GIT OUT YOUR GRAMMA'S HOUSE! "MAYBE I'M PHRASING THIS LIKE IT'S AN OPTION..."
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- Опубліковано 11 вер 2024
- Grandma has to go to court to get her grandson removed from her house so he can get his life jump started...of course Judge Simpson accompanies the order with some words of wisdom... Yet another example of what our courts deal with every day…
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She wants him to be self sufficient before she passes away and its too late.. She says she's not gonna be around forever. What a great woman. God bless her.
It’s never too late he’s 20 years old he’s got plenty of time to figure it out
As a parent I 100% understand her need to see her grandson become a man before she dies! He should have never rested in front of the tv, that was his mistake. Most parents & grandparents cannot grasp the fact that a grown person (that you are 100% supporting) would have the time to sit & do nothing when they should be furthering their education or saving up to buy their own car & house! What a gift it is to be that young & have your bills paid while being chauffeured everywhere u need to go. Watching that gift be completely wasted is shocking to someone that likely never had time to sit in front of the tv w friends online (virtually or otherwise) to play video games half the day. It’s inconceivable, which is precisely why she felt the need to take legal action. Don’t waste opportunities to get a firm footing in life, especially when the person supporting your every need is also someone who loves & cares for your well being. Trust me, few people in life will ever love u as much as your parents & grandparents. Don’t squander that with the “she doesn’t understand me” take or you’ll be tellin your lawn mowing story to the sidewalk. Praying for all involved. He actually sounds like a good kid, but at 20, he should be sounding like a good man.
I agree 💯 %
@@victorybase5847 perfectly worded & I agree 💯
I feel the same about my daughter. Self sufficiency is important. Parents or caregivers will not be around for ever.
That poor woman! He's going to try every guilt thing and blame game that he can until his last moment in her house. He'll be in court again for some reason or another.
This might be the best thing that happens to this young man. Get out and get a dose of real life and what it takes to get by. Nothing motivates more than necessity.
The best grandmother of all time!!! This woman is truly an insperation to everyone. Get a job. So you wake up and go to work. Lol. Love it. So you need a driver. Lol. What a punk
You could use your hair as a huge marker for anything. Dip your head in ink and draw some lines on the road. Maybe sell that Brillo for family’s to clean dishes. He is just a lazy ass man. After this he will be down to the grocery store and rob them. Fact
Grandma speaking facts!!!!!!!! Get a job!!!!! Lmfao. This is seriously a movie. Sad that they think they can live with mom or grandma for free. Video games. Lol. Love this awesome woman. A true champion
Her own grandson disrespects her so obviously he is definitely trash. What a useless piece of dirt this person is he’s not even a man not even a man that’s the sad part. Can’t do anything with his hair. Where is his pants passes ass come on people this is America and it’s 2023 grow up.
He said he was literally talking to his sister and so what we’re not supposed to believe him is that why he use the word literally or does he even know what that word means he needs to go into the military and learn real consequences for your actions that’s what needs to happen Send him to the Marines and maybe he will learn something but I mean he can’t even speak proper English. It’s truly disgusting. Obviously he dropped out of school in fifth grade. It breaks my heart it truly does, but this is some thing that happens every single day and I live in Atlanta and I’ve worked with a lot of people from Atlanta that are anywhere from 19 to 25 years old and these people cannot even figure out what $.20 from a dollar is it makes no sense.
He really does think he can talk his way out of getting kicked out of that house. 😂
The great thing is the judge probably could have ended this case in 5 or 10 minutes. He's 20, he's never paid rent, she doesn't want him there. I don't think there's any legal argument the guy could possibly make.
The reason it goes on this long is the judge wants to convince both of them that the grandma is making the right decision.
