The Psychology of True Responsibility | Full Session | Sahil Adeem & Eram Saeed
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- Опубліковано 1 лип 2024
- Join Sahil Adeem and Eram Saeed as they engage in a provocative and enlightening conversation about the real responsibilities of men and women. The two subject-matter experts will engage in a thorough discussion of the complex issues concerning women's character, Nikah, adultery, the psychology of love, self-esteem, and how women abuse men in our culture.
Intro: (0:00)
Allegations of Zina: (1:55)
Why do a Nikah?: (23:26)
The True Psychology of Love: (33:07)
Self-Esteem: (50:31)
How Women abuse Men?: (1:02:52)
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"It's not the eyes that are blind, but the heart.''
Quran 22:46
Simply awestruck by ustaz Sahil adeem answers . May Allah protect you 🤲
I mostly disagree from Erum Saeed most of the time.
While I think I m very modern and liberal Muslim women
For me Islam is most modern and liberal way of life. ❤️
There's a difference between liberalism and modernity. Islam is quite modern and relevant but it's not "Liberal". Please, stop watching Islam through the lense of modren ideologies. Islam is an ideology in itself. It's neither conservative nor liberal.
Just GREAT!
Amazing video loads of prayers for you both
Very important discussion.
Wow that's amazing to see them discussing serious issues. There should be more....
Truly admire u both ❤️thought provoking ND eyeopening concepts keep it up!
Jab interview is well aware then we get the real knowledge. Good work both of you 👏
I am feeling so blessed that I can relate n understanding with sir sahil....may Allah Allah talah keep us on His path.
Masha allah sahil just nailed it what a gem and what a outstandingly conveyancing and conveying msg of islam amd shariah speechless waiting for more sessions
Masha ALLAH full of knowledge and understanding, may ALLAH protect you and us from saitan and our own desires, aameen ya rabbal aalameen.
❤ b/t man and woman,,,,Sahil explained it wonderfully,,,,plus ye jo sincerity and protection ka concept dia hay,,,,amazing
I feel this session is just for me 💞
Sir i m literally speechless in the end lines (admi k halaat per judge na kre😢) beautiful point…!
I saw a thousand time at a glance..such a great sessions i have seen ever...Love From Heart ♥ Bangladesh
May allah give you all jaza e khair ameen sum ameen
After reading these comments in this video i salute to the courage of erum saeed.She in one of the few women speakers.Sahil bhai needs to address all question and they are not petty just because they are about women.Male dominance toxicity is so ingrained in our society that even sahil bhai's followers are saying such disgraceful stuff.
@erum saeed never stopp keep on improving even the whole world leaves u i will support you.We have to work for women of this planet.
men too ... not only women
Awww youre such a sweetheart. I treat such comments as "white noise" and ignore them. Also, I am happy cause they are literally appointing angels to send me blessings when they abuse me....so Ill say thank you to them :)
@@EramSaeedCoaching noone can abuse you they are just miserable.All power to you.If you carry any programme for betterment of women i would be first volunteer
@@EramSaeedCoaching I also encourage k ap itna openly hamari society k norms aur problems ko discuss kar rahi
Expecting more sessions of sahil bhai with you
Ustaz sahil the men like you are rare... Indeed if we follow true islam our thinking will be as high as yours...Loads of respect ...May Allah protect you ameen
zabardast session
Very informative 👏 keep it up
It was really effective to hear out loud from a female psychologist to talk about what women face, those are really important questions.
This session clarifies a lot of misconceptions and puts a big question to the bubble or fabric that women tend build around themselves because of the cultural norms of the society.
JazakAllah to both!
She's not psychologist. She just share her life lessons.
oh yes! thank you for correcting, I assumed since she was a life coach, she's a psychologist too!
@@maleehaasif9326 no she's not. Unoh ne apne session mai khd kaha hai, i can share link.
Also, you can share with me the link you're saying, I'll go through it too
@@aysha632 I also visited her personal website where it's written she's a lifestyle coach
What a statement …..Allahbko tanna daina …..you nailed it
mashallah great
Nice Discussion Sahil Adeem seems truly guidance the People i.e. Youth and managing well by all means. May Allah grant him life to complete its Mission of Islam & Science Ameen.
