I was waiting for a flight recently and noticed a dad playing with his toddler. He was showing him around the gate, letting him say hi to the airline/airport staff. For about 30 minutes straight the little boy was a giggling whirlwind of curiosity. Dad was walking him around, telling him about the planes, where they were going and letting kids what kids do best. I could see das was tired but he kept up with his child the entire time...he knew what he was doing. Little guy slept through the flight. Hero dad.
Sounds like my brother in law with his two daughters and son Any time I go over to my sister's to watch them it's fun but damn it can be tiring being the uncle is tough but being their dad I can't imagine
The only thing worse than having a screaming baby on your flight, is having a screaming baby and a screaming man-child. He made the situation significantly worse. He was worse than the baby.
The baby was not bad AT ALL? Do people forget that an INNOCENT CHILD who did not realized yet how to EXPRESS THEMSELVES are NEVER AT FAULT? Use your brain before commenting next time!
@@berrymint6384nobody finds a screaming child pleasant. Being in a tight space with a screaming child isa bad experience (not the baby's fault, mind) . But dude screaming about the baby DEFINITELY made it worse.
You know how when 1 baby cries it can set off another baby to cry? And when the first baby stops the challenge is to get the other baby to stop crying too.
I've been on a 20-hour flight to China with a man next to me coughing his lungs up and all I did was give him my sick bag to help out. People are so wrapped up in their own worlds that they forget how to be kind to one another
Had a baby on my flight once, didn't cry at all, but for 3 hours, just stared at me. I swear he was staring into my soul. The parents got up and brought him to change him at one point, and he never broke eye contact, even leaning out to stare for little bit longer before he went into the room. I almost wish he cried, was creepy as hell.
Can we all just appreciate the energy of the dude recording? He couldn't be taking this grown man child any less seriously. Dudes just geeking in the seat lmao
Honestly, this is why I love the fact that trains over here have train cars specifically for families with kids. No one likes crying kids, but damn, don't yell at the parents for it, they probably want the kid to shut up more than you.
You'd be surprised. One parent was having their brat crying about wanting candy. But she decided 30thousand feet in the air was when she wanted to teach her brat the lesson that you can't always get candy.
When I had kids I always headed straight for the back of the plane (when it’s free seating which is usually how we go) because I hoped it would get us further away and encourage other parents to group together there. It was usually a decent solution. I’m happy to smell the bathrooms if I don’t have to deal with angry glances over my kid.
My youngest cried her 1st 3 months. Almost drove me to drink. Nothing helped. Then she became the most angelic child I could ask for. Kids can be weird like that.
and did you think in those first 3 months "you know what? i think my baby needs to be 30k feet above ground in a tube with lots of other people...that will help it"? because i feel like thats the thought process of some parents these days.
@@hoodwizdumb a lot of people can tune those sounds out or pop in headphones. The only ones that haven’t are single children that grew into adults, or people that haven’t been around children.
I was on a flight where a woman (a Black woman…I mention it because we are twice as aware of who’s watching us when we travel) was mortified when her small baby started going off. I was a few rows behind, and I wasn’t even trippin. Kids don’t bother me. She was so stressed out trying to calm the baby, feed the baby…she went to the bathroom and came back with the baby. When she got back to her seat, the woman next to her asked if she could hold the baby. After a moment in the lady’s arm, baby fell asleep. The mother literally burst into tears. It was so unexpected, it tears me up now. Sometimes people know it is hard to be a HUMAN BEING, and it doesn’t take much to give each other a little grace, especially when you can see mothers are usually really stressed traveling with kids. I always try to help, because it could be me. My carefree life gives me the energy to lend a hand to a parent any day!!! Lol✊🏾
I adore children so I don't understand this man's deal lol Like yeah, it's difficult but don't say smack a baby the heck :/ I love to help parents too. I'm divorced so I only see my kids 50% now. So I dunno, I give my mother energy away while they are gone haha Stray mom alert hahaha
Yeah, babies cry because the pressure change in planes is excruciating in their ears but they obviously can't chew gum or tell you that they're in pain so they scream bloody murder :(
and thats life, babies are genetically made to cry, you can complain but thats not solving anything, the parents can try to stop the baby crying but thats impossible
Here’s the secret. Babies inner ear can’t equalize with the change in cabin pressure as easily as an adult. Strategies to help the baby is to 1. Breast feed if they are still able and if not then have a bottle ready. The suckling motion and pressure in the mouth will help open the Eustachian tubes. 2. You can give older kids gum or some type of chewy snack like dried mangoes or gummy bears to snack on for takeoff and landing.
So does that mean babies shouldn’t fly…? And I’m really not trying to be an ass. I’m legitimately asking due to these medical reasons they shouldn’t be allowed to fly?
My grandson cried his entire first three to four months my daughter did EVERYTHING to console him, she changed his diet multiple times tried car rides, putting him on the washer everything he was even checked out by his pediatrician and he would stop crying for a few hours at a time and my poor daughter was so stressed out because of this. I could only imagine how embarrassed she would be in this situation. Before people ask yes she is/was married her husband was deployed and they had a two year old and lived 8 hours away from family and we tried to help her as much as we could but the moral of this story is babies cry and sometimes there's nothing parents can do.
I had that with my 2nd the 1st 10 weeks . I went camping with him and it stopped. I don’t know if it was because we were in nature and it calmed him. I think he was just anxious from his birth.
That's cool my daughter allowed her dad and stepmom to take the kids for a week when he was about two and he went to the campground and his grandpa said he slept pretty good in the camper but he was still restless at the house. Must be a nature thing because they don't have TV at the campground and it's VERY quiet. Now he's five and he occasionally sleepwalks and rolls out of bed. But his other grandparents say he sleeps better at the campground.
This man was literally proud to have the same maturity level as the baby. People aren't even trying to be adults anymore like I know EXACTLY how he feels, but getting put on the no-fly list is a bigger deal than most people seem to realize.
I was once on a 12 hour flight to Mozambique, Africa with a child in front of me screaming the entire time, it was frustrating but I felt bad for the dad who was trying everything he could to calm him down
As a parent and someone who did alot of babysitting before having my own kids…..the parent already is stressed and embarrassed that they can’t keep a “baby” from crying…then your fragile self decides to “rail” on them….sometimes babies cry just to cry because they can’t communicate. The guy was literally being the baby in adult form. Screaming and doing the same stuff he’s upset about 🤣
@@waynewayne8419 If you want a child free flight, just drive. Or fly private, maybe first class. Sorry, but kids exist. And some adults need to grow up. Babies cry, like else do you expect?
@@angierodriguez7776 It's fine to be angry about someone's baby constantly crying. What isn't fine is to throw a hissy fit about it or start a fight with the parents
I was on a plane once where a baby was crying while the mom tried to sooth it. At some point the guy next to her yelled: “Shut that kid up!” She blew up right back in his face: “What you want me to do, choke him?” Luckily that guy came back to his senses, looked baffled, looked around and saw everyone look at him with an expression that said ‘dumbass!’, sat back down and shut da f@ck up
its amazing how many people here haven't been on flights as toddlers. by the time I was 5 I had crossed the Atlantic three times with planes. My own baby got on a plane the first time she was 4 months old. I have always taken great care of the ears. Make sure she either gets milk/formula during take off and landing or is sucking on a pacifier. Because the pressure to the ears is tough. Its similar to what free divers can experience.
@@maltborg Yeah, it's amazing how many people on hear didn't get a McLaren F1 as a 16th birthday present. Not everyone has the disposable cash to take holidays. I've been on planes plenty of times, but that is not the point, there are plenty of people that haven't. (I didn't get a McLaren for my 16th birthday though :( )
@@maltborg u say toddlers but then you give 5 years old and 4 months as examples. Neither age qualifies as toddler. 5yo is a lil kid just out of toddler age, and 4months is just a newborn baby, not even half a year old.
As a mom who has had a crying 1 year old on a plane, I assure you nothing feels worse. I was doing everything I could to calm her down, I was sweating, panicked, felt like everyone hated me and my daughter. Im pretty sure I cried after she finally fell asleep. It was awhile ago but I’ll never forget the horror I felt.
Of course being around a stranger’s crying baby is frustrating. But you don’t think the parents are frustrated too? They want the kid to calm down more than I do!
The big difference there is that the parents, in all likelihood, chose to have a kid. It's true that as an adult venturing out into public you've also got to expect certain hardships (such as encountering crying babies), but there's a ceiling on the amount of sympathy I can muster for the adult who chose to have a kid.
@theblackdeath3 what does them choosing to have a child have to do with the baby crying? What do you want them to do - put a chloroform cloth on the baby's face so you can have a better flight? As a parent best believe we HATE it when our kids cry, and we do our very best to quickly get them settled down.
I understand listening to a baby crying can be annoying, but this is not the way to handle this. That's why I always carry headphones to listen music and tune out other outside noises
When I was in the military I could never understand how a 30 year old can hold a grudge against a 17 year old. Today the bar got lowered. How can a 30 year be mad at a toddler?
Someone woke up on the wrong side of the airplane seat. Dude, babies cry. They cry when they're hungry, scared, in a new environment, and so on. And what does race have to do with it? What a man child.
"why is the baby crying?!" It's a baby, it's crying because even the smallest bad experience is quite literally the worst thing the baby has ever gone through.
Had a toddler on my last flight running around screaming. He saw I was watching cartoons (Tintin). Stopped at my seat went quiet and watched with me. I asked his mother if he could watch with me and she nodded. Sat him on the armrests and he was quiet for the last 5 hours of the flight.
Bless you 🙏. Trust me you helped make the world a lil bit better in that moment. Some people don't realize that we live in a society, it's not just you. Help where you can
So you basically did the parents job for a kid that wasn't yours. All I gleaned from that is the parents simply didn't give a shit and let him roam around.
Thank you for this. Babies are so often treated as an inconvenience and yes there are difficulties that come with babies, but as a new mom I have come to learn... Adults are wayyy more difficult to deal with fr. Smh
I had a crying baby next to me a few months ago on a 3 hour flight and because I know the horror the moms go through when their baby cries, I assured her that this is normal and thanked her that she is at least trying. She was so thankful
That man is crazy, I feel sorry for his wife/girlfriend who look visibly embarrassed by his behavior. He probably acts worse than this at home. It’s ridiculous.
