EP 28 | My Son Is Gay ft. Body By Ted & Tae Morgan | Set The Record Straight Podcast
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This whole merging homosexuality and molestation together is VERY problematic.
Unfortunately only dumb ass blk folks think this way 😢
Fr, they said at my church that a girl getting molested by a man explains why she’s lesbian now. So then why do they say a man getting molested by a man explains why their gay? Wouldn’t he be with a women because of that molestation? People be flip flopping😒 it’s sooo weird to me.
VERY!!!
Exactlyyyy
It's so fucking annoying, I was never molested.
Without BIG SEXY I could have NOT made it through this interview.. the ignorance blows me fs.
Yep, I almost turned it off. Ted and Von are horribly homophobic and don't give a damn. And Ted asking his son to change around his siblings is mind blowing.
Legit
@@PYTnPink85just because somebody don’t want there son gay don’t mean they don’t like gay or hate guy people . But a straight man don’t want to see that shit . Gay people kill me with that
I really try to support this podcast, mainly because of Big Sexy, but Von is so happily ignorant - I no longer can support. Between the ignorance and hypocrisies, it’s unbearable.
Girl exactly , he blatantly doesn’t want to be educated . He’s belongs on the Fresh and Fit podcast 😂😂😂 that’s basically what this is except he’s doing it to the WHOLE lgbtqia+ community .
@@itsuriahlove he’s not as ignorant as fresh n fit 🤣🤣🤣
@@Joshua-re3xw he would fit right in 😂
He continues telling him why he is the way he is. They both young men but he somehow knows about his life more than himself howwwwwwww???
@@natalyabanks4050 girl likeeee , something is wrong with this man ! I feel like it’s Toxic Masculinity but I’m not quite sure yet
This man said “I can’t help that I don’t want gay sons , Im trynna raise MEN” if y’all don’t see the blatant contradiction and disrespect in that idk what to tell you. These same men will say a trans women are REALLY men because they have penises but then will say gay men aren’t REALLY men because they’re not straight. I’m so sick of the bs.
And don’t get me started on how he literally sat in two black men’s face and tried to preach to them about the black man’s experience as if they aren’t black men themselves because they’re gay. 😂😂😂😂
Right
Like exactly cause what is a man because my sexuality prefers the company of a man I am no longer a man lol. Like the so called MEN don’t even step up as real men in the world so literally miss me. Any real man accepts THEIR seed for who they are and show them love cause at the end of the day let’s keep it real real everybody has to live their lives for themselves. I don’t live my life for my parents I do the best I can to make them happy and if they not that’s on them
PREACH
Bro said if a woman can’t reproduce she’s cursed, there’s no way he thinks before he speaks😭
😂
😂😂😂😂😂
He said the bible said that!
Baby when he said that, I said oh so he just be talking out his ass. Like, the Bible/Christianity and the patriarchy’s is really effing up the community
It’s so ignorant. According to Woman were cursed to experience PAIN while giving Birth
To the host… the issue is you want to be able to stand in your homophobia and heteronormativity without consequence it’s a new time doc
Omgg love love love Big Sexy just always speaking facts and standing up for his ppl!!!!!!!❤❤
Yesss
Big Sexy owns this show. Like the episodes with him get most views. Honestly it’s the only episodes I watch. I do like Von but by himself…it’s a no .
Facts
FIRST OF ALL, you DO NOT CHOOSE to be gay. Someone IS gay, just like someone IS straight, just like someone IS bisexual or IS pansexual. The REAL question Big Sexy should’ve asked Von was “when did he CHOOSE to be straight?” Because to indicate the was a choice in the matter means that you have control over what you are NATURALLY attracted to. And if you can control it then why don’t heterosexual men control their sexuality into trying to be with another man, just like Von is claiming that homosexual men can control their sexuality from naturally desiring men to desiring women. And I’m sure I would get a hard no from him. And that’s because it DOESN’T work like that
You definitely choose to be gay. NOBODY IS BORN GAY!!