Sahil sir ap k lecture sun k to hathon k pairon k kaano k sar totay ur jatay hain ap ki batain sidi dimagh aur dil ko lagti hain Allah ap ko seht se barpur lambi zindgi dain ta k hm ap ki baton se mustafeed hosakain
Love Sahil Bhi ❤❤❤❤
The way both explained the definition of love in according to. Allah is irreplaceable
May allah bless everyone
He is a 💎
Waiting for the next session
Mam erumm more and more power to you..Women leadership is direly needed today in the world of islaam ❤️ Dont listen to anyone keep going.
He is my teacher ❤
Sahil bhai erum mam ki ek ek baat theek h ye her ek baat meine bachpan se suni hai.
@simple argument do show this comment stream to sahil sir so he can address this hatred against women specially in asia.
you Both are my favourite
1:00:24
Where are our maulvi they never gave any concept regarding family n meaning of Love, a long journey of life gone & at end time such scholar are cleansing our heart with true love true philosphy that Islam gifted .
at 15:00 Sahil just did the job on which the lady laughed to hide her shame actually
A/a Sahil sir Shirk k bad zina h?.. purani video m apne btaya tha ki shirk taghoot kufr qatl tohmat geebat zina jhoot..
Plz guide us from which book or hadees no. Where can we find these sins in right order ..jazakallah
Yaha ma ek problems ha ki all angles pschyology
Why its looks like that the woman is trying to keep Sahil Adeem on feminist track...whenever he try to come to neutral path or try to bring up womens mistake ahe says "ji ji, I agree lakin..." and then she brings him back to judge men, I agtee with sahil adeem but baji should have also asked about hejab limitations instead of kinda trying to "mera jism meri marzi" type women's mind satisfied...
اللّٰہ نے ایک ہی Hero بھیج دیا ہے ہمارے لیے بس
"لقد کان لکم فی رسول اللّٰہ اسوةُٗ حسنہ"
mjhe 1 beat puchni hai Sir Sahil adeem se. men space and astronauts k barely men kuch dekh rahi thi to mere zehen men 1 khayal aya k hm aam se log ye sb bs tv pr hi dekh skte hen. pr jb hm mar jaen ge or farishtey hamari rooh ko le ja rahe hon gay tb to hm Allah pak ki ye sb nishaniyan dekh pain gay? Kindly is akhri safar k barey men btaen.
Sahil bhai the tone was very different and agreeable with this lady who seems to be promoting the same liberal values you normally come so harsh on in your lectures.. why the agreeable approach?
I was thinking k ap jaisa koi to comment kare 😂😂
Reham karo apne haal pe bhi aur un k pe bhi
Don't take things so negative
Is poori discussion k sun lene k baad bhi you got nothing man
Lekin apko achi baat hazam nahi hui
You need to re-evaluate yourself
Men and women are allowed to have conversations unless there is no element of appealing the opposite gender for any of the attributes you have
@@nailanoor1639 I take issue in the whole brand that sister Eram is pushing.
From analysis of her channel she is promoting a very personal (liberalised) Islam, her video responding to questions on hijab rather than accepting its a sin (which we all do) she went on to defend her position..
Other videos where she is talking about women roles in Islam, without acknowledging that she shouldn’t be on the screen like she is at all as per clear dalil and most problematic is her defence of women focussing on career and pushing other such American principles on Pakistani society.
Sahil bhai must know all of this and too share a platform in such an agreeable way without any pushback on her points is not good for what he’s pushing for - which is to establish a Muslim identity on Quran and Sunnah.
Thanks for your response . I would definitely go and watch what she is trying to convey
When remaining part will upload?
this is the full session
Sahil Sahan urdu zyada bol liya kijiye kyonki zyadatar log urdu hindi language samjhte English wale Urdu k Muqabke km hote agr aap urdu bolege to 100% log samjhte h lekin aap English bolege to ho sakta 50% samjhe 60% samjhe ya kitne bhi kam zyada percent ho sakta h isliye. Darkhwast h Urdu language istemaal kr lijiyeya kre aapki har speech ya program me. Jazakallah
How you know that a opposite person have same psychology as yours???
Sahil i expect u to be as blunt in this matter as u r in other Muslim Identity issues.... let's take a note, a woman has to be under a veil to be part of muslim society (veil can be in type of Hijab, Mehrem etc) jaha aurat azaad ho kr ghoom rhi ha waha evil hit kry gy, Nabi SAW ki ek specific time ki hadees ko overall normal society pe mat daly, men and women both need to abide by the Islamic principles not just boys and not just women
Are you saying that women who don’t wear hijab do not deserve protection? Under Muslim rule, even non-Muslims were protected. He didn’t discuss Muslim woman’s attire because he wasn’t asked; it’s understood how a Muslim woman should be dressed. However, men should still behave and leave a girl alone regardless of how she’s dressed, should lower their gaze, that’s the sign of a good Muslim man.