Uh huh. Telling the judge “ That’s a great question…. IDK why I didn’t finish school. “
Bottom line, he's lazy, period. He still doesn't get it, and doesn't care
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Needed his ass whopped when he was little
I remember when I was 14 grandma asked me my brother and cousin to cut the grass. We procrastinated. So grandma came outside. Started the lawnmower with one pull and wouldn't let us cut her grass. Embarrassed us. Grandma never had to ask again.
My 16 year old son is a great kid, smart and respectful but one of my proudest moments is when I realized he was outside mowing the grass when no one had asked him to do it.
Her saying he uses a lot of tissue paper so she told him to buy his own is the funniest thing I’ve heard all day. 😂
He probably what we call a wrapper, wrapping Tp around your hand 3 times and wipe once, yea those people need to buy there own. Just wasteful
@@cheshirecat3458lol what? That’s a thing
@@cheshirecat3458 Young man sitting around at home all the time on the internet… that’s not what I’m thinkin…. Grandma knows what’s going on!
Kids have no concept of how many paper towels or tp they go through bc they don't buy it. Suddenly, when you are the one spending the money for it, you start to ration them! Everything COSTS MONEY!!!
Good on Judge Simpson & gma who wants him to learn & better himself!!
He’s dating Rosie and Rosetta the Palmer sisters
I`m betting that at 80+ she never expected to be looking after a child!
That poor grandma! Raised him since six years old and this is her reward. He doesn't appear to be a bad person, just plain ass lazy.
Well thankfully she didn’t do it for the reward I guess.
Yup. Probably had a troubling upbringing too considering he was raised by his grandmothers. It’s hard to develop self-motivation if you don’t have a strong support system.
"ass lazy"?
His rectal hygiene is sib-standard?
@@MichaelKingsfordGray "Plain ass lazy". It's a phrase. Like "Flat ass lie" or "simple ass fact", etc.
@@jellysofa This grandma's home had 2 parents; sounded like grandpa died a few yrs ago? Kid said grandpa was driving him to work & when he died he had logistical trouble w/jobs. And I don't think the grandparents alternating time was necessarily all bad; his mom is deceased so I can see the maternal grandmother wanting to help raising him.@ some point maternal grandma got sick (paternal grandma mentioned his uncle taking care of her). I will say it sounds like he did have at least a decent support system; His sister is a 22 yo cop 👍His grandma loves him. she knows her time will come so she just wants him to be able to take care of himself once she's no longer here. I wish them all well & hope he eventually sees that this was done out of love💛
This grandma is legit. She said she doesn't know where her son is and doesn't mention a husband, so it seems like she's trying to break the cycle of failure in her family. It's sad to see because he doesn't seem like he cares now, but later in life I bet he'll regret a lot of what is happening. Age brings wisdom and sadly his grandma probably won't be around to see that.
It seems that his grandfather passed
Grandma is showing tough love. He’s taking advantage of her. I think that when he gets older in life, he will appreciate the fact that she made him grow up and be self sufficient in life. You go Grandma!!
@Kathy Akers
He's so lazy and disrespectful. Won't finish school, can't keep a job, won't pay his way and won't lift a finger to help. His plan is to hangout until grandma dies.
Piece of entitled shit.
Kick him out and give her a restraining order.
He will never appreciate her never he's an entitled child.
No, he will not appreciate it, he will become another passport bro leave the country and attack black women all over UA-cam. 🤓
Unfortunately she'll be gone by then 😢 but toughlove works!
hes gonna be in jail for selling drugs in two years.
It’s every body else’s fault but him! This kid needs to learn, some just need to learn the hard way!
And then he’s telling her that he’s going to take his life to make her feel guilty so he can stay
If you're freeloading off your relative, and she wants the lawn mowed a certain way... then that's what you do.
Her not understanding why you lost your jobs properly, doesn't have any bearing on the string of jobs you've had. At some point, this impartial observer begins to see a pattern, and I'm leaning towards grandma having the better picture of what is going on.
This kid sounds exactly like my grandson !!
Yeah, when he started talking about the jobs.......like bro, everywhere is understaffed these days, they weren't letting you go because you were punctual and did what you were told.
