These are really good insights. Dating requires more self work than I think people realize, but the benefits transform the dating experience. It doesn't limit the number of incompatible you come across, but it gives you the tools to llimit the amount of time, effort, and emotion you put into those people.
My family think I’m scaring men off! 😂😂. The reality is I have spent years learning a ton about relationships instead of dating after my divorce and healing and helping my children heal! That takes time! Just started dating and it’s a joke! Many broken people! Many liars! Sad mess
Even if she talks super fast …the advice is right!!! Tons of bs online about dating as I have seen so much of it! People are different and dealing with so much now a days for sure.
My family think I’m scaring men off! 😂😂. The reality is I have spent years learning a ton about relationships instead of dating after my divorce and healing and helping my children heal! That takes time! Just started dating and it’s a joke! Many broken people! Many liars! Sad mess I over text but don’t care if they ever text back and don’t care if they read it. Rejection is good!
Yes it’s all my fault. 😂😂. I agree with her that it is two people! We must take accountability for who we marry and the situation we got into and heal it. Healing takes soooo long!!! Working out has helped me and yoga as we don’t feel after abuse. Agreed! Self abandonment is important!
If you bring that energy into the world then you’ll probably see that result. There’s plenty of great people out there that are single. These great people pick up on the energy someone gives off and they’ll definitely pass on someone being negative.
Even if she talks super fast …the advice is right!!! Tons of bs online about dating as I have seen so much of it! People are different and dealing with so much now a days for sure. Desperation if you DON’T confront and be real!!!! Too many are like that and I’m researching NARCs and other bs. 🥂❤️.
I think many of us are hyper-animated when we discuss things we are passionate about. And remember, on a podcast, talk show, whatever - there is a time limit - so she's trying to stuff a lot of information into a small time-frame. As an example, part of my job in healthcare is educating people. Half my day is spent mostly in my office, but the other half is spent in client education which obviously includes being verbal. But I also have to impart a lot of necessary information in a short amount of time, so I also find myself talking quite fast! But catch me the other part of my workday, or at home, or with loved ones and I'm more quiet. I'm not the life of the party or the gregarious one. But when I'm talking about something I know, and feel strongly about - ooooh! I'm on a roll! 😂 I see what you mean about her but I can also tell she is sincere and really believes what she is saying - so there is a lot of value here in her wisdom.
She should have been respectfully told to calm down and speak slower so she doesn’t come across so manic ….her messages are valid and she is , I feel at least, completely stable….but…..lol….but her passion , I’m sure , will be misinterpreted…..
But that's true. I see men doing it everyday. He wouldn;t marry his gf of 8 years, then drops er for another one, and marries her in a year or few months. Men are focused on goals and action, if a man doesn't do something, it's not beneficial for him.
Trauma does that per a therapist. C-PTSD can really mess people up. Then again it looks like she is on a substance like cocaine or too much caffeine or something like that as I can be wound up like that with too much caffeine!!!
@@blueyellow3621typically they marry another trauma victim and I have never seen trauma do this unless they were under substance. I am high strung but wow!
I agreed when she commented about how there's too much horrible/toxic dating advice on social media pushed out by profiteers desperate for clicks.
Great interview. When dating, I think about personality, values, interests, direction, and timing. It all has to be there.
Proximity and timing is important in a relationship. No time and proximity = no relationship at all
Right, I was dating someone who lived an hour away, it was kind of a mess.
Timing & Proximity or it’s not going to happen 😅 and the title is misleading - a list of 9 red flags were not given
😂😂
This is really sound advice! It works for all relationships, not just romantic.
Thanks for your good works, advice and enlightment. Blessings
I went on a dating App and deleted it that day. There are so many people making no effort in their appearance or self.
These are really good insights. Dating requires more self work than I think people realize, but the benefits transform the dating experience. It doesn't limit the number of incompatible you come across, but it gives you the tools to llimit the amount of time, effort, and emotion you put into those people.
Thank you, very nice video! Appreciate that ❤
Can anyone put the summary of the nine points?
