Grandmother Doesn’t Like ANY Of The Bride’s Dresses | Say Yes To The Dress: Atlanta
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Leah Smith tries on many wedding dresses she loves, but she can’t seem to get her grandmother’s blessing on any of them! #SayYesToTheDressAtlanta #SayYesToTheDress
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I'm a grandma, my granddaughters are about the age of the bride. I'd NEVER act like this woman. Respect is one thing, she's a tyrant.
She looked gorgeous in every dress she tried on.
It drives me bonkers when opinionated, domineering family members say "It's just not her." Ummm, I call BS on that. SHE likes it. SHE knows her own self. It's not YOU and what you want and guess what, it's not YOUR wedding.
Yes, I hate that too. I would not bring those kinds of people with me.
I completely disagree. Why would you bring your grandmother, mother and siblings to the appointment? Why would you let your grandmother pay for the dress?
Here’s the thing, most people respect their elders , their community and their family’s opinions. Without them we are all isolated people, obviously, ultimately we should dress to suit ourselves, however, valuing people’s opinions we respect is what makes us social .
I disagree, other people who knows us very well can say it's not her, I can take it or leave it, in my wedding I chose to take these opinions because I was confused and under stress, couldn't decide if I want to look gorgeous or do I want the dress to be gorgeous, do I wish to try something different and surprise people or do I want to be me. I am forever grateful they told me that the dress I originally wanted was not me and talked me out of it because looking back at the pictures now .. damn they were right!
@@sallykins3800 I totally agree.
Grandma is getting on my last nerve
Grandmas can do that...
Real!! She don't like any of the dresses, we don't like her.
😂😂😂
Mine too
"I just don't like anything about that dress." Wow, if you don't like it, Grandma, how about some suggestions about what you *would* like to see your granddaughter wear for her wedding. "I don't like the fabric. It's too shiny. I'd like to see you in a dress with fabric that has more of a matt look." Or, "I don't think that neckline flatters you very well. Maybe a sweetheart neckline would be better than that deep V neck." That gives suggestions for improvement and is helpful.
The first dress was so much better than the last one. I hated the bottom on the last one.
Completely agree!
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I agree, but I think we’re looking at it through a 2024 lens. We thought the eighties dresses were gorgeous at the time. Now they generally look funny!
The first dress was gorgeous on her, the last one was hideous!!
Me too, looked like those mushroom topper dresses. Luckily she looks good in ANYTHING, but I feel sad she missed that 1st Dress. The Bride was just Gorgeous in it.
The consultant cracked the Grandma's hard shell like a boss!
Grandmother says, _"That dress isn't her,"_ i'm hearing _"it isn't who _*_i want her to be."_*
I'm thinking that, _for whatever reason,_ Grandmother doesn't like the idea of her granddaughter getting married.
Damn grandma is all i got to say
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Grandma, calm down. 😂
Yes, absolutely started falling when the consultant mentioned what the bride said in the dressing room about her grandfather. I wish that I could have my grandfather at my wedding one day..
The first dress looked amazing on Leah. It was far better than the dress she chose.
The first dress was the nicest IMO
I agree and the first one was the best.
Yeah- the one she ended up with was not pretty.
Baby girl just made me cry. She looks amazing. Go and be happy. God bless you.
She looked best in the first dress.
By that time I'd be like "WHAT THE HECK DO YOU WANT!?!?!"
I'm very opinionated and know what I like so other than observing, my family doesn't have a say. I would just say I've been dressing myself and looking amazing for years, I don't need assistance.
Why do people think because they're paying, they can choose the dress? Grandma is awful.
Sorry, but if you want your own way ..then PAY YOUR OWN WAY
@@meman6964I agree and if you want what you want then you need to pay yourself.
@meman6964 Do you also tell people who they can do with any other gifts you give ? Do Christmas, and birthday gifts come with stipulations?
When older women are respected within the family, it’s too bad they have to be tyrants.
My grandmas are not here anymore. I know one thing for sure, they would want me to feel comfortable and would want it to be my choice. That’s not this grandmas case
When you offer to pay with a price limit youre going by the brides style, not your own. What looks good on the bride and what the bride likes is the important part, as long as the bride keeps it under the budget you have no say
money has strings. the bride and groom to be, couldn't find any money for the dress?