@@MusMasi he definitely doesn’t have kids. Anyone with kids or that love with kids know that they cry because they’re not familiar with the world yet. You could move a child an inch to the left and they’d cry. He doesn’t know that so that’s how I know he doesn’t have one yet 😅
My firstborn cried on a flight when he was six months old and I was horrified. Nothing could calm him down. It could have been only 10 minutes, but in the moment... For a parent... It feels like forever. I'm so thankful that the other passengers were patient with us. Yes, we got some mean looks, but that was it. I'm sure a full grown man screaming at us would not have improved the situation, wow 🤯
People also don't realize sometimes babies just cry. Not because they are hungry or sick or tired but just because they want to cry. 🤷 We forget that all of us were babies at some point and we get wrapped up in our adult stuff. Keep doing your best like you are! I hope you are well and take care
As a mommy with a baby that cries quite a bit, it was probably just as tough for the mom knowing her baby was crying and she couldn’t soothe him/her as quickly as she probably wanted to. That pressure is mad stressful. Especially because she probably knew people were fed up/ irritated. I feel you mama!
Very are very dramatic. No one gets this upset about a crying baby unless they can visibly see nothing being done to quiet the child. I’ve seen plenty mothers do absolutely nothing when their child started crying, not saying I’d react the exact same as this man but who knows what he went through right before this incident? Everyone was in a bad spot here and he reacted worse
I remember working at Wal-Mart in the photo dept. and this customer was mad about her pictures because it was one of those old throw away cameras that possibly the roll of film wasn’t good. Manager came over and was trying to reason with her but she kept whining and my manager looked at her and said “What will the baby do if you do all the crying?” and walked away. She literally didn’t say a word after that and ended up walking away pissed 😂
I was just on a plane delayed for two hours and I sat next to the parents I told the lady not to worry about it just relax and breathe and focus on the baby. I think they worry more about how others will respond. I gave her some tips on how to prevent the babies ear from hurting too. Babies need assistance with soothing we shouldn’t as adults.
This why I stopped going out with my baby. One lady yelled at me to make my baby shut up and I just broke down crying and this random lady came to my defense and let her have it.
this guy acted out in the way that everyone thinks in their head but because they grown, they just go to another place(mental yoga, meditation) and just keep silent or they prepare for situations like that with headphones or sleeping pills 🤣. this had more to do with his personal(mental) life than just that kid. the kid was the breaking point
its amazing how many people here haven't been on flights as toddlers. by the time I was 5 I had crossed the Atlantic three times with planes. My own baby got on a plane the first time she was 4 months old. I have always taken great care of the ears. Make sure she either gets milk/formula during take off and landing or is sucking on a pacifier. Because the pressure to the ears is tough. Its similar to what free divers can experience.
Yep exactly, a crying baby on a plane is infuriating, and you think, why are you flying with a baby, but then I think, maybe they are going to a funeral, a wedding, it's an important flight, and a new born has to be with their Mum, you can't ditch them with the neighbour for a week, being with their Mum is critical, so as a n adult, you accept sometime life sucks like it does right now, and you just deal with it.
@@bigheadrhino and being human means sometimes you’ll fail at that. Babies are annoying when they aren’t yours, especially if the point of your flight is finally going somewhere to relax
I use to get really annoyed and complained about the stuff my niece and nephews did when they were younger. I was very young at the time and I thought how hard could it be. Having kids of my own humbled my ass real quick.
The tragic and most concerning thing is how easily this man went to yelling at a child in a public space. If the parent was the one doing that to the child in public you know someone would call CPS and they would be investigated for child ab*se. I shudder to think what that man would do to a child behind closed doors.
The pressurization and depressurization bothers their ears. That is why is important to give them a bottle or something to suck on for their ears. Some new parents do not know that, of the baby could have colic which sucks. However this dude was complaining before even taking off. Headphones my man.
@Rogelio Estanislao Jr Only way for family members to see the kid is by flight. Some elderly may not be able to fly to see grandkids, so parents take kid to them
Me and my family were on a 10-hour flight two years ago and there was a small autistic kid sitting near to us that went into full panic mode and cried for 10 hours straight. Do you think we went yelling like maniacs at the kid? At his parents? No, we toughened up, tried to help the parents as best we could and got through it. Even my 5-year-old who has trouble dealing with loud noises understood when we explained to him and didn’t make a single complaint. People need to learn what it means to love thy neighbor, especially if you’re a grown up.
I feel so bad for the parents my kids have gone to Spain and all over the world with us and 99% of those flights they are perfect. But one time my son had an ear infection and couldn't stop crying. But everybody around me was compassionate and helped me I will always remember that.
There are still some legitimate adults in this world that can control their emotions even when we're mad or bothered. I'm sure they would rather have not had your child crying due to the ear infection... but guess what? They're a child and you're the adult. Sometimes you just gotta rough it out.
Plus with the elevation it affects children’s ears differently. I traveled with a baby and thank God my mom warned me about the pressure change, she told me as soon as the plane descends or ascends make sure the baby is sucking on something, a pacifier, a bottle, even a safe kind of candy.
As a parent of an autistic child, and when our child is acting crazy like that, we are 10x more stressed than everyone else because we know that it's really annoying everyone else. We feel extreme pressure and anxiety to calm our child. It's a shitty situation for everyone. Screaming like this not only doesn't fucking work but it makes things worse always. P.S. Fruit gummies are a great substitute for gum for kids when flying for their ears.
That’s cool and all but it’s still annoying AF to listen to and it actually hurts sometimes to hear like a knife slicing through your ear. Learn to control your crotch goblin…
I'm autistic as well and remember those outbursts when i was younger. I think it's because when you're young you haven't yet properly learned how to express or recognise what is upsetting or overstimulating you, especially when you're autistic, but when you get older you know yourself better and learn how to recognise it and deal with the situation.
There are about 100+ other people on the plane with you having to put up with that absolute nonsense and you're making it about how stressed you are? 😂 Explains this era in a nutshell.
I always hate these types that act like race is somehow a factor in everything. Im not white, but I always looked at my friends as nothing more than just friends. Didnt matter if they were Asian, White, or Black. But bro around highschool was when all that goofy ass racial politics shit went in full swing. Didnt realize it, but i started looking at my friends differentially and started attributing my insecurities to my race instead of it just being insecurities. Like I see so many people thinking that way nowadays, regardless of race.
I get it. Especially for people without children, listening to someone else’s child scream/cry for hours is not just uncomfortable, it’s stressful. But - asking someone to smack their baby is way out of line. Yelling at a crying baby is going to get the opposite result, and equally disruptive to other customers. He was yelling so much he didn’t even realize the baby had stopped.
I think everyone on the plane should be able to sue belligerent passengers like that. The person wasted everyone’s time, people may have missed a connection, a meeting, a funeral, a cruise, or whatever. That jerk should have to compensate everyone.
This was something I worried about with my autistic child when she was little. She has improved A LOT over the years from behavioral therapy, but when she was young she screamed and cried a lot. So my biggest fear was going somewhere like a store and her screaming and someone coming up to me to tell my child to shut up. Even now my daughter has to wear noise canceling headphones when we go to the movies or the Fourth of July with the fireworks. If I don’t have her headphones with me she freaks out with the noise. I haven’t even attempted to go on a plane ride yet, because I fear she’ll cry because of her ears.
I know I'm kinda late to this comment, but you sound like a good parent. I'm autistic myself and had a lot of similar behaviors, but I'm much better now that I can control my environment and developed coping mechanisms with age and experience. Hell, I would slam my head on the floor to try to get the overstimulation to stop, and I'm a totally functional adult who completed college with a BS in Music. It can get easier, I promise you.
A friend of mine in high school had to wear headphones all the time. You're doing your best, keep it up, you have friends out here who know what you're going through. My friend was able to function in society because she had parents like you. Thank you and I hope you're well
I don't know why people are surprised that the birth rate is decreasing when people are genuinely suggesting babies and therefore their moms, shouldn't be on planes simply because they're annoying. It's become popular to dislike or even openly hate kids. I don't have kids of my own but even I can recognize toxicity.
@@ogatak4158 You're behind on this one. We've already done that, now people around the globe are flipping out over the looming demographic collapse and trying to figure out how to get people to have more kids
On a vid with another guy reacting to this, a few people on the comments suggested taping the kid's mouth shut or even pillow smothering. It's horrible, and makes me lose faith in humanity even more. They didn't like it when I told them that I'm scared for whenever they have kids and they decide to not stop crying cause of colic or something.
Yeah everyone should just accept an annoying child crying and kicking your sit for 12 hours straight.... Parents should be held financially accountable for the the discomfort of all the other passenger and the crew.
I'm telling you someone probably felt that way when he was a baby. On a plane your ears get blocked a baby can't say "mommy my ears hurt can I have some gum?" ITS A FLIPPIN BABY! Trust nobody on that plane wants the baby to stop crying more than the parents.
Yup. The mothers worst nightmare came true when that man started yelling at her. I'm sure she was already in a panic to begin with. Being a mom is overwhelming. And traveling is stressful even without kids. I feel so bad for her.
I remember vividly crying on a plane as a small baby/child and the reason was because I was in so much pain from the cabin air pressure. My ears felt like they were blowing up, I couldn't get them to 'equalize' throughout the entire flight. I was miserable! and trust me I didn't want to be crying but I was in so much pain I just couldn't help it. 😢 Turns out kids have a much harder time 'popping' or adjusting to this kind of air pressure due to having smaller Eustachian tubes(in the ear) so remember to please be patient on your next flight that has a crying little one. 👶✈
Exactly. I cried the first time I took a plane as a kid too, because the ear popping was a new experience and it hurt so bad. Even as an adult, the ear popping doesn’t bother me as much but the little seats bother me, the cold air conditioner and tiny blanket on the plane bothers me, my back hurts from the seat and carrying luggage, going through airport security and the stress of getting to the airport and running around the airport stresses me out, and I’ve done it plenty of times now. I totally understand the babies crying. That’s why when I get to my destination, I just want to rest.
And why isn't it child abuse to bring kids on flights when we know this is a very common phenomenon? Pain is traumatic for kids and here we are. Sending them in flights for our leisure the majoirty of the time. Emergencies are rare compared to those just going in Vacation.
"We are in a FUCKING tin can with a baby in a goddamn echo chamber and you wanna talk to me about being FUCKING OK?!" is probably my favorite thing I've heard this year
There's a lot of psychological reasons why a baby crying constantly would set a person off. A baby's cry has evolved to be very annoying because it's there to provoke us to act and tend to whatever need they have to stop the noise. Over a long period this effect becomes mre pronounced. There's also that reactionary part of us that thinks "why isn't the parent dealing with their poor child?" But ultimately, on any flight, you have to anticipate this scenario. Just bring a pair of good headphones and you're good to go.
