dear ex best friend - original song by tate mcrae

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    dear ex best friend - original song by tate mcrae
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    Lyrics:
    Yea i wonder if
    My name has ever crossed ur mind
    Even for a second
    Know its been a second
    since we last talked
    Or faced each other eye to eye
    Know its been hectic
    Ya I shoulda said this
    It kinda hurts cuz its insane
    Yea we walk by and its like
    I don't even know you
    Like I've never met you
    I see our pictures on my phone
    And question why we didn't try
    But we were just habits
    Thought we'd always have it
    So to my ex best friend
    I thought I'd know til the end
    Sorry I know things aren't going
    as we planned
    To my once ride or die
    The one who always knew me right
    We would swear it'd always end up
    you and I
    we really messed up this time
    We really messed up this time
    What about all the nights
    Where we'd talked about our lives
    We were just wishing
    Wish I would of listened
    It kinda hurts cuz its insane
    Yea we walk by and its like
    I don't even know you
    Like I've never met you
    I see our pictures on my phone
    And question why we didn't try
    But we were just habits
    Thought we'd always have it
    thought I know to the end
    So to my ex best friend
    I thought I know til the end
    Sorry I know things aren't going
    as we planned
    To my once ride or die
    The one who always knew me right
    We would swear it'd always end up
    You and I
    we really messed up this time

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  • @TateMcRae
    @TateMcRae  4 роки тому +33502

    GUYS im going on tour in jan/feb!!!. im performing in london, los angeles, new york city, toronto, chicago, amsterdam and berlin. ticket link in the description.

    • @millie7331
      @millie7331 4 роки тому +273

      Tate McRae love this song xx

    • @reema5819
      @reema5819 4 роки тому +145

      Tate McRae omg yay

    • @louisapuppypark1898
      @louisapuppypark1898 4 роки тому +189

      OMG AMSTERDAM OMG OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH 😭 I LOVE YOU 💕

    • @louisapuppypark1898
      @louisapuppypark1898 4 роки тому +122

      AMSTERDAM OMGGG 😭💕💕💕💕

    • @louisapuppypark1898
      @louisapuppypark1898 4 роки тому +139

      YESSSS I AM COMINGGGGG TO AMSTERDAMMMMMM 😍😍😍 (bad english i am a dutchie heheh

  • @neeev4085
    @neeev4085 3 роки тому +2422

    “we’re not friends, we’re not enemies, we’re just strangers with memories.”

  • @rishivyas228
    @rishivyas228 4 роки тому +2061

    Dude I don't even know what I am doing here at 3am and having a mental breakdown

  • @Aubrey_Dean
    @Aubrey_Dean 6 місяців тому +606

    What hurts most is that this person was once a person you could spend hours talking to, and now they are a person you avoid eye contact with in the hallway

    • @Itzblueberry112
      @Itzblueberry112 2 місяці тому +10

      What hurts the most is that people can go from people you know to people you don't

    • @gssteenbergen8758
      @gssteenbergen8758 Місяць тому +3

      That literally happened too me I passed my ex friend in the hallway while going to the bathroom. I tried not to look at her but I could tell she was giving me the side eye

    • @Hi-xo9ro
      @Hi-xo9ro Місяць тому

      I feel you man... It just hurts so much

    • @Aubrey_Dean
      @Aubrey_Dean Місяць тому

      Any ideas for what I should write a song about?

    • @that_preppyswiftie
      @that_preppyswiftie Місяць тому

      ikkk

  • @reaganwinslow7157
    @reaganwinslow7157 7 місяців тому +395

    the saddest thing about losing your best friend is being so devastatingly crushed, and not having them to go to about it.

    • @HM-tr1fv
      @HM-tr1fv 4 місяці тому +5

      And being crushed from losing them

    • @ANG3L.L1CA
      @ANG3L.L1CA 3 місяці тому +4

      I’ve gone through it w/ most my friends but I think that if they would just go then they’re not your friends they’re just people

    • @stitch4lifeeee
      @stitch4lifeeee Місяць тому +2

      I finally decided to cut off my friendship last year with someone who I thought was my "bff" the only reason I stayed was bc I thought if I left then I would have no friends at all (which was true) I never really realized how bad she was bc I had only had fake friends then but when I met my bsf rn I realized that she was way worse than I thought and I finally felt what it's like to have a true friend that is actually here for me and doesn't bully me or judge me for normal things or liking squishmalllows (;-;) or make fun of me bc of family problems when they have them too.. Me and my bff now have been friends for almost 3 and a half years and nothing can split us apart nothing can make us hate each other so ig what I'm trying to say is sorry you lost your friend.. I hope you find true friends soon.. ❤

    • @ExistingIdiot
      @ExistingIdiot 11 днів тому

      ⁠@@stitch4lifeeeei’m so proud of you ❤

  • @pee8786
    @pee8786 4 роки тому +1463

    "I don't hate you, i hate that you became the person you said you'd never be"
    - Unknown (Not me, i found it on the internet. i just want to spread the word)

    • @lilyshelton344
      @lilyshelton344 4 роки тому +22

      Omg that hit different

    • @claudiamoreno7959
      @claudiamoreno7959 3 роки тому +7

      Yep my ex bff become the person she won’t be hits 😔😭

    • @myasteinhilber
      @myasteinhilber 3 роки тому +1

    • @renitharamesh792
      @renitharamesh792 3 роки тому +3

      this hit deep

    • @andrewselizabeth
      @andrewselizabeth 3 роки тому +2

      Me and my best friend of 5 years stops being friends recently because of all the fights we’d have and I saw this song.. it almost made me cry because it fits so well 🥺

  • @saturn3034
    @saturn3034 5 років тому +1426

    I sang this for my talent show honoring my best friend who died.. 😔❤️
    Thank you guys for all the love and support ❤️ sorry for all the people who are going through the same. ❤️

    • @annhiggins6482
      @annhiggins6482 5 років тому +22

      Emerson Hupke your amazing

    • @bellabells8254
      @bellabells8254 5 років тому +39

      That’s beautiful❤️and I’m crying even more.I’m so sorry about your friend and I wish everyone has a friend like you .

    • @cosweare7439
      @cosweare7439 5 років тому +15

      RIP that’s so sad sorry for your loss

    • @roaa5310
      @roaa5310 5 років тому +12

      I’m so sorry for ur loss always let him/her always be in your heart

    • @audreyruelas6407
      @audreyruelas6407 5 років тому +5

      Emerson Hupke aww that’s the cute thing ever... I’m sorry for ur loss❤️

  • @priscillachow985
    @priscillachow985 5 місяців тому +161

    "It takes a year to become best friend, a second to lose , and a life time to forget"
    "You never know how much you need someone until you lose them" and
    " You might think you hate someone you lost but in reality you can never stop loving them"

    • @faithfrancisco9829
      @faithfrancisco9829 27 днів тому +5

      So true, but nevertheless, in the words of Kelly Clarkson: what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger 🥰💪 it may hurt like hell to get over and you may never forgive yourself for broken friendships but there are ways to learn to be content with the situation and ultimately be at peace knowing everything will be ok in the end. Also, Jesus loves you all and he died for you 🫶🏻finding yourself a best friend in him is the best kind of love you can ever have, call out to him, he hears you and sees you 🥰 (not trying to force anything on anyone btw just trying to bring some encouragement in the best way I know how, sorry if I am offending people) anyway, stay strong everyone! 🥰💪 I hope my comment encouraged at least one person

    • @ChaosQueen1575
      @ChaosQueen1575 14 днів тому

      That’s true. When I lost my best friend, I told everyone I hated her bcuz she replaced me… I never hated her…😢

  • @tamh5901
    @tamh5901 8 місяців тому +314

    First listened to this in grade 10 and broke down sobbing, I'm now in my second year of university and it's almost humourous to look back in time and count the amount of people who phased in and out of my life. Each with their own specific purpose in my life. Remember, at the end of the day you are your own best friend, and that regardless of who comes and goes you will always be there for yourself. It'll feel better soon.

