Pop The Balloon Show Is Out of Control! HIGH-MAINTENANCE Woman GETS REJECTED!

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  • @Kakarot50
    @Kakarot50 2 місяці тому +81

    The entitlement is gonna prevent these women from getting a “Title”

  • @Iam123-i5j
    @Iam123-i5j 2 місяці тому +234

    Theres beginning to be no difference from a 20 year old woman to a 40 year old woman.

    • @mzermichaelterungwa7904
      @mzermichaelterungwa7904 2 місяці тому +28

      There has never been a difference. Regardless of her age, or social or economic status, a woman desires someone who will take care of their bills. Forget the "boss-babe", or " I love to pay my bills" BS, it's all cap.

    • @dicerevo
      @dicerevo 2 місяці тому +23

      Arrested development

    • @Iam123-i5j
      @Iam123-i5j 2 місяці тому +16

      @@mzermichaelterungwa7904 Its also just the way they sound. The maturity isnt there.

    • @mcinmiltwn
      @mcinmiltwn 2 місяці тому +27

      This is a fact, older women are in competition with the younger women.

    • @darkdragon99
      @darkdragon99 2 місяці тому

      Their mental maturity stops once they start receiving sexual attention from men. They don't grow up until they no longer receive sexual attention. And that's when reality sets in for them. And they HAVE TO GROW UP.

  • @elevated4lyfe
    @elevated4lyfe 2 місяці тому +155

    39 years old and she cant describe her best attributes.

    • @jizzyb1572
      @jizzyb1572 2 місяці тому +5

      Bet she had no father

  • @derrickbrown6939
    @derrickbrown6939 2 місяці тому +71

    She's Delusional

    • @permafrost2893
      @permafrost2893 2 місяці тому +3

      "Delusion is a fool's strategic Adversary!"

  • @ladyl22
    @ladyl22 2 місяці тому +34

    The more she opens her mouth the more she gets rejected 😂😂 and they’re seeing why she’s single at her big age 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @darrellgeorge5859
    @darrellgeorge5859 2 місяці тому +323

    39-year-old single woman who prefer gifts and to be the priority in a relationship. She has nothing tangible to offer and has no flaws from previous relationships. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩Red Flags flying.

    • @williebutler8012
      @williebutler8012 2 місяці тому +9

      Dee Dee you're so beautiful

    • @prettyboyswagg18181
      @prettyboyswagg18181 2 місяці тому +4

      @@williebutler8012she married lol but you not lying

    • @Butch3727
      @Butch3727 2 місяці тому +6

      Geriatric pregnancy written all over her. She’s the equivalent of a traveling nurse with her access to the CC

    • @topdoted
      @topdoted 2 місяці тому

      She seems unaware that she has fewer eggs left in the ovaries.

    • @DIDDI4372
      @DIDDI4372 2 місяці тому

      Look man, technically speaking...women are more of an afterthought if ya look at it. And y'all need to remind these females of such. Look God made man...God saw that man was alone...God plucked a rib and gave us woman. It's like I should've made 2 of em at jump, so ama take this shortcut and pluck this rib and make...her!! And oh...another thing God told us bout them. Is that they neither listen nor follow instructions! God says...'No not that fruit'. She says, 'Yes that fruit'...we got kicked outta paradise. Next time god said, 'Ama be on some shit back there in that town, don't look back aight!' She did, and got turned into a Pilar of Salt. Maybe that's why they so damn 'salty'!?!🤔😎✌️ #AComediansThought

  • @mcinmiltwn
    @mcinmiltwn 2 місяці тому +30

    She’s arguing with men she’s not even with. Man these women are doomed.

    • @kaleshabrown
      @kaleshabrown Місяць тому

      I was literally thinking the same thing and that right there is what really kinda made the whole thing so cringe. Like ma'am, just take the criticism and move on, geez lol

  • @solodolo304
    @solodolo304 2 місяці тому +159

    Let's just keep it 💯 a LOT of these chics are borderline SLOW!!