Like Big Sexy said in order to talk about this subject, we first have to be educated on the subject. This subject between straight and gay will always be problematic due to lack of education on the subject.
Oh you ate this up so bad😮💨I thought this was an old comment of mine😂💯 NOBODY controls their own sexuality. It's literally no choice being made. We can control sex and who we have it with, but we cannot control who we WANT to have it with, and that's the whole essence of being gay. What you want to do, not what you do.
@@talvistunechi8873 yes and it’s NOT just about the ACT of SEX either. It is about who you have ROMANTIC FEELINGS, ATTRACTION and PASSION towards on the INSIDE. Because two heterosexual men can engage in the ACT of what we call “sex,”and STILL not enjoy it. Because that’s not where there affections, passions, or desires romantically or sexually are. A same sex ACT, DOES NOT make some same sex attracted. That is why tieing homosexuality and molestation together is SOOO problematic
I thought Von was straight ? It’s not making sense bro. How can you be straight trying to speak for a gay experience ?
Bingo!!!!!!! 🎯
and tried to blame tae’s experience of molestation for his choice to be gay. projecting much! 🗣️
that’s his own internalized homophobia spewing out
I was raised by both my parents , and had 2 younger brothers, I've kissed girls from like 14 -17 , never molested nor am I feminine , I have gay interest . I was just attracted to men and was fooling myself thinking I liked women and because how society tells u who you suppose to be attracted to. If I could choose , I would choose to be straight because I always wanted kids,build a family but , wasn't going to deceive a woman knowing what I was feeling inside. What the straight community will never understand especially when it comes to men is : BEING GAY ISN'T A CHOICE ,It's a feeling and u know what you're attracted to , what get your heart racing . WHEN U KNOW U KNOW , You may try and fight it but, the heart wants what the heart wants....Big Sexy you're the best to be so young, you are very knowledgeable and an excellent addition to this platform Big ups to you...Von Rhe' is a phobe and so is Ted , once again , it's a feeling inside it's called ATTRACTION , watching a man do hair does not make him Gay. My brothers are straight . The straight community , will never understand
Facts they won’t it’s sad. I don’t think or know if they want to be educated or not. But, I can’t stand the ignorance
Yall not even practicing christians, but bring up the bible😂😂😂😂😂😂 chyle!
🔥🔥🔥🔥
My issue is that the host and the dad don’t understand how indoctrination and heteronormativity work.
Yes , but most even if you were gay, don’t be feminine or flamboyant please. And at the same time there are so many men like “ Dad” that have more “ mileage” sleeping with other men , but will sit on a panel like this and say the same things …. At the end of the day , so what you want in terms of who you have sex with but the works should not visually be able to see or tell that you are ..!!!!
@@prekcopwell, looking at your profile pic, we can tell what you like… so why don’t you practice what you preach?
Facts right
@@cb18luv that wasn’t very nice 😒
@@tylegend1986 that was the point
I agree wholeheartedly with Big Sexy. He definitely stated facts!
I was raised in a heterosexual 2 parent household most of my life and saw nothing but heterosexual relationships around me and still turned out gay.
Me too😂😂
manifesting big sexy get his own podcast cause chile..
Not straight men admitting that they be thinking about it . Was I the only one who caught that
Chile that ain’t nothing new😭 they act like they’re “stronger” for resisting those urges like sir pls, be who you are
I caught that too...but Idk if this dude str8 Fr, I think he has internalised homophobia due to social pressures to the point where he's refusing himself an experience that he definitely seems curious about exploring.
@@user-kf2oi4sq5bhe said he was touched so maybe that prompted the intrusive thoughts.
43:31 literally is a contradiction. Von said he was molested by a man… and he’s str8. All those men the dad refers to that got touched at kids, im assuming were str8. This proves that molestation DOESNT decide your sexuality. Alot of times, these child predators can sense if a young boy is gay and take advantage of them….. contradiction after contradiction.