    • @constant_asmr
      @constant_asmr 7 місяців тому +2

      Thank u for this comment❤

    • @nandinidevia5055
      @nandinidevia5055 7 місяців тому +1

    • @gracezelfausto9207
      @gracezelfausto9207 7 місяців тому +1

      OMGG I CAN SUPER RELATE TO THIS!! Cuz i was also grade 10 sobbing at this song and now im on my second year university😭😭😭

    • @kaushikisudi6613
      @kaushikisudi6613 7 місяців тому +3

      I am also in 10 the grade and it's the first time listening to it . Well , she betrayed me but I still wanted to be with her . Now , when I look back I think how follish I was to even think that and Yes definitely I have lost a part of me . I started to have trust issues but I think it's fine . I just miss the older me , the one who trusted everyone . And , I 'm slowly realising that how important it is to be trust broken ✨✨Thank you so much for this wholesome comment 💖💖🫶

    • @shrek1513
      @shrek1513 3 місяці тому

      I will

  • @jtodd42069
    @jtodd42069 4 роки тому +3102

    One of the worst parts is when everyone asks you why you stopped being friends and you just remember
    Edit: why tf do I have that much likes like hahah I don’t know what to do now ok byee

    • @susanhands2911
      @susanhands2911 4 роки тому +31

      I miss my best freind

    • @gliceriobaguistan2687
      @gliceriobaguistan2687 4 роки тому +39

      and i even felt like nobody cared about me..but when someone asks me that, I have flashbacks and..I remembered who cared about me..

    • @isayoongi987
      @isayoongi987 4 роки тому +15

      Whydoyoucare
      and them i have to answer them that i don”t even know the reason. she changed schools and started ignoring me completely

    • @fern1764
      @fern1764 4 роки тому +11

      And you can't really tell because you don't want to be a burden : /

    • @kookiesntae2601
      @kookiesntae2601 4 роки тому +4

      True

  • @lowpryce
    @lowpryce 4 роки тому +1641

    it’s kinda ironic how EVERY single one of her songs is reasonable..

  • @sofiavargas19
    @sofiavargas19 7 місяців тому +65

    "So to my ex best friend I thought i'd know til the end" and "its like I dont even know you" are so relatable.

    • @azilla5089
      @azilla5089 3 місяці тому +1

      I keep on thinking about staying with my BFF and we've been friends since reception and sometimes I feel well break up and I'll never see her ever again

    • @azilla5089
      @azilla5089 3 місяці тому +1

      OMG IM CRYING

  • @user-le2dw3os3m
    @user-le2dw3os3m 3 місяці тому +43

    The fact that she used to be a young girl who just makes beautiful songs in her room, to performing live at the VMA's and making songs like greedy and exes get in the Hot 100 Billboard and becoming one of the best growing artists ever just makes me feel so proud of her.
    Love you always Tate!!! ❤

  • @ryliezhang5498
    @ryliezhang5498 3 роки тому +1013

    She’s not even fake she’s just slowly replacing me
    update: my ex cheated on me with her

    • @toobamalik9193
      @toobamalik9193 3 роки тому +10

      Same:(

    • @marastrxck
      @marastrxck 3 роки тому +3

      Same

    • @Raynyskies
      @Raynyskies 3 роки тому +13

      That's what happened to me i guess she didn't realize it... But she replaced me

    • @coralcorbie136
      @coralcorbie136 3 роки тому +7

      That is kinda fake because if they were your friend they wouldn’t do that even by accident

    • @kayhrnandz
      @kayhrnandz 3 роки тому

      same lol.

  • @danica1495
    @danica1495 3 роки тому +3245

    it’s sad how the person who gave you the best memories.. *became* one.

  • @ariajean1
    @ariajean1 6 місяців тому +17

    The worst part about losing a BEST FRIEND is that they know EVERYTHING about you and ALL YOUR SECRETS 😭😭😭

    • @RobloxRoyalty1
      @RobloxRoyalty1 5 місяців тому +1

      Omg fr tho! 😭

    • @creativesapphire7578
      @creativesapphire7578 4 місяці тому

      And there's always fear in our mind about those secrets getting shared with someone else!!!😭😭

    • @Swities4life
      @Swities4life 4 місяці тому

      I had to move schools because she spread all my secrets to my crush

  • @ThanhaShafi
    @ThanhaShafi 8 місяців тому +36

    1:03 watching these after 2 years . When i first heard this song i was shattered to pieces,i thought i would never be happy again .though watching this again plays a rollercoaster of emotions one thing is obvious.
    Eventually everything will be healed . You ll find new friends,you'll be having those silly Little fights , you 'll be stealing their clothes , and so on .
    But one thing i noticed is i still miss her , because i have never loved anyone else like the way i loved her .i did everything i could to save our friendship but i could not. I guess it is because the efforts were one sided . She didn't love me enough to fight for me .
    I recently met her and then i realised that i dont feel anything peculiar.because in my mind i love her so much but when i saw her in person i felt nothing it is because i loved the person i thought she is , but in fact she is a different person. I still miss the old her not the person who threw me away like a plastic bag
    To all wounded soul reading this i hope we will heal sooner ❤

  • @ILoveTupac3
    @ILoveTupac3 3 роки тому +1381

    She wasn’t toxic she wasn’t mean she was my best friend but one day she decided I wasn’t hers anymore

    • @yoonkitty8388
      @yoonkitty8388 3 роки тому +39

      We have the same story... She also said me that she wants to end this friendship... I just gave my love to her, Idk what is wrong with that?

    • @ShreeRamFaujdar-gm3bj
      @ShreeRamFaujdar-gm3bj 3 роки тому +9

      All this relationship is really very complicated.......
      really very complex..........nd more complicated if it's about love

    • @ellagradl2168
      @ellagradl2168 3 роки тому +2

      YUP

    • @ellagradl2168
      @ellagradl2168 3 роки тому +2

      @@yoonkitty8388 accurate AF

    • @brieahnaperez8363
      @brieahnaperez8363 3 роки тому +4

      I miss her so much even if she treated me bad and told me to kms we were so close but then it just all fell apart 😔

  • @maddz.z5332
    @maddz.z5332 4 роки тому +2660

    Anyone else singing this with their head against a wall crying their eyes out but being quiet because there’s someone home?

  • @siwidakiwi4825
    @siwidakiwi4825 7 місяців тому +31

    A friendship can take years to build, hours of dedication and can be ruined in one second.

  • @javeriazafar1833
    @javeriazafar1833 6 місяців тому +18

    The saddest part of life is when the person who gave you the best memory becomes a memory.

  • @anti-kawaii2237
    @anti-kawaii2237 5 років тому +2425

    Person: Do you know that person
    Me: *millions of memories flashback of us together*
    Me: i used to
    Does that happen to you?
    Edit: thank for the likes. But I'm pretty sad that it was on this kind of comment

    • @giannamundy
      @giannamundy 5 років тому +3

      anti- kawaii me

    • @archieman68
      @archieman68 4 роки тому +2

      Yep.

    • @Luca-um8dw
      @Luca-um8dw 4 роки тому +4

      anti- kawaii all the time…🥺

    • @charlotteisacat8712
      @charlotteisacat8712 4 роки тому +12

      *If we had scars for each time we got a mental “scar” I’d have them every where*

    • @anti-kawaii2237
      @anti-kawaii2237 4 роки тому +3

      @@charlotteisacat8712 same

  • @RiaEverbloom
    @RiaEverbloom 9 місяців тому +17

    It hurts worse because now I tell myself I hate her. That she's a big jerk. But deep down, she's still a big part of me. And I miss her. Wow, this song was great!

