from jail it quickly becomes clear why she is the trash that she is. Trash breeds trash.
I agree I get mad at drunk drivers.. I got hit with one while I was 8months pregnant my son now 10 years old is fine but drunk drivers ugh! Sorry I despise them
“She’s the type that walks in a room”…. Then he starts crying he seems to kind of forget she’s passed away. So very sad & tragic. This is truly heartbreaking 💔
@@superwomanmeI don’t know how he did this interview. I know I couldn’t. The world can never understand his grief unless something very similar happened to them. I wasn’t comfortable with the reporter asking questions
@filmtheory783 because YOU weren't married to that woman, he deserves happiness again after his wife got killed by a b!tch!! Everyone can be happy, go find love then, his happiness isn't yours as you are not him.
I did too. Those video clips show sheer raw happiness. I can only imagine the pain he feels replaying those again and again just to see her smile. Heartbreaking.
That's why I'm live alone.I couldn't cope such a situation.Maybe I'm weak, selfish and to much fearful but I don't care what other people think about it.
@@himbuxterrafux9525 nothing wrong with that if you choose to be alone that's your choice and your content like that. What's good for one may not be good for the other just have to find your fit.
@@DebShort1 James O'Barr(The Crow) said once:"You can wake up next to your wife 1000x, but it can also only be 10x". Nothing in this world, especially today, is guaranteed.
Lord I can’t even IMAGINE what he’s feeling and experiencing. From having the best day of your life to the utterly worst day in a blink of an eye is beyond me. I sure pray he and the family can gain comfort and hope.
This is gut wrenching. That drunk woman should have to watch this video over and over for the rest of her life! My heart aches for this man and all of the family and friends who are suffering such a huge loss.
@@automnejoy5308 I feel for the drunk girl too. Her life is also ruined, and her parents. I think the guilt of ending someone’s life would eat me alive 😞
My God! This man’s grief is palpable! Even the reporter seemed upset! Such a tragic, awful, avoidable accident! Prayers for everyone but esp Aric! 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
Aric, if you happen to read this, I just want to say I’m so sorry for your loss brother. I can’t even begin to understand the sheer amount of anger and grief you may have. Although your beautiful wife isn’t here anymore physically, just know she is with you forever within your heart and will help you throughout the rest of yours. Sending my upmost condolences to you and your family during this difficult time. ❤💐🙏🕊️
I don't normally get emotional or react to videos and stories on youtube - but this was absolutely heartbreaking. My heart goes out to Aric and his family for their loss. Such a senseless tragedy. I hope this woman is punished to the full extent of the law and the lawsuits be successful at sending a message that this just can't be tolerated in society.
How about you actually do something, anything to prevent a drunk driver in the future instead of feeling bad and praying for a few seconds? That would be infinitely more effective than your thoughts and prayers. Probably what Jesus would do too.
@@jawamasterAs hard as it to believe, God cannot control people because he chooses not to. He wants people to come to him freely, because that is real love. Love is not forced upon, it is voluntarily given. And prayer is powerful when you pray to God in faith and with a sincere heart. You should try it sometime.
@@findingjesusministries4783 Yes I’m sure it was gods intention for thousands of unvaccinated people to die from covid, because they thought their faith would protect them. Religion is a great tool for community and purpose but it also makes people lazy. Moral-laziness included. Jesus would not want his followers being idiots because they think they have the protection of god… unless killing his dumb followers was his plan all along?
@@findingjesusministries4783 My point was being logical in your helpful intentions protects and saves infinitely more people than a prayer. You should try it sometime
Oh my lord, I've been in that spot. Hit by a drunk (as a pedestrian), my significant other died. Waking up and asking where that person is and being told they died is devastating. It will stick with me everyday. I feel for you man. It's a long road ahead. This will forever be a part of you.😢❤
I'm so sorry that happened to you, I can't imagine the pain you were in, nor the thought of even forgiving the person who did it. I hope you find peace eventually and you're able to live a good life for yourself, but I know that experience never goes away
I’m so sorry you and he both had to endure something so painful for such ignorant reasons on irrational people’s parts. I send you all the love I could offer, I’ll be thinking and sharing your story. Thoughts and love with you.
This couple looked so happy and very loving on their best day. It’s unimaginable that their lives were turned upside down due to yet another drunk driver. Drunk drivers never learn and should never be given a second chance once they take an innocent person’s life. Everyone involved will be held accountable. I hope he is able to heal his heart. I’m so sorry.
@@gsdmomb530 I've always heard that drunk drivers with the amount of alcohol in their blood system relaxes a person's muscles not sure what that means when they crash into a car. I remember hearing that years ago .
Some people listening to or going through grief or something heartbreaking can’t help but smile. It’s a way of not breaking down. You can see the reporter has tears in her eyes too, but she smiles with compassion as not to breakdown
That is what I do when I am trying to not break down. I have been dealing with the after effects of a very aggressive form of cancer for the past 8 years and back in 2020 I ended up losing my right eye. My best friend knew my medical history and that I was going to be seeing my surgeon about next steps, so when the appointment was over, she asked how it went. I had to keep pausing to try and bite back my tears, and during those pauses, I was smiling. She knew it was bad news because of the pain written on my face despite the smile. It is just how some people cope with traumatic situations and how they try to keep their composure.
I'm honestly never emotional but seeing this guy like this hits pretty damn hard. How do you go on when the reason for hope dies like that... your selected future... man i wish he finds purpose in these rough times.
@@joannas4057 she smiled when he was recounting the good memories. Seemed genuine to me. I imagine it would be hard to remain professional while trying to keep it together emotionally.
Am I the only one who wants to slap that smile off the interview’s face? The poor guy just suffered a terrible loss, could barely keep it together, and she’s sitting there with a smug look as if she’s enjoying it.
I was hit by a drunk driver. All I can say is, you have no idea how irresponsible you were. Not only did you put my life at risk but you and others on the road. I lost a lot that day, my car- job promotion, and strength in my spine but I’m lucky to be alive. All I can is, please be safe on the road everyone. It took one second for my entire life to flip upside down. I’m lucky to be alive. In this case my heart is broken for this man, his wife- and the entire family/ friends that had to hear the bad news. ❤️
It's heartbreaking to know how difficult the world can really be. I truly hope justice will be served soon, because God knows this shouldn't have happened to such a beautiful couple. I'm glad he can still feel her nearby in their home. So he can feel the comfort he needs the most while processing this😭❤️
It’s so gross when people say things like: “I hope justice will be served soon, because God knows this shouldn’t have happened to such a beautiful couple.” Wtf? So if they weren’t attractive it would be ok that they were put through this experience? Of if they weren’t picture perfect it would be ok if it took a while for justice to play out? I mean, what the hell?? If you feel the need to mention their attractiveness, fine- I don’t care what they looked like- this shouldn’t happen to ANYONE.