I was actually shocked to hear black boys are molested at higher rates than other kids and the molestation goes unreported and the assailant rarely faces jail time. His thesis falls flat.
The issue with Von is he doesn’t understand that being Gay .. IS NOT JUST ABOUT SEX… it’s a preference… just like a man that dates women has a preference men that date men also has a preference…
So we gotta like it or accept it ?
Baby big sexy is asking the right questions. He just got a new fan. 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Yeah this is my first and last time watching this. I can't support ignorance like this. Thank you to Big Sexy for attempting to educate these guys. Von and Body by Ted: People are born with their sexuality. It's biologically embedded in all of us. We become aware of it as we get older. Gender expression and gender identity does not equal sexual orientation. Whew. Just educate yourself if you don't understand. There are a lot of resources out there. Also, I'm a masculine gay man who was raised by my mom and dad. I was never molested or abused. My first crushes in elementary school were always boys before I even knew what gay meant.
Unfortunately you have to remember this is entertainment, this is a modern day version of the little rascals grown up enough to by a couch and a microphone, the only education this panel has is jail and the street , this at best is entertainment via the closed minded lives they have had and everything is based on a limited opinion of said panelist nothing more than the equivalent of old ladies with a 6th grade education swapping home made recipes at the grocery store ..!!!!!
Von is too old to be soo ignorant, shout out to Big sexy
They always say… “what about the kids”… but you black male fathers leave these woman to raise these children by themselves! And when a guy is in the house he teaches his son to be a thug…
Ted only “accepts” his stepson being gay because he’s just that…his stepson. Notice how his tone changes up when he talks about his own seed and the fact that you asked your stepson to mask his real personality to protect whatever you think is going to happen only furthers my point. Heterosexual people irk me with that whole “pushing it on my kids” narrative meanwhile you probably kiss your wife in front of your child but it’s okay because that’s what you accept as normal.
A WORD!
Why is it a problem if a straight men don’t want there son to be gay why is that a problem ?
@@jawoncromartie6613 what you “want” doesn’t or shouldn’t matter as much as your child happiness in life. If you raise your son up the right way that’s all that matters their sexuality doesn’t because at the end of the day you’re not in the bed with your son. (At least I hope because with the way y’all scream and cry for a straight son it’s suspicious)
@@jawoncromartie6613Because when that kid is gay, irregardless of what that father wants, and the father starts to abuse and mistreat and punish that kid for being themselves. That's the issue. It all boils down to abuse. Black men will literally whip their kids for being gay trying to beat it out of them, as if that will change anything🤦🏾♂️ Sexuality cannot be controlled by anyone, especially when its already evident
@@talvistunechi8873 again I said why is it a problem? Y’all get so but hurt and mad and bring up shit that don’t happen. You don’t know fathers that beat they son for being gay . Now what being a child and you. get caught humping a girl, didn’t you get beat ? So now it’s your father beating you as a grown man ?
They said “women conversations” made his son gay wow worms for brains.
I applaud the step dad for loving his gay son but he is repeating a lot of republican/conservative talking points and he don’t even know it
That’s his real dad
@@jaysteph3167it’s not
This man built his podcast off of the attention of bigg sexy and other peoples sexuality. He realized that with this controversy it will get ppl to talk and get attention. Unfortunately these men are just clearly ignorant. I feel like every episode I have seen speaks to the toxic masculinity running rampid in the black community. Plain ignorance. Bigg sexy stands his ground which I love but find somebody else to podcast with. This ain’t the one.
The fact the son sat there and didn't put father in his place as much as he should've
Totally agree! 💯
And you can tell this was his first podcast so I don’t blame the son for not saying anything but then again I feel it , he’s really dope tho I fw tae
Most of them don’t. They let them walk all over them
@@cortezsantiago7927that’s because a lot of times to continue to be “cool” with the family and treated like everyone else that is what you gotta do. Yes it will cause the guy more emotional damage than he deserves but until he realizes that fully being himself is more important than a “family’s” “love” he will continue to stick to what he knows 🤷🏾♂️
@@cortezsantiago7927also take into account the culture of “respecting your elders” (even when they don’t respect you)
Wow that's messed up, so if his son was flamboyant as Big Sexy he gotta leave the crib. That's foul on so many levels in my humble opinion.
