Attracting a good woman || Reading DMs

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  • Опубліковано 11 лип 2024

КОМЕНТАРІ • 45

  • @khensk
    @khensk 23 дні тому +26

    My favourite intro here on UA-cam is "sanibonani sanibonani guys"😂😂😂

  • @bonganimotha8103
    @bonganimotha8103 23 дні тому +9

    The more we speak about dating like this, the more it'll be normal to people's ears...the more it'll make sense when people suggest dates where we meet, walk n talk.

  • @tumelomathlaba9547
    @tumelomathlaba9547 23 дні тому +16

    Mr. Mlotshwa. Thank you very much Sir. God bless you in abundance 🙏🏿 I'm the 22 year old who DM'd you. Truly grateful

  • @mcdonaldlekhoaba
    @mcdonaldlekhoaba 22 дні тому +6

    Im liking the taking a walk as first date idea as it prunes out the fake girls from the real ones. 😂😂 its basically a 90 day rule for guys

  • @musabuthelezi5085
    @musabuthelezi5085 23 дні тому +5

    I like this idea. It opens a platform for more engagement as most of us are asking ourselves the same things.

  • @cromwelgcina9707
    @cromwelgcina9707 22 дні тому +3

    Great lesson man you are even teaching me who's already in a relationships, if things were to go bad I will use that advice

  • @khensk
    @khensk 23 дні тому +7

    That first date idea is so wholesome

  • @lwaziskhonza-596
    @lwaziskhonza-596 22 дні тому +3

    Top tier advice sir I'm 19 years old I'm also looking for someone to build with and I'll definitely take this because I've been brainwashed by the current society that says the first date we should go out to a expensive place mind you I'm studying and it's way above my means thanks very much sir 🙏I'm learning a lot from you if only our parents would teach us about these things

  • @BIGCHAMPNBF02
    @BIGCHAMPNBF02 13 днів тому

    BigUps grootman! Really needed the word

  • @sandileyeni692
    @sandileyeni692 23 дні тому +7

    Thin' intes'fun ukuyi-growa ulotshwala😂😂

    • @pensonmlotshwa
      @pensonmlotshwa  23 дні тому +2

      @@sandileyeni692 Hahahahahaha!!!
      And lapho ngifuna bona…

  • @Sylvester_Mashile
    @Sylvester_Mashile 22 дні тому +2

    Yes, this is insightful.

  • @EmmanuelOkeng-m4d
    @EmmanuelOkeng-m4d 23 дні тому +2

    Hello Pension.
    Love your channel and great topics discussed.

  • @CHRISTIVN.OFFICIAL
    @CHRISTIVN.OFFICIAL 23 дні тому +5

    Nice one. Really enjoyed it. Can you also talk how possible it is for a man to build himself up if he has no father figure around and the strategies around that. Far too many gents without fathers but grow up to be somewhat well rounded. How can these men actively address their weak areas and are they ultimately responsible for their own destiny as individuals? Can they be fully masculine men through growth in mind and embracing responsibility as men and diving deep into themselves to heal whatever it is? Appreciate you bafo!

    • @pensonmlotshwa
      @pensonmlotshwa  23 дні тому +2

      @@CHRISTIVN.OFFICIAL Thank you for the comment! I’ll def do a vid on this! Great one to unpack…

  • @DineoMpala-qg7bl
    @DineoMpala-qg7bl 21 день тому +1

    I don't go a day without listening to you. It's part of my daily routine now. 😅❤ Thank you for this. All the hard work you put in. Telling us izindaba zethu 😂 in order for us to self-reflect. For always being truthful and honest to us as your viewers and fans. Always encouraging us and lifting us. May we grow even bigger than
    this. I foresee 50k to 100k subscribers by year end. God bless you, Pen, nathi siyakuTHANDA. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @siyamanci2596
    @siyamanci2596 22 дні тому +1

    Well said bhuti ka Penuel ❤- it is imperative we talk and discuss about basic things before invest ourselves on someone

  • @sibongisenisakhele3114
    @sibongisenisakhele3114 22 дні тому +2

    Know thyself. Love and Respect thyself. Hlonipha impilo. Mazise umuntu. Mesabe uNkulunkulu. Umsebenzi uqala kuwena. Consistency in good behaviour. Khulekani.

  • @bigthangz5489
    @bigthangz5489 22 дні тому +2

    1:39 ~ if he struggles wth trusting women... he has NOT YET figured out how to TEST & VET them thoroughly.

  • @amandamlotshwa239
    @amandamlotshwa239 20 днів тому

    Good thing our first date was a coffee 😅

  • @ThaboButhelezi-qm6td
    @ThaboButhelezi-qm6td 16 днів тому

    I agree. Great content

  • @its_bobhermanus
    @its_bobhermanus 22 дні тому +1

    I did this although zero Rand ideas in my early 20s and it was 8/10 success. My late 20s, I just see delusional women who are not realistic about first dates or dates in general.

  • @katlamash1189
    @katlamash1189 23 дні тому +2

    Great analogy wrong area to use it in

  • @JohannY3
    @JohannY3 21 день тому

    Although not applicable to me in support this kind of advice because a strong and healthy society is built on strong and healthy families.

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 23 дні тому +2

    Ah mara Penson this is contradictory to yesterday's position. Ai anyway 🍿🥤🧘🏾‍♀️

  • @Me20243
    @Me20243 21 день тому

    Great advice.

  • @samukelomadide797
    @samukelomadide797 22 дні тому +2

    Penson please bro drop a video everyday❤❤

  • @DineoMpala-qg7bl
    @DineoMpala-qg7bl 21 день тому

    Also, maybe you can dedicate these fan engagements on Tuesdays and Thursdays, for example, depending on how much of it is there and then continue with the normal videos / vlogs. So that at least everything is covered. 🤝

  • @bigthangz5489
    @bigthangz5489 22 дні тому +2

    beeeeen wanting u to do this thng of reading DMs videos... then we can comment.

    • @pensonmlotshwa
      @pensonmlotshwa  22 дні тому +2

      @@bigthangz5489 Some DMs are too saucy to read… 😈
      Some are too deep and personal… 😔❤️
      But I’ll find ones that I can read and unpack!🤞🏾

  • @SiyaNxele
    @SiyaNxele 23 дні тому +4

    Ayi Bafo uyi budda kakhulu nge analysis yakho. lento yokukipha imali awazi kuyiwaphi. Yazi ladies dont understand ukuthi we dont mind spending kodwa ayi for umsangano zisuka. enye inkinga, izishimane zibajwayezile ukuthi imali icoshwa phansi

  • @Mihle09
    @Mihle09 20 днів тому

    ❤❤❤