Sort the same dilemma I'm married and recently reconnected with a past love that I missed a chance with this gave me clarity to do the right thing even though we both still have feelings for each other 😥😊
For all the females listening to this, we’ve all been here. They know what they want from the jump,no amount of love,vibe,fire, cooking or gifts will change your title from FWB to his woman. It hurts cos you are convinced he’s the one. Get yourself out of the situationship and walk away with your dignity. You are worth much more than being some stupid man’s benefits only. There’s a man out there praying for someone like you. I love this song so much but never had a song hurt at the same time cos it’s facts. Love me some @inglewoodsir ❤
Empress, if I may offer something to add... Men it is okay to want to be friends with women. Just make sure to voice that and you as the man do not cross that boundary. It's not right to mislead people. It's not right to abuse people. Treat each other like how you would treat your mother or child and I promise you, the world becomes a better place.
If we want to be wives we can't give ourselves to men who aren't our husbands. A wife has sex with her husband. A wife takes care of home. A wife raises children. Stop giving a man everything for nothing.
Fell for a guy who showed me this song. We would lay up listening to this in the dark smoking. WHOLE VIBE!! Felt like we were soulmates at moments. I had to move to another state. I listen to this to feel close to him, and reminisce. Still love him, even though we could never be....😢
Absolutely love this song. I play this every time just to get me back on track in my relationship. Your a dangerous man when you know who’s your light in your life
He broke code on this track lol the guys are mad he let the cat out of the bag. But us ladies can appreciate the transparency and realness. Thank you sir for giving us the recipe
More men should take heed and listen to this song. This is real in the beginning of a benefitship.. Mens should be open about what's going on before they have us women thinking other. If more men could sing like this then us women would understand better lol...Big props to SIR for this track. I love the vibe to this,I might play this one day just to throw a hint...
@@mr.caldwell7065 naw hunni hint was already given when he got married and hes still trying to get the pussy on the side...He's s the one that needs the hint...
Sheesh! "We hit a rhythm, no control of emotion The more time we spend playin' house with no rent The more you hate it. You're a real one, speak of devotion. "👏🏽🦋
Last year I was letting myself be taken advantage just like this song. Hoping to be with someone who never wanted anything real with me. Now I’m expecting my first baby with the love of my life in our new place. Like Sir Said “Let it go , Let it go , Let it go “
One of the realist and the most up front songs I have ever heard!! I have listened to this on repeat for at least an hour. Me and dude are over... This ain't the recipe for me. #NoMoCallsPlease
I'm glad this song is being received well by women. Its a bitter pill to swallow but its best for both parties involved to let go and move on if its not right
I dedicate this to myself. Been crushing hard over my friend/neighbor who isn't shit. Had to learn that isn't in the recipe for us to be in a relationship.
I've given this a couple of plays before and never paid too much attention to the lyrics... This hits so hard when you get what he's saying and he's so talented to make a whole complex situation or idea sound so simple... Like he synthesized everything on that chorus how something so complex and deep can sound so chill and simple? Thats when art comes to life...
I was trying to get my guy to commit to me bcz we been rocking so long and he just refused to really address me directly concerning it. Here it is that I found this song. The words he can't say to me expressed so soulfully. I'm like Damn but I truly understand now.
Song on repeat today just so I can’t really embed in my brain this how he really see me. The comments helping me too.. as women we need to stop giving our bodies to men who don’t value us..
This is the realest song cause man is saying imo that shorty is fire everything is good but it’s not the same as Cali. To me Cali is a representation of his goals and where he wants to be in his life. Sometimes shorty is fire but ur goals and where u wanna be gotta come first
Just luv how he be making them about letting them go and being laid off, as if you never really get what you desire. As if, the desire is the purpose as long as your chasing it
“She so happy when she next to me.....thought she had me, baby really thought she had me! Now she feenin’ for the rest of me, but that isn’t in the recipe!” 🤦🏽♀️ well F u too den nicca 😂😂😂
Man that feeling of "I know Ima hurt her but what am I gon do anyway", is deadass one of the worst things. It's that not like ion give a fuck about you, because i do, but i already know how you gon feel when this is over. im doin it for me despite how you might feel.