    • @Roy24363
      @Roy24363 2 місяці тому +5

      😂😂😂

    • @kennethsmith6367
      @kennethsmith6367 2 місяці тому +6

      … on the wrong side of the border

    • @ussssaaabixchh
      @ussssaaabixchh 2 місяці тому

      what bro ?? Most women are slow as hell😂

    • @RJN8580
      @RJN8580 2 місяці тому +2

      I spit out my water laughing so true

    • @phyllisreese6476
      @phyllisreese6476 2 місяці тому +1

      Fareal Talk

  • @MarcusM334
    @MarcusM334 2 місяці тому +105

    She downed 2 dudes because of height but the dude that she was willing to give a chance was just as short as them

    • @dicerevo
      @dicerevo 2 місяці тому +34

      Don’t listen to what women say, watch what they do

    • @dricoirving3236
      @dricoirving3236 2 місяці тому +39

      She was tryin to leave with somethin

    • @anthonybaker5199
      @anthonybaker5199 2 місяці тому +8

      ​@@dricoirving3236 Right 😂

    • @AggravatedMan365
      @AggravatedMan365 2 місяці тому +6

      ​@@dicerevoBig facts

    • @zayinseven7923
      @zayinseven7923 2 місяці тому +14

      After a man popped their balloon they were "no longer her type" 😂

  • @kevinjohnson3066
    @kevinjohnson3066 2 місяці тому +68

    Shower me with gifts um let me see who says that... Gold diggers

    • @permafrost2893
      @permafrost2893 2 місяці тому +8

      UPGRADED: They are no longer gold diggers, but Gold Excavators! They are doing more than just digging these days!

    • @Potencylogic
      @Potencylogic 2 місяці тому +3

      😂😂facts

    • @tjr4286
      @tjr4286 2 місяці тому +3

      What, don't children want gifts with no retribution? Oh, grown children minded women.

  • @eddiedelarge2673
    @eddiedelarge2673 2 місяці тому +165

    She's 399999999999.... PAST The DANGER ZONE an CAN'T GET RIGHT still 🤷🤦

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 2 місяці тому

      almost in NO Man's Land where the risk of birth defect is HIGH.

    • @cedrickcarson
      @cedrickcarson 2 місяці тому +8

      No man’s land

    • @ski740
      @ski740 2 місяці тому +2

      Talking about he can't use 7 lol

    • @cedrickcarson
      @cedrickcarson 2 місяці тому +2

      @@ski740 she a fan fr 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @luvellecummingsiii9438
      @luvellecummingsiii9438 Місяць тому

      She is not alone 😅😅😅

  • @3ShadesBlack5
    @3ShadesBlack5 2 місяці тому +134

    "Shower Me With Gifts"......im staying away from these women ........that's crazy, especially for a 40 year old woman.
    Single Forever, Married To My Bank Accounts.

    • @shyguylaurent3647
      @shyguylaurent3647 2 місяці тому +5

      😂😂😂

    • @cedrickcarson
      @cedrickcarson 2 місяці тому +8

      I mean…🤷🏽‍♂️ I dnt blame you brother. She’s 38/39 but got expectations of a 20 something.

    • @liftedenergy3693
      @liftedenergy3693 18 днів тому

      I would expect the same because that is one way I show love.
      Gifts, encouragement, affirmations, and acts of service are the ways I show love.

  • @Derrty-DANCE
    @Derrty-DANCE 2 місяці тому +15

    I’m proud of black men.

  • @andrejohnson1703
    @andrejohnson1703 2 місяці тому +33

    That's 'NOT' high-maintenance, she's play for pay, and that's how she came off..

  • @rhammond1963
    @rhammond1963 2 місяці тому +34

    She sounds like a gold digger.

  • @Tmrolln
    @Tmrolln 2 місяці тому +94

    She's selfish. He wasted his time

    • @jamesgibson3716
      @jamesgibson3716 2 місяці тому +2

      Just think if he would have chosen her. Absolutely a waste of time on his part 😔

    • @noahcrockett9641
      @noahcrockett9641 2 місяці тому +5

      Most definitely wasted time being "not afraid of standards." It would have played out the same way but long and drawn out if he went on with her.

    • @cedrickcarson
      @cedrickcarson 2 місяці тому +5

      @@jamesgibson3716looks like he wanted to bad 😂 some men dnt wanna die alone either and are willing to overlook every red flag 🚩 possible.

    • @Jay-jb2vr
      @Jay-jb2vr 2 місяці тому +1

      Where did this show even come from?? Why is it always in my news feed??

