Losing our daughter. | Infant loss + life update two year later

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  • Опубліковано 30 жов 2024

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  • @mollyprysunka7741
    @mollyprysunka7741 5 місяців тому +50

    That little girl felt more love in two hours than many do their whole lives

  • @marlene0212
    @marlene0212 11 місяців тому +96

    I lost my first child, Benjamin, last year. He would be 21 months on Sunday. I’m pregnant now with his little brother. Thank you for being brave enough to share your story ❤

  • @mariesantiesteban3067
    @mariesantiesteban3067 Рік тому +47

    I had mixed emotions after I lost my daughter. I felt so much guilt and I didn’t talk about it so after I gave birth I got depressed with guilt till I received help with grieving. It was hard. Now my kids are 18 and 15 and I tell them always about their sister.

  • @JustTwisten
    @JustTwisten Місяць тому +4

    Took my breath away to see you with your daughter in your arms. Such a heartbreak for you😢🥹🥰. Happy for you that you were blessed and second time ❤

  • @KimAmberHererra
    @KimAmberHererra 11 місяців тому +13

    Thankful that this showed up in my feed. Lost my baby girl March this year and I am still navigating through that loss. I hope that knowing your journey would help me out.

  • @katiagraves-sh9bi
    @katiagraves-sh9bi Рік тому +15

    Congratulations I lost a daughter in 2019 on September 21st and the daughter I just had was due on September 21st 2023 and born on August 31st but the fact that she was due on her sister's death date was it true sign that she was connected and it's been a really hard thing going through grief and I really respect you being able to talk about it and it helps other people talk about it and feel it and you're right grief and joy can coexist it's just a process of loving yourself and your child to see the hope and you guys sharing that is beautiful. Congrats on your puppy and your 2nd daughter 🌈 ❤

  • @CraftyMamaBean
    @CraftyMamaBean 11 місяців тому +5

    Congratulations on your rainbow baby 🌈 pregnancy after loss is the most challenging thing to experience. I lost my first baby Elsie in 2020. I had our Rainbow in 2022. The journey is hard to describe, so many words , but none of them fit. Wishing you all the love ❤️

  • @mariav0422
    @mariav0422 Рік тому +7

    I’m really sorry for what you guys went thru. I honestly don’t even want to imagine what that would be like.
    Just remember God gives the hardest battles to the strongest soldiers!
    So happy that God blessed you guys with another baby girl 💖

  • @AkashicKeeper
    @AkashicKeeper 11 місяців тому +6

    Amen… Blessings to you both. It’s been four years since Phoenix passed away after her surgery. I cry most times I speak of it and since her passing nothing in life has felt planned without her. Stability always seems faulty when it’s not and life decisions feel like we’re always missing something after decisions. I think it’s something we will never be ok with But God is forcing us to get comfortable with. Happy Thanksgiving. Wish you all well on this new beautiful journey. She’s on the way back but this time stronger.

  • @amberwood3604
    @amberwood3604 2 місяці тому +1

    Your love for each other is so obvious and beautiful. Its precisely for that reason, that you guys will go on to experience the good outweighing the bad. ❤ you, sweet little Eliya

    • @1ihws
      @1ihws Місяць тому +1

      Well, let’s hope so. People said similar things about my ex-husband and I thirty five years ago too; that we were a “strong” couple, and we’d “survive” this “hiccup” of grief for our dead child, and we’d be “fine”. Well, we did, “survive our grief” - for a while; and then, we didn’t. Platitudes might make you feel better, but they change nothing for these parents.

  • @gingermay6271
    @gingermay6271 2 місяці тому +3

    I'm so sorry, she is beautiful and with God

  • @j-tastic
    @j-tastic Рік тому +4

    Congratulations on your rainbow 🌈 baby. Continued prayers for healing, love and light. Praying for a smooth rest of your pregnancy with a happy, safe, fast l&d.

  • @nicolebryant2419
    @nicolebryant2419 11 місяців тому +5

    Congratulations on your rainbow baby ❤🌈 I’m excited to watch your family grow❤

  • @Chopperdoll
    @Chopperdoll Рік тому +9

    New sub here! Excited to watch your future come together. Life is beautiful. ❤ congratulations on your pregnancy 🤰

  • @lillyeve7709
    @lillyeve7709 Рік тому +3

    I'm so sorry for your loss,my heart broje watching the short video,I don't know what to say or how to say it i really don't think my words or any for that matter can find the right words for this kind of loss but i am glad to know you and your husband are expecting again and still together after your loss. I just found you guys but i am a subscriber now. I find you both inspirational and could make a huge impact on many lives

  • @whimsicalendeavors
    @whimsicalendeavors 5 місяців тому +4

    I lost my first child in the middle if my pregnancy. It was the hardest thing I've ever gone through. My heart is with you all the women in my family have suffered losses of babies. Most were still born or passed a hour or two after birth. R h negative is a big thing in my family. Sending prayers for your rainbow baby girl

    • @nikr9240
      @nikr9240 2 місяці тому +2

      Im so sorry. Thank goodness the rhogam shot was invented as i needed since im B- and my daughter might also as shes O-

  • @cyrenacorrell6401
    @cyrenacorrell6401 11 місяців тому +3

    So many emotions! Rainbow baby! 🥰 You guys got this!