There's a certain pitch of a baby cry (the hoarse screeching cry) that sounds like nails on the chalkboard to me. Gives me a weird feeling in my throat and inner ear, along with a headache. I'm assuming this is true for most people. We all just suffer thru it because that's just life. Goes to show that not everyone adapts and overcomes. Dude showed his ass.
@@pixpusha No this doesnt happoen to me when babies cry and no family members or friends. We all grew up around lots of babies and there are different pitches to tell you when they are hungry, hurt or need soothing etc. Im assuming you did not grow up around babies and cant take the noise- this is why some adults hurt babies because they cant take the cries. Its white noise to me to be honest and I understand everyone is not the same but this is scary how some folks are deeply bothered by a baby's cry.
@11:33 Thank you Preach for letting the people know. Us flight attendants are not getting paid during boarding and deplaning. So our patience runs very thin when it comes to people like this. Be kind to your flight attendants. WE keep you safe.
@@ajfergy5569 I don't think that's still legal for the airline to do though unless they're on salary anyhow, since if they're required to be on location awaiting work it's at least illegal in NS Canada for them to not get paid while being required to be present and waiting. So that seems sus to me.
You should really check your local labour laws because at least in Canada it's illegal in most provinces for someone to not be paid while being expected to remain on site awaiting work. So if they expect you to be on the plain ready for takeoff a certain amount of time before the flight leaves you are legally entitled to be paid for that time waiting before the flight takes off.
As other people have said, I'm pretty sure that's illegal and you're getting played. If you are there for work, even if you are waiting, you are supposed to be paid for your time.
One day I was taking 12+ h flight and there was a baby. The parents were sooo sweet. They prepared little packages for passengers sitting close to them with earplugs and little Hershey kisses. It was adorable
At 12 I flew on a plan for the first time. First time I realized I had sinus problems as well as anxiety. But, it was severely painful on my ears, I cried the entire time. Someone gave me a Valium or something. Yeah I was knocked out, but was in pain and still cried. But, there were very understanding ppl on the plan. Some of which came over to help calm me and sat with me. Excruciating pain. So I understand that child's pain. I never complain whenever I fly about crying babies. I just know to take plenty of benadryl and a shot or two.
I was once sick with a bad flu on a flight back (i had to take it, there was no other way) and learned the hard way why there is a saying you shouldnt fly when you have a flu or bad cold. Your ears cannot balance out / control the air pressure. I didnt notice it the entire time, but when we started going into landing, the entire 10 minutes or so my eardrums were bursting and i was in extreme silent pain because i had to keep it in and i was bending over shaking my head from it. I lost hearing for 1 1/2 days, my ear drums were actually slightly ruptured. I was so trashed.
I remember being like 10 and going on a road trip where we had to go up a mountaineous area near the rockys. Bro that's straight up painful. Think it got so bad to the point i cried a bit too. It sucks cus not only is it an insane amounts of pain, but you basically cant do anything abt it for the next couple of kilometers, except cry lmfao
I saw parents giving their kid so much valarian on the plane that I turned around and told them that a little valerian is good but a little too much and it has the other effect. Cranky, iirritable, etc. I also told them I appreciated that they wanted to keep their baby calm but we can handle it if baby needs to cry. I am sorry you had that pain but I also am glad you were surrounded by good people.
That grown man has obviously has never flown with a baby before. Btw how is a baby supposed to communicate that the air pressure is bothering them...CRYING
I took my toddler on a flight when he was 1 and half years old. The unbelievable anxiety of my child even crying was borderline heart attack stress levels. Parents are just trying to do our best, we’re not there to trying to fuck up your day.
I feel for the baby, can't imagine how stressful it must be for them and to not really understand what's going on. On my first flight I felt like my head was splitting open due to the pressure change, I was nearly an adult then and I felt like crying, must be ten times worse to be a baby or child in that situation.
@@danielalbo3781 Its stressful because of other adults. More than it is about the child, becuase babies will be babies. But adults are judgey, rude, assholes. Like this guys in the vid.
@@lastatmullen1185 idk, ive been traveling grey hound recently. if yo u got kids, take grey hound, where all the other people who dont know how to travel go. but nah, flying is a luxary, they only started making planes for poor people becuause capitalism and poor people would rather pay twice as much to fly than take a bus or train. babys shouldnt travel over seas, this is how disease happens, to young to get immunized hwile they leave, come back, and bring diseases back to america. dont believe me, look up how disney world gets polio outbreaks n hsit.
Life Tip from airline pilot: everything in the sky is federal jurisdiction. You’ll be fighting the DOJ in court for whatever you do. Tread carefully. Edit: feel sorry for the wife. She was trying to calm him down. Poor lady.
Now that I’m a dad my whole mindset has changed in these situations. I guarantee there was no one on that plane more stressed out than the parent(s) of that baby. If my wife and I are flying and there’s something like that near us we always try to lend a hand and take some of the load off the parents.
I remember my baby cousin screaming for an entire 45 minute car ride home after dinner one night. He was sitting right next to me and I honestly understand this guys anger. Im not saying hes right, this dude is crazy as hell, but I TOTALLY understand his frustration lmao
A babies cry should illicit a stress response in adults and that’s why they warn new parents about it because the frustration can lead to shaken baby syndrome. I have 3 kids and I’m not defending this dude because he’s still responsible for his behaviour but I agree with you that prolonged crying can be extremely stressful.
dude I get your point and as a single mom who actually was pretty lucky with a baby that barely cried I get your point. Also as a single mom who had a happy go lucky baby if my baby was crying for 45 minutes (and that in my case would have meant something was really off) I would have been more stressed out cuz he would be escalating the situation. Now throw into the mix I am calm until I am not and it's like a lid popping off when I lose it so I probably would have put my baby down and punched the man in the face and you know then been arrested...oh but actually having a baby as a single mom I would have suddenly ignored that instinct with a much higher instinct thinking "no I can't because then I will be arrested and I won't be able to be there for my baby" which would in fact cause me more stress and my baby would have picked up on that so the whole situation is worsening. Here is the thing if I was driving in a car with my screaming baby I would ask if anyone needed to get out and I might ask if anyone would mind waiting while I get out for 10 minute breaks. It's hard. I get it.
As a baby myself, we are just prone to uncontrolled bouts of vocal expression. I can’t quite comprehend or articulate why, but one thing I do know is th - oh look jangling keys!
As a flight attendant myself this is a nightmare. So many things we want to say but legally can't lol. And yes, we do not get paid for boarding which is the most hectic stage of each flight. I hope my mans on the list fr.
How is that legal? If youre on the job, youre clocked in, how are you not getting paid? If salaried, youre getting paid, but this sounds like not salaried so how are you not getting paid? If you work by the hour what kind of working the system kinda bullish are the airlines getting away with and getting free labor? Thats straight up wrong right there.
We get paid for flight hours, according to the industry, people boarding the plane isn't flying. Reason most FAs won't quit is because of the benefits of free flights pretty much anywhere 🤷
@@parzii_ii not saying you guys are complaining or its wrong or whatnot, just saying those free flights arnt free if you have to do unpaid work. Jus sayin
My sister just moved into a building that has a committee, and some lady in the apartment directly below my sis had the nerve to complain multiple times about my sister's baby crying. Luckily, it's been a few months with no result, so I'm guessing the committee took my sister's side, but now the woman has been threatening to call the cops for "disturbing the peace." My sister is new in the building, and she's feeling a lot of pressure because of this. She's nervous about counter complaining to the committee because she's so new, and this woman seems to be the type that escalates things when she doesn't get her way. It's an ongoing issue, so I can't really put a period on the end of this, so I'll just conclude by saying, people f*cking suck.
Honestly the lady that complained had a right. Unlike on a plane where it's a public space and only a temporary thing, being in your own home and having to constantly hear someone's child through the floor is definitely something to be upset about especially when it's night time. It's not her responsibility to tolerate a child that she did not have especially when it is infringing on her personal space. That being said, your sister can't really do anything about the paper thin walls of the building so this is definitely an issue that the committee/ landlord would have to figure out.
@@hentai_lover6915then the lady complaining should buy a house. When you live in a condo, townhouse, or apartment.. there will be noise. You know that when you move in. Dogs bark, kids play, babies cry. You can't tell someone that their baby isn't allowed to cry in their own home.
@@tired_mom Eh depends. Some do have rules about noise and the like. For example, I live in a retirement community, the noise here is minimal so moving in and creating a ton of noise to annoy the elderly would be beyond stupid.
I say tell your sister to go to the Police herself and ask them if the neighbour calls the cops on her what will happen when they come? Or tell your sister to accept that they may come and in fact speak to her and her best defence is to stay as calm and open about the whole experience. I have witnessed now how when cops are called into situations if you remain calm and state plainly the situation they are more likely to be empathetic to your side. The lady is making a scene and wants to continue to make a scene so let her make her scene.
Sis should go to the police for harassment. I have two under two and live upstairs…one runs, not walks but runs and the other crawls faster than a spider lol… neighbor never said anything. But they’re also in bed by 8pm and spend most evening outside.
I'm going to assume that for the love of humanity, it's not about the baby. This guy is probably going through something much deeper, and the baby crying is what he decided to rage on in the moment
Sadly, it might not be. There are people who hate babies and children just for existing. Usually it was people who had shitty childhoods of their own and would have been smacked for doing something that is normal for a baby/child to do. So when they see/hear a baby/child something that would have gotten them smacked or beaten for and that baby/child doesn't get smacked or beaten, they get angry because they want that child to go thru what they went thru. It's insane.
Whatever the case may be, he certainly sounds like a miserable POS. And the baby crying on the plane, in his mind, gave him an excuse to be a miserable POS.
@@theredheadwiththread1275 well even that is technically not about the situation, but about the unresolved trauma that has now made this man as sensitive as a fish lol
@MzSoulll I meant that it is about the baby in that the guy has an issue with babies/children, not that the baby itself is the issue. Should have clarified.
People have no idea how anxious parents get when the baby cries, parents don’t enjoy it, and it makes them more worried because they know theyre being judged…by people like this dude…
Then dont put the child in that environment, find different alternatives like leaving the child with another family member or driving. No need to fuck of the flight of 100+ people because you dont know how to calm your child.
@@cheddarbob3283 thats not an option for everyone. If you have a problem being in public then you should also find an alternative then. Im not saying that people should have to deal with crying babies but when youre in public you have to deal with the public. Babies arent adults, you cant just tell them to stop.
@@yahussain1272 That parent knew that the public will likely deal with the possibility of that child screaming on that plane. Because that parent knew that possibility was definite,they should have had another alternative. And btw that was a toddler not a baby. With good parenting, a majority of toddlers can be calmed, obviously the parent didnt do enough to stop the child from crying or at least keeping it under calm.