  • @zayinseven7923
    @zayinseven7923 2 місяці тому +21

    Prioritize Me + Let Me Rest in my femininity + Shower Me with gifts
    all that together told the men that a relationship to her is ALL About HER.
    And she proved that in the questioning with the last dude.

  • @KINGCOLE1965
    @KINGCOLE1965 2 місяці тому +47

    It’s all about her ! Very selfish

    • @LanierHale-oq3dr
      @LanierHale-oq3dr 2 місяці тому +2

      Even "seeing eye dogs" can discern if a woman is above-average looking.........

    • @kaleshabrown
      @kaleshabrown Місяць тому +1

      I just said in another comment she seems like someone that would be a complete nightmare planning her wedding lol, if she ever gets engaged to be married. Big if though 😭

  • @hennocent
    @hennocent 2 місяці тому +115

    She a ummm liar

    • @LanierHale-oq3dr
      @LanierHale-oq3dr 2 місяці тому +3

      With due respect a lie/falsehood can easily discerned with actions ---words are meaningless.

    • @jermaineandrews5913
      @jermaineandrews5913 2 місяці тому +11

      She has lied so many times about her age that she forgot it

  • @manegrindshard
    @manegrindshard 2 місяці тому +39

    There is literally nothing beneficial about dating a high maintenance woman for men. A woman is a woman, but a high maintenance woman is just a bill because she's going to want you to spend all the time just to he happy.

    • @LanierHale-oq3dr
      @LanierHale-oq3dr 2 місяці тому

      The Black marriage rates speak for themselves.

    • @evaphillips2102
      @evaphillips2102 2 місяці тому

      For *broke men who have no image, no reputation and nowhere to go, sure.

  • @MatthDaniel
    @MatthDaniel 2 місяці тому +185

    read the forbidden book Magnetic Aura on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.

  • @somaspecialist
    @somaspecialist 2 місяці тому +102

    When a woman says "a man who allows to rest in my feminity" is an automatic pop

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 2 місяці тому

      she can't rest in her femininity on her own?

    • @manegrindshard
      @manegrindshard 2 місяці тому +29

      That's code for pay for everything lol

    • @elx2482
      @elx2482 2 місяці тому +5

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @zionb5342
      @zionb5342 2 місяці тому

      Exactly, that's what I was thinking. She should be feminine, regardless of what he does.

    • @partingalano
      @partingalano 2 місяці тому +14

      You better run, she got social media brain... they parrot talking points.

  • @Kdkyrie12
    @Kdkyrie12 2 місяці тому +88

    At 40 yrs old this lady is letting “gifts” keep her single. But this isn’t anything new most of these females over 40 act like this

    • @InReelTimeWithSeanB
      @InReelTimeWithSeanB 2 місяці тому +9

      And they taking directive from the younger foolish ones. Smh

    • @TsarOfRuss
      @TsarOfRuss 2 місяці тому

      She is looking for a simp

  • @clevancampbell850
    @clevancampbell850 2 місяці тому +20

    I hardly hear women say they want a man that will treat them right anymore. It's all about what they can get from the man. Scary times we live in.

    • @reemoe9374
      @reemoe9374 2 місяці тому +2

      Not really, it’s easier to discern.

    • @clevancampbell850
      @clevancampbell850 2 місяці тому +2

      @reemoe9374 My concern isn't about being able to discern it. It's more about the malicious disintegration of our community. Someone somewhere is profiting from this.

    • @tracer073
      @tracer073 2 місяці тому +2

      She has social media brain, at her big age at 40

  • @piplyf
    @piplyf 2 місяці тому +46

    She is a whole walking liability. Women, please understand that a man on his purpose will NEVER put you before it. Sure, you'll be an intricate part of our life if you earn that position. But you will NEVER be a priority to a man about his purpose.Stop asking for this, please! The moment he makes you the center of his life is the moment y'all lose interest.
    What women say they want, and what they respond to, are two different things.

    • @liftedenergy3693
      @liftedenergy3693 18 днів тому

      It is about men and women being in balance within themselves.
      Toooo many people are codependent, and that never works.
      Be whole within yourself/ willing to evolve.