LYRICS: I gotta fall back, I don't mean to mislead her But if she believe every word that I said I take it all back, she playin' follow the leader But that doesn't mean that I ain't gotta leave her, oh no She say she could give me what I need I should make her more than company I swear she got that fire (fire) But does it compare to Cali? No She's so happy when she's next to me Thought she had me, baby really thought she had me Now she's fiendin' for the rest of me (rest of me) But that isn't in the recipe Let it go, let it go, girl This ain't what you want and you know We could never be I don't care how it feels This could never be real and you know That isn't in the recipe Let it go, let it go, girl This ain't what you want and you know We could never be I don't care how it feels This could never be real and you know (yeah) We hit a rhythm, no control of emotion The more time we spend playin' house with no rhythm More you hate it, you're a real one, speak of devotion Told 'em to leave and came lookin' for me I wonder, di-did I stutter when I told her ass None of this was ever meant to last? When I'm in it, it's that fire But does it compare to Cali? No She's so happy when she's next to me Thought she had me, baby really thought she had me Now she's fiendin' for the rest of me But that isn't in the recipe Let it go, let it go, girl This ain't what you want and you know We could never be I don't care how it feels This could never be real and you know That ain't the recipe, oh Let it go, let it go, girl This ain't what you want and you know We could never be I don't care how it feels This could never be real and you know Oh, let it go, let it go Let it go, let it go Let it go, let it go Let it go, let it go, let it
Damn, never knew being emotionally unavailable was so smooth.
😂🤕 exactly
Realest comment ☝🏾
😂😂😂😂 I’m to high for this one
It's disgusting I love it.
Lmao word. And being ignored never sounded so good until: H.E.R. - “Focus”
If you're here listening to this, your soul is worth more than any material shit money can buy! Peace + Blessings! #groovy
Peace and blessing to you as well my man 🙏💙
I put that on god ... ( touch down )
Same to you. Love and light always!
This I know, but thanks for the gentle reminder.
Cookie LaSoon 💯
How does something so sad sound so sexy and so heartfelt? SIR is amazing ...
Needed this one. Was stuck on the idea of “what if” about someone who wouldnt even think to choose me.
PREACH!!!!!!!my dumb ass finally gets it
My Dumbass rite now 🤦🏽♀️. I definitely need to let it go 🙄😢.
It's the absolute worse feeling
M. Thomas I know. Going through that now is hard but this song reminds me to stop trippin 😭
Sort the same dilemma I'm married and recently reconnected with a past love that I missed a chance with this gave me clarity to do the right thing even though we both still have feelings for each other 😥😊
For all the females listening to this, we’ve all been here. They know what they want from the jump,no amount of love,vibe,fire, cooking or gifts will change your title from FWB to his woman. It hurts cos you are convinced he’s the one. Get yourself out of the situationship and walk away with your dignity. You are worth much more than being some stupid man’s benefits only. There’s a man out there praying for someone like you. I love this song so much but never had a song hurt at the same time cos it’s facts. Love me some @inglewoodsir ❤
You’re right about a woman being worth more than a man benefit but the problem is most women think they are worth more than what their actually worth
Empress, if I may offer something to add...
Men it is okay to want to be friends with women. Just make sure to voice that and you as the man do not cross that boundary. It's not right to mislead people. It's not right to abuse people. Treat each other like how you would treat your mother or child and I promise you, the world becomes a better place.
💯💯💯
If we want to be wives we can't give ourselves to men who aren't our husbands. A wife has sex with her husband. A wife takes care of home. A wife raises children. Stop giving a man everything for nothing.
As a man i felt this. I dont play with people long i keep it real with the queens
Fell for a guy who showed me this song. We would lay up listening to this in the dark smoking. WHOLE VIBE!! Felt like we were soulmates at moments. I had to move to another state. I listen to this to feel close to him, and reminisce. Still love him, even though we could never be....😢
😣😣😣
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It be like that. Hope y’all rekindle.
😢💔
Another state shouldn’t stop anything if it was love.
can we just take a moment to pay homage to the producer of this fire ass beat though?? Thank you Kal Banx!!! Straight banger!
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Amen 🙌
Did he produce the version on GKMC as well?
