Tbh it would still be relevant me and others have made jokes about Dantes inferno when watching any particularly unhinged clips. Regardless I feel for both of them they seemed like they both understood each other and it's sad that it happened but it was mature of them to end it.
Bruh, it's not cuz laura is pretty, she was funny and she matched his energy. Yes i know, dantes wasn't ready to commit, but at least state facts instead of just saying "he isn't read, hot chicks come and go"
Fr, fucked up for dantes to realize he wasnt ready for a relationship and end it out of nowhere 1 year in. Thats gonna ruin her perception of relationships long term.
Huh? Hes fans are not the ones clowning on him. Its the twitter freaks and zaneds community, not dantes. Ofc theres always freaks in his community but the majority was on dantes side, when it comes to his community and fans.
@@YukioKokoko You see it occasionally in his clips now. Either the playful "Bro fumbled" or people actually a bit mad about it, but that's probably the Twitter people now that I think about it 😊
People that are chronically online will do anything for a woman's touch. That fanbase would have sacrificed anything for a ''gamer gurl'' and it is a little sad
@@DaFemboyBun keyword being clips, they can be made by anyone and be viewed by anyone. If you watch his streams the community is nice and wholesome at times. He has alot of hate watchers though.
As someone who enjoys watching unhinged clips of the dude but has never watched a livestream or full video no that’s not it. It’s literally just someone documenting themselves self sabotaging in front of people online
Just because you’d only be able to ever have one girlfriend (if that) doesn’t mean it’s not normal to have multiple failed relationships before you find the right one.
"Dantes leaves his girlfriend to focus on his league career" makes it seem as if he broke up with her because he valued the game more than her, in reality he realized that he is not fitted to be in a relationship atm and that he will use his time being single to further his career (Which just so happens to be playing League)
@@avrillavignefanclub1927according to Dantes tweet she was a ho3 and a liar. So yea. Who wouldn’t want to find another girl. It sounds like she was crazy
Ngl the initial news were pretty deceiving "Dantes leaves his girlfriend to focus on his league career" makes it seem as if he broke up with her because he valued the game more than her, in reality he realized that he is not fitting to be in a relationship atm and that he will use his time being single to further his career (Which just so happens to be playing League)
@user-wp5no6cn2b He values his life goals more than the idea of giving up on that for a girl he met in his early twenties. He already said that this is pretty much the only career path he's willing to take at this point. It's not just his career, it's literally everything he has, his money, his future, all of that would have to be sacrificed to maintain a relationship right now. Laura didn't want to date a man who spent half the day in front of a computer making 500 grand. Dantes wasn't going to be an asshole and lead her on, once she showed she wasn't content, he ended things cleanly. They are young, you don't give up everything for a girl you met 9 months ago at the age of 22. Would you say it would be any more justified for Laura to give up her dreams to abide by Dantes needs? Laura never gave him an ultimatum, he knew she wasn't happy, and wasn't going to keep letting her live like that. That's what caring about a person is, it's not just bending to their every whim, that's just toxicity.
While I do agree with some of what you said, a big point I disagree with is that “there are plenty of hot girls out there so why does this one matter?” Idk much about your life so I don’t want to speculate too much, but since you speculate that people giving Dante backlash are projecting their own insecurities onto the situation to form their opinions, it only seems fair for me to challenge your point by saying maybe you are doing the same? You taking the route of ‘there are plenty of hot girl’ and having a ‘bitches are bitches’ mindset seems like it could stem from a place of being hurt yourself maybe? Because in reality, I think deep down you and I both know that not all girls are the same. Idk anything about this girl he was dating, but let’s say they did share a special connection. Could Dante find someone else in the future he connects with to the same degree? Maybe, but we don’t know that. Is it insane to me that he chose his career instead of her? No, not one bit. BUT, I don’t think it would be insane for him to make a compromise between his career and her if she truly was special. And don’t get all defensive and say I’m a simp because that’s really not what’s going on. Doing so would be just as defensive as perpetrating your somewhat misogynistic view of women that you do in this video if my assumption of where the ‘bitches are bitches’ mindset stems from, as this is where the mindset stems from in almost all cases I’ve seen. It seems like you’re hiding behind being based and calling people who disagree simps because you know this will give you internet street cred when in reality you seem pretty demeaning towards women to a middle ground viewer.
@@TurboJohnits fair point tho. Dude barely knows her then start lumping her w other E-girls in the first few minutes. Like holy shit dont you think thats crazy weird to say that to a chick you dk? Fucking weirdge 😂
@@MohammedKin99I think bro low key profiled her based on her looks alone which shows how bitter he is, he sees a pretty girl and it triggers a edgy rant out of him
I agree honestly. Basically said why would you give up money for merely a women. As if a women could never compare to the value of more money??? Who hurt bro
A loving woman and girlfriend is different than just “hot girl.” A woman who will sacrifice her time and career for you and genuinely love and take care of you, as Dantes even wrote, is not something that will be easy to find. Your take is so unbelievably immature.
I’m kinda glad people have the same thoughts as me in the comments, he seems so out of touch with women in general just based on his comments about them?
@@joserose2803 Yeah. He sounds like he's still butthurt from his last failed relationship and sees himself as a sigma alpha dude. It's so weird and bizarre.
right? might have been based if he didn’t go the whole incel route.. “there are so many hot women out there, why does this one woman matter?” “the women reacting are insecure” “they’re all probably onlyfans girls that are mentally unstable” like ok bro
wtf? i read it as he was breaking up for HER. For HER to focuse on her life, as he saw how she was willing to end it so that she doesn't suffer for his desitions...
Yea, hes literally doing it to help her. He probably wants to be with her, but knows it would hurt her in the end. Do we want another ImAllexx situation? Doomed if you do, doomed if you dont I guess.
I mean, it's not like Dantes and Laura made all this shit public, and not on accident. Both crying on stream at the same time was so fkn cringe. Like keep that shit private.
@@MrAlexnastase97 yea lol I don't really care that Tom is making this but he's the dude that always talks about keeping stuff private and basically profiting off someone's breakup after saying that is funny xD
if you think this is wild, look at what is going on today with Dantes and Tarzaned. Bro that guy (Tarzaned) is a fucking psycho for what he made public
Him breaking up with her cuz he knows how he is, and how he wouldn't give up his career for her, is so fucking mature. He did it for HER, which is such a clear sign of respect. I respect him for ending things when he knew he wasn't ready instead of staying with her which eventually wouldve led to both of them getting even more hurt. Dantes is so fucking mature for this fr, and while what they had was cute and funny, if them being split up is what's best for them, then everyone just has to shut up and accept it
you’re a clown. if he “did it for her” then why get in a relationship in the first place. why put her through that. also why would you set her off by herself to get an abortion so you could play league of legends? he didn’t have a problem stopping streaming for the girls he was playing a year or two ago? but he can’t make any time for this girl now? idk bro i think this actually shows dantes immaturity. there’s more too but im not gonna write a novel, but tldr dantes is not being honest with his fan base and is not as humble and mature as he’s playing out
If he wasn't ready for a relationship then he wouldn't gotten into a relationship with Laura. Dantes literally said he had a hoe phase even right before him and Laura met, that he was talking to multiple girls while he was in Europe and "fell in love" with two of them at the same time, all right before he met Laura. He said he was waiting for the one to settle down with, "the one" then came into his life, "the one" also said she didn't care what his past was and tried to literally support him through all of that and what not and he still broke up with her to play LoL. Dantes is literally just a manipulating asshole. You think a dude who sleeps with women 24/7, doesn't care about their feelings, ends things before they get serious, treats them well so they get attached, proceeds to dump them and blames it on them for getting "too attached" just because "he feels lonely" is mature? All that while he's still pretending to be a Christian?
Tom with the super immature take that you can only pick one between a career and a real partner. I really find him entertaining, but this is the most zoomer youtuber who never really worked or studied take. That and also comparing finding a life partner to some IG thots.
L take, not that it isn’t Dante’s choice idc what they do but you keep referring to her as just some chick, they loved each other, she was a good woman and a wonderful girlfriend.
Absofuckinglutely. Tom saying anyone defending "her" or just their relationship is a simp trying to get brownie points is actually stupid. Why randomly insult literally everyone on a certain side when it seems like your not even taking their argument seriously. It was the girls choice if she was ok with Dante's not making concessions. Not just dante's
Agreed, Tom comes off a bit sexist in this one… trying to make it seem like the only value a female could possibly give to a male is her attractiveness.
@@beausbones5946 no seriously, the way he makes it about 'hot women' and how there's always hot women to find or whatever is really immature and what I feel like he doesn't get is a lot of these people probably feel bad because she put a lot of time and effort into their relationship.
@@Ash-wf6me He's making it about hot women because the people on twitter were. They were posting sexy pics of her and saying "you fumbled this." He was simply give them a rebuttal.
@@galaxyvulture6649 Nah fr, that part where he talks about simps and shoving joe biden up someone's ass was so awful. I remember seeing a in video someone once claiming Lt.Corbis writes his videos all they showed was a discord screenshot from some random account claiming that, but I can believe it.
I do think your perspective is immature. People aren’t talking about hot girls, they’re talking about a caring and loving partner. I don’t believe there’s only one person out there for everyone, but meeting someone who genuinely loves and cares for you, and is even willing to compromise their career to support you, is quite special. Your framing of this is a little immature. I agree Dantes shouldn’t be with someone he doesn’t want to commit to, but this has nothing to do with there being ‘plenty of other hot women’.
Honestly having a relationship as a public figure looks like it sucks. Putting them in your content is essentially a death sentence. Every time someone has a breakup it always has to be a big thing. Fuck that noise.
Bro he speaks true words! A Relationship is something that need time. If you cannot provide that time then do not have a Relationship. Its easy and Dante reflected himself so good and did make a Decision
@@christianrowe992 its fine but dont complain after the fact if u dont find someone willing to do that for u , yes there's so many ppl in this world but the ones who are willing to do that for u idk man very few
This. What an obnoxious content creator. The way he acts as if he had the moral high ground and just pulls strawman after strawman on random people on Twitter. "Hurr you complain? You are probably just poor XD" Real maturity right there.
the reason for the fans reaction, its because dantes wouln't shut the fuck up over the years about how he got cheated on by lots of bitches and felt lonely and sad, he finally got that girl that DID LOVE HIM, and 9 months of her compromising to him in his every need, he dumped her because of lol lmao, bro should have just stayed alone, esesentially he wasted this girls time
This is true, but some people on twitter are just overreacting and acting like he was a manipulator, though these are likely people that have never been in a relationship
he didn't leave her "because of lol", but a insanely profitable career. As to wasting her time, it just seems that at the time he didn't realize how he'd feel. At this point the options would be either to not change anything and have her basically be a slave to him, or him sacrifice the aforementioned career, which could in turn lead to resentment...
You must be a Tarzaned fan to show this level of bias. They didn't break up strictly because of lol, he was toxic for their relationship, unwilling to fully commit yet, and it wasn't fair to her so THEY agreed to break up. He talked about this, he didn't want to break things off, Laura herself said she'd rather do that over taking a break, so thats what they did, cause she was willing to stay with him- which is a sign that she would be susceptible to limiting herself freely to him, so the morally right thing is to stop wasting her time. Also... Wouldn't shut up about getting cheated on? He hardly mentioned it after the fact if you actually saw any of his streams, but yeah if someone gets abused like that they are gonna bitch about it, fucks wrong witchu.