  • @jamessims4802
    @jamessims4802 2 місяці тому +19

    I have much respect for the MEN. We're come into our own. Men are paying attention to what's going on around them. These men are leaders. When they choose women they have a chance. Good luck bruthas ✌️

  • @mandoallenlive185
    @mandoallenlive185 2 місяці тому +30

    I think this Lady was interviewed by Kevin Samuels.If I run across the clip I will send it to you.

  • @dandrelewis814
    @dandrelewis814 2 місяці тому +40

    Old & GOOFY.....

  • @WillieScott-t8c
    @WillieScott-t8c 2 місяці тому +19

    Great job fellas she is PROBLEMATIC!! 💯

  • @bos3835
    @bos3835 2 місяці тому +83

    I'm not buying her a damn thing. If we become a couple then eventually but not until then. I'm not showering them with any gifts. Same old materialistic BS.

    • @evaphillips2102
      @evaphillips2102 2 місяці тому

      Women shouldn’t accept gifts from men they’re not engaged to because it’s often a trap

  • @HolyGhostBabyTV1
    @HolyGhostBabyTV1 2 місяці тому +53

    She's superficial. Looking for a trick not a husband.

    • @topdoted
      @topdoted 2 місяці тому

      She's getting too old for tricks.

    • @kaleshabrown
      @kaleshabrown Місяць тому +2

      I can imagine her being a complete nightmare as a bride trying to plan her wedding.

  • @CotieJones
    @CotieJones 2 місяці тому +10

    Excellent show and analysis, DeeDee.

    • @RapidShotz00
      @RapidShotz00 2 місяці тому +2

      I agree. DeeDee had very constructive comments to add to the content, which promoted introspection and understanding. This is a lovely example of how reaction content should be developed and offered ⭐️

  • @nigamosglasgow2162
    @nigamosglasgow2162 2 місяці тому +1

    Good work DeDe.. You are helping to break down the essential content for learning and development from these episodes for many women. At 39 she is visually a 9+, but they are seeing a strong Aunt Berta, and they are running scared. Her height and body type is sending strong woman vibes. She would have to talk her way into his arms, and she is not talking too much.

  • @mellow.madness
    @mellow.madness 2 місяці тому +13

    Come on guys. Give her a break. She didn't say what kind of gifts she wants to be showered with. 😂

  • @joycewatt8289
    @joycewatt8289 2 місяці тому +10

    Some of these men don’t seem confident or sure of what they do for a living 🤔

    • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
      @doll.ov.poetrii4682 2 місяці тому +6

      They say "entrepreneur" but that can mean a million different things.

    • @joycewatt8289
      @joycewatt8289 2 місяці тому

      @@doll.ov.poetrii4682
      Exactly!😂

  • @timothyprice9064
    @timothyprice9064 2 місяці тому +4

    Ask her what would she change about herself to be able to get and keep the man she wants?

  • @purpledrank221
    @purpledrank221 2 місяці тому +26

    Gifts first and character and integrity a distant 2nd? Is this chick 40 or 14?

    • @AvoidsPikes-
      @AvoidsPikes- 2 місяці тому +5

      That was what I was thinking when I saw this.

    • @LyvWyre313
      @LyvWyre313 2 місяці тому +1

      😂💯💯

    • @Iam123-i5j
      @Iam123-i5j 2 місяці тому +5

      Never matured past 14 mentally.

    • @cx104769a
      @cx104769a 2 місяці тому +5

      It's obvious why she's been single this long.

    • @topdoted
      @topdoted 2 місяці тому

      Mentally or physically?

  • @DH-hz6rv
    @DH-hz6rv 2 місяці тому +29

    Pass all day , every time!

    • @jhezy2000
      @jhezy2000 2 місяці тому +2

      She rehearsed this

    • @TChalla007
      @TChalla007 2 місяці тому +3

      pass around all day.

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 2 місяці тому +3

      100%. The minute i heard 39.. pop.

    • @DH-hz6rv
      @DH-hz6rv 2 місяці тому +2

      @@TChalla007 Exactly

  • @actionjackson5759
    @actionjackson5759 2 місяці тому +7

    MATERIALISM AND PHYSICALITIES IS DESTROYING CONNECTIONS AND PRE-CONNECTIONS. GOOD CHARACTER AND GOOD PERSONALITY EQUALS LONGEVITY IN A TRUE RELATIONSHIP!

