As a psychology student I can say you're very self aware about yourself. You are growing as a emotionally healthy and mature person plus helping others as well. People need to understand this and appreciate this. Also this social media is full of influencers but actually she is the true influencer helping others grow .. the world needs people like you. Mental health is not what people talk about because they're not aware but your talks are actually related to it and will help if people try to apply them in their lives. Then we are able to find answers within ourselves and not from others or outside. God bless you mam ❤️❤️
100% agreed! Great comment. We need more people like her. This is what an actual influencer should be as opposed to the fake raunchy influencers on instagram
'MOH'. she gave example of of clothes which she never wore but didn't wanted to throw them either. I prepared for neet in 11th &12th my preperation was not up to mark so i knew i wont score much than i took drop thinking i will study hard this time (its my exam next month) but drop year for neet is 1yr unlike ca or jee where 2nd attempt is within few months ...and i never though it would be so difficult i regret sooo much that i didnt studied well though i got a chance this time i would have to choose another course...for that i feel veryyy bad but i saw neha dii video in which she said god has better plan for u which made me positive. but now after few days i will be facing my exam and result and i am having this moh of cracking neet and becoming doctor .it feels i wont be happy in future if i would choose another course i dont know what to do
I slightly disagree. 'Moh' is not the only reason for not letting go some people. Rather the fear of getting alone and the retaliation by that other person are also important reasons.
But if that person doesn't give a shit about you as well, then you better not make that person a part of your life, it's better to let go of such people (Just unfollowed her from insta😊😊)
I am totally agree with you. But one advice for those people who are suffering from heartbreak now always remember one thing 'Time heels everything ' . You are trying very hard to forgot that person to get rid of anxiety feeling all the time . It takes 5-6 months to come back on your track even after 6 months if you very much attached to that you feel anxiety . But always remember one thing it takes time to heal . You just have to keep faith on God and there is no problem in the world that has no solution. But it takes time. Let the things gone . You will surely heal but remember it takes time and you have to wait for it.
True ..the Time is ultimate solution and one should be introspective what she/ he is doing and to hold self believe hope for new n better things that they can do ..more so forgiving the wrong doer or such helps rather wish n thanks to all such person for theirs acts that enabled to learn something..to make u more experienced n stronger... Just love the life ...let it go❤
Even I myself realised that letting go my friends and things helped me detach. I got so many things that were better than these things. I completed 10th standard 4-5 months before and I had this best friend who was very close to me. She went to kerala for her studies without properly informing me and I was planning to meet her and say bye but I couldn't because I got to know from an other friend that she is going to kerala on a date when I was planning to meet her. I was hurt and I even cried but now after 4-5 months after that I feel like I got much better people and a new best friend. I am ready to accept if she also leaves and I wouldn't be attach now. The memories and moments we share are valuable.❤
Wtf..you teens are upto ??!!.. at such a tender age so much jealousy, dating why .. it's completely bullshit and not worth it at all. Jitna bada paragraph likha he na tu soch soch k himmat kr k call v krleta toh jyada khus reh pata
@@pratyushpanda8131 who said it was dating. I don't date aur I am a girl aur jealousy seriously. I talked to her and it was fine she understood and we are in contact still. If you don't know other side of the story it is better not to comment. I shared my story aur aapko judge karna hai toh kar lo. Idc
Di I m preparing for upsc I m not using any social media there are lots of ups and downs I m going through in this preparation journey , I watch all your videos nd whenever I listen you I feel like my elder sister is guiding me .... thankyou for being available for us ❤
I am doing that 100 day challenge till now. Roz sab kuch ni likh paati pr I try to vent out what is in my mind.. your videos are so refreshing, addressing new problems everytime and giving a proper solution to it, thank you didi ❤
"Letting Go Off things" is the Ultimate Goal that Life can have. In order to achieve infinity, we have to understand the importance of 0. In terms of Astrology, Lord Ketu teaches detachment and is the controller (giver) of Moksha. So whenever the time of Ketu starts in one's life, one experiences events of being detached from worldly things. This journey becomes difficult & painful sometimes if we don't understand the importance of detachment from strong desires/relationships/ownerships (Rahu element) that we create in our own minds. Thank you very much for this beautiful lesson video & opening our eyes 🙏🏼😊
Damnnn !! Letting go things makes you free from stress and allow you to focus on yourself nd your goals. Just be free, whatever comes it comes , whatever flows , it flows. No need to force things. Just give your 100%, rest leave in god's hands. Woh dekh lega sab. Believe me, when you do this , you will see miracles in life. Everything becomes smooth even when it is hard. Save yourself for those who loves you, your family most importantly. Love your parents and grandparents before it's late else you will regret later. Thanks a lot Neha ma'am. You're words on different topics helped me a lot.