To be fair, he didn't just break up with a girl to continue a career. It's more complicated than that. He gave up something in his life that makes him happy over next to nothing. In the response video that Dantes made on the situation, he said countless times how he is no longer happy playing League and that Laura supported him 110% through all the content he was making. He fumbled by misjudging a situation and giving up genuine hapiness to be miserable more hours of the day. Money should not come at the price of one of your only sources of hapiness in the world.
Call me a simp but I would sacrifice a lot for a honest and good quality woman. They are extremely hard to find. I did do that in fact, which is why I’m happily married.
You are not a simp. Finding and mantaining a life partner is awesome. And being in a loving relationship doesn't actually prevent you from having a career. Tom's point of view on this one is pretty miopic.
@@MinminBeeeHis take isn’t “immature.” It’s no different than anyone else who would rather commit to their career rather than drag a relationship through the mud. I don’t think less of people who decide that and neither do some of the partners left for that reason. It’s only problematic when these people resurface years later in life wanting to settle down or pick up where they left off. That’s when friction starts.
@@MinminBeeehis take is not “extremely immature”, Dantes saw that his gf compromised her own life to him, something he wasn’t willing to do; not because of immaturity, but due to him being a career focused person. So he decided to end the relationship before they both ended up with more discontent. They are also both very young, to imply he ought to sacrifice his extremely successful career for someone he might not even be happy with in less than 5 years is insane. It’s easy for everyone to say they would sacrifice x, y or z for their significant other when they have not much to sacrifice
A partner is not only looks and a hole. They are your best friend, your support, someone who is on your team, someone you can tell anything. Finding someone compatible with you, someone who is willing to sacrifice for you and love you for who you truly are is rare. Relationships require work and commitment, which many people are not ready to give, which is okay, and I respect Dantes decision (I dont know these two anyway), its better for her anyway, because she will find someone who will be willing to put the work in for her. But your point about hot chicks being anywhere is so childish. Being in a relationship is not about just "getting a hot girl".
I understand Dante's perspective, but man do I not like yours. Demeaning the woman because she's somehow worth less than a career is ridiculous. People get to decide their priorities, but nothing is "less than" simply because you value something else more. The fact that you've equated her down to a hot woman and ignored the heartfelt words Dante had for her tells me you understand very little about him or his decision.
I’m so glad that you are sane compared to this guy’s stupid video and the stupid comments. The way that he has ignored that they had a genuine relationship and boiled her down to just “hot girl” is disgusting.
Tom the type of guy to self unalive when he has no family in his 30’s because he cared more about his money than anything else until he has no one and nothing to spend it on other than merely existing.
@@BillyBurnsfield it’s true though, Tom is young but honestly that doesn’t matter, it’s not hard to recognize you’re just building wealth for it to just rot away. Use it to build a family, to create life, it’s an amazing thing.
@@dupa6900 it’s not, what’s wild is I feel like a lot of people get corrupted by the idea of wealth and the status. In reality it’s not money that means anything it’s what you can spend it on and for which is the real thing in life that matters; People, family. People are irreplaceable and priceless, the best things in life are free.
@@ChristopherGray00making as much money as he does wont last forever especially as a streamer eventually he will lose 90% of his fan base so making as much as he can now is probably the right decision although he could see a therapist about how angry he is
@@christianrowe992I mean neither will a good relationship, yeah you might just be able to find ‘other girls’ but will he every have the bond he had with Laura with another girl? Probably not… because no girl is the same, yeah the career doesn’t last forever but do you know what does? A woman who’s happy to take up all her time and spend the rest of her life with you, and if you throw that away for something with a life expectancy of let’s say 5-10 years then yeah he fucked up real bad…
2:31 I agree with you there, but I think he's more stupid for leaving a girl who he had great chemistry with and had a good thing going. At least from what I've seen. I can respect his decision to leave the relationship. Cuz which are ya gonna find first, another multi million dollar business, or a gf.
I also do believe that the clips of streams will be negatively impacted (pertaining maintaining high engagement + views) as the clips which included the both of them have not only insane views but very high rates of engagement. I’m mentioning this due to the aspect of his career, I’m not saying the impact will be drastic as maybe the engagement didn’t positively affect the rest of his platforms
@@fishgirl341 i dont get why you people think you can control his life, he's his own person, and you're deeply invested in his relationships, get a grip
this video is literally the definition of “tell me you never felt the touch of a woman without telling me” . like literally dude, i get it, u never met a woman who loved you, but this video is genuinely embarrassing
@@gavinb8173he clearly never valued any of them lol. just looked it up and hes admitted to cheating on one before. this dude is an asshole when it comes to women and im saying that as someone who loves his videos
When did we stopped holding people accountable for their actions? He knocked up that girl, used her for content farm, made money off her, wasted her time and dropped her like he didn't just ruin her? If he never wanted to get serious then he should have been upfront about it instead of leading her on and then dealing such massive blows. Breakups happen, I understand that but I feel pity for that girl.
Oh so just because they decided to be together and make content Dantes must marry her and live the rest of his life with her? For god's sake they are in their early twenties and their relationship haven't even lasted 10 months. I swear most people who talk here haven't been in relationships and don't have a clue how complicated it actually is.
@@slot0000 I am not saying he should marry her, I am saying what he did is wrong. If you know you're wishy washy about commitment then literally don't lead people on to the point they get hooked to you? He admitted he knew how much she was invested vs him yet it took him so long when damage was already done? According to the leaks he did the same to many girls before where he'd get serious with them despite knowing he has to leave in a month. I think that's some cruel shit. Abortion is not a simple thing, a baby died. A grown ass man like him should already be evaluating his decisions by that point but he choose to farm her for extra months pretending everything was okay while she mourn the loss of baby? I just think he's manipulative and pos. Many men like him exist in society and they aren't usually respected because their actions hurt other people. If you wanna dissect the morality of situation here, dante is obviously not looking good lol
Bro if you're saying that I would prefer money over something close to unconditional love then that would be the best choice as you don't deserve that type of love.
@@GeeMannn I can tell where you're coming from, but not everything that is streamed is purely performative. There's a lot more going on with this story than it seems, and I won't act like I truly know how any of them feel, but I can tell when someone is actually in love, being I am loved.
Almost everyone in a relationship thinks they love the other person at some point. Every ended relationship must just be a fumble by that logic then, because he ended it for one of the best reasons I can think of: a once in a lifetime opportunity that he didn't want to be at her expense.
@@GeeMannnlike with any hunan of all time you dont but you can look at her behavior as a signal as to how genuine their professed feelings are. her behavior is obviously a sign that she cared a lot. its being a human 101. unless she is a Tier 1 Master Social Engineer who just as easily could have been the CEO of a fortune 500 company as this random smelly guys girlfriend.
I feel bad for Laura she is cleary madly in love with him and did seem to vibe with him alot but I cant blame the guy either. Its Dantes, the guy who over and over again says losing in league is worse than having your family murdered. Obviously its a character he plays but I cant believe people are surprised he chose his career over a woman.
Yeah it is funny how everyone is defending him here where like 95% of his audience are cooking him in his UA-cam channel because they know Dantes character and he isn't the good guy the portray himself in this situation.
He was talking about twitch as if its a permanent career when TOS guidelines change constantly and given how fast and vapid the internet twitch could easily fall off a few years from now. A good relationship can last far longer.
ok, but i really dont see the point in making her seem like the 'crazy' one near the end. everyone has their issues ig and if it worked for as long as it did thats nice. reading what dantes said, it seems that it was just a case of inequality in the sense that she was willing to give up a lot for him and his career and he just wasnt in the situation to reciprocate. if hes not ready or cant do that kind of thing thats fine, and thats their thing. i agree that it shouldnt have gone this public but making her seem like the bad guy in subtext the whole video is really baseless and we really dont know what their relationship was like in private. from what they said, there wasnt really a bad guy lol, just a situation of not being able to provide for eachother equally and making a mature decision to end it instead of it leading to hate if there wasnt a way to change things. hope they both recover and do well in the future.
To be honest, I couldn't imagine leaving my woman for my career, despite me loving what I do. Even if I was racking and filling my pockets, a connection is just something you cannot replace with success. I do not know how things were behind the camera, but in front of the camera they seemed to click. Sure he can find ton of hotter women, that's not the point. The point is that how is this a valid reason to break up?
Your take on the balance between a career and a relationships shows you arent really experienced in the field ngl. You can absolutely make it happen and the word career is so insanely overblown its ridiculous. After what he said, he better keep his word and never have a girlfriend again until he is retired
Bro he's 22, Tom is also 22. These young dudes are new to relationships and life in general, with more money and influence than any one man should ever have. Saying Dantes should never find it within himself to commit to another relationship during his career is insane. I was a much different man with much different views and feelings on commitment at 22 than I am now. These guys literally aren't even finished mentally developing yet lol. Not that it's an excuse for any of their choices, but they both have tons of room and time to change their outlooks, environments and aspirations. Dantes was mature to cut it off where he did. He knew he couldn't provide what he felt like she deserves so he ended it. The girl clearly has her own issues she needs to work out to be ready for a serious long-term relationship.
@@trevorandrew8726If you know you don't have experience or knowledge with relationships then maybe don't preach to your audience how to handle relationships. You dont need to be 25 or older to know how to make them work. Heck you'll have people like boogie in their 40s still messing them up.
@@galaxyvulture6649 I agree with that sentiment. Once again, it wasn’t framed as an excuse for their actions or decisions but it is a factor. I don’t think Dantes was wrong in his decision at all. I think Tom may be a little hyper vigilant with his response to the criticisms aimed at Dantes tho. I do agree with a good bit of what Tom was saying, but he’s closed minded about what a good woman can do for you and your development as a man. In this situation specifically though, neither Dantes or his ex were ready for a committed relationship. Dantes knew he was focused on his grind and she admitted to self harm and going into tantrums over affection or the lack there of. It’s plain to see this decision was for the best in the long term for both of them. I hope they both find what they’re looking for and continue to grow emotionally and mentally. Who knows, maybe one day things will line up and they’ll get to try again as better people.
Anyone criticizing this guy for making the conscious decision to break up with his girlfriend so she doesn’t feel neglected has no idea what a real relationship entails. Different people take different amounts of time to reach certain levels of commitment. If Dantes feels like he simply wasn’t at the level she was at because he wanted to further his career, how can it be a negative to be as transparent as possible with his girlfriend and come to the conclusion you shouldn’t further the relationship? What would’ve been a better alternative: for him to take his career less seriously when he wasn’t ready, possibly leading to resentment down the road? I feel that people are making this a bigger deal than normal because he “left her for League xD”, but essentially what has happened in this situation is someone decided to end a relationship with someone else because they were conscious of the fact the level of commitment they were willing to be at didn’t match their partner’s, which is probably one of the most sane & rational reasons to break up with someone. Anyone truly criticizing him has just never had a real relationship that wasn’t on Discord.
It's just a bunch of kids and/or mental children critiquing his decision. Basically both types have never been in or are years away from considering a serious relationship, and would most likely knock up some whore or get knocked up by some dipshit in no time flat.
I mean, you can completely ignore the details. He could've decided to break things off because he didn't feel anything towards her anymore. It even is possible that might be the case deep down. But even if it were, it's irrelevant. Strangers caring about a breakup that doesn't involve abuse are just being weird. It's just people meat watching and self inserting themselves from his POV and thinking how they'd never make that same decision. Like, who asked?