They should at least be expected to help maintain the place if they can't pay money. It could be a modern, small scale version of the corvee system!
@@kimisu9870
No.
I mean there is something to that. I'm lucky to have grown up in a stable two parent middle class home with plenty of extended family around. Obviously he doesn't have that, and it shows. He is who he is because he was parented by a single woman who would readily admit that she was too old for the job when it was forced upon her. She did what she could, and it wasn't enough. I loved my grandmother, but there's no way she would have been able to raise me from age 6 either.
And there's a fairly well known thing where video games become this artificial replacement way to find meaning and purpose and work on something and make progress and accomplish things when people for whatever reason find it too difficult to do those things in real life.
But Grandma is out of options. He won't be able to grown and mature in the way that he needs to if he stays in her house. There's no future for him there. It's a dead end.
The only alternative would be "You can stay as long as you meet certain conditions", which
1. That has almost certainly already happened. That's why they're in court in the first place. She could have done this when he turned 18, but she's given him a chance to turn things around. He hasn't.
2. You can't have a situation where she takes him to court, he gets scared and meets the conditions for a while, then he quits his job and she has to start the process over again. This court process isn't made to be started and then stopped and then restarted again over and over, and even if it was Grandma probably doesn't have the energy for it.
@licktastymeh. Not always the case. Sometimes it can be that they don’t like you through 0 fault of your own, and they want to give the hours to their friends. Sometimes, it can just be a payroll thing and everyone is getting cut.
A 23 year old thinking he's grown, bullying his grandma who's taken care of him since he was 6? And her "unreasonable request" is that he finish school? Hell no, that's beyond disrespectful. This woman has given everything for you, and you ought to show them respect. I lived with my aunt and uncle after losing my parents at ~9 y/o or so and while I didn't get along with them all the time, family is family and they still earn my respect. Lord knows if I didn't finish school they would have my head, that's the easiest way to derail your life and increase your odds of going to jail tenfold.
Its good to hear you understood the sacrifice they gave to help you. I sure hope you grew up and made them proud. You dont have to give birth to someone to feel that they are your children.
Man, if that young man won't respect his grandmother, I'll take her, because she seems delightful..
I'll just bet she makes a mean batch of chocolate chip cookies!
How many of us would do anything for their grandma? I'll take that lovely woman and love her for ever.😢
"more than 10 miles out" looooooooooooool. I don't think I've ever had a single job that was less than 10 miles out.
His grandmother didn't even ask him for much. She is trying to be tough because she loves him. I really hope he realizes this and appreciates her before it's too late.
Absolutely agree. She is one sharp lady.
Agreed! That grass would be perfect every time 😊😂
Imagine being so lucky to have someone in this world who wants absolutely NOTHING from you except your own effort and future success and well being.
That's how you really show you care.
Gramma is a solid woman. Many youth today would be far better off if more parents were like her. Not to mention society as a whole.
A lot of people have a hard time getting on their feet, but he's had jobs and didn't even keep them. He definitely needs to learn a lesson.
There's a reason why in Latin America, the grandmother is considered the matriarch of the family, the boss.
Grandma here is stuck in the 60's. Talking about how guys can be put out on the street but women can't because they're vulnerable, her whining about video games, her not understanding basic concepts of debt. She's a Boomer. She acts like a Boomer. She's right to get rid of him when he isn't doing anything to improve or progress his life, but her world view is dying out because it's outdated. It's 2023.
@@CrackingCody At her age, I think we can give her space. She is a boomer, and that's OK. Yes, her views are dying out and that's progress.
True but if I raised him, he would be working full time to pay for college as my boy knew from the time he could walk and talk that he was going to college. He got bonds for college for b'days and Christmas from me and my side of the family ..I also got him clothes ... he got gifts from Everybody as he is the only boy to carry his Father's 3 initials and last name and the only boy on my side of the family so he got a lot of toys too.