Attaching to things is really a disaster... At a self level attaching to a person which we were 1 year ago is also a disaster because change is always constant... You are a mind blowing person Neha☺️
Same di very relatable 😅 .. mai bhi hmesha backup me rakhti hu chats aur photos safe folder me.. koshish karungi nayi memories banau aur wo sab purani wali purane logo ke sath let go kru.. Thanks a lot di❤❤😊😊
you are such a positive person and your aura can make any broken person feels good i had been with very toxic condition just because of someone i loved the most and because of that i survived since 7 months not even able to sleep without crying even a single night i had done same things deleted them than recover that now i understand butt thankss a lot it was much needed ,I am an engineer and currently preparing for govt exam so you are a great inspiration for me writing this whole comment with tears in my eyes you are just amazing ❤
Aapki baatein sunn k samjh aata h i am not the only one.. Thanku so very much for upbringing even such small things because ye cheeze vo hinder create krti hai jo hm soch bhi nhi skte Lots of love to you ❤❤
I am going through a very rough phase in my life, I don't know how but your video comes regarding something which I feel deep down is one of the reasons behind my problems. It seems like universe is communicating with me through your videos Neha mam😊 Thanku so much mam...you might not know but these talks are helping me a lot in dealing with my situations...Thanku so much..lots of love❤
i don't have any sister and when you says "Dhyan rakho apna", it feels like my real elder sister is talking to me. Thank you di, you don't even know how much you have helped me in my worst time of life. Lot's of Love
This happened with me second time ...😢what I actually need to guide my own self is always there in your video ......I don't know I really feel this magical .........we always think that we lose attachment then our life will be empty...but it's not true .... detachment free us ... whatever comes is okay ... whatever goes too okay 😊😊😊❤❤❤ Take care your self and keep guiding us mam ❤... sending lots of love 🎉
Well said Neha. This is also known as a hoarding disease where we hoard unwanted things in our home because we are unable to let them go. Jab purane yaadein, cheeze aur kadpe dispose karenge, tabhi toh naye cheezo ke liye apne life me space bana payenge ❤
Perfectly said. The way you analyze events and situations in life and present them in a simple way for everyone to understand is just too good. It requires a very matured mind. Kya baat hai. BaDhiyaa.❤
Thanks a lot ma'am, just because of you I get a new perspective of living my life calmly... Before 2yrs. I was too attached to my friends and colleagues that if they didn't like me, I will try my best to impress them... But after several situation happened that transforms me and I have learnt not to attach with anything emotionally!!! Thanks a lot ma'am plzz make more video like this.....
So proud of myself for my detachment game and i must say we both i and you neha , have done so many similar things ❤ it just takes 0.1 seconds for a human to get over a person, its all just a game of self determination. We actually choose to get hurt by them on purpose , we choose pain because sometimes that PAIN brings pleasure to our souls.
Very well said...I am also going to try these things. If I couldn't detach from things, I wouldn't be able to detach from people either... And now I am at the place in my life where I need to detach from the dearest person in my life.
Rn I’m 20 and I haven’t mastered art of detachment yet but surely outgrown as a person. From my childhood I’ve been very intensely attached to people,things,my own feelings but now if you would ever meet me I’ve become “nihaayati” detached lmaoo.. like I won’t force , if you go or stay in my life I’ll put my effort to be with you but once I feel you aren’t giving or want to give the same I won’t force that . With peace I’ll let it go. Cuz it’s very true -Whatever meant to stay will stay . And believe me that feeling of freedom/ self security/ independence is incomparable.
Ma'am aap jo ye baat bole na ki jab aap bahar clean karte ho na to under bhi kuch clean hota hai.. bahot sahi baat bola aapne ❤❤.. jab bhi room ko clean karne par na ek under se acha feel aata hai aura bhi change ho jata hai..
Well said Neha .. appreciated the way you explained the detachment from unworthy materialistic things .. leave materialistic things .. keep alive emotions within .. that what's make all of us beautiful ❤
Thank you didi for give me this solution... I was tooo much attached with something wrong.... Now i can get it... Thank you soo much ma'am ( didi bolne se ak alg hi Khushi milte hai maan main or apna close friend lagta isiliye😅...)