@@cheddarbob3283 you clearly don’t have a child, I’m sure you’ve never had to deal with a child. So Im not going to discuss anything further. You clearly don’t know how parenting works. Parents arent going to cage their kids in homes just because YOU have an issue with kids. They have lives just like you. Again, if you have a problem with babies then invest in air pods or take your own advice and find an alternative to avoid being in the same space as a baby.
u know what he reminds me of..... a dad that's just wrong about everything but swears to god he is right all the time and is constantly combative about it.
i've always felt like ppl who vocally complained about babies crying demonstrate the demise of society. plane rides are hella uncomfortable for everyone. kids can't regulate so they trip. i flew 4 hours with a crying baby in the seat in front of me. get some headphones and call it a day.
My baby was 7 months on his first trip, and he was crying and everyone around was so supportive and nice. I obviously didn't want him to cry, and did everything in my power to keep him calm. We were visiting my father who is sick and he wanted to see his grandchild at least once in case he passed away. I was very ignorant when it came to kids before I had one. I have also noticed that most adults like this poor man here, are reacting from the trauma of being that crying baby, that was left to cry, or even spanked for a reason they did not understand and we get weirdly triggered when we hear a baby cry, because it brings back trauma of our own. We wonder why we live in a world where things like what this channel sheds light on happens, and it starts with how children are brought into this world and are cared for.
You're projecting on this man, he's just wildly entitled, he never even considered that he was in the wrong, even when everything ended with him being escorted out, he was still mad. That's not a trauma response, that's wrath.
@@rohanjarande She's not wrong. It's not always the case, but I've seen and heard many people say that a child doing something that is normal child behavior, such as crying, should be smacked for it, "because that's what my mama would have done to me".
I never set foot on a plane without some ear plugs or headphones, that goes for public transit too. Come prepared because your peace isn't more important than some babies discomfort. As much as that might seem unfair in the moment, sometimes we're just stuck sharing space with people we'd rather not.
Nothing calms a screaming child like a screaming mad man....
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@@jebiden2025 Ironic 😂
As a former baby, I approve this message.
😂😂😂 we all should approve this message. Except that guy. Because he is still a baby.
I need to know your story!!..
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@@andokewl that baby is excluded!
Damn! You too?
I was waiting for a flight recently and noticed a dad playing with his toddler. He was showing him around the gate, letting him say hi to the airline/airport staff. For about 30 minutes straight the little boy was a giggling whirlwind of curiosity. Dad was walking him around, telling him about the planes, where they were going and letting kids what kids do best. I could see das was tired but he kept up with his child the entire time...he knew what he was doing. Little guy slept through the flight. Hero dad.
Yep tire them out.
Sounds like my brother in law with his two daughters and son
Any time I go over to my sister's to watch them it's fun but damn it can be tiring being the uncle is tough but being their dad I can't imagine
Yeah you cant do that with a baby 😂
I need to remember this
This is some of that good dad energy!
The only thing worse than having a screaming baby on your flight, is having a screaming baby and a screaming man-child. He made the situation significantly worse. He was worse than the baby.
The baby was not bad AT ALL? Do people forget that an INNOCENT CHILD who did not realized yet how to EXPRESS THEMSELVES are NEVER AT FAULT?
Use your brain before commenting next time!
@@berrymint6384 you need to comprehend what OP even said lol
@@berrymint6384nobody finds a screaming child pleasant. Being in a tight space with a screaming child isa bad experience (not the baby's fault, mind) . But dude screaming about the baby DEFINITELY made it worse.
I feel bad for his wife, she looked very embarrassed.
There was guy with mania on a flight I was on and his gf or wife looked so embarrassed. It also looks like he took it out on her too.
@Just Ingrid that's usually the case...my husband losses it like this. It sucks sometimes but I'm no way in hell gonna take his shit. I fire back
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Man was just practicing how to be a Florida man for his Florida-bound flight.
She should have gotten back on the plane and gone by herself to the beach, had a bunch of drinks and celebrate being away from such a jackass.
He needs some sleeping pills and noise canceling headphones 🎧😮
He needs to fly private 😂😂
TAY!
My man needs some chocolate rain
YOOO, TAY IS ALIVE!👋🏾😭
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Bruh, the baby stopped crying and he kept going 😂
Baby was like "Damn I thought I was upset, somebody help that grown ass man" 🤣
You know how when 1 baby cries it can set off another baby to cry? And when the first baby stops the challenge is to get the other baby to stop crying too.
@@Good_Horseygrown ass baby
@@Good_Horsey 😂
There were 2 babies on the plane that day
I've been on a 20-hour flight to China with a man next to me coughing his lungs up and all I did was give him my sick bag to help out. People are so wrapped up in their own worlds that they forget how to be kind to one another
So true. Kindness is free. He didn't give the baby time to stop. His yelling made it so much worse
that would bother me more than a crying baby tbh
We don't have to be kind
@@Jerometk remember you said that next time somebody makes you mad
@@kylespevak6781 for real. 😪
Had a baby on my flight once, didn't cry at all, but for 3 hours, just stared at me. I swear he was staring into my soul. The parents got up and brought him to change him at one point, and he never broke eye contact, even leaning out to stare for little bit longer before he went into the room. I almost wish he cried, was creepy as hell.
Hahaha that's funny, you have those babies, they old souls
Maybe he was wondering why you were staring at him 🤷🏾♂️
Pretty sure he stole your soul.
Baby tells the same story about you I bet
Baby caught you staring and wanted to let you know they're not pussy
Can we all just appreciate the energy of the dude recording? He couldn't be taking this grown man child any less seriously. Dudes just geeking in the seat lmao
I can read that man's mind.
I definitely appreciate him 😂😂
I was like it's a tripod man what're you talking about...then I realized
This is a dumb post
Y we appreciating energy of someone recording this sound dumb.
As a baby, my advice to other babies is that when adults behave this way just do your best to ignore them
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The one guy bitching was the ONLY person on the plane who didn't have to listen to TWO babies.
Honestly, this is why I love the fact that trains over here have train cars specifically for families with kids. No one likes crying kids, but damn, don't yell at the parents for it, they probably want the kid to shut up more than you.
Bullshit, the kids fucking crying and the parents drown it out like idiots
You'd be surprised.
One parent was having their brat crying about wanting candy. But she decided 30thousand feet in the air was when she wanted to teach her brat the lesson that you can't always get candy.
what country do you live in? out of curiosity
When I had kids I always headed straight for the back of the plane (when it’s free seating which is usually how we go) because I hoped it would get us further away and encourage other parents to group together there. It was usually a decent solution. I’m happy to smell the bathrooms if I don’t have to deal with angry glances over my kid.
Trust we definitely do. Yelling never works.
My youngest cried her 1st 3 months. Almost drove me to drink. Nothing helped. Then she became the most angelic child I could ask for. Kids can be weird like that.
and did you think in those first 3 months "you know what? i think my baby needs to be 30k feet above ground in a tube with lots of other people...that will help it"?
because i feel like thats the thought process of some parents these days.
@@1whitedan Head phones aren't that expensive
@@1whitedan Being a functioning rational adult isn’t that hard. Ignore the child.
@@Sheriden. ain't no ignoring a crying baby! 😒
@@hoodwizdumb a lot of people can tune those sounds out or pop in headphones. The only ones that haven’t are single children that grew into adults, or people that haven’t been around children.
The only way to defeat a baby, is to become a baby yourself...
Boss fight. 😊
If you cant beat em, join em
*Dark souls boss theme starts*
Outbaby… the baby 😂
Casey Anthony would disagree.
I was on a flight where a woman (a Black woman…I mention it because we are twice as aware of who’s watching us when we travel) was mortified when her small baby started going off. I was a few rows behind, and I wasn’t even trippin. Kids don’t bother me. She was so stressed out trying to calm the baby, feed the baby…she went to the bathroom and came back with the baby. When she got back to her seat, the woman next to her asked if she could hold the baby. After a moment in the lady’s arm, baby fell asleep. The mother literally burst into tears. It was so unexpected, it tears me up now. Sometimes people know it is hard to be a HUMAN BEING, and it doesn’t take much to give each other a little grace, especially when you can see mothers are usually really stressed traveling with kids. I always try to help, because it could be me. My carefree life gives me the energy to lend a hand to a parent any day!!! Lol✊🏾
White people are three times more aware of whose watching us when we travel.
I adore children so I don't understand this man's deal lol Like yeah, it's difficult but don't say smack a baby the heck :/
I love to help parents too. I'm divorced so I only see my kids 50% now. So I dunno, I give my mother energy away while they are gone haha Stray mom alert hahaha
I believe if you have a baby you shouldn’t be allowed in movie theaters or planes. If you have a baby stay home.
Yeah, babies cry because the pressure change in planes is excruciating in their ears but they obviously can't chew gum or tell you that they're in pain so they scream bloody murder :(
@@ES-ry8fzmovies theaters yeah, planes no, you want them to leave a baby behind when they're traveling across the continent?
That guy is a total diva. Imagine getting upset over a child’s crying and you end up being the big baby yourself.
Put this dude on a list, and make him only take the grayhound from now on. 😂
He must be a nightmare to live with, I feel bad for his family members
45 mins abd the parents couldn’t shut it up
and thats life, babies are genetically made to cry, you can complain but thats not solving anything, the parents can try to stop the baby crying but thats impossible
@@LyricalIAm Your parents never got you to shut up either. Weirdo
nah nah nah he said PLEASE smack the baby 🤣🤣🤣
I remember seeing your edits back in highschool, i didn't even expect you to be here lmfao.
Also do you play TF2?
@@honkhonk8009 "scout" isn't from TF2 if that's why you're asking lol - i've only played it like 2-3 times
@@honkhonk8009 and yooo that's dope !
I did a double take when I saw your name lol (love you work❤)
I got second-hand embarrassment from this guy’s behavior towards a literal CHILD 💀
@@NascentAudios 💜💜💜
Here’s the secret. Babies inner ear can’t equalize with the change in cabin pressure as easily as an adult. Strategies to help the baby is to 1. Breast feed if they are still able and if not then have a bottle ready. The suckling motion and pressure in the mouth will help open the Eustachian tubes. 2. You can give older kids gum or some type of chewy snack like dried mangoes or gummy bears to snack on for takeoff and landing.
This should be pinned.
So does that mean babies shouldn’t fly…? And I’m really not trying to be an ass. I’m legitimately asking due to these medical reasons they shouldn’t be allowed to fly?