It's not a good thing to break up based on your assumptions of your partner's feelings. I had this exact same thought about 2 years ago and brought this up to my psychologist. She basically explained to me that whether you are enough to your partner is up to your partner to decide. Basically by breaking up over you are essentially letting your own fear and insecurity take over, and you are completely ignoring the actual problem you are having by just uprooting the byproduct of that insecurity. Dantes has also explained in his post that he did this behaviour more often than just this case. He for some reason just fails to realise that this is just the exact same pattern repeating, it just took longer because he was more attached to Laura.
@@martijnp sorry but what you've gone through doesn't matter because it's a completely different situation and yes you can. If you can clearly tell that you don't put into the relationship as much as your gf and want to focused of other things more then it's a valid reason to break up. PS. Just because your psychologist tell this to you doesn't mean you can tell if other people are experiencing the same thing
@@liyanqil my point still stands, Dantes doesn't need to decide for Laura if what he provides is enough or not. If Laura is OK with the situation then the only thing that remains is Dantes' insecurity. At the end of the day anyone including Dantes and me can make up a million reasons why a relationship doesn't work for the other person, but the simple fact is: that person is still in a relationship with you. Clearly none of those million reasons are relevant enough for them to do it themselves, so making the decision for them is a cop out
Can these INCELS please stop bringing up Laura's looks, she's gorgeous yes, but that's all people talk about in this situation. They're still friends and they have respect for each other. There's not "sides" to this, and people keep taking digs at Dante because they see Laura''s good looks as some "prize".
I wonder what the reaction would be if a woman chose her career over a man that did everything for her. Even if it was like an OnlyFans career and the guy wanted her to spend more time with him instead of making content. This is just like the gender swapped version
@@alecsoepicexcept Dante gf was a loving gf and not a generic egirl just like how alot of men aren't generic simps and incels. Tom essentially called a genuinely loyal and loving gf a "hot chick" and then reduced that word to being below money itself.
Woman here, he is 100% in the right to do what he’s doing People always yap about how no means no, that you don't need a reason to say no to $3x or any other thing that relates to consent, but that stuff also applies here, if he wants to break up he's fully in the right to do so, he doesn't owe her a relationship or a “good” reason to break up. People saying “dumping her for video games is horrible” is such hypocrisy, imagine shaming someone for not wanting to be in a relationship with another person? Same thing as shaming a woman for wanting to divorce her husband because she simply doesn’t want to be with him anymore. Crazy shit to expect someone to stay in a relationship when they don’t want to
Well, "no means no" was always bullshit anyway. This guy is a cuckold, next level, ditching a potentially loving relationship with a woman willing to give herself to him completely for more good boy bucks for playing League. Or more likely, he's cheating on her and ditched her this way because low IQ money-obsessed morons will think it makes him look good. You can say "people have different goals and commitment levels" all you want. You're right. Some people have the wrong ones.
@@ChristopherGray00 bro did you compare a 9 month relationship to a 10 year relationship, and bro common he’s 22 not 32 why would he throw his career for a female. Man if you choosing a female you have been dating less than a year over your career is actually insane.
If Dantes had any other job I’d respect his decision but dropping a baddie like that who had great chemistry with him only bc he needs to “fUrThEr hIS LEaGue cArEer” is some pussy shit. League is not even as popular as it used to be and will probably continue to lose more players as time goes on. They will either get back together at some point or he’ll move on to a different game all before he turns 30, more than likely sooner than that too.
@@slot0000 We’re all outsiders looking in. For all we know the entire relationship was awful but to a 20 year old, 10 months is a good bit of time. He realized 10 months in that he cares more about League, he’s an actual idiot
@@BuffAmogus Are you genuinely making the point that he "cares more about league"? This isn't some nobody weirdo who mindlessly plays league of legends all day, he is an extremely successful streamer and internet persona, he makes thousands of dollars playing video games, something most people can only dream of, he's young, has status and probably girls sliding in his dm's 24/7. A once in a life time opportunity of success and fame and to give it up for some average egirl is crazy 💀💀
as someone who got the "i broke up with you because i think you deserve someone else who can give you what i can't" it really does suck cause you sacrificed a lot for this person, only for them to take the "easy way out" without losing the amount you did. so my sympathy goes out to her cause the pain really hurts. however, there's no reason to critise dante for wanting to focus on his career. its a perfectly reasonable reason.
Showing heavy bias here dude. I’m a fan of Dantes, I don’t even watch his streams or play league, just like you I scroll endlessly on UA-cam shorts. However, there really was no need to be a dick about Laura, the girl’s obviously struggled with mental illness so taking the mick out of her for scratching her arms and head-butting walls isn’t cool.
why is he talking about a girl like that? a human with real feelings and emotions, he’s looking at her because of the way she looks and what she can do, not how she’s a real woman, the amount of audacity he has after dating a furry shocks me lmao, he’s being so rude about how dante’s broke up with her, like purse he can break up with her if he feels like he’s not ready for something, but of course laura’s going to be upset, like, she’s wasted so much time of a guy who doesn’t love her the same as she loves him, she’s ought to feel somewhat upset? they’re back tg now which i’m happy for them about too.
tbh i think its mature as hell to realize that they have different commitment levels and end things before they both get hurt worse. its dantes decision so who tf cares anyways but i honestly respect it
@@MarigoldAW i kinda have a problem with him getting in a relationship and leading her on for 9 months. its lauras fault for dating dante but dante has been streaming league for a few years he knows how much he can commit how much he cannot. from the leaks i have seen this aint his first time breaking up with someone over lack of commitment. so i have a problem with him knowing he has these issues but deciding to get laura pregnant and dating her for 9 months
@@Pinakiprime910 How old are you? 9 months is nothing for any relationship. And clearly it wasn't leading on if he also admits it was a relationship. He respected her enough to realize he wasn't going to be the partner that she deserves to have. This is nothing but maturity.
i really hate how everyone's reacting to dantes and laura's split. as a viewer of dantes's, i loved them both and frankly as someone who was rooting for them i truly do not understand why everyone wants to react rashly and berate dantes or dogpile on laura for irrelevant things instead of showing support for them going their separate ways?? as a woman i feel for laura, i saw her short stream right after the breakup and she was absolutely in pieces; you could tell she was in love. and i'm certain dantes wasn't any less in love with laura so the split wouldn't have been easy for him either. and then tarzaned comes out and leaks that laura had an abortion that she didn't want to talk about ever. it's traumatic and tarzaned has just rubbed salt into her already open wounds. and dantes is being demonised for it too. idk i just feel so bad for them both edit: i will say that the fucked up part is that apparently laura herself didn't know that they were breaking up until she saw it on twitter. the pair did go on stream recently to address the stuff tarzaned has been doing and i think it's really clear that they have a lot of love for each other. i don't understand why people want to interfere in a relationship that wasn't theirs.
People who are genuinely mad about this are just self reporting that they don't understand what a healthy romantic relationship looks like. "B-b-b-but she's hot!!! She was willing to do ANYTHING for him!!!" Like, have these people ever thought about that getting a person's named tattooed on you after only being together for a short amount of time is insane and that maybe her extremely clingy personality is unhealthy and that Dantes did the right thing by not taking advantage of that???
She literally supported him through all his bullshit so it’s concerning that he’d leave her instead of giving up like a day of time for her which tbh wouldn’t hurt his career in the slightest
@@ParanoidBobbyMaybe because they were so perfect for eachother? We were all happy for them. A couple like this is such a rarity, he had it all.. She had it all. All while not putting his career at risk. He could have handled it better. Or communicate to her what needs to be done, that he needs to focus on his career for both their sakes. Not jump the gun and just break up. This was just straight up immature of him, there’s nothing else to be said. A mature man / woman knows how to balance life. Yet he took a huge step back. He really fucked up here.
@@jasmin4707i think the longer he stayed with her the more it’ll drag on them. as a girl who is in a rs rn and has gone through some things, i do think it is very mature for him to break up before she gets sucked in deeper. sometimes people can’t change even if they wanted to bcos of different values and goals, sometimes people need the time and space to change. he realised the relationship was way too one sided but the position he is in or circumstances of his life (which we don’t even know off stream abt his mental health, physical health etc) definitely makes it hard for him to change for the sake of her. you can tell by the way he talks also that it was a last resort and a decision that was probably very hard to make. and so he decided to set her free to not burden her anymore even though he can very easily exploit her commitment to him. i don’t think the situation is just OH HE LEFT HER FOR A GAME BRO FUMBLED. given personal circumstances, it ain’t black and white and i don’t think we are in the right place to judge
i can’t agree with this take relationships are about sacrifice if dude can’t hope of stream & cater to her needs is insane. it’s just like a job come home from work sleep & do stuff with your wife ect. dude gave up on a relationship that is the common thing for every relationship time management.?????? L
I agree I think it's morally incorrect to get into a relationship with another person, while you value your career > their feelings / love for them. Is he able to pick his career over his partner, sure, but does it make it right? I'd say it doesn't, and it must hurt the girl to know that the person who told you that they loved you + the person you love, doesn't love you enough to stay over their own career. Did he have to give up his career completely, no, but hes not even willing to compromise for someone he supposedly loves which is concerning. I think it's also odd how tom keeps noting that he just can just find other hot women, as if being hot or just finding a replacement is the thing being discussed. You can't replace a partner, like not even in just looks but in emotional and mental aspects too. Every partners affection, wants, needs is different and to think that once you hit a level of status/financial wealth you can 'just find another hot girl' is just not the case. If this was true, millionaires wouldn't stay with the same girl for decades lol. Tom seems similarly obsessed with self status which explains the bias, and he seems to lack the emotional intelligence to recognize the feelings of other parties in this situation HENCE why he never speculated on it. He only speculated on the superficial aspects such as her attractiveness, his career, the money even noting he makes '100k a month, his career is more important than her' which from a moral perspective just isn't right in my opinion or the opinion of the average person. To clear any confusion im not a hate watcher, I purposely watch tom and kat blaque who are both commentary channels of different political sides, to get a better understanding of situations without any hard biases clouding my judgement. I often find myself disagreeing and agreeing with both, although with turkey tom definitely a bit more often but I am not insanely biased against them personally, just my thoughts.
Anyone who gives a shit about this when there's no form of abuse involved need to log off. They're adults that ended a relationship, it's none of your business. Go touch grass.
Yeah man. In fact, i personally believe that relationships ytubers/streamers have should be confidential but at the end of the day, it's no one elses business.
*Breaks up with GF over career* “wHaT A gOoBeR, HoLy sHiT. bRo ReAlLy DuMpEd HeR fOr LeAgUe” *decides to put more effort into the relationship and cut back on his streams and overall career* “wOw, BrO FeLl oFf. He rEaLlY cHoSe A gIrL oVeR fAmE. SiMp. There’s no winning this, they would’ve complained either way. People really love to gripe over issues that don’t involve them.
the idea that his career would take a nosedive because he cuts one hour of league per day/week and channels it into his relationship is crazy, its probably worth it in the long run since his mental will also improve from having less league brainrot intake
@@ianheinzelmann6888 That’s what I’m saying, it would be different if he was an athlete or politician or something that requires lots of travel. However, he literally stays home on the couch for a living…he has to most free job of them all, lol. Not to mention to make all of this public and then make money off of someone else pain and causing all of this drama is just, I don’t even know man. He is the one that made it public, she literally didn’t have a choice. It’s humiliating for her.