I few days ago when i was not feeling good to mai apni friends ki purani chats padh rhi thi or mai has rhi thi yehi soach ke ki purane din kitne ache the still kabhi kabhi apni friends ke sath school photos dekh ke khush hoti thi pr phir yad ata tha ki ab vo mere friend nhi hai but greatful thi kuki unhone mujhe itni achi yaden di hai pr esa lagta tha ki us ditachment ka dhukh sirf mujhe ho rha hai pr mai ab esa ni karungi mai apna phone no. Change karne se darti hu kuki mere friends ke pass to yahi no. Mai unse kabhi bat kese kar poungi pr aaj lga ki mai apne sath hi galat kar rhi hu thanx neha di ❤app hamesha bhot valuable hi btatai ho❤
Completely agreeing with this !! I was extremely attracted with people and things and thoughts which was not serving me … once i learned to remove this clutter from life, I feel completely changed and so much lighter without any baggage .. mostly in present moment enjoying life fully
Thank you so much mam Coincidentally maine bhi apne saalo purane kapde jo mai nhi pehnti saalo se, vo sab isi season me nikale aur ab unhe donate krungi ❤❤❤❤😊
7:14 exactly dii 🙂 mere dil ki baar kehe di apne......me vi esa hi hu kitni hi baar man kiu na bana lu delet hi nehi kar pata bohot himmat chahiye hota hay ye sab karne ke liye......I will do for sure Thanks dii ❤❤❤
U are an angel . you are giving healthy tips to those who are desprate to come out from past trauma.. Keep on doing your good works...May god always bless u
Wowww actuall vedio I found that i didi nt expect and it’s like me jaise ap meri hi baat kar rahi thi…… mujhe bht lagaav haii old memories catch krne me or unhe hold krk recall krne me but now I get to know that how to move on and how to do thanks a lot ❤❤❤❤
Ma'am Mera vo diary wala 100 days challenge abhi bhi continuation me h It really helps a lot...sab kuch Mai apni diary me disclose krta hu...like what I did in a day... problems that I'm facing currently... Thank you dii for suggesting me....mera mind bohot light feel hota h ❤☺️🙏✨
I have been so attached with a friend of mine who has been with me since childhood and I had always treated her as my family. But somewhere for no reason I was betrayed and hurt. She kept on hidding and not telling things which only made things worst for me. I have even expressed my issue to her but the same things keep on repeating. I feel miserable. I feel so bad about it and the thing is that I can't leave her. She is my bestfriend. Everytime something happens I think things will go right from this time but it never happened!! Today even hearing about her from someone pains. My mood automatically turns off !!! Though i have tried to get detached but as you said it's really difficult. But today I got one step closer from getting detached from people who make me feel bad. Hoping to get better people. True and kind people. Thank you Neha Ma'am ❤
The best about you Neha di is...your words coming out through your heart..and that is very connective to us....God bless you Neha di.. please never change ❤️👍
How can someone be so damn relatable on both chats and clothing issue...... Exactly I found urvashi in you❤same like me nvr dlt chats, kept blur pics also, same repeated pics as well, even took Scrnshot of serious chats so I can keep it safe... 🙃🙃I know it's not healthy for ourselves but few thing's are just inbuilt...
Why women or men blocks:- Either they fear that their image can be tarnish by the other person Either the other person has irritated them and done so nich ka harqat ki insaan ko block krna padta hai Either the person who block is angry and has no control over emotions. We all are child in this beautiful world. We learn we grow we become matured. 3E's of life:--Experiment experience and then enjoy
I don't know this video is going to help someone or not but I'm sure this is going to change my life for sure Like I'm the very same person you just talked about phone se photos chats delete na kar paana kar bhi Diya toh drive pr daal diya and soo on and I just released that it is not just about chats and photos but that is a whole habit of mine I over attach things to myself . everything purane cloths purane even I'm so fond of wrist watches kharab bhi 10 10 saal purani sab sambhal kr rakhna Earrings tut jaaye toh bhi sambhal kr rakhna even college time ke bnaye hue assignments bhi yaaar this all is what I just realising after this video koi life mai hai us sey itni attachment koi Jaa Raha hai us sey itna attachment😢 I have recognised it now will surely try to work on myself to control this habit of mine
Ya di same here with me Im always very very attached to things whether they are of my use or not , and even people too ... But now I'll try to let go 😊
Mujhe aap ki baat sunke hasi ati hai because aisa lagta hai jaise aap sari meri hi baat kar rahe ho ❤❤❤apki har baat mujse kaise match kar jati hai pata nahi, nice video Thank you Thankyou Thankyou