@Nichole M personally, I don't get why you're targeting this so much. As for beautiful, there's different ways to describe beauty outside of looks. In this case, I am referring to their love. As for justice, I don't see why you're acting this way, either. If anything bad happened to anyone in that matter, wouldn't you want the things to be served right? You're free to your own opinion, but I suggest that for the future, you spend a little more time analyzing something before making assumptions. Have a good rest of your day.
@@FortitudeRonin why do you Christian’s think “ god” does everything? If so he did a shitty job at protecting his kids at his house in Nashville. That’s proof he’s not real and you’re just brainwashed
Heartbreaking, absolutely heartbreaking. One life stolen and others broken and the young woman who is ultimately responsible has to live with what she’s done and she must pay for it. All because of what? Alcohol and peer pressure? Never ever worth it!
@PP 100% - much harsher. I'm so sorry for his grief but him showing it out here... raw, maybe it will stop at least one person from doing what this girl did. Maybe it will stop many!
And it didn’t end. She’s up there buddy, dancing in those sparklers and so proud of you for being so strong. 💕 Take care of yourself and give yourself plenty of grace. Praying for you ❤
Gosh, this poor man. My heart breaks for him and her family. I couldn’t even imagine. Everyone responsible for that drunk driver needs to be held accountable!
@@segsb7085 I am in no way saying the drunk driver isn't responsible, but you can't tell me everyone who plied her with alcohol and then watched her drive away impaired didn't play a hand in this.
@@CoCoGemel I can tell you that because she is a fully grown adult woman who made the CHOICE to drink irresponsibly...nobody plied her with anything. She is wholly and fully responsible for her actions. Why do we always want to blame everybody else? Where you with her? How do you know people ""watched" her drive away? How do you know she isn't someone who can hold her liquor and it was not possible to tell if she was drunk or not? You may think it makes sense now but you wait until employers and innocent bystanders start getting sued and found responsible for moronic people like this...a lot of times, we dont think of the bigger picture and want to punish everyone instead of focusing all our attention on the perpetrator... If anyone should be held responsible it is the legal system that allows someone like her with multiple drunk driving felonies to keep her license. How about starting with harsher punishments for first time drunk driving offense...why isn't there a zero tolerance rule? Why should someone be given multiple chances until something like this happens?
I got incredibly intoxicated last weekend and the whole time the biggest thing on my mind was calling an Uber no matter what. While I do understand that some bartenders need to keep a better eye out for overly intoxicated people... ADULTS need to be responsible. Nobody is going to hold your hand and make sure you make good decisions.
As a former bartender in college I would not serve anyone who was stumbling in for a drink and cut many off. I have asked for keys and called cabs. I have asked can I call someone for you. This is before Uber and cell phones.
@@thebadgerette69 I love to hear that! That's awesome! That likely made a huge impact. I don't understand how she could get to twice, let alone 3 times the legal limit with nobody noticing. Of course, it's likely someone brought her drinks to her.
Getting super drunk takes away your ability to make responsible decisions. A responsible adult would never allow themselves to get incredibly intoxicated.
@@hanzdoingthings847 shouldn’t be getting drunk in the first place. It’s clowns like you that cause innocent people to die. What happens the day you can’t think sensibly? The Bible says to be sober minded, there is a clear reason. Alcohol is a literal spirit (possession). You cannot control yourself whatsoever.
This story is constantly on my heart 😔💔 I can’t even imagine losing the love of your life, literally minutes after marrying them. I really hope he finds peace.
The reality of it is, it’s very unlikely he’ll feel anything but hopelessness for a very long time. There isn’t much you can do to bring yourself back up so quickly after a situation like this.
While this is unbelievably tragic.. I find peace in knowing her last day was spent being the HAPPIEST DAY of her life, and she was surrounded by friends and family. She was beautiful. My heart breaks for this family and this man.
That's not right. From the moment the groom was happy and got married to his love of his life three weeks ago to the groom becoming a widow in that short amount of time. It breaks my heart severely for their families. 😢💔
Stupid drunk drivers I hope whoever was the freakin driver think about the damage he or she did and spend it for the rest of their life in jail forever
The woman interviewing him may have had a “smile” on her face BUT let me tell ya….she was fighting back the tears the entire time! You could see the tears welling up…and even at the very end of this clip when she said “he wanted to do this interview so the world could know the Sam he fell in love with” you could tell she was choking up! I wouldn’t be able to do this without bawling my eyes out with him!
This brought tears to my eyes. I am so sorry for his loss. I hope he gets justice for this senseless act. When will people learn that you cannot drink and drive!! My prayers are with him and his family.
This is so heartbreaking. My cousin died due to a drunk drive and she was planning her wedding. She just left her Mom house wedding planning not far from her mother's house her and finance were hit by a drunk driver she died at the scene, and her fiance survived. I know his pain. My cousin was buried in her wedding dress. She was an angel just like her. 😢
So heartbreaking. I'm so sorry. My co-worker and his new bride were driving down I-95 on their way to Florida for their honeymoon when a drunk driver drove off an overpass just above them as they were approaching and landed on their vehicle. My co worker's new bride was killed instantly, my co worker left w/the life long effects from the physical injuries he sustained and the trauma of losing his new bride on what should have been the happiest day of their life.
Tragic, all of these recollections are just so unbelievably horrendous to even imagine. My son-in-law died instantly from a brain bleed and our lives have never been the same. Our family is broken beyond belief. I understand all the pain.
Omg this is heartbreaking. I've never seen someone interviewed in such raw pain, probably only agreed to do it to show people how dangerous and real this is.
I can't even imagine what he's feeling. My heart goes out to him and his family and I hope the person responsible will pay for her actions. Absolutely heartbreaking.
My heart aches for this man. I’ve experienced the loss of a spouse. The pain is crushing. This situation multiplies that pain exponentially. OMG, I am so sorry for your loss…
I sincerely hope and pray that this man finds peace and happiness again. When I was about the driver's age of 25, I was at a 4th of July party at my brother's inlaws and got very drunk. The people hosting the party hid my car keys and made me stay there. In my drunken state of mind I didn't understand, but I thank God for them doing that.
This is heartbreaking with so much grief beyond words. I was brought to tears by this interview. I’m so glad he got to remember his wife in all her beauty, love, and joy. I hope he finds comfort in their home. Praying for swift justice and healing.
@@mwpierre how do you know they also didn't lose someone close? I can feel his pain radiate through the screen myself. But losing my youngest son, I ALSO can feel his pain at such a devastating loss...
@@mwpierre you have no idea what people are going through or have been through especially behind a screen and when it comes to the loss of loved ones! Remember to always be kind because you never know what someone is dealing with!