Nah man breaking up over league of legends is fucking wild, there are so many ways to making it work and she seems like a wonderful person, he really did fumble.
He didn't break up over league of legends tf? It's his career, his income, his future as an already popular streamer. He's not a no-life gaming addict that does nothing with his life, just at 22 he's more successful than most people can dream of, doing what he loves. + he didn't fumble, he literally wasn't enjoying the relationship.
Such a bad take. You can have a successful career and a good girl in your life. To call Lauri some "girl" is ridiculous. How would you know that? Maybe it's just me but if I had a woman in my life who is willing to be there for me at the expense of her own career, ambitions, and ultimately following, it sounds like someone you only meet once in your life. I would be willing to reciprocate these things if that ever happened to me, but who said he had to completely stop his career? To compare her to the "there's more fish in the sea" saying just because Dante could get other girls just as if not more attractive than her is crazy to me. Call me lazy or whatever the hell you want. I rather be poor, unknown to the public, and live with a loving partner than become rich, famous and alone. Dante is a streamer, how long will that career last? I don't see Dante as famous as Speed or Kai Cenat, so what future career is he pursuing outside of entertaining his own audience? Tom, I wouldn't be surprised if you were single.
"I rather be poor, unknown to the public, and live with a loving partner than become rich, famous and alone" this desperation is why you're a poor loser with no girl lmao. She's not your girl lil bro why are you writing a paragraph to convince abother guy to fuck this girl?
What about the abortion she had with his child, one month into the relationship, where he just let her fly back to Germany on her own, while he just streamed SoloQ lmfao
@@zeodark2761 babe I’m not from here and by here I mean the west. Some of us born as first daughters to poor families in countries like Bangladesh. Women here are taught that our biggest achievement is a husband. I’m just thankful to Tom for showing me what happens to women who actually listen to that kind of propaganda and bs.
Dantes did the most mature thing in the scenario. He knew that he was career driven, he knew his flaws and he owned up to it by ending things with her. The people on twitter saying "you chose league over her??" are looking at things on a surface level. Yes, in the surface level, choosing league over a girl is insane but choosing a career over someone is a lot better of an option. The career can take you farther than any one person (both man and woman). What he did is the best thing he could do. Instead of leading her on, he ended things and that is something i think not many 22 year olds can do.
They should have found a middle ground imo. Giving up his job for her is dumb, giving her up for his job is dumb. There must have been some middle ground to compromise so they could both have a well paying job while being happy together.
Kinda hard for people not to give their opinions when they made their relationship so public. Also find it funny how the guy that made a career having unhinged takes and making people uncomfortable gets mad when people do the same to him.
its not bc shes hot but bs shes hot AND she is one of the rare types that actually is a great person to him and loves him truly, doesnt cheat and takes care of him. its literally 10/10 and for most guys it will never happen
Just him saying he is not ready for a relationship should be enough. Idk why people go crazy over this. Its just a normal break-up but i guess chronically online people cant understand when they havent had a gf
I’m not sure why he would need to give up his career to spend more time with her. He already makes a ton of money so it’s not like working some less hours would have much effect. If he needs some kind of mansion or large scale validation to be happy then go for it I guess. Hopefully she finds a man who values family more than personal success. I’ll never understand people like this
@@ldelazu Yes, some people don’t need to be rich to find meaning in their lives. I don’t care about mansions, cars, expensive dinners. I care about deep quality relationships with people that I love. I care about being kind and selfless. I care about family. And it is not hard to find financial stability with these values. This world is so sad that people prefer material success, instant gratification and validation over love and connection.
@@ldelazu I don’t define success the same way you do. I will be “nothing” only in the way of material success except I won’t be because I have a CS degree and a good job anyways. I will be something to people I love and that’s what I care about. That’s what matters
Dante gf wasn't crazy or a bitch tho? She was a loyal and loving gf with some slight mental issues that mainly manifested as scratching her own arms. No hitting Dante or anything like that. Calling that "dodging a bullet" must mean you have some godlike standards right?
Bro really said u can find any hot chicks 😂 do u realize how hard it is to find the ones matching u and truly loves u?? Ur takes are one hell of a misogyny. While it is dante's choice to break up with her, but he used to bitch about not finding a good gf and when he has one he ditches her 😂
I agree with you on many parts, however you portray Laura quite negatively which I find unnecessary.. there both just human beings, why make her sound awful?
Even with the career thing put aside, he didn’t put the same effort into the relationship as her (as he said) and because he likes her he let’s her go. He could continue this all because she seems to be willing to do anything to stay and he knows that. So him putting an end in there because he also thinks she does not deserve this is actually so mature of him. I knew his internet persona isn’t really his real him but I never expected him to be this mature in real life.
But did he not string her along for 9 months? He knew he wouldn't commit. The same way he didn't commit to many girls in the past. He let her get his name tattood, he let her get an medical procedure overseas alone while she was at her most anxious. He says it's the most traumatic thing to happen to him, but while she was getting an abortion with his kid, he was fullclearing...
@@jsingh98or maybe Just maybe he realised it after a while into a relationship that he's not suited for it like many young people that got into a relationship. Even his ex says he is giving her less kisses/hugs basically attention after a while so he probably noticed it and break up with her.
@@liyanqil yeah maybe. Maybe it's also a coincidence that he made the relationship public when his numbers were down and broke up with her when his numbers were going down as well...
Having a tattoo that says "Dantes" isn't bad. She could literally just add "Inferno" and say she's a fan of "The Divine Comedy".
GODDDAAMNN, never thought of that!
Tbh it would still be relevant me and others have made jokes about Dantes inferno when watching any particularly unhinged clips. Regardless I feel for both of them they seemed like they both understood each other and it's sad that it happened but it was mature of them to end it.
>actually not about my main man, Edmond "the Count of Monte Cristo" Dantes
Smh
Or the 360 game
Never get a tat of your current partner.. Sounds like a clear sign of a mental disorder
Bruh, it's not cuz laura is pretty, she was funny and she matched his energy. Yes i know, dantes wasn't ready to commit, but at least state facts instead of just saying "he isn't read, hot chicks come and go"
Was about to comment this
Fr, fucked up for dantes to realize he wasnt ready for a relationship and end it out of nowhere 1 year in. Thats gonna ruin her perception of relationships long term.
Yhu right but it’s so many more people like her bruh she not that special bruh
Absolutely agree with you, Bro. Also comparing a relationship to wanking off to some Pictures is insane.
@@Skadongleit was far more mutual then that
tldr
bro was honest with himself and made a choice on his own but now his fans got their panties in a twist because they’re parasocial as hell
Huh? Hes fans are not the ones clowning on him. Its the twitter freaks and zaneds community, not dantes. Ofc theres always freaks in his community but the majority was on dantes side, when it comes to his community and fans.
@@YukioKokoko You see it occasionally in his clips now. Either the playful "Bro fumbled" or people actually a bit mad about it, but that's probably the Twitter people now that I think about it 😊
People that are chronically online will do anything for a woman's touch. That fanbase would have sacrificed anything for a ''gamer gurl'' and it is a little sad
@@DaFemboyBun keyword being clips, they can be made by anyone and be viewed by anyone. If you watch his streams the community is nice and wholesome at times.
He has alot of hate watchers though.
As someone who enjoys watching unhinged clips of the dude but has never watched a livestream or full video no that’s not it. It’s literally just someone documenting themselves self sabotaging in front of people online
Thinking about your reletionship in the way of: "i could always find another girl" is mad brain smooth
Exactly, no one is talking about this. If you love someone, then they are not just "some girl" they are an important aspect of your life.
Just because you’d only be able to ever have one girlfriend (if that) doesn’t mean it’s not normal to have multiple failed relationships before you find the right one.
"Dantes leaves his girlfriend to focus on his league career" makes it seem as if he broke up with her because he valued the game more than her, in reality he realized that he is not fitted to be in a relationship atm and that he will use his time being single to further his career (Which just so happens to be playing League)
@@anindo_pro9591yeah but the guy in the video said that she is just a girl he can just find another one, is he mad
@@avrillavignefanclub1927according to Dantes tweet she was a ho3 and a liar. So yea. Who wouldn’t want to find another girl. It sounds like she was crazy
"The world is full of hot girls" ... Ok... but have you ever been loved by one?
Real
Tom prefers men, look between the lines.
Wait, you're disagreeing that there are many beautiful women in the world, and calling *him* an incel?
@@ShidaPennsthey make sense tho, there are many, but would one truly love you?
@@uurone_ Two do at the moment.
I can’t believe Tom and Dark broke up 😢😢
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the gay couple of the century ☹️
They used to be a cute couple
Hes tom nigga now😢😢😢
who takes the channel? Will Tom be allowed weekly visits?
Ngl the initial news were pretty deceiving
"Dantes leaves his girlfriend to focus on his league career" makes it seem as if he broke up with her because he valued the game more than her, in reality he realized that he is not fitting to be in a relationship atm and that he will use his time being single to further his career (Which just so happens to be playing League)
Alright, you could just say that he doesn't value the game more than her, but money more than her. Potato potato
@@JohnDoe-z2ryeah so? He wants to focused more towards his career and knew he wouldn't focused on the relationship at a 💯.
Because money is more important @@JohnDoe-z2r
@user-wp5no6cn2b He values his life goals more than the idea of giving up on that for a girl he met in his early twenties. He already said that this is pretty much the only career path he's willing to take at this point. It's not just his career, it's literally everything he has, his money, his future, all of that would have to be sacrificed to maintain a relationship right now. Laura didn't want to date a man who spent half the day in front of a computer making 500 grand. Dantes wasn't going to be an asshole and lead her on, once she showed she wasn't content, he ended things cleanly. They are young, you don't give up everything for a girl you met 9 months ago at the age of 22. Would you say it would be any more justified for Laura to give up her dreams to abide by Dantes needs? Laura never gave him an ultimatum, he knew she wasn't happy, and wasn't going to keep letting her live like that. That's what caring about a person is, it's not just bending to their every whim, that's just toxicity.
@@Carnesus Money, yes, money. Words words words
While I do agree with some of what you said, a big point I disagree with is that “there are plenty of hot girls out there so why does this one matter?” Idk much about your life so I don’t want to speculate too much, but since you speculate that people giving Dante backlash are projecting their own insecurities onto the situation to form their opinions, it only seems fair for me to challenge your point by saying maybe you are doing the same? You taking the route of ‘there are plenty of hot girl’ and having a ‘bitches are bitches’ mindset seems like it could stem from a place of being hurt yourself maybe? Because in reality, I think deep down you and I both know that not all girls are the same. Idk anything about this girl he was dating, but let’s say they did share a special connection. Could Dante find someone else in the future he connects with to the same degree? Maybe, but we don’t know that. Is it insane to me that he chose his career instead of her? No, not one bit. BUT, I don’t think it would be insane for him to make a compromise between his career and her if she truly was special. And don’t get all defensive and say I’m a simp because that’s really not what’s going on. Doing so would be just as defensive as perpetrating your somewhat misogynistic view of women that you do in this video if my assumption of where the ‘bitches are bitches’ mindset stems from, as this is where the mindset stems from in almost all cases I’ve seen. It seems like you’re hiding behind being based and calling people who disagree simps because you know this will give you internet street cred when in reality you seem pretty demeaning towards women to a middle ground viewer.