@@katherenewedic8076 Some people prefer to go the traditional route or their parents/grandparents/in laws refuse to let the bride or groom pay for the dress. Most times it goes well but sometimes we find videos of the person paying being an absolute c u next tuesday bc it's not in their style but in the brides style and they won't buy it unless they approve which is BS
I'm sure your beloved Grandpa was there at the wedding with ya'll ❤
The bride is absolutely adorable with her dimples and all. As a grandma of 8, when her grandma cried, I got teary too. Many blessings for this bride.
Welcome to another [very old] episode of "It's Not Your Dress." If the one who is paying has so much influence & disregards the bride's preference(s), then the bride should pay for the dress herself & not even include this person in the entourage.
Except she found her dress and her grandmother even loved it.
Exactly.. I was kind of like after the 2nd dress... "Why doesn't the #Bride Shell out some for her Dress so she doesn't have to do EXACTLY what Grandma says?" I know we're all #TeamBride when we watch these #SYTTD Episodes w/ Parents, Grandparents, whoever Paying.. but Realistically, that's why there's Drama b/c #Money is ALWAYS a form of #Power and #Selfishness-- with the #Wrong People.
My aunt sent me a shirt. Mom wasn't having it. "That brings out the positive, eliminates the negative and rounds out the in-between." I wasn't allowed to wear outside of the house. LOL
Your mom wanted you to look bad? How loving!
@@codename495 she didn't want me to look bad but at 16 she didn't want me emphasizing my assets.
Loved the first dress.
It would be so nice if members of the entourage would express that they don't care for the look of that particular dress on their bride in a way that's not insulting to the designer of the dress. Just because you don't care for how a dress looks on your bride does not mean that the dress is ugly.
The bride is beautiful & seems so precious.
Melissa is an amazing consultant.
I hope the bride & groom have a wonderful life together.💕
Pfft that grama is annoying! She can just explain what she wants without just saying no oh my lord... it's Leah's day!
I would have told Grandma she wasn't going to bribe me into wearing what she wanted by paying for my dress. That's the problem is everyone bows down to Grandma! And she takes full advantage of it!
I'd rent my dream dress, anyway. It'd otherwise just sit, wrapped up in a box in the attic for the rest of my life. It's the pictures that people will be looking at...not wanting me to go dig my dress out of the attic so they could see what we looked like on our wedding day.
Also Grandma! It's very rude to go to a bridal appointment chomping away on your gum at everyone throughout. You need to learn some manners.
@@isabellind1292Yea, my sister in law rented hers and now 23 years later, she doesn’t even remember it anymore.
@@isabellind1292 In my country we only rent! And it's still expensive starting from 1k and up and the price goes down due to how many the dress has been worn usually three / four times is the maximum..
And then it's returned to the bridal Salon but we buy insanely fancy bling dresses almost wedding gown like and we wear on different occasions also those can be rented
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@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj In my country we only rent! And it's still expensive starting from 1k and up and the price goes down due to how many the dress has been worn usually three / four times is the maximum..
And then it's returned to the bridal Salon but we buy insanely fancy bling dresses almost wedding gown like and we wear on different occasions also those can be rented
@isabellind1292
The last dress was not as nice as the others she tried on.
First dress was best. Where do people get off thinking they have to love a dress just because they are contributing or even buying?!!! Jfc, it’s a gift, not a contest!
She looks nice in everything. That's a very nice watch from her grandpa 7:53 looks sparkly and feminine for a wedding 💎✨
Would someone please take Grandma home!!!!
TBH Grandma is a bit of a brat
Grandma was reveling in her power. The br- ide's needs and wants were secondary.
I agree with a commenter below. The bride looks fabulous in all the dresses. But the gandmother holds the ppurse strings. That's the problem. But that DOESN'T mean she gets to choose the dress. As long as the bride stays within the grandmother's budget, the grnadmother should just shut up. So, see, there's really no difference between northern anbd southern brides. Their entourages can all be just as obnoxious, as long as they're not backing up the bride.
Grandma wants a potato sack.
I don’t like that mean horrible grandma. I am a grandma and bride looked great in all dresses. I don’t like how this is going to end…
Gramma not nice🕊
She is gorgeous !!! She looks good in anything
That first dress was so perfect for her, I'M upset she didn't get it. I'm also upset that Grandma didn't just look at her Granddaughter's face and go - that's it! It wasn't about you! It was about her!