He kept saying "my grandfather", who's dead, to dig at grandma. He's abusing her. 100%
Noticed that too it was sick and sad to see him say and do that
One only needs one word to describe this young man: ENTITLED
One word and two letters LAZY AH!!!!
And he wants his trophy!
Bum...🤣😂😆
Back in my time, he would be best described as "draft bait".
"Fatherless"
Years ago I knew a guy like this. His grandmother died so he went to live with his sister. Since he didn't have a job the sister would ask him to do little things around the house and he would refuse. She asked him to leave and he refused. Her boyfriend had to come and put him out.
Good for grandma!!! I'm rooting for her!!!
Yep…….now if Daquan actually moves out without a problem!
I'd really like to see the sheriff putting his stuff in trash bags next to the curb. Judge Simpson ain't takin no sass from this guy!!!
the gall and the gumption it takes to stay in your gramma's house for free, and turn around, and tell her to her face she did a poor job raising your dad 💀
I'm praying grandmas safety. I hope Judge Simpson personally follows up with this case
I feel the same.
Grandaughter's a cop...
@@capnpaco true! I bet she’ll help keep nana safe 💝
@@capnpaco not a full time body guard
I pray that he doesn't harm her
Every person on this Zoom call were mesmerized by this grandma/grandson exchange. Most wished they had someone like her to get them to do right.
Thank you for your insight.
This is the WRONG Judge to start an argument with “She’s a smart woman, but…”
I heard that too
Judge Simpson takes no crapola off of the young man living with his grandma! I respect this judge so much! I understand Grandma’s dilemma…..my daughter in law brought an 18 month old baby boy to the marriage to my son. That baby became my heart. I had him about 5 days out of the week, and even in high school he was kicked out of his parents home at 16. I went and picked him up and kept him for two years before he got out on his own. It became harder as he got older and didn’t want to attend school. As much as I love him there is no way at my age of 78 can I bring him in now. He wanted to come back and save money!! I still help him out but there comes a time we grandma’s need peace as we get older! We love them but they need to fly on their own!
I have a feeling this boy is NOT going to be leaving. I feel awful for this grandma, and as maybe paranoid as I am, I worry for her right now. This is a mess...
Boohoo
I was concerned for her safety also because a lot of them lash out angrily. It's time he left no matter what
He’ll be out.
I totally agree with your concern for the Grandmother, and I pray his name is not in her will. Unfortunately, there are too many stories like we heard in this case, and oftentimes they don’t turn out well.
@@matthunt7390why do people like you insist on being rude for No reason. You didn’t even have to comment
Grandma shouldn’t have to ask him to cut the grass,and things round the house.He should do them without being asked.
Grandma deserves a better family.
I wish I could help and live with my Grandmother 🙏🏼 God bless her soul 🙏🏼😇👑💐 🕊️🫶🏼
Ungratefulness and entitlement will take you down every time. Having the ability to humble yourself and be of service to others; especially your loved ones, should make you happy, not be a burden. I’m glad this kid got the wake up call he so desperately needed
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Thank you I need to remember that
This man is a national treasure. The compassion just oozes from him backed up by his wisdom and experience. What a role model.
So is the Judge.
@@MichaelKingsfordGray ahh ya beat me to it 😅
@@MichaelKingsfordGrayI think that's who he meant. The judge. He should have referred to his as the judge instead of "This man."
@@mizzmolly7649 Well, when he said "This man..." I knew he couldn't be referring to young Cedric.
Very well stated. 😉
As overheard in a bar "adulting is hard"! Damn right it is and this "youngster" is about to find out just how hard. Grandma gave him chances to finish school and to find work. Her work is done and grandson needs to finish growing up.
Man, look… There are so many women who don’t take a stand against sorry men in the family! They stay home too long and then look for another woman to move in with so she can take care of him.