Oh my god thank you❤
@@SnowManJay that’s your takeaway ? It is not a medical condition. Their ears are like that because they are babies !!!
@@SnowManJay Nah it was a constructive solution.
My grandson cried his entire first three to four months my daughter did EVERYTHING to console him, she changed his diet multiple times tried car rides, putting him on the washer everything he was even checked out by his pediatrician and he would stop crying for a few hours at a time and my poor daughter was so stressed out because of this. I could only imagine how embarrassed she would be in this situation. Before people ask yes she is/was married her husband was deployed and they had a two year old and lived 8 hours away from family and we tried to help her as much as we could but the moral of this story is babies cry and sometimes there's nothing parents can do.
I had that with my 2nd the 1st 10 weeks . I went camping with him and it stopped. I don’t know if it was because we were in nature and it calmed him. I think he was just anxious from his birth.
That's cool my daughter allowed her dad and stepmom to take the kids for a week when he was about two and he went to the campground and his grandpa said he slept pretty good in the camper but he was still restless at the house. Must be a nature thing because they don't have TV at the campground and it's VERY quiet. Now he's five and he occasionally sleepwalks and rolls out of bed. But his other grandparents say he sleeps better at the campground.
@@madelainemadelaine2934 you don’t know what is going on though. Sometimes babies are sick and traveling to see a doctor somewhere else.
Sometimes you can't make a situation better but there is always a way to make it worse
truer words have never been spoken
@@ibrahimhassan711the dude talking kinda sounds like longbeachgriffy
This man was literally proud to have the same maturity level as the baby. People aren't even trying to be adults anymore like I know EXACTLY how he feels, but getting put on the no-fly list is a bigger deal than most people seem to realize.
yeah because then you get tagged on the "possible terr@rist list"
LoL dude having two weeks of food stored at your house will get you put on the watch list. No joke, look it up.
Both sides are idiots.
The man screaming, and the parents taking a baby on an airplane
@@noname-oh2sv Really? Why? I mean, besides silliness
@@noname-oh2sv source?
If this is how he acts in public, imagine how he acts at home.
i assume he doesn't have a kid constantly screaming all day so he's prolly fine at home
@@gummypusswatterson1322yah just imagine his wife dealing with him
The baby cry also because he is scared of The scandal that weirdo is doing 😔😬
@@gummypusswatterson1322 Can't say the same for the wife.
Lord help.
I was once on a 12 hour flight to Mozambique, Africa with a child in front of me screaming the entire time, it was frustrating but I felt bad for the dad who was trying everything he could to calm him down
As a parent and someone who did alot of babysitting before having my own kids…..the parent already is stressed and embarrassed that they can’t keep a “baby” from crying…then your fragile self decides to “rail” on them….sometimes babies cry just to cry because they can’t communicate. The guy was literally being the baby in adult form. Screaming and doing the same stuff he’s upset about 🤣
Man shut up
So because your children are crying we gotta suffer now? I swear they should make you folks pay extra just for ruining everyone’s peace. Nonsense
from the video He was crying longer than the baby.
@@waynewayne8419 If you want a child free flight, just drive. Or fly private, maybe first class. Sorry, but kids exist. And some adults need to grow up. Babies cry, like else do you expect?
@@angierodriguez7776 It's fine to be angry about someone's baby constantly crying. What isn't fine is to throw a hissy fit about it or start a fight with the parents
I was on a plane once where a baby was crying while the mom tried to sooth it.
At some point the guy next to her yelled: “Shut that kid up!”
She blew up right back in his face: “What you want me to do, choke him?”
Luckily that guy came back to his senses, looked baffled, looked around and saw everyone look at him with an expression that said ‘dumbass!’, sat back down and shut da f@ck up
its amazing how many people here haven't been on flights as toddlers. by the time I was 5 I had crossed the Atlantic three times with planes. My own baby got on a plane the first time she was 4 months old. I have always taken great care of the ears. Make sure she either gets milk/formula during take off and landing or is sucking on a pacifier. Because the pressure to the ears is tough. Its similar to what free divers can experience.
too many cocooned folks...
He was right tho
@@maltborg Yeah, it's amazing how many people on hear didn't get a McLaren F1 as a 16th birthday present. Not everyone has the disposable cash to take holidays. I've been on planes plenty of times, but that is not the point, there are plenty of people that haven't. (I didn't get a McLaren for my 16th birthday though :( )
@@maltborg u say toddlers but then you give 5 years old and 4 months as examples. Neither age qualifies as toddler. 5yo is a lil kid just out of toddler age, and 4months is just a newborn baby, not even half a year old.
As a mom who has had a crying 1 year old on a plane, I assure you nothing feels worse. I was doing everything I could to calm her down, I was sweating, panicked, felt like everyone hated me and my daughter. Im pretty sure I cried after she finally fell asleep. It was awhile ago but I’ll never forget the horror I felt.
Ur a good mom
Not an attack just curious cause i dont have kids, why take the trip in the first place?
But you were trying your best. Nothing but love for you.
Been there and I felt horrible.
Sometimes for funerals and other shit you have to go somewhere and you can’t just leave your kids behind
"Did the baby pay extra to scream?" That killed me
Shit was funny af. 😂
Of course being around a stranger’s crying baby is frustrating.
But you don’t think the parents are frustrated too? They want the kid to calm down more than I do!
Then do sum bout it like
The big difference there is that the parents, in all likelihood, chose to have a kid. It's true that as an adult venturing out into public you've also got to expect certain hardships (such as encountering crying babies), but there's a ceiling on the amount of sympathy I can muster for the adult who chose to have a kid.
@@TheBlackDeath3 So people shouldn’t just have babies because babies cry? 🤡
@TheBlackDeath3 so a baby shouldn't exist because of crying
@theblackdeath3 what does them choosing to have a child have to do with the baby crying? What do you want them to do - put a chloroform cloth on the baby's face so you can have a better flight? As a parent best believe we HATE it when our kids cry, and we do our very best to quickly get them settled down.
I understand listening to a baby crying can be annoying, but this is not the way to handle this. That's why I always carry headphones to listen music and tune out other outside noises
Imagine the baby is right behind you though 👀 it happened to me, and let me tell you, the headphones are not enough.
@@frenchgirl5878 Oh NO! Behind you? That baby should be punished 😤😡😡🤬
Noise cancelling phones are not enough for that if the baby is next to you unless you trying to go to sleep to Mastodon
The scream of a baby can literally drive someone insane
For 200-300 dollar NC headphones you can barely even hear them. They're babies man, they cry.
When I was in the military I could never understand how a 30 year old can hold a grudge against a 17 year old. Today the bar got lowered. How can a 30 year be mad at a toddler?
An Infant actually
More like 50
Because he’s just a baby in a man’s body
That nigga 50
50 year old with a grudge against an infant.
Someone woke up on the wrong side of the airplane seat. Dude, babies cry. They cry when they're hungry, scared, in a new environment, and so on. And what does race have to do with it? What a man child.
"why is the baby crying?!"
It's a baby, it's crying because even the smallest bad experience is quite literally the worst thing the baby has ever gone through.
So leave the baby at home with a bowl of milk, it’ll be fine.
Seeing people like this be married gives me hope
But look at who he’s married to 😟
Love this tangential take.
@@stacypeters2856 a fuckin whale
Yeah, there's a lot of possibilities out there if you want to completely eliminate your standards....
I think after that tantrum, he might not be married anymore.
Had a toddler on my last flight running around screaming. He saw I was watching cartoons (Tintin). Stopped at my seat went quiet and watched with me. I asked his mother if he could watch with me and she nodded. Sat him on the armrests and he was quiet for the last 5 hours of the flight.
Bless you 🙏. Trust me you helped make the world a lil bit better in that moment. Some people don't realize that we live in a society, it's not just you. Help where you can
That's adorable 😄
As a parent...respect
Nice work! It’s nice to hear from people that lend a helping hand. I’m sure that got the appreciation of everybody on the aircraft, to boot.
So you basically did the parents job for a kid that wasn't yours. All I gleaned from that is the parents simply didn't give a shit and let him roam around.
Thank you for this. Babies are so often treated as an inconvenience and yes there are difficulties that come with babies, but as a new mom I have come to learn... Adults are wayyy more difficult to deal with fr. Smh
"just because the baby gets to shit his pants doesn't mean you can too" - BEST LINE I EVER HEARD!
I had a crying baby next to me a few months ago on a 3 hour flight and because I know the horror the moms go through when their baby cries, I assured her that this is normal and thanked her that she is at least trying. She was so thankful
I was allow to play with someone’s baby the entire flight they even fell asleep the baby was in my arms
Did you sleep though?
Exactly how people should be, its a child. Some people are just dicks
@@opinanlosjovenesrd3477 no I didn’t sleep because I was my first time on a plane and I was fascinated by how everything looked from so high up
@@WI-FI_GOD So you have 2 accounts... Or is this someone else answering?
That man is crazy, I feel sorry for his wife/girlfriend who look visibly embarrassed by his behavior. He probably acts worse than this at home. It’s ridiculous.
I was thinking she was thinking that she has seen this behaviour before but this time she knows he will get the consequences
Imagine what kind of father that guy is if hes got kids?
@@ChimChim-di6jzyou can't even help yourself can you? 😂 you're all over this page commenting weird ass racist shit. Stfu
@@MusMasi he definitely doesn’t have kids. Anyone with kids or that love with kids know that they cry because they’re not familiar with the world yet. You could move a child an inch to the left and they’d cry. He doesn’t know that so that’s how I know he doesn’t have one yet 😅
@@ChimChim-di6jzshe do got the card now
My firstborn cried on a flight when he was six months old and I was horrified. Nothing could calm him down. It could have been only 10 minutes, but in the moment... For a parent... It feels like forever. I'm so thankful that the other passengers were patient with us. Yes, we got some mean looks, but that was it. I'm sure a full grown man screaming at us would not have improved the situation, wow 🤯
learn to control those things
People also don't realize sometimes babies just cry. Not because they are hungry or sick or tired but just because they want to cry. 🤷 We forget that all of us were babies at some point and we get wrapped up in our adult stuff. Keep doing your best like you are!
I hope you are well and take care
As a mommy with a baby that cries quite a bit, it was probably just as tough for the mom knowing her baby was crying and she couldn’t soothe him/her as quickly as she probably wanted to. That pressure is mad stressful. Especially because she probably knew people were fed up/ irritated. I feel you mama!
yes this right here....except it was tougher for the mom because she now had a crying baby and a screaming adult suggesting she assault her baby.