Love monty❤❤❤
Gowns are not precious! I’m so glad those “crumb catcher” gowns are gone. Now get rid of the pickups!
I LOVE the crumb catcher neckline! No obnoxious cleavage, so elegant, yet leaves room for a gorgeous statement necklace! My dream neckline!!!!@❤😊
Pickups are longer gone too.
Loved the dress, HATED that veil! Reminded me of the Flying Nun!
I’m a grandma and I would never interfere with my granddaughter’s pick!
Gramma has a bad attitude. Go home negative nelly.
She was paying for the dress. So she kind of had to be there. Secondly, the dress she liked was the one the bride liked best. And it was also the one her grandfather would have liked.
So just maybe the grandmother helped her find the dress that she loved the most? Perhaps the bride (very beautiful) would have picked any old dress and not have seen the one she fell in love with?
You need to see that the grandmother helped the bride with her goal - to find the perfect dress. You don't like her words, fine. But don't forget that, without her, the bride wouldn't have been as happy. Take that for what you will.
This is one time where the grandma was very picky but she actually was right the last dress was the prettiest!
Y'all made me cry again! Drat.
These peoples relatives on this show are absolutely insane, all that matters is if the bride like her own dress. Lol
Rude is just rude, no matter how old you are!! No , no grandma
Thing is, people behave how you allow them to behave. Grandma must be financially loaded for everyone else to be keeping that quiet about her bad attitude.
I would not have been so silent. I guess that's why I'm poor! 😂
That's why it is so important for brides never to rely on their mother or grandmother to pay for the dress. And, when they carry on as such, tell them they don't have to attend the wedding. That shuts them up.
Her Granddaddy was so handsome!
I made a very early decision about my dress. It was about me, nobody's else. So I told everybody it will be a surprise. Period. Had a magical time
Great. And, for this bride, her grandmother helped her find the dress that she loved the most. And THIS bride wanted to find the dress her grandfather would have liked the most.
So you do you. Awesome. But let this bride do her.
Don’t bring anyone with you! Who cares what they think! You like what you like. No ones opinion is relevant! I went by myself and chose the 2nd dress I tried on.
Some brides actually want the guests to ooh and aah over their dress. If they bring an entourage, they can serve as test guests.
So YOU don't care about what anyone else likes. But some brides are different. Who are you to say that they aren't allowed to care what others think? Some brides take all kinds of effort to put on a wedding that guests get wowed over.
Besides, the grandmother is paying for the dress. If you don't want someone's opinion, then you pay for your own dress. End of story. The grandmother gets to choose if she will get out her wallet or not.
The thing though that I don't understand is that the grandmother doesn't give constructive criticism. She's just "no" instead of 'I think the neckline is too wide" or "the silhouette that you would look good in is ..." But the bride brought her, so she is allowed to have an opinion.
That first dress was beautiful on her. How could the grandmother not like it? Really annoys me that people base their choices off one persons opinion.
Bride’s fault. Stop bringing pp like that with you. Bring ONE friend that you have known for a long time and trust.
I love one of the dresses on the mannequin, the one without beading. Looks regency style
Glad it's not just me who can't take their eyes off of it every time they cut to someone talking to the camera. I bet that beautiful beaded, art deco style dress is very pricey. 😍
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So obsessed with the art deco dress! Wish someone would try it on.
When are these older ladies ever going to realize that the wedding isn't THEIR wedding? Its not all about them. They need to step back and let the youngins make their own decisions. If the youngins were raised right, they'd make the right choice.
If you want someone to pay something for you, then you give them power. Period. If you don't want them to have that power, pay for your own darn dress.
"Grandma's are the matriarch of the Southern family."
And all we can do is hope that when these ladies getting married now assume that role that they are nicer to their daughters and granddaughters than this lady was.
#itsnotyourdress #giftsdonthaveconditions
Let’s be honest. She looked great on all of them.
Beautiful ❤
The first dress was the best. The dress she chose is a mess, ugly and didn't look very good on her.