Yeah this song makes me wanna pick beautiful flowers and set them on fire
Great description 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 #ifeltTHAT
😭😭😭😭😭 this just made my night!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Aaron Williams 😭😭😭😭
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Absolutely love this song. I play this every time just to get me back on track in my relationship. Your a dangerous man when you know who’s your light in your life
Wow, even getting dumped by SiR sounds amazing!
Chantelle Bee rite 🤣
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Chantelle Bee This comment made me genuinely cackle
I couldn't even be upset lol
😢😢😢😂😂😂😂frfr!!!
“But if she believed every word that I said , I take it all back “ maaaaaaaaaaaan 😩
I love that Tenor Saxophone in the background.
He broke code on this track lol the guys are mad he let the cat out of the bag. But us ladies can appreciate the transparency and realness. Thank you sir for giving us the recipe
SiR ATEEEE THE MELODY THOOO !! 1:42
Came across this on the album.. The whole album is a 🔥🔥 piece of work but this song stood out to me..
Same this song AND “Fire”
Facts come across this by accident. I never even heard of him. Now I’m obsessed. Whole album slap.
Late Night Cruising Vibes
Absolutely!
That part!
More men should take heed and listen to this song. This is real in the beginning of a benefitship.. Mens should be open about what's going on before they have us women thinking other. If more men could sing like this then us women would understand better lol...Big props to SIR for this track. I love the vibe to this,I might play this one day just to throw a hint...
Or maybe you should get the hint.....
@@mr.caldwell7065 naw hunni hint was already given when he got married and hes still trying to get the pussy on the side...He's s the one that needs the hint...
@@msjai3656 are you talking about sir?
@@maosenju5444 she's speaking about herself.
Or maybe y'all should listen to a man when he says it bluntly. Why do we have to sing it?
Sheesh! "We hit a rhythm, no control of emotion
The more time we spend playin' house with no rent
The more you hate it. You're a real one, speak of devotion. "👏🏽🦋
😂😂
Loving the poetry in this Track. Instruments on this track are on perfect touch. THANK YOU SiR.
SiR knows how to come correct, his albums are all fire.
More than likely because he speaks from experience
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I just needed a replay button lol
Word. I used ur timestamp for the culture
If you right click on the video you can choose to loop it.
Current vibe. Good looks my guy 💪🏿
my fav reply
Glad this popped up in my recommended, proper chill out album
Love a bit of that jazz 🎺
I never been addicted to more than one song by one artist at the same time. I really appreciate the lyrics this is some real talk.
Last year I was letting myself be taken advantage just like this song. Hoping to be with someone who never wanted anything real with me.
Now I’m expecting my first baby with the love of my life in our new place.
Like Sir Said “Let it go , Let it go , Let it go “
Congratulations girl !!
Happy for you girl! ❤️❤️
God bless 🥹
no one allows themselves to be taken advantage of. he was not in control. what ever happened to a women’s intuition. yall wild
@ramseeshasthe3pillarsoflight
Absolute non-sense. Why are you acting like insecure absuse victims don't exist.
Ooof 🎉. Classico. We hit a rhythm, no control of emotion ooo weeee. This song is speaking.
SiR has slowly become one of artists I have been listening to recently.
This is the most underrated album ever.
His voice is everlasting
Makes my body vibe to such high vibrations🫠🔥😫😮💨
One of the realist and the most up front songs I have ever heard!! I have listened to this on repeat for at least an hour. Me and dude are over... This ain't the recipe for me. #NoMoCallsPlease
🔥🔥🔥🔥...ON REPEAT 💯💕
🔥🔥🔥💪🏿💪🏿💯💯i felt this
I feel it from the perspective of “baby”. For some reason this is soothing my heartbreak.
slow dancing by myself to this in the mirror.. This Smooth af🔥
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love doing that✨🧘🏽♀️
💯Facts
OMG what a discovery. This artisti is trully amazing
I'm glad this song is being received well by women. Its a bitter pill to swallow but its best for both parties involved to let go and move on if its not right
Well said
We as self centered creatures it isn't hard to relate.. meaning when I listen to it I image my pass relationship n their expiration dates
Wants too be femine , but science said nope!
We're not stupid we know that!!🙄
@@AnastasiaBeaverhousn huh? Me or original comment. Confused lol
This is so playa. Never want more than an individual is willing to offer.