  • @KyraPlayZroblox
    @KyraPlayZroblox 6 місяців тому +25

    Looking back at this song 4 years later shows how much she's matured and her singing WOW has changed a lot. Tate is brilliant ❤

  • @laurynastrunce511
    @laurynastrunce511 4 роки тому +2782

    Sucks missing someone who doesn't even care for you

    • @val4031
      @val4031 4 роки тому +20

      That’s on periot 😩

    • @laurynastrunce511
      @laurynastrunce511 4 роки тому +5

      :(

    • @strawberrmilk381
      @strawberrmilk381 4 роки тому +6

      That happend to me :(

    • @lukacsireka1414
      @lukacsireka1414 4 роки тому +2

      Imcrying

    • @goodnesszendaya1814
      @goodnesszendaya1814 4 роки тому +6

      I'm crying, I wish I I could stop caring about this person but I can't because all the best pictures I have of us are the times when my life was easy and I was actually happy but life goes on I guess 😭

  • @x3lle
    @x3lle 4 роки тому +2139

    the worst feeling is when you're crying because of them, to the point where you can't even breathe.

    • @phatbunda0211
      @phatbunda0211 4 роки тому +30

      me rn

    • @lauravanbruggen27
      @lauravanbruggen27 4 роки тому +33

      it will get better, take your time to let them go. when I lost my best friend I cried for months thinking she was all I ever had but the thing is. she really wasn't. in the end. the only person who can make you happy is yourself. x

    • @phatbunda0211
      @phatbunda0211 4 роки тому +3

      @@lauravanbruggen27 thank you :(

    • @Luna-xx6se
      @Luna-xx6se 4 роки тому +7

      Every painful night

    • @x3lle
      @x3lle 4 роки тому +2

      @@lauravanbruggen27 tysm this literally made me feel so much better. xx

  • @user-zi8zr4vu8u
    @user-zi8zr4vu8u 3 місяці тому +11

    It hurts more when ur best friend gets new friends and start treating you like a backup , the feeling seeing them with the new friends realising you got replaced

  • @Chloeslife62
    @Chloeslife62 16 днів тому +3

    Who's watching this in 2024?

  • @ducky9202
    @ducky9202 3 роки тому +1553

    It’s terrible when the people you made memories with become memories

  • @madydenning113
    @madydenning113 3 роки тому +1661

    now she’s just a stranger with all of my secrets

    • @cassieriley723
      @cassieriley723 3 роки тому +2

      honestly

    • @kaitlyn7621
      @kaitlyn7621 3 роки тому +35

      @Editing videos;) lol why u listening to this song your not broke go live your life before its gets boring :)

    • @janaetravis9392
      @janaetravis9392 3 роки тому +18

      It’s her birthday today and I’m here cause it brings me so much pain too remember that we not that close anymore 💔😭

    • @madydenning113
      @madydenning113 3 роки тому +7

      @@janaetravis9392 aww i’m so srry if it makes you feel any better that’s what separated me and my best friend bc i was putting so much effort into our friendship and i got her a nice gift and i was so excited to give it to her and her bd was coming up but i didn’t hear anything abt party plans then next thing ik our other friend is posting pictures of them at her party and i was absolutely crushed:( i just wish she knew how bad she hurt me.

    • @cailloupalos5468
      @cailloupalos5468 3 роки тому +4

      @@kaitlyn7621 you're* broken* it* just saying. Besides let them, there isn't really an age to be "bRoKeN"

  • @yolotrio-hx4tp
    @yolotrio-hx4tp 2 місяці тому +5

    Who stil listening?

  • @ElizabethVasquez-hu5gm
    @ElizabethVasquez-hu5gm 9 місяців тому +12

    If you like this song, I HIGHLY recommend the song Best Friend Breakup by Lauren Spencer Smith. This whole album is actually perfection and also the only thing I listen to 24/7 for like a month.

    • @siwidakiwi4825
      @siwidakiwi4825 7 місяців тому +1

      thanks! i love lauren spencer smith and im going to check that song out now

  • @maylenedon6523
    @maylenedon6523 3 роки тому +801

    "Promise?Were gonna be bestfriends forever?" The biggest lie ive heard

  • @selessorbwire3183
    @selessorbwire3183 2 роки тому +1771

    Betrayal from a bestfriend hurts to the core, it's been years but I've never healed.

    • @sineadlock8423
      @sineadlock8423 2 роки тому +13

      Same.

    • @jennaketchen5056
      @jennaketchen5056 2 роки тому +23

      Same 😢 I lost my bsf from over 5 years and still haven't healed from loosing her 🤕💔

    • @courtshort20
      @courtshort20 Рік тому +8

      Same

    • @amayaaman
      @amayaaman Рік тому +6

      Same

    • @porenesianparapio6934
      @porenesianparapio6934 Рік тому +9

      Ikr, we were childhood bestfriends even if she was 2 years elder than me, we used to eat, play and sleep all togather and now thinking about that all just makes me feel like what it was all about!? And how did we ended up like this!? What bad I did to her that she had to break me like this

  • @heartzfornen
    @heartzfornen 6 місяців тому +4

    People here in 2023

  • @jeffsmith6606
    @jeffsmith6606 3 місяці тому +15

    Man I wish this song was on Spotify I would listen to it non stop

  • @srushtijambhale4921
    @srushtijambhale4921 3 роки тому +2281

    It takes years to build a friendship,
    but a second to ruin it :(

    • @bbyxedits9979
      @bbyxedits9979 3 роки тому +9

      I agree

    • @srushtijambhale4921
      @srushtijambhale4921 3 роки тому +8

      @@bbyxedits9979 Our frdship got ruined bcz of a boy... :( I con't stop crying from two days T^T

    • @bbyxedits9979
      @bbyxedits9979 3 роки тому +3

      @@srushtijambhale4921 aww I’m so sorry hope your heart heals

    • @srushtijambhale4921
      @srushtijambhale4921 3 роки тому +6

      @@bbyxedits9979 I hope so...still not fine during online classes I keep staring her with mah cam off and I start crying...Today I also just called her and played this song with the chords on the keyboard and said her a last goodbye :(

    • @bbyxedits9979
      @bbyxedits9979 3 роки тому +3

      @@srushtijambhale4921 awwwww that is so sad I understand how hard that must be but remember your heart will heel! ❤️

  • @LA-xo5zu
    @LA-xo5zu 4 роки тому +2150

    Do you ever feel like you’re there for all of your friends when they need a shoulder to cry on, but whenever your sad you just get left alone?

    • @frozenfrenzy6099
      @frozenfrenzy6099 4 роки тому +46

      LA 24 I’m always being bright and positive for the people in my life when they need it but they leave me hanging when I need it the most, I think people see me as weak and I am, but I’d still like someone to be there for me, especially since I’m always there for them

    • @LA-xo5zu
      @LA-xo5zu 4 роки тому +19

      Frozen Frenzy , just by having the guts to express your true feelings proves that you are not weak. I also want someone like that.

    • @kenziefretwell7988
      @kenziefretwell7988 4 роки тому +1

      LA 24 yes

    • @sarahcole8819
      @sarahcole8819 4 роки тому +1

      Yes?

    • @echoscholl9835
      @echoscholl9835 4 роки тому +1

      All the time

  • @Bibble_mainia
    @Bibble_mainia 25 днів тому +3

    I can’t believe this song is 5 yrs old
    It’s literally my anthem 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @Autumn-bn5lb
    @Autumn-bn5lb 3 місяці тому +8

    The worst thing is not being in an argument with ur best friend but kts when they slowly start to not care about you and then end up completely ignoring you

  • @aida479
    @aida479 3 роки тому +3140

    this is how many people have lost a bestfriend
    👇🏻(yall i finally did it, i found someone that doesnt scare me when she texts me ,she cares about me,defendes my name and always is there for me.I had no hope but if i did it yall can do it too!)