@@BlackPantherCrime you are right. His pain is real and it bothers me when people presume to understand. It takes away from his unique experience. The day was both the happiest and worst day of his life. How can any of us understand? Still, I don’t know what others are going through. If you are reading this, I hope you are blessed beyond your imagination.
This was excruciating to watch. I’m sitting here balling. 😭 This poor man ~ I can’t even begin to imagine the grief and pain he’s experiencing. Prayers for him and all of their family members. 🙏🏻
This poor man is so devastated you can see the change in his face. It’s like he’s aged 10 years because of the pain. My condolences 💐
It's photoshop.
So sad
@@michaellim4165 That's a horrible thing to say!
@@tamitribbiani7907 He's a troll looking for attention, so stop giving it to him.
Also he broke several bones in his face and probably hasn't slept.
The raw look of grief on this man’s face…Man prayers up to you and your family
That's a broken man holding together the shattered piece's of his life
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💔
@@tiediegymnasts920 he will move on, he does not look a pansy
U think prayers are gonna help him? Where was god when it happened?
Its the alcohol, a lot of people lose all their wits and senses on alchol, crazy to think about how many millions of people fall to alcohol addiction and thousands and thousands of people die from od or drunk driving getting others killed, there is so much shit that comes with alcohol, dont get me wrong, i love myself a cold beer or two, but alcohol is a big driving factor in ruining yours and others life, number 1 drug that kills people is alcohol, plus getting drunk just sucks overall, getting drunk is like getting hit in the head while losing 50% of your braincells, overated as fuck
This poor guy is lost. You can tell in his eyes, he’s lost everything. So tragic that this accidents are so common now a days. Bless her soul and his recovery. Prayers to all involved.
Oh, yeah, because prayers totally do anything at all. 🙄
@ajzombie10 NOT an accident! Did they accidentally get drunk? Murder! So acceptable for people to drive drunk! Yes, I've lost people to THIS. Slap on the hand -every time! And NONE were 1st time offenders
Hes not lost. A victim is never lost, his soul will live on forever in Gods hands.
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@@user-pt1cz4ot1e 👎🏽👺👹👿😈
Her last moments were the happiest of her life. I hope the legal process is swift and the family can focus on healing.
@@NobodyHereButUsChickens lol im pretty sure he is talking about the wedding genius
Idk she might’ve not died on impact and she could’ve slowly and painfully bled out with multiple fractures. You never know
Apparently the mom of the bride is now challenging the validity of their marriage and trying to sue because she wants the daughter’s estate which, from the lawsuits is millions of dollars.
@@JordanGonzalez1996Do you know who won ?
@@ButchersNailsEnjoyer Why would you even say that? You're a sick person!
I can’t even fathom the pain he’s experiencing everyday without his wife by his side. It’s so heartbreaking
there are tragedies and deaths like these everyday, yes, everyday so settle down Suzie with your overly cringy emoting.
@@fitnesspoint2006 wow you’re heartless and please don’t assume people’s ethnicity just because they’re giving condolences. This is painful and I understand what it’s like to lose someone important to us. This comment wasn’t asking for anyone’s opinion it was just me put out my once again condolences and I’ll do that for anyone and everyone who has lost someone cause even though people come and go in this world that doesn’t mean people have to suck it up so please leave people TF alone
@@fitnesspoint2006esus Christ dude have a heart “StAtIsTicAlLy tHeRe ArE tRaGeDiEs LiKe ThIs EvErYdAy” -🤓
@@fitnesspoint2006oohhhh who's an edgy boy? Yes, you are. You're such an edgy boy 😒
Fake news
This is probably the most heartbreaking I have every seen. The happiest day of your life and in a matter of seconds it's all gone. Prayers for this grieving man.
You don't get out much, do you?
@@hairlossxpert4493 ???
😞😞😞🥲🥲
I actually couldn't watch it.......
@@hairlossxpert4493 WTF?
If you can’t feel this man’s grief you’re not human. Aric, I pray for your family’s healing and abundant restoration for your broken heart.
Oh I felt it, definetly felt it.
Why would you even say that?
@@eddiedettling9322i agree. like what a stupid thing to say. when did anyone say they couldn’t feel his pain
Prayers sent each and every day
No one needs your ego prayers they ain’t changing anything.
This is beyond heartbreaking. A few hours earlier they were thinking about the rest of their lives, and hours later she’s gone forever… So devastating. Sickening. I hope that drunk driver NEVER gets out of prison.
They will after about five years.
@@Chris-r1g5t It's disgusting. Drunk drivers are pure evil.
There are some people who drink too much, get into a car to drive, and don't realize what major harm they can cause. This girl should feel remorse and guilt for the rest of her life.
@@Chris-r1g5t Yep, but they shouldn't......and after she gets out she should also have her license revoked PERMANTLEY
Yeah. Anyone who could go forty over and have a blood alcohol level three times over is clearly lacking in basic morality. What a waste! Ugh. I feel so so sorry for this man who lost his wife. God bless! This is heartbreaking.
I lost half my family in a tragic car accident a week before Christmas 2013. My significant other (28 years old) and his little brother who lived with us (18 years old) gone in the blink of an eye. I became widowed at the ripe old age of 26 years old and left with our 3 year old daughter to raise on my own. It’s a hell I wouldn’t wish on my worse enemy and it’s truly a miracle I survived that time in my life.
Some advice I can pass along…The first year you will be in a fog, just going through the daily motions while everyone else’s lives move forward. There’s a name for this first year and it’s called “widows fog”. They say not to make any big life changing decisions or even small ones during this time because your brain has been through so much trauma, physically, emotionally, mentally. Therefore our brains are just not functioning like normal. I believe that fog is almost a form of protection from the excruciating pain. Enjoy that first year because after that fog lifts and everyone around you has moved on from the tragedy, that’s when it really hits the absolute hardest. That’s when you realize every day that goes forward into the future takes you further away from the one you love and all of sudden you wish you could go back to that first year just to be closer to her. 💗
Men grieve differently from woman. There’s no timeline to grief, no steps you must go through, no right or wrong way. Some find companionship quickly after, alot of widows often seek out the comfort of someone who was close to the deceased one as well. Some like myself, choose to still be alone 10 years later. All of it is okay. I highly suggest going on Facebook and joining some of young widowers groups. Those groups saved my life early on in a lot of ways because nobody else can truly understand the nightmare unless they’ve been through it themselves. And it helps tremendously to be connected to others going through similar and just knowing you’re not alone in your pain.
The bad news is you have a long journey ahead but the good news is and as much as I didn’t want to hear it at the time, one day in future there will be a light at the end of the very dark tunnel. The constant pain will lessen and eventually turn into a dull ache that ebbs and flows like the ocean waves. Some days those waves will get so high and literally leave you gasping for air. Other days those waves might be calm and still. Don’t fight against them. You just gotta ride them out.