Didi aap ne kuch jaadhu seekhliya kya to read people's mind so perfectly 😂😂😂 Whenever I'm feeling low or something is wrong your video pops up with more or less similar content and the moment I watch and put your words into practice I'm finding solution so easily it feels so good lots of love didu ❤️❤️❤️ keep growing more and spread the same love towards us and we'll double the love and give it to you💕💕
I am great full to lord Krishna cos he has blessed me with the habit of LET GO and i have lost an over of 1 crore rupees from past 10 years and i never went back n asked my creditors and i loose now also every year on an average i loose big money but i won't bother , my friends call me a fool but i am abundantly supplied by lord Krishna in everything,
@@InkiPinkiePonkie i do agree but i gave with only one intention so that the borrower prospers ,yes at times i feel my behaviour is foolish but when i sir down n think I feel i have everything i need and i dont lack anything and all that went was my Karmic dues ,
Yaar neha di aapne jo video mai ek ek word kaha wo me relate kar sakti hu. Maine to mere bachpan ke kapde, books, gifts, shoes , koi bhi tooti hui cheeze sab sambhalkar rakhi hai. And mujhe ek aadat hai ki mai roj sochati hu ki aaj ke din 1 saal pehle, 2 saal pehle, 3, ..10 saal pehle kya hua tha. Aur iski wajh se mai past ke things overcome nhi kar pa rahi hi. Dar lag raha hai ab sab clutter hatane ke liye But now I' ll try to let go things . Thank you so much Di ❤️
As a psychology student I can say you're very self aware about yourself. You are growing as a emotionally healthy and mature person plus helping others as well. People need to understand this and appreciate this. Also this social media is full of influencers but actually she is the true influencer helping others grow .. the world needs people like you.
Mental health is not what people talk about because they're not aware but your talks are actually related to it and will help if people try to apply them in their lives. Then we are able to find answers within ourselves and not from others or outside. God bless you mam ❤️❤️
100% agreed! Great comment. We need more people like her. This is what an actual influencer should be as opposed to the fake raunchy influencers on instagram
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'MOH'. she gave example of of clothes which she never wore but didn't wanted to throw them either. I prepared for neet in 11th &12th my preperation was not up to mark so i knew i wont score much than i took drop thinking i will study hard this time (its my exam next month) but drop year for neet is 1yr unlike ca or jee where 2nd attempt is within few months ...and i never though it would be so difficult i regret sooo much that i didnt studied well though i got a chance this time i would have to choose another course...for that i feel veryyy bad but i saw neha dii video in which she said god has better plan for u which made me positive. but now after few days i will be facing my exam and result and i am having this moh of cracking neet and becoming doctor .it feels i wont be happy in future if i would choose another course i dont know what to do
I am o caught wittiyorएचडीआटी😞🤩😁🤩😎😞
Buttering
I slightly disagree. 'Moh' is not the only reason for not letting go some people. Rather the fear of getting alone and the retaliation by that other person are also important reasons.
Bro that is also MOH.... The Fear of Being Alone because u need someone...
But if that person doesn't give a shit about you as well, then you better not make that person a part of your life, it's better to let go of such people
(Just unfollowed her from insta😊😊)
@@adityarajbasistha377 i think u hate someone
Bhai agar tujhe pata hota to tu video nhi dekhta😂😂
Mere papa mujhe ek baat bolte hai become your own best friend... zindigi me fer best log milenge
That "dhyaan rakho apna" is so personal to me 💕✨️
Same yarr
For real every time she says it it melts my heart and I feel so touched ❤
"When you clean outside there is something get clean inside after that", this line❤
I am totally agree with you. But one advice for those people who are suffering from heartbreak now always remember one thing 'Time heels everything ' . You are trying very hard to forgot that person to get rid of anxiety feeling all the time . It takes 5-6 months to come back on your track even after 6 months if you very much attached to that you feel anxiety . But always remember one thing it takes time to heal . You just have to keep faith on God and there is no problem in the world that has no solution. But it takes time. Let the things gone . You will surely heal but remember it takes time and you have to wait for it.
True ..the Time is ultimate solution and one should be introspective what she/ he is doing and to hold self believe hope for new n better things that they can do ..more so forgiving the wrong doer or such helps rather wish n thanks to all such person for theirs acts that enabled to learn something..to make u more experienced n stronger...