To be a good Muslim, others must be safe from his hands and his tongue regardless of dressing.
@@user1-user-0421 bhen should & shouldn't ma to boht sari baty ati ha, aisy to chori b ni krni chahiye, mgr Chor chori krta ha, jhut b ni bolna chahiye magr Jhoot bola jata ha, aisy he bayshak aurat ksi b dress ma ho chahy hijab ma ya bikini ma, osy ni tease krna chahiye or protection krni chahiye, mgr Aurat khud b zimmadar ha apni protection ki, esi liy os khabardar kia jata ha k wo kamzor ha es maamly ma, to osy chahiye k apni hifazat k liy measures adopt kry... Or yes jysy ma ne pehly keh dia tha, k Mard ko nazar neechi rakhni ha, ezzat krni ha, harass ni krna ha etc etc... Lekin maashray ma sab he emaan waly nahi ha, for security, aurat bjay ksi stranger per rely kry, ya to apna hulliya durust kry ya phr apna mehram sath rakhy ta k khud ko protect kr saky, i hope bat samaj agai ha apko b?
Har chiz ma pschyology involved kyu why
Why do a nikkah ask in Urdu simple wording English mein itna ghuma ghuma sawal krna zaroori hai??
Assalmualikum. I just wanted to know that if shetan attacks a man and a women the same way and same number of times a day. So any man and a man be so kind and write under this comment. I just want to understand how shetan attacks so that I be better prepared and also want to know the other gender perspective so that I can guide my family
Follow ppl rule during intersex conversations
Purposeful
Public
limited
Baki if you are a man avoid visuals and if you are a woman avoid audios like music because these are the basic triggers of arousal obviously yahi se baat aage jati hai
And ask Allah's help in this matter even if you don't feel attracted to somebody it just takes a moment to fell in shaytaan's trap
Also make sure you know what are you seeing start being conscious about your gatherings and time
I think these precautions are enough
I have been practicing these lately and I have found them very beneficial
Even parents let their daughters and sons meat for wedding to know each other
I love meat
@@abdulmoiz5987 😁
I didn't "meat" my wife before wedding 2 years ago.
@@thisnoman 😂😭
*meet
btw... dear sis ur face resembles a lot like Bajwa Saab (ur face T Bone) hehe, r u his relative?
Did session of yesterday on simple Argument get banned?
Or
Maybe it is deleted or not uploaded?
I also watched few mins and then removed
@@EthenHunt0079 why removed.. Any idea
What was the title?
Late night session with overseas.. I remember this but can't find yesterday's session
@@mohammadwasimshaikh8579 some editing was required I guess. Or the content needed to be reviewed.
Women need more masculine training now a days.
Please let them be women
For example?
Woman need as much training as men need.nikal aao is gender biasness se bhai.
Women need to become men and vice versa. Study what feminism has brought to West.
behen ap ne kaha ma apni bayti ko aisy boht sy kam pak ma krny ni dyti jo usa ma krny dyti ho? can u plz tell me k pak k kis area ma ha apki bayti jaha ap os sy wo kam krny sy rok rhi ha jo wo USA ma publicly krti ha? & 2ndly aisy kia kam ha wo jo pakistan ma krny sy oska character shatter ho jay ga? i have a working, student, entrepreneur lady at my home in Pakistan but Alhamdolellah aj tak ksi ne kuch b ni kaha unko character sy rlated, phr ap pooray Islamic maashry ko kasy target kr skti ha?
It also varies from community to community
You can travel alone in America and you have a security for that
But in Pakistan you can't go to fortrace at 8:00 pm aur akele to bilkul bhi nahi
@@nailanoor1639 sorry to say if ur talk about actual America than no it not safe to travel alone specially in New York. With increasing crime rates of gangs n gun violence u can’t even go to candy shop
@@m.hassan8145 😲😲 I didn't know about that l was just talking from a layman Pakistani 's perspective
@@nailanoor1639 don’t talk about things from a layman perspective . Otherwise there will be no value of what u will spoke
@@nailanoor1639 aunti duniya ma kahi b akaili jawan larki rat ma safe nahi ha jana, even ajkal ka jo waqt ha es ma mard ni safe ap to aurat ki bat kr rhi, aurat phr kamzor ha... Agr ap waqai Shariah ki bat kr rhi ha to Shariah esi ma behtri smjti ha k aurat ghar ma rhy bila zarurat na nikly or agr nikly to veil ma or sham k baad wasy b sunnat ni nikalna... Ap basics ko samjy baki maamlat thek ho jay gy
As Salam alaykum
Sir sahil mjh sunye me theek hn?