    • @hristevalexandragabriela7937
      @hristevalexandragabriela7937 3 роки тому +16

      Ha..ha..i..i have losted mire than 5 bff..no one can..no one can understhand me..(im sorry if i didnt text good..but im romanian and yeah..)

    • @aida479
      @aida479 3 роки тому +8

      @@hristevalexandragabriela7937 it truly hurts ive lost one and i feel like im loosing my current bsf too

    • @hristevalexandragabriela7937
      @hristevalexandragabriela7937 3 роки тому +4

      Aida Shaqiri im sorry for ya..u did nothing wrong..

    • @hristevalexandragabriela7937
      @hristevalexandragabriela7937 3 роки тому +1

      Aida Shaqiri i dont know if u know..that moment when she text u that..she find someone very cute..very good..and u are like:We are anymore friends..? And Shes like:ye,i need to go bye. And when u come..u realizease that Shes not happy with u..

    • @aida479
      @aida479 3 роки тому +1

      @@hristevalexandragabriela7937 yeah that happenned yesterday lol

  • @swaggers6305
    @swaggers6305 3 роки тому +982

    “They don’t care about you till your gone”
    -Unknown

    • @rowenmartienssen2850
      @rowenmartienssen2850 3 роки тому +10

      I wish I knew they still cared about me. It really doesn't feel like it.

    • @_M1l0_
      @_M1l0_ 3 роки тому +2

      That's so true 😭😭

    • @oonaghadoko2477
      @oonaghadoko2477 3 роки тому +3

      It should be the world's quote we have all lost someone or will and all you'll do is regret not hug them one last time

    • @lilac5741
      @lilac5741 3 роки тому

      so true

    • @isabelleac1
      @isabelleac1 3 роки тому

      fAsT_aNd_CuRiOuS true

  • @samirbaghnani8292
    @samirbaghnani8292 8 місяців тому +3

    Here's my story if someone can/wants to relate:
    Im a second year med student and two years ago when i was still in school i met two poeple(a guy and a girl) we became best friends, or at least i thought we were. They were really dear to me. Still, i always felt it was a little bit one sided, because sometimes they would've just made a plan without me, and if i found out about it, they would just say "we thought you would come". We three made it to the same univ. But after we succeeded the first year we had the choice to candidate for another university who would be less costly. I succeeded the admission test, but the two of them told me they didn't so i choosed to stay in the same school with them. Little did i know that they fooled me. And now they are both in the other university, and im still in the first one who costs the most, with a deep wound in my heart.

    • @mylifeasasma3307
      @mylifeasasma3307 8 місяців тому

      Omg I'm so sorry and trust me the next time they'll see you you're gonna be 100 times happier than them and successful you deserve much better❤

  • @KitsuneUwUGacha
    @KitsuneUwUGacha 17 днів тому +3

    Whos here in 2024?
    It hurts more then it burns

  • @x.l.scarlett.x1012
    @x.l.scarlett.x1012 4 роки тому +775

    Anyone that has lost their best friend would know how hard it is and how much it hurts...

    • @nupursharma478
      @nupursharma478 3 роки тому +4

      Yes it hurts ❤️

    • @x.l.scarlett.x1012
      @x.l.scarlett.x1012 3 роки тому +3

      Nupur Sharma 💖

    • @monkimillie702
      @monkimillie702 3 роки тому +10

      R̠e̠d̠W̠o̠l̠f̠ X̠O̠X̠O̠ I really want her back she hates me ♡︎☹︎

    • @monkimillie702
      @monkimillie702 3 роки тому +11

      R̠e̠d̠W̠o̠l̠f̠ X̠O̠X̠O̠ I try everyday to get her back...but she has new friends so all I do is put a fake smile of my face.. 🥺💞

    • @x.l.scarlett.x1012
      @x.l.scarlett.x1012 3 роки тому +5

      Lei Lei gacha she doesn’t deserve you if she can’t see that you are such a kind person and I’m sorry I know it’s terrible 💖💖💖

  • @ishita6537
    @ishita6537 4 роки тому +1985

    It hurts when they’re your best friend but you aren’t theirs....

    • @makinastart5024
      @makinastart5024 4 роки тому +27

      ily a n g e l YES! I was so hurt when I came home from a trip to see that she wouldn’t even hang with me...😖 but I’m here to say ur not alone 💕

    • @Jojo-yv8rm
      @Jojo-yv8rm 4 роки тому +6

      :(

    • @johnettatarpeh9120
      @johnettatarpeh9120 4 роки тому +8

      Yeah it hurts so much

    • @bhargavi7415
      @bhargavi7415 4 роки тому +8

      Ikrrr😭😭😭 we stopped talking last year an di still think abt him everyday. Dis song reminds me of him❤️

    • @kiwidragonfor
      @kiwidragonfor 4 роки тому +6

      You are so right! My ex bff now is bff with one TOXIC girl and I'm trying to warn her!

  • @Maddi-lu8ym
    @Maddi-lu8ym 7 місяців тому +3

    Who agrees that losing a best friend is worse than a break up 👇

  • @pen2cool4u
    @pen2cool4u 3 роки тому +794

    The worst part is when your best friend becomes a stranger to you

    • @adhashamsudin6391
      @adhashamsudin6391 3 роки тому +3

      Yeah

    • @natsusoranightcore6669
      @natsusoranightcore6669 3 роки тому +4

      Definitely

    • @live-laugh-lino
      @live-laugh-lino 3 роки тому +15

      Even worse is when you become an enemy to them but deep inside your like... "Wait.... I still wanna be friends" nothing hurts more than that. Not even losing them.

    • @its_mya1267
      @its_mya1267 3 роки тому +1

      @@live-laugh-lino I have that rn

    • @vanss9895
      @vanss9895 3 роки тому +2

      @@live-laugh-lino yeah like even if some time has passed, you would like to send a text and just say hi how are you, but you just feel like they hate you and sending a text would make it even worse...

  • @Alexa.swims44
    @Alexa.swims44 3 роки тому +735

    She’s not the next Ariana Grande. She’s the first Tate Mcrae.

    • @skylerlals
      @skylerlals 3 роки тому +11

      ORIGINALTY

    • @zia527
      @zia527 3 роки тому +10

      Yes

    • @skylerlals
      @skylerlals 3 роки тому +15

      Ariana grande has already succeeded. Tate is fresh and different from all of the rest. Btw thanks for the likes I don't know what to say I'm really thankful

    • @gazoonhana5546
      @gazoonhana5546 3 роки тому +1

      ;^;

    • @exson3844
      @exson3844 3 роки тому +4

      smiley FACTS

  • @Diyaa_Idah
    @Diyaa_Idah 4 місяці тому +5

    Yeah I wonder if
    My name has ever crossed ur
    mind
    Even for a second
    Now it's been a second
    Since we last talked
    Or faced each other eye to eye
    Now it's been hectic
    Yeah I should said this
    It kinda hurts cuz it's insane
    Yea we walk by and it's like
    I don't even know u
    Like I've never met you
    I see our pictures on my phone
    And question why we didn't try
    But we were just habits
    Though we'd always have it
    So to my ex best friend
    I thought i'd know til the end
    Sorry I know things aren't going
    As we planned
    To my once ride or die
    The one who always knew me right
    We would swear It'd always end up
    You and I
    We really messed up this time
    We really messed up this time
    What about all the nights
    Where we'd talk about our lives
    We were just wishing
    Wish I would listened
    It kinda hurts cuz it's insane
    Yea we walk by and it's like
    I don't even know you
    Like I've never met you
    I see our pictures on my phone
    And question why we didn't try
    But we were just habits
    Though we'd always have it
    So to my ex best friend
    I thought i'd know til the end
    Sorry I know things aren't going
    As we planned
    To my once ride or die
    The one who always knew me right
    We would swear It'd always end up
    You and I
    We really messed up this time