Just love the life ...let it go❤
Time doesn't heal anything it just trains us to live with that problem... I'm saying it with experience 🙃
Even I myself realised that letting go my friends and things helped me detach. I got so many things that were better than these things. I completed 10th standard 4-5 months before and I had this best friend who was very close to me. She went to kerala for her studies without properly informing me and I was planning to meet her and say bye but I couldn't because I got to know from an other friend that she is going to kerala on a date when I was planning to meet her. I was hurt and I even cried but now after 4-5 months after that I feel like I got much better people and a new best friend. I am ready to accept if she also leaves and I wouldn't be attach now. The memories and moments we share are valuable.❤
Wtf..you teens are upto ??!!.. at such a tender age so much jealousy, dating why .. it's completely bullshit and not worth it at all. Jitna bada paragraph likha he na tu soch soch k himmat kr k call v krleta toh jyada khus reh pata
@@pratyushpanda8131 who said it was dating. I don't date aur I am a girl aur jealousy seriously. I talked to her and it was fine she understood and we are in contact still. If you don't know other side of the story it is better not to comment. I shared my story aur aapko judge karna hai toh kar lo. Idc
@@pratyushpanda8131ho gya tu apna kam le abb
Hadd h dasvi k balak bhi😂
Aree thoda dekh toh lo duniya abhi 😂😂
@@himanshusingh-or2py i wish apne dekhi hoti aur fir comment kiya hota
I followed your advice and deleted 4 years of chat and 4 gb of memories of her without backup 😶
Relax usko ana hota aur apke sath rhna hota to koi issue he ni hota esa !! So just relax
Di I m preparing for upsc I m not using any social media there are lots of ups and downs I m going through in this preparation journey , I watch all your videos nd whenever I listen you I feel like my elder sister is guiding me .... thankyou for being available for us ❤
What happened with u
Same bro
I am doing that 100 day challenge till now. Roz sab kuch ni likh paati pr I try to vent out what is in my mind.. your videos are so refreshing, addressing new problems everytime and giving a proper solution to it, thank you didi ❤
Clothes & feelings are different,but the feeling of being cheated by pure loved or seeing them so easily move on hurts alot,&we still love them....
I am letting go off my thoughts of past failures and people who created mess in my life and trying to start afresh....your timing is perfect ❤
Yes, me too!
Feels like someone understood what was happening in our mind and decided to show how to take care of it and also free it as far as possible
Best line "Go get new memories" ♥️
Thanku so much... kaash mujhe aap 2 saal phle mil jate 😢
"Letting Go Off things" is the Ultimate Goal that Life can have.
In order to achieve infinity, we have to understand the importance of 0.
In terms of Astrology, Lord Ketu teaches detachment and is the controller (giver) of Moksha. So whenever the time of Ketu starts in one's life, one experiences events of being detached from worldly things. This journey becomes difficult & painful sometimes if we don't understand the importance of detachment from strong desires/relationships/ownerships (Rahu element) that we create in our own minds.
Thank you very much for this beautiful lesson video & opening our eyes 🙏🏼😊
Well said
Op 😢
Damnnn !! Letting go things makes you free from stress and allow you to focus on yourself nd your goals. Just be free, whatever comes it comes , whatever flows , it flows. No need to force things. Just give your 100%, rest leave in god's hands. Woh dekh lega sab. Believe me, when you do this , you will see miracles in life. Everything becomes smooth even when it is hard. Save yourself for those who loves you, your family most importantly. Love your parents and grandparents before it's late else you will regret later. Thanks a lot Neha ma'am. You're words on different topics helped me a lot.
Attaching to things is really a disaster...
At a self level attaching to a person which we were 1 year ago is also a disaster because change is always constant...
You are a mind blowing person Neha☺️
Same di very relatable 😅 .. mai bhi hmesha backup me rakhti hu chats aur photos safe folder me.. koshish karungi nayi memories banau aur wo sab purani wali purane logo ke sath let go kru..
Thanks a lot di❤❤😊😊
you are such a positive person and your aura can make any broken person feels good i had been with very toxic condition just because of someone i loved the most and because of that i survived since 7 months not even able to sleep without crying even a single night i had done same things deleted them than recover that now i understand butt thankss a lot it was much needed ,I am an engineer and currently preparing for govt exam so you are a great inspiration for me writing this whole comment with tears in my eyes you are just amazing ❤
Now u moved on???
That line "andar hi andar pata hota hai ki kaun sa log humare liye hai , kaun nahi " ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Aapki baatein sunn k samjh aata h i am not the only one..
Thanku so very much for upbringing even such small things because ye cheeze vo hinder create krti hai jo hm soch bhi nhi skte
Lots of love to you ❤❤
I am going through a very rough phase in my life, I don't know how but your video comes regarding something which I feel deep down is one of the reasons behind my problems. It seems like universe is communicating with me through your videos Neha mam😊 Thanku so much mam...you might not know but these talks are helping me a lot in dealing with my situations...Thanku so much..lots of love❤
i don't have any sister and when you says "Dhyan rakho apna", it feels like my real elder sister is talking to me. Thank you di, you don't even know how much you have helped me in my worst time of life. Lot's of Love
I wan heal n let go one person hope one day I see this msg n feel finally I’m done. 😢
Same here
Absolutely right , aadha bojh to hum khud hi uthaye firte hain , we all need to declutter every unnecessary stuff. Thank you
जब बाहर कुछ साफ करते हैं तो कुछ अंदर भी साफ होता हैं. Very good and calming effect of these words.