Sisters k sath bhai ka ghar se Baher jana
Ya phr
Apn miyan k sath
Ya phr apn abbow k sath
Ya apn baitay ka sath
Jana
U hy ok is liye hy
Ky muslim women’s
Ek diamond ki tarah we anmool hy qeemti hy
Apni har qeemti cheezo ko har koe ahatiyat se save kr ky RKH ya hy
Ye mera ans hy
Okay?
Yes, it is
If I am not wrong , Sahil Adeem says Jannat ki shehzadi ka protocol hai ye
@@nailanoor1639 exactly sir sahil adeem
بات درست یہ بنتی ہے کہ مرد نہ "درست عمل کرتے ہیں نہ درست بات۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔
عمل کر رہے ہیں الٹے اور باتیں بھی وہ جو انہیں کرنی نہیں چاہیں۔۔۔۔۔
انکا خیال یہ ہے کہ یہ جو مرضی کریں
نام کے مرد ہیں لہذا کس نے ان کو پوچھنا ہے۔
As compair to irum with Sahil ,to AP ko pta chal rha h k kis ki bat MN Wazan h.....
It is very scary that women are thinking of having sexual relationships without nikah in this age where HIv and aids is so prevalent. At the same time it is due to pakistani culture where it is very very hard for widow or divorced pakistani woman to get married. Allah may question these men too for these values. It is all hindustani cultural values and Christianity values that they are following in pakistan. The jannat under mother’s feet , the wives get into trouble because of that concept the man’s mother is always right , and in joint family system a big reason of domestic violence. The provider or quom in pakistan has problem of honour only. The rest of the stuff is a women family problem like shelter, clothes , food. Pakistani women have lot of time also, due to maid system. But they spend this time in shopping, gossiping, arguments unfortunately.
my dear sis give me an asnwer, since u r an american dual citizen, what is the ratio of younger ladies loosing virginity in affairs without wedlock in texas (USA) than in Pakistan & than also in Afghanistan? well I have the answer and if u do... phr ap bat kia kr rhi ha dear? for Heaven's sake don't compare a society with an already troubled society...
What do you mean by losing virginity in an extramarital affair? How is that even possible?
@@taym2720 i meant having sex without a proper wedlock, yes not necessarily after being married
@@memy7030 Oh ok, that's a no-brainer. Of course in the west, I live in Toronto, and the situation is very bad here, young high school Hijabis are having drug addict boyfriends...generally speaking sex or nonpenetrative sex is slowly being considered ok.
@@taym2720 dear that's what I wanted to highlight, its not USA or Pakistan or elsewhere, its basically the more we r going to be open minded in terms of Veil (freedom of both sexes) more filth is going to creep in
Sahil meet with fitna
Great talk,But I want to say that sister at least cover your hairs.As a representative of Islam please apni image b Islam k mutabiq Karin..ap ko daikh k bht sari sisters b ye samj sekti hn k it's cool to not cover your hairs.please think about it.
Ap bohut mukamal ho . Her insan mein kami Hoti hy at least she is trying .
Why sir Sahil spare his time in such an ordaniry subjects which can b answered by any scholar
Not ordinary.
Scholar is again a man to answer all these...its a healthy discussion with a woman of this modern era so every girl can seek knowledge from her
Woman can be scholar ab pakistani society aurat ka wo haal krti hai k wo normal insaan nahi rehti scholar is next level.
@@Muslimah931 bilkul
Ye aam baate nahi thi kuch bhi aam nahi tha
I think she's not the right person for this interview.. Her views on life are totally Bollywood-ish
Not her fault though, fault of parenting, sick society, seeing the west and others as leaders not Prophet and Sahabas, uneducated parents making children like themselves hungry for fame, long life, wealth, etc etc and literally no real sense of purpose other than money and marriage
Me too not comfortable looking at her pic even in the thumbnails.