In the end, the man you will become after trekking this journey will be one of uttermost strength, perseverance, truly indestructible, and given the rare gift to see and appreciate life in a way most others can’t. 10 years later and I can finally say that I wouldn’t be who I am today if I didn’t survive such a tragedy in my life. In some strange way, it revealed me to myself and I wouldn’t change that for anything. 💪🏼
Hang in there! 🤍
I said a prayer for you. Even now because I know you’re doing better but I’m sure you still have those moments. I loved the advice you gave. Continue to be strong ❤️
@Tara Von….You explained this BEAUTIFULLY! That is an almost exact synopsis of what lies ahead. My condolences to you for your family as well as to this Groom for His Beloved Wife. I lost my daughter 8 yrs ago at 3 months and as I was reading your comment, I was time-lining my own journey. My “fog” lasted 2 yrs. From the time of her passing till 2 yrs later when I had to start the grieving process because I had checked all the way out. He does have a rough journey ahead. Therapy coupled with a support group is what saved my life. Thank you for the reminder of just how far I’ve come😊
Many many blessings to you❤❤❤❤
Sending you so much love and light. Thank you for sharing this will ABSOLUTELY help others who read it. The world is very grateful that you are still here!
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You’re an angel for this.. it’s thoughtful and actually educational.
This is so heartbreaking. I hope she never gets out of jail. She's a danger to society
me too i hope she stays. im not a mean person, I love ppl, but in something like this, I feel there should be a death penalty sentence. if she doesn't get it on earth she will answer on judgement day
An eye for an eye. Strap her to the back of a golf cart and ram a pickup into her at 90 mph.
No one made this women drink to the level she was at. She did that to herself, if your at a company party don’t drink if you plan to drive .
The drunks never die in these situations. It is always some special to everyone.
My heart goes out to Sam’s husband.
May Sam RIP. Forever !
Lot of drama here . Bad idea to use a golf cart at night on a street
@@writtenhousesecurity6499 no it’s a bad idea to drink and drive… also that area is known for people on golf carts. I have been there myself it’s only a 25 mile an hour zone. Pedestrians always have the right away anyway. There are different places around there that rent golf carts to beach goers. If the street is 35 miles per hour or less, you can ride a golf cart on it at Folly Beach.
I’m crying watching this. Even the interviewer seemed teared up. You can just feel the pain through the screen. How could someone be so reckless? 😢
So true, I'm still tears writing this. I pray that she is punished to the full extent of the law. Even tho the others are being sued for their part, she needs to be held accountable for her actions. She could have said no.
Praying for this Sam's husband and family for peace and comfort and healin.😪🕊🙏🕊
I think if I lost my soul mate on my wedding day I'd be ready to take my own life. I could never have the strength this man has to go on tv and speak. It's crazy the respect I have for him I wish there was something we could do to ease his pain but I know we can't. The game of life, True love and tragic death💯
the same I would be taking my own life.
Dont say that, he is young he can find another "love of his life" and still have a great life. It's a tragedy, very hard to bear but you can overcome it.
@@devilblueduke No. Pls, dont say that.
@@Alejojojo6 don't think you understand what the love of your life is. It's not multiple people. Obviously you can love anyone but there is one "love of your life" not everyone is like you and can just forget someone they cared about like that
My 24 year old son was killed with a gunshot that blew his head, it's been a year and no support if it wasn't for my 8 year old son I would've took my life for sure. The pain is unbearable I cry daily.
He has suffered a horrible loss as well as her family what a horrible tragedy. My heart goes out to all of you. She looked like such absolutely beautiful woman. Bless you all.
It’s just incredible how life shows you immense joy and happiness, and immense pain and sorrow in the span of a single day. He was married in the morning, and by evening, a widower. She had her life at the start of the day, and by the end, she lost her life.
Gods plan
@@EE-ie9gm True. Doesn't make it easy when it feels so unfair. I think he's brave to face the media when he's still grieving
more like two hours
@@PussnBoot2516 was being sarcastic
@@EE-ie9gm lmao some people dont get the sarcasm 😂😂
I’m a stranger and I’m absolutely heartbroken by this, I can’t even begin to process what he must be going through. There are no words…
So incredibly heartbreaking. What a huge loss for this man and their families. The grief is unimaginable.
My heart goes out to this guy. I can't even imagine the pain he is in. Their whole life was ahead of them and taken away in an instant. Prayers for him and her family.
This was truly heartbreaking too. It happened to another couple who just got married on their wedding day a few years ago. They was leaving the church when their car was hit and bride and groom died.
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God, this is unbearable. Please,God, give this man strength.
Please Lord !!
Gods will
He was so focused on the part where the lord giveth that he overlooked the part where god taketh
Yes! Please God. 😔🙏🏾
Silent, speechless. Just praying
It's so hard to watch this video without getting teary eyed and choked up. Aric seems like such a great guy. Prayers for him and his recovery, as well as Sam's family and friends. And anyone else who is also in this same situation.
That's why they call the show "Uplift"? Jeez.
The fact that we as people are publicly putting this mans pain on TV as entertainment and for an interview is sick. We as society need to be better.
I can see your point, but you also have to think that there are other perspectives, some people watching get to be aware of the risks of drinking and driving, also I believe there are people who are watching that genuinely cares about them and that are praying for them, and trying to help as they can, I used to see the worst in people and society as well, but believe me there are two sides to everything, we just see what we want to see
He did agree to do the interview
As someone young who also suddenly became widowed 7 months ago, I want to say to him I am so so sorry. For me it was traumatic too. It was a terrible shock, to suddenly lose the love of my life and my best friend in one life-changing evening. I see his tears and I feel those from experience, and I just want to say, you're not alone in your grief. There are many of us out here. Too many unfortunately, but we are here. After the initial shock, when you are ready, my one piece of advice is that it feels good to connect with other young widows/widowers. They've either walked this dark road before, or are currently walking it, and have alot of support to give. Not only do you lose your spouse and best friend, but you lose all your hopes and dreams and few will understand that specific situation and your specific feelings and thoughts like other young widows/widowers. I was also surprised that when it happened to me, that a few older adult aquaintances that I knew reached out to me to tell me theor own tragic stories of their first wives or husbands who had died decades prior. Information I was totally unaware of actually. All of these stories of other's experiences can't make the pain less, but they can help you feel less alone in your grief. It's a club no one wants to be a part of. I'm sending him so much love and may the universe carry him through this initial shock to calmer days and weeks. ❤
Stephanie; that was the best advice ever. Aric experienced the loss of the love of his life on their wedding day.
It was also the loss of all of his dreams, hopes, and aspirations. It is a good idea to seek solace and help from others, and become a part of a group whose experienced similar hardships. This is not a time to be alone. Aric will always hold his bride in his heart, but in time this experience will become easier to manage. I will pray for Aric and all of you who are still currently dealing this kind of tragedy. With deepest love and sympathy, ❤️🙏
Bless your heart.