Truly, this video stands out from others! I've wrapped up my relaxation and NOW IT'S BACK TO MY STUDIES.
Only one you tuber who always speaks as she feels openly
This happened with me second time ...😢what I actually need to guide my own self is always there in your video ......I don't know I really feel this magical .........we always think that we lose attachment then our life will be empty...but it's not true .... detachment free us ... whatever comes is okay ... whatever goes too okay 😊😊😊❤❤❤
Take care your self and keep guiding us mam ❤... sending lots of love 🎉
Aap Ney jaadoo kar diyaa, mere liye bilkull sahi baat kahi, thnx bat karney ka style bhee sundar
Well said Neha. This is also known as a hoarding disease where we hoard unwanted things in our home because we are unable to let them go. Jab purane yaadein, cheeze aur kadpe dispose karenge, tabhi toh naye cheezo ke liye apne life me space bana payenge ❤
Pta hai Neha mai bhi same situation me hu. Kuchh logo ko let go nhi kr pa rhi thi sahi time pe video aa gyi. Thank you😊
Perfectly said. The way you analyze events and situations in life and present them in a simple way for everyone to understand is just too good. It requires a very matured mind. Kya baat hai. BaDhiyaa.❤
Thanks a lot ma'am, just because of you I get a new perspective of living my life calmly... Before 2yrs. I was too attached to my friends and colleagues that if they didn't like me, I will try my best to impress them... But after several situation happened that transforms me and I have learnt not to attach with anything emotionally!!! Thanks a lot ma'am plzz make more video like this.....
Itna innocent , itna emotional nhi hoti to hm log se kaise connect krti 🤭🙌we are grateful for ur suggestions 😍❤️
The way you said "dhyan rakho apna" ❤
Kya baat hai kya baat hai,, Bahut khoob,, About Chat threads,,, true true,,
So proud of myself for my detachment game and i must say we both i and you neha , have done so many similar things ❤ it just takes 0.1 seconds for a human to get over a person, its all just a game of self determination. We actually choose to get hurt by them on purpose , we choose pain because sometimes that PAIN brings pleasure to our souls.
Correctly addressed.... actually we love to be in pain...that is the root cause of all the attachments
@@priyankalodha8773 yup
@@priyankalodha8773 i agree 💯💯
Aap jab bolte ho na to asa lagta hai bs video khtam na ho jaye aapki itna acha lagta hai har chij related hoti hai love you di
Thank you❤, aesa lga jaise apne mere ander chl rahi saari baato ko bola along there solutions....I am lucky to have you a mentor.
I am letting go of anything i dont desire❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏
Very well said...I am also going to try these things. If I couldn't detach from things, I wouldn't be able to detach from people either... And now I am at the place in my life where I need to detach from the dearest person in my life.
Rn I’m 20 and I haven’t mastered art of detachment yet but surely outgrown as a person. From my childhood I’ve been very intensely attached to people,things,my own feelings but now if you would ever meet me I’ve become “nihaayati” detached lmaoo.. like I won’t force , if you go or stay in my life I’ll put my effort to be with you but once I feel you aren’t giving or want to give the same I won’t force that . With peace I’ll let it go. Cuz it’s very true -Whatever meant to stay will stay . And believe me that feeling of freedom/ self security/ independence is incomparable.
Life bhut down chal rahi hai but apki vdo dekh ke himat milti hai..
thank you mam maine bhi kabhi sab kuch delete kiya hai .....ab ye sun ke lg raha ki mai sahi raste pe hu😍😍......god bless you mam take c are
Ma'am aap jo ye baat bole na ki jab aap bahar clean karte ho na to under bhi kuch clean hota hai.. bahot sahi baat bola aapne ❤❤.. jab bhi room ko clean karne par na ek under se acha feel aata hai aura bhi change ho jata hai..
Well said Neha .. appreciated the way you explained the detachment from unworthy materialistic things .. leave materialistic things .. keep alive emotions within .. that what's make all of us beautiful ❤
Thank you didi for give me this solution... I was tooo much attached with something wrong.... Now i can get it... Thank you soo much ma'am ( didi bolne se ak alg hi Khushi milte hai maan main or apna close friend lagta isiliye😅...)