  • @dknight5249
    @dknight5249 2 місяці тому +9

    Women can put there kids first and wouldn’t have a problem if a man played step daddy and took care of her kids. At the same time he can’t put his own kids first though. It doesn’t make sense.

    • @spade1ace7
      @spade1ace7 2 місяці тому

      Woman logic for you.🙄🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @soulvibration5965
    @soulvibration5965 2 місяці тому +3

    Hello Dee. I don't do alot of response to some of these show but listen to you its a breath fresh air when you analyze and access the situation. You are always on point. Keep up the good work Dee 👏.

  • @elty69
    @elty69 2 місяці тому +2

    She needs to learn how to listen. You have seven different men that don’t know each other saying the exact same thing. So obviously it’s an issue for men in general but you’re trying to fight it. Make it make sense. This is why these women are single and alone

  • @claytonjohnson9218
    @claytonjohnson9218 2 місяці тому +11

    Dee Dee; you're on point with your assessment of the gift thing. I'm actually enjoying doing the gift thing if I'm feeling you but I'm exactly like you said we were. It has to be what I decide to do; my priority is wealth accumulation and I want a woman who isn't a roadblock to that.....
    I've avoided women that I was very physically attracted to because their priorities were so far outta whack.....
    You don't have to be part of the solution but you damned sure can't be part of the problem.

  • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
    @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 2 місяці тому +13

    The MINUTE she said her age, POP!!! this sister has been focusing on TWO things.
    1. random eggplants from pookies
    2. her career
    she is NOT a wife.

    • @spade1ace7
      @spade1ace7 2 місяці тому +4

      She couldn't even get her age straight. "I'm 39. No, I'm 38: I'll BE 39 in November (or something like that)."

    • @liftedenergy3693
      @liftedenergy3693 18 днів тому +1

      Lol 😆 thank you for this laugh 😃 I actually 😂 forgot my birthday this year.

  • @anthonyjennings5125
    @anthonyjennings5125 2 місяці тому +37

    She is the type of woman who shows men it's better to get your PASSPORT!!!!

  • @jaywoods55811
    @jaywoods55811 2 місяці тому +10

    It's a setup when you are not doing what she wants. She will FEEL like you are not doing. XYZ.

  • @manny6878
    @manny6878 2 місяці тому +7

    Modern women lost all grip on how to value men and themselves, out of control

  • @ronbaldon8125
    @ronbaldon8125 Місяць тому +1

    The last bro was thinking about that 🐕 .His little head was saying hell yeah smash that but his big head was Finally letting him know the real deal logic won out in the end.

  • @offdatgogo
    @offdatgogo 2 місяці тому +5

    But they get offended when we ask "what do you bring to the table?" We want way more that just good looks. Good looks fade with age. Sad that many will be unalive never realizing that they ain't "the table."

  • @Victor-fg1ky
    @Victor-fg1ky 2 місяці тому +6

    I really wasn't surprised when that dude called her out on being mannish. I remember her saying she wants a man ro allow her be feminine and I was like 🙄🙄🙄 please (obviously she'll love playing the victim and avoid accountability in relationships). She's 39 and single for a reason; it's absolutely no coincidence. She might say she loves gifts but there's also a huge probability she might be a very materialistic person 💯 That dude at the end asked her a great question 👌💯

    • @csmith2484
      @csmith2484 2 місяці тому

      I think part of the issue is relinquishing the independent role. If a person has been operating in the "I can do bad all by myself" mindset, it's not easy to transition to partner mode. If she didn't have examples in her life to show her how to be feminine, she could say that she wants a man who will allow her to be feminine...but she wouldn't recognize that spirit from a can of paint. It's trendy to make those statements, but in actuality, what she's looking to become is taught in the home from day one.

  • @themakerofallmusic
    @themakerofallmusic 2 місяці тому +15

    Well why are you still single at 39, I knew these guys weren't for her from the git.

  • @will1905
    @will1905 2 місяці тому +18

    I think what she didn’t like is that fathers will prioritize their children over her, but because is children she said something else.

    • @amck72
      @amck72 2 місяці тому +4

      I always tell folks that selfish women will always be in competition with the fathers kids and know they will never be in first place.