My family think I’m scaring men off! 😂😂. The reality is I have spent years learning a ton about relationships instead of dating after my divorce and healing and helping my children heal! That takes time! Just started dating and it’s a joke! Many broken people! Many liars! Sad mess
This is a fantastic lady and she gives wonderful advice, period. So glad I came across her! Thanks Sabrina. Thanks Doug.
Even if she talks super fast …the advice is right!!! Tons of bs online about dating as I have seen so much of it!
People are different and dealing with so much now a days for sure.
My family think I’m scaring men off! 😂😂. The reality is I have spent years learning a ton about relationships instead of dating after my divorce and healing and helping my children heal! That takes time! Just started dating and it’s a joke! Many broken people! Many liars! Sad mess
I over text but don’t care if they ever text back and don’t care if they read it. Rejection is good!
Great guest!! Love your podcast.
Yes it’s all my fault. 😂😂. I agree with her that it is two people! We must take accountability for who we marry and the situation we got into and heal it. Healing takes soooo long!!!
Working out has helped me and yoga as we don’t feel after abuse. Agreed! Self abandonment is important!
Loved this, I wish I had a note and pen to write down what resonated with me. Maybe I'll give it another listen to do just that!
Dating is dead.
I think you’re right 🤔
If you bring that energy into the world then you’ll probably see that result. There’s plenty of great people out there that are single. These great people pick up on the energy someone gives off and they’ll definitely pass on someone being negative.
@@JB-kx9bxI find realists more attractive though. And I agree dating is dead
Lol
Indeed.
Even if she talks super fast …the advice is right!!! Tons of bs online about dating as I have seen so much of it!
People are different and dealing with so much now a days for sure.
Desperation if you DON’T confront and be real!!!! Too many are like that and I’m researching NARCs and other bs. 🥂❤️.
She’s been in a relationship for a whole 9mo and now she’s an expert ? 🤔
Woah gaslighter.
I was the same about expecting a text.
I love her!!! She's so great!!!
This vid def helped...
Online dating apps are so brutal! ❤😢
It’s a red flag when you can’t get nine red flags shown in less than nine minutes
Attention span?
Sooooo good! Yess yes yes 😂☺️
This woman is exhausting! 😩
Yeah, her message is largely on point but a mere 45 minutes listening to her is excruciating.
I think many of us are hyper-animated when we discuss things we are passionate about. And remember, on a podcast, talk show, whatever - there is a time limit - so she's trying to stuff a lot of information into a small time-frame. As an example, part of my job in healthcare is educating people. Half my day is spent mostly in my office, but the other half is spent in client education which obviously includes being verbal. But I also have to impart a lot of necessary information in a short amount of time, so I also find myself talking quite fast! But catch me the other part of my workday, or at home, or with loved ones and I'm more quiet. I'm not the life of the party or the gregarious one. But when I'm talking about something I know, and feel strongly about - ooooh! I'm on a roll! 😂 I see what you mean about her but I can also tell she is sincere and really believes what she is saying - so there is a lot of value here in her wisdom.
She should have been respectfully told to calm down and speak slower so she doesn’t come across so manic ….her messages are valid and she is , I feel at least, completely stable….but…..lol….but her passion , I’m sure , will be misinterpreted…..
@@npkrn6764your comment was kind of the written equivalent of the speaker 😅
That's a red flag for some! 😅
But that's true. I see men doing it everyday. He wouldn;t marry his gf of 8 years, then drops er for another one, and marries her in a year or few months. Men are focused on goals and action, if a man doesn't do something, it's not beneficial for him.
Very helpful thank you very much ❤
Can someone please add tags to this video?
Are you and your now partner going to marry?
I like the convo so far, but she talks soooo fast it’s hard to absorb it all…
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You can’t date today!
Lot of masculine energy
Can you imagine dating her??? Arghhhh!
Trauma does that per a therapist. C-PTSD can really mess people up. Then again it looks like she is on a substance like cocaine or too much caffeine or something like that as I can be wound up like that with too much caffeine!!!
@@blueyellow3621typically they marry another trauma victim and I have never seen trauma do this unless they were under substance. I am high strung but wow!