  • @vatsala.sharma
    @vatsala.sharma 8 місяців тому +8

    I'm proud to myself that I stopped crying on this song finally.. I found my comment of 2 yr back.. where I wrote that my bff isn't talking n all.. but now. Finally I MOVED ON😌

  • @nevaeh84
    @nevaeh84 4 роки тому +1880

    Don’t you just hate it when you tell your best friend that y’all will be best friends forever and then they get up and leave you alone?💔
    Edit: I’m losing my best friend now and idk what to do....💔

    • @sveaellapen9360
      @sveaellapen9360 4 роки тому +7

      Yea💔 also hey limelight😊

    • @user-wr7kx4np3l
      @user-wr7kx4np3l 4 роки тому +10

      Yea, I miss her so much. She hated me, and I knew it. She used me to become popular (I was moderately popular) and it worked. She always called me annoying. I'm better off now, but she was toxic anyways. She had always said, "Look, we will always be best friends!" I miss her voice. :/

    • @user-re5oy1wz5x
      @user-re5oy1wz5x 4 роки тому +4

      Fucking facts

    • @norirose8622
      @norirose8622 4 роки тому +5

      Me😭😭😭

    • @yellowpastelgames1460
      @yellowpastelgames1460 4 роки тому +5

      Yes 💔😭

  • @lalaalalallalaa8971
    @lalaalalallalaa8971 4 роки тому +880

    Imagine being depressed bc of that one person that doesn’t even care for u

    • @dazaitheemosk8erboi188
      @dazaitheemosk8erboi188 4 роки тому +10

      i can relate

    • @ziggyparsons9325
      @ziggyparsons9325 4 роки тому +7

      I'm here

    • @charilaostz
      @charilaostz 4 роки тому +3

      Here mate..

    • @sofiamaas7132
      @sofiamaas7132 4 роки тому +3

      i can sooo relate dude it's been almost 2 years and i still can't get over it

    • @emmaalise2373
      @emmaalise2373 4 роки тому +5

      Imagine seeing them at a park months later, being totally fine for once just so they can make you cry and be heartbroken again

  • @user-de8ve9oy6z
    @user-de8ve9oy6z 7 місяців тому +2

    Romans 8:18. "The pain that you've been feeling, can't compare to the joy that's coming."

  • @kimmiordish1128
    @kimmiordish1128 3 роки тому +4561

    This is how many people have lost a best friend
    👇

    • @bloodline._
      @bloodline._ 3 роки тому +48

      It’s sad cuz I’ve known her for so long and now we don’t have any contact with each other, but I’m much better off without her.

    • @kimmiordish1128
      @kimmiordish1128 3 роки тому +17

      I feel so bad for the 50 people who have liked. I have lost one too. I have lost multiple

    • @Meow-zc7wu
      @Meow-zc7wu 3 роки тому +21

      I've lost a couple of best friends, but I had this one best friend I was really close with. We would always talk, and the worst part was that she was my childhood friend. I knew her ever since I was a baby or so. I would tell her all my secretes and everything I've been going through, I trusted her, but she would tell her mom everything I told her. It may not sound big, but it is. We PROMISED each other to not tell ANYONE, but, well, she did. Her mother told my mom and, well, that led to consequences. I would get hit and abused by my mom because I told her things I shouldn't of have. Ofc, I was younger back then so I didn't know if what I told her was right or wrong. I soon later figured out what she has been doing, so I confronted her. We promised again that she wouldn't do the same mistakes she did, but she continued to do it. Well, soon later our friendship cut off somehow. It was her parents, they didn't like me. I missed her a lot, but Im not sure if she missed me. Soon later I got over it, but it still hits me. I now have trust issues. Now I have another friend at my new school, but she reminds me just like my "used to be best friend". She tells her other friend everything I told her not to tell( her friend, which is known to be a popular girl in my class ). She remind me just like her. So now honestly, I don't even know who to trust.

    • @kimmiordish1128
      @kimmiordish1128 3 роки тому +7

      This is the saddest thing ever 265 people have lost a best friend

    • @kimmiordish1128
      @kimmiordish1128 3 роки тому +5

      294 people now :O

  • @ellarose6866
    @ellarose6866 4 роки тому +3655

    The worst part is that you cry over someone who didn’t even care for you

    • @hannah276
      @hannah276 4 роки тому +31

      Felt that on a different level.

    • @danielaeylerts4378
      @danielaeylerts4378 4 роки тому +10

      For real :(

    • @Lina-xu2um
      @Lina-xu2um 4 роки тому +27

      But its even worst that she really cared and now i dont even know why she just started not to talk with me. We really were so so close and now i have no one.😭

    • @gabriellas9854
      @gabriellas9854 4 роки тому +10

      @@Lina-xu2um this just happened to me 2 times she made me lose my best friend then I lost her and I don't know why she just stopped talking to me out of the blue. But it will get better at least I hope it does

    • @Lina-xu2um
      @Lina-xu2um 4 роки тому +1

      @@gabriellas9854 😔❤️

  • @Mia-wj3br
    @Mia-wj3br 4 дні тому +3

    Not friends. Not enemies. Just memories.
    I really miss my bff. We dreamed of getting merited. But when his parents called I died in side crying on my floor.

  • @user-td1ny2ox8v
    @user-td1ny2ox8v 4 місяці тому +6

    this song is so good!! "the pictures on my phone" or "my once ride or die"def hits different 😭 its all too relatable and losin a friend really sucks :(

  • @keirahill4286
    @keirahill4286 4 роки тому +1199

    “to my once ride or die. the one who always knew me right” that hit hard

    • @randomkid2934
      @randomkid2934 4 роки тому +3

      Yeah like i have this friend and we sit together all the time and just chat and go to the beach etc and shes moving soon and idk when ill see her again i remember the first time i weny out with her was to get burgers and we were just blaring 80s music in her car 😂

    • @maddygardephe3964
      @maddygardephe3964 4 роки тому

      Keira Hill it really got me in my feels

    • @adivaconley8699
      @adivaconley8699 4 роки тому

      fr

    • @evag6904
      @evag6904 4 роки тому

      Keira Hill Same

    • @oliviahall6363
      @oliviahall6363 4 роки тому

      Same😭💔

  • @anreeghyasharma
    @anreeghyasharma 3 роки тому +533

    people keep on saying,
    "she isn't worth your friendship"
    "she doesn't deserve you"
    "she'll realize what she let go off"
    but it won't happen cuz she isn't who she was anymore...

    • @johannahanson1520
      @johannahanson1520 3 роки тому +4

      This is deep and so true🥺

    • @pinkcherry6747
      @pinkcherry6747 3 роки тому +6

      Your name made me laugh, hi army

    • @atinyblackrose8938
      @atinyblackrose8938 3 роки тому +5

      I miss everything about the old her I miss everything we did.. But it can never be the same

    • @zoecain2489
      @zoecain2489 3 роки тому +4

      March 2020 i lost my bestfriend 💔 😢 she used me so now I lost my childhood friends too. She messed up and she knows it

    • @anreeghyasharma
      @anreeghyasharma 3 роки тому +3

      @@atinyblackrose8938 i hear ya

  • @lylajones9077
    @lylajones9077 2 місяці тому +2

    Anyone here in 2024❤

  • @Savitar.2020
    @Savitar.2020 5 місяців тому +3

    "I never had any friends later on like the ones I had when I was 12. Jesus, did anybody?" -Stand By Me

  • @evelynklarenbeek6764
    @evelynklarenbeek6764 4 роки тому +1809

    The worst thing about losing your bestfriend, is that you can’t tell your bestfriend about it. She was my world. My everything. And i messed uo