My heart was left on read, and this right here helped me understand so much that was unsaid.
Omg!!! Glad I discovered this ARTIST!!!
Love this song and his whole album!
The horns and saxophone is 🔥 in this song!!! ❤️
@01:43 I love how it sounds like he's stuttering when he asks, "Did I stutter when I told her ass none of this was ever meant to last?"
Hits different when you know you've broke the hearts of a few very good women.
Still here 🤞🏾🗣 #2024
Sometimes this is all you need to hear from a Man. If I'm not the one then give me that choice #ThanksSir 🤗🤗
Preach.
This sound is so eclectic that it transpires into the heavens so beautifully.
"Did I stutter?".......How many times have I said this?!?!? You know how long I've been waiting for a song like this
I love ruthless r&b!!!
This is hands down my favorite song on the album! The vocals, the beat, the sax in the background! ugh!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I dedicate this to myself. Been crushing hard over my friend/neighbor who isn't shit. Had to learn that isn't in the recipe for us to be in a relationship.
This is legit grown folks music here! 👌👌👌
Google Account yasssssssss 🔥🔥
The producer deserves all the good in this here life
I've given this a couple of plays before and never paid too much attention to the lyrics... This hits so hard when you get what he's saying and he's so talented to make a whole complex situation or idea sound so simple... Like he synthesized everything on that chorus how something so complex and deep can sound so chill and simple? Thats when art comes to life...
You don’t ever bring me good news babe felt that line in my heart I can relate
This Masayoshi Takanaka sample is used so well. Thank you for the inspiration!
How could you dislike this???!!!🤔🤔🤔 the whole album is straight 🔥🔥🔥 especially this track!
I was trying to get my guy to commit to me bcz we been rocking so long and he just refused to really address me directly concerning it. Here it is that I found this song. The words he can't say to me expressed so soulfully. I'm like Damn but I truly understand now.
"I wonder, di- did I stutter when I told her ass
None of this was ever meant to last?"
clutching my chwessstt lool beautiful, savage song
Tricia C.Moyo MY THOUGHT EXACTY 😭😭♥️♥️
Facts
Facts
Song has had me in a chokehold since it came out. That line was so cold! 😂
T.D.E. keeps doing it again n again!!!
K C AND AGAIN......aaaaaaAND AGAIN😩😩😩😩❤️🔥❤️🔥🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🔥🔥❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
This song 🤦🏾♀️ so good
Song on repeat today just so I can’t really embed in my brain this how he really see me. The comments helping me too.. as women we need to stop giving our bodies to men who don’t value us..
Swear SiR got that fire 🔥
One of my favorite songs of all time this is truly a masterpiece by SIR
Listening on repeat until my heart gets the point…. I hate being soft of a 🥷🏾😩
It's like.. I'm the only person in my entourage appreciating this type of music. It's a lonely place.
I’m sad I’ve never heard this before but happy I’m listening now
Dang this song really helped me let go. Good to hear that I'm the one that's trippin from a song.
Chelsea Malone Didn’t it?!?!!?I mean like soon a he got to the chorus I just felt like I opened up....WHEW!!!!!
Didnt know the recipe for a sesh is Sir, amazing artwork, god bless you, Sir.
Obsessed with this song ❤️
I love this song for so many reasons! It's so real, honest, and blunt!
I thought you said this song needs a blunt, so I got one.
@@kgaogelothokoane1498 😆
This is the realest song cause man is saying imo that shorty is fire everything is good but it’s not the same as Cali. To me Cali is a representation of his goals and where he wants to be in his life. Sometimes shorty is fire but ur goals and where u wanna be gotta come first
Nah he meant wild fires fam
Simply amazing✨It’s relatable while being vulnerable. Real R&B 💕
This joint speaking to my soul right now!
This song stings on a personal level but it is beautifully and painfully addictive.
Love this ❤
Crazy it's been 4 years since this song & album came out. Time moves too quick. I still play this album.