You see she had to take him to court to get him out? Men don't listen to women, even the ones that raise them, and esp. once they realize they disagree/ can't use them. They're also quick to scapegoat the woman who actually cared for them for the father that didn't want them.
@@Heyu7her3 you are right about that
I swear listening to Grandma is just like listening to my aunts in Chattanooga. They will download you on everything they possibly can in one breath. He should be an asset to this woman, not a leech. He talks about his deceased grandfather. He's going to regret the day he loses her.
I have a friend whose son went to job corps out of desperation. They taught him gardening and landscaping and now he owns a successful pot farm in northern California. :D
That is tough love that Grama is giving to her grandson. We need more grandparents with a backbone like her. 👍
You can tell Judge Simpson just loves this grandma
If a grandma kicks you out you have really have messed up.
"She has to love you,I don't" An outstanding statement from his Honor before dropping the 🔨 on this kid.
I love that he had the nerve to tell grandma he's a grown man. Well, grown people pay rent or mortgage, so congrats.
That young man needs boot camp with Judge Simpson!!!
If he would go to jobcore, they'll take care of that attitude. Atleast they will here in Washington state.
Thank you, Judge. He does not respect his grandmother. She deserves to live her final years in peace and not living it taking care of some lazy bastard.
Preach Grandmother. Women taking care of men doing nothing. That seems to be the new world. Smh.
thats quite a different topic than this...buy a cat and die alone, baby
It’s pathetic it really is
I’d be mortified if my son ended up like this entitled loser. So many others just like him out there and it’s pathetic.
I see more parents taking care of adult children
That grandma is a jewel. She cares and is trying to do right.
The emotional blackmail of threatening to delete himself is disgusting and shows just how badly he needs to be put out.
I knew this one was going to be a grow up lesson…unfortunately this type of thinking plagues most of our young adults today
This young man is so typical of the entitled attitude a lot of young people have
I bet it's the same type of people expecting $20 an hour because they feel that is what they're worth, meanwhile none of them are willing to work for it.
Facts 😢
Oh my goodness... You walked 20 miles both ways to school right? 🙄
Poor grandma. She deserves better.
Grandmother is a very wise woman!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
As soon as I see Judge Simpson, I know it’s going to be good. He is a great human being!!❤
This young man is about to learn the hard way that he may be a grown ass man, but there are bigger fish than him in the world who will gobble him up. He had it easy living with his Grandmother, and all he had to do was hold down a job, support her and do the damn lawn the way she wanted - to give her the respect she deserved. This whole "charge your family to help out" business turns my gut.
Charge to do for your family is disgusting…you like to eat, sleep and all that and you think that stuff just happens? Wake up!! He thinks he’s too good to do anything that he considers demeaning…work isn’t not demeaning…no job is too small…just do your best..did I mention I’m older (67) this is a common young person problem..not all but a lot
If he can learn car mechanics he can write his own check….a very in demand job
"ass man"?
Is he an advocate of anal sex?
It's a heart-wrenching situation when a grandmother has to go to court to try and get her grandson out of her home. It's even more difficult when she's doing it because he refuses to help her and become self-sufficient. It's a painful realization that the grandson may not understand the love and sacrifices his grandmother has made for him. It's a reminder that family dynamics can be complex and difficult to navigate. ☮
He cares so much. He’s an excellent judge
He really is a pretty good judge
The judge is a surrogate father/uncle.
He's firm but fair. Some of these cases really effect and stick with him. Judge Simpson is amazing.
Its all on this young man!! He NEEDS TO GROW THE F UP! His decisions he made in the past has caught to him equally and fast! I was in his position three years ago. Literally! My mamason (grandmother) was trying to help me to, however i had this young man same mentality. Fast-forward 3 years now i live on my own, stable job and still continuing to chase my goals. THANK YOU MAMASON LOVE YOU!
Glad you turned it around
Awesome that you got it 😁.
Our brains all learn thru the evidences of our experiences ( intellectually knowing things isn't enough ).