    • @hannah-vr2yv
      @hannah-vr2yv 4 роки тому +17

      Evelyn Klarenbeek that’s EXACTLY how i feel omg

    • @nikkiethompson4046
      @nikkiethompson4046 4 роки тому +11

      Me to I was thinking of ending my life but I dont now wht made me stop

    • @michaelvessen
      @michaelvessen 4 роки тому +7

      @@nikkiethompson4046 thanks for not ending your life becuse your always be there for a reason not end your life
      Dont give up im going to somthing to but i think on a difent level

    • @michaelvessen
      @michaelvessen 4 роки тому +6

      U dont messed up becuse if she is a friend she will feel gulty about it and making her exuses
      I think she was a fake friend
      Sorry😳

    • @vicentetuburan7298
      @vicentetuburan7298 4 роки тому +2

      True

  • @ria7790
    @ria7790 3 роки тому +672

    The worst thing is when she *replaces* you for someone she barely knows...
    Edit: Omg I didn't think I'd get this many likes! I hope everyone is doing ok

    • @evajohns6891
      @evajohns6891 3 роки тому +10

      Ye that happend to me but I'm staying strong with myself and even tho it hurts soo bad I moving on like she did This hurts soo bad we used to be besties now we are like strangers we used to talk soo much and now we say nothing I miss her soo much but it's sad BC she doesn't miss me THAT DOESN'T CHANGE ANYTHING BC IM A SYRONG PERSON AND YES I BELIEVE IN MYSELF

    • @silverwolf3091
      @silverwolf3091 3 роки тому +1

      Me

    • @sarak5797
      @sarak5797 3 роки тому +1

      This is exactly what happened to me

    • @hadithameem8378
      @hadithameem8378 3 роки тому +1

      ikr its so annoying when they tell the new best friends secrets when they only knew each other for like 2 weeks

    • @hibestays1884
      @hibestays1884 3 роки тому +3

      It is true 100% true but my best friend is like kinda sus idk why I feel replaced

  • @7xLights
    @7xLights 9 місяців тому +8

    “To my once ride or die the one who always knew me right.” hit hard…

  • @TotallyNotAshy24
    @TotallyNotAshy24 День тому +1

    The pain is when u miss her but she doesn’t miss you back..

  • @brianna4889
    @brianna4889 3 роки тому +1675

    the worst pain is crying over someone who is laughing with someone else..

    • @Aisha-cn3in
      @Aisha-cn3in 3 роки тому +10

      Yes😭

    • @Nani-ep7sw
      @Nani-ep7sw 3 роки тому +23

      that is true... my "freind" replaced me :(

    • @_.reyna_.c
      @_.reyna_.c 3 роки тому +17

      We were on talking terms and then he got bored of me he was my best friend and knew everything about me and left and I asked him why he was so mean and he said I just got bored of you and made fun of me and I asked if he had faked everything he said no the spark just left and I’ve been happy I don’t need you.😕

    • @p.ea.ky28
      @p.ea.ky28 3 роки тому +9

      Yep I am going through that phase right know

    • @elenadelrosso5821
      @elenadelrosso5821 3 роки тому +4

      @@Nani-ep7sw I know right 😭💔

  • @giovannimitrovic1835
    @giovannimitrovic1835 2 роки тому +1420

    This song is never getting old… who‘s still listening in end 2021 and still missing this one person?…

  • @ellatempura
    @ellatempura 6 місяців тому +3

    “Friends are like flowers, everyone is pretty on the outside, ugly on the inside”
    -Ahmed Hadedmin

  • @glendakent1857
    @glendakent1857 2 дні тому +1

    I lost my friend of 26 years and I pray she will come back to me one day, even kept her slippers 💔

  • @cybeller9461
    @cybeller9461 4 роки тому +955

    I’ve never believed friendship breakups hurt way more than a relationship ending. Turns out it does and I’m in so much pain. Someone please cheer me up. :(

    • @isabellek493
      @isabellek493 4 роки тому +16

      Cybelle R hey I’ve been thru many and I’m not gunna sugarcoat anything cuz it hurts and still does. No matter how many times I’ve forgiven and then given her a chance it never works out. Just remember that it won’t stay that way and your life is a privilege you’ll meet someone else :))) stay strong and show her or him what their missing

    • @Paola.a00
      @Paola.a00 4 роки тому +5

      If u wann talk u can dm me on insta @letsdothistogehteryes :)

    • @redactedgaming3442
      @redactedgaming3442 4 роки тому +4

      Cybelle R I don’t know what I can say to cheer you up but I can say this I know how you feel you cry and it hurts so much you can’t breath. Well you have 2 choices. Keep crying until it stops hurting, or forget about it and move on. Trust me do 2 because I did 1 and it hurt for so long

    • @cybeller9461
      @cybeller9461 4 роки тому +4

      Isabelle Kang no that was very good grammar, thank you so much you literally don’t understand how much this means to me omg 😭💕

    • @cybeller9461
      @cybeller9461 4 роки тому +3

      Angie Stuckert omg really?

  • @luv.livv26
    @luv.livv26 4 роки тому +2347

    Who else got flash backs while watching this and while crying

    • @sunamx4542
      @sunamx4542 4 роки тому +1

      via j 💔

    • @berna2035
      @berna2035 4 роки тому

      via j 🙏😭

    • @April-xl1sx
      @April-xl1sx 4 роки тому +1

      Me 😭😢

    • @kannakamui1177
      @kannakamui1177 4 роки тому +16

      I did.. I thought my best friends were my ride and die ! We even planned we would all live together.. go to the same college.. now.. this year were not friends anymore :) They used to beat me up and hurt me so.. I started cutting myself.. worst year of my life.. I have new friends their all great but we have so much in common..! Im so thankful I have friends who are there for me and support me for being who I am..

    • @ewka000
      @ewka000 4 роки тому

      Me too 😢

  • @Julie-ot2pl
    @Julie-ot2pl 3 місяці тому +3

    It’s sad when you try to pick up a conversation with someone you haven’t talked to in a while and used to be close to, but you notice that they don’t make any effort to talk to you and just push you further away to the point where you realize that things have changed and it’d be probably better to let go. People come and go, sadly, even the ones you thought you’d never lose

  • @bri-ks5vr
    @bri-ks5vr 4 роки тому +2438

    Fake friends: once they stop talking to you they start talking about you.

    • @anoushkap4712
      @anoushkap4712 4 роки тому +52

      damn that hit hard

    • @slaaltparmak3318
      @slaaltparmak3318 4 роки тому +12

      Welp don't bother them I always say when some is fake they can't talk real

    • @sarah0svs
      @sarah0svs 4 роки тому +13

      Sad but true... my ex bff didn’t jus talk about me.. she spread rumors about me which were wrong! For example: she told a boy that I am in love with him. The next day, that boy came to me and said I love you too!... bruh... unfortunately I had to break his heart because I’m already in love with someone else but he understood that it was a fake rumor

    • @tojislefttoe7505
      @tojislefttoe7505 4 роки тому +1

      Takin behind my back? Damn my life is way more interesting than yours.

    • @harperwoods3362
      @harperwoods3362 4 роки тому +1

      :P

  • @nancypg8722
    @nancypg8722 4 роки тому +647

    The worst feeling is when someone asked u why ur not friends and u don’t know 😭

    • @maanamaaye2530
      @maanamaaye2530 4 роки тому +5

      Oh this is so true

    • @morganthurman1694
      @morganthurman1694 4 роки тому +2

      It’ll get better ❤️

    • @mariaalvarez5457
      @mariaalvarez5457 4 роки тому +1

      Morgan Thurman no it won’t you will always remember that person as someone you trusted and it’s so hard to let go

    • @el10chka
      @el10chka 4 роки тому +2

      @@mariaalvarez5457 it's really hard to let go, and you'll feel down, but life goes on, it might take time, but things will get better ❤

    • @jenny-fz9nn
      @jenny-fz9nn 4 роки тому +1

      My best friend misunderstood my joke and she have been ignoring me for a week, she's hanging out with people I hate..