Hadith kie baat wo karte hai jo us mai amal karta hai. Iss aurat kie himat too dekho eak hadith kie violation kar rahe hai aur apparently say hadith kie baatain kar rahe hai. Wha (zaleel pakistani)
meri behen, m not a pro for guys here, but ap etna taboo bana kr ku bata rhi ha pak ko? like i agree k yaha women sy related issues ha but ap es sb ko 100 sy multiply kr rhi ha... overall world ma ye issues ha but i don't no ap pak ko he etna shadeed target kysy kr skti ha?
Kindly don’t show female in the video it’s not islamic
Maybe Allah reward you for your good intentions
Ye to maoon ka kam ha na ke betoon ko apni bewyon ki bary main ALLAH ky ahkamat shadi say phly zehn nasheen kareen
this bloody shaking head show that he get all things and just about to do act.
عورتیں زیادہ بولتی ہیں اگرچہ کہ عمل میں نہ ہو۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔
جو چیز عمل میں نہیں وہ بے اثر۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔
Mard na amal krtay hn na boltay hn bus apki tarah toxicity phelatay hn.
This women is distracting Sir Sahil Adeem from the mission..He should ignore her
Badam khaya karo
i thnk she should keep her mouth shut to understnd the answers
Mind your language and keep ur hand shut in order to understand what they both are saying.
@wajid Allah ap ko hidayat de!
As Salaam alaikum brother Sahil, I truly need to know why are you collaborating with a lady who doesn't wear a proper hijab to speak on Topics related to Islamic Psychology, family system, guidance for youth etc. I respect your wisdom, thought process, concern and approach towards Islam , but I truly kept hating whenever these beautified thumbnail of these collab' videos pop up on my notifications. It's not that I don't respect them or value them less etc but I really felt like to unsubscribe for the first time to your channels. Love from an Indian Muslim brother.
Respect all your sisters, whether they wear a Hijab or not .
You are so disrespectful and seem very backward .....
I have never seen a perfect human being. I am thinking you are.
Oh really ! You are saying who’s don't wear hijab there is no rights from them to speak about islam ?
@@princessisha5205 How do you get that I'm not respecting Sisters not wearing hijab? I'm just saying that I just don't want to take Islamic guidance from those who don't try following Islam. Hijab isn't that difficult atleast not on Video conferences. Thumbnails of these videos itself can become fitnah for men among Muslim Youth as it almost looks resembles like a Bollywood actress is gonna give a talk.
I guess I'm not, but I don't think you're either.
She isn't perfect but I don't think she's even bothering. Atleast a clean simple piece of cloth on hear head would have shown a bit of effort. I'm just not comfortable to learn any part of our deen from a lady who's struggling to wear hijab in public especially while being mature enough to give lectures on Islamic Psychology. The Hijab is a direct order from Allaah Subhaanahu wa ta'Aala to the believing Women & Men and it has a greater Wisdom behind it. I've seen non-Muslim Women covering their hair during inter-religious discussions out of respect for our belief, and I guess she can do better for her own religious community. We must always think how would Our beloved Prophet Muhammad sallallaahu alaihi wa Sallam feel upon seeing this. Wasn't he The Perfect example for how His ummah should be Led and behave? If a Sister of mine doesn't wear hijab it is my duty to her speak & remind her to establish Hijab, because I don't want her to be punished in hellfire even for a second for becoming a means of fitnah. May Allah Subhaanahu Wa Ta'aala help us all to become better Muslims and set a good example for the coming generations so they can stay firm on Islam during fitan of Dajjal. Aameen.
جی اسلئے سمجھ نہیں آرہی کہ کھوپڑے میں دین کی پرواہ ہے نہیں۔۔۔۔۔
Sister please ya to parda kijye warna meharbani kr k apni video na dikhayain Allah k waste.
Sahil bhai please this women is stopping us to watch your video as her uncovered face plz
I request from her also
such a biased and pro-female talk
It is needed. We should know the rights of women in pro-man society.
Wesy tu sahil peson k bger kisi sy baat nhi krty is fzool ourat k sath inthai fzool baatain wo b ghnton
نادر علی کے پوڈ کاسٹ میں اس پر بات کی تھی انہوں نے۔
IDK who the hell is this woman and why is she strutting..😤
Allah ap ko hidayat de!
@@Wisdom....... Allah ap ko bi hidayat da
Foolish discussion
Sahil shb just beating around the bush. Tell her women should stay home
Sir Sahil i am not going to listen to you as long this woman is with you 😒
Please leave.
@Amazing Shorts
Allah ap ko hidayat de!
kirachi 😅
I LOVE MY ALLAH VERY MUCH