This is the most yapping "who hurt you" comment I've ever seen 😂😂😂
@@TurboJohnits fair point tho. Dude barely knows her then start lumping her w other E-girls in the first few minutes. Like holy shit dont you think thats crazy weird to say that to a chick you dk? Fucking weirdge 😂
It’s not sexiest to say all women are equal. Retard.
@@MohammedKin99I think bro low key profiled her based on her looks alone which shows how bitter he is, he sees a pretty girl and it triggers a edgy rant out of him
I agree honestly. Basically said why would you give up money for merely a women. As if a women could never compare to the value of more money??? Who hurt bro
A loving woman and girlfriend is different than just “hot girl.” A woman who will sacrifice her time and career for you and genuinely love and take care of you, as Dantes even wrote, is not something that will be easy to find. Your take is so unbelievably immature.
True he’s very materialistic, valuing career over a human being that deeply cares and loves you is not something to brag about
I’m kinda glad people have the same thoughts as me in the comments, he seems so out of touch with women in general just based on his comments about them?
@@joserose2803 it really seems like projection to me
@@joserose2803 Yeah. He sounds like he's still butthurt from his last failed relationship and sees himself as a sigma alpha dude. It's so weird and bizarre.
@@astra3202if so he would ask her to work instead and give him money is this how yall goobers thinks?
Bro should never be allowed to form an opinion
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Why is that?
He is spittin facts 🔥🔥🔥
right? might have been based if he didn’t go the whole incel route.. “there are so many hot women out there, why does this one woman matter?” “the women reacting are insecure” “they’re all probably onlyfans girls that are mentally unstable” like ok bro
@@joserose2803 hes right lmao
@@joserose2803 same thing when hoes call men who set boundaries insecure and controlling
wtf? i read it as he was breaking up for HER. For HER to focuse on her life, as he saw how she was willing to end it so that she doesn't suffer for his desitions...
It is. He did. Everyone, INCLUDING TOM 💀🙏 is misunderstanding fucking everything
Yep, it's because people don't know how to read everything and then THINK then go to the comment section.
She can make that decision for herself if that's what she wants, it's a cop out
Yea, hes literally doing it to help her. He probably wants to be with her, but knows it would hurt her in the end. Do we want another ImAllexx situation? Doomed if you do, doomed if you dont I guess.
such a strange comparison@@viderevero1338
Tom the type of guy to talk about random peoples relationship, not skibidy gorilla mode
He's the ultimate cuck
Cuck
Bro cares about a league streamer😮
I mean, it's not like Dantes and Laura made all this shit public, and not on accident. Both crying on stream at the same time was so fkn cringe. Like keep that shit private.
@@MrAlexnastase97 yea lol I don't really care that Tom is making this but he's the dude that always talks about keeping stuff private and basically profiting off someone's breakup after saying that is funny xD
this is such a i will never find a wife take lmfao
100%, these guys are just addicts tbh. It seems they like the line go up and cant get enough.
This dude probably has more fleshlights than I have bongs 😭
Nah. This a greasy take lil bro.
Nah u wrong bro
Ah yes the gooners opinion
if you think this is wild, look at what is going on today with Dantes and Tarzaned. Bro that guy (Tarzaned) is a fucking psycho for what he made public
for real laura doesn't deserve any of this, there are so many retards using her for clicks and views now
I have no idea what that drama is about its not long and conviluted but the tarzan dude sounds nuts 😂
Tarzaned is a D-head, and Dantes was stupid for even hanging out with this guy...
@@fishboymanshark he leaked info about dantes and laura and how laura had a child she aborted i would assume its from dantes since he was involved
@@doggo3225 im aware of that part but the context that surrounds it seems like they had a long history
its not about the girl being hot tom
never was
This
70% of the tweets are about that shit
he's never felt the touch of a woman, let him ramble lmao
@notreal-c2h it's a figure of speech to say he doesn't respect women at all
@notreal-c2hBlud is blinder than an a blind man
Him breaking up with her cuz he knows how he is, and how he wouldn't give up his career for her, is so fucking mature. He did it for HER, which is such a clear sign of respect.
I respect him for ending things when he knew he wasn't ready instead of staying with her which eventually wouldve led to both of them getting even more hurt.
Dantes is so fucking mature for this fr, and while what they had was cute and funny, if them being split up is what's best for them, then everyone just has to shut up and accept it
True & w glaze but true
Lmfao......no 😂
It’s literally not, maturing would be changing so you aren’t so high maintenance, not just accepting your faults as features, what the fuck?
you’re a clown. if he “did it for her” then why get in a relationship in the first place. why put her through that. also why would you set her off by herself to get an abortion so you could play league of legends? he didn’t have a problem stopping streaming for the girls he was playing a year or two ago? but he can’t make any time for this girl now? idk bro i think this actually shows dantes immaturity. there’s more too but im not gonna write a novel, but tldr dantes is not being honest with his fan base and is not as humble and mature as he’s playing out
If he wasn't ready for a relationship then he wouldn't gotten into a relationship with Laura.
Dantes literally said he had a hoe phase even right before him and Laura met, that he was talking to multiple girls while he was in Europe and "fell in love" with two of them at the same time, all right before he met Laura. He said he was waiting for the one to settle down with, "the one" then came into his life, "the one" also said she didn't care what his past was and tried to literally support him through all of that and what not and he still broke up with her to play LoL. Dantes is literally just a manipulating asshole.
You think a dude who sleeps with women 24/7, doesn't care about their feelings, ends things before they get serious, treats them well so they get attached, proceeds to dump them and blames it on them for getting "too attached" just because "he feels lonely" is mature? All that while he's still pretending to be a Christian?
honestly, if you truly love someone, you make it work, because there isnt much more to life
Tom with the super immature take that you can only pick one between a career and a real partner.
I really find him entertaining, but this is the most zoomer youtuber who never really worked or studied take. That and also comparing finding a life partner to some IG thots.
yeah this take feels very immature and very black and white which it is not
Tom defo plays 10 league games a day
How long does a game last
@@XLPlaylists 20-40 min on avg
Dude let go of the girl of his dreams, for fucking LEAGUE of all things. What a dumbass.
@@XLPlayliststoo long sometimes I had a game go for 2hra once
L take, not that it isn’t Dante’s choice idc what they do but you keep referring to her as just some chick, they loved each other, she was a good woman and a wonderful girlfriend.
Absofuckinglutely. Tom saying anyone defending "her" or just their relationship is a simp trying to get brownie points is actually stupid. Why randomly insult literally everyone on a certain side when it seems like your not even taking their argument seriously. It was the girls choice if she was ok with Dante's not making concessions. Not just dante's
Exactly
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you are actually crazy if you think that of her lol
Agreed, Tom comes off a bit sexist in this one… trying to make it seem like the only value a female could possibly give to a male is her attractiveness.
Sounds like Tom has never been in a relationship lmao
literally just told my girlfriend “this is why tom is single” while watching him blab about this
@@beausbones5946 no seriously, the way he makes it about 'hot women' and how there's always hot women to find or whatever is really immature and what I feel like he doesn't get is a lot of these people probably feel bad because she put a lot of time and effort into their relationship.
@@Ash-wf6me He's making it about hot women because the people on twitter were. They were posting sexy pics of her and saying "you fumbled this." He was simply give them a rebuttal.
@@Ash-wf6meI swear isnt tom in his 20s or 30s and yet he talks like a 12 year old💀
@@galaxyvulture6649 Nah fr, that part where he talks about simps and shoving joe biden up someone's ass was so awful. I remember seeing a in video someone once claiming Lt.Corbis writes his videos all they showed was a discord screenshot from some random account claiming that, but I can believe it.
I do think your perspective is immature. People aren’t talking about hot girls, they’re talking about a caring and loving partner. I don’t believe there’s only one person out there for everyone, but meeting someone who genuinely loves and cares for you, and is even willing to compromise their career to support you, is quite special.
Your framing of this is a little immature.
I agree Dantes shouldn’t be with someone he doesn’t want to commit to, but this has nothing to do with there being ‘plenty of other hot women’.
Honestly having a relationship as a public figure looks like it sucks. Putting them in your content is essentially a death sentence. Every time someone has a breakup it always has to be a big thing. Fuck that noise.
You sound like you've never had a real relationship before, bro. Giving off discord mod vibes.
he saw what she looked like with no makeup and made a lucky escape common tate W laura can go add another barcode to her body
not at all
Getting mahjor incel vibes from him
Bro he speaks true words! A Relationship is something that need time. If you cannot provide that time then do not have a Relationship. Its easy and Dante reflected himself so good and did make a Decision
@@goldendragon4244 damn you talk alot you must be a woman lol!
Tom is the type of guy to carve his exes name into his chest then judge a girl who scratches her arms.
context?
Skib
This makes no sense
He doesn’t have to give up his entire career to be with her lmao. How is he sacrificing his whole career?
Whole career? No. But priorities would definitely shift
Yeah exactly he just needs to change a bit as a person like she did for him
@khaledbou7770 he didn't want to though. He doesn't have to and that's ok.
@@christianrowe992 its fine but dont complain after the fact if u dont find someone willing to do that for u , yes there's so many ppl in this world but the ones who are willing to do that for u idk man very few
This. What an obnoxious content creator. The way he acts as if he had the moral high ground and just pulls strawman after strawman on random people on Twitter.
"Hurr you complain? You are probably just poor XD" Real maturity right there.
the reason for the fans reaction, its because dantes wouln't shut the fuck up over the years about how he got cheated on by lots of bitches and felt lonely and sad, he finally got that girl that DID LOVE HIM, and 9 months of her compromising to him in his every need, he dumped her because of lol lmao, bro should have just stayed alone, esesentially he wasted this girls time
This is true, but some people on twitter are just overreacting and acting like he was a manipulator, though these are likely people that have never been in a relationship
thats why you should never listen to idiots 😂
he didn't leave her "because of lol", but a insanely profitable career. As to wasting her time, it just seems that at the time he didn't realize how he'd feel. At this point the options would be either to not change anything and have her basically be a slave to him, or him sacrifice the aforementioned career, which could in turn lead to resentment...
You must be a Tarzaned fan to show this level of bias. They didn't break up strictly because of lol, he was toxic for their relationship, unwilling to fully commit yet, and it wasn't fair to her so THEY agreed to break up. He talked about this, he didn't want to break things off, Laura herself said she'd rather do that over taking a break, so thats what they did, cause she was willing to stay with him- which is a sign that she would be susceptible to limiting herself freely to him, so the morally right thing is to stop wasting her time.
Also... Wouldn't shut up about getting cheated on? He hardly mentioned it after the fact if you actually saw any of his streams, but yeah if someone gets abused like that they are gonna bitch about it, fucks wrong witchu.
You've definitely never had a girlfriend. Keep gooning to E-girls online.
To be fair, he didn't just break up with a girl to continue a career. It's more complicated than that. He gave up something in his life that makes him happy over next to nothing. In the response video that Dantes made on the situation, he said countless times how he is no longer happy playing League and that Laura supported him 110% through all the content he was making. He fumbled by misjudging a situation and giving up genuine hapiness to be miserable more hours of the day. Money should not come at the price of one of your only sources of hapiness in the world.
Learn English your comment makes little sense
Call me a simp but I would sacrifice a lot for a honest and good quality woman. They are extremely hard to find. I did do that in fact, which is why I’m happily married.
@@MinminBeee That’s very sweet of you to say!
Just different values one isn't better than the other
You are not a simp. Finding and mantaining a life partner is awesome.