  • @Mia-wj3br
    @Mia-wj3br 14 днів тому +4

    The worst thing is that if they pass away you won’t be sad to die. When your family and friends are gone there’s nothing to lose. I thought we would get married one day. Well I hoped. I cry every day to just see him. Sometimes I pray that I could have gone with him. I was just sitting in my bed when his parents called. I crashed to the floor crying in pain. I didn’t eat for 2 days. I wonder if I was with him I could have said goodbye. Sometimes just use time while you can you never know what will happen.
    Ty for supprorting

  • @kenyaflowers8861
    @kenyaflowers8861 Місяць тому +3

    ppl who cried

  • @daniella186
    @daniella186 4 роки тому +851

    It sucks when she replaces you and she posts about them everyday and u see it
    Thx for all the likes! U guys can talk to me if u need it💕

    • @anneclark6353
      @anneclark6353 4 роки тому +18

      Or having mutual friends with them and they post about them and you can't talk to your mutual friends about it because it'll seem like you're being mean.

    • @jolinamuller3411
      @jolinamuller3411 4 роки тому +2

      Same here

    • @harmonyp6978
      @harmonyp6978 4 роки тому +1

      Daniella Jimenez YESSSS

    • @princesseylish7859
      @princesseylish7859 4 роки тому

      Gahhhhd very same

    • @skyesherrard5462
      @skyesherrard5462 4 роки тому +1

      That hit different 🥺🥺🥺

  • @Erin-bb7pv
    @Erin-bb7pv 5 років тому +655

    Dear ex best friend,
    Thank you.
    Thank you for my first love. My first heartbreak. My first feeling of acceptance into a family. My first hangover. My first therapist. Thank you for being my sister. For a shoulder to cry on. For all the inside jokes. For the memories. For all the late nights. For the family that I never got at home.
    I hope life treats you well💖💔

    • @mauricevalentin5119
      @mauricevalentin5119 5 років тому +3

      Nicht Heulen

    • @bananamilk1105
      @bananamilk1105 5 років тому +10

      it touched me.

    • @jasmin6062
      @jasmin6062 5 років тому +2

      @@mauricevalentin5119 wie schreibst du ohne Hände 😂

    • @dayanar-l386
      @dayanar-l386 5 років тому +10

      It hit me cause my ex best friend hugged me today. It was the last day of school

    • @dayanar-l386
      @dayanar-l386 5 років тому +5

      And she's going to a different middle School,we finished elementary (k-6)

  • @Ash_Does_Art396
    @Ash_Does_Art396 12 днів тому +2

    The worst thing is watching yourself slowly not even exist to your best friend, how they replace you, how they forget we were even friends.

  • @suhawhenever
    @suhawhenever 3 місяці тому +3

    Your watching this when your can listen to Tate anywhere
    👇

  • @adriannadavis7280
    @adriannadavis7280 4 роки тому +1328

    “Sometimes the person you would take a bullet for.... ends up being the person behind the gun”

  • @okay4425
    @okay4425 4 роки тому +22483

    *it sucks missing someone who doesn’t miss you.*

    • @lucygaston5282
      @lucygaston5282 4 роки тому +438

      it does it hurts so much and then you realise you cant get them back its so sad :(

    • @user-np2qb3dd4b
      @user-np2qb3dd4b 4 роки тому +356

      The Worst is when they replace u and forget uquickly

    • @tashaleesmith209
      @tashaleesmith209 4 роки тому +124

      Best friends replace you for some other persons who they never knew then they trash talk you I told my best friend what she was missing what she forgot

    • @user-np2qb3dd4b
      @user-np2qb3dd4b 4 роки тому +37

      @Xxfire phoenixX ouch....i know how you feel 😞

    • @sashahaddad337
      @sashahaddad337 4 роки тому +49

      True and it hurts more knowing that's it's okay with them to lose you.

  • @shelleyneigumbv6321
    @shelleyneigumbv6321 2 місяці тому +2

    The first time I heard this song it made me cry. I love Tate McRae, but this one just pulls one of my strings that makes me feel that certain way I recently lost a friend due to my anger issues. She didn’t like how I would react when we got in the smallest fight this song really relates to us I wrote down most of the lyrics on a piece of paper and asked for forgiveness. Not sure if she’s gonna forgive me, but today I’m going back to school, hoping that she will forgive me.😢

    • @shelleyneigumbv6321
      @shelleyneigumbv6321 2 місяці тому +1

      I forgot to put in there that it was toxic on both ends and then I know that I’m only in fourth grade. I’m very aware of it, but she also ruined the relationship. It wasn’t only because of my anger issues she didn’t like the way I talk to her by the way I didn’t get her candy when my friend paid me money to do it so she was very she was a very greedy. She was one of those friends That just wanted attention and whatever you got for your other friends I have a other friend will call her Alana so Alana paid me to get candy one day at Circle K and this other girl that was the very toxic one. She wanted the candy all for me and her, and she kept on sticking her hand in my pocket and trying to get gummy‘s from out of my pocket. This is just a reminder not to be so selfish if someone ever Makes you feel that way don’t stay in that relationship. It will hurt you mentally and physically get a relationship that doesn’t cause you stress and that you can always rely on that friend. I know this message is long but I feel that it’s necessary to everyone who relates to this I’m so sorry that you had to go through it as well.❤

  • @chloemourad5544
    @chloemourad5544 5 місяців тому +2

    lost my best friend almost 3 months ago… my birthday is in a few days… im terrified of what she says or i she just doesn’t even say anything to me(which would ruin my whole birthday) she was absolutely everything to me and in a matter of three days she completely ghosted me, and went to a new friend group leaving the friend group we’ve been in all our life. i don’t know how someone could do that. losing a best friend is the worst pain EVER

    • @studiotibo1342
      @studiotibo1342 5 місяців тому

      You see girl if she left you it’s not ur problem i believe in u we all love you and i know if ur gonna making some other amazing friends or got some already now this is a message to u: we love u if she doesn’t care what does it matter i get ur upset but do u know who is there for u?.ur family,maybe other friends and even people online if if they don’t u gotta say to urself: i’m worthy,i’m powerfull and i’m gonna enjoy life the way i want we all love u don’t let that get to ur mind and i hope u don’t have a great birhtday but the best ever!❤

    • @chloemourad5544
      @chloemourad5544 4 місяці тому

      @@studiotibo1342omg tysm this made me smile❤

    • @chloemourad5544
      @chloemourad5544 4 місяці тому

      she never said anything. a girl from my elementary and me have the same birthday and we’re not close but every year we run up to each other and just hug each other, congratulating each other, and wishing each other the happiest birthday. can’t believe i’m actually closer to her then my ex best-friend

  • @mariaendah8309
    @mariaendah8309 4 роки тому +603

    i’m crying so hard, i’m in tears, i’m sobbing and dying in the floor. i miss my ex bestfriends. now she with new bestfriend and replace me. oh she hate me too idk why........
    30 likes , i’ll send this to her.
    *edit: i send this to her and she blocked me, yeah, she blocked me after i send this.*

    • @sodabottle4451
      @sodabottle4451 4 роки тому +3

      heejin rabbit’s dude what happened

    • @savvymartin8642
      @savvymartin8642 4 роки тому +6

      just think that stuff happens for a reason and in the end we are just afraid of change because we are used to someone/something for so long but I promise u to be the best u can, u have to let go to grow.