Just remember. This life may seem long, but it's only a blink of an eye once our time comes, and I believe you will see him again some day and that when your time comes, he will be preparing a "Welcome home" for you.
Very sorry for your loss.
May God bless you and keep you. Always look to the cross.
Love to you too. ❤ hoping you are OK ❤
Stephanie What’s your instagram ?
Speechless …..😞❤️
This will change him forever. Grieving will take years. His wife did not want to die but was killed so carelessly. I hope he gets justice and heals eventually
I agree I don't know how you can ever get over a tragedy like that. Went from probably the best day of his life to a nightmare.
My friends fiancé died in bed next to her unexpectedly a week before their wedding. It’s been a few years now and she is not the same person. I feel so bad for her.
@@double_joseph327 that's so sad. I lost my husband and I struggled to recover for a full decade.
@@nomsadladla7936 I think healing time depends so much on whether or not the person leans on God to help them through it or not.
I can't even imagine him even being this composed to give sn interview. Thanks for sharing your feelings with this interview. Everyone who heard of this tragedy 3 weeks ago has you in their prayers. Hang on to the memories. My heart breaks for you.
While his smiled and chuckled so wrong 😮
Probably still in shock
@@joansmith6844He was in shock. And you don't get to dictate how people grieve.
Ugh, I went to school with Sam. She was such a sweet person. When I first heard about this tragedy, I absolutely could not believe this was THE Samantha Miller I grew up with. So much love to all of her friends and family ❤️ I'm so sorry
I’m so sorry for your loss! That sucks to lose someone like that.
She is not a body anymore, but she is.
Thats a crock of shit
@@loonycushion The Fuck kinda comment is that 😒
I'm sorry for your loss. She very much seemed like a beautiful human being. My condolences from Canada 🇨🇦 ❤
This is so beyond heartbreaking. He lost his wife on their wedding night because of someone else’s ruthless and careless decision. My thoughts and prayers are with Sam’s husband, family, and loved ones. Rest in peace Sam. 💗
Why were they driving a golf cart on the road? 🤷♂️
@debussy843 It might have been in the country. But, the girl was driving 3x faster than the speed limit, so she's definitely at fault! Especially adding being drunk!
If she did try to not hit them, her reflexes would've been slower. & she was driving too fast anyway to swerve out of the way or stop.
@@debussy843 It is a BEACH town. Crowded Beach town... The question that should have been asked is WHY? . WHY was she SPEEDING on a crowded 15 miles speed limit. that clearly posted & usually crowded with beach goers, tourist and residents walking on the side of the beach road.........WHY did it happen to her? She made it happen and the consequences are hers..
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Resorts sometimes have access streets or short distance to travel by golf carts. And they will have vehicles drive on them too. Distracted driving you don’t realize the vehicle is picking up speed and when you mix alcohol 3 times whatever or even drugs you don’t have control of anything. Not even your reflexes or quick reactions. And at night. Someone saw her in that condition at allowed her to leave. She could have hit someone even on a highway or grocery store parking lot.
It is a beach community and golf carts are allowed to drive on the roads. They had just left their wedding on the beach and were being transported back to the house where they were staying.
Drunk drivers steal
SOOO MUCH. This breaks my heart. My mom was killed by a drunk driver before I was married or had children. I call it generational theft! And to be honest I don’t see it as an accident b/c you KNOW beforehand what the consequences COULD BE of getting drunk. I see it as an intentional crime. These horrible crimes are not taken seriously enough and devastate families FOREVER! I hope this man continues to heal and seek justice. My most sincere condolences.
Fully agree. I'm sorry for your loss.
The demon drink ruins lives
I knew someone who was killed in a hit and run by a drunk driver. He was a dear friend of my family and had a family of his own with children and foster kids. Drinking while driving is one of the most narcissistic things you can do - risking the lives of others for the sake of pleasure and convenience.
If you hear how the drunk crotch goblin talks to her parents and boyfriend from jail it quickly becomes clear why she is the trash that she is. Trash breeds trash.
I agree I get mad at drunk drivers.. I got hit with one while I was 8months pregnant my son now 10 years old is fine but drunk drivers ugh! Sorry I despise them
“She’s the type that walks in a room”…. Then he starts crying he seems to kind of forget she’s passed away. So very sad & tragic. This is truly heartbreaking 💔
The grief is so fresh that he hasn't processed her passing yet. So freaking sad
@@superwomanmeI don’t know how he did this interview. I know I couldn’t. The world can never understand his grief unless something very similar happened to them. I wasn’t comfortable with the reporter asking questions
We all are the type to walk in a room.
A lot of individuals within grief slip into the present tense so easily because their loved one can still possibly be very present to them.
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I thought the same
Absolutely heartbreaking to see. You just want to give this guy a major hug. Hope he finds happiness again one day...
I absolutely do want to give him a hug you're right about that, it's horrible what happened, I remember crying for him
i feel the opposite i hope he never finds happiness welcome to the club
@filmtheory783 why??? He deserves happiness since a stupid woman took his wife away, because she drove drunk!! She doesn't deserve happiness though!!
@@annabennett5521 she did the right thing why should he get what i want and steal MY happiness?
@filmtheory783 because YOU weren't married to that woman, he deserves happiness again after his wife got killed by a b!tch!! Everyone can be happy, go find love then, his happiness isn't yours as you are not him.
The fact that her car looked like that after hitting a golf cart is insane lucky any of them survived
Words cannot express my anger at this drunk driver and my deepest condolences to you sir.😢
Yea. If it was me I can't say I wouldn't have taken justice into my own hands.
I’m so angry. Like so so angry
Im crying my eyes out watching this. This is the absolute most tragic thing. My condolences to Aric, and Sam's family. Sending my love
I did too. Those video clips show sheer raw happiness. I can only imagine the pain he feels replaying those again and again just to see her smile. Heartbreaking.
He needs to go to a strip club and find another girl marry
This interviewer needs to get fired. Unbelievable how she is smiling when he recounts this tragedy!
How do you comprehend and live through something like this? My heart goes out to this man and all families involved
Learning the science of how spirituality works helps a great deal.
That's why I'm live alone.I couldn't cope such a situation.Maybe I'm weak, selfish and to much fearful but I don't care what other people think about it.
@@himbuxterrafux9525 nothing wrong with that if you choose to be alone that's your choice and your content like that. What's good for one may not be good for the other just have to find your fit.
@@DebShort1 James O'Barr(The Crow) said once:"You can wake up next to your wife 1000x, but it can also only be 10x".
Nothing in this world, especially today, is guaranteed.
@@DebShort1 Ps.Wish you all the best in your life!From PL/CZ border area!
Lord I can’t even IMAGINE what he’s feeling and experiencing. From having the best day of your life to the utterly worst day in a blink of an eye is beyond me. I sure pray he and the family can gain comfort and hope.