    • @rebeccapetty1k390
      @rebeccapetty1k390 2 місяці тому +3

      @will1905 she never said she wanted them to prioritize her over their kids I guess what she wanted to say is she wants someone to spoil her or love bomb her ..

    • @dicerevo
      @dicerevo 2 місяці тому +3

      @@rebeccapetty1k390so… toxic love?
      It’s kids, career and then woman. Unless and until she becomes my wife

    • @amck72
      @amck72 2 місяці тому +3

      @@rebeccapetty1k390 she doesnt have to say that word for word, we can read between the lines. Her first approach tells us everything. You really think she is going to straight up say she wants a man to put her before his kids and expects that man to pick her ? 😂🤣

  • @ShawnC.T.
    @ShawnC.T. 2 місяці тому +3

    Of course they are Dee Dee, I've never seen a woman on this show praise a man who rejected them, they're too proud/stubborn to do that, and it does say alot about their lack of character...🤨

  • @markevansmongo
    @markevansmongo 2 місяці тому +58

    She looks and sound masculine! 2ME!

    • @dicerevo
      @dicerevo 2 місяці тому +7

      She sounds slow

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 2 місяці тому +4

      The face definitely masculine

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 2 місяці тому +5

      she is. that is why she focused on her career and gave the cookie to pookies and chads until age 39. Now she wants a husband. hahahahaha

    • @Ghettobank69
      @Ghettobank69 2 місяці тому +3

      Maybe transvestite what do you think

    • @markevansmongo
      @markevansmongo 2 місяці тому +3

      @@Ghettobank69 exactly!!😂😂

  • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
    @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 2 місяці тому +7

    why do women ignore age while rejecting SHORT men?

  • @briann9336
    @briann9336 2 місяці тому +5

    She's the type of chic that feels like she needs the perfect guy for her to be a good woman. It's like she don't know how to just treat a man unrelated to what he's doing for her.

  • @chellez29
    @chellez29 2 місяці тому +2

    Does she think she should be showered with gifts because she exists? Up here talmbout some darn quid pro quo. Ya damn right!🧐

  • @goldenleopard9778
    @goldenleopard9778 2 місяці тому +5

    SIGH.. Brothers, grab your passport.

  • @cherlebiscuite
    @cherlebiscuite 2 місяці тому +5

    All I had to do was look in the comments to confirm what was going on here…steer clear from women like this ladies, they project their scarcity mindset and low standards on everyone because it’s all about what they think they can’t get in life ✌🏾

  • @antoineadams3683
    @antoineadams3683 2 місяці тому +2

    There's a better chance of winning the powerball twice then finding a wife these days

    • @tracer073
      @tracer073 2 місяці тому

      No lies were told

  • @rhammond1963
    @rhammond1963 2 місяці тому +11

    I see why she is single for sure.

    • @tracer073
      @tracer073 2 місяці тому

      And she is attractive too for her age, she looks better than most women her age

  • @Potencylogic
    @Potencylogic 2 місяці тому +3

    SHES in no man’s land. Yet she think she’s still the prize 😂😂😂

  • @Privilge05
    @Privilge05 2 місяці тому +3

    12:54 her shaking her head doesn’t mean she agrees she could just be respecting his opinion

  • @paulwilson4747
    @paulwilson4747 2 місяці тому +5

    She looks like that "Cheesecake Factory Girl"!

  • @loothak
    @loothak 2 місяці тому +6

    Arlette….. PLEASE stop dragging and questioning anyone after its obvious they won’t work…. LET IT GO …. !!!!❤

    • @BushBabyBoxing
      @BushBabyBoxing 2 місяці тому

      LOL you need to make this comment on her page...This is a reaction channel..

  • @UhuruFrontier
    @UhuruFrontier Місяць тому +1

    She had nothing to say about family, time with her man, and retain what he enjoys doing.

    • @jamesgibson3716
      @jamesgibson3716 Місяць тому

      Man these women never take into consideration what a man wants. It's always about them. That's why they're so undesirable

  • @alvinbingham999
    @alvinbingham999 2 місяці тому +2

    She is a phlebotomist this means she goes around the hospital or clinic drawing blood. She makes minimum wage. An independent contractor means that she is an aide. She is a brokee.