  • @coqui8667
    @coqui8667 Рік тому +2

    Congratulations on your pregnancy, everything will turn out well, a big kiss ❤❤❤

  • @lanaewilson2143
    @lanaewilson2143 Рік тому +4

    Our prayers are with you around the anniversary of Eliya's passing! So excited for you both as you walk in parenthood with your second baby! May you both experience so much hope and rejoicing and fullness as you prepare for your new little one! There is no fear in love! May delivery of your second baby be a place surrounded with peace and overflowing love and joy

  • @sarahlewis1397
    @sarahlewis1397 11 місяців тому +3

    Congrats to you both on the new bundle of joy

  • @kaleahcollins4567
    @kaleahcollins4567 Рік тому +3

    Congrats on your 🌈 👶 and your 👼 is gonna always be there to take care of her little sister from up above. 🙏🏾 🤲🏾 🕍 and blessings for you all

  • @darrenreid412
    @darrenreid412 8 місяців тому +1

    So sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby girl❤❤❤ my little girl was born at 37 weeks born sleeping ❤❤❤

  • @sherrelljay394
    @sherrelljay394 10 місяців тому +1

    May God continue to walk with you ❤

  • @calliewaddell
    @calliewaddell 11 місяців тому

    I'm so sorry I can't say I personally know how it feels but I lost someone so important to me I'm so so sorry for your loss

  • @Music2MySoul1125
    @Music2MySoul1125 13 днів тому

    I am so sorry for your loss 😢 I hope God gives you both strength 🙏🏻 Do you mind sharing what happened? Was it a medical negligence?

  • @sarahodonohoe3707
    @sarahodonohoe3707 Місяць тому +1

    I’m so so sorry for your loss I honestly have no words. I have 4 beautiful children a girl who is 6 a girl who is 4 and 2 twin boys without twins being in the family either side and have had one miscarriage at 11 weeks and CANNOT imagine how t god was. Yous are amazing. From Ireland ! Please respond so yous know I am thinking of you

  • @Zoyas_Little_Space
    @Zoyas_Little_Space 11 місяців тому +2

    Where can we watch video about what has happen to you daughter?

  • @marquishamagee9061
    @marquishamagee9061 Місяць тому

    You can cry when you want to if anyone doesn’t like it then they don’t have to watch because this is real life and it’s your story and trauma so you should have documented your lost without feeling like other people are not judging because people need to hear your story it may be able to help someone else you never know how you can help others

  • @adventuresofSho
    @adventuresofSho 4 місяці тому +1

    Being new to your channel is there a straightforward video about how she passed

  • @Real_Life_Is_More_Important
    @Real_Life_Is_More_Important 4 місяці тому

    I'm so sorry.

  • @jo-annefarber1221
    @jo-annefarber1221 11 місяців тому

    Congratulations ❤❤❤

  • @dianamontes1616
    @dianamontes1616 11 місяців тому +2

    Animo y son muy valientes ❤

  • @luannemaclean72
    @luannemaclean72 19 днів тому +2

    Have you shared what caused her death? My Casey's was his heart- a anomaly i didnt know could happen. My son, Shane, says i share too much. I say it helps me.

  • @got2surf90
    @got2surf90 10 місяців тому +1

    Did you ever get any answers?

  • @jessedewders
    @jessedewders 11 місяців тому +4

    Can you go over what exactly happened to her?

  • @Biancakris-j2g
    @Biancakris-j2g Місяць тому +2

    I wish you would share the cause of your baby’s death to help soon to be moms (cause it’s scary to know that everything seems to be okay and then suddenly on supposed to be the best day can turn tragic). Was it genetic problems?
    I’m only on your page hoping i can get some insight on that, not interested on your life per say. I’m sorry for being insensitive.

  • @MONNALUNAH
    @MONNALUNAH 11 місяців тому

    ❤️🐾❤️

  • @schazza6380
    @schazza6380 4 місяці тому

    I know this is the worst feeling 😢

  • @yajairatroche-martinez8594
    @yajairatroche-martinez8594 4 місяці тому +1

    🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @dpupo03
    @dpupo03 Рік тому

    How far along are you?

  • @samantaramnarine5796
    @samantaramnarine5796 Рік тому +2

    So sorry for your loss! I am currently 38 weeks and so scared something may happen. Any advice? What happened to your beautiful baby? Anything you can share to prepare other mommies?

    • @samantaramnarine5796
      @samantaramnarine5796 Рік тому

      @glitterqveen3342 💖💖💖

    • @cherihensley3746
      @cherihensley3746 3 місяці тому +1

      Hello. God is in charge here. There is no fear in Perfect Love, because Perfect Love casts out fear. Know that Everything will be ok. Give all your worries up to God.

  • @MONNALUNAH
    @MONNALUNAH 11 місяців тому

    💔

  • @MONNALUNAH
    @MONNALUNAH 11 місяців тому

    ❤️‍🩹

  • @sarahgodin6212
    @sarahgodin6212 11 місяців тому +1

    ♥︎♥︎♡♡♥︎♥︎

  • @sarahgodin6212
    @sarahgodin6212 11 місяців тому

    😇💙💛🫰

  • @sarahgodin6212
    @sarahgodin6212 11 місяців тому

    :)) ;)

  • @gabsterup
    @gabsterup 4 місяці тому +1

    I think quitting social media would’ve been better for you guys.

  • @marie7411
    @marie7411 2 місяці тому

    Great video,...a lot accomplished !!!....Life after pain...Life with pain and hope...👍🙏🫶