This band actually means so much to me, it's 1am and I'm going through a rough patch rn and I'm just realizing how much they've actually helped me growing up. I had a lot of anxiety growing up, and this band helped me calm myself and feel a lot of things. I feel so lucky I was able to have the chance to love a band this much. It's a special thing. My life as a teen, where I was discovering myself and what I wanted to be, it wouldn't be anywhere near the same without this band. They made me realize how important music actually is to me. Elena sings about such sad things but does it in such a beautiful way and I'll never not be mesmerized by it. Who knew a band could have such an impact on your life. They're the theme of my youth and the memories I was able to make, I hope one day I'll be able to let them know that.
As a person with borderline personality disorder, I've always felt this song particularly reletable. The deep attachment that suffocate the favorite person, the hurting you do to your fp and the people near you, the knowledge that what you have is something that can destroy not only your life but even of your partner and your hypothetical kids, wanting to end all the pain whising you never came out of your mother womb.
Just a few words to comfort you. Beware of psychiatrists. If they put some label on you (borderline, ADHD, ...) don't think or feel you are worth less or have less chance to lead a good, normal life. If with 'what you have' you are referring to the borderline, rest assured that you do can lead have a happy life, marry, have children. Those so called disorders are highly debatable. Imho these are just personality traits within the normal range, not diseases. Being attached to a person in a relation is wonderful, especially if it is mutual. A person who feels strong attachment can learn to let go if the other side wants to leave. Attachment does not imply suffocation. There are other really bad ways to suffocate a person. Life is too short to be unhappy. Look for the beautiful things around you.
@@mer1red @mer red thank you so much for your words, I'm still trying to know myself better and to deal with the depth with which I feel the emotions. I know that my life can be "normal", but I somehow have to work harder unlike other people and with the help of a specialist. Still, I want enjoy my life to the fullest, and I want to feel and give love to my closests.
So much pain in this song. Reminds me of similar pain which doesn't seem to fade.
Ouch😭
I hope you are feeling better.
I relate to your commment and the lyrics of this song so bad. I’m sending you a hug and hope we both feel better with time.
@@victorrodas1883 Yes time is a healer, hope you are good too 😋
This band actually means so much to me, it's 1am and I'm going through a rough patch rn and I'm just realizing how much they've actually helped me growing up. I had a lot of anxiety growing up, and this band helped me calm myself and feel a lot of things. I feel so lucky I was able to have the chance to love a band this much. It's a special thing. My life as a teen, where I was discovering myself and what I wanted to be, it wouldn't be anywhere near the same without this band. They made me realize how important music actually is to me. Elena sings about such sad things but does it in such a beautiful way and I'll never not be mesmerized by it. Who knew a band could have such an impact on your life. They're the theme of my youth and the memories I was able to make, I hope one day I'll be able to let them know that.
Well said! I hope you're doing well :)
i can't even imagine what emotions and feeling are inside her while she's singing this song. this is so painful. scary. i just can't
3:52 Trying not to cry with that...
2:32 is close too
This should have a million views.
WOW. Elana is magical. Sweeps you up like a gentle breeze, softly moving across the ocean.
So emotional :( I love her so much
Why am I always crying when listening to her!! I love them so much.
We're all crying. All of us. It's why we're here watching on repeat
The background singer is doing an awesome job! Love how sensitively she synthesizes with Tonra's voice 👌
One of her best performances ever!
Thanks for the constant reminder of being alone Thanks alot
As a person with borderline personality disorder, I've always felt this song particularly reletable. The deep attachment that suffocate the favorite person, the hurting you do to your fp and the people near you, the knowledge that what you have is something that can destroy not only your life but even of your partner and your hypothetical kids, wanting to end all the pain whising you never came out of your mother womb.
Just a few words to comfort you. Beware of psychiatrists. If they put some label on you (borderline, ADHD, ...) don't think or feel you are worth less or have less chance to lead a good, normal life. If with 'what you have' you are referring to the borderline, rest assured that you do can lead have a happy life, marry, have children. Those so called disorders are highly debatable. Imho these are just personality traits within the normal range, not diseases. Being attached to a person in a relation is wonderful, especially if it is mutual. A person who feels strong attachment can learn to let go if the other side wants to leave. Attachment does not imply suffocation. There are other really bad ways to suffocate a person. Life is too short to be unhappy. Look for the beautiful things around you.
@@mer1red @mer red thank you so much for your words, I'm still trying to know myself better and to deal with the depth with which I feel the emotions. I know that my life can be "normal", but I somehow have to work harder unlike other people and with the help of a specialist. Still, I want enjoy my life to the fullest, and I want to feel and give love to my closests.
@@helldustx Nobody is perfect. We all have things to work on. You are not inferior to any other person. Good luck.
Why god has drop her angel here ?, She is an example of this .. on Earth
She's here to help us all
Goosebumps. That's heavy.
Soo painful but soo precious
She sounds like a siren, especially towards the end 😭❤
I wanna give her the biggest hug and say it’s all gonna be okay 😭.
But then songs like this would never exist 😭.
So….. *gives air hug* 😂😭
I'd like to dedicate these words to my mother and my boyfriend the love of my life ... I'm so sorry
Whatever happened, I hope things will become back OK for you. Love.
Сколько лет прошло, а я всё так же обожаю.
i'd rather be anywhere but here
she is an angel. just pure love and magic.
Всегда плачу при прослушивании.
My soul has just ascended
I'm just so tired and I don't know if I want to keep with my life
Think about the beautiful things of life, such as music. Don't let go, mate.
@@mer1red ❤
Hold on 🥀💔
Hope you are keeping well and shining bright like a diamond 🌸
Yes you do mate! You are worthy and you are loved. God bless you!
So much pain
This pain and feelings reminds me a song that “The Drugs Dont Work - Richard Ashcroft”
when you make a mistake but you just do that song sound better ❤
This was just magical!
I wanna hug her and say:You are awesome girl!!!💙💙💙
This song gets me every time 😢🤍
2:39 fell in love with this part 💔
she’s amazing 🥺🥺
Que gran corazón tiene esta chica hermosa
Как трогательно!
❤❤❤ Hare Krišna 🪈🪔🪷🙏👣💎🥀🕊️💔
Dicen que hay un vídeo donde llora :'(
kind of a late question but do you still know which specific concert this was from?
Yes. It was Rock Werchter 2016 (Belgium)
@@mer1red thx man appreciate it
....BEAUTIFUL
I want all that is not mine
Gorgeous :)
Fucking gold
Me hizo mier.. la existencia...
Vaya que canción...
Por fin alguien en español
Poznałem ten zespół te Panią niedawno .Ale dziękuję za spotkanie . Jakże pieknie coraz pieknie z każdą pieśnią
Outstanding!
😭😭😭😭😭
Beautiful and haunting 🤍
I love her so much 😢💖
Magnifique que dire d autre ❤️
love it
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Damn, that was one heartfelt performance.
nadie mencionara que se equivocó :v okno igual fue hermoso
Más bien parece que está a punto de quebrarse en llanto
Estaba por llorar.
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Wauw ❤
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