Very
Notice they never police lesbians like this
@@cortezsantiago7927 heterosexual males are ignorant in that sense, they make it seem like one is far worse than the other.
i think that hurt his feelings as well. it was harsh!
@@jeremiahbutler6361 I'm sure it did, cause that was harsh he's basically saying he wouldn't accept him for who he is. If I was him I would've moved out the next day.
As a cis-heterosexual person your indoctrinated opinion’s and “beliefs” about queer people’s personal experience has no validity this was a conversation that should have been to listen to UNDERSTAND and walk away with better knowledge on something that neither of them experience for themselves not for them to continually rebuttal with ignorance🤦🏾♂️
And this is WHY I LOVE BIG SEXY!!!! HE ALWAYS set the record straight
Von and Teddy so slow yall been canceling each others points but yall supposed to be arguing the same thing and Ted so slow he aint even realize he was contradicting what von was saying
The thought that because a man is gay that he isn’t a MAN is LATE ⏰ a man is a man because he says he is PERIOD
Von Rhe and Ted my dudes, if you're going to interact and actually LEARN something from the queer community or any community different from yours, then I advise you to listen for UNDERSTANDING, dont just listen with the intention of Responding and correcting someone else's opinion or experiences, otherwise your mentality and spirit arent going to grow Fr.
If you actually listened you really would hear how ignorant and homophobic you sounded. Btw dude, being homophobic is not only saying or using slurs, it's also the denial of their experiences, individuality, and their truth.
Man Big SEXY really reading them & they sound so ignorant
I feel like Von was way off. Gay doesn’t equal femme. There are LOTS of gay men who were raised in the way of “masculinity” and are still gay. Everyone wasn’t touched either
Big Facts
Most gay men aren’t even feminine
Yes they was ..
I really enjoyed the Santana episode so I figured I would watch other episodes….. it’s a HARD no for me. The ignorance is CRAZYYYYYYY … you don’t have to accept one’s sexuality but you damn sure should respect and the disrespect in this episode is absolutely disgusting. Loveeee big sexy he pops his shit every time!! Wishing him nothing but success.
I wonder if y’all feel women that have masculine ways are lesbian 🤔 . Glo Rilla for example . Just because someone has masculine or feminine ways doesn’t determine their sexuality .
Sexy keeping it a stack with y’all 💯 , boy got 2 ears and still acting like he don’t hear the facts . Straight ignorance
I can't understand why they even did this episode! "Normal little boy" this probably traumatized Tae, why is it always black men SMH
35:16- They’re saying it like everyone’s born bisexual & picks a side. Critical thinking skills is key 🔑
Big Sexy needs his own podcast.. The host may need to educate his self more and listen to understand and not listen to respond.. Good conversation
The fact that everyone throws the oooh he was touched really irritates me they make someone being different or not choosing the standard heterosexuality Von definitely gives me that he’s still very uneducated in why people are gay but he is comfortable working with Gay individuals I really shows especially we he says that Gay Ish… like being gay should be hidden and not spoken
I think big sexy is an official co host claim it yessss
I knew I liked guys since I was in second grade. I didn't act on it so much til way later, but There was a man in the house. my Stepfather Since I was about 3 years old. Nobody touched me. I was never molested. I just knew what I saw a particular guy When I was in Second grade, His name was Joseph B. It was at that moment I knew I was attracted to guys. Again, in middle school, during puberty. There was another guy named Chris b. . I definitely had girlfriend's, and experiences with women. But, oh, I knew for almost 90% of my life. That i've been interested in guys. In the crazy thing is to this very day, majority of people that meet me and others that know me believe im straight. 😂😂
This whole conversation was ignorant lol
AF
AF!
