Why Narcissists Make Stupid Choices Despite Their Smarts

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  • Опубліковано 29 лип 2023
  • In this eye-opening video, we delve into the intriguing world of narcissism to understand why smart individuals often end up making foolish decisions. Join us as we explore the psychological factors that drive narcissists to prioritize short-term gains, disregard long-term consequences, and struggle with impulse control. Unravel the complexities of narcissistic decision-making and gain valuable insights into how their intelligence, ego, and emotional vulnerabilities contribute to their unwise actions. Don't miss this thought-provoking exploration of the paradox behind narcissists' seemingly intelligent yet misguided choices.
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  • @NarcissisticAbuseHealing
    @NarcissisticAbuseHealing  Рік тому +5

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  • @TedBunnie
    @TedBunnie Рік тому +21

    Exactly, they never really leaned how to do anything on their own. Hence, they fail constantly as a result. This is also why they move from victim to victim.

  • @christianbenn316
    @christianbenn316 Рік тому +13

    They are messed up persons for when they play stupid games they will win stupid prizes.

  • @jmj5388
    @jmj5388 7 місяців тому +3

    My narc makes stupid decisions/does stupid things because his pride will not allow him to ask for advice or suggestions when he is unsure about how to do something.

  • @oftin_wong
    @oftin_wong Рік тому +14

    I no longer care how many daft decisions my mother makes
    She can suffer them

    • @NarcissisticAbuseHealing
      @NarcissisticAbuseHealing  Рік тому +3

      Hi. Going no contact with a toxic or narcissistic person is often the best way to deal with them. As they rarely ever change and even if they do, it is not to any meaningful degree.

  • @slaws2279
    @slaws2279 Рік тому +5

    Wow, sounds just like my dad-a highly educated man but someone who makes reckless, sometimes dangerous, choices. Rules don’t apply to him.

    • @mrsqueakthecat.8061
      @mrsqueakthecat.8061 Рік тому +1

      Same with mine here. If he cants have it his wy nobody gets to have anything ever again, including himself and he seems fine with that no matter what it costs him in the long run.

  • @forensicbadassprofiling
    @forensicbadassprofiling Рік тому +6

    The narcissist is famous for forgetting their wallet.
    And whatever you do, do not lend them money.
    And do not ever borrow money from these people.
    It'll turn out that you're borrowing money that's really your own money that they borrowed.
    Lessons learned the hard way.

    • @Naw-hj8gc
      @Naw-hj8gc 5 місяців тому

      ITS LITERALLY THIS OH MY GOD UGH

    • @user-pw3if8jh4z
      @user-pw3if8jh4z 2 місяці тому

      And my narc friend claimed that i owed him $5000 despite already paid him $1400, balance $3600. Inclusive of the slandering as well. Been in nc since last year.

  • @kerrysaunders1936
    @kerrysaunders1936 Рік тому +11

    My Narc soon to be ex husband is communicating with my solicitor re a divorce settlement.
    My solicitor has said about my Narc, He’s not on this Universe, and, I struggle to reconcile his calculations.
    Yep Narc trying to even fool my Solicitor.

    • @NarcissisticAbuseHealing
      @NarcissisticAbuseHealing  Рік тому +3

      Hi. Sorry that you are having difficulty with your divorce. Unfortunately, many narcissists will make divorce as difficult for you as possible. Not only because they live in an alternate universe where they believe they are entitled to everything. But also because they often don’t want you to move on and live your life without them.

  • @mannyg923
    @mannyg923 Рік тому +5

    They are shallow, liars, extremely emotional and wear their pride on their sleeve.

  • @janisgoldberg7187
    @janisgoldberg7187 Рік тому +2

    Exactly they sure do make bad naasassssd decisions oh boy yes glad I'm glad thru

  • @peterharris6604
    @peterharris6604 Рік тому +4

    Thanks

  • @janisgoldberg7187
    @janisgoldberg7187 Рік тому +3

    Naasassssd Nope nope ! They never change ! Can u spare some

    • @NarcissisticAbuseHealing
      @NarcissisticAbuseHealing  11 місяців тому

      Hi. As related to the last part of your message. Can I spare some. Yes. I have a few narcissists I would gladly exchange 😂

  • @BLACKWomeninMUSICFestival
    @BLACKWomeninMUSICFestival Рік тому +5

    🌹

  • @francesbernard2445
    @francesbernard2445 11 днів тому

    In summary: The majority of people when they are children do make stupid choices. Narcissists however ofren fail to learn from their mistakes. The reasons are following: 1. Their understanding of ethics is mutable while they have an overdeveloped sense of personal iimportance and entitlement. 2. Their critical thinking skills get set aside whenever the stakes are high. 3. The narcissist does not on regular basis spend time in healthy self-reflection while they lack self-awarness. 4. They consider their own needs and wants first almost always when making their day to day decisions. 5. They tend to have anger management problems and declining as time goes by executive functioning. 6. Constant desire for stimulation in their environment. 7. They spend more time than the average person does in fantasies while then making poor day to day decisions for the future. 8. Although some narcissists are capable of cognitive empathy they are ill-equipped to be practising real empathy. 9. They constant seek attention for what they do and whom they are. 9. They often fail to step up and offer help to someone in grave danger whenever that might cost them something unless it will maybe be another opportunity to recieve public recognition. 10. They often take on far more than what they are capable of following through on while leaving a trail oherever they go. [Like for example after they have recieved a large insurance settlement when they then start purchasing several properties each of which already needed major renovations at the time when being a slum landlord who didn't already have existing in the union trades connections]