My Dear sister you are a pure soul, thank you for this video.
Aap shi kah rhi h......karya pragati pr h ....let go kiya n ab khud ka khayal krna achha lagta h...😊
It was so relatable....felt too light after listening to you..Thanku😊
I few days ago when i was not feeling good to mai apni friends ki purani chats padh rhi thi or mai has rhi thi yehi soach ke ki purane din kitne ache the still kabhi kabhi apni friends ke sath school photos dekh ke khush hoti thi pr phir yad ata tha ki ab vo mere friend nhi hai but greatful thi kuki unhone mujhe itni achi yaden di hai pr esa lagta tha ki us ditachment ka dhukh sirf mujhe ho rha hai pr mai ab esa ni karungi mai apna phone no. Change karne se darti hu kuki mere friends ke pass to yahi no. Mai unse kabhi bat kese kar poungi pr aaj lga ki mai apne sath hi galat kar rhi hu thanx neha di ❤app hamesha bhot valuable hi btatai ho❤
Ek word Mazboor kar deta hai aapko sunne ke liye... Dhayan RAKHO APNA...
Aap hamesha itne relatable examples share karte ho ki bahott connected feel hota hai aapse, like chats and photos example👍🏼♥️
Sb mohmaya hain behen 😢
Completely agreeing with this !! I was extremely attracted with people and things and thoughts which was not serving me … once i learned to remove this clutter from life, I feel completely changed and so much lighter without any baggage .. mostly in present moment enjoying life fully
Please share the method - how to let go
When any thought comes,it stuck.thats why i want to know "how to let go"
Thanks in advance.
Thank you so much mam
Coincidentally maine bhi apne saalo purane kapde jo mai nhi pehnti saalo se, vo sab isi season me nikale aur ab unhe donate krungi ❤❤❤❤😊
Thank you, Neha Ji. I really need this video. I tried it, and we'll see what happens.
this is exactly me...Even I'm of that kind, I'm trying to improve myself..
7:14 exactly dii 🙂 mere dil ki baar kehe di apne......me vi esa hi hu kitni hi baar man kiu na bana lu delet hi nehi kar pata bohot himmat chahiye hota hay ye sab karne ke liye......I will do for sure Thanks dii ❤❤❤
U are an angel . you are giving healthy tips to those who are desprate to come out from past trauma.. Keep on doing your good works...May god always bless u
Very practically explained. Thank you Mam ❤
Wowww actuall vedio I found that i didi nt expect and it’s like me jaise ap meri hi baat kar rahi thi…… mujhe bht lagaav haii old memories catch krne me or unhe hold krk recall krne me but now I get to know that how to move on and how to do thanks a lot ❤❤❤❤
Ma'am Mera vo diary wala 100 days challenge abhi bhi continuation me h
It really helps a lot...sab kuch Mai apni diary me disclose krta hu...like what I did in a day... problems that I'm facing currently...
Thank you dii for suggesting me....mera mind bohot light feel hota h ❤☺️🙏✨
I also
Which video
I have been so attached with a friend of mine who has been with me since childhood and I had always treated her as my family.
But somewhere for no reason I was betrayed and hurt. She kept on hidding and not telling things which only made things worst for me. I have even expressed my issue to her but the same things keep on repeating. I feel miserable. I feel so bad about it and the thing is that I can't leave her. She is my bestfriend. Everytime something happens I think things will go right from this time but it never happened!!
Today even hearing about her from someone pains. My mood automatically turns off !!!
Though i have tried to get detached but as you said it's really difficult.
But today I got one step closer from getting detached from people who make me feel bad.
Hoping to get better people. True and kind people.
Thank you Neha Ma'am ❤
The best about you Neha di is...your words coming out through your heart..and that is very connective to us....God bless you Neha di.. please never change ❤️👍
How can someone be so damn relatable on both chats and clothing issue...... Exactly I found urvashi in you❤same like me nvr dlt chats, kept blur pics also, same repeated pics as well, even took Scrnshot of serious chats so I can keep it safe... 🙃🙃I know it's not healthy for ourselves but few thing's are just inbuilt...
really kuchh dino se mere saath yahi baate ho rhi thi....aur ye wali video muze suggetion me aa gyi....sach me yr achha lga ye video dekh kr
Ysss !! Literally this is tooo relatable 😂....... mere pass bhi aese bohot kpde h Jo main phnti bhi nii oor kisi ko deti bhi niii😂0:35
Why women or men blocks:-
Either they fear that their image can be tarnish by the other person
Either the other person has irritated them and done so nich ka harqat ki insaan ko block krna padta hai
Either the person who block is angry and has no control over emotions.