  • @Shakemoose
    @Shakemoose 2 місяці тому +3

    Notice how she said “you’re here for love” that was another red flag on her. Like bch aren’t we all here for Love? She ain’t there for love she’s there to play the game, get man in love then unleash the darkness

  • @chimeramon2765
    @chimeramon2765 2 місяці тому +1

    DeeDee, I appreciate your insight on this matter. My friend introduced me to a woman who puts together age 30+ black social get togethers. It was her and 3 other women at a lounge. One of the women that I initially liked, at some point spoke about how she's seeking a man who will take her on expensive trips and not seeking anything else if he can't provide that. She looked like a younger mid 30's version of both Jemele Hill and Regina Hall. My attraction to her suddenly disappeared even though she probably would've turn me down because I don't have it like that. I thought to myself that's not what a 34 year old woman with no husband or kids should be focused on. I think where the disconnect is coming from with some black woman is this fantasy of well off guy who has unlimited resources and freedom to go on multiple trips a year and frivolously soend money on them. If a woman wants to go on these trips she needs to be able to afford it herself and maybe meet a guy that can afford it together with her. In life there isn't a free lunch and guy's that break bread like this are rare. Most men that make real money usually want to make that money last. And like you said if it's not going to something intangible then it's not worth it to a lot of men. People don't get the concept that multimillionaires have gone broke and many of us would say that would never happen to me if I had that money but you just don't know.

  • @louiselie2273
    @louiselie2273 2 місяці тому +3

    This woman was madd shady

  • @rhammond1963
    @rhammond1963 2 місяці тому +5

    He definitely dodge that bullet.

  • @darnellrhodes6174
    @darnellrhodes6174 2 місяці тому +7

    The vast majority of 40+ year old marriage minded family oriented men are not marrying 40+ year old women.

  • @williescott6701
    @williescott6701 2 місяці тому +1

    Deedee just a little nugget from an old head. (53 years of experience) If a woman fails to be herself-fails to prove her loyalty-appears to too unpredictable-refuses leadership-seems too materialistic-fails to be supportive-projects too little or no sexual desire 🔥- exhibits little or no respect-displays unattractive habits-fails to show consideration or just not thoughtful-refuses to cook & clean as a real woman should….there would be only two results that she could expect from a man. And, those are: 1. He’ll lose all interest except sexual desire for her. So, he may keep her around although he has lost all feelings for her. Or 2. He’ll just instantly get rid of her. But, if she fulfills her duties, that man would be motivated to marry her. Because, he’ll begin to see her as valuable. And, because he values her, he’s not going to risk losing her to someone else. So, to keep her, he locks her down instantly via marriage. Point blank! No exceptions. So, as you could see, It’s not hard for a woman to get a man to marry her. But, it’s not hard to prevent him from marrying her either.

  • @alanbarnes3569
    @alanbarnes3569 2 місяці тому +4

    She’s like the village bike, everyone’s had a ride.

  • @tiffp2646
    @tiffp2646 2 місяці тому +1

    The way I was screaming for the last guy to “pop the balloon”! At 39 she doesn’t even know what to offer a man, or what she specifically can offer? 🚩🚩🚩

  • @user-vm2hh9ts8h
    @user-vm2hh9ts8h 2 місяці тому +9

    I saw that episode.... she sounded like high maintenance and too much work 😔.....

  • @plasmaheat6338
    @plasmaheat6338 2 місяці тому +1

    "Shower me with gifts" its so many things wrong with that phrase ...
    1. She wants 2 B spoiled
    (your not my child)
    2. High maintainance
    (liability)
    3. What kind of gifts and how often ?
    4. Shes living in La La land
    5. What are u doing with all these gifts ? Is she a hoarder ?
    6. Give me this , give me that , can i have mentality.
    7. Adsulutly nothing in return
    Does any one have something to add ?

  • @TerryWallace-ty1cp
    @TerryWallace-ty1cp Місяць тому +1

    THIS GOES TO SHOW YOU THAT LOOKS CAN BE DECIEVING! MEN, BE CAREFUL ABOUT WHO YOU DATE!THESE WOMEN CAN BE TRICKY! RED FLAGS ARE UP! BEWARE OF THESE WOMEN WHO APPEAR TO BE MISS RIGHT! THEY COULD BE MISS WRONG!