So consequences are how our brain/body/mind learns what is appropriate behaviour for survival.
Being an adult means learning that adults have LESS "freedom" to do & say whatever you feel like.
( Through the consequences of not having housing, a job, etc )
The responsibilities of what you have to do to survive,
get in the way of being like that child with the "freedom" of having others be responsible for you,
& so not having to worry about the hard survival issues all on your own.
I really do also think that , as intellectually capable humans, we've forgotten that knowing how to behave, or maturing attitudes, come from physical experiences & consequences of life,
(the cascade of chemical interactions that teach one useful behaviour over another )
not from just being told.
( Like a bird physically teaches all the behaviours needed to survive to its offspring.
It stops feeding it as much, but shows & guides it to the exact actions it needs to get the food for itself, to survive.
So the babychick doesn't have to "reinvent the wheel", it has been guided through the physical actions that create the neuronal pathways of how to be an adult bird)
We have become so "just telling them from a child should do it" without taking biology of behaviour & growing up into account.
Maybe if we did both.
Teach & physically explicitly guide into a working system.
( Not just tell kids to "get a job" but guide them into the process, from the start to finish.
But do it earlier than when they are meant to already be adult.
Earlier so they learn & relearn all the steps, to build those neuronal pathways before they are needed, rather than wait till they need it, then lob it at them.
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Finally 29 minutes in he finally admits to being a doper. I suspected so from the beginning.
Hahahahaha right??
It’s sad that this elderly lady had to go to this extent to get through to him however this young man has time to change his life. This is probably the best thing to happen in this situation because he sees she means what she says now. Too many people try to live off others. I have a 25 year old nephew who thinks the world owes him something so I felt her pain fr. I pray this young man gets his life together and makes his grandmother proud before she leaves this world. God bless her heart ❤
A group of my friends growing up was raised by their grandmother. They all turned out great. She was one of a kind. RIP
Respect to his grandmother for even taking him in , and it’s time this young man respects all she’s done for him and get a job and stick at it.
I was live for this... This was PURE PLATINUM... OG Grandma for life!
Me too! He started off wrong on the zoom..when Judge told them to be there at 12…I couldn’t wait to see the outcome. He’s a coward too..he talked way more tough on the zoom than he did in the court room..I feel sorry for him because he doesn’t get it and avoided answering every real life question
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I'm so afraid my son is going to turn out like this. Seeing this let's me know I have to get him out of high school and immediately into the military!
I pray not. I am sure you are doing your best. I know if I have kids I’m doing like my great grandmother did when 2 of her kids tried to keep coming back. She moved out her house without telling a soul in a day and moved into a small apartment. Didn’t give out her address.
Ridiculous
Military men still don't listen to women
But they work.
I literally took my son by his hand and walked him to the recruiters office. THAT was 11years ago. The same son just bought his second property. I wasn't having it. I worked too darn hard growing him UP. He recently thanked me😅😅😅 I don't understand young men these days.
One thing nobody can dispute is that Simpson is a great communicator. In this case, he's giving the kid a talking to like a father would.
_"You can sit there and disrespect your grandma. You're in my house now. Do not disrespect me."_
_"She's got to love you. I don't."_
yep he was letting him know his bs isn't gonna fly he's not playing with kid's gloves like grandma might be doing
1000 yesses to this comment!! 👍There's something about that dad/male energy, particularly regarding young men! The kid said he used to work and go to high school @ the same time. His grandfather would drive him to work. I suspect that AFTER grandpa passed & it was just the 80 yo grandma by herself, more of this entitled attitude started. I hope he turns things around.
I absolutely love Judge Simpson. JUDGE SIMPSON AND BOYD ARE DEFINITELY MY FAVOURITES.❤
A person can get a GED (General Education Diploma) through all kinds of places, including the Internet and the Job Corps.