I'm a heterosexual man with a gay son so the title of this podcast made me stop and watch. I just wanted to say thank you to Big Sexy. The host of this show ( Von ) was being willfully ignorant and big Sexy was the voice of reason. I also think that the host is using the term " I have gay friends " to hide the fact that he's really homophobic.
Do you agree with Von when he says that every man has thought about trying men at least once in their life?
Sexual Preference is different than Orientation and Sexual IDENTITY….. 2 different things!
Please bring me on this show cuz I wanna prove this man wrong
I wanna see Ts Madison on these type of conversation 😅 on this podcast
Von be a lil too curious. His questions don’t always sound like curiosity, he legit comes off like he’s tryna know what n what not to do
I really thank you BIG SEXY!!!!!!!!!
Sexy be speaking straight facts!! “Then a lot of these niggas nedda marry their child’s mother”. We need more conversations like this‼️
Cmon
How did he not have the option? We live in a heterosexual world. The very first thing most of us see is straight relationships so how did he not have the option?
I’m so glad big sexy is on this podcast *educate* I’m listening.
I’m here from an IG clip, so I’m new here.. hey y’all!! .. firstly I’ll say I am VERY MUCH like Big Sexy in the sense that I too am a VERY logical person who is not biased at all being an empath allows me to not only see, but understand all perspectives involved… Von you definitely contradicted yourself with almost every statement. You kept saying you were entitled to your opinion (which you are) BUT you were trying to argue that these things were facts. Also, every time you realized you were contradicting yourself, you’d use the excuse that they’re the anomaly or that 1 percent. I do love the dialogue though and I enjoyed the questions you asked…
BIG SEXY… let’s be friends!😊
The guy with the glasses speaking nothing but facts, i feel like sextuality is the same as people liking certain foods its not in my dna that for example i don't like Chocolate, you just don't like it. The same way people are straight is the same as people being gay.
We were made to reproduce- conservative, Christian is the only way to look at the world. Dad started off doing great but he’s turning into just another white conservative😢
Ohhh because he not with the gay shit is the reason you say that . But if he love gay shit he still would be black
Von is very ignorant on this subject and unwilling to listen to the the actual gay men in the room when they try to correct him.
The more and more I watch this podcast it becomes clearer that the host is just a little to narrow minded like omg we get it you aren’t gay I promise you we do not care. You don’t have to remind us ever sec because why open up your platform just to be so closed minded to just about everything
This conversation is so problematic. It's easy to see why there are so many DL men in the black community.
They keep proving Big Sexy right! They’re literally talking about mannerisms not sexuality!!!
Nobody has been canceled that didn’t need to be. Opinions don’t get people cancelled, behaviors do
His daddy talked to him about not being gay after being touched instead of getting him therapy 😂
Big Sexy keeps it 💯 at all times. Both guess are very honest and real too.
There’s NO way I’d be around Ted as my father. Why would I oppress myself to make you comfortable? That’s the problem. Had to watch this bc of Big Sexy and that’s it.
Oh well mf tf is wrong with me not wanting my son to be gay Nigga I don’t want that. But if he didn’t care you would love teddy as a daddy
There are people that have been molested doesn’t like the same sex. That was an ignorant statement Ray!
Von contradicts himself ALOT
Sho do
I hate that in order for us to be gay we gotta have been touched or molested… SEXXY ain’t just the one percent like every child has a str8 mother and father… being raised by one or the other… then being sheltered doesn’t help or prevent anything, fuck da cartoons, the music.
Exactly
They cant explain why they str8 again
Von what is wrong with you ?
Sexuality is instinctual!!! It’s how you are wired from BIRTH !!! You know how you don’t have to think in order to breath … It’s instinctual !!!! Being around a bunch of women or men won’t change who you’re attracted to. I wish people would grasp this concept.