We all are child in this beautiful world.
We learn we grow we become matured.
3E's of life:--Experiment experience and then enjoy
I don't know this video is going to help someone or not but I'm sure this is going to change my life for sure
Like I'm the very same person you just talked about phone se photos chats delete na kar paana kar bhi Diya toh drive pr daal diya and soo on and I just released that it is not just about chats and photos but that is a whole habit of mine I over attach things to myself . everything purane cloths purane even I'm so fond of wrist watches kharab bhi 10 10 saal purani sab sambhal kr rakhna
Earrings tut jaaye toh bhi sambhal kr rakhna even college time ke bnaye hue assignments bhi yaaar this all is what I just realising after this video koi life mai hai us sey itni attachment koi Jaa Raha hai us sey itna attachment😢
I have recognised it now will surely try to work on myself to control this habit of mine
Ya di same here with me Im always very very attached to things whether they are of my use or not , and even people too ... But now I'll try to let go 😊
This is very valuable lesson. If we want to live in peace cut that invisible thread completely. Thank you Di❤
Mujhe aap ki baat sunke hasi ati hai because aisa lagta hai jaise aap sari meri hi baat kar rahe ho ❤❤❤apki har baat mujse kaise match kar jati hai pata nahi, nice video Thank you Thankyou Thankyou
Aap jo last me bolte ho na ki.....Dhyan rakho apna......wo sabse pyara h.... aur jo b kaha sab sahi h ❤
Feeling good. I feel very calm after watching your videos. Thanks for uploading your experience with us. We appreciate you.
The way you say haanji kasam se maja aa jata hai aur bahut saari positivity aa jati hai❤❤
That line..... "Dhyan rakho apna " ❤❤❤
This is the concept of KETU in astrology..which refers to Detachment...
Same process mene experience kia h di....N now I'm able to let go of anything...
Didi aap ne kuch jaadhu seekhliya kya to read people's mind so perfectly 😂😂😂
Whenever I'm feeling low or something is wrong your video pops up with more or less similar content and the moment I watch and put your words into practice I'm finding solution so easily it feels so good lots of love didu ❤️❤️❤️ keep growing more and spread the same love towards us and we'll double the love and give it to you💕💕
I am great full to lord Krishna cos he has blessed me with the habit of LET GO and i have lost an over of 1 crore rupees from past 10 years and i never went back n asked my creditors and i loose now also every year on an average i loose big money but i won't bother , my friends call me a fool but i am abundantly supplied by lord Krishna in everything,
But I think you should take some responsibility for your money....
letting go that big amount of money is really a foolish behavior 😊
@@InkiPinkiePonkie i do agree but i gave with only one intention so that the borrower prospers ,yes at times i feel my behaviour is foolish but when i sir down n think I feel i have everything i need and i dont lack anything and all that went was my Karmic dues ,
4:16 ke bad apne bhot sahi baat kahi hai Neha regarding unresolved issue.
Love this video as always ❤️
apka hnji, bolne se mja/motivation aa jata hai...............mja; aa jata hai, suun kar😃☺
Your smile is so sweet. You emanate a strong positive aura.
This is one of the best videos I have seen on this topic. Great Advice. Thank you.
Yaar neha di aapne jo video mai ek ek word kaha wo me relate kar sakti hu. Maine to mere bachpan ke kapde, books, gifts, shoes , koi bhi tooti hui cheeze sab sambhalkar rakhi hai. And mujhe ek aadat hai ki mai roj sochati hu ki aaj ke din 1 saal pehle, 2 saal pehle, 3, ..10 saal pehle kya hua tha. Aur iski wajh se mai past ke things overcome nhi kar pa rahi hi. Dar lag raha hai ab sab clutter hatane ke liye But now I' ll try to let go things . Thank you so much Di ❤️
Dil hi Jeet lete ho di aap❤
I am going to delete the old chats right after the video...!
Thank ya soo much for encouraging me diiii ❤🌻
Aapka videos bohut help karta hain mujhe didi❤ for move on with courage, thanks didi,and aap bhi aacha rehna,pranam 🙏
Aapka nature bilkul meri tarah h,I really feel your videos
Very good talk to avoid excessive attachment which is illness.
I'm honestly so glad I found your channel!
You are just a therapy to me 😌
It feels like you are the only person in this entire Planet that I am able to relate.
She is so beautifully positive ....love your energy!!❤
Aapko pata bhi nahi hai kitni gehri aur relatable baate bolte ho aap .
Learning alot from you sweetheart❤
Love you !❤❤
You are an inspiration maam
Great video ,this will definitely help many people to overcome breakups.