Grandma was right all the time. Leah is tiny, with a very fine figure, so naturally, just about everything looks good on her. No "problem areas" to cover, so that is just not the question. The question is, in which gown she will look like a self-certain, proud, glowing bride - and that was what happened in that last dress. I personally do not even like it that much (pickups, sleeveless, things that do not appeal to me), but look at Leah, she wore it as if she had never worn anything else in her life. Gradma is a wise person.
Oh, Leah! Your grand dad will be dancing at your wedding, I promise.🎉🎉🎉
Probably not the best idea to take Granny shopping when Gramps passed merely months ago.
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Such a beautiful girl, not surprised she is marrying a pro athlete
I didn't like any of them but she didn't ask me. 😊
Made me cry
Grandma is delusional
??? She loved the dress that the bride loved the most. She loved the dress that the grandfather would have loved the most. Isn't that a win?
Beautiful
“Conservative” grandmas and moms need to stay in their own lanes.
Great. Her lane was purchaser of the dress. The bride put her on that lane. And the grandmother kept the bride trying on dresses until she found the one her grandfather would have liked the most. Otherwise, the bride would have stopped long ago.
So the grandmother helped her find the perfect dress. Isn't that a win?
For everyone hatin' on Grandma here, think about this. She loves her granddaughter. She's lost her her husband. She wants her beautiful granddaughter to have a dress that her husband would have approved of. When the bride told the consultant that her grandfather would have loved this dress, that was the moment! She hadn't said that about any of the other dresses. That's what Grandma needed to hear.
Grandma wanted something that covered her up more. I get it, but I also agree it is the bride’s special day. However, Grandma should be celebrated for not raising a family of Nicki Minajs.
It's hard for a bride to enjoy an exciting moment when someone else is paying. Ya just never know when that rainy day fund could come in handy ...
I would tell grandma to just mind her own business.
The bottom of the last one looked like a basket of unfolded sheets. Maybe it just needs steamed, but I dunno.
Grandma YOU are NOT going to wear the dress. Let the bride pick what she wants.
Grandma wants high neck, long sleeves, no shape to it, plain or lace
Why are they uploading old episodes with dated dresses?
We keep watching them!
Or you can pay to watch the series.
Grandpa helped her pick the perfect dress after all. And he surely danced with her at the reception.
All the dresses were lovely on her. This must be old though bc mermaids aren't so popular in summer 2024
Girl, spill: what is trending now?
The difference which exists between North and South is amazing. Grandma would not dominate in the North. She would be more concerned the Granddaughter was happy and the family would shut down people imposing their will on the bride.
Take a look at Grandmas rock on her hand!!!
The shape of the first dress looked nice on her but the bottom looked sloppy. Perhaps it was the camera angle but the tulle appeared to be uneven.
It's her wedding, not grandmas . If she likes it that's what it matters
I've come to the conclusion that if a grown up woman bride can't pick her own dress, after a lifetime of picking dresses for herself, and likely by herself, then maybe she shouldn't be raising her own children. Is she going to need an entourage to get their approval for every parenting decision or thought she has? Why does she care what they all think, if she knows what looks best on her.
Pay for your own dress. Avoid the crabby granny.
Pay for it yourself, and get the dress you want. Problem solved. The grandmother is showing no love for her whatsoever. Grandmother likes the plain and simple because SHE'S plain and simple.
I will just ask the granny be quiet and you are not welcomed to the wedding, if i was the bride. This is her wedding, not the old lady's one. She should just keep her mouth shut and respect the bride decisions.
Send Grandma Home😮
I think Grandma Mrs Grandpa's wee wee
This is an old one
jesus girl grow a backbone and tell granny to shut it - not her dress or wedding - u going to let her pick which house u buy? or how many kids to have? did she pick ur fiance? then she needs to just sit down and shut up and let u be an adult
I agree with Grandma. The last dress was gorgeous and in my opinion the rest were ugly
Grandma go back to the home😮
It’s just not her…. She picked it. Gran knows her better than she knows herself? Maybe no.
hs IT IS NOT #YOURWEDDING!!!!!!! You had your wedding day #LETITGO STCH
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Maybe if they stopped giving her strapless dresses then grandma would approve like what about finding one with a sleeve?
Can get or not Something Glamorous Wedding Dress Will Smith will pay to Leah Smith.
Love me some Monte Ray
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