First time in a long time i can let the whole album play
Exactly
Feeling like crying rn, first time I get to do the same. Just got of a long two year relationship and working on myself ✌🏾
Just luv how he be making them about letting them go and being laid off, as if you never really get what you desire. As if, the desire is the purpose as long as your chasing it
“She so happy when she next to me.....thought she had me, baby really thought she had me! Now she feenin’ for the rest of me, but that isn’t in the recipe!” 🤦🏽♀️ well F u too den nicca 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
By the way you're gorgeous sis
Google Account thanks love ❤️! 💋
Man that feeling of "I know Ima hurt her but what am I gon do anyway", is deadass one of the worst things. It's that not like ion give a fuck about you, because i do, but i already know how you gon feel when this is over. im doin it for me despite how you might feel.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Not in his recipe…Exactly my Jul-Sep 2024 situationship… hurts more than I expected… this song on my PAIN playlist
I thank God I always keep my guard up..( I'm sensitive).. its lonely but maybe he'll let me Let It Down one day for someone real..
Love the song but the message..the message is sad.
Its never cool to play games with a heart ❤
Im so addicted to this Chasing Summer album💖💖💖💖😭😭😭😭
Me Tooo❤️❤️💯
I just heard his album and downloaded it quick AF, the game been missing something like this, entire album smooth and has nice ass production
This my favorite song been playing this song nonstop back to back for months
What kinda crack you putting in your music..I’m highly addicted
Mannn this my favorite song by sir he rejected her so beautifully 😩🙌🔥🔥🔥🔥
this is what we call art, so beautiful 🤌🏼
Smoke a joint and listen to this song puts me in a good mood... 🙏🏽💯
LYRICS:
I gotta fall back, I don't mean to mislead her
But if she believe every word that I said
I take it all back, she playin' follow the leader
But that doesn't mean that I ain't gotta leave her, oh no
She say she could give me what I need
I should make her more than company
I swear she got that fire (fire)
But does it compare to Cali? No
She's so happy when she's next to me
Thought she had me, baby really thought she had me
Now she's fiendin' for the rest of me (rest of me)
But that isn't in the recipe
Let it go, let it go, girl
This ain't what you want and you know
We could never be
I don't care how it feels
This could never be real and you know
That isn't in the recipe
Let it go, let it go, girl
This ain't what you want and you know
We could never be
I don't care how it feels
This could never be real and you know (yeah)
We hit a rhythm, no control of emotion
The more time we spend playin' house with no rhythm
More you hate it, you're a real one, speak of devotion
Told 'em to leave and came lookin' for me
I wonder, di-did I stutter when I told her ass
None of this was ever meant to last?
When I'm in it, it's that fire
But does it compare to Cali? No
She's so happy when she's next to me
Thought she had me, baby really thought she had me
Now she's fiendin' for the rest of me
But that isn't in the recipe
Let it go, let it go, girl
This ain't what you want and you know
We could never be
I don't care how it feels
This could never be real and you know
That ain't the recipe, oh
Let it go, let it go, girl
This ain't what you want and you know
We could never be
I don't care how it feels
This could never be real and you know
Oh, let it go, let it go
Let it go, let it go
Let it go, let it go
Let it go, let it go, let it
“Now he’s fiendin for the rest of me, but that isn’t in the recipe” 🫣🫢😭
dang sir the sound got me sentimental some we dont get oftenly in the industry reall appriciate it respect the craft
anticipating new album one of my all time faves 2024 thought she had me baby really thought she had me...!! barrrzz
Such a great record 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
ohhyeahhbaby1 ua-cam.com/video/91okTQAh04Y/v-deo.html
Words mixed with music hold so much power this one works both ways! Forbidden lust now that sounds like this recipe! Beautifully orchestrated
Best R&B album out this year
Every Song!! I mean Every Damn Song!! I hear from SIR be 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥!!! #SIR💖💖💖
I can't stop listening. Thinking about or singing this song 😍🥰🤗🖤
His voice gives me LIFE 🤗💫💜⭐
Damn!!...every song he does relates to my REAL life situations....SIR...you kill every song...always waiting for the next 🙌🏾💯🙌🏾💯🙌🏾
divinee 💝 hate that my lower self resonates so deeply
Sir stays on the playlist 🖤🔥
Sometimes u just gotta let it go!
Still listening to this in 2021 🥰
Banger 🔥
this song a whole vibe!!! passed the check and dunked hard!! love this!! keep going SiR!!!