Sheeeit the military will pay for you to get it done if you sign up for three years
Not a first time I now see Hon J. Simpson on UA-cam. The man is a saint - world needs more like him.
I understand starting your life as an adult out on your own can be scary. But it's during that struggle to survive, to take care of yourself, to be independent that you grow and mature. Grandma is forced to use tough-love which is exactly what the young man needs. She is awesome and he seems like a good kid but it's time to leave the nest and start making better choices for himself.
Amen.
Get OUT !!
Jeez, this poor lady.Having to bring her Grandson to Court
To get him out.
NOT….COOL !!!😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬🤯
Grandma is right. He needs to grow up.
I know a family just like this one, the women work and the men work very very sporadically. The eldest woman finally realized that it was from not making them take responsibility for themselves, now she is fighting just like this. She has had enough now that she got crotchety(her words😆).
Tell Crotchety Grandma she rocks!
The amount of love she has for this kid. ❤
a lot of kids and young adults out there that think like this kid. he doesn't know it or feel it, but his grandma is doing him a favor by kicking him out of the house.
He's a healthy young man. Perfectly able to help her around the house, get and keep a job. His grandma is getting older. It's time for him to start thinking about taking care of her after her years of caring for him. That should come naturally if he loved his grandma. If she asks you to leave, then you go. It's her house. All the rest is fluff. You go.
What a lucky young man. Sadly, he is the only one who doesn't know that. Grandma will do anything she can for him, if only he will do some for himself.
Grandma is great and she's absolutely doing her best for him, but if he was lucky he would have grown up with both of his parents like I did.
Absolutely agree. This kid is looking for everything handed to him on a silver platter.
Thank you, Squishy!! What this young man doesn’t understand is how hard his grand mom must have struggled to take her grandson to court!! This is for his own good and she’s doing it out of love and her own sanity
When your own grandma has to take you to court to get you out of her house, IT IS as bad as it seems!
These entitled kids today. I see it in my own child. So frustrating. The judge is absolutely right. That young man should be ashamed for putting his grandmother through this stress.
Then treat your own child differently while you can. If your kid is entitled it's your doing...
@@jasonpatterson8091 except our powerticians and "schools" don't let parents raise their kids right anymore!
I was an older mom when I had my son so he was raised with traditional values ... he's now a Father, has an MBA and a good job. He also provides for his ex wife's other son as his father isn't college educated and doesn't have a good job but he pays $700/mo for his new truck! My son drives a car that's 12 yrs old and also supports his gf and her 3 kids as their father's are dead beat dads. He also helps me financially as I'm old and disabled. I live on SS and a small pension
@@jasonpatterson8091 Bingo!
@@jasonpatterson8091 Yeah exactly. Grandma at least has an excuse. She didn't ask the world to put her in charge of a 6 year old when she was 66. She clearly tried, but you can't blame her for failing.
I thumbs'ed up for the wise grandma who recognises most of us gamers actually have a day job and play after we're done with said job and responsibilities...like bills to pay.
My Baby Son is a gamer....he's in the Army though
He works and....Army-ing😅
Grandma don't mind telling on him. 😂😂
Oh, he started it. Jumped at every opportunity to blame her so he could shift the responsibility... But it's unfortunate that the men in the family are quick to blame her. I'd disown them just as quick!
Boy needs to join the army. They will teach him skills. They will provide transport to the workplace. They will tell him what to . . . he might not like it, but it will make him a "growed-up" man.
This is tough love. All kinds of excuses from him. Grandma get him out.
"Ok, so when are you leaving?"😂😂😂
Young man you finally broke your Nana’s last nerve. Actually sat that nerve on fire and danced around it thinking she has to take care of you. Crazy just crazy
Not set 🔥 to it😂😂😂😂
Omg he is just a punk
If you are not working you better be making your grandmother happy ANYWAY possible.
This is called tough love!!!!!
I admire this grandma. Many people are never able to actually go to a Court to have a family member removed from their home. That isn't an easy thing to do. That takes a lot of 'guts'. Good for her.