And being in a loving relationship doesn't actually prevent you from having a career. Tom's point of view on this one is pretty miopic.
@@MinminBeeeHis take isn’t “immature.” It’s no different than anyone else who would rather commit to their career rather than drag a relationship through the mud. I don’t think less of people who decide that and neither do some of the partners left for that reason. It’s only problematic when these people resurface years later in life wanting to settle down or pick up where they left off. That’s when friction starts.
@@MinminBeeehis take is not “extremely immature”, Dantes saw that his gf compromised her own life to him, something he wasn’t willing to do; not because of immaturity, but due to him being a career focused person. So he decided to end the relationship before they both ended up with more discontent. They are also both very young, to imply he ought to sacrifice his extremely successful career for someone he might not even be happy with in less than 5 years is insane.
It’s easy for everyone to say they would sacrifice x, y or z for their significant other when they have not much to sacrifice
A partner is not only looks and a hole. They are your best friend, your support, someone who is on your team, someone you can tell anything. Finding someone compatible with you, someone who is willing to sacrifice for you and love you for who you truly are is rare. Relationships require work and commitment, which many people are not ready to give, which is okay, and I respect Dantes decision (I dont know these two anyway), its better for her anyway, because she will find someone who will be willing to put the work in for her. But your point about hot chicks being anywhere is so childish. Being in a relationship is not about just "getting a hot girl".
tell me u got rejected by every girl u ever attempted talking to without telling me u got rejected by every girl u ever attempted talking to
The way this loser talks in his videos 💀 just repeating the same shit for 10 mins
This sounds very lonely. You don’t have to pick between a job and a relationship.
Ntupud sigger
oh how this has aged
I understand Dante's perspective, but man do I not like yours. Demeaning the woman because she's somehow worth less than a career is ridiculous. People get to decide their priorities, but nothing is "less than" simply because you value something else more. The fact that you've equated her down to a hot woman and ignored the heartfelt words Dante had for her tells me you understand very little about him or his decision.
I’m so glad that you are sane compared to this guy’s stupid video and the stupid comments. The way that he has ignored that they had a genuine relationship and boiled her down to just “hot girl” is disgusting.
First, also Tom rage quiting last night was so not based
That pony game gave him nightmares
Tom, aint NOBODY needed your two cents on the situation 😂
Tom the type of guy to self unalive when he has no family in his 30’s because he cared more about his money than anything else until he has no one and nothing to spend it on other than merely existing.
Lmao ok bro
@@BillyBurnsfield it’s true though, Tom is young but honestly that doesn’t matter, it’s not hard to recognize you’re just building wealth for it to just rot away.
Use it to build a family, to create life, it’s an amazing thing.
Money is literally the best thing except health
@@dupa6900 it’s not, what’s wild is I feel like a lot of people get corrupted by the idea of wealth and the status.
In reality it’s not money that means anything it’s what you can spend it on and for which is the real thing in life that matters;
People, family.
People are irreplaceable and priceless, the best things in life are free.
Her getting upset about not getting hugs or kisses just absolutely shatters my heart. I wish I could comfort her
Im 45, gooning is like going to an expensive steak house. Once in a blue moon, and make sure you enjoy it.
Tf does that mean??
God bless 🙏
Goon Bless 🙏
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Goon bless🙏
saying hes dedicated to his job is an understatement
to the point where i'd argue it is a detriment, not having time to live life and do other things.
@@ChristopherGray00making as much money as he does wont last forever especially as a streamer eventually he will lose 90% of his fan base so making as much as he can now is probably the right decision although he could see a therapist about how angry he is
@@ChristopherGray00 he's young, it's okay and important to focus on your career
@vexs4883 100% people forget his career won't last forever so he's doubling down on the money rn
@@christianrowe992I mean neither will a good relationship, yeah you might just be able to find ‘other girls’ but will he every have the bond he had with Laura with another girl? Probably not… because no girl is the same, yeah the career doesn’t last forever but do you know what does? A woman who’s happy to take up all her time and spend the rest of her life with you, and if you throw that away for something with a life expectancy of let’s say 5-10 years then yeah he fucked up real bad…
2:31 I agree with you there, but I think he's more stupid for leaving a girl who he had great chemistry with and had a good thing going. At least from what I've seen. I can respect his decision to leave the relationship. Cuz which are ya gonna find first, another multi million dollar business, or a gf.
i agree. they had such good chemistry and it is not all about careers. dantes needs to learn to balance
I also do believe that the clips of streams will be negatively impacted (pertaining maintaining high engagement + views) as the clips which included the both of them have not only insane views but very high rates of engagement. I’m mentioning this due to the aspect of his career, I’m not saying the impact will be drastic as maybe the engagement didn’t positively affect the rest of his platforms
@@fishgirl341 i dont get why you people think you can control his life, he's his own person, and you're deeply invested in his relationships, get a grip
@@ParanoidBobby bruh
this video is literally the definition of “tell me you never felt the touch of a woman without telling me” . like literally dude, i get it, u never met a woman who loved you, but this video is genuinely embarrassing
tbf he’s had a bunch of girlfriends lmfao
@@gavinb8173 hiring prostitutes doesnt count
lol he has a girlfriend
@@gavinb8173he clearly never valued any of them lol. just looked it up and hes admitted to cheating on one before. this dude is an asshole when it comes to women and im saying that as someone who loves his videos
When did we stopped holding people accountable for their actions? He knocked up that girl, used her for content farm, made money off her, wasted her time and dropped her like he didn't just ruin her? If he never wanted to get serious then he should have been upfront about it instead of leading her on and then dealing such massive blows. Breakups happen, I understand that but I feel pity for that girl.
Oh so just because they decided to be together and make content Dantes must marry her and live the rest of his life with her? For god's sake they are in their early twenties and their relationship haven't even lasted 10 months. I swear most people who talk here haven't been in relationships and don't have a clue how complicated it actually is.
@@slot0000 I am not saying he should marry her, I am saying what he did is wrong.
If you know you're wishy washy about commitment then literally don't lead people on to the point they get hooked to you? He admitted he knew how much she was invested vs him yet it took him so long when damage was already done? According to the leaks he did the same to many girls before where he'd get serious with them despite knowing he has to leave in a month. I think that's some cruel shit.
Abortion is not a simple thing, a baby died. A grown ass man like him should already be evaluating his decisions by that point but he choose to farm her for extra months pretending everything was okay while she mourn the loss of baby? I just think he's manipulative and pos. Many men like him exist in society and they aren't usually respected because their actions hurt other people. If you wanna dissect the morality of situation here, dante is obviously not looking good lol
@@slot0000Completely skipped over the abortion
@@aussieglizzy They agreed over the abortion tho? If they kept it sure but they didn't
Honestly, the level of self awarenes in that manchild is very admirable....
oh how this has aged
Bro if you're saying that I would prefer money over something close to unconditional love then that would be the best choice as you don't deserve that type of love.
Sorry bruh, but this was a fumble of the year. Meeting another girl who will actually love you like the last one is an ultra rare chance.
How do we know she "actually" Loved him though? Like be real, the streams are performative and in no way confirms what goes on off camera.
@@GeeMannn I can tell where you're coming from, but not everything that is streamed is purely performative. There's a lot more going on with this story than it seems, and I won't act like I truly know how any of them feel, but I can tell when someone is actually in love, being I am loved.
Almost everyone in a relationship thinks they love the other person at some point. Every ended relationship must just be a fumble by that logic then, because he ended it for one of the best reasons I can think of: a once in a lifetime opportunity that he didn't want to be at her expense.
@@VoltigarRBLX I mean if that's the case, then so be it
@@GeeMannnlike with any hunan of all time you dont but you can look at her behavior as a signal as to how genuine their professed feelings are. her behavior is obviously a sign that she cared a lot. its being a human 101.
unless she is a Tier 1 Master Social Engineer who just as easily could have been the CEO of a fortune 500 company as this random smelly guys girlfriend.
Homie is gay, I'm calling it right now
I feel bad for Laura she is cleary madly in love with him and did seem to vibe with him alot but I cant blame the guy either. Its Dantes, the guy who over and over again says losing in league is worse than having your family murdered. Obviously its a character he plays but I cant believe people are surprised he chose his career over a woman.
Who cares
Seeing everyone glazing dantes is crazy 😂. Literally any sane man will choose a loving girlfriend over gaming carrier lmao.
Yeah it is funny how everyone is defending him here where like 95% of his audience are cooking him in his UA-cam channel because they know Dantes character and he isn't the good guy the portray himself in this situation.
He was talking about twitch as if its a permanent career when TOS guidelines change constantly and given how fast and vapid the internet twitch could easily fall off a few years from now. A good relationship can last far longer.
ok, but i really dont see the point in making her seem like the 'crazy' one near the end. everyone has their issues ig and if it worked for as long as it did thats nice. reading what dantes said, it seems that it was just a case of inequality in the sense that she was willing to give up a lot for him and his career and he just wasnt in the situation to reciprocate. if hes not ready or cant do that kind of thing thats fine, and thats their thing. i agree that it shouldnt have gone this public but making her seem like the bad guy in subtext the whole video is really baseless and we really dont know what their relationship was like in private. from what they said, there wasnt really a bad guy lol, just a situation of not being able to provide for eachother equally and making a mature decision to end it instead of it leading to hate if there wasnt a way to change things.
hope they both recover and do well in the future.
this guy has never like experienced love i swear how is your only idea of women as someone who looks nice..
To be honest, I couldn't imagine leaving my woman for my career, despite me loving what I do.
Even if I was racking and filling my pockets, a connection is just something you cannot replace with success.
I do not know how things were behind the camera, but in front of the camera they seemed to click.
Sure he can find ton of hotter women, that's not the point. The point is that how is this a valid reason to break up?
Your take on the balance between a career and a relationships shows you arent really experienced in the field ngl. You can absolutely make it happen and the word career is so insanely overblown its ridiculous. After what he said, he better keep his word and never have a girlfriend again until he is retired
Bro he's 22, Tom is also 22. These young dudes are new to relationships and life in general, with more money and influence than any one man should ever have. Saying Dantes should never find it within himself to commit to another relationship during his career is insane. I was a much different man with much different views and feelings on commitment at 22 than I am now. These guys literally aren't even finished mentally developing yet lol. Not that it's an excuse for any of their choices, but they both have tons of room and time to change their outlooks, environments and aspirations. Dantes was mature to cut it off where he did. He knew he couldn't provide what he felt like she deserves so he ended it. The girl clearly has her own issues she needs to work out to be ready for a serious long-term relationship.
@@trevorandrew8726If you know you don't have experience or knowledge with relationships then maybe don't preach to your audience how to handle relationships. You dont need to be 25 or older to know how to make them work. Heck you'll have people like boogie in their 40s still messing them up.
@@galaxyvulture6649 I agree with that sentiment. Once again, it wasn’t framed as an excuse for their actions or decisions but it is a factor. I don’t think Dantes was wrong in his decision at all. I think Tom may be a little hyper vigilant with his response to the criticisms aimed at Dantes tho. I do agree with a good bit of what Tom was saying, but he’s closed minded about what a good woman can do for you and your development as a man. In this situation specifically though, neither Dantes or his ex were ready for a committed relationship. Dantes knew he was focused on his grind and she admitted to self harm and going into tantrums over affection or the lack there of. It’s plain to see this decision was for the best in the long term for both of them. I hope they both find what they’re looking for and continue to grow emotionally and mentally. Who knows, maybe one day things will line up and they’ll get to try again as better people.