This is gut wrenching. That drunk woman should have to watch this video over and over for the rest of her life! My heart aches for this man and all of the family and friends who are suffering such a huge loss.
💯 she should be made to watch this video over and over.
So should the people who over-served her and let her drive away drunk. It sounds like the poor judgment of multiple people was involved here.
That would only work if she has any empathy and compassion.
@@automnejoy5308 I feel for the drunk girl too. Her life is also ruined, and her parents. I think the guilt of ending someone’s life would eat me alive 😞
@@jenniferburton7044 Drunk driving sure does destroy a lot of lives.
My God! This man’s grief is palpable! Even the reporter seemed upset! Such a tragic, awful, avoidable accident! Prayers for everyone but esp Aric! 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
Aric, if you happen to read this, I just want to say I’m so sorry for your loss brother. I can’t even begin to understand the sheer amount of anger and grief you may have. Although your beautiful wife isn’t here anymore physically, just know she is with you forever within your heart and will help you throughout the rest of yours. Sending my upmost condolences to you and your family during this difficult time. ❤💐🙏🕊️
I know it’s not appropriate but my heart dropped as soon as I read my name.
I know nothing will bring his wife back but he deserves to get justice and closure. My heart goes out to him and his family.
The only good thing is that he is still young and can find love again.
I don't normally get emotional or react to videos and stories on youtube - but this was absolutely heartbreaking. My heart goes out to Aric and his family for their loss. Such a senseless tragedy. I hope this woman is punished to the full extent of the law and the lawsuits be successful at sending a message that this just can't be tolerated in society.
settle down, Suzie.
@@JT-xp3inwtf would you say that to them? Such an oddball comment.
@@LitLitterbox stop being a hormonal cunt
@@LitLitterbox I won't even dignify it with a response.
@@JT-xp3in I agree with you, there are tragedies and deaths like these everyday, yes, everyday so settle down Suzie with your overly cringy emoting.
I don't like how the women interviewing him is smiling, what a big turn off. This poor man is suffering from his tragic loss.
The grief must be unimaginable. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to him and the families 😢
How about you actually do something, anything to prevent a drunk driver in the future instead of feeling bad and praying for a few seconds?
That would be infinitely more effective than your thoughts and prayers. Probably what Jesus would do too.
@@jawamasterhow about you shut up and give single people a break?
@@jawamasterAs hard as it to believe, God cannot control people because he chooses not to. He wants people to come to him freely, because that is real love. Love is not forced upon, it is voluntarily given. And prayer is powerful when you pray to God in faith and with a sincere heart. You should try it sometime.
@@findingjesusministries4783 Yes I’m sure it was gods intention for thousands of unvaccinated people to die from covid, because they thought their faith would protect them.
Religion is a great tool for community and purpose but it also makes people lazy. Moral-laziness included. Jesus would not want his followers being idiots because they think they have the protection of god… unless killing his dumb followers was his plan all along?
@@findingjesusministries4783 My point was being logical in your helpful intentions protects and saves infinitely more people than a prayer. You should try it sometime
This is the definition of absolute tragedy. Pray for this man, may he recover fully and find happiness again
My heart breaks for this man. Incredibly horrific and sad. I hope and pray he is surrounded by those who love and support him.
The woman interviewing was the wrong one 😒
Agree
Agree😑
I can’t believe her sitting like that. Cross her legs and arms.
The smiling....ugh
What a huge tragedy. Deepest condolences to him and all her loved ones.
why is it a tragedy? he now owns all her property.
@@citizencan4444 bc his wife’s gone forever dipshit
@@citizencan4444you need to get help
Oh my lord, I've been in that spot. Hit by a drunk (as a pedestrian), my significant other died. Waking up and asking where that person is and being told they died is devastating. It will stick with me everyday.
I feel for you man. It's a long road ahead. This will forever be a part of you.😢❤
My deepest condolences! I can't imagine that level of emotional pain.
I'm so sorry that happened to you, I can't imagine the pain you were in, nor the thought of even forgiving the person who did it. I hope you find peace eventually and you're able to live a good life for yourself, but I know that experience never goes away
I’m so sorry you and he both had to endure something so painful for such ignorant reasons on irrational people’s parts. I send you all the love I could offer, I’ll be thinking and sharing your story. Thoughts and love with you.
wow. I cant imagine. So so so sorry
How do you do in those moments to not have your heart stop beating?
This couple looked so happy and very loving on their best day. It’s unimaginable that their lives were turned upside down due to yet another drunk driver. Drunk drivers never learn and should never be given a second chance once they take an innocent person’s life. Everyone involved will be held accountable. I hope he is able to heal his heart. I’m so sorry.
Here in Ontario Canada if you are caught drunk driving your car is impownded, you loose demerit points and you loose your license for a year.
Also, you ever notice that drunk drivers never get killed?
@@gsdmomb530right, because they're evil
@@gsdmomb530 They sure don’t. Always the innocent who suffer from their reckless choices.
@@gsdmomb530 I've always heard that drunk drivers with the amount of alcohol in their blood system relaxes a person's muscles not sure what that means when they crash into a car. I remember hearing that years ago .
This is so heartbreaking. Prayers to him and his family to get through this difficult time 😢😢😢
Some people listening to or going through grief or something heartbreaking can’t help but smile. It’s a way of not breaking down. You can see the reporter has tears in her eyes too, but she smiles with compassion as not to breakdown
Thanks. I have a bit more empathy for her now. Before was confused and annoyed by her expression
Yeah you can tell, she’s very close to tears, I would be 😢
Yes, she is trying as hard trying to remain compose to get the interview done. Seeing her breathing heavily at one time.
Notice the smile also...I thought that was off. That's why I went to the comment section for some confirmation.
That is what I do when I am trying to not break down. I have been dealing with the after effects of a very aggressive form of cancer for the past 8 years and back in 2020 I ended up losing my right eye.
My best friend knew my medical history and that I was going to be seeing my surgeon about next steps, so when the appointment was over, she asked how it went. I had to keep pausing to try and bite back my tears, and during those pauses, I was smiling. She knew it was bad news because of the pain written on my face despite the smile.
It is just how some people cope with traumatic situations and how they try to keep their composure.
Omg, I’m in tears. This is so very heartbreaking. I can’t imagine his pain. Praying for physical and emotional healing for this guy!
My deepest sympathies go out to this man and everyone who loved Sam. Absolutely heartbreaking.
I'm honestly never emotional but seeing this guy like this hits pretty damn hard. How do you go on when the reason for hope dies like that... your selected future... man i wish he finds purpose in these rough times.
They couldn't find a nicer and more compassionate person to interview him? She seems so cold and that glued smile on her face🫣
I thought weirdly flirty and like she had been crying - her demeanor was distracting
It looks like she’s struggling not to cry at 1:57
She's not there to console him, she's there because he has a message to share.