@@moniquevandeplas5210 Righhht!! All of that makes for a real uncomfortable situation.
Exactly. Imagine your baby is crying and that somehow makes you a white supremacist. As my mother would say, "People wicked, man!"
Very are very dramatic. No one gets this upset about a crying baby unless they can visibly see nothing being done to quiet the child. I’ve seen plenty mothers do absolutely nothing when their child started crying, not saying I’d react the exact same as this man but who knows what he went through right before this incident? Everyone was in a bad spot here and he reacted worse
Also @crystal it most certainly was not worse for the mother. That’s some crap y’all tell yourselves to dodge accountability
I remember working at Wal-Mart in the photo dept. and this customer was mad about her pictures because it was one of those old throw away cameras that possibly the roll of film wasn’t good. Manager came over and was trying to reason with her but she kept whining and my manager looked at her and said “What will the baby do if you do all the crying?” and walked away. She literally didn’t say a word after that and ended up walking away pissed 😂
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That's how you treat a woman that is emitting fake rage. You embarrass her.
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@@thegoodoldboys100 ???
@@celebrate__ Learn how to read.
That baby and that man both have the same level of self control 🤣
I'd say less because the baby stopped, the grown ass mf kept going
@@Thiago_Alves_Souza this is exactly what I was going to say!
I was just on a plane delayed for two hours and I sat next to the parents I told the lady not to worry about it just relax and breathe and focus on the baby. I think they worry more about how others will respond. I gave her some tips on how to prevent the babies ear from hurting too. Babies need assistance with soothing we shouldn’t as adults.
This why I stopped going out with my baby. One lady yelled at me to make my baby shut up and I just broke down crying and this random lady came to my defense and let her have it.
ay should i put the mic down ?
Sorry tht happened to you and I’m glad that lady was there. I wish some people would just stfu sometimes
Babies cry its what they do. And babies have a right to exist in public just like every other type of human. So sorry that happened to you.
Well control your baby
@@LyricalIAm you can't control a baby. You're disgusting.
this guy acted out in the way that everyone thinks in their head but because they grown, they just go to another place(mental yoga, meditation) and just keep silent or they prepare for situations like that with headphones or sleeping pills 🤣. this had more to do with his personal(mental) life than just that kid. the kid was the breaking point
I was thinking this too.
its amazing how many people here haven't been on flights as toddlers. by the time I was 5 I had crossed the Atlantic three times with planes. My own baby got on a plane the first time she was 4 months old. I have always taken great care of the ears. Make sure she either gets milk/formula during take off and landing or is sucking on a pacifier. Because the pressure to the ears is tough. Its similar to what free divers can experience.
Yep exactly, a crying baby on a plane is infuriating, and you think, why are you flying with a baby, but then I think, maybe they are going to a funeral, a wedding, it's an important flight, and a new born has to be with their Mum, you can't ditch them with the neighbour for a week, being with their Mum is critical, so as a n adult, you accept sometime life sucks like it does right now, and you just deal with it.
That’s basically what being an adult is. Behaving responsibly regardless of how you feel, and knowing how to self regulate your emotions.
@@bigheadrhino and being human means sometimes you’ll fail at that. Babies are annoying when they aren’t yours, especially if the point of your flight is finally going somewhere to relax
I use to get really annoyed and complained about the stuff my niece and nephews did when they were younger. I was very young at the time and I thought how hard could it be. Having kids of my own humbled my ass real quick.
Same, parenthood is not easy 😅
^^^
Babies/kids literally do not care sometimes. lmao. You try your best. All you can do.
The tragic and most concerning thing is how easily this man went to yelling at a child in a public space. If the parent was the one doing that to the child in public you know someone would call CPS and they would be investigated for child ab*se. I shudder to think what that man would do to a child behind closed doors.
The pressurization and depressurization bothers their ears. That is why is important to give them a bottle or something to suck on for their ears. Some new parents do not know that, of the baby could have colic which sucks. However this dude was complaining before even taking off. Headphones my man.
Exactly. Pressure changes can give adults excruciating pain. Babies can suffer and are only able to express the pain through crying.
@fslayer1290 then why do parents insist on torturing their babies and putting them on planes.
@Rogelio Estanislao Jr Only way for family members to see the kid is by flight. Some elderly may not be able to fly to see grandkids, so parents take kid to them
@@rogelioestanislaojr3261 what kind of a question is that?
@@rogelioestanislaojr3261 Because sometimes people need to go really long distances from point A to point B?
I always feel the anxiety of the mother who's trying to calm her baby. They apologetically look around while trying to calm down the baby.
Jokes on you, half the time the parents don't even try. They just let it scream.
Right?! I always feel for them.😢
@@nope5657 I like your name. Incidentally, that's also my reply to your comment.
@@DhritiDasgupta Have you been out in public? Parent's just let their kids wild out all over the fucking place.
I would also be scared that he would hurt her or the baby. He might slap one of them.
Me and my family were on a 10-hour flight two years ago and there was a small autistic kid sitting near to us that went into full panic mode and cried for 10 hours straight.
Do you think we went yelling like maniacs at the kid? At his parents? No, we toughened up, tried to help the parents as best we could and got through it. Even my 5-year-old who has trouble dealing with loud noises understood when we explained to him and didn’t make a single complaint. People need to learn what it means to love thy neighbor, especially if you’re a grown up.
I agree with you but 10 hours straight? I dunno if I would've kept it together through that. Well done.
Pushover
I’m sure they appreciated your patience.
10 hours is crazy...
I wish I could give you a giant hug for that last line. Also for y'all teaching your kiddo compassion! Great job!
I feel so bad for his wife. She looked so embarrassed and stressed out.
Can you imagine how stressed the baby mother was .
I don't, she's with him and made no effort to get him to shut the fuck up.
I feel so bad for the parents my kids have gone to Spain and all over the world with us and 99% of those flights they are perfect. But one time my son had an ear infection and couldn't stop crying. But everybody around me was compassionate and helped me I will always remember that.
There are still some legitimate adults in this world that can control their emotions even when we're mad or bothered. I'm sure they would rather have not had your child crying due to the ear infection... but guess what? They're a child and you're the adult. Sometimes you just gotta rough it out.
Plus with the elevation it affects children’s ears differently. I traveled with a baby and thank God my mom warned me about the pressure change, she told me as soon as the plane descends or ascends make sure the baby is sucking on something, a pacifier, a bottle, even a safe kind of candy.
@@helenoftroy6265 useful info for me. I’m flying with a baby in 3 weeks. Thank you 🙏🏼
As a parent of an autistic child, and when our child is acting crazy like that, we are 10x more stressed than everyone else because we know that it's really annoying everyone else. We feel extreme pressure and anxiety to calm our child. It's a shitty situation for everyone. Screaming like this not only doesn't fucking work but it makes things worse always.
P.S. Fruit gummies are a great substitute for gum for kids when flying for their ears.
That’s cool and all but it’s still annoying AF to listen to and it actually hurts sometimes to hear like a knife slicing through your ear. Learn to control your crotch goblin…
I'm autistic as well and remember those outbursts when i was younger. I think it's because when you're young you haven't yet properly learned how to express or recognise what is upsetting or overstimulating you, especially when you're autistic, but when you get older you know yourself better and learn how to recognise it and deal with the situation.
That must be really difficult. ❤
I like that tip at the end. Nice.
There are about 100+ other people on the plane with you having to put up with that absolute nonsense and you're making it about how stressed you are? 😂 Explains this era in a nutshell.
Stressed mom=stressed baby. The race don't matter. Plus trying to get their ears to pop can be hard as well.
I always hate these types that act like race is somehow a factor in everything.
Im not white, but I always looked at my friends as nothing more than just friends. Didnt matter if they were Asian, White, or Black.
But bro around highschool was when all that goofy ass racial politics shit went in full swing.
Didnt realize it, but i started looking at my friends differentially and started attributing my insecurities to my race instead of it just being insecurities.
Like I see so many people thinking that way nowadays, regardless of race.
This . I flew with my wife once and it took well over a week for her eats to fully pop
He threatened to beat up a child, if I was a parent, I would press charges and sue his sorry as*!
💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯
Police don’t do anything about yelling or cursing people .
Like you ever would. 😂
Press charges lmao
Imagine how scared the parents must have been. He was trying to convince other to smack their baby. I can’t imagine.
For real, food point
He'll be ight
I get it.
Especially for people without children, listening to someone else’s child scream/cry for hours is not just uncomfortable, it’s stressful.
But - asking someone to smack their baby is way out of line. Yelling at a crying baby is going to get the opposite result, and equally disruptive to other customers. He was yelling so much he didn’t even realize the baby had stopped.
So what if it's stressful?
It's not stressful I actually think it's funny
His yelling caused the baby to stop. W
@@wolfpackwarriorsDefinitely took peoples mind off the baby
@@YourKingJDG 😄😄baby wS prolly like damn og trippin
“You’re yelling.”
“So is the baby!l
“But you’re a man.”
💀
I think everyone on the plane should be able to sue belligerent passengers like that. The person wasted everyone’s time, people may have missed a connection, a meeting, a funeral, a cruise, or whatever. That jerk should have to compensate everyone.
imagine being so serious and entitled in your life that you get pressed over a baby crying like they literally cant help it 💀
It has nothing to do with being entitled. That shit is straight up annoying as fuck.
it’s crazy how many people responding in these comments just hate children and refuse to empathize
When he asked how much the baby paid to be on the plane i died ☠️
He called the baby a mofo as well 🤣🤣. He has no shame😅
I'm surprised he didn't accuse the baby of racism.
@@houseofhas9355he did lol
Wow, that's some crazy shit.
@@houseofhas9355 he actually did.
@@houseofhas9355
He did lol…now they’re accusing wh ite babies of it
That poor parent having to deal with crying child and adult. That's rough
Two crying children
@@trevord879 put some respect on that baby name. It was that baby's first time on a plane. The baby had a reason to cry.
Thats a man child not an adult
The "poor" parent trying to blame other people for her poor skills as a parent
@@therambler3713 you either have 0 baby experience, or you want to sound uh, tough on babies? Lol
This was something I worried about with my autistic child when she was little. She has improved A LOT over the years from behavioral therapy, but when she was young she screamed and cried a lot. So my biggest fear was going somewhere like a store and her screaming and someone coming up to me to tell my child to shut up. Even now my daughter has to wear noise canceling headphones when we go to the movies or the Fourth of July with the fireworks. If I don’t have her headphones with me she freaks out with the noise. I haven’t even attempted to go on a plane ride yet, because I fear she’ll cry because of her ears.