Anyone criticizing this guy for making the conscious decision to break up with his girlfriend so she doesn’t feel neglected has no idea what a real relationship entails. Different people take different amounts of time to reach certain levels of commitment.
If Dantes feels like he simply wasn’t at the level she was at because he wanted to further his career, how can it be a negative to be as transparent as possible with his girlfriend and come to the conclusion you shouldn’t further the relationship? What would’ve been a better alternative: for him to take his career less seriously when he wasn’t ready, possibly leading to resentment down the road?
I feel that people are making this a bigger deal than normal because he “left her for League xD”, but essentially what has happened in this situation is someone decided to end a relationship with someone else because they were conscious of the fact the level of commitment they were willing to be at didn’t match their partner’s, which is probably one of the most sane & rational reasons to break up with someone. Anyone truly criticizing him has just never had a real relationship that wasn’t on Discord.
It's just a bunch of kids and/or mental children critiquing his decision. Basically both types have never been in or are years away from considering a serious relationship, and would most likely knock up some whore or get knocked up by some dipshit in no time flat.
I mean, you can completely ignore the details. He could've decided to break things off because he didn't feel anything towards her anymore. It even is possible that might be the case deep down. But even if it were, it's irrelevant. Strangers caring about a breakup that doesn't involve abuse are just being weird. It's just people meat watching and self inserting themselves from his POV and thinking how they'd never make that same decision. Like, who asked?
It's not a good thing to break up based on your assumptions of your partner's feelings.
I had this exact same thought about 2 years ago and brought this up to my psychologist. She basically explained to me that whether you are enough to your partner is up to your partner to decide. Basically by breaking up over you are essentially letting your own fear and insecurity take over, and you are completely ignoring the actual problem you are having by just uprooting the byproduct of that insecurity.
Dantes has also explained in his post that he did this behaviour more often than just this case. He for some reason just fails to realise that this is just the exact same pattern repeating, it just took longer because he was more attached to Laura.
@@martijnp sorry but what you've gone through doesn't matter because it's a completely different situation and yes you can. If you can clearly tell that you don't put into the relationship as much as your gf and want to focused of other things more then it's a valid reason to break up. PS. Just because your psychologist tell this to you doesn't mean you can tell if other people are experiencing the same thing
@@liyanqil my point still stands, Dantes doesn't need to decide for Laura if what he provides is enough or not. If Laura is OK with the situation then the only thing that remains is Dantes' insecurity.
At the end of the day anyone including Dantes and me can make up a million reasons why a relationship doesn't work for the other person, but the simple fact is: that person is still in a relationship with you. Clearly none of those million reasons are relevant enough for them to do it themselves, so making the decision for them is a cop out
Friend you don't have a right to talk like this. Love is a lot more than looks and sex.
Tom’s Playstation was taken away after he conceived Turkey Tom on Thanksgiving
Underated
Can these INCELS please stop bringing up Laura's looks, she's gorgeous yes, but that's all people talk about in this situation. They're still friends and they have respect for each other. There's not "sides" to this, and people keep taking digs at Dante because they see Laura''s good looks as some "prize".
He said the word guys he said incel
I wonder what the reaction would be if a woman chose her career over a man that did everything for her. Even if it was like an OnlyFans career and the guy wanted her to spend more time with him instead of making content. This is just like the gender swapped version
You think these losers have gfs? I doubt most of these kids have dads, they don't know how relationships work, tiktok brainrot is real.
Not dantes bro thats sad as hell tbh
people that never feel true love will choose anything instead of it
L video. There is nothing more based than giving up the e-celeb life to live humbly with a hot chick. You are literally just gay for Dantes.
Down catastrophically
ah yes e girl is better than money and fame
@@alecsoepicbeing happy is worth more than money and fame.
why is fame valuable in the first place?😂😂😂
@@cablecablecable with money you can be happy tho
@@alecsoepicexcept Dante gf was a loving gf and not a generic egirl just like how alot of men aren't generic simps and incels. Tom essentially called a genuinely loyal and loving gf a "hot chick" and then reduced that word to being below money itself.
Woman here, he is 100% in the right to do what he’s doing
People always yap about how no means no, that you don't need a reason to say no to $3x or any other thing that relates to consent, but that stuff also applies here, if he wants to break up he's fully in the right to do so, he doesn't owe her a relationship or a “good” reason to break up. People saying “dumping her for video games is horrible” is such hypocrisy, imagine shaming someone for not wanting to be in a relationship with another person? Same thing as shaming a woman for wanting to divorce her husband because she simply doesn’t want to be with him anymore. Crazy shit to expect someone to stay in a relationship when they don’t want to
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@@5xwrldchmp thank you bro 🙏
Well, "no means no" was always bullshit anyway. This guy is a cuckold, next level, ditching a potentially loving relationship with a woman willing to give herself to him completely for more good boy bucks for playing League. Or more likely, he's cheating on her and ditched her this way because low IQ money-obsessed morons will think it makes him look good. You can say "people have different goals and commitment levels" all you want. You're right. Some people have the wrong ones.
How many abortions did you have?
@@ChristopherGray00 bro did you compare a 9 month relationship to a 10 year relationship, and bro common he’s 22 not 32 why would he throw his career for a female. Man if you choosing a female you have been dating less than a year over your career is actually insane.
If Dantes had any other job I’d respect his decision but dropping a baddie like that who had great chemistry with him only bc he needs to “fUrThEr hIS LEaGue cArEer” is some pussy shit. League is not even as popular as it used to be and will probably continue to lose more players as time goes on. They will either get back together at some point or he’ll move on to a different game all before he turns 30, more than likely sooner than that too.
"Great chemisty" mf their relationship wasn't even 10 months old and they broke up, it was never meant to be.
@@slot0000 We’re all outsiders looking in. For all we know the entire relationship was awful but to a 20 year old, 10 months is a good bit of time. He realized 10 months in that he cares more about League, he’s an actual idiot
@@BuffAmogus Are you genuinely making the point that he "cares more about league"? This isn't some nobody weirdo who mindlessly plays league of legends all day, he is an extremely successful streamer and internet persona, he makes thousands of dollars playing video games, something most people can only dream of, he's young, has status and probably girls sliding in his dm's 24/7. A once in a life time opportunity of success and fame and to give it up for some average egirl is crazy 💀💀
@@slot0000 viewing women like that is a problem…
@@BuffAmogus true but I'm not judging her character, just the style she puts out. I saw her profile and though "I've seen hundreds of similar girls".
as someone who got the "i broke up with you because i think you deserve someone else who can give you what i can't" it really does suck cause you sacrificed a lot for this person, only for them to take the "easy way out" without losing the amount you did. so my sympathy goes out to her cause the pain really hurts. however, there's no reason to critise dante for wanting to focus on his career. its a perfectly reasonable reason.
Tom the type of guy to have the right arm comically bigger than the left one
Showing heavy bias here dude. I’m a fan of Dantes, I don’t even watch his streams or play league, just like you I scroll endlessly on UA-cam shorts. However, there really was no need to be a dick about Laura, the girl’s obviously struggled with mental illness so taking the mick out of her for scratching her arms and head-butting walls isn’t cool.
"Bro you dumped a hot girl for a videogame? You're not even ready for relationships yet."
"...yes that was my point thank you"
This guy has never been in a serious relationship..
why is he talking about a girl like that? a human with real feelings and emotions, he’s looking at her because of the way she looks and what she can do, not how she’s a real woman, the amount of audacity he has after dating a furry shocks me lmao, he’s being so rude about how dante’s broke up with her, like purse he can break up with her if he feels like he’s not ready for something, but of course laura’s going to be upset, like, she’s wasted so much time of a guy who doesn’t love her the same as she loves him, she’s ought to feel somewhat upset? they’re back tg now which i’m happy for them about too.
tbh i think its mature as hell to realize that they have different commitment levels and end things before they both get hurt worse. its dantes decision so who tf cares anyways but i honestly respect it
you are polish
These lonely internet losers cannot comprehend breaking up with a pretty woman.
@@MarigoldAW i kinda have a problem with him getting in a relationship and leading her on for 9 months. its lauras fault for dating dante but dante has been streaming league for a few years he knows how much he can commit how much he cannot.
from the leaks i have seen this aint his first time breaking up with someone over lack of commitment.
so i have a problem with him knowing he has these issues but deciding to get laura pregnant and dating her for 9 months
@@Pinakiprime910 is the better choice for him to just never try again then?
@@Pinakiprime910 How old are you? 9 months is nothing for any relationship. And clearly it wasn't leading on if he also admits it was a relationship. He respected her enough to realize he wasn't going to be the partner that she deserves to have. This is nothing but maturity.
i really hate how everyone's reacting to dantes and laura's split. as a viewer of dantes's, i loved them both and frankly as someone who was rooting for them i truly do not understand why everyone wants to react rashly and berate dantes or dogpile on laura for irrelevant things instead of showing support for them going their separate ways?? as a woman i feel for laura, i saw her short stream right after the breakup and she was absolutely in pieces; you could tell she was in love. and i'm certain dantes wasn't any less in love with laura so the split wouldn't have been easy for him either. and then tarzaned comes out and leaks that laura had an abortion that she didn't want to talk about ever. it's traumatic and tarzaned has just rubbed salt into her already open wounds. and dantes is being demonised for it too. idk i just feel so bad for them both
edit: i will say that the fucked up part is that apparently laura herself didn't know that they were breaking up until she saw it on twitter. the pair did go on stream recently to address the stuff tarzaned has been doing and i think it's really clear that they have a lot of love for each other. i don't understand why people want to interfere in a relationship that wasn't theirs.
You are extremely cringe for typing all of this out LMAO
u really sat down and wrote all of this shit
@@hehexd8319 im channeling my inner dantes rn
@@hehexd8319replying with that is even worse 😭
@@terezakokes4651how slow are you at typing 🤣
People who are genuinely mad about this are just self reporting that they don't understand what a healthy romantic relationship looks like. "B-b-b-but she's hot!!! She was willing to do ANYTHING for him!!!" Like, have these people ever thought about that getting a person's named tattooed on you after only being together for a short amount of time is insane and that maybe her extremely clingy personality is unhealthy and that Dantes did the right thing by not taking advantage of that???
She literally supported him through all his bullshit so it’s concerning that he’d leave her instead of giving up like a day of time for her which tbh wouldn’t hurt his career in the slightest
@@jasmin4707 he didnt want to, so they broke up, womp womp, no idea why you care about another persons relationshiop so much lol
@@ParanoidBobbyMaybe because they were so perfect for eachother? We were all happy for them.
A couple like this is such a rarity, he had it all.. She had it all.
All while not putting his career at risk.
He could have handled it better. Or communicate to her what needs to be done, that he needs to focus on his career for both their sakes. Not jump the gun and just break up.
This was just straight up immature of him, there’s nothing else to be said.
A mature man / woman knows how to balance life. Yet he took a huge step back. He really fucked up here.