@pinchofsalt4566 it's not about consolation, it's about her weird face expression . Her fake smile just looks extremely fake in this situation....
@@joannas4057 she smiled when he was recounting the good memories. Seemed genuine to me. I imagine it would be hard to remain professional while trying to keep it together emotionally.
My deepest condolences to Aric and both their families. What a truly unimaginable tragedy for all of them.
OMG! You can just feel the pain this poor man is going through. I hope he's surrounded with a lot of loving and supportive friends and family.
Absolutely horrific. His pain is palpable. One of the saddest stories I've seen & I am sending tons of prayers.
The one story that was even worse was a couple that were both killed on their wedding day.
@TamiTribbiani-im1go I remember that story. Wow! Sad, sad, sad.
Am I the only one who wants to slap that smile off the interview’s face? The poor guy just suffered a terrible loss, could barely keep it together, and she’s sitting there with a smug look as if she’s enjoying it.
Yes! Omg I thought I was the only one annoyed by her effing face. I don't like the way she was sitting too and with that dress. Ugh
My heart breaks for this man!!!!
I feel so sorry for him, this is an unimaginable tragedy. May she rest in peace and I hope justice is done.
I was hit by a drunk driver. All I can say is, you have no idea how irresponsible you were. Not only did you put my life at risk but you and others on the road. I lost a lot that day, my car- job promotion, and strength in my spine but I’m lucky to be alive. All I can is, please be safe on the road everyone. It took one second for my entire life to flip upside down. I’m lucky to be alive. In this case my heart is broken for this man, his wife- and the entire family/ friends that had to hear the bad news. ❤️
It's heartbreaking to know how difficult the world can really be. I truly hope justice will be served soon, because God knows this shouldn't have happened to such a beautiful couple. I'm glad he can still feel her nearby in their home. So he can feel the comfort he needs the most while processing this😭❤️
i agree with you. glad he feels her there
Stop using your beliefs about god in every god damn thing. He’s not real
It’s so gross when people say things like: “I hope justice will be served soon, because God knows this shouldn’t have happened to such a beautiful couple.”
Wtf? So if they weren’t attractive it would be ok that they were put through this experience? Of if they weren’t picture perfect it would be ok if it took a while for justice to play out?
I mean, what the hell?? If you feel the need to mention their attractiveness, fine- I don’t care what they looked like- this shouldn’t happen to ANYONE.
@Nichole M personally, I don't get why you're targeting this so much. As for beautiful, there's different ways to describe beauty outside of looks. In this case, I am referring to their love. As for justice, I don't see why you're acting this way, either. If anything bad happened to anyone in that matter, wouldn't you want the things to be served right? You're free to your own opinion, but I suggest that for the future, you spend a little more time analyzing something before making assumptions. Have a good rest of your day.
@@FortitudeRonin why do you Christian’s think “ god” does everything? If so he did a shitty job at protecting his kids at his house in Nashville. That’s proof he’s not real and you’re just brainwashed
My heart breaks for him. Damn.🙏🏾
Heartbreaking, absolutely heartbreaking. One life stolen and others broken and the young woman who is ultimately responsible has to live with what she’s done and she must pay for it. All because of what? Alcohol and peer pressure? Never ever worth it!
@PP 100% - much harsher. I'm so sorry for his grief but him showing it out here... raw, maybe it will stop at least one person from doing what this girl did. Maybe it will stop many!
And it didn’t end. She’s up there buddy, dancing in those sparklers and so proud of you for being so strong. 💕 Take care of yourself and give yourself plenty of grace. Praying for you ❤
K but he wants her here 😂😂😂😂 saying someone is in heaven doesn’t make it better. GTFO with that.
@@beatriceguzman8279calm down Beatrice
@@beatriceguzman8279But you responding with laughing emojis makes it significantly worse!
This is fake news MAGA
@@beatriceguzman8279 What a way to tell the world you're a piece of shit with no redeeming qualities, imagine being that much of a waste of space
Poor man 😕 may god watch over his soul during the hardest time of his life
Gosh, this poor man. My heart breaks for him and her family. I couldn’t even imagine. Everyone responsible for that drunk driver needs to be held accountable!
The only person responsible for the drunk driver is the drunk driver
And that stupid ass lawyer saying let's not jump to conclusions and hate her. First thing she did was complain about getting her car back
@@segsb7085 I am in no way saying the drunk driver isn't responsible, but you can't tell me everyone who plied her with alcohol and then watched her drive away impaired didn't play a hand in this.
@@CoCoGemel I can tell you that because she is a fully grown adult woman who made the CHOICE to drink irresponsibly...nobody plied her with anything. She is wholly and fully responsible for her actions. Why do we always want to blame everybody else? Where you with her? How do you know people ""watched" her drive away? How do you know she isn't someone who can hold her liquor and it was not possible to tell if she was drunk or not? You may think it makes sense now but you wait until employers and innocent bystanders start getting sued and found responsible for moronic people like this...a lot of times, we dont think of the bigger picture and want to punish everyone instead of focusing all our attention on the perpetrator...
If anyone should be held responsible it is the legal system that allows someone like her with multiple drunk driving felonies to keep her license. How about starting with harsher punishments for first time drunk driving offense...why isn't there a zero tolerance rule? Why should someone be given multiple chances until something like this happens?
@@segsb7085 lmao I'm not reading all of that. I'm happy for you though. Or sorry that happened. Take care.
It’s so sad, how life could change in just a split of a second. I pray that he be surrounded with so much love and support during this difficult time.
The reporter is looking like this is a happy interview. Highly inappropriate. So sorry for your loss. It is beyond cruel. 💔
I got incredibly intoxicated last weekend and the whole time the biggest thing on my mind was calling an Uber no matter what. While I do understand that some bartenders need to keep a better eye out for overly intoxicated people... ADULTS need to be responsible. Nobody is going to hold your hand and make sure you make good decisions.
As a former bartender in college I would not serve anyone who was stumbling in for a drink and cut many off. I have asked for keys and called cabs. I have asked can I call someone for you. This is before Uber and cell phones.
@@thebadgerette69 I love to hear that! That's awesome! That likely made a huge impact. I don't understand how she could get to twice, let alone 3 times the legal limit with nobody noticing. Of course, it's likely someone brought her drinks to her.
Getting super drunk takes away your ability to make responsible decisions. A responsible adult would never allow themselves to get incredibly intoxicated.
@@ugsvciwa Well I managed to make responsible choices so I guess I don't exist 😂
@@hanzdoingthings847 shouldn’t be getting drunk in the first place. It’s clowns like you that cause innocent people to die. What happens the day you can’t think sensibly? The Bible says to be sober minded, there is a clear reason. Alcohol is a literal spirit (possession). You cannot control yourself whatsoever.