This makes me so sad...I'm in practically in the same situation with my step-son. He had 4 jobs last year. Hasn't worked since October. Keeps telling me that he isn't getting any job offers even though he is applying to many jobs.
If he is of an age to be out on his own….don’t you think he should be…it will teach him how to take care of himself especially if something were to happen to you….heaven forbid that it should…..wish you a long and happy life. One of the best things my daughters said to me after they left home was….”thanks mom for helping us grow up and learn how to navigate life and know what to do”…..I knew I had done the right thing…they left for school and learned life. I don’t know your situation but I wish you the best.
People can bomb interviews on purpose....or just not care about how they come across.
If he isn't working... Is he helping around the house/garden?
I get it that he might be in a slump... But he can do all kinds of other things.
Being idle is NOT one of them.
@@perryrush6563 Here in the UK, if you are Job Seekers Allowance then you HAVE to be doing job searches and going to interviews.
Some people deliberately screw them up so they keep getting the money but don't have to work.
It's a thing. >.>
Has the same thing with my teen. Claimed he was applying for all kinds of jobs and not getting anything. Sitting in his room all day playing games. We were at a Walmart together and they had an open job fair. Dragged him over there and sure enough, he hadn't applied at all. We almost had a throw down in the middle of that store. He's been working ever since then though, boy howdy.
I remember asking my dad for money for getting all A’s on my report card. This was in 1982. He took out federal, state taxes, Medicaid/Medicare, etc. I think out of the $5.00, I ended up with 1.00. He taught me two pretty good lessons. Don’t ask again and taxes are the worst.
Junior is just biding his time til he finds some woman that will take care of him. He thinks he's a smooth talker too.
I miss my grandma. I’d do anything for the opportunity to make her a cup of coffee again. He will realize too late how much value this woman adds to his life through her knowledge and experience.
Can you imagine being one of the defendants later on in the docket, realizing how spun up the judge is and thinking “I am so screwed.”
I lived with my grandmother for a few months and I paid her rent, ran errands for her, took her to doctor appointments, kept my room clean and grandma had her pension/social security, owned her home, had a car and was physically able to get around a little bit, but as an adult I was and still is responsible for myself, not grandmother or mother or any adult in my family.
He seems like an articulate young man and is wasting his life unfortunately. Reality is biting him, which is why his voice is trembling.
The look on the judges face when she was explaining her grandson was “ I’m not really sure she went to school anymore “
This one was so good. Judge Simpson was not having it with this guy.
This man/child’s got to go! Doesn’t deserve 10 days.
This is a great judge that sincerely cares about people. Outstanding
That young man doesn't realize it yet, but his very loving grandma just helped him to grow up and learn some appreciation and responsibility. She is an awesome grandmother!! ❤
The fact that his grandparents had him there’s no stability which gives anxiety. He needs to be in a work program with houses. Since he doesn’t help her he’s out with the option of earning that full undeniable support. We fall down yet we must rise!
MAN, this CURRENT generation needs more GRANDMAS like her !!
THIS generation REALLY worries me !! Excuses....excuses..
This world needs more parents like her. He shouldn't be grandma's issue.
She clearly loves him, but there's a limit as to what she will put up with. I know there comes a point that we either don't see parents or grandparents as much as we should, but us oldies always regret that. Disrespecting is an absolute no no though. Anyone other than family would have you out in two shakes of a lambs what not.
Nothing in life stays the same along with time comes change
this was that good talking to that so many young, unemployed and detached young people need …
thank YOU, OSG ❤
"same time as I was going to school I was working"
Didn't finish school, doesn't work.
It's never as bad as it seems if your not paying any damn bills!!! He's taking advantage of his kind granny!!! I'm 41 and my parents are 75 and 76 and my granny is 98, they could ask me to cut grass on Mars and I would die trying. So my people do not have their granny still around!!