I know I'm kinda late to this comment, but you sound like a good parent. I'm autistic myself and had a lot of similar behaviors, but I'm much better now that I can control my environment and developed coping mechanisms with age and experience. Hell, I would slam my head on the floor to try to get the overstimulation to stop, and I'm a totally functional adult who completed college with a BS in Music.
It can get easier, I promise you.
Fyck ppl, don't let anyone make you feel that way
A friend of mine in high school had to wear headphones all the time. You're doing your best, keep it up, you have friends out here who know what you're going through. My friend was able to function in society because she had parents like you. Thank you and I hope you're well
"Ok sir, your yelling"
"So is the baby!!"🤣🤣🤣 .....I think this man would actually fight that baby if no one was around 😅
He’ll be like “stop crying asshole 😡” the baby will be like “just for that imma take it up a notch whatcha gonna do about it”
😂
Kinda reminded me of that cafe scene in Me Myself & Irene 😂
I bet this guy was a complete angel as a baby and he never cried or disturbed anyone, ever.
What a garbage human being.
I don't know why people are surprised that the birth rate is decreasing when people are genuinely suggesting babies and therefore their moms, shouldn't be on planes simply because they're annoying. It's become popular to dislike or even openly hate kids. I don't have kids of my own but even I can recognize toxicity.
Good, The birthrate needs to decrease rapidly.
There is already 8 billion people on this bih and these old niggas don't plan on dying so yes please stop fucking .
@@ogatak4158 You're behind on this one. We've already done that, now people around the globe are flipping out over the looming demographic collapse and trying to figure out how to get people to have more kids
On a vid with another guy reacting to this, a few people on the comments suggested taping the kid's mouth shut or even pillow smothering. It's horrible, and makes me lose faith in humanity even more.
They didn't like it when I told them that I'm scared for whenever they have kids and they decide to not stop crying cause of colic or something.
Yeah everyone should just accept an annoying child crying and kicking your sit for 12 hours straight.... Parents should be held financially accountable for the the discomfort of all the other passenger and the crew.
All you can do is pray for that man's calm and humility. Hopefully he gets some help with that. Stress = Not good.
This guy recording is the menace we need at all out of pocket events like this.. Dude is having all the fun 😂
He is the best person in all this😂
I'm telling you someone probably felt that way when he was a baby. On a plane your ears get blocked a baby can't say "mommy my ears hurt can I have some gum?" ITS A FLIPPIN BABY! Trust nobody on that plane wants the baby to stop crying more than the parents.
You sound like you can't control your temper
Yup. The mothers worst nightmare came true when that man started yelling at her. I'm sure she was already in a panic to begin with. Being a mom is overwhelming. And traveling is stressful even without kids. I feel so bad for her.
Traveling by air sucks hard enough as an adult, imagine being a baby.
I hate flying.
If it happen to adults wtf the parents didn’t think it’ll happen to a baby
I remember vividly crying on a plane as a small baby/child and the reason was because I was in so much pain from the cabin air pressure. My ears felt like they were blowing up, I couldn't get them to 'equalize' throughout the entire flight. I was miserable! and trust me I didn't want to be crying but I was in so much pain I just couldn't help it. 😢 Turns out kids have a much harder time 'popping' or adjusting to this kind of air pressure due to having smaller Eustachian tubes(in the ear) so remember to please be patient on your next flight that has a crying little one. 👶✈
sorry you went through that but thank you for sharing.
Exactly. I cried the first time I took a plane as a kid too, because the ear popping was a new experience and it hurt so bad. Even as an adult, the ear popping doesn’t bother me as much but the little seats bother me, the cold air conditioner and tiny blanket on the plane bothers me, my back hurts from the seat and carrying luggage, going through airport security and the stress of getting to the airport and running around the airport stresses me out, and I’ve done it plenty of times now. I totally understand the babies crying. That’s why when I get to my destination, I just want to rest.
when I see a baby I almost take it as a given that the baby might cry during Take off/climbing and during descent and landing especially descent.
And why isn't it child abuse to bring kids on flights when we know this is a very common phenomenon? Pain is traumatic for kids and here we are. Sending them in flights for our leisure the majoirty of the time.
Emergencies are rare compared to those just going in Vacation.
@@TallicaMan1986 So where the fuck do you leave your kid when you go out of town? They can’t come with you to grandma’s house?
As a mother of two small children i had to deep breathe through this whole video. That made me so mad!
"We are in a FUCKING tin can with a baby in a goddamn echo chamber and you wanna talk to me about being FUCKING OK?!" is probably my favorite thing I've heard this year
THAT PART 💀
Imagine ending up in a post apocalyptic bunker with this dude. I guarantee he's the one that gets everyone killed with all that damn panicking. 🤣😂😅
Imagine yelling with your grown man voice in that very same echo chamber
man thinks he's samuel jackson
There's a lot of psychological reasons why a baby crying constantly would set a person off. A baby's cry has evolved to be very annoying because it's there to provoke us to act and tend to whatever need they have to stop the noise. Over a long period this effect becomes mre pronounced. There's also that reactionary part of us that thinks "why isn't the parent dealing with their poor child?" But ultimately, on any flight, you have to anticipate this scenario. Just bring a pair of good headphones and you're good to go.
There's a certain pitch of a baby cry (the hoarse screeching cry) that sounds like nails on the chalkboard to me. Gives me a weird feeling in my throat and inner ear, along with a headache. I'm assuming this is true for most people. We all just suffer thru it because that's just life. Goes to show that not everyone adapts and overcomes. Dude showed his ass.
@@pixpusha No this doesnt happoen to me when babies cry and no family members or friends. We all grew up around lots of babies and there are different pitches to tell you when they are hungry, hurt or need soothing etc. Im assuming you did not grow up around babies and cant take the noise- this is why some adults hurt babies because they cant take the cries. Its white noise to me to be honest and I understand everyone is not the same but this is scary how some folks are deeply bothered by a baby's cry.
A baby cry is deeply bothersome
@11:33 Thank you Preach for letting the people know. Us flight attendants are not getting paid during boarding and deplaning. So our patience runs very thin when it comes to people like this. Be kind to your flight attendants. WE keep you safe.
Wtf???? That’s crazy.
@@SF-op5ix that is crazy, but lowkey makes sense that shit takes a while
@@ajfergy5569 I don't think that's still legal for the airline to do though unless they're on salary anyhow, since if they're required to be on location awaiting work it's at least illegal in NS Canada for them to not get paid while being required to be present and waiting. So that seems sus to me.
You should really check your local labour laws because at least in Canada it's illegal in most provinces for someone to not be paid while being expected to remain on site awaiting work. So if they expect you to be on the plain ready for takeoff a certain amount of time before the flight leaves you are legally entitled to be paid for that time waiting before the flight takes off.
As other people have said, I'm pretty sure that's illegal and you're getting played. If you are there for work, even if you are waiting, you are supposed to be paid for your time.
i just felt bad for the wife...had to suffer for her husband's actions smh
She knows exactly who she's with, no sympathy extended.
One day I was taking 12+ h flight and there was a baby. The parents were sooo sweet. They prepared little packages for passengers sitting close to them with earplugs and little Hershey kisses. It was adorable
Absolute legends
That is so fucking cute. 😭
They gave away hershy kisses???? Mannnn ya'll lucky
I’ve read like 10 variations of this same story. You guys don’t even change up a single word ffs
Aw❤
At 12 I flew on a plan for the first time. First time I realized I had sinus problems as well as anxiety. But, it was severely painful on my ears, I cried the entire time. Someone gave me a Valium or something. Yeah I was knocked out, but was in pain and still cried. But, there were very understanding ppl on the plan. Some of which came over to help calm me and sat with me. Excruciating pain. So I understand that child's pain. I never complain whenever I fly about crying babies. I just know to take plenty of benadryl and a shot or two.
Pills and alcohol don’t mix well or so I’ve heard
I was once sick with a bad flu on a flight back (i had to take it, there was no other way) and learned the hard way why there is a saying you shouldnt fly when you have a flu or bad cold. Your ears cannot balance out / control the air pressure. I didnt notice it the entire time, but when we started going into landing, the entire 10 minutes or so my eardrums were bursting and i was in extreme silent pain because i had to keep it in and i was bending over shaking my head from it. I lost hearing for 1 1/2 days, my ear drums were actually slightly ruptured. I was so trashed.
I was 11 and remember that pain. I pulled my earrings out
I remember being like 10 and going on a road trip where we had to go up a mountaineous area near the rockys.
Bro that's straight up painful. Think it got so bad to the point i cried a bit too.
It sucks cus not only is it an insane amounts of pain, but you basically cant do anything abt it for the next couple of kilometers, except cry lmfao
I saw parents giving their kid so much valarian on the plane that I turned around and told them that a little valerian is good but a little too much and it has the other effect. Cranky, iirritable, etc. I also told them I appreciated that they wanted to keep their baby calm but we can handle it if baby needs to cry. I am sorry you had that pain but I also am glad you were surrounded by good people.
That grown man has obviously has never flown with a baby before. Btw how is a baby supposed to communicate that the air pressure is bothering them...CRYING
Yes, and then the parents take steps to help with that, or just decide to not torture a baby by bringing it on a damn plane
That baby was probably terrified of flying and had little ways to calm it down.
I took my toddler on a flight when he was 1 and half years old. The unbelievable anxiety of my child even crying was borderline heart attack stress levels. Parents are just trying to do our best, we’re not there to trying to fuck up your day.
I feel for the baby, can't imagine how stressful it must be for them and to not really understand what's going on. On my first flight I felt like my head was splitting open due to the pressure change, I was nearly an adult then and I felt like crying, must be ten times worse to be a baby or child in that situation.
@@declaracionespolemicas why would they be stressed about the situation if they can’t understand what’s going on?
@@danielalbo3781 Its stressful because of other adults. More than it is about the child, becuase babies will be babies. But adults are judgey, rude, assholes. Like this guys in the vid.
@@angierodriguez7776 you said the baby
I just always assumed that everyone has empathy for babies. Never realized some people didn’t get that character trait.
Fuck that baby
Yeah for some reason, no one genuinely gives a shit about kids nowadays. 🤣🤣 Its all about getting the bag and being rich and happy.
@@lastatmullen1185 idk, ive been traveling grey hound recently. if yo u got kids, take grey hound, where all the other people who dont know how to travel go.
but nah, flying is a luxary, they only started making planes for poor people becuause capitalism and poor people would rather pay twice as much to fly than take a bus or train.
babys shouldnt travel over seas, this is how disease happens, to young to get immunized hwile they leave, come back, and bring diseases back to america.
dont believe me, look up how disney world gets polio outbreaks n hsit.