This story is constantly on my heart 😔💔 I can’t even imagine losing the love of your life, literally minutes after marrying them. I really hope he finds peace.
The reality of it is, it’s very unlikely he’ll feel anything but hopelessness for a very long time. There isn’t much you can do to bring yourself back up so quickly after a situation like this.
there are tragedies and deaths like these everyday, yes, everyday so settle down Suzie with your overly cringy emoting.
Nobody should suffer this much in life. My condolences to this man 💐🙏🏽. We are all here for you man.
While this is unbelievably tragic.. I find peace in knowing her last day was spent being the HAPPIEST DAY of her life, and she was surrounded by friends and family. She was beautiful. My heart breaks for this family and this man.
Well as long as a stranger on the internet found peace 😒
That's not right. From the moment the groom was happy and got married to his love of his life three weeks ago to the groom becoming a widow in that short amount of time. It breaks my heart severely for their families. 😢💔
@Jwestside honestly I want to see that drunk driver get what they deserve. Honestly that drunk driver should be behind bars for life.
Stupid drunk drivers I hope whoever was the freakin driver think about the damage he or she did and spend it for the rest of their life in jail forever
alcohol is evil and should be banned just like in moslem countries
the groom became a widower
Im sure he can wipe the tears with 700k gofundme
This is honestly the most heartbreaking story I have ever heard. I'm so sorry this happened to you.
My heart breaks into a million pieces for this man and their families. 😢 this is absolutely horrible.
I so agree...i felt the depth of his pain. Lord comfort this family an give them peace an strength to go on. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Eric: 😢😭😭
The interviewers: 😁😄
The woman interviewing him may have had a “smile” on her face BUT let me tell ya….she was fighting back the tears the entire time! You could see the tears welling up…and even at the very end of this clip when she said “he wanted to do this interview so the world could know the Sam he fell in love with” you could tell she was choking up! I wouldn’t be able to do this without bawling my eyes out with him!
I disagree. I don't see any tears welling up. Pretty sure that woman is a straight up associopath
If you listen closely at the beginning when he starts crying she actually even says “I’m sorry”
I think she did actually cry. Just wiped away the tears b4 the camera was back on her.
I’d appreciate her sincerity more if she wore a more conservative dress.
Sorry but whether or not she cried...the smile should not of been on her face during this interview...
This is absolutely soul crushing. I'm so sorry to the husband and her family and friends. Can't even imagine what there going through.
This is so heartbreaking. He's very brave to be able to speak about it so soon.
This brought tears to my eyes. I am so sorry for his loss. I hope he gets justice for this senseless act. When will people learn that you cannot drink and drive!! My prayers are with him and his family.
Why are the reporters smiling?
This is so heartbreaking. My cousin died due to a drunk drive and she was planning her wedding. She just left her Mom house wedding planning not far from her mother's house her and finance were hit by a drunk driver she died at the scene, and her fiance survived. I know his pain. My cousin was buried in her wedding dress. She was an angel just like her. 😢
❤️❤️❤️❤️
So heartbreaking. I'm so sorry. My co-worker and his new bride were driving down I-95 on their way to Florida for their honeymoon when a drunk driver drove off an overpass just above them as they were approaching and landed on their vehicle.
My co worker's new bride was killed instantly, my co worker left w/the life long effects from the physical injuries he sustained and the trauma of losing his new bride on what should have been the happiest day of their life.
So sad
Tragic, all of these recollections are just so unbelievably horrendous to even imagine. My son-in-law died instantly from a brain bleed and our lives have never been the same. Our family is broken beyond belief. I understand all the pain.
Omg this is heartbreaking. I've never seen someone interviewed in such raw pain, probably only agreed to do it to show people how dangerous and real this is.
His mother-in-law is suing him for his wife’s estate unimaginable
I can't even imagine what he's feeling. My heart goes out to him and his family and I hope the person responsible will pay for her actions. Absolutely heartbreaking.
So heartbreaking! My heart goes out to him, what a tremendous loss! Wishing him peace throughout his rehabilitation.
Oh Aric, I am so sorry for your loss. The love you and Sam have for each other will never end. I wish you well with your recovery.
My heart goes out to this guy, his family, her family, everyone they love, and everyone who loves them. 🖤
My heart aches for this man. I’ve experienced the loss of a spouse. The pain is crushing. This situation multiplies that pain exponentially. OMG, I am so sorry for your loss…
His grief and pain is palpable. I am so so sorry. May she rest in peace and always be with you.
I sincerely hope and pray that this man finds peace and happiness again. When I was about the driver's age of 25, I was at a 4th of July party at my brother's inlaws and got very drunk. The people hosting the party hid my car keys and made me stay there. In my drunken state of mind I didn't understand, but I thank God for them doing that.
I hope you don’t take this as an attack. How can you be so drunk that you can’t understand that you should not drive while drunk?
@Jane yeah. That’s why you don’t get that drunk.
@Jane Also, when someone is planning on being drunk to this extend, why not plan ahead on a way to get home safely?
This is why I stopped drinking. I can’t imagine being a part of any of this. This is devastating.
Why is the reporter smiling ? So sickening
And could she possibly show more leg?! All of it was so awkward
Yes, I was thinking that as well.
@@melissas740Yes, I was thinking that as well with the smiling!
My thoughts exactly
This is heartbreaking with so much grief beyond words. I was brought to tears by this interview. I’m so glad he got to remember his wife in all her beauty, love, and joy. I hope he finds comfort in their home. Praying for swift justice and healing.
I can feel his pain. Completely heartbreaking. 🙏
No you can’t! Nor would you want to!
@@mwpierre how do you know they also didn't lose someone close? I can feel his pain radiate through the screen myself. But losing my youngest son, I ALSO can feel his pain at such a devastating loss...
@@mwpierre you have no idea what people are going through or have been through especially behind a screen and when it comes to the loss of loved ones! Remember to always be kind because you never know what someone is dealing with!
@@BlackPantherCrime you are right. His pain is real and it bothers me when people presume to understand. It takes away from his unique experience. The day was both the happiest and worst day of his life. How can any of us understand? Still, I don’t know what others are going through. If you are reading this, I hope you are blessed beyond your imagination.
why is the woman interviewing him smiling the whole time? creepy af
I am so heartbroken for this man. I wish him all the healing, peace, and love in the world for this is just devastating.
I wish I can take this man to a strip club so he can meet another woman since I feel really bad for him
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Poor guy! I’m getting married next year and can’t imagine losing my man, let alone on the same night! Life is precious.
The pain in his eyes, this is so devastating I hope he can recover one day from this incident that happened.
This was excruciating to watch. I’m sitting here balling. 😭 This poor man ~ I can’t even begin to
imagine the grief and pain he’s experiencing. Prayers for him and all of their family members. 🙏🏻