    • @chaima5501
      @chaima5501 4 роки тому +5

      @@savvymartin8642 yes you are right whenever i remember my ex bestfriend i remind myself that if we are meant to go back together nothing will stop us

    • @theiremsblog2521
      @theiremsblog2521 4 роки тому +7

      they were my bestfriend and i can be happy just with them. i don't wanna live without them. this is so hard. just wishes... dear ex bestfriend... i am not fine. come back. let's try again. oh i am not brave enough to say these sentences to her face. i can not look her eyes. and i know, they don't love me no more...💔💔💔

    • @actober
      @actober 4 роки тому +6

      btw did you do it..?
      I also burst into tears while hearing this..
      i'm sorry about your ex best-friends...

  • @dipishashrestha1130
    @dipishashrestha1130 5 років тому +1881

    “When we walk by and it’s like, I don’t even know you, like I’ve never met you.”
    This hit me so hard :(

  • @user-fz4hw5gj7i
    @user-fz4hw5gj7i 4 місяці тому +5

    It's just hits different when you see your best friend make new bestfriend and treat you just like another stranger

  • @Maddyuknow
    @Maddyuknow 26 днів тому +1

    who else is here in 2024? And Tate please release this on Spotify.

  • @mariamelmasry2609
    @mariamelmasry2609 3 роки тому +1136

    The worst part of losing a best friend is that u still miss them when they don’t even think about you.
    Edit: I’m so sorry to everyone who lost their best friends. I just lost mine three days ago. Turn out she was lying the whole time. :(

    • @stralkidsnotdrugs1138
      @stralkidsnotdrugs1138 3 роки тому +2

      Ikr

    • @user-bx1bd7ju4d
      @user-bx1bd7ju4d 3 роки тому +10

      losing a lover is easy to remove on your life but losing your Bestfriend that thier with you all the time when you are happy,sad.its not easy to forget someone who loves you in the past and you treat them like your family then they just gonna stab you in your back and thats BROKEN for me.Now your just gonna act like you dont care but truly your hurt from inside im just gonna say.when thier still their don't leave them,even if they dont like you make them like you don't stop beacuase may be someday that person leave and say goodbye to you for your entire life :)

    • @yameii3065
      @yameii3065 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly.

    • @kendall6644
      @kendall6644 3 роки тому +1

      Yup

    • @addison13
      @addison13 3 роки тому +5

      And being sad for months while they quickly move on

  • @jinko8832
    @jinko8832 4 роки тому +996

    Today is my ex-bestfriends birthday and shes my neighboor and having a party It sucks that we ended for a dumb reason she really messed up 🤕 shes turning 15 so i guess 15 likes and i will send this to her😪💀

    • @lorraineshebchuk3375
      @lorraineshebchuk3375 4 роки тому +2

      Jennifer LopeZ so close

    • @malakm9216
      @malakm9216 4 роки тому +7

      DID YOU?

    • @aliahluckern710
      @aliahluckern710 4 роки тому +25

      I've know my best friend for.9 years we took a break when I was 12(because of a stupid boy) it lasted for a year then we saw each other for the first time in public we started crying and ran to each other and hugged.

    • @sunniezsideup6075
      @sunniezsideup6075 4 роки тому +11

      My friend was always jealous bc she wanted to be better than me at everything, even though I’m not good at much and I wanted to cherish what I can do well in peace. We’re still “friends” bc I’m still scared of her

    • @kathleendelaney1053
      @kathleendelaney1053 4 роки тому +4

      The same thing happened to me could we be friends plz answer

  • @BabaGirly
    @BabaGirly 3 дні тому +3

    This made me cry your such a good singer

  • @x_MAP_x
    @x_MAP_x 6 місяців тому +3

    Loosing your bff is bad but it's worse when they leave you for someone else

  • @chloespringate293
    @chloespringate293 4 роки тому +1697

    I don’t miss the girl , I miss who she used to be. She’s changed now. But don’t they all?
    EDIT: omg thanks for so many likes and supportive comments I hope all of you get great friends one day 👌

    • @raiyav
      @raiyav 4 роки тому +11

      ChloChloPlays ChloChloGamer unfortunately, yes.

    • @shailanasrin2961
      @shailanasrin2961 4 роки тому +26

      It's so true.....my best friend started completely cutting me off so I
      Had to stop all of it....I don't miss her but it still hurts

    • @audreycook3735
      @audreycook3735 4 роки тому +5

      So true.

    • @bookxlover
      @bookxlover 4 роки тому +4

      Fr

    • @sterlyngsedillo4473
      @sterlyngsedillo4473 4 роки тому +3

      @@shailanasrin2961 same

  • @monce5787
    @monce5787 3 роки тому +644

    When we *WERE* best friends:
    "We're best friends forever"
    "We will get married at the same time"
    "Our children will be best friends just like us"
    "Your gonna be the godmother of my kids"
    "Your my forever"
    "I love you"
    *After 9 years of knowing each other she replaced me with someone she knew for 2 months or less*
    Edit: Thank you so much for 700 likes it it seriously awesome and am so sorry to hear that you ex best friend replaced y'all 🥺💔

    • @miapetch8008
      @miapetch8008 3 роки тому +23

      That happened to me knew her since the day I was born as our parents grew up and she left me for a girl who she knows for two months I’m almost 14 so it would have been 14 years but I guess not

    • @gabby4872
      @gabby4872 3 роки тому +7

      Samesies, knew her from 3rd grade to 6th then we "drifter apart"

    • @mona5689
      @mona5689 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly what Trinity did

    • @ashnib1736
      @ashnib1736 3 роки тому +2

      :/

    • @margaretthomas3765
      @margaretthomas3765 3 роки тому +4

      That happened to me except I knew this girl since birth we were neighbors until I had to move away we didn’t see each other for 5 and a half years turns out she had changed she manipulated me then slowly got rid of me

  • @akhilagottumukkala1035
    @akhilagottumukkala1035 Місяць тому +2

    When we are just strangerswith memories but now she doesn’t remember a single one of our best moments she has moved on and found better friends hurts damn much

  • @chevypoo
    @chevypoo 4 роки тому +547

    the worst part is when your friend ditches you more than 5 times and every time you give her another chance.

    • @chevypoo
      @chevypoo 3 роки тому +1

      @Fipper 2010 awh I feel bad for you :c Well I hope your relationship gets better :)

    • @peighton-ln9li
      @peighton-ln9li 3 роки тому +1

      Yes.

    • @sophieperry9250
      @sophieperry9250 3 роки тому +3

      Like same tho.. 💜

    • @ducky9202
      @ducky9202 3 роки тому +9

      I can’t read this without wanting to cry 🙁I feel like I was the only one who did this and I don’t know what to do I don’t want my heart broken so many times but I don’t want to lose someone else in my life

    • @chevypoo
      @chevypoo 3 роки тому +6

      @@ducky9202 I eventually stopped talking to her. I knew she was not a good friend so I decided to move on you should do that too! It really helped me :)

  • @shahd9916
    @shahd9916 3 роки тому +594

    They're not friends.
    They're not enemies.
    They're just strangers we've shared memories with.

    • @lizcolinder6591
      @lizcolinder6591 3 роки тому +5

      *They’re not friends,
      They’re not enemies
      Just strangers with memories

    • @shahd9916
      @shahd9916 3 роки тому

      @@lizcolinder6591 whats the difference?

    • @lizcolinder6591
      @lizcolinder6591 3 роки тому

      @@shahd9916 doesn’t matter tbh just wanted to say it :/

    • @shahd9916
      @shahd9916 3 роки тому

      @@lizcolinder6591 oop ok lol

    • @lizcolinder6591
      @lizcolinder6591 3 роки тому +1

      @@shahd9916 sorry

  • @_uswa_sandhu
    @_uswa_sandhu 2 дні тому +2

    Dear stranger I can't forget you. 🙃😖😭😭😟😟💔💔🖤🖤🖤

  • @isabellecanto5561
    @isabellecanto5561 7 місяців тому +7

    This song when you are just listening to it is such a vibe and you enjoy it. but when you listen to it When it had happened to you and you are hurt, you understand and cry to it.