You def bring babies into movie threatres
Life Tip from airline pilot: everything in the sky is federal jurisdiction. You’ll be fighting the DOJ in court for whatever you do. Tread carefully.
Edit: feel sorry for the wife. She was trying to calm him down. Poor lady.
Feds do not give a fuck about you. They'll ruin your life because they're bored on a Tuesday. They're not concerned with your well being.
I seriously wish they had ejection seats. "Captain, could you eject seat 24-C? Thank you."
@@KeithDCanada seats drops down out of the plane and the floor closes again, good idea
@@KeithDCanada "Oh shit, wrong one, I meant 24-B". Rip 24-C passenger he will be remembered.
Ahh yes, Americentrism
He mad cause he's in that middle seat. That middle seat will piss you off in a full flight.
Now that I’m a dad my whole mindset has changed in these situations. I guarantee there was no one on that plane more stressed out than the parent(s) of that baby. If my wife and I are flying and there’s something like that near us we always try to lend a hand and take some of the load off the parents.
I highly doubt that
Yea my friends with kids say the same
Lol fuck that
@@tyhussein kids change you. Sounds like you need one.
@@Sonick92 no he just doubts that the parents are the most stressed ones. most times the parents dont do shit
I remember my baby cousin screaming for an entire 45 minute car ride home after dinner one night. He was sitting right next to me and I honestly understand this guys anger. Im not saying hes right, this dude is crazy as hell, but I TOTALLY understand his frustration lmao
anyone would understand, its just not seen as an appropriate response by most
Charter private transportation.
A babies cry should illicit a stress response in adults and that’s why they warn new parents about it because the frustration can lead to shaken baby syndrome. I have 3 kids and I’m not defending this dude because he’s still responsible for his behaviour but I agree with you that prolonged crying can be extremely stressful.
I understand his frustration. He still needs a couple of back hands.
dude I get your point and as a single mom who actually was pretty lucky with a baby that barely cried I get your point. Also as a single mom who had a happy go lucky baby if my baby was crying for 45 minutes (and that in my case would have meant something was really off) I would have been more stressed out cuz he would be escalating the situation. Now throw into the mix I am calm until I am not and it's like a lid popping off when I lose it so I probably would have put my baby down and punched the man in the face and you know then been arrested...oh but actually having a baby as a single mom I would have suddenly ignored that instinct with a much higher instinct thinking "no I can't because then I will be arrested and I won't be able to be there for my baby" which would in fact cause me more stress and my baby would have picked up on that so the whole situation is worsening. Here is the thing if I was driving in a car with my screaming baby I would ask if anyone needed to get out and I might ask if anyone would mind waiting while I get out for 10 minute breaks. It's hard. I get it.
As a baby myself, we are just prone to uncontrolled bouts of vocal expression. I can’t quite comprehend or articulate why, but one thing I do know is th - oh look jangling keys!
adorable
The gentleman filming made us all laugh. Let’s just be honest 😂
For real!! He was tickled!!
That white man recording the whole thing should have chosen to get angry, too. Plane rides cost money and time.
As a flight attendant myself this is a nightmare. So many things we want to say but legally can't lol. And yes, we do not get paid for boarding which is the most hectic stage of each flight. I hope my mans on the list fr.
How is that legal? If youre on the job, youre clocked in, how are you not getting paid? If salaried, youre getting paid, but this sounds like not salaried so how are you not getting paid? If you work by the hour what kind of working the system kinda bullish are the airlines getting away with and getting free labor? Thats straight up wrong right there.
We get paid for flight hours, according to the industry, people boarding the plane isn't flying. Reason most FAs won't quit is because of the benefits of free flights pretty much anywhere 🤷
@@parzii_ii well then its not really free flights then is it? Its working without pay so you can get flights paid for.
@@stoneybaloney5950 u don't see FAs complaining. Plus our pay increase every 6 months.
@@parzii_ii not saying you guys are complaining or its wrong or whatnot, just saying those free flights arnt free if you have to do unpaid work. Jus sayin
My sister just moved into a building that has a committee, and some lady in the apartment directly below my sis had the nerve to complain multiple times about my sister's baby crying. Luckily, it's been a few months with no result, so I'm guessing the committee took my sister's side, but now the woman has been threatening to call the cops for "disturbing the peace." My sister is new in the building, and she's feeling a lot of pressure because of this. She's nervous about counter complaining to the committee because she's so new, and this woman seems to be the type that escalates things when she doesn't get her way. It's an ongoing issue, so I can't really put a period on the end of this, so I'll just conclude by saying, people f*cking suck.
Honestly the lady that complained had a right. Unlike on a plane where it's a public space and only a temporary thing, being in your own home and having to constantly hear someone's child through the floor is definitely something to be upset about especially when it's night time. It's not her responsibility to tolerate a child that she did not have especially when it is infringing on her personal space. That being said, your sister can't really do anything about the paper thin walls of the building so this is definitely an issue that the committee/ landlord would have to figure out.
@@hentai_lover6915then the lady complaining should buy a house. When you live in a condo, townhouse, or apartment.. there will be noise. You know that when you move in. Dogs bark, kids play, babies cry. You can't tell someone that their baby isn't allowed to cry in their own home.
@@tired_mom
Eh depends. Some do have rules about noise and the like. For example, I live in a retirement community, the noise here is minimal so moving in and creating a ton of noise to annoy the elderly would be beyond stupid.
I say tell your sister to go to the Police herself and ask them if the neighbour calls the cops on her what will happen when they come? Or tell your sister to accept that they may come and in fact speak to her and her best defence is to stay as calm and open about the whole experience. I have witnessed now how when cops are called into situations if you remain calm and state plainly the situation they are more likely to be empathetic to your side. The lady is making a scene and wants to continue to make a scene so let her make her scene.
Sis should go to the police for harassment. I have two under two and live upstairs…one runs, not walks but runs and the other crawls faster than a spider lol… neighbor never said anything. But they’re also in bed by 8pm and spend most evening outside.
I'm going to assume that for the love of humanity, it's not about the baby. This guy is probably going through something much deeper, and the baby crying is what he decided to rage on in the moment
Sadly, it might not be. There are people who hate babies and children just for existing. Usually it was people who had shitty childhoods of their own and would have been smacked for doing something that is normal for a baby/child to do. So when they see/hear a baby/child something that would have gotten them smacked or beaten for and that baby/child doesn't get smacked or beaten, they get angry because they want that child to go thru what they went thru. It's insane.
@@theredheadwiththread1275 "I was hit as a child and I turned out fine! Thats why Im gunna hit my kids."
Whatever the case may be, he certainly sounds like a miserable POS. And the baby crying on the plane, in his mind, gave him an excuse to be a miserable POS.
@@theredheadwiththread1275 well even that is technically not about the situation, but about the unresolved trauma that has now made this man as sensitive as a fish lol
@MzSoulll I meant that it is about the baby in that the guy has an issue with babies/children, not that the baby itself is the issue. Should have clarified.
Bring 2 pairs of earplugs when you are traveling in public.
Develop impulse control, something babies do not have.
Earplugs are useless against crying babies. I can confirm this.
People have no idea how anxious parents get when the baby cries, parents don’t enjoy it, and it makes them more worried because they know theyre being judged…by people like this dude…
Poor parents.
Then dont put the child in that environment, find different alternatives like leaving the child with another family member or driving. No need to fuck of the flight of 100+ people because you dont know how to calm your child.
@@cheddarbob3283 thats not an option for everyone. If you have a problem being in public then you should also find an alternative then. Im not saying that people should have to deal with crying babies but when youre in public you have to deal with the public. Babies arent adults, you cant just tell them to stop.
@@yahussain1272 That parent knew that the public will likely deal with the possibility of that child screaming on that plane. Because that parent knew that possibility was definite,they should have had another alternative. And btw that was a toddler not a baby. With good parenting, a majority of toddlers can be calmed, obviously the parent didnt do enough to stop the child from crying or at least keeping it under calm.
@@cheddarbob3283 you clearly don’t have a child, I’m sure you’ve never had to deal with a child. So Im not going to discuss anything further. You clearly don’t know how parenting works. Parents arent going to cage their kids in homes just because YOU have an issue with kids. They have lives just like you. Again, if you have a problem with babies then invest in air pods or take your own advice and find an alternative to avoid being in the same space as a baby.
u know what he reminds me of..... a dad that's just wrong about everything but swears to god he is right all the time and is constantly combative about it.
he reminded me of that too!
I identify with the cameraman's joy.
In this case, it’s Schadenfreude 🤓
@@olgae9548 lol
i've always felt like ppl who vocally complained about babies crying demonstrate the demise of society. plane rides are hella uncomfortable for everyone. kids can't regulate so they trip. i flew 4 hours with a crying baby in the seat in front of me. get some headphones and call it a day.
How long do you think his wife is going to keep him in the dog house? 😂
😂😂😂
It's an insult to compare animals to him
@@TurtleChad1 humans are a species of animal, we are literally primates, you weirdo
She won't tho... she's feminine, fit and friendly.
He’s probably beating her right now
My baby was 7 months on his first trip, and he was crying and everyone around was so supportive and nice. I obviously didn't want him to cry, and did everything in my power to keep him calm. We were visiting my father who is sick and he wanted to see his grandchild at least once in case he passed away. I was very ignorant when it came to kids before I had one. I have also noticed that most adults like this poor man here, are reacting from the trauma of being that crying baby, that was left to cry, or even spanked for a reason they did not understand and we get weirdly triggered when we hear a baby cry, because it brings back trauma of our own. We wonder why we live in a world where things like what this channel sheds light on happens, and it starts with how children are brought into this world and are cared for.
your comment should be bumped and pinned.
You have a very empathetic perspective. I would have been internally feeling how this guy did and dying inside but because of my extreme misophonia.
You're projecting on this man, he's just wildly entitled, he never even considered that he was in the wrong, even when everything ended with him being escorted out, he was still mad.
That's not a trauma response, that's wrath.
Nah fam, he's just sick of having his eardrums blasted and decided to be a brat himself about it all.
@@rohanjarande She's not wrong. It's not always the case, but I've seen and heard many people say that a child doing something that is normal child behavior, such as crying, should be smacked for it, "because that's what my mama would have done to me".
I never set foot on a plane without some ear plugs or headphones, that goes for public transit too. Come prepared because your peace isn't more important than some babies discomfort. As much as that might seem unfair in the moment, sometimes we're just stuck sharing space with people we'd rather not.