  • @andrebennett4534
    @andrebennett4534 2 місяці тому +2

    Sister shahrazad Ali said women in the western hemisphere never matured, past age 14 and she can't be be proven wrong yet.

  • @midnightfenrir
    @midnightfenrir 2 місяці тому +6

    "I like to do anything that takes me out of my comfort zone." 🚩🚩🚩
    Adrenaline/Dopamine junkie. She's gonna leave you when she's bored.
    Don't get me wrong, it's okay to do things that are fun and exciting from time to time.
    If you're LEADING with that as a thing you like to do then it means trouble.
    There are highs and lows in relationships and you need to be comfortable with being bored from time to time.

  • @vlove888
    @vlove888 2 місяці тому +2

    And the funny thing is I bet she’s confused why she still single.

  • @noahcrockett9641
    @noahcrockett9641 2 місяці тому +18

    Notice no guys said anything specifically about her makeup, height, or her dress.
    Her priorities (not standards) are way too high, misguided, and definitely unrealistic

  • @VitaInDC
    @VitaInDC Місяць тому +1

    I don't think she sees where she is in life. The expectation to be showered with gifts sounds more like a giddy teen girl on Valentine's Day. That lifestage has long passed.

  • @Wgz945
    @Wgz945 2 місяці тому +7

    I buy my wife stuff all the time so much I forget what I paid for, she doesn’t ask for much, i just do it because i want to

  • @karateday
    @karateday 2 місяці тому +1

    It’s called SIGN language, a term coined by Kevin Samuels, and hers is low key subtle.

  • @adinahross8118
    @adinahross8118 Місяць тому

    I love your commentary. Let these ladies know.

  • @justjilli777
    @justjilli777 Місяць тому +2

    It's so easy to sit behind a keyboard and critique and criticize every little thing but I'm sure it takes a lot of courage to get up there in front of the world and represent in a few short minutes. It's not as easy as it looks when people get nervous. We should remember that and give these men and women grace.

  • @DeMoneeTV
    @DeMoneeTV Місяць тому

    Whoever Got DeeDee Is A Lucky Man She Understands & Fine Fine 🙌🏾

  • @dareo25
    @dareo25 2 місяці тому +5

    yea, as soon as she started the ...shower me with gifts 💥 like the man said, everybody wants gifts. She's a nice looking lady, and I will buy gifts but ...gifts are earned boo.

  • @antoniomattis9261
    @antoniomattis9261 2 місяці тому +1

    DeeDee. I like how you dont take up all the time to say your point. certain youtubes just be talking toooooo much

  • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
    @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 2 місяці тому +4

    the fool that went with her, is he not too short? the other guy was. she is confused.

  • @kior85
    @kior85 2 місяці тому +1

    DeeDee you understood Us Men ❤

  • @JamesBanks-r5r
    @JamesBanks-r5r 2 місяці тому +1

    You expect this from a 21 year old woman not a 39 year older woman. Honestly it’s just cringe 😬 and creepy to hear those words coming from her.

  • @2know1self
    @2know1self 2 місяці тому +2

    If a man wants kids, a 39 year old is the same as a 50 year old: too damn old.

    • @evaphillips2102
      @evaphillips2102 2 місяці тому

      Y’all assume every man wants kids. Some want companionship with a FBI woman who’s experienced things he has and knows what it means to overcome life.

  • @mariancounsellor
    @mariancounsellor 29 днів тому

    Your hair looks fabulous! Yes, this version of pop the balloon is also my favourite. I think she looks well put together too. I agree with you that people just use height or something silly rather than saying why they're really rejecting someone.

  • @SteveNice-r1g
    @SteveNice-r1g 2 місяці тому +2

    She ain't bout SHIT 😂😂😂

  • @trainingwheelsdetroit
    @trainingwheelsdetroit 2 місяці тому

    These women get real HUMBLE the more they hear them ballon’s pop 😂

  • @stlouismook5053
    @stlouismook5053 2 місяці тому +4

    DAMM DAVID HOLLISTER POPED HIS BALLON 🎈📌😱

  • @Gabriel-qx8xc
    @Gabriel-qx8xc 2 місяці тому

    Even the balloon was running away 😂

  • @j.melendez9374
    @j.melendez9374 2 місяці тому

    Her face wen he said wut makes you worth all those things 🤣🤣🤣🤣