@@badasstoad9419 get a grip little bro, he's not your friend
@@jasmin4707i think the longer he stayed with her the more it’ll drag on them. as a girl who is in a rs rn and has gone through some things, i do think it is very mature for him to break up before she gets sucked in deeper. sometimes people can’t change even if they wanted to bcos of different values and goals, sometimes people need the time and space to change. he realised the relationship was way too one sided but the position he is in or circumstances of his life (which we don’t even know off stream abt his mental health, physical health etc) definitely makes it hard for him to change for the sake of her. you can tell by the way he talks also that it was a last resort and a decision that was probably very hard to make. and so he decided to set her free to not burden her anymore even though he can very easily exploit her commitment to him. i don’t think the situation is just OH HE LEFT HER FOR A GAME BRO FUMBLED. given personal circumstances, it ain’t black and white and i don’t think we are in the right place to judge
Tom saying what everyone not on Twitter was thinking
i can’t agree with this take relationships are about sacrifice if dude can’t hope of stream & cater to her needs is insane. it’s just like a job come home from work sleep & do stuff with your wife ect. dude gave up on a relationship that is the common thing for every relationship time management.?????? L
I agree I think it's morally incorrect to get into a relationship with another person, while you value your career > their feelings / love for them. Is he able to pick his career over his partner, sure, but does it make it right? I'd say it doesn't, and it must hurt the girl to know that the person who told you that they loved you + the person you love, doesn't love you enough to stay over their own career. Did he have to give up his career completely, no, but hes not even willing to compromise for someone he supposedly loves which is concerning. I think it's also odd how tom keeps noting that he just can just find other hot women, as if being hot or just finding a replacement is the thing being discussed. You can't replace a partner, like not even in just looks but in emotional and mental aspects too. Every partners affection, wants, needs is different and to think that once you hit a level of status/financial wealth you can 'just find another hot girl' is just not the case. If this was true, millionaires wouldn't stay with the same girl for decades lol. Tom seems similarly obsessed with self status which explains the bias, and he seems to lack the emotional intelligence to recognize the feelings of other parties in this situation HENCE why he never speculated on it. He only speculated on the superficial aspects such as her attractiveness, his career, the money even noting he makes '100k a month, his career is more important than her' which from a moral perspective just isn't right in my opinion or the opinion of the average person. To clear any confusion im not a hate watcher, I purposely watch tom and kat blaque who are both commentary channels of different political sides, to get a better understanding of situations without any hard biases clouding my judgement. I often find myself disagreeing and agreeing with both, although with turkey tom definitely a bit more often but I am not insanely biased against them personally, just my thoughts.
How many relationships have you been in
why tf did he get with her in the first place if he knew he'd be more committed to his job than her. just wasted her time for no reason
He didnt know from the start. People aint magic and hindsight is 20/20. Touch grass
@@Glaggle5275 it shouldn't have taken him 9 months for him to "know" he didn't want to be with the girl. don't be a retard
Anyone who gives a shit about this when there's no form of abuse involved need to log off. They're adults that ended a relationship, it's none of your business. Go touch grass.
Yeah man. In fact, i personally believe that relationships ytubers/streamers have should be confidential but at the end of the day, it's no one elses business.
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*Breaks up with GF over career*
“wHaT A gOoBeR, HoLy sHiT. bRo ReAlLy DuMpEd HeR fOr LeAgUe”
*decides to put more effort into the relationship and cut back on his streams and overall career*
“wOw, BrO FeLl oFf. He rEaLlY cHoSe A gIrL oVeR fAmE. SiMp.
There’s no winning this, they would’ve complained either way. People really love to gripe over issues that don’t involve them.
based. at the end of the day. gooners gonna goon
the idea that his career would take a nosedive because he cuts one hour of league per day/week and channels it into his relationship is crazy, its probably worth it in the long run since his mental will also improve from having less league brainrot intake
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That’s what I’m saying, it would be different if he was an athlete or politician or something that requires lots of travel.
However, he literally stays home on the couch for a living…he has to most free job of them all, lol.
Not to mention to make all of this public and then make money off of someone else pain and causing all of this drama is just, I don’t even know man.
He is the one that made it public, she literally didn’t have a choice.
It’s humiliating for her.
Nah man breaking up over league of legends is fucking wild, there are so many ways to making it work and she seems like a wonderful person, he really did fumble.
ok and? why do you care so much?
Thank you, finally someone sees how dumb this situation is
@@paulogaspar8295bc genuinely she was so good for him
He didn't break up over league of legends tf? It's his career, his income, his future as an already popular streamer. He's not a no-life gaming addict that does nothing with his life, just at 22 he's more successful than most people can dream of, doing what he loves. + he didn't fumble, he literally wasn't enjoying the relationship.
@@BlehBlahBlegh You are the dumb one to not see it. He's not breaking up over league of legends, he's breaking up over his career.
Never break up with me Tom!
1:32 so being loved by randos on the internet is more important than being loved by a beautiful woman? Careful, your lack of sunlight is showing
Blud is retarded
Such a bad take. You can have a successful career and a good girl in your life. To call Lauri some "girl" is ridiculous. How would you know that? Maybe it's just me but if I had a woman in my life who is willing to be there for me at the expense of her own career, ambitions, and ultimately following, it sounds like someone you only meet once in your life. I would be willing to reciprocate these things if that ever happened to me, but who said he had to completely stop his career? To compare her to the "there's more fish in the sea" saying just because Dante could get other girls just as if not more attractive than her is crazy to me. Call me lazy or whatever the hell you want. I rather be poor, unknown to the public, and live with a loving partner than become rich, famous and alone. Dante is a streamer, how long will that career last? I don't see Dante as famous as Speed or Kai Cenat, so what future career is he pursuing outside of entertaining his own audience? Tom, I wouldn't be surprised if you were single.
"I rather be poor, unknown to the public, and live with a loving partner than become rich, famous and alone" this desperation is why you're a poor loser with no girl lmao. She's not your girl lil bro why are you writing a paragraph to convince abother guy to fuck this girl?
What about the abortion she had with his child, one month into the relationship, where he just let her fly back to Germany on her own, while he just streamed SoloQ lmfao
Gooners are amazed when people choose stuff over hot women cause they genuinely think that will be the best one they bag
Tom as a girl I genuinely thank you for teaching me never to be like Laura and be like Tom. Career is everything. Men will come and go.
Shut up. Don’t act like every time you break up with a guy, you’re not with a new one within two weeks
@@zeodark2761cringe i reddit downvote
100% gotta make sure we got that mansion and mass validation before ever considering sacrificing a little bit of our time for a guy.
@@zeodark2761 lol not every chick is like that
@@zeodark2761 babe I’m not from here and by here I mean the west. Some of us born as first daughters to poor families in countries like Bangladesh. Women here are taught that our biggest achievement is a husband. I’m just thankful to Tom for showing me what happens to women who actually listen to that kind of propaganda and bs.
Dantes did the most mature thing in the scenario. He knew that he was career driven, he knew his flaws and he owned up to it by ending things with her. The people on twitter saying "you chose league over her??" are looking at things on a surface level. Yes, in the surface level, choosing league over a girl is insane but choosing a career over someone is a lot better of an option. The career can take you farther than any one person (both man and woman). What he did is the best thing he could do. Instead of leading her on, he ended things and that is something i think not many 22 year olds can do.
They should have found a middle ground imo. Giving up his job for her is dumb, giving her up for his job is dumb. There must have been some middle ground to compromise so they could both have a well paying job while being happy together.
But if she's cheating, then at the end of the day it's the healthier thing to break it off
Kinda hard for people not to give their opinions when they made their relationship so public. Also find it funny how the guy that made a career having unhinged takes and making people uncomfortable gets mad when people do the same to him.
How is dantes making people uncomfortable?
@notaweebb Search->Clips of Dantes offical. Dude has the most unhinged takes ever
its not bc shes hot but bs shes hot AND she is one of the rare types that actually is a great person to him and loves him truly, doesnt cheat and takes care of him. its literally 10/10 and for most guys it will never happen
My boi can see into the future reassuring she wont cheat . My boi go touch grass, u dont know them. Make some actual friends.
anyone can tell she's a walking red flag from miles away. just look at how she acts and presents herself.
Is that actually confirmed that she's wife material? She certainly doesn't look it
I feel that anyone who believes this and looks down upon his decision are actually projecting.
@@kingkongszso is he😂 which isn’t really the focal reason this occurred
Just him saying he is not ready for a relationship should be enough. Idk why people go crazy over this. Its just a normal break-up but i guess chronically online people cant understand when they havent had a gf
I’m not sure why he would need to give up his career to spend more time with her. He already makes a ton of money so it’s not like working some less hours would have much effect. If he needs some kind of mansion or large scale validation to be happy then go for it I guess. Hopefully she finds a man who values family more than personal success. I’ll never understand people like this
broke mentality
@@ldelazu Yes, some people don’t need to be rich to find meaning in their lives. I don’t care about mansions, cars, expensive dinners. I care about deep quality relationships with people that I love. I care about being kind and selfless. I care about family. And it is not hard to find financial stability with these values. This world is so sad that people prefer material success, instant gratification and validation over love and connection.
@@sgracem2863 yeah thats what i Said, you're and Will be nothing for the rest of ur life, ur choice tho
@@ldelazu I don’t define success the same way you do. I will be “nothing” only in the way of material success except I won’t be because I have a CS degree and a good job anyways. I will be something to people I love and that’s what I care about. That’s what matters
Exactly, i think the situation was fixable. To me he broke up with her because he didn't love that much to put some effort, honestly
He didnt fumbled, he dodged a massive missile with that one.
Dante gf wasn't crazy or a bitch tho? She was a loyal and loving gf with some slight mental issues that mainly manifested as scratching her own arms. No hitting Dante or anything like that. Calling that "dodging a bullet" must mean you have some godlike standards right?
I’m gonna say the gamer word.
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Bro what it’s not about being famous he never loved her you can be famous and have a love life many people do it???
Bro really said u can find any hot chicks 😂 do u realize how hard it is to find the ones matching u and truly loves u?? Ur takes are one hell of a misogyny. While it is dante's choice to break up with her, but he used to bitch about not finding a good gf and when he has one he ditches her 😂
I agree with you on many parts, however you portray Laura quite negatively which I find unnecessary.. there both just human beings, why make her sound awful?
Even with the career thing put aside, he didn’t put the same effort into the relationship as her (as he said) and because he likes her he let’s her go. He could continue this all because she seems to be willing to do anything to stay and he knows that. So him putting an end in there because he also thinks she does not deserve this is actually so mature of him. I knew his internet persona isn’t really his real him but I never expected him to be this mature in real life.
tom the typa guy in his intel arc
The only drama here is your title
But if he strung her along when he knew he wasn’t all in, they’d call him an abusive gaslighting manipulative misogynist whatever
I don't think so lol.
But did he not string her along for 9 months? He knew he wouldn't commit. The same way he didn't commit to many girls in the past. He let her get his name tattood, he let her get an medical procedure overseas alone while she was at her most anxious. He says it's the most traumatic thing to happen to him, but while she was getting an abortion with his kid, he was fullclearing...
@@jsingh98or maybe Just maybe he realised it after a while into a relationship that he's not suited for it like many young people that got into a relationship. Even his ex says he is giving her less kisses/hugs basically attention after a while so he probably noticed it and break up with her.
@@liyanqil yeah maybe. Maybe it's also a coincidence that he made the relationship public when his numbers were down and broke up with her when his numbers were going down as well...
@@jsingh98 lol that's next level brain rot tbh.
Tom missed the spiciest revelation of the Dantes drama.
On today's episode, we are gonna be milking someone's break up 🔥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️💯💯💯
Bro u compare religions ur mega messed up
@@Ccstareditss373 totally
huh?
@@Ccstareditss373 that was a response video