I am straight and never thought about that at all. I am a Biblical Christian and even if I wasn't that is something that would never cross my mind. I might be the exception of the rule. I never thought about doing anything with a man. I have always been attracted to women. Back when I was a lukewarm Christian and younger I had crushes on my female teachers. The girls in my classroom when I was younger I would always think about us being married and having kids. Nothing about doing anything with a man ever crossed my mind. Women have always been for me. But as a Biblical Christian I am one woman man.
I wonder if we secretly recorded Von’s night life , who would we find with their legs in the air ..??? The world may never know ..?????
I LOVE big sexy for standing up and making a voice for those with no voice.
You can educate all you want people are going to be dense and refuse to believe facts.
I would never force anything on my kids but Jesus!!!
I have a younger cousin, and I saw it in him at about 2 or 3 no b.s. He's know 21 years old and very loud and proud about being gay. I also have a gay brother and best friend. It was in them! I feel that people can be born gay.
And.. I caught my brother having s.. with a girl ( the middle of the night I jumped up in said "what y'all doing?!) 😂😩 when they were teens. And he still turned out gay.
People kill me acting like they can't tell a kid is gay. I remember in kindergarten and 1st grade the feminine boys were teased for being gay. Some grew up to be gay men and none were shocked.
BIG SEXY IS GOING TO ALWAYS PUT VON IN HIS PLACE!!!!!! DOWNNNNNNNN VON THROW THAT BIBLE OUT RIGHT NIEEEE
Von is very disrespectful
Im gay and im telling you ive felt that way as a little kid, some of us know and there are a lot more gay men on the earth than you think, a lot of men have not & will not come out due to fear of judgement, fear of life, they dont wanna face a hard reality like that, i was raised in the church & i learned that homosexuality is an abomination, however the bible also will teach you about being honest with yourself and facing reality. I cant sugar coat how i feel.
I love you guys for you having these conversations. They are really helpful in the very head space I am in currently. So thank you for sharing these helpful trips
so , if I got this correct he is gay because he might've been touched he's gay got it
And GAY CONVOS '!!!! Aree Fun❤😂'!!! Tuninggg in right nowww'!! Looove ittt... everybody coming together is beautiful '!!!! So FUCK'EMM
Sexy be speaking all the facts ‼️
I got to 11:55 and turned this off !!!! The ignorance is sending me ! But Von is really disrespectful and so ignorant
THANK U FOR YOUR SERVICE BIG SEXY!!! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Big Sexy was talkin his shit and all his points were valid Von is uneducated and misinformed even when a gay man is trying to teach him he still wants to see things his way. Great podcast I jus wish their was understanding on both parts.
Children can only choose to be heterosexual right? I don’t understand why this man that is not of the homosexual experience is trying to push this false narrative about the homosexual experience.
The reason that some gay men were sexually abused is because they were targeted by PREDATORS due to their homosexuality making them vulnerable.
This conversation gets more ignorant by the minute. I don’t know how big Sexy does it.
SEXY REALLY ATE THIS EPISODE 🤌🏾 He attempted to educate these heterosexual men that are set in their ways. Unfortunately, sometimes you just gotta let ignorance be ignorance 🥲
I feel like Von was Trolling 😂🤣 full episode 🤦🏾♀️😂🤣
Love the conversation and honest dialogue🙌🏽 we can agree to disagree and discuss other topics💯 aslong as Big Sexy is speaking the truth I’m here for it✨
Same
Tae, you let this man change your mind that fast? Baby you WERE born Gay. Don't let nobody tell your story.
Sexy got to let everyone speak regardless if they wrong 😂
Oh you know! As soon as you start having those feelings.
We are all not meant to have kids we are all not ever going to be married. Women to men 4 to 1 someone will be lacking
This episode was juicy baby, love how y’all can speak your opinions and stand on what y’all meant. It shouldn’t be took in a offensive way from either stand points
Von don’t want to hear the truth ! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Raising a man and someone being gay is two different things tho
the host is wild ignorant 😂so many contradictions here
My thing is if your a“straight” parent rather you like it or not your child is destiny and sexuality can not be chosen by you THERE HUMAN